Not Being Attached to the Dunya
Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 30
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The importance of learning from the Prophet Muhammad sall drove in the first semester of Islam, as well as the use of death by the symbol of death in the first semester of Islam. The speakers emphasize the importance of protecting one's identity and behavior, balancing personal life, and being independent. They also discuss the negative impact of toxic love and the importance of learning about the hedge and the theory of a hedge to the best of one's ability. The segment ends with a brief mention of a person named Dean who returned to them after a long time.
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become to a tremendous Hadith concerning the personality of the Muslim.
And this hadith is centered around encouraging the Muslim to have a level of zakat in the dunya. And not to be an individual who is drowning and going overboard and trying to accumulate the zakura of the dunya.
The tremendous companion Ali ibn Abi Taalib, may Allah be pleased with him, he said.
And he was known to make dua to Allah azza wa jal
that Allah blesses him with the dunya but put the dunya in his hands and not in his heart, you will find the person who is going overboard in the dunya in terms of working, hustling, grinding, trying to accumulate wealth. Most people will like that, who have money and they are drawn in the dunya they're not nice people. A lot of times you'll find that they have arrogance. A lot of times you'll find that there is a level of negligence as relates to their deen and as it relates to the people
around them and who are responsible they are responsible for from the foot Cara and Mr. Kane and even their own family members. So I need the ally who used to be a worried used to be afraid and worried about the dunya.
Going into his heart to the degree we compromised his Deen Dean, his principles. So today's Hadith, the Prophet said that Jabril came to him sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and Jabril is the Arch Angel, the main angel in Al Islam who used to come with the revelation.
And when he will come to the Prophet with revelations, Allah Allahu Allah, he was sending them sometimes he will come in the form that Allah created him in with 600 wings. And that happened only two times during the time of Rasul Allah's life, some Allah when he was setting them
and that was when the IRS will revealed F Carabus mera be Kalevi halacha.
And also in the Israa will mirage.
He would also come to him so Allah what He was sending them in a dream, and he will relate to him different issues, and Gibreel will come to him as well Salawat Allah He was salam, one eight, as a man
looking like one of the companions whose name was dead, he abou Khalifa and Kelby may Allah be pleased with them.
They used to come more Jabril used to come to the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as well,
to educate him and to inform him of things. And this is one of those examples right here. He didn't come with the Quran. But he will come for different reasons to go over the Quran with him to inform him of something to advise him with something and here he came to teach him a few issues. And in teaching the navy of Islam some Allah what He was sending by default he's teaching us Allah will tell I mentioned looked at kinda like comfy Rasulillah he was sweating. Hasina. You have in the
Nebby of Islam, the Messenger of Allah a perfect example. So Jabril is teaching him. We've been commanded to follow him. So we have to take the lessons from this, Heidi
gibril said to him, oh, Mohamed,
live for as long as you want to live. Verily, you're going to die
and love whoever you want to love. For verily the day is going to come when you're going to separate from that person who's going to park company from that individual.
And do whatever you want to do from the D
his good deeds, bad deeds, do whatever you want to do. Because you're going to be held accountable for the deeds that you've done and you're going to be rewarded for them good or bad.
And he say you need to know that the honor the shut off of the movement, everybody here he has a level of shutoff.
Someone comes to your house, they can sit in your special chair, they can just walk in your house. There are places in your home that are off limits, you just can't get up and going your kitchen and open up your refrigerator. That's something your honor.
You say you should know that the real honor of the believer is when he gets up and he makes Kiama lane and he prays during the nighttime that's the real shut off.
And know that the main the power that is of the men is if he finds himself, self sufficient, independent, he doesn't need other people. That is as
so we're going to deal with these in sha Allah azza wa jal Foxtrot these little sentences very quickly and briefly in sha Allah azza wa jal, as it relates to his statement, live for as long as you want to live because you're going to die.
This is a deal for the people go overboard. As it relates to the Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu was setting them to think that he never died and he's not dead. SallAllahu it was setting him he died.
But like the other prophets in the messengers, Salawat Allah wa salam, O Allah, him and like the other people who have died from Adams children, people are alive in the graves in the Baratza in a way that Allah knows it's reality, but the Prophet died sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and this is a delille that he was going to die Jabril informed him of that.
Allahu Taala said to the Libyan Islam from the Quran, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Nicomedia. Were in Khomeini turn. Verily, you're going to die Mohammed and your companions are going to die as well. And everybody in this message who's listening to me right now is going to die as well.
