Adnan Rajeh – Seerah Halaqah #32

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The 10th year of the prophet Alayhi sallavi's prophecy is crucial to pursuing principles and values, while acknowledging the negative impact of arguing with elders on one's personal life. The importance of acceptance and learning to be argumentative and clear in public situations is also emphasized. The speaker discusses the story of a man named Dumat who spoke to a prophet and was eventually helped by his doctor, while the speaker also touches on the history of Suayd's traveling and his interactions with a prophet.

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			So today InshaAllahu ta'ala we continue with the
		
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			10th year, the Hajj of the 10th year
		
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			of the prophet alayhi sallahu wa sallam biath
		
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			of his prophecy.
		
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			And I'm gonna try and conclude like that
		
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			piece of the, of the siyrah if if
		
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			time allows me to. We may take a
		
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			few a week or two off after this
		
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			week, and then bring it back. So usually
		
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			at the end of August, early September, we
		
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			do we do a bit of revamping in
		
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			terms of, programming and timings and all that
		
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			stuff. So,
		
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			we put a lot of programmings on pause
		
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			just to kind of take a look at
		
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			the timings and the places and
		
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			the scheduling and all that stuff. And then
		
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			we kind of bring everything back all at
		
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			once, the second, week of September or our
		
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			1st week of September. So we may we
		
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			may call off next week. We may not.
		
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			I haven't decided yet. But there will be
		
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			a week or 2 or
		
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			so off, from a lot of the programming
		
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			including including Sira.
		
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			Just for us to kind of, give give
		
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			us some time to recalibrate and
		
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			and and reschedule everything inshallah,
		
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			just as a heads up. So but we
		
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			will will it'll all be in the OSAT
		
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			groups and whatnot. So we'll communicate all these
		
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			things to everyone so you won't be, you
		
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			won't be in the dark inshallah.
		
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			In the 10th year Hajj is is one
		
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			of the most important
		
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			incidents or events of the prophet
		
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			life really.
		
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			We have to understand that before
		
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			the battles of Badr and Ahud and Khandaq
		
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			and all the other great moments of Islamic
		
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			history occurred,
		
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			that there was a lot of prep that
		
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			that preceded all of it. And amongst the
		
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			prep that preceded it was the prophet
		
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			figuring out where he was going to go.
		
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			He couldn't stay in Mecca anymore. It wasn't
		
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			safe anymore for him to stay in Mecca.
		
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			Staying in Mecca meant he was most likely
		
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			going to be killed or assassinated at some
		
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			point.
		
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			The number of Muslims had plateaued for for
		
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			the last couple of years. The the you
		
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			know, a trickling effect of maybe just small
		
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			numbers of people accepting Islam. Lack of of
		
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			of availability or opportunity to perform dawah. He
		
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			doesn't have the opportunity. It was hard. The,
		
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			you know, the Quraysh became aggressive. They became
		
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			very
		
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			vocal and and openly,
		
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			opposed the prophet alayhi wa sallam and and
		
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			and you and put the sword,
		
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			behind the word. So
		
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			the the time of Hajj, Musa Mid Hajj.
		
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			It's a very it's a very rich time
		
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			for someone to to, you know, to to
		
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			to,
		
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			capitalize on.
		
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			Arabs from all over Arabia would come to
		
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			to Mecca during the time of Hajj. And
		
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			they would all, you know, set,
		
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			Yani, their their tents and in their camping
		
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			areas right outside of of Mecca and then
		
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			perform Hajj during those days. Obviously, the way
		
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			they performed Hajj is not exactly the way
		
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			we do it today. There's some differences. The
		
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			Prophet Ali, he was also on, later on
		
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			educated Yaani, the Muslims on how to do
		
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			it. But nonetheless, the Arabs had been performing
		
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			Hajj for a very long time. And they
		
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			all came and there was a certain prestige
		
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			and a certain Yaani value to the Arabs
		
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			to come to Mecca during that time. And
		
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			And, there's a lot of honor for the
		
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			people of Quraysh
		
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			to feed the hujjah and
		
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			to take water to them and to take
		
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			care of the Kaaba and to take care
		
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			of the people of the guests.
		
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			And the tribes came and got to see
		
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			their idols, and it was a very social
		
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			time.
		
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			Quraysh couldn't touch them, the Prophet alaihis salatu
		
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			wa sallam, during those days because if they
		
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			were to kill someone during the sacred month
		
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			of Dhul Hijjah in the Haram, they would
		
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			lose all credibility forever. So they could they
		
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			obviously could not touch him. So, he had
		
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			some immunity alayhis salatu wa sallam that was
		
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			granted by the norms of the time and
		
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			instead of him having to go to all
		
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			of the tribes in Arabia, they all came
		
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			to him. So,
		
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			he capitalized
		
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			on most of Al Hajj on the time
		
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			of Hajj. And he would go and he
		
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			would have 26 different attempts.
		
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			26 times he would speak to different tribes
		
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			to try and get support over the this
		
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			course of these 10 days, and 26 of
		
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			these attempts would fail.
		
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			They would all none of them would work.
		
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			Now, some of them would be better than
		
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			others. I mean some attempts, the outcome would
		
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			be better than other attempts. But at the
		
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			end, what he was looking for was
		
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			the support
		
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			from the tribe. He was looking for a
		
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			tribe that's willing to support him. Meaning, he
		
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			can go and live with them. He would
		
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			come as a leader. He would come as
		
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			a prophet, as a nabi. He would teach
		
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			them Islam and then they would spread,
		
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			they would spread Islam,
		
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			via the fact via his teachings but in
		
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			a sense in a in a form where
		
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			he was protected. Meaning Quraysh could not kill
		
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			him, could not get to him. That's what
		
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			he was looking for. He was looking for
		
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			the concept of khalu bayini wa bayina nas.
		
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			Allow me to speak to people. And Quraysh
		
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			was like, No. You're not allowed to speak
		
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			to people. Like you're you can't you're not
		
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			allowed to be Muslim to begin with, you're
		
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			definitely not allowed to talk to people of
		
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			Islam at all. So what he was looking
		
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			for was support and that was going to
		
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			mean that he's gonna have to leave Mecca
		
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			at some point and he had made peace
		
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			with that. He understood that that was going
		
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			to be, you know, his future at some
		
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			point. He doesn't know when or where.
		
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			So he would go and he would speak
		
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			to all of these different tribes. And last
		
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			week I talked to you about a few
		
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			of these attempts. I talked to you about
		
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			him going and speaking to Banu Hanifa who
		
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			had the worst response ever to him. And
		
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			I think there's there's a lot of Like
		
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			in that story there's a lot to learn
		
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			from.
		
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			The most
		
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			rude and disrespectful response he ever got was
		
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			the first one.
		
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			Was the first one. The first tribe he
		
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			spoke to, they responded to him in the
		
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			most, you know, disgusting
		
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			way possible.
		
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			And there's a lesson there, I think, that
		
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			we should all take time and think about.
		
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			Sometimes in life for some superstitious reason, if
		
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			we are embarking on a new journey and
		
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			the first
		
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			encounter that we have on that journey is
		
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			negative or difficult, we we take a sign
		
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			from that. Right? People take signs from that.
		
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			You really don't have the the ability or
		
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			the,
		
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			You're not supposed to be doing it like
		
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			that.
		
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			You don't judge the endeavor that you're on
		
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			based on the response you got from the
		
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			first encounter that you had. That's not how
		
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			you do things. If what you have embarked
		
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			on, for the journey you've embarked on is
		
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			one of is one of goodness, if if
		
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			you have established that this is the correct
		
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			the direction to go in, you established that
		
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			this is the right choice, then whether the
		
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			first encounter is great or or or horrible
		
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			or it doesn't matter. Like, these these things
		
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			happen all the time. Don't don't allow superstition
		
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			to hold you back from doing what you
		
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			know is is the right thing. Now it's
		
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			different when you do a stikhara.
		
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			You stikhara about something and then you approach
		
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			the, the topic and then there's some difficulty
		
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			in it and you you especially and a
		
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			stikhara is a very specific, you know, behavior
		
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			or any ritual. A stikhara is not something
		
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			you do regarding
		
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			a choice that is good and a choice
		
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			that is bad, Or a choice that is
		
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			good and a choice that is better. Stikhara
		
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			is you do it when they're when the
		
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			two choices are absolutely equal. Like they're exactly
		
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			the same in terms of the goodness that
		
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			they carry within them. In terms of like
		
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			they just they just know there's no way
		
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			to figure out which is the better choice.
		
