Backbiting
Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 19
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The history of Islam is discussed, including its implementation in various countries and the use of false rumors to assert their beliefs. The speakers also discuss issues related to Islam, including debt and the use of false rumors to assert their beliefs. They end with a brief advertisement for a book and a discussion of protecting one's identity and reputation. The speakers also touch on common phrases used in English, including "naughty dog," (Speaker 1), "naughty dog," (inaudible), and "naughty dog." They mention that some people use these phrases to describe someone as fearful or sad.
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today insha Allah azza wa jal, when we come to a really tremendous Hadith that talks about the personality of the believing men in the believing woman,
and the vast majority of people are contradicting this hadith.
And I don't say that to put anyone down or to put anyone out, but I say that to say the light bulb needs to go on in our heads, our minds and our hearts as it relates to trying to be away from this issue of Chroma Kamala,
and maybe your SallAllahu Sallam mentioned for Hassall four characteristics in this hadith, all of them are bad. So the believer has to be away from these four characteristics. They share, I will hide if Al Halaby haffi the Allahu taala, the author of the book, he called this particular chapter
Elohim but to lace it full movement, that backbiting making Riba is not a part of the description of the believer.
And the course of a day is almost impossible to find a person from this ummah, who wakes up in the morning and goes to sleep at night without making Hiba.
And the Rebbe that he makes or she makes sometimes is from the closest people connected to them. We may rebuff our mothers our fathers Brothers Sisters, we may live rebuffed Orellana riba of people who are poor riba of the companions of the worst people who you should make Reba.
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Our new Muslim brother wive. Reba is back biting,
back biting. So the chapter is about the believer doesn't mean Riba. He shouldn't make Riba.
The Prophet sallallahu it was setting them gave the prophetic definition of Riba and he said that it was the Cuca Ahok Bhima Yatra for Canon NAS ya rasool Allah, when can you actually mine a call?
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Reba. Backbiting is mentioned in something about your brother.
Something he doesn't like, in his absence?
They say yeah, Rasul Allah, but what if what I say is true. He's not there. But I said, it's true. He has a foul smell coming from him.
He's tall, he's short, he's overweight. It's true. What if I say and it's true. He said, If what you say is true,
you have fallen into Riba, you ate his flesh. And if what you say is not true, then you have made Bhutan. Bhutan is around what is Bhutan? Again?
Bhutan, when you accuse someone of something that they're free of their body of what's the word again? You've slandered him, you slandered him. So when you listen, Reba is mentioning something about someone in his absence. That is true. But he's not there to defend himself. If you don't have a religious reason to say that, then you've made Riba
and if what you said is not true, then it's even worse you have slandered that man. And look what happened with the companions. The problem was travelling sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with his companions. And while they were traveling, they woke up late and they miss the fajr prayer.
Rasul Allah Mr. Fajr prayer suddenly Allah what He was setting them with his companions by accident, they didn't mean it happens to the best of them. Salawat Allah He was salam ye. So when the people woke up, and they were preparing to do the prep and things like that get themselves together. I Buchan Omar, they had a man who was responsible for waking them up and he didn't wake him up their servant. So he was still sleeping. They came to him and say, hey, hey, wake up. Wake up. You're
supposed to wake us up.
Mei said, Man, you sleep a lot. This guy is sleep Allah one of them said to the other. This man he sleeps a lot. That's all they said. He oversleep Cecily salah.
A man woke up they said go and tell the prophets Allah Allahu Allah. He was sending them that we are hungry. Can you send us some food if you had some food? The man when the man in Seattle so labu Bucky, Norma they sent me and they said to you said I'm on a camera to live with Ricardo. And they asking you Do you have any food to send to them? The prophets Allah Salam returned the synapse, he say you go back and you tell them that I say why they come Samara to lobera Cat and tell them that
they already ate.
He came back and he told them Rasul Allah gives you the set times and he said, the two of you already ate. They said we didn't eat. What is that? A miracle? What's going on? So being students being from Northern AMA, they wanted to know, what did these words mean to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he could have said, maybe he thought we didn't eat and just left the issue. But the Companions always wanted to learn and research. So they went and said to him, yeah, Rasul Allah.
What do you mean we ate? We didn't eat anything. Why did you say that? He said, You remember what you said about that man? And this is from the Mirage exact of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, not the animal *, the unseen Jabrill informed the Prophet revelation came and he found out what happened. Not because it's Hauser, NASA, everywhere, omnipresent. No.
You remember when you said that man sleeps a lot? He say yes. They say yes. Remember? You said when you said that there's a Riba? And as the Quran said, Are you Hibou ahead? Oh, cool, man. Yeah, cool. A he he made a 10 character move. Allah says Heba is like eating the dead flesh of your brother. That's what the Quran described as reverse so some major sin. He says, So then when you say he slept a lot, you said that to him, he slept a lot. Yeah, here we said that. He said, Well, you ate his
flesh, and I can see his meat between your teeth, your canines and your molars. You ate his flesh. They say y'all
Rasul Allah ask Allah to forgive us ask Allah to forgive us. He said, No, you go in Acts that man to forgive you.
And all he said was all they said was the man slept a lot. That's all they said. The man slept a lot.
And the things that we say about people, and may be true, it may be true, but it's much worse than that. And the reasons why we say it, is to bring them down a lot of times to make ourselves be up. I go back in, may Allah be pleased with him. That wasn't the golden the objective. They didn't like the fact that they missed the fajr prayer. So they said what they said, and when we drink in LA Slamet 20 for the new Muslims, we drink with our right hands. We drink tea, coffee, coal, hot
character, de Limon, everything when I write hands, okay, with our right hands, because the Prophet told us that SallAllahu it was set it up. So listen, if this is Riba, Man, this guy sleep a lot.
