Adnan Rajeh – Activism – Our Path Forward – Answering the Why

Adnan Rajeh
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The importance of activism and the need to be mindful of one's actions is highlighted. The speakers emphasize the importance of showing excellence and gratitude to oneself, as well as following a path of selflessness. The use of the prophet alayshi waassalam in provoking and proving negative behavior is emphasized, along with the importance of offering one's time and effort to oneself to gain insight and guidance for oneself. The speakers also stress the importance of rewarding oneself and not letting anyone's negative behavior hold them back, and encourage people to pursue their dreams and not do anything for anyone else.
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The series of activism, our path forward,

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is what I'm going to be continuing with

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inshallah till the end of this month. And

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as we are at the beginning of the

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history or lunar year,

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I am not big on

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going over incidents that occur every year and

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and just repeating stories, but I do think

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that the beginning of a year is a

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time where you are granted a

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for for a good reason or or for

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the lack of a good reason. You're offered

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an opportunity

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to revise yourself or to review, to think

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a little bit about what you've done throughout

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this year, what you hope to do differently

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in the new year. In this

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in this great and sacred month that Allah

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has the Hijri year start with. We are

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granted the, the opportunity to contemplate a little

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bit of of who we are and why

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we are the way we are and where

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we're going with our lives. And I think

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with it within the series of active activism,

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it's worthy in the midst of it to

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just

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slow down for a moment and try and

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do that together.

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And the verse I recited for you comes

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right after the story of the people of

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the cave, which is what I'm trying to

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review for you, or I'm trying to talk

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about activism through it. And after the the

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story of Al Hakaf, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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he he uses this verse, and say the

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truth from your Lord.

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Say that the truth is from your lord.

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And then you can do whatever you want.

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Those of you who have the will, have

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the intention,

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may they accept and may they find that

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belief and may they find that certainty. And

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those who don't, may they not.

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Those who do not want to believe and

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don't want to accept, may they not accept.

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It doesn't matter. This is not you're not

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strengthening anything. You're not doing this for the

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benefit of someone else, which is what I

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want to review with you at the beginning

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of this year as we talk about activism.

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Why is it that we do it? Why

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am I talking about this? Forget about that.

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Why am why are we even why do

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we care about anything that's happening to other

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people?

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Forget about that. Why is it that we

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obey Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala? Why am I

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standing on this minbar? Why are you sitting

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in this room? Why does any of this

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matter? What's the point? What exactly is the

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reason for people coming in every Friday and

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sitting and having a person stand up and

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and talk to them and and and share

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share certain ideas. What's the point of all

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that? What is the reason behind it? Why

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do we do it? Now you can say

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the answer is to please Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala commanded. I'm

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asking why to that.

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Why? Why are we why do we try

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to please please Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala? Why?

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Because of the punishment that that fades off

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eventually.

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Meaning, it fades away eventually. It it it

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just it it doesn't stick with you forever.

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You cannot motivate yourself through the fear of

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punishment for the entirety of your life. It's

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impossible. The the fear is a motivation that

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is short lived. It's helpful when it's when

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it's used appropriately, but it's short lived. It's

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not a long term motivation. It's not a

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good motive for for the rest of your

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life. Then why do we do this?

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Why does Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala ask us

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to do these things that please him? We

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accept and we understand that they please Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, but why do we do

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them? What is the point? What is the

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purpose?

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This has to be something that is clear

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to you on a on a subconscious

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level, not just on the conscious level. You

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have to internalize this these concepts. I'm going

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to recite for you. I'm just going to

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use the Quran. The Quran talks about this

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at least 15, 20 times directly the rest

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of the Quran is talking about it indirectly.

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He says subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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Indeed to you has come the sources of

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insight from your Lord. Those of you who

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gain insight from them, they do that to

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benefit themselves.

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You do it for yourself.

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You do it to benefit yourself.

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That's why you do anything within our deen.