He said in the Quran Subhana wa Taala to the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Kulu nevsun That it remote. Every single soul is going to taste death.
Every soul nubby rustle every soul everyone that has a soul is going to taste death. No matter if he is a will lead from the OD of Allah is going to taste death. From the names of Allah azza wa jal is he is Al Haig, Allah the La Jolla moot, Allah is the One who was living and he doesn't die.
Allah put this question to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe where it was setting them
in the Quran, were marginally beschwerden Kubelik can hold
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We have never seen a messenger before you Yeah, Muhammad any human being came before you we never seen a person except that he died. We never seen someone and he had eternal everlasting life. So when you die and if you die, yeah, Mohammed if you died,
do these people think they're going to live forever? No, if he is Habib of Allah, The Phantom of the NBN. The Russell Salawat Tula was cinammon 1/8. And clearly if he's going to die, and he's the most beloved one to live with, everybody else is going to die. Everybody else is going to die. Well my Mohammedan Allah Rasool Kohelet Minh coupling Rasul, matto pootling CalOptima, aka become Mohammed is only the messenger of allah sallallahu it was settled and he is like the messengers who came
before him and they passed away. So if he dies or if he is killed, are you people going to leave your religion and turn back on your heels?
And the Hadith the Prophet told us about something that happened with Musa Salawat Allah He was sent mo I named Musa was known for his strength in his power. Allah sent the angel of death to Musa and the Angel of Death went to Musa in the form of a human being and told him you have to die right now I'm going to take your life I'm going to take your soul. Musa they know the angel of death was doing good of death because he came in the form of a man sided Bukhari and Muslim.
Musa punched them and knocked his eye out. Angel of Death went back to Allah azza wa jal and say Your slave refuses to come. Allah has sent the angel of death back to Musa with his eye fixed up, told Musa put your hand on the back of a fold on the back of a bull for as many hairs that you can grab. That's how long you're going to live and then you're going to die after that, when that Angel of Death came back and as I was fixed up moves
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there are some people given down Allah who say that this hadith in Bukhari and Muslim should be rejected because how can Musa fight the angel of death and so forth and so on. And it's simple and it's easy came to Musa in the form of a man I didn't even know he's gonna be the Angel of Death. Anybody approached you talking about I'm the angel of death and you have to die. He looks like a human being, you're going to put your neck on the chopping block and say, Okay, you're going to
defend yourself. So the point here is Musa was an extremely strong individual. And that said, the little Musa died, everybody's going to die. So Jabril told the NABI SallAllahu, what he was sending them basically get ready for death. And then he told them love whoever you want to love, because you're going to separate from that person. As we look around. And this mosque everybody who's listening to me right now. You have those people who you love them and they love you. Some of us are
married.
You love your wife more than she loves you.
Your wife loves you more than you love her. Some people you love your wife equally, both of you love each other the same.
We have some people who love someone and you love them. And it's a toxic love. It's a dysfunctional love. So we have our mothers, we have our daughters, we have our wives, we have our sons, Auntie's cousins, brothers, people we love.
The Prophet said, whatever the case is, no matter who you love, someone who you're loving, they don't deserve your love someone you love him, they deserve your love, whoever it is, and whatever the case may be.
Love whoever you want to love Mohamed, because you're going to part company from that individual. And everybody is going to taste that everybody without any exception. So that means that we have to stay balanced in our love. Because either you're going to check out before them or they're going to check out before you and if and when they check out what are you going to do lose your mind. You're going to stop living, you're going to commit suicide. Kela Wallahi so the prophet had pure love
SallAllahu it was sending him for his daughters, pure love for his wives. Ish and the rest of them read the Allahu and Hoonah he had pure love Abu Bakar and mirth man, I mean, the rest of his companions Ridwan, Mullah Ali, some of them died before him, he cried, but he kept going on with his mission in life.
He died before some of them sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and they cried and they kept going on with their mission in life. As Allah described them in the Quran with my buddy solutab de la, they didn't change anything. Point is you think about who you love and who you're connected to. You're gonna die and they're gonna die. The question is who's gonna die first
and know this. He mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa ala it was salam yet but remain the latter. For Yara gerth Nyan will, yup, karma Hawaii.
When a person dies, everyone who dies, three things are going to follow him. Two of those things will go with him to the graveyard, all three of them will go to the graveyard, two of them are going to come back and one is going to remain with them.