Then what about what we do and what we say? So that's the name of this chapter. And the last portion of the hadith is what deals with riba were there three things that were mentioned prior to that, that we have to avoid.
The first one is the statement of the NABI SallAllahu. He was telling me this authentic hadith and abdulai being Allah, may Allah be pleased with both of them. He said that the Nibi mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, anyone, anyone who tries to intercede on behalf of someone who the head from the Hadoop of Allah has to happen. Anyone who does that particular thing, anyone? That's that? Big problem. Big, big, big problem. He has opposed Allah in His command in his religion and his
Deen. So the meaning of that hadith is in our deen, if someone steals, it gets his hand cut off. If he stole enough, if someone made Zina, he was married, the person is flogged to death, capital punishment, corporal punishment, they are dude of Al Islam. When you make a mistake, there is some retribution in Al Islam, the law of Allah azza wa jal is that this will happen and that will happen. Now someone comes in, and because of his position, because of his relationship, because of whatever
he's able to get between the heartbeat and establish, and that thing that he did, it is let go. So because he's important, he comes in, he says, like in the Muslim world, all over the Muslim world, Pakistan, all over the Muslim world, in parts of Africa all over with no exceptions, Saudi Arabia everywhere. You can kill someone. And if you got money, you get off the hook. Because you come from a prominent family or someone prominent gets involved. There is no exception. And Allah knows best
all over the Muslim world.
That's the first thing.
The second thing he mentioned Salah when he was sending them, anyone who dies, and he owes people money has a debt, a debt, then the score won't be settled. The score won't be settled with money, the dinar or the Duran. The score is going to be cielo yomo Qiyamah by the Hasselblad and the Ziggy art.
Back then, it was an issue where people used to try not to be in debt. And when they were in debt, they used to really have a lot of Taqwa as it relates to the debt. If a man was indebted to another man, and the man who is indebted, wanted to give a companion who he was indebted to a gift, he wouldn't take it. He wouldn't take it. Because he said, this is kind of like Riba.
And he didn't want this person to be filling, he has to give him something to cool him out. And maybe you suddenly love what he was selling them. He didn't pray over the person who committed suicide. And he didn't pray over the person who owed a debt. Those the only two people he didn't pray over the salata, well Janessa. The only two those two. One more is the man who stole from the spoils of war that he had Hello, they made Jihad and he took something and then tell the people and
he stole it. Those three people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to the people, you pray over him. Now if he didn't pray over people who died with a debt, that means he wouldn't be praying over the vast majority of people from our Ummah today.
Because almost everybody is in debt. And I'm not talking about that debt that you have to take because you're in trouble. So you had to borrow money to get this thing sorted out. I'm talking about
The debt that people take out for things just to live high on the hog as they say, people live beyond their means. So he has a credit card and things like that. And he or she living beyond their means. The third thing that he mentioned some Allah who it was sending them in this hadith is and this is tremendous. Man ha some of the ball tell him well, who are ya limo? Anyone who argues on behalf of falsehood, and he's arguing, and he knows his falsehood. His side, the truth is not with
him, the Hawk is not with him. He knows the heart is with his opponent, and may be in a court of law. It may not be in a court of law. It may be between the relatives, it may be in the street, it may be in a store, anyone who argues and he carries on an argument, and he knows he knows that he is arguing and falsehood is on his side, anybody who does that, he will remain in the anger of Allah until he stops doing that. Until he stops doing that. There are people who argue, and they know that
they're the hackers not with them. The man got married, he got married, his wife found out that he got married somehow. But he doesn't know she thinks that he got married. But but but she doesn't know. And she steps to him say Yo, what's the deal? You got married? And he said, Well, law, he wants to do it and he's just going off. And he knows full well, what he's doing is wrong.
That hadith is applicable to that. It's not just you going to the court of law and your alliance.
But it is even worse in the court of law. Because you're swearing by Allah, you tell him the truth and so forth and so on. You remain in the anger of Allah until you abandon that. Number four, and this is why the chapter is talking about a riba was mentioned Riba. He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa, Adi, he was salam. Anyone who says something about a movement, and that thing that he says about him is not true. It is not in him and it's not true, then this person will be forced to be in the rubber
car.
And he won't come out of it.
Until he stopped saying what he is saying, but he won't stop it. The Wrath of the cabal is different interpretations. One interpretation is rather it means Mud, mud in dirt, like murky waters with mud and dirt
is pass pass purse. So in the narrative, Jahannam, yomo Kiana. The reward of accusing someone and saying something about someone that's not true, is that the reward is you'll be burning in that mud with that plus, some of the scholars said the other meaning of that is the salt, the juices that come from the people of the Hellfire. Why would you be like him in Danika people burning from the hellfire, they're gonna have sweat, they're gonna have blood, they're gonna have pus, whatever
liquids come out, whatever liquids. There's a hadith that said that the people are the Jahannam they have liquids that are going to come out of them. So this is the reward of the one who says about a Muslim something like the Prophet said. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Man Cara Lee he got a doula. Oh, yeah, caffeine. Forgot bad. Bihar Duma. Anyone who says about a Muslim his brother, hey, you enemy of Allah. He saw him doing crack. Oh, he's a crackhead. He's addicted to heroin. He can't get
off of it. He's an alcoholic. She's a prostitute, a crime, a common law. And we know that it's out in the open. They are Muslims and they're doing something bad. And you say to him, Hey, you enemy of Allah.