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			You do istighara and whatever Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala eases for you, you go with. So
		
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			just be careful with what you do istighara
		
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			for.
		
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			Sometimes people do istighara because they're just hoping
		
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			that
		
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			they can choose a choice that is obviously
		
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			inferior and it's not helpful, but there's some
		
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			self interest in it. So be careful of
		
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			these things. But the prophet Ali Sultan's first
		
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			encounter
		
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			on the on the within the 10th year
		
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			of the Hajj of 10th year was so
		
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			negative.
		
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			I think as a test to see if
		
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			he was, you know, what was he going
		
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			to do? Was he going to say, okay,
		
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			this is not going to work. If this
		
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			is the first tribe that I spoke to
		
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			and this is what they've done, then all
		
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			God knows. Allah knows what the next tribes
		
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			are gonna say to me. It didn't change
		
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			his attitude at all
		
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			He continued and he spoke to 26 other
		
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			tribes, alayhis salatu wa sallam. And I find
		
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			that we as an Ummah have
		
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			turned into a very very superstitious
		
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			group of people. We become very very superstitious
		
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			in a way that's not healthy at all.
		
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			And I cannot emphasize the importance of ridding
		
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			ourselves from some from a lot of these
		
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			superstitions
		
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			that are cultural in nature, that don't really
		
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			stem from a healthy understanding of what Islam
		
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			actually is, and definitely don't stem from a
		
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			proper comprehension of what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's
		
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			command is. So be careful Yaani when you
		
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			when you act in a superstitious way thinking
		
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			that this is just be careful. Make sure
		
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			you you know what you're doing. Make sure
		
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			that this is not just a cultural remnant
		
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			of what you you know, of the luggage
		
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			that your your
		
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			parents and grandparents may be handed down to
		
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			you.
		
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			You would speak to Banu Qalb and that
		
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			wouldn't work out either. Then he would go
		
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			to a large tribe called Banu Amr ibn
		
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			Sasa.
		
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			Banu Amr ibn Sasa eyes of a very
		
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			large tribe within this huge tribe. There are
		
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			are there are large tribes. Like it's so
		
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			big that within it there are subdivision tribes
		
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			that are just that are huge, that are
		
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			bigger than a formation numbers. Like they're very
		
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			it's a very very big tribe. So the
		
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			prophet would speak to different divisions of of
		
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			Banu Amir ibnisasa
		
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			and he would go to the 1st group
		
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			that he would run into 1 the first
		
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			group and their
		
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			leader is named Bahira ibn Firas and he
		
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			would go and speak to Bahira ibn Firas
		
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			and he would ask permission obviously
		
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			to speak about Islam. So they would offer
		
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			him permission. He would begin speaking alaihis salatu
		
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			wasalam about the deen. And as he is
		
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			speaking,
		
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			Bahira would look at his followers and say,
		
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			wallahi lo akhth tuhaal fata laqal tu bihil
		
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			arab.
		
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			If I if I take this man on,
		
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			I will eat all of arab with him.
		
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			Like I will I will rule he will
		
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			rule. Like this this man has something that
		
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			is special. We've not seen I've never seen
		
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			anything like this. He will for sure
		
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			if if I if I if I put
		
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			him on my side, we will we will
		
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			take over all of the Arabs if we
		
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			do it.
		
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			He was he was sold almost immediately, this
		
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			man Bahira.
		
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			And
		
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			because he was they start asking him more
		
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			questions alayhis salatu wa sallam and
		
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			things seem to be progressing in the proper
		
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			direction. There was interest
		
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			and there was belief in what he was
		
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			talking about.
		
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			And before they sealed the deal, Bahira had
		
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			a final question.
		
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			If if,
		
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			if you end up becoming successful and you
		
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			rule
		
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			and Islam spreads which is why I think
		
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			it's going to happen and you become the
		
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			basically the ruler of Arabia,
		
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			Once you pass away then then what happens?
		
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			Where does the who rules after you? Who's
		
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			gonna pick up the
		
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			this after you? Taqala almulkulillahi.
		
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			You dahu haythu yasha.
		
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			Sovereignty is is Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's
		
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			business not mine. He puts it wherever he
		
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			sees appropriate and that's not
		
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			Are are you asking us to offer our
		
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			next to the Arab in terms of wars
		
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			and fighting,
		
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			so this is successful. And then after after
		
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			you pass away, someone else rules and not
		
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			us. No. I I wouldn't I wouldn't do
		
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			that. I'm I'm not okay with that.
		
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			If, if if we're not guaranteed sovereignty after
		
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			you, if we're not guaranteed that we will
		
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			be the kings after you pass away, then
		
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			then then I'm not interested.
		
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			So the prophet alaihi sallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			thanked them and he walked away. They
		
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			responded respectfully but they weren't it wasn't wasn't
		
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			what he was looking for alaihis salatu. No.
		
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			No. No. If you think about it like
		
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			I guess it comes down to whether you
		
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			think he is desperate alaihis salatu wa sama
		
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			or not in this moment.
		
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			Whether you would feel desperate in this moment.
		
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			Whether you would be willing to compromise
		
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			your values and your basic principles
		
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			for a deal that is pretty good.
		
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			The deal he has right now is nothing.
		
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			The deal is that he will continue to
		
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			exist
		
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			incognito.
		
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			He will continue to be undercover all the
		
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			time and very few Muslims will accept Islam
		
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			and he can be killed at any moment.
		
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			Like the Quraysh will come up with a
		
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			with a with a plan and a plot
		
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			at any point and take his life.
		
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			This is a very strong tribe
		
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			and they've bought in. They just want the
		
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			guarantee of sovereignty to be amongst them.
		
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			Like I'm sure they can the prophet alaihi
		
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			wa sallam can find a good person in
		
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			this in this tribe that will be worthy
		
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			of khilafa after him alaihi salatu wa sallam.
		
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			But no.
		
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			He didn't hesitate on these things alayhis salatu
		
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			wa sallam. He didn't even hesitate. No, no.
		
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			That's not how this is done. This is
		
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			absolutely not how this is done.
		
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			You come into this, there's no promise of
		
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			anything. You come in, the only promise as
		
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			you're gonna see very soon is Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala's satisfaction. That's it. I'm not promising
		
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			you any
		
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			sovereignty or ruling or money or nothing. Yeah.
		
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			You don't come in conditionally to this. Islam
		
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			is so
		
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			dignified
		
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			that you're not allowed to come in with
		
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			any conditions.
		
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			That's how he treated what he had alaihis
		
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			salaam. It's because the Prophet alaihis salaam
		
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			Because he dignified Islam in the way he
		
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			presented it,
		
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			it became something of dignity. It became a
		
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			dignified
		
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			way of life. He did not sell it
		
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			cheap ever alaihis salatu wa sallam.
		
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			If you came to Islam, you came to
		
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			Islam, you accepted it the way it was.
		
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			There was no discounts offered to you. You
		
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			are not going to be treated special, none
		
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			of that. It doesn't matter. You offer your
		
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			life, you don't Ados, you want Islam the
		
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			way it is. Ados, you don't
		
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			I don't need you. I'm not interested. There's
		
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			no I'm not selling and there's no compromising
		
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			here. Right? And because he dignified Islam that
		
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			way, because he treated Islam with that degree
		
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			of respect,
		
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			even though he had no wealth, he had
		
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			very few followers, he had no strength really,
		
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			people respected what he had. Like he because
		
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			he respected his message alayhis salatu wa sallam,
		
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			people respected the message that he had as
		
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			well alayhis salatu wa sallam. And that is
		
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			what we have to remember. Like just because
		
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			you are weak right now, just because you
		
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			don't have a lot of money, just because
		
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			you don't have
		
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			Do not,
		
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			you know, compromise any of your principles.
		
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			The moment that you do, the other side
		
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			immediately disrespects you. Like your degree of respect
		
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			drops immediately in the eyes of the person.
		
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			Like
		
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			if you have a bunch of principles and
		
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			I'm coming to you saying, Alright, I'll help
		
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			you. But I have a condition and that's
		
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			gonna require you to get rid of one
		
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			of them. Right?
		
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			Unless you're wrong. Like unless I'm asking you
		
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			to remove a principle that is actually incorrect
		
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			like it's wrong. You look back at it,
		
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			it actually this is I shouldn't have this
		
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			to begin with. If it's a correct principle,
		
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			I'm asking you to compromise. I'm gonna offer
		
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			you a lot in return.
		
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			My You're offering me everything I need, I
		
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			just have to give up this one thing.
		