One will remain with him in his great. He said the two things that will come back your relatives, your family, those people you love those people love you that coming back. The second thing is your wealth. Your wealth is going to be here, whatever you own, and your relatives are going to distribute that wealth. Some of them may steal it, some of them, may you serve it, some of them may do what they're supposed to do. Whatever the case is, those two things are coming back. And from
them are those people who you love. No body is going to jump in someone's grave and say, I want to die with him or take my life in replacement of his no one's gonna say that no one.
The one thing that remains with the dead person are his deeds and his actions. And for that reason, the scholars of Islam said that in this hadith, after the Prophet Minchin sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, love whoever you love, because you're going to park for him and Matthew that He said, was not my shit. fennica musubi and do whatever you want to do, do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be held accountable for that. Now again, some people give down with Allah I heard
someone give down a lot. And this basic simple Arabic of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending me didn't understand him. He's an Arab
gibril Till Rasul Allah, he and he told us by default, do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be rewarded for what you've done. That's not Jabril telling us. Go ahead and don't pray if you don't want to pray. Don't wear hijab if you don't want to wear hijab smoke
We drink Hummer. He's not telling you that it's like the ayat of the Quran in surah through calf calling has become for men SHA FL yoke men woman shot for Satan and yeah Muhammad the truth is from your Lord. So anyone who wants to believe let him believe. And anyone who wants to disbelieve and let them disbelieve. Allah is not telling you to disbelief.
I heard the person using this is to show you have the freedom to disbelieve if you want to disbelieve. The Prophet told us Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam in bed della Dino fuck Tolu anybody who changes his religion, then he should be killed in Islamic law in Islamic State. When I talking about here.
It's not permissible for Muslims blood to be shed, except in one of three instances. And the first instance he mentioned was the one who leaves his religion and he abandons the Jamal of the Muslims. You talking about? The ayat of the Quran told you you can disbelieve. That's not what the AI is saying. What the AI is saying is, if you want to believe then it's up to you, you will get rewarded. And if you want to disbelieve, and that's what a person chooses to do, you're going to be punished.
It's like someone says to his child, or his children, they keep messing about they keep messing about. The father says to him, Okay, you keep it up. You keep it up, that child is not going to say to his brothers, well, I'd be sad to keep it up. Let's keep goofing off.
They know that that's a threat.
Someone is playing with the camera by the electricity, and they're putting things in there. That's what he's gonna get electrocuted. Someone says, Hey, you better stop and he keeps doing keeps doing it person says, All right, go ahead. You'll see. He's not encouraging him and telling him and giving them the green light to do that. That's what the ayat means. And that's what this statement means. Do whatever you want to do, because you'll get the juice out of that particular issue.
With that being the case that hadith is telling us to prepare yourselves, we should prepare ourselves, prepare ourselves for death. Don't go overboard in the dunya be aware and be cognizant of how you behave and how we carry on. That's the meaning of that. Low tide I mentioned just too many is don't be fooled by the dunya Prepare yourselves, for mankind of Yarrow Julius Cara be Faryab Milan and saleha anybody who hopes to meet his Lord, you know you're gonna meet him, you're gonna
die. You're gonna meet your Lord. Then let him do the deeds that are righteous deeds, let them do those deeds. So many ayat of the Quran
for lie to her run, Naco mill highlighted dunya when I biller Hill Hill Road, don't let the highlight of the dunya don't let it fool you. Don't let it alert you. Don't let it put you to sleep and you forget
and don't be a person who forgets about Allah allows things in your lives and make you forget about Allah who's who kind of who what to honor. What total Yeoman total Jonah fie Allah fear the day in which you're going to go back to Allah azza wa jal
and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa, it was setting him said that Jabril mentioned to him and this particular IDF and giving him advice sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam to swim in good FIRA why lm n Shadowfell min.
pm who believed the honor that a Muslim receives is when he gets up in the middle of the night and he prays the Kiama the lave, and that's because he is in communion with Allah azza wa jal, he is communicating with Allah.
And he is communicating with Allah when the vast majority of people are not communicating with Allah and this why he has this shut off. He's honored because he's someone who is different. He's not doing what most people are doing.
We found that there are some people who he may be an Arab. A person may be from Quraysh. A person may be a Sharif it could be from Somalia, it could be from Afghanistan. It can be from Pakistan, as part of the relatives of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a Sayed some people come from certain countries, certain countries, and they have a tribe that is honored, honorable, he has a job that's honorable. Some people like that I'm a salient and he walks around like that, as if he's better than
everybody. And no doubt being saved and being from Quraysh has his virtues but not for the one who's walking around thinking
He's better than everybody.