Or, hey, you catch it, you're careful. Because I had or Hadith said Whoever does this thing. They they they won't go to Jana or something like that. So the person says you're catching Prophet Muhammad said SallAllahu it was said to them that that word that he said you catch him? enemy of Allah is gonna go on one of them. If he's really the enemy of Allah and a hit him. He's really a catch him in a hit him. And if not, it's going to come back to the one who said it.
So that's Reba. That's Reba. We're going to deal with the four issues and there's a lot to say we try to get done with this as soon as possible.
As it relates to the first issue when in Finland I really hope that we all pay attention. We try our best to avoid these things.
This is why having classes listening to lectures on the internet, being around people going to remind you, we need that we need that injection we need that boosts Remi that vicar. He says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam, whoever tries to intercede when there is a law and the people they have done something, and the law is supposed to get them now, then if you do that, it's a bad issue. There's only one Hadith I want to mention concerning that hadith in Bukhari and Muslim, the hadith
of salad Bulu. Zaid, and it's important that we know who Salah Ibnu Zaid was I don't have time to go into his details, but his father Z Bunnahabhain, etha. He used to belong to Khadija our mother in Jamia may Allah be pleased with her. She gave the father to the Nebby as a gift.
She made him the Prophet slave has had them. When the Prophet took possession of them before Islam, he used to be close to him and he used to treat them good. And then in Islam, He treated Him even better. And then the Nabhi said to the people in Mecca, this man, this man, right, he has either been ohada He's my son, he's my son, if I die, he inherits from me, if he dies, I inherit from him, which is a big thing. But Islam came and it destroyed that you can adopt people in Ellis land, you
cannot adopt the people. One of the reasons why this ruling came is because of this man, this man z the new Haritha
he had a son and his son came from a lady her name was own Baraka or Baraka. She was a black lady, and her color very black. She was an older lady. The Prophet told the Companions anybody want to marry a lady from an agenda, let them marry Baraka, all the people like I'm marrying her. She's Oh, she's dark as well. I'm not marrying her.
Z said I'll marry her. Yeah, Rasul Allah, lady from Ghana. They got married, they had Osama. Osama came out dark.
So he has a long story. He was like Hassan and Hussein who sama like Hassan and Hussein to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam has been Hussein, their mother is Fatima, the daughter of the NABI SallAllahu wasallam. So Zaid is like his son, Zane has to summer. So summer was like, has an Hussein like Oh, mama, like those companions, who are his grandchildren. May Allah be pleased with all of them. And sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. There was a lady from Quraysh, Croatia different tribes, one
of the tribes is called Benny and Masoom, the tribe that Roman comes from, and they're from Croatia. So they're from the Ashraf and they're from the best and the elite. Like we have where we come from. There are some people come from the lower caste. And some people come from the higher clap cast. Every place has that. Every place has that in the Muslim world. Anyway, she was from the high class of Polish, this lady stole something from Quraysh when she stole something, her hand has to get
chopped off and Ellis lamb. The people of Quraysh started saying, nah, we can't let that happen. That'd be a bad reflection on us, the men of the community. It's like we weren't taking care of one of our women and she went out and and stole so it reflects on all of us. We can't let that happen. Who can we go to to go and make she thought they want to go and make intercession? They said, No one can do this except Oussama, the loved the beloved of the Nebby your little child, you'll look the
daughter that you love a lot. The father is really really really upset. If the daughter come and say I need the rat to you real quickly the highlight you get what's up Binti, she started saying listen, you know that guy who owes you money that just just let him go because of his love for his daughter and she came she touched his heart like that. He said, I am gonna give him a pass and let them go. That's how it is. Osama came and say God also Allah, please let that lady go, you know, Quraysh and
this and that, and this and that. And the Prophet loves who sama. But when he said that, the prophet became angry sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He said to him and to the people. Were there a touch fine. We had them in hadoo dilla Yeah, Oussama
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are you trying to intercede as it relates to the corporal punishment in the slam? The cop
Want to punish me? You're trying to get involved and make that stop and don't go forward. He said Verily, people came before you, the Yahoo then the NESARA al Kitab. If an honorable person is Sharif, if they stole something, they will let him go and they wouldn't do anything to him. But if the week the dice, then significant, if one of them stole something, then they would do the HUD down him. He said, I swear by Allah, if Fatima, the daughter of Muhammad, if she stole something, I'm
gonna cut her hand off. Show him the justice of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that if you were the closest person to him, it didn't mean anything. It didn't mean anything to him. When it came to issues like this, the Naboo sallallahu alayhi wa, it was salam, unlike what we have in the Muslim world today, and don't look at the whole can look at ourselves, look at ourselves as it relates to practice in this religion, even in issues like this when you have to take a sigh. We give
people passes who don't deserve passes. So that was an issue that destroyed and then Kitab Eliyahu, Diwan NESARA and one of the reasons why this is a problem and it's many problems. We don't have the time to deal with this issue and everything that's concerning it is that Eliza Jelena is religion. Allah decreed that the HUD the corporal punishment the corporal punishment capital punishment is this or that or this or this or that. So if anyone comes to try to change it anyone then you are not
positioned to Allah that's what the Hadith said. Fuck dog de la huffy, Emery he anyone who does that he has opposed Allah in his affair. I'm gonna whom Shoraka shadow Ruda, whom in a dean, my Lamia demby, Hila marlim. Yet, then big ALLAH, do they have partners who have legislated for them? What Allah didn't give them permission to do. So Allah has said, Anyone who does this, this should happen. But because I got money on important, I get involved when I say no. And it's just not with
the Muslims. It's just not with the Muslims, there was a double standard in the western world in America, in the UK, if a white European does something, if a person who has money does something, they'll get a pass, if a person of color does the same thing, or Muslim does the same thing. There's a different double standard. So with this thing about what's going on, with these people being accused of taking advantage of women here and there, you will find the black people, the black