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You do it for you. I do it

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for me. Don't fool yourself as I don't

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as I should not fool mine.

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Don't we don't fool ourselves and say, we

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do what we do to benefit other people.

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No. We do it to benefit ourselves. We

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do this for us. I do this for

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me.

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I don't do it for you. I don't.

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I do it for myself. It's very selfish.

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It's just that's what Allah subhanahu commanded. He

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said the only way to make it, you

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have to serve others. So I am doing

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that because I want to help myself. And

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I ask you, what you do, you must

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do it for yourself. And when you serve

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others, you do it to help yourself.

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So that we don't lie to one another.

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There's no reason for me to act. That

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I somehow I am elevating and I'm serving

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other people for others. No. I'm serving other

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people for me. Why are you doing it?

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For others? Stop doing it for others. Do

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it for yourself. Do it because Allah commanded

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you to do it and when you do

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it you benefit yourself.

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Four times in the Quran Allah Subhanahu wa

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Ta'ala uses the same phrase, those who gain

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guidance,

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they gain guide they gain guidance for the

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benefit of themselves.

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They do it for themselves.

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It's for you. It's going to help you.

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In this duniya, it's going to help you

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in the. That's why you do it.

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That's why you do it.

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And those of you who seek tazkiyah for

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themselves,

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those of you who seek to purify their

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souls they seek it and they achieve it

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for themselves. They do it for the benefit

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of themselves.

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Those of you who strive they strive for

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the benefit of themselves. Indeed, Allah

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is not in need of anything

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or anyone.

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Twice in the Quran. Those of you who

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do good deeds, they do good deeds for

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themselves.

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They do it for themselves.

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We gave indeed Luqman wisdom.

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And those of you who are grateful, they

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are grateful. They show gratitude for themselves

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for themselves.

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When you give, you give for yourself.

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When you take money out of your pocket

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and you give, you take it out and

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you give yourself.

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You're giving

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yourself. You're not giving anyone else.

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When you show excellence in your life, you

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show excellence for yourself.

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You need more.

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Is what the Quran is saying.

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Time and time again, the Quran will repeat.

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What you do, you do for yourself.

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No you no one owes you for anything

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that you do.

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No one owes you for even when you

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do something that is selfless. Even when you're

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doing something for the sake of Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala, no one owes you anything. You

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are doing this for yourself.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is going to reward

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you time an amplified amount for what you

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did even though what you did did not

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help him did not offer anything to him

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he did not benefit from it in any

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way subhanahu wa ta'ala he is giving it

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to you for free. He is telling you

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do something that does not help me and

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I will reward you for it way more

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than what you deserve.

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How is it that I'm going to feel

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that I deserve anything for anything that I

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do? How can I feel deserving for anything

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that I do?

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It's all for me.

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You become an activist. You live your life

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for the sake of Allah. You do that

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for yourself to say, give yourself,

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to take care of yourself, to make sure

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that

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you make it. That's why you do it.

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There is no other reason.

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If anyone has told you to do it

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for another reason, they lied to you. Fix

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it in your own brain. No. No. You

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do it for yourself.

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You give sadaqah, you give it for yourself.

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You you spread knowledge, you spread it for

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yourself.

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You know? You help build a community, you

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build it for yourself. You take care of

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someone who needs to be taken care of,

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you're taking care of them for yourself. You

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do it for yourself. That's why you do

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it. And when it and and it works

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the opposite way, it works the opposite way

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as well.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala uses the same the

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same language in the opposite way.

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And they only misguide themselves.

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And people they only oppress themselves.

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And the person who oversteps

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the boundaries of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, they

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are oppressing themselves.

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This theme

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is one of the most clear in the

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entirety of the book of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala.

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And that's why we talk about these things.

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The reason I point out to you the

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importance of living for something beyond yourself is

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so that you actually serve yourself.

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When the world around you, when you're living

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in a world that is focused

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on the individual.

