Adnan Rajeh – Our London Family

Adnan Rajeh
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the loss of family members due to actions related to Islam, including a physician's proposal to get into the system and the wife's failure to do anything aside from being a shh ha ha ha. They emphasize the importance of remembering the marchers and their actions to avoid future mistakes and the need to reward suffering for their deeds. The upcoming Darjna deity is also discussed, with guidance given on what to expect.
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Said that there are 5 types of shuhada.

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And

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another hadith, he kind of points out there's

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a differentiation between the one who dies

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and then those who

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don't. And that on the day of judgment,

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they'll also be seen as martyrs. And if

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is anyone who passes away, anyone whose life

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is taken for being Muslim or for being

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someone who's you know, and he stands up

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for what Allah

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commands for them to stand up for. And

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then,

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he talks about different categories.

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Someone who dies from a disease or a

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severe illness.

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Someone who dies

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from, an attack being attacked or being stabbed

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and mistreated. Al Ghariq, someone who drowns,

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someone whose house burns or falls upon them.

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Well, you know,

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these are the different categories.

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All

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of them, by the way. Like, all of

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them put together. You can just choose all

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the the each one of them is basically

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a and

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so I've had them and all altogether.

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But what I wanna talk about tonight

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just briefly because it's yeah. It's June 6th

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and and,

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and this is a for me, it depends

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on where where you were and how long

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you've been here and maybe and whether you

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knew the people or not, how personally you'll

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take this this issue. And and I understand

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that. I don't, you know, I don't think

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that you should be should be different for

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him. But, June 6 to me was a

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very personal what happened was very, very personal

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to me, extremely personal. I knew this family

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very, very well.

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I saw the brother Salman

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twice a day for 5 years straight. For

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every Maghrib and every Isha. For he was

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there for every I don't think he missed

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a Maghrib or Asia for the whole time

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he lived in this city

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ever. He was there for every Maghrib and

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every Asia and El Mem. I saw him

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every single day at least twice, if not,

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three times at Fajr. I used to give

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a halakha back at you know, on the

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Sunday halakha that I give here after. I

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started back in El Lim. And I used

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to give it at the

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kind of back part of the men's section.

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And he said, give it there because his

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wife, Alayl Hamha Yanib,

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she wanted to, she Yanib, she wanted to

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attend the halakhah. And I didn't I wasn't

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given the microphone back in for

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reasons I won't disclose today. I didn't I

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didn't have the microphone, so I I had

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to give it in a place where they

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could hear me. So I would go and

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sit right there so that she could hear.

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So she would be right she would be

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right behind the, she could hear me behind.

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And she would bring a friend or 2

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and to listen to it, but she she

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was the only lady who attended this halakhofer

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for 5 or for for 4 four and

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a half years. And I taught her the

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the little hamma yumna in school for 3

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years, grade 5, 6, and 7. I I

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was I was her Islamic studies teacher,

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So I know this family very well. And

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what occurred what happened to them is something

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that is, anyway, when we say unimaginable no.

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It's it's imaginable.

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It's just it's unacceptable,

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really. It's not it's not unimaginable. It's unimaginable,

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but it's unacceptable what actually occurred to them

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because they they didn't do any this man

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was he was like me. He was a

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he was a IMG. He was a physician

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back from where he came from. And he

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came here, and, he was a couple years

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ahead of me. And he tried to get

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into the system. He couldn't, so he gave

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up. He did physiotherapy, and he made a

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living off of it.

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His wife and he went it was a,

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was an advanced,

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I think engineer,

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and she was

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advancing her knowledge.

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They did nothing aside from just be good

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people. Just be just like you. So everyone

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in this masjid. If you're in this masjid

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and you come here for Asia almost every

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night, that's exactly what this family was. Because

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people came to the Masjid every night, brought

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their kids. They prayed their salawat. They attended

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the halakat, and they, you know, they gave

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their salakat, and they were part of every

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and they just took a a stroll one

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day. That's the only mistake that they made

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in they took a they decided to take

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a walk,

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and and this occurred to them.

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And

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it's it's actually sunnah for us to remind

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to to remember our marchers. They are shuhada.

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They are the Hani, they they fulfill the

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definition of the shuhada

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in every way.

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They are people who died for the sake

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of Allah

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Why? Because the reason that they were targeted,

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the reason that they lost their lives was

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because they were visibly people who obeyed Allah.

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They made their Islam visible.

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They didn't hide it.

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And his wife were were her hijab. They

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they were visibly Muslim. They were obeying Allah

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visibly, and they were targeted for it. So

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there is no way for you to define

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their, you know, their the loss of their

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life aside from shahad, from marcherism.

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There's there's there's no other way for this,

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and it's not one of the secondary categories

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of shahada. No. It's the main category of

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shahada.

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Feast

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for the sake of Allah

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lost their lives. And it's sunnah for us

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to remember our shahada. The prophet did this

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once a week.

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Once a week, he would go to, every

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Saturday morning. Every Saturday morning, he went to

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shahada. Uhud every Saturday morning to the day

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he died

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The only Saturday he wouldn't go is if

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he was away on a conquest or he

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was musafir. But if he was away even

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when he was ill, even the last weekend

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of his life, when he was too ill

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to stand, they carried him to Makbari Tuhar.

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They carried him because that was his sun.