people, no matter how powerful they are, they're going to jail. They're going to jail. The Bill Cosby is of the world for an example they are going to jail. But when the white people do it, same thing or even more, they don't go to jail, they lose their jobs and things like that. So the point here is this issue in Islam, the prophet made it clear
if a ruling has been given, it's not for anybody to come and try to get involved and prevent the HUD from the hadith of Allah. The second issue about the debt, anybody who dies and he has a debt, and even pay the debt, you won't be able to pay the debt with the dinar, you won't be able to pay the debt with the debt at home, the pound the dollar, the euro, it's going to be with your Hasselblad and your CD at with the exception of the person who he said about them sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
for live for to Cologne Domino, Allah Allah. There are three people who Allah will be responsible for them. Allah will take care of them. One is the one who went out for jihad. He said be the lead. So if he gets killed in the real jihad, not Boko Haram, not Shabaab, not ISIS is or the Islamic State, not that stuff. The real Jihad that we don't apologize about, he goes out, he gets killed, Allah will take care of his family. He goes out Allah take care of him as well brings them back. The
third one is the one who gets married. He's young, he doesn't have a lot of money or whatever. If he's really getting married for his Deen, Allah will take care of him. And the third one, the one who takes a debt, but he really wants to pay it back. Allah will help him to pay it back in his life or when he dies. When he dies, Allah is going to give them friends as hob. Relatives people know him, a situation will come where his debt will be paid by Allah azza wa jal. This hadith is talking
about the one who's taking a debt and he's not trying to pay the debt. So therefore his case your MO Kiana, you're gonna have the ability the person will have the ability to pay money. It's going to be what that has nothing to say yet. And that comes from the authentic hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and it's important. He acts his companions to the rule.
Emanuel mirthless Do you people know who the bankrupt person is? Do you know who he is? They sell mostly Safina Ya Rasulullah manleigh Dharohar Mala who were
the mufflers from amongst us in our society the way we think and we believe is the one thing I know money doesn't have any money no don't have no dinner no money. He has no powers no dollars ain't got no cash, nor does he have any property. He doesn't own a car he doesn't have property. He doesn't know anything.
The Prophet said and mostly Salman Murthy alive yet to your moon piano to be Salam Salatu was the curtain was so many were cut, shatter my hair they
were cover for her they were Akela mother had were suffocate them had what Dara have. For your Taha them in her sanity he will have him in her celerity forever finally it has Allah to cobbling you
to rehab. Okay, that min Kataya home will Tory Hatari fumitory
the bankrupt person in our Ummah, is not the person who lost all of his dough, hustling and grinding and going into business. So he went bankrupt. He filed for Chapter 11 in America. It's not the bankrupt person in our Ummah,
the bankrupt person and I will miss the one who will come yomo piano. He fasted a lot. He has a lot of prayers. He has a lot of zakat. He made hajimeru Umrah. She's wearing hijab Jill bad cop. He's a student of knowledge he's memorizing. He's given Dawei to Allah, he's going and give him money to Syrian doing this and doing that. All those things that people inspire you to do. He's in the front roll in the salon. He's doing all of those things, getting his jihad on.
But that person will come Yom Okayama. But what did he do? He cursed this one out he argued with him and cursed him out. This one over here. He accused him of committing Zina. You only been have delille he accused him accused her of being an adulterous adulterous. This one over here. He hit him, he spilled his blood. This one over he took his money. So y'all know Kiama he's gonna get his house a net. He's gonna get his house in that he's gonna get his house and he's gonna get his house
in it. And if all of his Hassane that are taken before the people that he did wrong, get their Huck their bad deeds will be taken from them and be thrown on him. So this issue about losing your house and that and your car being
other people saying that say yeah, being thrown upon you is a serious issue, let's say to Emmanuel Buhari. And Emmanuel Bukhari said, when I found out the Rebbe was haram, I found out Heba was haram. I didn't think anybody was worth me giving them a hacer net. No one's worth it. Not my wife, not my children, the only people who are worth me giving them my good deeds, my mother and my father. He says so for that reason, I held myself back, and I didn't make give up. And it was his job as a
Muhaddith. Who know a genuine ideal. It was his job to say this one is a cadaver lab in the Hadith that went over this guy, even Hadith, this one over there forgotten Hadith. This one over there is the Jilin Hadith. And that's why Imam Al Bukhari when you look at the criticisms that he made of the worst people, the worst people I'm not talking about these people of Hadith, who just made some mistakes. And talking about the one guy even the people who fabricated Hadith they made up stuff. Al
Imam at me will call them a de Zhao, Al Imam and Nissei we'll call them a shaytaan Al Imam Malik, we'll call him a bliss and so forth. And Imam Bukhari will say Fie, he never in him is something
in him is something he wouldn't say is worse, as bad as the other ones. But the scholars knew if Buhari said that it's a serious issue, but that's the level of the water. The level of a tequila of Al Imam Bukhari was an imam of a joke with tideal haka. So here I come. And I'm a revert. I know nothing about adjust with ideal, but I talk about Muslims like getting no tomorrow. I talk about Muslims like there's no tomorrow but we're going to come to that inshallah. So the second issue that
whiny is that we understand
the real debt is not the debt of the dunya the real debt is the debt of the eye Hara, the dean of the dunya. Maliki yo Medina at Dean is the Dane. I lost a lot of the day
Have the Dane, the Dane people are going to be looked into you're gonna have to pay that money back. But you don't pay it back with currency. You're going to pay it back with the house and that may Allah azza wa jal protect us from that issue. person comes. And he thought and he thinks, and he expected that you will get this kid that only for that stuff to be thrown in his face, big, muscular, big, muscular, you're going to marry someone, and you're in love. You're really in love
after being patient, you want to get married. And you really believe that that beautiful sister is going to be your soulmate. And you are making the teeth of your life. I'm going to get married, and I'm going to live here, we're going to have children and my first child is going to be a remodel. I'm not cleaning as I want. And I'm going to have five girls three boys and that's what you did. And then the day right before then he got her father calls you say that wedding is off, son.