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			And without you, I'm not gonna be able
		
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			to get anything done. If you offer that
		
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			compromise
		
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			First of all, there's no barakah in what
		
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			you're doing, and I don't respect you anymore.
		
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			I don't respect you as a person anymore.
		
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			If my money or my support was able
		
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			to get you to change
		
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			your principles and compromise your values, that means
		
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			you're not really that what you have is
		
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			not worth it.
		
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			This is this is a law of life.
		
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			It's a law of life
		
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			never sell out.
		
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			That's why you have to take your principles
		
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			very
		
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			seriously and you have to choose them very
		
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			carefully.
		
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			Choose them carefully.
		
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			What is it that you stand for? Don't
		
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			make a list of things that don't matter.
		
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			Because if you commit yourself to something that
		
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			is not important, now you're stuck. Now you
		
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			have to So be careful of what you
		
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			commit yourself to, and then when you commit
		
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			yourself to it, you never sell out, ever.
		
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			It doesn't matter.
		
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			Even if even if you end up living
		
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			poor all of your life and you never
		
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			achieve your it doesn't matter. Never excel out,
		
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			never compromise. The Prophet alaihis salam had this
		
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			crystal clear,
		
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			like crystal clear. He had no questions about
		
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			this at all.
		
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			You're gonna see this has happened a couple
		
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			of more times.
		
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			Doesn't matter what they had to offer.
		
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			You take it as it is.
		
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			I'm just asking for some some recognition of
		
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			sovereignty after. No. I I don't know who
		
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			sovereignty is gonna go to after. I don't
		
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			know how that's gonna happen. Allah has not
		
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			told me yet. I'm guaranteeing you nothing.
		
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			Take it as it is. You come. You
		
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			stand by me as it is. Yes. I
		
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			note as it is. No? Allah says, Look.
		
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			When you hear him
		
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			negotiating that way alaihis salatu wa sallam, it
		
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			seems to you that he's he has the
		
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			upper hand. Like it seems to you that
		
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			he has the upper hand. You know why?
		
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			Because he does.
		
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			Because he does have the upper hand. Because
		
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			what they have is not nearly, not nearly
		
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			as valuable as what he has alayhi salatu
		
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			wa sallam. You know, the the couple of
		
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			guys with swords and the a couple of
		
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			camels and the money that they have is
		
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			not
		
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			an equal
		
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			to the book of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And the way of life that he's teaching.
		
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			They're not.
		
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			To equate those two things is actually, you
		
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			know,
		
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			it's a it's a it's a it's a
		
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			You you are not doing It's a it's
		
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			a disfavor
		
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			to to to Islam. Like you're mistreating You're
		
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			disrespecting Islam if you're equating it just to
		
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			a strong tribe. Islam is way beyond that.
		
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			You don't compromise anything, any part of it
		
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			because you need support. No. You don't. You
		
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			take it as it is.
		
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			So he thanked Bahiyal Abin Firas and and
		
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			the people and he left alayhis salatu. So
		
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			he went to a different group within
		
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			the tribe
		
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			of Amr ibn Sasa. They're called the Butoon.
		
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			So the Arab, Qaba'il their tribes and within
		
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			the Qaba'il, they are Butoon, like smaller tribes.
		
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			So he went to another Butoon, minamir ibn
		
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			Sasa.
		
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			So he went and their leader was a
		
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			man called Bujara ibn Tais, and he wasn't
		
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			there.
		
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			At the time he wasn't there. He entered
		
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			he wasn't there. So he, you know, he
		
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			spoke to the people who were there. His
		
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			deputies and the
		
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			whoever whoever was his vice. So he spoke
		
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			for a while to them. And after having
		
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			discussions
		
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			they bought in. Again, they bought in fully.
		
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			And they didn't have any
		
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			conditions at all. And they were happy to
		
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			support him
		
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			and to defend him. As the Prophet alayhi
		
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			salatu wa sallam before Abayhi actually occurs Bujjarat
		
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			al Qais comes back. He comes back on
		
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			his horse. He looks, he's suspicious as he's
		
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			looking. So he gets off, gets down, he
		
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			comes into his he says, Manhadah.
		
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			Who is this person here?
		
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			Muhammad
		
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			Rasulullah. This is Muhammad the prophet of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			This is the guy from Quraysh.
		
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			Why is he here?
		
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			He came and he was asking for 1,
		
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			2 and 3. He explained what happened.
		
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			How did you respond to him? What have
		
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			you said to him so far?
		
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			We
		
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			respond to him, we offered him what he's
		
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			asking for. We're gonna stand.
		
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			I have not seen a group of people
		
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			who will return back to their homes with
		
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			anything that is worse than what you're going
		
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			to return home with. SalAllahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			You know what they said?
		
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			His own people kick him out, and you
		
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			and you take him. You accept him.
		
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			So basically he
		
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			he nullified their their decisions. And looked at
		
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			the prophet, alayhis salatu wa sallam,
		
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			and he said,
		
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			come.
		
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			Get up.
		
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			If it wasn't for the fact that you're,
		
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			you know, in my in our tent, I
		
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			would have beheaded you. Get out.
		
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			You got you got up alaihis salatu wa
		
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			sallam. Didn't say anything. Got up, got on
		
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			his horse.
		
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			Wajirah was so so aggravated
		
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			that once the prophet alaihis salatu was on
		
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			his camel or his horse, he would with
		
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			his sword
		
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			hit the camel
		
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			or the horse.
		
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			And the horse would or the camel would,
		
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			and he would get startled and the prophet,
		
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			alayhis salatu wa sallam, would almost fall off.
		
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			You need the you know, if I follow
		
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			them up fall off. Now some of the
		
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			people who were there had listened to him,
		
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			alayhis salatu wa sallam, and they and they
		
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			actually
		
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			were committed.
		
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			So they started pushing back. A lady from
		
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			Bani Amr bin Sasa
		
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			will call and say,
		
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			O sons of Amir, Walaamiralaamiralaikum.
		
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			And the word Amir means something that is
		
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			going to prosper, and those prosperity is is
		
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			is given to you. It's
		
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			speaking to his tribe. Is this is this
		
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			how you treat the prophet, alayhi sallam, when
		
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			he is within your yani, when he is
		
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			your guest?
		
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			So people who had listened to him, alayhi,
		
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			sallam, and believed in him, they got up
		
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			and they started pushing back on Bujara and
		
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			the people who were
		
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			So the Prophet alayhi, sallam, got on his
		
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			horse again.
		
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			Allah
		
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			put barakah in this group and and and
		
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			and Avenged me
		
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			from from this one. And subhanAllah throughout history
		
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			would
		
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			be one of the strong these
		
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			young men
		
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			who actually listened to him alayhis salatu wa
		
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			sallam would be of those who accepted Islam
		
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			and of those who were,
		
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			the key groups of people in in the
		
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			conquering of Persia and parts of, Yani and
		
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			Yarmoo. Like Baru Abdul al-'sasal became a very
		
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			very important tribe within Islamic history later on.
		
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			And Bhujalah ibn Qais and the people who
		
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			opposed the Prophet alaihis salam in this group,
		
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			they died before any of this happened and
		
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			they were completely forgotten. And it's the men
		
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			who actually stood by him alaihis salam that,
		
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			that lived long, lived years after he passed
		
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			away, alayhis salawahu alaihi wa sallam. Throw out
		
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			all of this, by the way, just as
		
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			a, you know, kind of a piece of
		
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			information. Throw out all of this. Abu Lahab
		
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			is going around
		
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			telling tribes, by the way, don't listen to
		
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			him. He is this. He is that. And
		
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			he's using words like insane or mad or
		
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			whatever. And he's going around at Wudha'a have
		
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			been and, you know, following the prophet alaihis
		
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			salaam, seeing where he's going into his tribe.
		
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			And he's going and as the prophet alaihis
		
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			salaam is preaching or speaking or explaining, he
		
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			would come and interrupt and tell them I
		
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			am his uncle. I know him better. He
		
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			is this. He is that. And the prophet
		
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			alaihis salaam never responded to him. Right? Never
		
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			responded to him once.
		
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			Now I talked about, you know, Abu Lahab's
		
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			death. Abu Lahab's death is most likely, you
		
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			know, on the during the time of, of
		
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			of the Battle of Badr. That's most likely
		
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			what happened. I I narrated earlier because some
		
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			scholars see it to happen a little bit
		
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			early. But depending on how you study the
		
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			seerah most likely happened, Yani. Either either happened
		
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			before or it happened during the time of
		
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			Badr, most likely during the time of Badr.
		