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He would go every Saturday, and he was

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and that was the time where he said,

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And I I I and I am following

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you very soon. Usually, the dua is different,

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and he changed it. That one day because

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it was right before the day that the

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the week he died the month he passed

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away, alayhis, on

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Monday. And he he saw that he was

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there Saturday, to to visit them. So remembering

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our marchers is something that's important for us

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as a community,

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to remember the fact that they carried something

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on our behalf, that they

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they took on the punch for all of

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us.

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They took they took it, and they absorbed

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it. It went it hit them. It it

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it took their lives. It took their ambitions

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and their hopes and their dreams and their

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future. And it took away it took them

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away from their loved ones and their family.

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And

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and remembering,

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Yani, them, what it's supposed to do for

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us. It's supposed to keep the legacy alive.

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It's supposed to keep the commitment to to

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what they represented

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ongoing, to keep it strong, that you don't

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forget it. The prophet, alayhis salaam, when he

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visited the shuaddah, it was to honor their

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sacrifice.

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It was to honor their bravery and their

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courage and the fact that they did what

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they did that day. It was a hard

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it was a hard day. These people stood

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their ground and they lost their lives for

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it. So the prophet never forgot this sacrifice.

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And for me, when I think about the

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this family, this fact

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I don't I don't like saying they it

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could have been us. It was

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us. It was each and every one of

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us because nothing that they did is something

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that you can say, well, I wouldn't do

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that. Or I I don't there's nothing. They

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didn't. I know them. There was nothing. They

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were just they just they're normal.

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So when you when you remember them, you

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remember them so that we continue the legacy

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of of of of our deen,

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of of being Muslim and practicing Islam and

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being a part of a community and kinda

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standing our ground. And that's why we remember

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them. We remember them so that that continues

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to be who we are. We don't we

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don't allow what we don't allow their their

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their lives and and and their deaths to

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go in vain,

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to be forgotten, to be put aside, and

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for us to continue to

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to continue as if it didn't happen. No.

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It has to mean something for us. Think

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about it. It has to mean something to

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us. And if that's how it's supposed to

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be for us in terms of these these

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4 individuals,

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who passed away 3 years ago, imagine

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all the Muslim

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children and people who are dying every moment

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for the last 9 months.

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When people when people pay the price of

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being Muslim with their lives, with their blood,

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It's supposed to be, for us, a reminder

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of the of the of the value of

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being Muslim and the importance of holding on

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to Islam and continuing the legacy and continuing

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to practice and protect

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and stand for what is right. Because the

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moment you don't you you allow yourself forget

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it and you allow their suffering to go

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in vain because you wouldn't be okay with

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your suffering going in vain. Because if you

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suffered for the sake of Allah, if you

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suffered because you were Muslim, if you were

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suffering because you were just a person who

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who carried Islam and and and practiced it

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and you suffered, then you wouldn't be okay

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with your Muslim brothers and sisters to completely

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overlook that, over forget about it or or

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or or sideline it as a no. You

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want it to be central in there because

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it's your life. It's what matters to you.

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So treat people the way you would like

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to be treated had you been in their

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I mean, in their shoes. What would you

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have wanted had you been may Allah protect

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all of us. Yeah. I mean, all of

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you. Had it been you, what would you

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have wanted for us to do after you

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if you were yanked out of of this

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world

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way too early?

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If you were separated from your family for

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not for no sin that you committed? How

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would you want your Muslim brothers and sisters

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who are who are a part of your

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community to behave after you? And that's what

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it means to remember martyrs.

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Remembering shawada, that's what it does. What it

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what what what would they have what would

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I have wanted if I was in his

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position? And then I continue that moving forward.

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And that's what we owe them, really.

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We

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we owe them that. We owe them to

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to honor their memory through

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continuing

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to, you know, to to be a stronger

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community, to to strengthen ourselves here within this

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country, and to perform proper dawah, and to

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educate, and and to allow

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Aiyadh, the next generation, to to never think

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about this again, to never fear standing at

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a street light wearing

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galdabi or wearing a hijab or feeling that,

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yeah, by doing that, you're somehow breaking a

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norm or or playing a risk.

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And that that's our job here in this

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and I want to share that with you

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tonight and and make du'a for them. May

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Allah grant them

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the the the highest ranks in Jannah. May

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Allah shower them with with mercy. And may

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Allah allow us to continue to walk the

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the path that they walked in their lives.

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And may Allah unite us with them on

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the doors of Jannah. And may Allah grant

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within the hearts of those whom they left

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behind serenity and tranquility. Allahumma. I mean, tomorrow,

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the, Jumuah is, is is 3:15 here. I'll

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be giving it, at UWO at 12 o'clock.

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And Eid

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is,

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is is Sunday.

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So tonight is the first night of the

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first,

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10 days of the Hijjah. We, as of

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this moment, you are now in the first

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10 days of the Hijjah. We will the

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hadith you'll be hearing over the next few

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nights. We'll be talking about the and the

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of these 10 days. They're the most important

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most important 10 days of the year. If

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the last 10 nights of Ramadan, the most

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important last 10 nights of the year, these

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are the most valuable 10 days of the

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year. So make sure you, you think about

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your your your plan of of good deeds

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and and and reward.

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And, I need to fast if you're capable

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and give

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and perform a lot of dhikr and read

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the Quran

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as much as possible as that is the

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sunnah of of the night of Jo'a and

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these and these 10 nights. May Allah grant

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us, the of these 10 nights, and may

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Allah accept the Hajj of those who perform

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Hajj and grant us the ability to perform

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Hajj in the year after.

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