So a person can be from coration is a calf here. person could be from Quraysh was say yet and He's alive. He's a thief. He's a drunk. He's a motet is a volume is a badger facet.
So the real honor is not the fact that you have a PhD or you have a degree or you have this kind of car, that kind of car you live in that neighborhood over there. That is Ana that's part of ANA no doubt about it. Not living in the ghetto and living in a nice place where safe and clean allies Annette, you if you could protect your deen and so forth so on. You don't want to grow up your kids in an environment where there's danger, drugs, antisocial behavior, that is a level of shadows, no
doubt about it. But the real Shut up. He said in this hadith sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is when a person gets up in the middle of the night, and he makes Kiama lame because he's not like everybody else. I mentioned many I tend to jive Junu boohooman and mythology you're the ruler of boom Tama. You're the ruler of the home.
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we're young for tournament Marzec now so the point here at 20 is Allah describe the people in the Quran that they get up and they forsake their size and get up off of their size in the middle of the night and they mix a lot meaning I add about a dude. The Prophet mentioned to the Companions sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and mentioned to us as well.
And they come back Kiama lane for me know who that the Saudi HeMan public home.
What Korova to Neeraj Beco Monica Farah, tune with a newbie, come out come akala sallallahu alayhi wa sallam you people should take getting up and nighttime and praying piano lane, because this was the way in the practice of the righteous people before you. And this is one of the ways that you get close to your Lord Kuru Batoon. Get close to Allah Corrib. And that's to shut off. The one who prays camelid is not like the one who doesn't pray Kiama lane. He said also that this piano lane is
something that will wipe away your sins and your mistakes.
So the shut off of the Muslim is in that. And it brings us to this idea of what the book is all about and what this hadith is all about like the previous Hadith in terms of rectifying your Islamic character, our Islamic behavior, the Islamic personality, men and women, husbands and wives, teenagers, all of us is when he mentioned some Allah who it was sent. The book is called what the Islamic personality? What's the Islamic personality? Yeah, Muhammad live for as long as you want.
live and live good.
He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam Allah Almighty, my bein is sitting was 17 What Kaylee Moolman you Joe was with Attica, the amount of time or the age of the majority of the people of my own mind is going to be between 60 and 70 years old. And the majority only a few people will go beyond 70 years old. So he has between 60 and 70. The Prophet died at 64 So I'm Allah who it was set in my bucket died at 64 between 60 and 70.
So from this dynamic personality is a person who takes advantage of the life that he has.
Take advantage of five things before five things as the Hadith says, take advantage of your youth before you become old. Take advantage of your good health before you become sick. Take advantage of your free time before you come become busy. Take advantage of your wealth become before you become poor.
He told the people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lied to Zul I will add to Zol koderma Hola. Yo mo Kiama. Use Allah Naropa the two feet of the slave will not move from in front of Allah until he's asked about four things. One of those things is how did he spend his life? How did he spend his youth
so from an Islamic personality is for the person to take advantage of the life. The second thing that we mentioned today from the hadith is the statement sallallahu alayhi wa sallam love people love whoever you want to love, but love the believers and love the people want hate and love the people want to see it good for you and good for others. Don't love the criminals don't love the people want to take people away from the Dean. They want to they want to put in this society
It those things that are impediments and harmful to people worshipping Allah the way it ought to be worship
and do whatever you want to do, because you're going to be held accountable for it. And then the fourth thing is what we just mentioned. He mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa ala it was said to them,
that the shutoff the honor of the believer, it is if and when he prays at the nighttime, and the last portion of the Hadith he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa it was salam. And the might of the believer is when he doesn't need other people. He has aesthetic, nice and a nice
and might might in Al Islam comes from the word is.
It comes from the word, Allah is what Allah He is to wear a suit, he will mean when I can remove that if your team Allah Allah moon, my power is for Allah and His messenger and for the believers but the hypocrites don't know that. They don't know that
is to the law. Hey, Jimmy, all of the ISM belongs to Allah. He gives it to whoever he wants to give it to yours zooming a shadow where you're losing your shirt, he owns the dominion of everything he gives it to whoever wants it. There is it doesn't belong to this country, that country, this white people, this black people, rich people, is a belongs to Allah azza wa jal.