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			And I I shared with you a couple
		
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			of times in the past,
		
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			Yani. The numb the incidents where Abu Rahab
		
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			would go and mistreat the prophet alaihis salatu
		
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			wa sallam. Whether it's yani calling him out
		
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			in his own home, whether it's yani
		
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			having his son's divorce, yani the prophet alaihis
		
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			salatu wa sallam's daughters, whether it's yani calling
		
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			him names in front of people, whether it's
		
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			following him around. Like this these things will
		
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			continue to happen throughout his life alaihis salaam.
		
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			Never once do we have on record, not
		
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			even once that the prophet alaihis salaam responded
		
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			disrespectfully to his uncle. Not once. Nothing. Forget
		
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			about this responding disrespectfully.
		
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			Responding at all like any form of discussion.
		
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			Not once do we have on record that
		
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			the prophet alaihis salami turned to his uncle
		
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			and told him to get lost or go
		
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			do something with his time or leave him
		
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			alone. He never said a word to him
		
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			alaihis salami because
		
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			there's an adab that the prophet alaihis salami
		
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			carried that we should definitely learn, which is
		
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			when it comes to elders in in life
		
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			and especially in your family,
		
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			like especially elders of your family. There's absolutely
		
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			no gain in you getting into a
		
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			into
		
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			an argument
		
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			with a father or a grandfather or an
		
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			uncle or There's absolutely no gain in doing
		
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			this. Like as you grow up and you
		
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			become a little bit older, and you become
		
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			a little bit more critical in your thinking
		
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			process, and you feel like you have the
		
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			ability to be argumentative,
		
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			just be careful of where you're going to
		
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			direct that energy. Like there's there's willai never
		
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			any gain in arguing like that with people
		
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			within your family. Like even if there's something
		
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			wrong that's happening,
		
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			the likelihood of you achieving any form of
		
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			of change within your family
		
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			by arguing with the elders is so low.
		
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			It's not worth doing. Like if you need
		
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			change to occur within your family because there's
		
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			some degree of abuse or mistreatment or some
		
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			You you you have a better chance of
		
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			of looking out elsewhere.
		
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			Looking for people who are older who can
		
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			come and help you with this.
		
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			You arguing with people that doesn't work out.
		
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			And the prophet, alayhis salaam, there's no point.
		
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			Why would you argue that would have It
		
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			makes
		
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			it it serves no purpose.
		
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			He's arguing with his own family. It it
		
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			looks bad in front of everybody. It only
		
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			weakens his stance. It only weakens his his
		
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			calling. It weakens his family. There's there's no
		
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			gain. There's no gain. So a bull rabbi
		
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			speaks, says whatever he wants. The prophet alaihis
		
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			salazar never responds.
		
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			He just walks away. He leaves him to
		
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			do whatever he wants to do. So just
		
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			learn that. Remember that about him alayhis salaatu
		
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			wa sallam when you next time you feel
		
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			compelled to yell.
		
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			He would move on to another tribe alayhis
		
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			salaatu wa sallam. He talked to Banu Shaiban.
		
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			Now Banu Shaiban
		
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			this is a really interesting story. I'm gonna
		
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			kind of try and tell it to you.
		
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			He goes to Banu Shaiban because Abu Bakr
		
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			radiAllahu anhu told him let's let's try this.
		
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			I have a group that I think we
		
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			should for sure try today.
		
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			So they're walking towards Banu Shayban. The prophet
		
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			alayhi sallahu alaihi wa sallam's information
		
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			or knowledge of Banu Shayban is not he
		
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			doesn't know them well. Abu Bakr knows them
		
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			very well.
		
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			This is an amazing tribe. This is a
		
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			very powerful tribe. If they are to take
		
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			us, then we will find great, great power
		
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			and great strength if they are to accept
		
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			what we have to offer.
		
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			Abu Bakr was very, was very optimistic about
		
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			Banu Shaybaan. So they go to Diya, Waqiyan,
		
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			Bani Shaybaan, they come to their groups.
		
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			The 3 leaders of Banu Shaybaan are 3
		
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			people.
		
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			There's Hani bin Qobaysa,
		
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			and there's al Musanna bin Haritha
		
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			and there's a third gentleman, which I cannot
		
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			remember the name of. You need to know
		
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			al Musanna bin Haritha. The other 2 is
		
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			if you don't know them it's no big
		
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			deal. So he comes to these 3 and
		
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			he starts talking to them. Abu Bakr said,
		
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			you know, let me speak first. Let me
		
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			let me do the, let me do the
		
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			talking.
		
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			So they come and they sit. Abu Bakr
		
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			starts talking to them.
		
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			How many how many of you are there?
		
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			There's a 1,000 of those who
		
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			carry swords there for Hajj,
		
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			aside from the numbers that exist back home.
		
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			So a 1,000 people who are in Hajj
		
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			were all arm bearing people.
		
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			How is
		
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			the how is the protection within your tribe
		
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			for peep for yourselves and your children and
		
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			your you know.
		
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			We offer we put in our
		
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			How are things between you and your enemy?
		
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			Meaning, we are people who are the we're
		
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			the angriest when we meet our enemy. And
		
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			we prefer
		
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			we prefer, Youni, swords
		
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			over marriage,
		
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			over over our spouses.
		
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			It's a way of He's trying to explain
		
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			that there are people of strength and of
		
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			courage.
		
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			But I woke up asking these questions and
		
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			the guy who's answering, he he kind of
		
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			intro to
		
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			Who's with you? Is this
		
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			the guy from Quraysh that they're talking about?
		
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			Waqala Abu Bakr.
		
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			I talifu Rasulullah.
		
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			So these verses are called the verses of
		
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			the Wasayah. At the end of each of
		
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			these three verses, Allah says, (QS. 3) Indeed
		
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			that is what Allah advises
		
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			you and teaches you to do. That's the
		
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			walsiyyah. That's what He leaves you with and
		
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			He uses different
		
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			terms at the end.
		
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			So that you may be able to find
		
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			the ability
		
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			to reason.
		
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			So that you may be reminded of what
		
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			is good.
		
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			So that you may achieve a certain degree
		
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			of taqwa. And the verses
		
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			are all what they carry within them are
		
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			the rulings of Islam that are that are
		
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			most
		
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			more or less
		
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			ethical in nature, principled.
		
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			You don't find in these rulings, you know,
		
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			things to do with
		
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			making up
		
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			We don't harm your children out of poverty.
		
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			We don't fall into Faisha
		
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			into relationships
		
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			that are haram. You don't commit murder.
		
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			You don't take the wealth of an orphan.
		
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			And when you are selling and you're buying
		
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			and you are dealing with people, you do
		
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			it in a balanced and fair manner and
		
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			you're not cheating
		
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			others.
		
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			You're only required to do that which is
		
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			within your capacity.
		
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			When you speak, only speak truth, only speak
		
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			that which is just, which has just with
		
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			justice in it.
		
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			Even if that means you have to say
		
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			something negative about someone you love because
		
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			you're you're you're you're bearing testimony. You say
		
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			with the truth even if it's against someone
		
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			that you that you love.
		
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			And fulfill the covenants of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			These are these are the teachings of the
		
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			end of Surat Al Anam.
		
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			They're
		
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			do's and don'ts,
		
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			commands
		
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			and negations, but but they're ethical in nature.
		
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			They're not they're not ritualistic. It's not fiqh.
		
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			These are principles.
		
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			So after they heard that, taqalu zidna.
		
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			More.
		
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			We wanna hear more. They were interested. So
		
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			the prophet alaihi wa sallam will recite upon
		
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			them the verses that you hear in Jumu'ah
		
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			every every every week at the end of
		
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			it.
		
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			Allah commands
		
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			justice
		
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			and He commands excellence
		
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			and He commands those of you to treat
		
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			their kin, their relatives with the best of
		
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			behavior, and to give them wealth. And He
		
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			negates al Fasha, He commands you to stay
		
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			away from any form of Fasha,
		
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			and mumkar, and all that which is sinful.
		
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			Walbagheen, all that that is
		
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			oppressive, any form of oppression or transgression.
		
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			You'irgukumla'alakum
		
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			tadaqum He reminds you kindly that maybe you
		
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			will remember
		
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			and be reminded of what is good for
		
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			you.
		
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			When you offer your lord a covenant,
		
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			you see it through. When
		
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			you offer give your word for something, don't
		
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			go back. Don't go back on your word
		
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			when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is your witness.
		
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			So after listening to this
		
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			they were very intrigued.
		