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Right? When we're living in the in the

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West, there's a there's a strong focus on

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individuality,

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on the individual, on the happiness of the

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individual and what the individual wants. I am

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not against that.

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So some people say, no. We have to

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get rid of the no. I I I

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say strengthen it. I say, actually, increase the

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focus on the individual.

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Because if you truly understand what's best for

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you and you focus on your on the

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individuality

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of yourself then you will figure out that

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in order for you to make it to

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Jannah, you have to order which is the

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most individualistic,

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most selfish need, most selfish hope and desire

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is to make it to Jannah. There's nothing

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that actually

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trumps that in selfishness.

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If you are truly individualistic in the way

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you see the world and you wanna take

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care of yourself only, then you'll realize that

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this dunya is way too short and whatever

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is in it is not worth anything. And

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what you really want to do is to

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make sure that your makayama, you are taken

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care of. You're in the highest status. You'll

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make it there. And if you become interested

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in that, if that becomes your focus, if

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you're individualistic enough to want to make sure

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you make it to Jannah, then you find

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out that the only way you do that

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is by following the guidance of Allah. And

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the guidance of Allah says that you must

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live in this duniya in the service of

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other people.

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That the only way you're going to make

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it when he explains this to you, that

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the only way you're going to make it

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to my jannah is if you live your

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life now in the service of other

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people. So when you serve other people, you're

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not serving them because somehow you don't care

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about yourself. No. No. You care about yourself

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and no one told you not to. And

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Islam is not interested in saying that you

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should, you know, be be selfless. No. No.

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Be selfless in dunya.

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Be selfless in dunya so that you can

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make it selflessly to the highest status on

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the day of judgment close to Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. That's why you do it.

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It's like instead of

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for you to achieve the ultimate selfish goal,

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you have to walk a path of selflessness

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first.

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That's how he designed this story, Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala. In order for you to enjoy the

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fruits

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that are completely and entirely selfish,

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that will take care of you and the

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people that you love the most. You must

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walk a path in this life that is

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selfless in nature.

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But don't kid

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yourself and don't lose track of why you

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do what you do. We do it because

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we want we want something for ourselves and

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that's okay. You are you and I instinctively

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don't have the ability

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not to want

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things for ourselves selfishly. We don't have the

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ability.

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Trying to do that is a waste of

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time.

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You and I are designed or created in

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a way where we are selfish by nature.

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There is no way around that. It's impossible

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to change. It's a part of our instincts.

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It's a part of who we are. You

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try ruining that, you become lifeless. People who

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don't want anything for themselves at all are

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people who walk around who have no ego,

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have no under they have no understanding of

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things, and they just they're not alive, really.

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People who go through horrible trauma end up

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like that. If you run into someone who's

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in shock of trauma,

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they used to call it shell shock back

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in the day. Yeah. They just don't they'll

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do whatever you tell them to do, they'll

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do. They just they don't know anymore. They've

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lost the sense of self, and they don't

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they're not really alive.

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If you're alive and you are thinking and

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you are wanting, then you are selfish.

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It's just are you able to target that

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selfishness in the right direction?

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Am I able to take my selfishness and

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just put it on the day of judgment?

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Am I able to do that? In dunya

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it doesn't matter.

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What do you want from dunya?

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Take

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The prophet alaihis salallahu alaihi wasallam did how

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he lived his life. He would tell her,

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you fatimah binti Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallamah.

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You fatimah binti Muhammad salini minmalima shiiti uratik.

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Ask me whatever you want from my wealth,

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I give you.

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But you have to save yourself from the

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hellfire.

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You need to focus on what's coming. I

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can't save you from that. You have to

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do that. Your selfishness has to be directed

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in a way that saves you.

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Comes and goes. It's it's worthless. It's it's

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the fact that are you gonna make it

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on the day of judgment?

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There's an there's a story

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on the day of Uhud.

