Loving or Hating Moderately
Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – The Islamic Personality – Episode 04
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The Hadith is a message given by the Prophet sall Drive to encourage people to read and write men and women. The importance of balance in sport is emphasized, along with the need for moderation and letting people feel. The speaker discusses issues related to love, including problems with the prophets and the Prophets, and the importance of being true to one's religion and not overboard on others. The sport is a reflection of individual accomplishments and personal development, and the importance of learning in a learning environment and not just knowing what to say is emphasized.
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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in an authentic hadith in sha Allah and was collected by the Imam 18 million other than Him tremendous Hadith. When dealing with the personality of a Muslim, everybody's responsible for building this within himself.
Because if you lose this characteristic, you're not going to be a complete Muslim and you won't be fair, you won't be just
and it touches upon many aspects of our lives. This glass is not a class, we're just coming here to read off some a hadith and some ayat of the Quran. But it serves as a reminder for all of us. This hadith is tremendous. And you will find in today's climate, especially with social media, just the time that we live in right now, the vast majority of Muslims, Arabs, non Arabs, the old, the young, the educated and the people can't read and write men and women.
The vast majority of people fall short of the mark in this particular Hadith. And there's a hadith that talks about the impermissibility have fallen short of the mark. Abu Huraira may Allah be pleased with him you said that the Prophet says Allah Allah who it was sending them. Love the person who you love your Habib, whoever he is, whoever she is, your mother, your father, your wife, your husband, your child.
Love Your Habib moderately, because the day may come when when they become your enemy or person who you hate and hate the person that you hate moderately, because the day may come where that individual becomes your Habib.
Once again, happy becau hone in my I sang a combat that can yo man man love Your Habib moderately? The Nate the day may come with that person becomes your enemy or someone who you have to hate and hate the person who you hate moderately, because that individual may come one day and he becomes your Habib, as is what happened with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and many instances. Some of the non Muslims of Quraysh used to hate him. They hated his guts, as they say salawat Allah
He was sent on YT and the companion format had been filed. When he accepted Ellis Lam he said yado sort of law there was never faced that I hate it more than your face and now your face is the most beloved face to me. Yeah, Rasul Allah, there was never deemed that I hate it more than your deen but now your dean is the most beloved Dean Timmy Yeah, Rasul Allah, there was never a city of Medina that I hated more than your Medina. And now your Medina is the most beloved Medina to me.
This hadith when he before we deal with a Inshallah, there are some issues of the wrath between the Imam Al Hadith as it relates to the authenticity of this hadith. Some of the scholars will slam said that the hadith is weak, and from them an imam at Tirmidhi, who narrated this hadith and brought it in his book in January. And after bringing the chain of narration, Muhammad of his sittings said that he heard Abu Huraira say that the Prophet said son Elijah was salam, the Hadith, Al Imam, it
really said, we don't know this hadith is chanting that ration except this one right here. And that was his way of saying it's not authentic. Although he put in his book, some of them redeemable Islam. They said that this hadith is not from the Prophet sallallahu it was said it. But is the statement of it but not to be taught Ridwan why Ali, and from them that tremendous scholar of Islam and Imam Adara Coatney, who is one of the IMA of Allah alien, that science that detects the hidden
weaknesses in the chains of narration and the mammoth data Courtney said, this hadith is weak as it relates to it being out of the mouth of
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa set it up, he said it's from Eileen and it taught him and another people took that position. And then there are some of them who said that the hadith is Hassan is authentic is not here, but as has been a little lesser than so he nonetheless is acceptable. And from the contemporary or an AMA who took that position as an Imam Al bene Rama to lie and so from the angle of a man to admit that there is a type of
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manner you have to have the Amanar You can't be like some of these people who say a hadith and they make stuff up we have an Amana if it's not in Bukhari, don't say somebody so I'm being fair and then being just inshallah and taking care of the trust. I have to say this if the wrath in this hadith the assembly zap some pulling and tugging and pushing between the owner marvelous man. So I'm of the opinion that the hadith is Hassan Inshallah, and the chef who brought the hadith is of that opinion,
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As it relates to Abu Huraira, the narrative the Hadith, and everybody knows Abu Huraira in sha Allah, may Allah be pleased with him, not reading the majority of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He is that companion from the Companions, who was known by his Konya, Abu Huraira, is at laugh as to what his name is, but the vast majority of Emma said it his name was Abdul Rahman, Abu Huraira, was the poor companion who stayed with the Prophet all the time. So Allah
Allah who it was setting them and as a result of that, he was prolific, any superseded and surpass all of the other companions as it relates to the narration of the Hadith of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu. It he went on it was sent. As it relates to the Hadith one of the Hadith that we're talking about today is from the July met Al Kalam and the meaning of July, Matt, and Kevin, I want you guys to remember that July, man and kill him. It is one of the five things that Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was given that no other prophet was given. And that was his ability to say something that only had a few words. But what he said had far reaching implications. It had a lot of fix to it. It had a lot of understanding had a lot of benefit. It had a lot of add dad, a lot of information and benefit comes out of what he said. So Lola, who it he Well, it was Senator. And as I mentioned, there is not a person sitting here, except that this hadith is a challenge in your
everyday life. Love the person who you love, moderately, because the day may come when that individual becomes your enemy, and hate the person who you hate moderately, because they may come with that individual becomes your hobby.