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			He jumped in because he saw people getting
		
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			very
		
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			So he said something, he said, what you're
		
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			saying is very beautiful,
		
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			but it but within one session that doesn't
		
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			really have a beginning to a formal beginning
		
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			or formal end, for us to leave our
		
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			deen, to change our lifestyle
		
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			in one session
		
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			is is weakness in opinion. Like it shows
		
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			a weakness in mind. So maybe you give
		
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			us some time to think, and you take
		
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			some time to think as well. Like we
		
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			go back and forth. And they're very respectful.
		
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			Like,
		
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			it's very it's a very reasonable thing to
		
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			ask. Maybe we need a little bit of
		
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			time. This is very nice. But for us
		
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			to leave our dean in one session is
		
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			a little bit of a big ask here.
		
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			So maybe maybe we think. So the prophet
		
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			saw some he he he said acceptance.
		
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			So they continue to discuss.
		
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			They take some time and they continue to
		
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			discuss.
		
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			As they are doing this, and they're coming
		
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			closer and closer. Meaning they took a break,
		
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			and they came back, and they continue their
		
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			discussion. They took a break. Like they went
		
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			back and forth and there was internal discussions
		
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			amongst them.
		
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			And right at the end, this is where
		
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			the story becomes a little bit
		
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			Right at the end of every And just
		
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			before the agreement was about to be drafted
		
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			and before they were going to kind of
		
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			buy into this. And mutannaban haritha shaybani the
		
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			If you haven't heard this name before you
		
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			can look him up after this halaqa because
		
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			he's a very known, known individual, known character.
		
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			He would speak up and he would say,
		
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			Youkhal Arabullahhi
		
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			Innni la'ara matakkooloo
		
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			wa matati bihi
		
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			latakkrahoooolmuluk.
		
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			I have this hunch that the stuff that
		
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			you're teaching us, these changes, these
		
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			is something that kings will will despise.
		
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			As for the Arab, anything
		
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			the
		
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			term
		
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			is a term to say that we'll take
		
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			care of anything from that perspective. Like the
		
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			Arab, we're not scared of any of the
		
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			Arab. We can we can we can cream
		
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			any of them. We can we can take
		
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			care of any of them.
		
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			As for the Persians,
		
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			now that's a different story. A mistake with
		
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			the Persians is not a joke. We can't
		
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			we can't fight the Persians.
		
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			We can't fight the Persians.
		
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			So just letting you know.
		
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			So think about this, if we stand by
		
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			you, we're not willing to like we're not
		
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			gonna get in we're not gonna get into
		
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			a war with with the Persians ever.
		
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			Waqal alihi Surat wa Salam.
		
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			Wa Allahima Assatum.
		
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			He said, I swear you have you have
		
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			said nothing but good things as you have
		
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			been very honest and clear.
		
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			That's what he said. He said, no,
		
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			I'm Thank you for being honest. Thank you
		
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			for the responses. They were respectful. They were
		
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			very
		
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			there was depth, but I'm sorry anyone who
		
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			takes this
		
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			has to take it. Again,
		
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			you take the whole thing, the whole package
		
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			as it is.
		
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			No conditions. I'm sorry. No.
		
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			All they're asking for is just look don't
		
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			get us in trouble with the Persians. We
		
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			live close to them. We don't want trouble
		
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			with the Persians. We'll take care of the
		
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			Arab. We will cream them all for you.
		
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			We will literally rule Just don't Can we
		
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			not get involved with the Persians? Now the
		
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			the likelihood of the Prophet alaihis salam getting
		
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			into any trouble with the Persians is very
		
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			very low. If you think about it, did
		
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			he get with trouble with the Persians throughout
		
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			his life alaihis salam?
		
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			Not really. Like not not really. There's a
		
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			story I'll tell you and see it later
		
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			later on. It's a very it's a small
		
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			story, short story. But not really. So he
		
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			could have probably Yeah. And he easily but
		
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			no. The the issue is not the the
		
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			likelihood of this happening. The issue is the
		
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			compromise.
		
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			The issue is the compromise. You never compromise
		
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			your principles
		
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			ever. Like no one on earth should be
		
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			able to make you do that. Youkhid, the
		
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			moment you do that, you become what you
		
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			have becomes cheap.
		
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			What you have becomes disrespected.
		
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			It loses value. You lose value.
		
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			Do not compromise ever. If the principle is
		
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			correct, if you believe it, if you know
		
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			if you know it to be the truth,
		
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			then it doesn't matter.
		
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			Even if that causes your demise.
		
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			Even if that causes you to lose your
		
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			life,
		
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			don't compromise it because even if you think
		
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			if you think to yourself that it's just
		
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			a small compromise
		
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			that there's a bigger good coming here the
		
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			moment you compromise.
		
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			There's no respect to what you have. The
		
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			the sanctity, the holiness, the the the dignity,
		
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			the honor of what you were carrying of
		
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			the it doesn't exist anymore. It doesn't people
		
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			don't respect it anymore.
		
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			If I can get you to compromise your
		
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			principle, halal, so I I beat you. I
		
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			won.
		
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			I know your price.
		
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			I know your price.
		
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			Maybe expensive.
		
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			Maybe like a crazy expensive price, but it's
		
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			still a price.
		
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			Anything you bought with money is cheap.
		
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			Did you hear that?
		
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			Anything that can be bought with money is
		
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			cheap. Anything.
		
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			Doesn't matter the amount.
		
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			Doesn't matter the amount of money. If it
		
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			can be bought by money, it is a
		
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			it's cheap.
		
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			It's the stuff in life that cannot be
		
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			acquired with money. That there's no price tag
		
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			to it. That has value. What he had
		
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			Alaihi Salam was not for sale.
		
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			Not not not none of it.
		
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			Not the smallest
		
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			detail of it.
		
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			Not the slightest possibility that probably will never
		
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			happen later on. Just a clause. No, no,
		
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			no, no. Either you take it as it
		
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			is or you don't.
		
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			The Persians, they're not gonna When did they
		
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			When was the last time the Persians cared
		
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			about what happened in Arabia, by the way,
		
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			historically? Never.
		
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			They don't care. Like they they never cared.
		
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			It's a desert. They never cared.
		
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			But he Nope. Sorry. And
		
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			I think that is like a really important
		
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			lesson for us as Muslims.
		
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			Islam is it's not a it's not you
		
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			can't cherry pick allah.
		
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			You can't cherry pick within Islam what you
		
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			like and what you don't like and what
		
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			suits you and what doesn't suit you.
		
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			You take the whole thing.
		
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			Just just enter, embrace all of it. Now
		
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			that doesn't mean that you will be great
		
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			at practicing all of it. You will fail.
		
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			There will be shortcomings. There will be sins
		
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			that you've, you know, you have and mistakes
		
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			that you'll make and weaknesses, but I'm saying
		
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			embrace it as in accept all of it.
		
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			Don't come in with preconditions that I'll do
		
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			all this just not this one. I'll I'll
		
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			practice all that just not No. No. Don't
		
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			don't come in that way. Don't come asking
		
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			for a compromise and asking for some change
		
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			of the
		
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			accept it as it is. And the prophet
		
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			alaihis salam was waiting for someone to accept
		
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			it as it is.
		
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			Right now what you're hearing is that. He's
		
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			not willing. Not the slightest, not the slightest.
		
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			This was a great tribe.
		
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			It would have been a different story. The
		
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			sierra would be very different if he went
		
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			with Banu Shaiban.
		
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			If he went with Banu Shaiban, it would
		
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			have been a different story. Like he wouldn't
		
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			have I don't think he would have had
		
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			lukhanduk.
		
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			I don't think we would have need that
		
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			or uhud.
		
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			I think it would be much quicker. And
		
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			if the hamakkah would have happened 2 years
		
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			later instead of 8. I don't think it
		
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			would be it would be a very different
		
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			story altogether. But he compromised alaihis salawat wa
		
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			sallam.
		
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			But
		
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			he didn't he didn't enter. He didn't have
		
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			the izah. He didn't enter with the integrity
		
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			if he did. They didn't. Nope, I'm good.
		
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			But you have no one. I know.
		
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			But I mean we're offering you everything. I
		
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			get it. But you're not taking it. You're
		
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			not taking the full package.
		
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			I'm just saying if there's like the Yeah.
		
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			There's a very slight If they're very slim
		
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			possibility that we're gonna have problems with the
		
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			Persian. We're just saying I know. I know.
		
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			I heard what you're saying. We're not I
		
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			I I can't.
		
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			Only those who will take it and encompass
		
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			all of it. Accept all of it. Embrace
		
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			all of it. That's that's what I'm looking
		
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			for.
		