You can't get married. And they don't give you any reason. Any excuse. After you've been building this up this excitement, this expectation for the day of your kneecap, your friends, your family, all of them are going to come. But then the day before the wedding or the day on the wedding. The father says look, look, look, look, look, this wedding is off. Can you imagine the embarrassment, the heartbreak, the headache, the muscala when Allah Hill methyl Allah yomo keum is worse, you don't
want to come your mukaiyama and your good deeds are jammed up. Student of knowledge, a student of knowledge and all of that that you did. And the people around you were lazy, they weren't doing anything. The I won from the OMA the regular people from the OMA they're not trying to learn anything. If they come to the dentist, they sit in the back. Not that that's haram. You come you memorize, you're studying, you're reading, you want to come home a piano for these things to be
thrown in your face problem. That doesn't mean that we're telling you in this dunya go in and take debts just take debts because the real debt yomo piano is your house and I'm not saying that. But I'm saying that the reality of the issue is the real debt. Yeoman piano is the one where you get paid back in the hustle net of people or the car that the person has gets thrown on them. The third issue that was mentioned in this hadith of the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that depicts and
shows who was clearly how the Muslim should be and what he should not be doing. Is that the NABI SallAllahu it was sending to mention anyone who argues and he's arguing with falsehood, Balton and he knows is falsehood, then he will remain in the anger of Allah until he leaves it.
This hadith is really important, this portion of the Hadith because it shows a principle of the Sunnah, that is important guys. And that is something that the scholars say as your ruler, Bill J.
A person is excused if he doesn't know something. So if he prays towards the peddler but it turns out not to be the kibble and he made a mistake. He's not held accountable and Allah to Zhao was an Emirati alhaja when this young woman Stokely who Allah He, Allah will forgive the members of my mama, for whatever they do out of making mistake they forgot, or they were compelled. So you have to have knowledge about something if you made a mistake, and you didn't have knowledge, Allah azza wa
jal, He forgives you. He loves the river he loves the fact that people have excuses and not knowing is an excuse. And this is why we don't make tech fear of breadwinners. We don't make tech fear of people who are from the Shiite, we don't make tech fear of them. Because these people are growing up, many of them not knowing their religion, not knowing their religion. I went to the grave site the other day in my community, there was a group of people from a country I won't mention where they
come from, so that if this work is out, I don't want anyone to be offended. But it was my first time going to a janazah for these people. And the bid that was taking place at the janazah blew me away. Innovation, but the people think what they're doing is in Allah, you had to see it, you had to see it.
I mean, it was really amazing. And that's because people don't know their religion now. Toe heat is shit ship is a towhee with many Muslims bed
is the Sunnah. And the Sunnah is a Buddha with many Muslims. If the man guess I'm the member, and he's passionately speaking the hot bodies, he's talking
Some people say, Why is he so mad?
Why is he so mad?
And that's because the Nibi use of Allah what He was sending when he gave the hook. But he used to be like that, as the companion said, but the one who doesn't know that, they will say, in any given masjid, why is he so upset? Because they don't know the Sunnah.
So the point here, the Hadith said, Min ha Sama, fie Balton. And
anyone who argues about something that's falsehood, and he knows this falsehood, now for the one who doesn't know is falsehood, there's a different issue. So two people have an argument. Both of them believe that the hackers with them, and they argue in that case, back and forth. This hadith doesn't apply to them. He has a delille he has a delille. Maybe one of them has a Shabbat. But he believes what he's doing is the right thing. This hadith is not applicable to him. It's not applicable to
them. This is the one who knows he went to the court of law with these non Muslims. And he knows he's lying on behalf of his relative his Muslim brava against the non Muslim he knows he's lying. This is talking about you if you're taking the rights of people. Now if you're trying to save your Muslim brother from full moon then that's a different issue. He is going to be all press so you go and say something so he doesn't get old press and you don't take the rights from anyone that's
different issue. That's a different issue. Allahu Tada mentioned in the Quran, and Allah has been said about people who argue a lot big muscular women and Nazi main Euro gebouw aka kolu Phil highlighted dunya while you shade Allah, Allah Martha kalbi, he will who Allah, Assam, from the people, yar Mohammed, and people follow Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam from the people, you know, are those people when they talk? Their speech pleases you you are amazed and pleased at the fact they've
been given the gift of God.