This hadith is talking about a number of things. It's talking about the importance of being balanced in Ellis lab, and having justice in Ellis lab. And his justice and his balanced is determined by the religion is not determined by your culture, by your understanding, by your desires nope, is determined by the religion. The religion made us an audit and commanded us to be balanced, as Allah commanded in the Quran, that we read Surah Fatiha and in that dua that we read, and it's from the
greatest sort of the Quran, guide as to this rotten stuffy Deena so rotten stucking. That's the middle cause, not that people went too far to the right, or the people went too far to the left. So that's the religion telling you to be balanced. He says Subhanallah darling the Quran, Waka Lika Jana como uma Tong Masato Lita, Kulu, shahada and a nurse while your Qunar rasuluh alikoum Shahida. And for that reason, Allah made you people and uma that is in the middle, so that you will be the
witnesses over all of the other people that you hold and the Nasaan the sea and the Hindus, the white, the black, and that the rustle, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will be a Shaheed over you. So balance is not determined by what you say. The religion tells us that your throat your pants, they should be halfway up your sup halfway, not up to your knees as we see some brothers trying to practice the Sunnah is up to the knee. That's extreme. You went too far and shouldn't be below knee
they shouldn't be below your ankle bone. The profit the religion told us be balanced with your hair. Don't cut the lower part and leave the top part is haram don't
Do it is the hair cut a little Huzzah.
AKAZA he told us a Mullah who it was sending them either walk in both shoes or walk without both shoes. He told us Allah what He was selling half of your body shouldn't be in the shade and the other half in the sun, either get all in the shade or get all in the sun, either this or that. All of that is talking about the balance and the justice of the religion of Islam. So this issue we find some people who go overboard in the religious Boko Haram can't either Taliban, a Shabaab of Somalia,
you're going overboard, he says you're going overboard. The religion is not like that. The way you interpret it, killing people left, right and center, kidnapping people left, right and center. That's not the religion that show interpretation. And then the other extreme, the one who doesn't want to pray. And he says Eman and faith is in my heart doesn't want to wear hijab, you got to be balanced. It's bile, all of that, that religion is telling you be balanced. This hadith is talking
about that. That the religion determines for us what balance is because they are those people suffer from what is known as a 10. Year, a 10 year is you want to water down everything well we're in the UK and we're in Europe, and what are we going to do? So the fact that the prophets Allah Allah who it was sending them as our mother, I Isha, may Allah be pleased with her told us that he married at the age of nine. So the person comes in he says, What are the non Muslims going to think if we say
something like that out in public? Yes, we have to be wise and given Diebold Allah and we don't open up doors and windows that is too early to expose this information to everybody. There is a double Rouge in knowledge right here in teaching you brothers and the sisters of our community given the hotbar we have to know the condition of the people and not talk about those things that would be a fit like even if it's true people are not ready of that. They're not ready for that. Abdullah Bemis
rude said I'd even not be tolerated said had the finance and academy or cooling attorney domain you can be Bula Rasulullah who talk to the people according to their level of understanding that you want them to reject Allah and His messenger. Abdullah you must Oh, I'd even be tolerated said Rwanda Lila Hema ma into BMO had difficulty in Hadith and then your blog row Kula, whom in the academy, but in fitna, you as a teacher, a speaker, a team, you will never say speech to people that they don't
comprehend, except that speech is going to be a fitna for some of them. So the person comes and says, We cannot believe that the Prophet married is at that age. So Allah who it was setting them because the non Muslims will never accept our religion. That's not hikma. And that's not being balanced, that's established. That's established in our religion. So that to me is a is a problem. To me watering things down. And a touch deed is a problem as well. Being rough and being tough
unnecessarily. We have to be in the middle.