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			And they walked away. The prophet alaihi sallam
		
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			would would turn,
		
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			back before he left and he would say
		
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			If the day comes where I rule what
		
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			the Persian Empire, will you then
		
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			praise Allah and show
		
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			him. Or by Allah, of course, if that
		
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			is the case.
		
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			And he walked away. And that stayed in
		
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			their minds.
		
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			It stayed in their minds.
		
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			Prophet alaihis salaam would look to Ubaka and
		
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			say
		
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			What what are these ethics? These are beautiful
		
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			ethics in Jahiliya. These are beautiful people. Like,
		
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			they're they're smart.
		
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			They're intelligent, they're respectful, they think deeply. They
		
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			didn't accept it, but he was impressed alaihis
		
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			salatu wa sallam by their organization, by their
		
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			And there's a per aspect of his character
		
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			you learn about alaihis salatu wa sallam. He
		
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			saw khair in others by the way, right?
		
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			He saw that there's a lot of khair
		
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			in human beings. It's not just in Muslims.
		
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			Khair exists everywhere, in every walk of life,
		
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			from every group of people. He had the
		
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			ability to see that. He had the ability
		
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			to appreciate the goodness and the beauty, and
		
00:41:13 --> 00:41:15
			the integrity, and the ethics, and the morals,
		
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			the morality of other groups of people Alaihis
		
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			salam you find this all throughout his life.
		
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			And he was impressed by Banu Shaybaan. He
		
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			thought this was beautiful.
		
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			Now
		
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			It would take them a long time to
		
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			accept Islam.
		
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			They would accept Islam, Barun Shaybaan.
		
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			By the time they made it to Madinah,
		
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			the prophet alaihi sallam would have passed away.
		
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			And Mufannib bin Haritha who was at that
		
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			point the leader of Barun Shaybaan, the only
		
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			leader,
		
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			use
		
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			the word.
		
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			He met the prophet alaihis salaam was very
		
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			respectful to him, but he wasn't Muslim at
		
00:42:00 --> 00:42:02
			the time. And when he accepted Islam, he
		
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			came. The prophet alaihis salaam passed away.
		
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			And Mufanah bin Harithah
		
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			would later on
		
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			would later on,
		
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			be a part of the conquest
		
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			to conquer Persia.
		
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			And he was a part of the army
		
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			of Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas. He was one
		
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			of the sub commanders of the army of
		
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			Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas on the day of
		
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			Al Qadisiyyah
		
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			when they crossed the river and entered the
		
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			Persian Empire and within a couple of days
		
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			with Sayyidina Khan Waheed. Yeah, he basically conquered
		
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			it. He was amongst the group of people
		
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			who brought Kunu's Kisra to Umar. Like he
		
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			was amongst the people who and he was
		
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			able to bring back
		
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			When the whole thing was over, they brought
		
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			back the actual treasures
		
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			of Kisra back to Sayyidina Abu Kabab leaders
		
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			later.
		
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			When they conquered Persia and Banu Shayban during
		
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			that battle when they say that Abu Bakr
		
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			was the Khalifa during the early battle, Banu
		
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			Shaiban was one of the reasons that Sayid
		
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			Nasad was able to actually cross the river.
		
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			It was their strength, it was the strength
		
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			of this tribe and the fact that they
		
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			held their line that allowed them to actually
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:05
			the Muslims get across the river had Banu
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:08
			Shaiba not done their job, then the Khadisiyya
		
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			would have ended differently. Like the bad level
		
00:43:10 --> 00:43:11
			of Khadisiyya would not have ended in the
		
00:43:11 --> 00:43:12
			victory of the Muslims. It was Banu Shaiba
		
00:43:12 --> 00:43:15
			who held their ground. So Sayyidina Salih was
		
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			telling Abu Bakr that this is what happened.
		
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			So
		
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			he would ask, Send me the commanders of
		
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			Banu Shayba after this main battle happened.
		
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			This is right before Sayyidina Abu Bakr passed
		
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			away, Yani. He would come to he wanted
		
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			to congratulate them and thank them. So he
		
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			runs in.
		
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			Now this is not the first time they've
		
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			met. They met before.
		
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			Years ago, but they met before.
		
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			So Abu Bakr, he looks
		
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			It's you.
		
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			And is in tears.
		
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			It's me.
		
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			The one who wants to remind him, do
		
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			you remember? It's like, yes, I remember. I
		
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			remember.
		
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			Why did you say that that day?
		
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			Why did you say that that day? Why
		
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			did you come out and say, we can't
		
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			do the
		
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			why?
		
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			That day I was I was scared.
		
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			I was scared.
		
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			I I was a coward that day. A
		
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			part of me that I shouldn't have come
		
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			out came out.
		
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			Abu Bakr. Abu Bakr Fatah Miu Suhba He's
		
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			like he's he's complaining. I lost
		
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			the
		
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			I'm not I'm not I'm not a Sahabi.
		
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			Fatah Miu Suhba I missed out on being
		
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			a Sahabi.
		
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			He said, oh, umuthanna, if the prophet saw
		
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			you today, he would have been very happy
		
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			with you. Nakuluthanna fama
		
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			famaindi
		
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			min kalimatin.
		
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			He a'aba mufi ramuri min kalimati abaqar.
		
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			This is the most important word. This is
		
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			important most important phrase. This is the most
		
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			important statement I've ever heard in the entirety
		
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			of my life. That I that Abu Bakr
		
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			is telling me, If the Prophet alaihis salaam
		
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			saw me, he would be happy with me.
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:07
			I hope to make my argument with the
		
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			statement of Abu Bakr on the day of
		
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			judgment that
		
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			Sometimes we miss out on opportunities.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Think about Al Muzadda's,
		
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			Yani.
		
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			Regret.
		
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			I've always thought about his regret specifically. Out
		
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			of all the different people that, Yani, you
		
00:45:38 --> 00:45:41
			can argue had it difficult. I find the
		
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			Musanna's story to be probably the most difficult
		
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			of them all.
		
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			Like you know, he wasn't If you were
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:49
			an enemy of the Prophet alaihis salawam during
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:51
			his life and then you found your way
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:52
			later, great.
		
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			Like at least you find Yeah, you will
		
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			say, I was at the time I was
		
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			But Musa'ina was wasn't like that. He was
		
00:45:58 --> 00:45:59
			already like, Yeah, what you're saying makes a
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:01
			lot of sense. He just didn't do it
		
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			because there was a little bit of a
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:05
			Yeah, yeah. A personal interest thing. He was
		
00:46:05 --> 00:46:06
			trying to like You know what I mean?
		
00:46:06 --> 00:46:08
			Something that is just based on
		
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			strategy, and politics, and long term
		
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			And he missed out. He missed out. He
		
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			could have been
		
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			You only get it Only only a few
		
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			people can get the the opportunity of being
		
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			someone,
		
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			being the name that was
		
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			the the way in for the Prophet alaihis
		
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			salaam or the way that Islam got somewhere,
		
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			and he missed out.
		
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			He missed out and he didn't And he
		
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			accepted Islam but not He was just a
		
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			couple of minutes Just a couple of days
		
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			late. Like he literally came to Medina just
		
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			after the prophet alaihis salam. Just 2 days
		
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			after he passed away. He didn't make it
		
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			in time to take his shahada with the
		
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			prophet and Biyal Sahabi radiAllahu anhu.
		
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			A lot of the scholars, Yathir Rabbona and
		
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			Uthanna, because he spent the rest of his
		
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			life. Yeah. Working with, the Khalifa Ar Rashidin
		
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			in the conquest and the Anif al Jihad
		
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			until he died. RadiAllahu anhu. He never stopped.
		
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			Because I can't imagine,
		
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			in life when you miss an opportunity,
		
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			and I find people, Yani,
		
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			don't know don't I think we all don't
		
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			deal with this the way we should. You
		
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			will miss out on opportunities. It's almost a
		
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			given. Like you 100% are going to
		
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			miss a good opportunity in your life. Like
		
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			the the the the odds of that is
		
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			almost a 100%. Like in more than once,
		
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			by the way. An opportunity will present itself
		
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			and you'll just not You just won't pick
		
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			it up. You just won't notice it. You
		
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			won't in the right mindset. You won't have
		
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			the right skill set at the time or
		
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			you just won't have the right enough wisdom
		
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			to notice it.
		
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			Don't let a missed opportunity be a reason
		
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			for you
		
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			to lose
		
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			faith in yourself or lose hope or don't
		
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			allow it to put you in a position
		
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			where you're depressed.
		