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And this is a story I think that

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is worthy of of contemplation

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where Abdullah ibn Amr ibn Haram,

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1 of the Ansar, 1 of the great

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Ansar, Suhaba, and an elderly man in his

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seventies. He had a large family and a

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lot of daughters. And one son, his son

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is Jabir ibn Abdullah, the known Sahabi, the

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the narrator of Hadith and the faqih and

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the great teacher of Islam that lived many

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years after the prophet

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passed away.

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The day Abuhar Jibr was young. He was

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in his late teens.

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And Abdulla was an elderly gentleman, and Jabir

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was preparing himself to go out for the

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battle as it made sense for him to

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do as being the the son and the

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father to stay his elderly, stay home with

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his daughters, and and he found his father

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also dressing up reading. They can't both go

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because there would be no maharam left for

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the sisters that were that are left behind.

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So they started to argue who's going to

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go, who's going to stay.

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Jabez is like, that's okay. You can stay.

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I'll go. Nabla said, no. It's alright. You

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can stay. And after a while, they figured

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out that they both want to go, and

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they're both actually standing their ground, so they

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flipped a coin.

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They flipped a coin and turned out for

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Abullah.

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So Jairus is in tears because he's missing

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out. He's not with the prophet

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alayhis salatu wa sallam of the day. Oh,

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and Abdullah is getting ready. He would turn

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to his son and say the following. He

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would say

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Had it been anything aside from Jannah, I

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would have given it to you.

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Had it been anything, had had we been

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arguing over anything aside from Jannah, it's immediately

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yours. I don't want it. Whatever makes you

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happier. But it's Jannah. I'm sorry. I have

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to save myself. I I'm

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it's Jannah.

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And he and this is the understanding that

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they had. This is how they understood things.

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This is how they saw their lives.

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They saw that they have to to save

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themselves.

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And if that means that they need to

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do whatever they need to do, they'll do

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it. Whatever it may be. Whatever it may

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be.

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The concept that the Quran is teaching is

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that whatever you're doing, you're doing it to

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save yourself. Do not forget that. It's in

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it's in your best interest. It is benefiting

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you in Dunia. It's going to benefit you

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Yomul Qiyamah. And if you allow any other

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narrative to actually overcome you, then you don't

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understand.

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We can't act like somehow we are selfless

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for no reason. No. There has to be

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a reason. There has to be a reward.

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Some people are selfless and they're looking for

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a dunya reward. They want the reputation.

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They want to be seen as morally

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superior. They want to be seen as elevating

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over others because they do that.

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It's impossible to do things in this life

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where there's absolutely no reward. Sometimes you do

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something good and you're hoping for a good

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feeling in your heart. Your conscious is just

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annoying. It's an annoying sound. You wanna shut

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it up. So you do it so it

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stops talking to you. I am telling you

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do what you do so that you are

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saved, Yom Elkayama. Just change the intention. At

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the beginning of the hizidi year, take a

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moment

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and review and revise your intention of why

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you do what you do. Make sure that

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the reward you're looking for for whatever it

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is that you offer, whatever it is that

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you do for the sake of Allah, that

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you do it with the intention that Allah

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saves you on the day of judgment because

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it's

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and it's

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for yourselves.

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Do you realize that the prophet alaihis salatu

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wa salam's

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ambition was in the hereafter? It wasn't in

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Dunya. In Dunya, he didn't care.

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You couldn't get him angry alaihis salatu wassalam.

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They they tried. People would try and get

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him angry. People would try and push his

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button to see if he had a button

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to push, to see if you could provoke

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him, if you could get him upset, if

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you get him defensive, if you could say

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something about him that would make him feel

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less about himself and then fight back and

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say something. They couldn't. And this and there

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are stories upon stories in our sunnah of

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people trying to do this to him, alayhis

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salaam. But man coming up coming up and

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saying to him bad things alayhis salaam and

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and continuously

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saying bad things until some of the sahaba

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were ready to to punish him physically. And

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the prophet, alayhi, salam, holds them back and

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tells them, no. What you should do is

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you should ask them to to ask in

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a nicer way. It should remind me to

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be a better person. This what he would

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say alayhi salaahu alaihi salaam and this person

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will continue to provoke and provoke and the

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prophet alayhi salaahu alaihi salaam would not respond

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in a bad way until finally the man

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who was provoking says,

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We have in our book that the more

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you offend him, the more you mistreat him,

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the more patient he becomes with you.