What he's talking about, you amaze, you're blown away. And then that person, that person, he calls Allah to bear witness that he's telling the truth, whoa, he I swear by Allah. Allah said, but in reality, he is the worst people when it comes to argument. He is allegedly sob. He is a person given to argument. So it's a bad characteristic for the Muslim to have.
Even if you're not arguing with what is boxhill Just to be an arguable
just to be a person who argue that Prophet says Allah Allahu Allah, He will either it was selling them in them in a shed the nurses are there the normal piano T Allah Abdul Salam, O Allah, do Hassan, the person who will get the worst punishment from the people who will get the worst punishment. You'll know piano are the people who are argumentative.
She has a husband, that dude is argumentative, he won't let letting go. They'll argue is done. dusted, finish it praise it comes back and another thing and they right back at it again. Or he has a wife who's like that. Or a mother who's like that, or father who's like that. That's a bad characteristic. Then it'd be mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Abu Dhabi in Allah, Allah Abdul Hassan. From those people, Allah hates the most out of all of the men, all of the people. The
one that Allah hates the most is the one who was argumentative. This is without arguing and Balton in what is falsehood, just being an argumentative person. We get into a dispute misunderstanding.
The person says what he has to say. And then it's done. You say your piece he said his piece is done let it go. But the hola doll Kasam he is the guy who keeps going. The lady who keeps going
you know? You don't want to marry a lady like that. I'm going to tell you guys you don't want to marry not that I know. I'm just saying generally speaking. You don't want to marry her. You know your central nervous system. It gets into your central nervous system and before you know it you blow up yes you don't want to marry a person like that. Look at this issue as well. When he told us our Selim is serious about one man killing a fee he can Munna African calissa When cannon feel
hustle to minha canopy hustle to minimum for things. If a person has all four of these things. He is a true blue straight up and down like six o'clock Moon ASIP Prophet Muhammad didn't say straight up and down.
As for you to understand, he is a true global asset. If these four things have lived him, and if he has one of the four, or two or three, if he has one of them, then he has a sign of the hypocrites. Number one. First thing he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that to Mina Hana, if you leave something with him a trust, he breaks the trust, wherever that death occurred, and if he speaks, he's lying, he lies. He's not telling the truth, sign of the monastic number three, he mentioned
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was a wherever I had another. If he gives a contract, if he agrees to a contract, or he agrees to a word, he's going to act treacherously and break his word. And number four, either ha sama Thatcher. If he argues, he becomes a Thatcher. A Thatcher means he starts using curse words. He starts swearing like a soldier, like like a like a sailor. I mean, all of the curse words in the book, and we're going to come to those curse words as well. And also, that it is if he
argues, he's becomes fatter for your another meaning of that is, when he argues with you. He's arguing and he knows he's lying. He's not telling the truth. He's lying with falsehood. So before going to the last point and why he this is the reason why, listen, you should try to abandon argument altogether. Say your piece is What Al Banna used to say all the time, right? Not to lie. I mean, he said, say your word, and then just leave meaning, say your word, your point of view your
position and leave it. You don't have to keep going back and forth, especially with these religious arguments. The brothers a young brother in Ellis lamb. She's a young sister in Ellis land, that internet social media is a big muscular, because everybody is a Mufti. He's a Mufti. So they arguing about things back and forth, back and forth. They bring a deal you bring a little against them, they bring if you bring it against them Hadith you bring and we're going back and forth, and the Quran
and the Sunnah, they were not revealed for that. Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam April could tell if it
were there, the left arm Docomo
read the Quran, as long as your hearts are together. But once they start dividing, because he's saying it, he said, then stop, get up and disperse. The Quran wasn't revealed for that. I tell you a deal. And then you push my deal away with another deal and we going back and forth, back and forth. They are those people believe based upon ayat of the Quran that you'll hold and then Asara are our brothers and their agenda. You can understand that there is some is that say that he bliss, Allah
told them that it had to bow down to the old bow down except the bliss. So that person thinks that he believes is from the melodica. So this one thinks a bliss is from the melodica. And that went over there believes that Andrew Kitab and Jana and they are brothers, you explain your point of view. And then let's say
he needs a little bit more elucidation and explanation you try to give it to him. But you see he staunch on his thing. Hey, I don't have time. Say you're Kenny, my former MP rollout. That's it. So it's better just to abandon arguing altogether. He says Allahu alayhi wa salam enter. Tsar Iman be baiting and fear about the Jana, the men teracle Murrah when Cana Mohaka. I will be the guarantor. I guarantee that the person who abandons arguing although the truth is with him, I will guarantee your
entrance into the rabbit hole, Jana.
The heart is with you. The heart is with you. But you're willing to let your heart go. I'm not going to argue with you people. I'm not going to argue with you because argumentation is a bad characteristic in this religion. Allah Allah hates the argue. That doesn't mean you don't have the heart to argue for your heart. You can argue for your heart, you go to court of law, argue for your heart. But let's just say people want to take you to court or you have been wronged and you want to
take people to court, you could take them to court. But that'd be the last alternative. And if you can let it go. Believe in anyone who leaves something for Allah Allah will give him better than that. As the Hadith says Men Terrica shaking the larvae are what the hula hoop man who hired women who anyone who leaves something for Allah, Allah will give them better than what he left off. So try not to argue and you little Chabad
Are you little guys?
