Adnan Rajeh – Etiquettes of Salah 8

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The speaker discusses the importance of praying in the presence of the lord, including finding a space in one's life to focus on it. They also mention the practice of praying at home and encourage people to fill in gaps and find their

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			The people of the book say to me
		
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			words that I do not understand.
		
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			The people of the book come to me
		
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			to read the basis of the Torah, and
		
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			they use their languages, and the Hebrew does
		
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			not speak, peace and blessings be upon him.
		
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			So Zaynab went and said, so Zayd learned
		
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			it in 14 days.
		
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			And he used to go to the shoes
		
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			of the Messenger of God, may God bless
		
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			him and grant him peace.
		
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			So if the Jews spoke of something, he
		
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			translated it for them, may God bless him
		
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			and grant him peace.
		
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			So he was not like me, he did
		
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			not forget.
		
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			Sayyid Ibn Thabit, may God protect him from
		
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			them, said in this collection, this hadith is
		
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			narrated in a collection of both Bukhari and
		
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			Muslim, and it is narrated by Sayyid Ibn
		
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			Thabit.
		
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			And the theme is the theme of etiquette
		
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			of prayer.
		
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			And what he says here, peace and blessings
		
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			be upon him, I think is helpful.
		
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			He said, peace and blessings be upon him,
		
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			O people, pray in your homes.
		
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			So what he said, peace and blessings be
		
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			upon him, is O people, pray in your
		
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			homes.
		
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			The best prayer for a person is their
		
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			prayer in their homes, aside from the maktouba.
		
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			Maktouba as in the faridah.
		
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			So aside from the faridah, specifically for men,
		
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			it is praying in the masjid that is
		
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			better.
		
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			Fajr, dhuhr, asr, maghrib, isha.
		
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			It is better.
		
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			But the best salah after that is at
		
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			the house.
		
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			And the ulema pointed out a few exceptions
		
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			as well.
		
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			And they said janazah, obviously, is better to
		
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			pray in the masjid.
		
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			Taraweeh and Ramadan is better to pray in
		
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			the masjid.
		
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			Khusoof and khusoof is better to pray in
		
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			the masjid.
		
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			So they pointed out a few salawat that
		
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			is best to happen in jama'ah within
		
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			the masjid.
		
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			But what he is talking about, the majority
		
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			of the understood and what we understand, is
		
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			that your sunnah is best done in the
		
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			masjid.
		
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			Best done at home, forgive me.
		
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			Now, that being said, it is very reasonable
		
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			for you to pray sunnah in the masjid
		
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			because you feel like if you go home
		
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			you probably won't do it.
		
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			However, if you are in a masjid and
		
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			it is loud, and people are talking, instead
		
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			of getting upset at them, instead of asking
		
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			them to get out so you can pray
		
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			your sunnah, maybe follow his hadith and let
		
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			them continue to socialize and go pray at
		
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			home.
		
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			And that way the masjid continues to be
		
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			a community center for these human beings.
		
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			And I am saying that after I have
		
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			told people yesterday, that if after you see
		
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			someone praying and you are chatting, maybe lower
		
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			your voice or take a step away so
		
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			you don't bother them when they are praying.
		
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			But it has to go both ways as
		
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			well.
		
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			The sunnah, the actual sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			is that the sunnah is prayed at home.
		
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			It is not at the masjid.
		
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			You pray in the masjid and then you
		
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			go home and you have a small space
		
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			in the house where you pray.
		
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			And everyone should have that.
		
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			You should have a little space in the
		
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			house where it is specifically for sunnah.
		
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			So you and your family do salawat and
		
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			you can't make it to the masjid.
		
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			And that is where you do your qiyam
		
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			and do your sunnah.
		
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			When you are at home or when you
		
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			are sick.
		
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			But this is the actual teachings of him.
		
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			That the sunnah is best prayed at home.
		
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			And these are specifically sunnahs that happen after
		
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			salawat.
		
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			Because obviously you can't pray the sunnah at
		
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			home.
		
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			You are going to come and pray it
		
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			in the masjid.
		
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			It doesn't make sense to do otherwise.
		
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			But you can pray, for example, al-fajr.
		
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			Sunnat al-fajr at home.
		
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			And this is a very known practice of
		
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			his.
		
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			He would pray sunnat al-fajr at home
		
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			and then come to the masjid and pray
		
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			fajr right away.
		
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			So he took care of this and he
		
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			taught us this.
		
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			And I am saying that just in case
		
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			you are someone who commits to sunnah insha
		
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			'Allah and adheres to it.
		
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			But then there is noise or people speaking.
		
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			Young men and children.
		
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			Maybe instead of getting upset and yelling at
		
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			them.
		
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			And walking away and filing a complaint with
		
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			me later or something.
		
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			Just pray at home.
		
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			Life can continue where everyone is happy and
		
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			doesn't have to get into a problem.
		
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			And just something to think about here.
		
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			When it comes to masjid and the effect
		
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			that the distance that people have generated towards
		
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			masjid.
		
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			When I look at the youth and I
		
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			look at my younger brothers and sisters and
		
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			how far away they are from a masjid.
		
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			And how they can go months upon months
		
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			upon months and never come to a masjid.
		
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			And not feel anything is missing them.
		
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			I don't understand that.
		
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			I don't.
		
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			I don't.
		
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			I don't understand.
		
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			I don't understand.
		
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			How could you live for a few weeks
		
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			and not go to a masjid?
		
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			How do you function that way?
		
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			It's hard.
		
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			But the fact that they're okay with it
		
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			means that there's something that is fundamentally missing
		
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			in their lives.
		
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			And they don't even know it's missing.
		
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			And we have to make sure that we
		
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			put in the effort to help them acknowledge
		
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			what's missing.
		
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			And then help them actually fulfill that.
		
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			And fill in the gap and find their
		
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			space here.
		
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			Which means everyone has to be a bit
		
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			more chill.
		
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			In general about these things.
		
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			And know what he taught.
		
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			Because when you find out what he taught.
		
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			You'll think oh there's actually more flexibility than
		
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			I'm aware of.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.