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He passed away and his he had pawned

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his shield that he used in war

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to pull money and give it as a

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as a as a loan to someone.

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He pawned his shield. When he passed away

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alaihis salatu wasallam he left absolutely nothing.

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Nothing was no inheritance, nothing to divide. Do

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you understand what that means for a 63

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year old gentleman to pass away and leave

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nothing?

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Have you ever do you understand? No one

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does that. Who does that?

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Who passes away today and has nothing to

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leave to people after they who does it?

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Unless someone else someone who was who's wasted

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all their wealth on something no one does

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this. But he did this alayhis salatu wa

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sallam because his interest in dunya was nothing

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was 0. But then his only request from

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us, the only thing he requested from us

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salallahu alayhi wa sallam was what? He made

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one request to his ummah. He asked them

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for one thing, for himself, for himself. He

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asked us to do a lot of things

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for ourselves, but he asked us to do

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one thing for himself, for him. What was

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it that he asked? He said, when you

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make dua for me. See,

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he said Allah

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has a status.

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He

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gives it to one person. I'm hoping to

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be that one person. Can you make dua

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for me? So after

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every

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That's all he asked for himself. He asked

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for something in Akhira. He was focused on

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akhirah because he was doing it for himself.

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He didn't say no. I don't want akhirah.

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You can take the higher status in in

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that's not no. No. No. That's that's not

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that's not right. Do that in dunya. Give

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the front seat to someone. Sure. Give the

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better seat. Give the better but in Aqira,

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he said ask for me. I want you

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to make dua for me that I get

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the highest rank.

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So don't be selfless around akhirah. No. It's

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okay, Sheikh. You can take the the higher

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level. I'll take no. No. Why are you

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doing that? Who told you that's okay? That's

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not okay. That's not how he lived his

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life alaihis salatu wa sallam that's not how

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we're supposed to think about it.

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Our focus is on being the we were

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trying to achieve the highest ranking in Jannah.

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We are trying in our life that we're

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supposed to be doing. That's why the prophet

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alaihi wasalam told us

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If you ask Allah, ask him for

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the highest point. Don't ask, roll me in

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to the door. Just put me aside. I'm

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okay. No. Don't do that.

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You can say that Yo Mercieama when you

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have nothing left to offer.

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You can say that Yo Mercieama when your

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deeds aren't being recorded anymore, but right now

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they're still being recorded.

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So you can, you can you can gain

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insight for yourself.

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You can give for yourself.

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You can strive for yourself. You can gain

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guidance for yourself.

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You can be grateful for yourself, you can

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offer your time for yourself as the Quran

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said so you can make it to the

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highest moment the prophet alaihis salawahu alaihi wasalam

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taught us.

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Even though the the beginning of the Hijri

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year does not actually,

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correlate with when the prophet

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performed Hijri because he performed Hijri in Rabi'il

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Awal in the month he was born. Alayhis

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salatu wasalam. But since the beginning of the

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year always reminds us of that and within

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this month we have the day of Ashura

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that many scholars see it to be sunnah

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to fast. Within this month when you if

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you take those three concepts, if you take

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the hijrah of the prophet alaihis salatu wasalam,

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the fact that he left his country for

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Islam, The fact that he left his home

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for Islam to never return to it. They

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they actually

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they they they tore down his home during

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his time in Medina. When he came back

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for Hajji, he couldn't there's no home for

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him. The home that he grew up in.

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The home that he raised his family and

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the home he got to marry to Khadija

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and wasn't there anymore.