Yeah, yeah, you little guys. That goes for you too. Don't argue with your sister
to argue with your sister. You got to start being in training days training day right now. Training Day right now
and that when they want to argue with you and just let it go, brother just let it go. Who's gonna? I was first no Elizabeth. Just let it go brother leave it for Allah and let her go in inside of the salon a chroma Kamala is minus ma mine. No, it's mine, it's mine. You have to say, Man, I'm a man. No, I'm a man's man. You can have it and you let the sister go and she has it. And then later on, when you get big and shallow and you get married, and your wife wants to argue, you're just gonna
it's gonna be real easy for you. But if you will, little guy and you really tripping out like that.
It's not a good characteristic. That's for you little brothers to understand that. Stop arguing with your sisters and your brothers, siblings arguing back and forth. Allah doesn't like that. Allah doesn't love that. Allah hates the argument. And the one who is his heart is her heart. He gives it up, she gives it up. It's your sister is your brother. Give it up to your sister, your brother. And then Allah azza wa jal is going to give you something better than that.
The last issue mentioned in this hadith is about saying something anyone who says something about his brother, that is not true. It's not a true characteristic about his brother. He will be caused to be in that pus, or the fluids and the liquids of the people have Jahannam until he leaves what he's been saying, and he won't come out or he won't leave it. You know, when he we are living right now in a time where as I told you, that things are upside down.
There is an individual who is getting close to Allah and he makes it the corrupt Illa by killing people. I watched the program today on YouTube, about ISIS. With all of these young sisters from the west from America, trying to go back to their country. I saw one young sister from Yemenis descent, she was Yemen Nia,
and she wants to go back with her child. She got married three times first husband killed. second husband, she had a baby 18 months that her husband was killed. She got married without her Wali. She was brainwashed, groomed. Now she wants to go back to America. After watching her story, because she's in a news under that was these people were in ISIS, and they would tell him how this is not Islamic State. And I realized that once I got there, and he started telling the stories, I could not
believe it. I couldn't believe what these people thought they were doing was true.
It's our religion.
Who would accept Islam if this is the religion of Al Islam, what they were doing?
Just amazing. But the people of Isis that hermitage they get close to Allah azza wa jal by killing people. Do you guys know, in the long Hadith about what happens to a person when he dies, if he's a movement, he dies. And then after the people bury him, and I don't really want it to talk about this, but it's important,
the Angel of Death comes to him. And the angel of death takes the soul of the movement. And it takes it out of the body and it comes out the way water drips real easy, you know, if I just drip this water, he takes it out real easy. And when he takes it out, the mullah eka come and they sit and witness it for as far as the eyes can see.
As far as the eyes can see, one of the hadith is show the great number of them and that is that
there are not four fingers you can put in the heavens, except there is an angel making record or such that
when the Prophet wave for Al Israa, will miraj he saw the beta more that is over the cargo over the cabin. Every day 70,000 angels go in and out never to return again. So the guy who's only nine years old, 10 years old and this Mejlis how many melodica went through that house since he's been alive? It shows a great number. The angels who will carry the Throne of Allah azza wa jal, there will be 70,000 strings on E string 70,000 Angels no one knows the number except
fella, but one of the proofs of the great number of Metallica. When the believer dies, and they pull his soul out, the angels are for as far as you can see. And that's everywhere where a believer dies all over the world, so a lot of angels.
And then he takes his soul out. And before he gets his soul out before you can blink an eye, his soul passes to the other angels, they all grabbing him.
Allah knows reality of that. And then they take them up to the heavens, the first heaven, it knocks so that he can get it has he been allowed? Yes, as he's going up, there's never a group of angels except they say, whose spirit is that? It smells good. So spirit or rule that time was beautiful, calling him by the best names. And then those angels follow him up to the next heaven, and the next heavy and a next heaven until he gets to the seventh heaven. And then Allahu Taala tells those
angels accountable at the Phil Ilene put him with the LEA in his book of goodies. Now the point I want to make here is
all of those angels from the time that he dies right there, and it goes up from there, follow him, oh, there goes show to show that with Allah azza wa jal, the life of one believers serious,
sacred.
That's the word of dunya.
Allah menang yoke tell Muslim guna for this whole dunya to be destroyed is easier on Allah than for one believer to lose his life and just leave the believer his it has huruma his honor, his life and there are those people who get close to Allah by killing people. In Somalia, they put a bomb in the capital and blow people up and kill 5060 100 people.
And they get close to Allah like that.
And then we want to come and say, look at the Sufi people saying who were who were, who were, who were who were. And that's not right. They're getting close to Allah with innovation of love Allah, that's not from the religion spinning around like that, with a dress going wide open like that. You think you're flying in the center with the Malacca, they get close to Allah, like that's bad.
But they are those people get close to Allah
by saying this one is an innovator, and that one is an innovator. And that one is Teddy, and that one is Teddy, and that and they get close to Allah like that. And you don't take into consideration Yeah. If you say about a Muslim, what is not true it's not in him. He's a person who's on the Sunni Senate. He is that what you're saying? But you're just parroting off what you heard. It's not this is the recumbent so it's better for you. Leave that alone. Stay with the people who you're with. But
learn the religion learn touch we learn sick of the religion, make jihad and be a better person. But don't talk about the people leave that part off. Because the result of that when you say that yeah, cat hit the karate they make takfeer of Muslims. They get close to Allah by first saying your cafe and then after that spilling your blood spilling your blood.
muscular. So look what happened in the book of Allah azza wa jal and we almost done Allah Allah Tada mentioned in the Quran, and Alladhina your Munna, seletti la phylactery. Me not learning enough dunya and akhira, whatever whom are that Aviv. Those people who accuse married women who are not aware of what's being said, and they are believing women, those people accused them of Xena. They will be cursed in this world and in the Hereafter, and a grievous punishment has been made for them.