And from there is this hadith is when a person is free, independent, this is important and one, independent is better if you can get to work hard, but it's better to work for yourself and don't work for other people. If you can do that, be independent, to the best of your ability. And that's because number one.
When you're independent, when you're independent, you have freedom to do what you want to do. You don't have anyone over you don't have a boss as such. There is a companion is coming as Abu Malik and it may Allah be pleased with him. He said he along with some people from his tribe came to an Medina and they gave the prophet the bay Salah while he was selling the Pledge of Allegiance.
So they gave him the pledge. They were about eight nine and 10 people he said
he said the Prophet came to them after that and said for some reason, will you people not give me the Pledge. They say yeah, Rasul Allah, we already gave you the pledge. He said, Well, you people not give me the Pledge. They say you're also Allah, we already gave you the pledge. He said, Well, you people are give me the Pledge of Allegiance. The beta. They say we already gave you the pledge. I don't say hola. He said it the fourth time well, you people not give me the Pledge of Allegiance
and they realize
they all stood up and say yes, yeah, Rasul Allah will give you the pledge.
What do you want us to pledge he said that you worship Allah alone. A toe heat. And that you don't make Chick Fil Allah in any shape form of fashion, as should the big Michigan and the big Maaseiah.
And also that you pray and you take care of that prayer. And don't be lackadaisical in that prayer.
Don't be like that. Last week, I think it was we talked about the vulva chain, the vulva chain, and when the last two phases, and he's from the worst people, the one who has two faces, Olivia, yakkety, and hula it'd be watching we're in hula, it'd be watch. It comes to them with a face comes to them with a different face. One of the meanings of Vaudois chain, the one with two faces, is that guy when you see him you believe and you think he's praying because he's praying with us right now.
But when Sinatra Frederick comes in, he doesn't pray.
He doesn't pray in the morning. He's in the masjid and he doesn't pray. People don't know that. And that's between him and Allah. But that's a form of Woolwich Ain.
Taiji Duna, a shadow romance in the law, the law chain, you will find from the worst people with Allah the one who has two phases, right? That people don't know that he's not praying. Does that make it easy and light? No. Because with Allah, he's one of the worst people and that's one of the meanings of that hadith.
So those companions said, We'll give you the pledge on one. La ilaha illa Allah, not just that, but you won't make sure when Allah azza wa jal, and that you're going to take care of the prayer. And then he said the fourth thing, give me the pledge that you won't ask people for anything.
You won't ask people to borrow money from them. You won't ask people for anything if you can help it now. I
Obviously, obviously, you go to a city and you're strange in that city and you're looking for the Masjid. Or you're looking for the home of someone, and you're with your wife and your family, you're not going to drive around in circles and circles and you don't know where you're going. And your wife says, Hey, we've been driving around the city for hour and a half, and we're in the city. What were you doing? Brother Muhammad said, Let's not ask people for anything. That's not the meaning of
that hadith. That's That's stupidity. You you misunderstanding the Hadith, it didn't mean that. It means when you don't have to ask people don't ask them. So the companion, I will Meineke and it. May Allah be pleased him. He said, those eight 910 people that were with me that gave the pledge with me. I will see one of them later on. If one of them dropped something, he's on his horse and he dropped it. The whip he wouldn't get he wouldn't ask someone Hey, young man, pick that whip up and
give it to me pick that back up and give it to me. That thing fell down, pick my watch up, pick my ring my keys up you wouldn't do that. He himself would get off the horse and pick it up himself get back on the horse. One of the reasons for that, when you don't ask people for things they'll never be able to come and say you owe me you remember I did this. I remember I did that. And then he doesn't mean knew. I knew he can't do that because you never asked him for anything.
Another issue is the person can say to you, if you asked him for something, he could say, you needed me I didn't need you.
You needed me I didn't need you. And he has that thing over you, at least in his mind. And then another issue where people have a Tauheed and we know that Allah is running and Allahu Taala is a result. And Allah azza wa jal is alcovy and Allah is the One who has an Marathi he's the one who gives and so on and so on. So the person with that complete towhee complete tow he He doesn't ask people for rakia.
He can't get ripped off. If he doesn't ask people for rakia.