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You understand the heartbreak of that? To return

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and find that they tore down your home,

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built something else, other people are living in

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it.

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Yeah. Some people here do.

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Yeah. Some people here do. It's still happening.

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They're still

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tearing homes down, kicking people out, building other

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homes. People are living in it, and then

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that person who was just living there last

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week is not living there anymore. Whether it's

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last week, last month, last decade or last

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century, it makes no difference. Makes no difference.

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The prophet alaihis salaam had to go through

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that. That is the ultimate.

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That's ultimate

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activism. Willing to give your cause everything that

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you have even if that means you're gonna

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lose your country, lose your home,

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never to return. He did that alayhis salatu

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wa salam. He did the hira.

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He left his home. He left his country

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and went and lived in a place where

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he he didn't he didn't belong there. He

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made it his own alahis salatu wa salam

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and he and he made something beautiful, but

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it wasn't his. He had to he had

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to a lot of people here did that

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already.

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You've done that much. You've relocated for this.

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Just make sure you continue the path as

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he did alayhis salatu wasalam.

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On the day of Ashura Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala

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saved Musa Alaihi Salam from Firaun.

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The act of Musa Alaihi Salam was one

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of the most courageous acts of activism in

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the history of humankind.

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We don't understand what Firaun was. You sit

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here and you hear his name but you

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don't comprehend what Firaun was. Maybe some of

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you who lived in dictatorships,

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if you came from places like Syria for

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example or other countries where dictators exist.

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Imagine a dictator. Imagine someone who has no

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has no care for the for human life,

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who doesn't care about your integrity or who

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you are whatsoever, who's willing to enslave a

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complete race of people and call himself God.

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Imagine the person like that.

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Musa alayhis salam was asked to go and

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speak to him.

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Musa didn't lie. He said, I'm scared. I'm

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scared.

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This is scary.

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Bring me give me Harun. Here's Harun. We're

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scared. We're both scared now.

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It's not just Musa now. We're both scared.

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How do we go speak to this guy?

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It's not simple to go and speak Tifaraun,

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it's not an easy thing. But he went

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and he did it.

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He went and he did it and that

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led to a sequence of events that ended

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with Musa alaihi salaam go walking through walking

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through the Red Sea.

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The day of Ashura is there for us

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to remember that. It's for us to remember

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as Sayidina Husayn when he stood up and

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did the same thing and went through similarly

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what his grandfather went through.

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And when he thought when he saw with

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his eyes what he thought to be what

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he saw to be acts of oppression and

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he decided that he was not going to

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accept it on himself and that it was

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not representing Islam, it was not representing the

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legacy of his grandfather alaihis salatu wasalam he

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also spoke out.

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Within these days, there are memories of people

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who sacrificed,

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who gave what they had, who gave everything

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that they had only for us to take

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a step back and remind ourselves that that's

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what we're required to do as well. We

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are required to offer that which we have.

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And remember why you're doing it too.

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Remember why it is that you offer everything

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you have. You don't do it for anyone

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else.

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Don't do it for your people. Don't do

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it for your nation. Do it for yourself

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so that you save yourself.

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And as you do it for yourself, Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will teach you something in

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your heart that you will find out later.

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When you do it like that, Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala will put in your heart something

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that you will find difficult to articulate and

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explain.

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He'll put in your heart a certain degree

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of love and a certain degree of closeness

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and clarity that you will carry with you

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for the rest of your life. But we

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can't kid ourselves.

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We are here today. You are in this

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Masjid, and I'm in this Masjid because we

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have to be, because I I want to

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save myself.

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You didn't come to listen to me. You

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came to make sure that your jum'ah was

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going to be accepted so that you can

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save yourself. Continue to live like that,

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but prioritize saving yourself. Don't don't do it

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in a mediocre manner.

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Don't if you're gonna try and save yourself,

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really try.

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Go the full 100 miles. Just go the

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full

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the full extent of the journey.

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Don't stop halfway.

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I hope that was a benefit to you.

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