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			What will
		
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			what is decreed by Allah will occur.
		
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			What is decreed by Allah will occur. And
		
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			what is today is what is decreed by
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. You can't change that
		
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			piece.
		
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			Engaging in an amount of remorse that makes
		
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			you dysfunctional
		
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			is not a healthy thing. Because it's not
		
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			healthy to do that. To engage in an
		
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			amount of remorse and regret that you at
		
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			the point you can't function anymore. No. You
		
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			look back, you learn from the lesson, you
		
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			allow the lesson from this missed opportunity
		
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			to guide your choices moving forward. See, Mufayna
		
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			didn't allow the mistake that he made
		
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			he didn't allow that mistake push him off
		
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			the map and remove him from no. He
		
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			allowed that mistake to become the reason, the
		
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			motivation
		
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			behind why he was going to be the
		
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			best person he could be so that he
		
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			could meet the Prophet alaihis salatu wa sallam
		
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			yawul khim and say, I I I'm sorry.
		
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			They they don't really So the prophet alaihi
		
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			wa sallam goes to them. They're nice people.
		
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			They're nice people. They're having their meat. They're
		
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			drinking their wine. They're having a great time.
		
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			The prophet alaihi wa sallam comes and starts
		
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			talking to them about Islam. Talks, talks, talks.
		
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			They say,
		
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			You're speaking, we understand nothing what you're talking
		
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			about.
		
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			We'll give you a chance. Fight this guy
		
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			here. If you beat him, we'll support
		
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			you. If not, then we'll
		
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			get lost. So the prophet alaihis salatu wa
		
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			sallam
		
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			presents is presented with a man called Ruqana.
		
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			Ruqana is a is a mountain of a
		
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			man, and they and Arab have a have
		
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			a specific type of wrestling. It's like it's
		
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			not Roman wrestling, but it's it's
		
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			out of wrestling. It's like it has its
		
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			own laws and rules, but it is a
		
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			sport. So it wasn't, wasn't just, you know,
		
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			brawling.
		
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			No. There's actual actual rules to it and
		
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			they would draw like a certain it's
		
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			between a Roman and Sumo. Like you have
		
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			to stay within a specific area and blah
		
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			blah blah. So the prophet alaihis salaam had,
		
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			you know, as most people of his generation,
		
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			this is the sport that they played. So
		
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			he he wanna play the sport. Right? He
		
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			was a fit man alaihis salaahu alaihis salaam.
		
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			Right now, how old is he now?
		
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			Yeah. He's exactly 50 years old. He's maybe
		
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			towards the end, yeah, he's like turning 51.
		
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			So he's not a he's not a kid,
		
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			like he's not So he's mid-30s or you
		
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			know mid-20s where you 50, I mean, this
		
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			is beyond your Olympic time, I mean, You're
		
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			probably no longer an Olympic
		
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			candidate. So Rokhane is a man in his
		
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			in his mid thirties, so there's like at
		
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			least 15 years difference between them. And this
		
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			So the Prophet
		
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			said, All right, we'll do it. They established
		
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			their
		
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			They established
		
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			the laws,
		
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			They begin their wrestling. Every you know, the
		
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			whole tribe is having a good time. They're
		
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			standing there eating their meat watching, and the
		
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			prophet alaihis salatu pins rukana.
		
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			Now he's the, you know, he's the tribe
		
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			champion. So he gets up, he's very upset.
		
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			His ego is is is Ghani.
		
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			Repeats. No no. I I I didn't
		
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			think you had anything in you. I thought
		
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			I thought it was gonna be fun.
		
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			So they repeat it again. Prophet alaihis salam
		
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			pins him again.
		
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			So he gets up again.
		
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			He's the third. I'm not doing this again.
		
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			He's getting tired alayhis salaatu wa sallam.
		
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			You can't beat him with stamina. Yeah, that's
		
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			not gonna be fair.
		
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			And then they they do it the 3rd
		
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			times and he pins him alayhis salaatu wa
		
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			sallam.
		
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			Now the 3rd time he wakes stands up.
		
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			You listen to me.
		
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			No. We're not listening
		
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			to
		
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			you. Regardless, you win, may you go home.
		
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			We're not we're not doing this. So he
		
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			leaves Ali alaihis salaam. This is the story
		
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			is there and the story is Yeah. It's
		
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			usually it's often often
		
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			narrated. It's often talked about
		
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			as as an example of the prophet alaihis
		
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			salawasam's physical fitness.
		
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			You know, the fact that he was an
		
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			athlete himself alaihis salawasam
		
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			as as a saydah Faqlima
		
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			would say,
		
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			He would never leave his room except if
		
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			he had a like a zayd.
		
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			Zayd was once zayd ibn harithah, his adopted
		
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			son was once on a conquest and he
		
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			was very late. He should have come like
		
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			a week before, and there was no communication,
		
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			no letters. He was very worried alaihis salaam.
		
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			And then Zayd knocks on the door coming
		
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			back, and the prophet alaihis salaam runs out
		
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			of his room. He's not wearing anything.
		
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			He's not wearing a shirt.
		
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			So I saw these like a 6 pack.
		
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			Not the 1 pack that I have. No,
		
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			the 6 pack that he had. So 'alayhi
		
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			wasalam was very muscular man, and he was
		
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			very fit, and he knew how to play
		
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			the sports of his time, alaihis salatu. So
		
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			here's why he would tell the sahaba or
		
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			his hadi.
		
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			Even if you're going to argue against the
		
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			wording of the hadith, you can't argue against
		
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			the actual legacy of the hadith, which is
		
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			he encouraged the sahabah to learn marksmanship
		
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			and to learn swimming and to learn horseback
		
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			riding. Now you can do that today if
		
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			you want,
		
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			but I'm more interested in the mindset of
		
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			the prophet alaihis salaam than the actual
		
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			behaviors. That at the time were the sports
		
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			and the skill sets that a young person
		
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			should have. Like you should know how to
		
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			swim, you should know how to ride a
		
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			horse because that's what you
		
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			would ride back then. I'm pretty sure no
		
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			one came to the Masjid today with a
		
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			horse. And
		
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			you get what I mean here? And marksmanship
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:07
			was a part of how you would defend
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:08
			yourself and be productive
		
00:53:10 --> 00:53:13
			asset to your tribe. So today, I think
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:14
			there
		
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			are analogies
		
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			you can draw, parallels you can draw from
		
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			this and learn. What is it that our
		
00:53:20 --> 00:53:23
			young generation should learn in terms of martial
		
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			arts, in terms of public speaking, in terms
		
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			of
		
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			managing money, in terms
		
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			of There's a lot of, you know, physical
		
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			and moral and psychological,
		
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			and academic fitness that our youth should be
		
00:53:36 --> 00:53:37
			pushed
		
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			through without
		
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			any effort. Like it just happened. They should
		
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			come to Masajid and masajid should take care
		
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			of teaching them the Arabic language, should teach
		
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			them the Quran, should teach them a martial
		
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			art, should teach them how to present themselves,
		
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			should teach them Like I honestly believe masajid
		
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			should do that for for for youth. Now
		
00:53:53 --> 00:53:55
			it's very hard as I have learned over
		
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			the last two and a half years. It's
		
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			very difficult to actually run a Masjid that
		
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			can do something like that. It's extremely difficult
		
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			beyond what I can begin to explain to
		
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			you. I didn't have this amount of whiteness
		
00:54:04 --> 00:54:05
			before I started this place, I have a
		
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			picture of myself before I started this place.
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:08
			It didn't look like this. Go back to
		
00:54:08 --> 00:54:11
			the YouTube channel. Go back to the oldest
		
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			videos. Go to the oldest, right? Oldest video
		
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			and see me giving a a nice, you
		
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			know, black head of hair and
		
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			I looked at it. This is Working here
		
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			has
		
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			This is not a simple This is not
		
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			an easy task. Running Masali is actually very
		
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			very very tiring.
		
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			It sucks the life out of you. It's
		
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			an ongoing 20 fourseven, yeah. 365 a year
		
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			where you're just trying to work. Alhamdulillah, it's
		
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			barakah. As salallahu alanhu continue to allow us
		
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			to serve and show the community. But it's
		
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			not easy to get these things done. Like
		
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			for this you think it's simple. How simple?
		