He doesn't ask people for anything. So the people come all the time. Hey, can you do it? Opia can you do rokeya? Can you do rakia? Can you do rokeya? Here? Can you read in this bottle? Can you give me this bottle? Can you realize man, you do rocky on yourself. Want to tell our community again? The best and most effective rakia is for you to do work on your own. There is not a special skill set that you have to have in order to do good work. Yeah. You don't have to have a special station and
manga. You don't have to be half of the Quran. You don't have to be an imam. You don't have to be a thief. You don't have to be a student of knowledge. You can just be a regular person. Do it yourself. The man came and say God I was so Lola. I have a pain in my stomach. When he told him Sallalahu it was send them put your hand on your stomach say Bismillah Bismillah Bismillah three times. And then say I will be lad will call directly when men shall remain. Ajit were over there
seven times they say put it wherever it hurts. He told them man who came to actual Salah do rock yami say you do it is permissible. If you want to ask someone to do rocky I'm not saying that. That's haram. I will mother I Isha was sick. She wasn't feeling well. The Prophet told her SallAllahu had he was sending them You go and tell so and so to do rocky on you.
The family of Jonathan ibn Abi toilet after he died May Allah be pleased with him. Some of his children became sick. The wife told the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he advised the wife of Jaffa take your children to so and so when let them do rocky on your child that goes to show us permissible. But that recent incident that happened in our country right here that recent fitna of Rocky the rocky ripping people off and taking money from people that happens that happens when
Muslims we're not connecting ourselves with Allah azza wa jal.
So concerning the Vina and whiny individuals should try his best to be independent to the best of his ability. But again, I say you have to understand that hadith in its proper context. Don't go overboard, and don't make life unnecessarily difficult for you. There are certain things that you have to ask because people are helping people and that's how we get along with one another. A Prophet used to have a companion southern Allah who it was selling was to come from the desert. And
he would bring herbs from the desert, who were bringing certain things from the desert, you can only find them in a desert, they were not in Medina, and he would give them to the Prophet sallallahu it was setting them and was so Allah said that he was our desert who was a bad deal. Now he's the bad guy. He's the one who comes from the desert. And when he came to Medina, the people in Medina gave him things that he couldn't get in the desert. You can only get them from Medina and that's how the
life is. Life is like that. People of the desert help the people in the metropolitan
Every people must balance. I have two people in the desert in the countryside and so forth and so on. We need each other, but in your personal life, do your best in sha Allah azza wa jal not to ask people for anything for anything.
Okay, why need we're going to stop there in sha Allah azza wa jal.
I want to make a clarification very quickly due to some advice that I was given a 10 B. Last week, I did an interview with a brother, our brother, my brother, Muhammad hijab. I said a few things that a brother by the name of Abdul Rahman from Middlesboro brava I know for a long time, he sent me a text message and he wanted to rectify something I said that was incorrect. And I appreciate what he did. He was the only one who did this and then today, share hobbles. So he contacted me with the same
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He said that when I did that interview, I had mentioned that a chef el bene Rama Tula, he Ty Lee I mentioned that a chef rubbish if Allah was the Imam of a judge with the ideal. That's what I was saying. And I said it multiple times.
And that's what some people have a blue in him say, misconstruing what I learned banning actually said, Rama to lay it what the chef and abahani said was that a chef Ruby Schiphol Allahu Taala he was the high mill of the liwan of a jar Jota ideal, which is different. He was the flag bearer, the flag bearer. It was from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam them when he used to go out to make jihad, he will have a person who would carry the flag of Al jihad. And it was an
honorable position. If you had that position. It was honorable.
So he sent a little ban. He said, He's the flag bearer. So what you understand from the flag bearer is there are people over the flag bearer, and the company of the companions rug, the Alon, this person is the flag bearer for jihad. That's what his job is. He's carrying the flag that meet the enemies. I want to ask you.
Who's better than the flag bearer that was carrying the flag? Who's better than him?
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You guys don't understand the question. The companions with the NABI SallAllahu. wasallam went out to wage war. He said he liked. Someone has the flag. And he's in front of the army with the flag. That's a special job. He has the flag. But who's better than him in that army? Who's better than him?
Is he the best is he's the best one in that army? No, he's not going to be the best one in any army. The general is more important than him, the commander of the army, in this case, the Prophet sallallahu. It was Sunday, Abu Bakar. America's man Ali, according to what we know, yaki them at Asuna. So we wanted to make that issue clear, because of that convenient and I appreciate that from both of the brothers and that's because of the statement of the Ameerul Momineen.