Someone says to his wife, you hope you hope you prostitute because he's upset. You said something she's not a whore. She's not a prostitute. Yeah. And even though you didn't mean that you said was not in that lady. And she's your wife.
You stabbed me in my back. Nobody stabbed you in your back son. What are you talking about?
They said that our mother our issue robbed the Allah Allah committees Xena. And she did in Allah said that the believers when they heard this, they were supposed say soup, Hanukkah, soup, Hanukkah, ha the Mubin glory unto you Allah. This is a great slander that they will say this about the wife of the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam like the rafidah of Iraq and Iran, the Shiite
They get close to Allah by cursing the companions. Cursing I Isha, saying she made Xena. Radi Allahu Allah. That's their deen and they're getting close to Allah by doing that.
Well levena Vaughn, meaning me naughty baby MK Tessa boo, forget the terminal, turn on FM mobila Those people who annoy the believing men and women with those things that they don't know they are innocent, this person who does that they have carried on themselves a great slander and a great statement with Allah azza wa jal
saying that about people, and it's not true. So when concluding when he I just want to bring to your attention to something, and it is important, really important. We have to avoid becoming angry and when we get angry, just keep your mouth shut. Because when you get angry, that's when we all make mistakes. I know I do when I get angry. That's when you say things you don't mean to say you shouldn't say like some of these curse words that are in our culture. The curse words actually they
had the origin in the English language actually, they are not originally curse words, but they became curse word swear words, so we should avoid them. But they are in the dictionary they used to be used here in the UK, Shakespeare and those guys used to use these words. One word they did not use they didn't use but you know the EFA you know the MF Don't look at me like I'm crazy. You guys know what I'm talking about? We use that curse where you MF you know what I'm talking about. If you
say somebody to somebody when EFA
noun a short leg sing now on the slang now these kids mo for
me mofo was the same thing, because that showed me that word, when you call somebody that that man didn't do that with his mother, or she didn't do that with her mother.
This hadith is applicable to you. You say something about I believe it's not a true, you're going to be in a palace, and in the liquids of the people of the Hellfire. Those are the cursors that have the origin in the language. I will say it. But I don't want someone to miss everything that I said for the last hour. They're going to disregard everything that I said for the last hour. And I just got to hang on. I will say these curse words that had the origin in the language. So I'm going to do
what the Prophet said southern lady was setting them leave what you doubt for what you don't doubt.
The curse word you be? You know the B word. You know I'm talking about right? That really means a female dog. And people who work with dogs a Crummock Mala they use that word right now to differentiate between the male dog and a female dog. So to call someone that b word, I'm letting create them and made them a B. Allah say Allah, Karim na Benny Adam, we honored Benny and we will make him into a dog. A female dog. Another one of those words is the other b word. The other b word.
Anybody know what the other b word is? anybody? Anybody? I'm gonna throw you under the bus. Anybody know the other b word? That the B word is the best it the best. It is a word in the English dictionary. It is a person who he was born out of wedlock. She was born out of wedlock. Her mother his mother committed Zina, so they had a baby out of wedlock. So the Basti you call someone this word, it became a swear word now curse word now, but it's in our language is in the dictionary. So
it should be avoided altogether.
And if we ever hear our children saying these words
whale
whale don't come to me it was in a dictionary
and pointed to me in a dictionary.
If you say that to someone, and they are not like that, this is your reward and so many of these words so many but I think you get the picture. Like the donkey you guys know what the donkey is called? Right?
Guys know what the donkey is called? Right? The eight a word? Yeah, yeah, it could just be that or it could be that whole a whole. Allah said about the dunking the Quran in uncle ASWAT the SOTL hamir
and Uncle swatting dilla that's SOTL Hamid, the worse voice to Allah is the voice of the donkey. So when you call people that I let him create him into a donkey to make him a donkey. He didn't make him a donkey. So don't use those words. And they alot D had all of this stuff, all of this language that they have out there and one of the worst ones and when
ended with this is when you find a Muslim who you perceive him as being healed. He may really be stingy. And then you say to him, You Jew
you do
I heard a brother say to another brother you do *
How can he be a Jew Nick at same time.
But he was angry.
So if you say that he is a Jew.
First of all, you can't stereotype all Jews are not stingy. First of all, that's not right, say that. Second of all, if he's a Jew who does not have the religion, you may take fear of him.
And then the other issue about the nigger should be avoided altogether. Even those people will say, look, we've reclaimed that word and we're using it for ourselves. It's a better word that we leave it alone because it's a derogatory word. And we've been told let's stay away Allah to Allah told us well as the neighbors who build out the car don't call each other offensive nicknames so it should just be avoided. So equality these are the four things that were mentioned in this hadith today. We
asked you to excuse us for the usage of the word that may be you may find it offensive, but as I said it as I said to earlier, even little man in the back right there
relax yourself man till we finish the dose Okay. All right, little man.
So, we ask Allah azza wa jal to make it easy for us Inshallah, to be far away from these characteristics. We're not going to take any questions tonight. Heather was on Mala who was sending them robotic on in the beginner. While he was hobby of mine was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh coming in little man, Kimmy
How you been man? Good to see you.
Can me get over here?
Where's Zeki, mommy