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			Just run a program for this Yeah. Running
		
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			programs and registering people and making sure they
		
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			actually show up and making sure there's enough
		
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			space and that the kids are actually gonna
		
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			listen and the people who are doing it
		
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			are qualified and there's enough space for everyone
		
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			and that we have It's actually much more
		
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			complicated than than you can imagine. And I
		
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			I advise you and I encourage you to
		
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			get more involved in any not just this
		
00:54:59 --> 00:55:01
			masjid, in any masjid that you live close
		
00:55:01 --> 00:55:04
			by in terms of their programming. Get involved
		
00:55:04 --> 00:55:05
			on on the admin level. Go and see
		
00:55:05 --> 00:55:06
			what they need and you're gonna find that
		
00:55:06 --> 00:55:09
			there's always deficit, there's always lack of there's
		
00:55:09 --> 00:55:10
			lack of people who are willing to show
		
00:55:10 --> 00:55:12
			up and do some of the basic work
		
00:55:12 --> 00:55:13
			that needs to be done in order for
		
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			this to to
		
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			be productive.
		
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			But but do we need it? Of course,
		
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			the prophet alaihis salaam was very invested in
		
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			teaching
		
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			the youth the skill sets that they needed
		
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			and he himself alaihis salatu wa sallam had
		
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			and he was someone who was an athlete.
		
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			You don't look at the prophet alaihis salam
		
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			and think athleticism, do you?
		
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			Most of the time you don't, but I
		
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			like this story because it reminds that he's
		
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			also he's also very fit physically. He was
		
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			a strong person who had, you know, had
		
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			it, who had to play a sport. He
		
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			was good at it too. Like he was
		
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			very good at the sport that he played
		
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			out of his salawat wa. So I thought
		
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			that I thought I always thought that was
		
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			something that was interesting.
		
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			I love this story. I absolutely love this
		
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			story. He's going to talk to a suayd
		
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			ibn al salamat. Or maybe maybe let's do
		
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			duma' al azdi first. Yeah. Let's do duma'
		
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			al azdi first.
		
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			I'll come back so we can do a
		
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			suayd ibn al salamat. Doesn't matter. There's no
		
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			there's no real sequence to these stories. It
		
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			all happened within that first.
		
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			He's going to speak, as I told you,
		
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			to 26 tribes. I I think I've talked
		
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			to you about 7 tribes. I think that's
		
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			enough. I'm gonna give you a few stories
		
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			of of individuals he ran into, alaihis salatu
		
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			wa sallam,
		
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			during this time.
		
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			Yeah. And he was a healer of sehirah
		
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			and jinn and all the stuff that people
		
00:56:26 --> 00:56:28
			today think they have instead of actual diseases.
		
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			So Dumat was that type of person. That's
		
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			what he did. And, you know, he had
		
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			certain things that he offered and he and
		
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			he was told about the Prophet alaihis salatu
		
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			wasalam.
		
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			If I can actually heal him and take
		
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			care of it then Quraysh will love me.
		
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			So this is like a big win for
		
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			him. So, Dumat goes to the prophet alaihis
		
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			salatu wasalam and he starts and he starts
		
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			speaking to him
		
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			asking him, like, what are your symptoms? What's
		
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			happening to you? Are you this? Are you
		
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			that? And the prophet alayhis salatu wa sallam
		
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			is listening.
		
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			Say, Ayin, obviously ridiculous. But he's listening and
		
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			he's saying, Yani.
		
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			He's listening to Bumat, telling him, I can
		
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			do this for you. If this is happening
		
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			to you, I can help you with this.
		
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			If you have this sentence, I can help
		
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			you with that. So once Bumat was done,
		
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			Taqala he asked the prophet, kalamataqoor. And what
		
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			do you have? Taqala salallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Before he actually and he wanted to respond,
		
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			he he said the following.
		
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			So the prophet, alayhis salatu salam, repeated.
		
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			Indeed, all praise
		
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			be to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			We praise him.
		
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			We seek his aid.
		
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			We seek his forgiveness.
		
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			We seek his repentance.
		
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			We seek refuge in him subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			from the evil that exists within inside of
		
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			ourselves.
		
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			The one who Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala guides
		
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			truly is the only person who will never
		
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			be misguided
		
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			And the one whom Allah
		
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			truly misguides will never find guidance. And I
		
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			bear witness that there is no god worthy
		
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			of worship but Allah and that Muhammad is
		
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			his messenger and his servant.
		
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			He said it again,
		
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			Baqal, and he moved on. Amabad. The prophet
		
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			doesn't wanna say Amabad. That's moving forward because
		
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			Dumat came with a very formal he had
		
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			like a medical team.
		
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			A superstitious
		
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			medical team. He came with
		
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			the healers. So he
		
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			he was very formal with the prophet alaihis
		
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			salam. So the prophet alaihis salam responded very
		
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			formally by giving like an introduction before he
		
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			started to speak.
		
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			So he said it again and then Bumad
		
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			said
		
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			Say it again.
		
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			See see this
		
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			this
		
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			thing here that I just said, you know,
		
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			the you know, the piece that the lullaby
		
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			that puts you to sleep at the beginning
		
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			of Jum'ah, you know, just before you kind
		
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			of
		
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			It sets in so you can fall asleep
		
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			for 15 minutes until the shirk says,
		
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			Yeah. You know that the part that we've
		
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			listened to and we don't really To the
		
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			Arab, they had never heard this before.
		
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			I really think it's worth
		
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			for you to zoom out for a second
		
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			and read these words and look at them
		
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			and understand them in a way without the
		
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			context of you being Muslim, I've hearing someone
		
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			say that, Indeed all praise be to Allah.
		
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			He is the one whom we praise.
		
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			He is the one whom we seek aid
		
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			from and we seek forgiveness from and we
		
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			seek refuge in him from the evil that
		
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			exists within ourselves.
		
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			Is what he's saying.
		
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			And Bumayr is listening to this and he's,
		
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			like, you're not sick. I'm sick. Repeat it
		
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			again.
		
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			Repeat it again. There's something is leaving my
		
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			heart as you say it. Say it again.
		
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			I'm you're not sick. I'm sick. I'm the
		
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			one who finally in my heart heard something,
		
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			felt something it hasn't felt. Let's say it
		
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			again.
		
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			He said it again.
		
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			I praise the There is no God but
		
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			Allah and you are His Prophet and Messenger.
		
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			Go. Go go back from where we get
		
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			What what are we doing?
		
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			Heal him. He is the healer alayhi salatu
		
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			wa sallam. He is the healer alayhi salatu
		
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			wa sallam.
		
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			He healed alayhi salatu wa sallam. With his
		
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			face, he healed. With his words, he healed
		
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			alayhi salatu wa sallam. With his love, he
		
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			healed. With his handshake, He healed.
		
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			The biggest,
		
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			the biggest loss
		
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			of of of our lives, not just our
		
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			lives but of the lives
		
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			of of all muslims is not having him
		
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			present amongst us, alayhi salatu wa sallam. That
		
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			is the biggest muslima of all is that
		
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			he's not here in in the flesh alayhis
		
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			salaam for us to sit and talk to
		
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			and and listen to and learn from. We
		
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			have to take everything that he said and
		
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			did in the Quran and we have to
		
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			think about it and figure out what the
		
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			next steps are based on the legacy he
		
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			left us but he's not here to teach
		
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			us. He's not here to heal us. He's
		
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			not here to to do that what he
		
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			did for others alayhi salatu wa sallam.
		
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			Alhamdulillah that we we we grew up knowing
		
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			him alayhi salatu wa sallam. You have actually
		
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			time to tell I'll tell you this. Y'all
		
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			I have time to Suayd ibn Islam. Suayd
		
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			ibn Islam is a cool it's a cool
		
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			story.
		
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			Suayd
		
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			was a man who was well educated.
		
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			He he actually I don't have time. I'll
		
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			give you a background. He was well educated.
		
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			He was someone who had studied the faith
		
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			of the different groups and he had with
		
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			him the remnants of the teachings of Luqman
		
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			Al Hakim. Like he had remnants of the
		
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			teachings of Luqman alaihis salam,
		
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			which is obviously something that's Luqman was a
		
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			man who lived somewhere in Africa as far
		
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			as we can tell. That's what we believe.
		
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			He was a man of dark skin and
		
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			he lived somewhere in Africa. And Suayid had
		
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			done a lot of traveling and he had
		
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			with him some of the tablets that still
		
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			had the wisdoms,
		
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			the words of wisdom from Sayyidina Luqman. So
		
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			he came and he told the Prophet alaihis
		
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			wa ta'ala started
		
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			a
		
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			Qala, I have with me something that's better
		
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			than what you have. Faqal alaihi sallam,
		
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			Then let me hear what you have. He