Mr. Libin Abdulaziz May Allah Tala have rocked my upon them and please with him, he used to make dua and say me alive Rama upon the person who tells me about my mistakes. We appreciate when people come to us, and they advise us so that people stay away and talk amongst themselves with Peter. We're calling Heba then, I don't know we have a brother in our class, his name is the one is the red one here.
When I was going to do that
interview, I asked him, What do you think he said, I wouldn't do it. That was his advice. I'm not the type of person gonna get mad at you and become your enemy. No, I appreciate when people would advise but I'd only appreciate the people who talk amongst themselves and they have a lot of collab then you don't want to call your brother may want to say you're you're this You're that and we'll make this and that. I don't know what kind of brotherhood that is. And I don't know what kind of
Salafi that is but I seek refuge in Allah from it. Allah colon. If you brothers have any questions in sha Allah azza wa jal concerning today's Hadith, you can put your question forward. I didn't come shake
you guys have any questions concerning today's Hadith father? Yeah. What's your name?
Hi, Ron. You're from Birmingham in Manchester. You're going to Manchester tonight?
Tomorrow. I don't want to ask you but can you take me Liverpool? Now I'm just joking me
that I'm meet you in Liverpool.
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Brothers asking about the issue of a toxic love. The Prophet mentioned authentic hadith sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Latha you had the rune Allah for Allah use the jab Buddha whoa, whoa lumen Vickerman una Rajaram Canada tattoo Umbra to say to Hello fella Nutella kar. He sent an authentic hadith there are three people who make dua to Allah and Allah will not answer their dua. The first person he mentioned was a man who was married to a woman with bad o'clock, and that man refuses to
divorce her.
She's not good.
She is the type of person who, if a hand reached out to her other than her husband, she would accommodate that hand. She doesn't listen, she doesn't obey. She's destroying her children as it relates to respect and love and be a dad. She's a bad person, fitna drama, that's a toxic love. That's a toxic situation right there. And it works the other way around with the husband as well. Someone being married to someone. This is an example he had on I don't mean any specific situation.
Maybe it was a arranged marriage, and arranged marriage of forced marriage, and they're not compatible. So they are each other's necks like chalk and cheese. It just is not working. They're swearing, they're cursing. They, they want to harm each other. They hate each other. The marriage is becoming a trauma fitna for them that they can't even pray they can't worship Allah that's toxic. Being married to a person who their relationship is dysfunctional by being that relationship. You
are crippling your kids because they see in a bad pitch and image what a father is what a mother is, what love is what relationships are. So all of that is a toxic love. Someone who loves coffee and sugar someone a man loving another man is toxic. A woman loving another woman. Someone wants to molest children toxic. All of that is toxic. That's the love that is haram. But the love that's right, is the one where the people love Allah and love for Allah the way we're supposed to women
unassuming a tepid woman Dooney lay and dad then you had bounnam got her Billa well Lavina almond oh I should do for Bill Allah. From the people, those people who love their partners the way they love Allah, that's toxic, you're gonna get in trouble. You're mukaiyama that share Camilla.
As for those who believe they love Allah the most. And Allah is Allah and Allah any more questions 20 for the
morning
concerning mourning the death of an individual.
Our mother Xena, may Allah azza wa jal be pleased with her said.
After her relative died, someone died close to her. She told the women in her house the people were there Bring me some perfume.
She took the perfume and she put it on so everybody can see. And then she said,
I heard the Prophet say SallAllahu it was said to them.
It is not permissible for a woman to mourn a dead person for more than three days other than her husband. She can mourn for him for four months and 10 days.
So that hadith shows us that the amount of time that we are allowed to mourn meaning you're incapacitated, you're out of commission. You're just in a daze, you can't work. You just can't function. You have three days when you can be like that. After three days, you have to pull up your boots, put your boots on and tie your boots up. You got to get out in the world. You still gonna be missing those people, but you start functioning and you start living. But the woman loses her
husband. She mourns for four months and 10 days she doesn't put perfume on. She doesn't put nice clothes on. She doesn't go out if she can help it. She stays in the house for all of that time. She doesn't go for Juma. She doesn't go to the one NEMA she doesn't go to the Nika pika. If she can help it, some of the scholars slam said even for their age, she shouldn't even go so I'm saying no she can go
and that goes to show the rights that the husband has over the lady. Any more questions for the
Sorry in the people who are going to travel to hygiene Shala and a couple of weeks we're going to give a class about hygiene. I think not this next Friday, but the one after that,
depending upon what day it is Shala
but for those of you who are here right now, and you may not come to the class, you remember, at the * SHA, Allah azza wa jal is a trip of a lifetime. Whoever goes and performs * correctly, will come back like the day his mother gave birth to him. And they were a group of people who had came from Yemen, and they came to meet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam while performing Hajj. And they came without any provisions. And when the Prophet met them, they needed food and they needed
provisions. They left their provisions intentionally Rasul Allah.
He said to them something long Why do you send them where your provisions they said we came we relying on Allah
and allow to reveal the items sold through Bacara telling them what the XO would do for inhalers, Zed Taqwa. When you go on the trip, bring your provisions and the best provision to go with an homage is a tequila.
Bring your food in your drink your provisions, but the best provision is a tequila. So the CHE THON is going to be there at the hijab every step of the way. Trying to make it so that you don't get the most out of performing hudge. So go to hide, knowing that in Ellis lamb, we should do knowledge before actions. So learn about the outcome of a hygiene, the theory of a hedge to the best of your ability before you even get there, especially about the DUA especially about the DUA trying to learn
as many doors as possible. Another thing I would advise is set your affairs straight, have your will ready and pay people back their money and ask people to forgive you if there are some things because some people are going to perform highchair. And at that height, all they're doing all of that effort is that they're just doing things to give it back to somebody else.
And no one in his right mind is going to go to work for a whole month every day at the end of the month. Someone is going to take your money you're going to be upset about that.
So then the B axis people southern lady was selling material at Tirana men and mufflers, you know who the bankrupt person is. They said the one who has no property and no money. He said, Nope. The bankrupt person with us is the one who comes Yokoyama with a salad with sewn with his a cot with hydrogen. But He spilt his blood, he cursed this one out, he falsely accused this one he stole from that one, he did this, he did that. So these people are going to take from his good deeds. And then
if his good deeds are exhausted before they get their heart, their bad deeds will be thrown on him.
So don't be like that, as he mentioned in the Quran, when I took who knew collecting data that the Hustla Herman by the kirtan and katha, don't be like the lady who knit it, and she got it all fixed and it was done. And then she ripped it up. So don't go and do a total fool hij sweating out of fat, tough walking, and then at the end of the day, all of that is going to go to somebody else.
And Allah Tala is the person and Allah azza wa jal is the way he any more questions my man
fi combiotic Elia.
To make tahajjud obviously, if someone wants to make the hedge or they have to go to bed early, the early a person goes to bed bed it is also if an individual has the ability to do the siesta, the pay Lula that was the Sunnah of the Prophet Salla Salamat, sloth ofour he will go to sleep.
Once you go to sleep, you become rejuvenated to do the rest of the day. But when you don't do that pay Lula and you go through the whole day, at the end of the day, you're tired, you're just really beat down. It's not part of what our lifestyles are. Also concerning what we can do is the individual doesn't eat that much. cut down the amount of food that you consume, especially before you go to bed. And then just read about the virtues of a tahajjud. And what Allah azza wa jal has
prepared for the people who have made that digest and it was a part of what they used to do. If you go to Google and just put in their hygiene tips and tahajjud they'll bring you even more than that. Last question. The last question, my man
The eight
brothers asking about their eat
and their events coming up he's mentioned was that Adel abhart their aid will be slaughtered the animal
for their either of their three days for their E three for their either fitter. There's only one day that said,
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
ala read young Aklan was Sherborn. The day of the bead is the day of eating and drinking and the meaning of that is don't fast.
It is not permissible for a person who is not performing homage to fast on the day of eight adhaar the three days as for the people performing Hajj, if a person doesn't have the ability to slaughter an animal and he's making the hijab, a tomato, then he fast 10 days, three days at * three, seven days when he comes home, so you can fast on that day. If you perform a hunch, but the people will not perform the hajj is not permissible for them to fast any of the three days of read read the
earth ha doing Hajj. Okay, but after either after Ramadan, you don't fast on the day of varied but that next day, the second of show up you can start to fats have a wa salam Allah who was selling robotic AI then the beginner where it was hobby and many want to welcome our brother back Nordic Dean. I was student noted Dean
was noted Dean I know I saw him in order Dean was in Cameroon and hamdulillah and he went to Cameroon to
see his relatives and a lot returned to them back to us. So we welcome you back. As he noted, Dean, I sent him like they come Jimmy I will set him on a camera.