As it relates to the religion that the Prophet brought SallAllahu it was Selim is a religion that tells us you have to be moderate in your given and you're taken. You have to be moderate in your rabada you have to be moderate in your resting. You have to be moderate in your loving your hate. You can't love someone to the degree where you go overboard, you're in a toxic relationship. You're in a relationship. It is toxic, and is no good for you. And that's why the Prophet says on the
Allahu alayhi wa salam. The last thing that the rune Allah for now you stay jab alone, there are three people will make dua and they do I won't be accepted. One of those people he said some Allah who it was selling them, Raju can attack to Emre tune say here to Hello falam you Toluca, a man who's married to a bad wife
and he won't divorce her. We're not talking about the wife who he gets upset with her. She gets upset with him, but overall, she's a good individual. No, he said about her. It is not okay for the believing man, the husband to hate his wife. If he sees in her character traits that he dislikes. Let him look for a character trait that he likes. Everybody has that. You're not perfect. I'm not perfect. She's not perfect. Your wives are not perfect. It's our defense not talking about the lady
who does things sometimes when she gets upset sometimes when it's that time of the month, sometimes whatever. She's not a bad person. It's that lady who's dipping out on him. That lady that won't pray. That lady that has no respect for him. And he stays with us saying I love her. I love her is toxic, and he stays with her as a
was all of staying with her. There's a lot of drama going on between them. So Allah is angry with him. The curse words, the hatred, the problems in the house, they're corrupting the children, they're going to make them now Muslims, he should have divorced that lady and had to work on Allah. But his love is too much. He knows what she's doing. And he tends to do that. So the point here, we have to be balanced in this religion, and everything balance in everything, love.
I mentioned a few times and I will mention again, this issue is a challenge for everybody. That Sheikh Mohammed Abdul hadI was the alarma last year he was the Allama, the big scholar of Islam, when the people were on that stuff loved him. But when there was some hatred that presented itself, he stopped being the Habib and he became very consumed not Caslen console, very, very, very lazy, has no books. It's the problem. He's your friend today. And he's the greatest person. When people
ask you about him, you have a lot of really good things to say. As soon as something goes wrong. He's the worst person that you know. That's what this hadith is talking about. How is it possible that just last week he was okay. And now a week later because some drama transpired. He's the worst person will reverse it. Then the Zhao
bursting in frown Abdullah Abu Jahan, you went overboard in your love. And as it relates to the hate, you hate people to the degree that you can't be fair, you can't be just, you can't say the truth in their regard. Got to be balanced as it relates to the Quran. There are many, many if in addition to the two ayat that we already mentioned, that commanded us show us the importance of being balanced. Allah azza wa jal mentioned in the Quran, what Turkey FEMA, Taka, Allah a doddle. I
hear what I tensor know Siva committed dunya Allah commanded in the Quran and told us the things that you have the job, the money, the car, the good health, whatever you have, us that whatever you have, Allah gave you money, whatever you have intellect, use that in order to get the Hereafter. And don't forget your portion of the dunya so Allah didn't make this dunya haram for you. He didn't make it haram for you to have a Mercedes Benz and and make it haram for you to have a mansion. And it
make it haram for you to have the nicest clothes. Everybody in this city endemic that haram don't forget your portion of the dunya the one who shuts down the dunya and makes the dunya haram and people went astray. So there is that that were revealed, stopping people from doing that, that I tells us be balance. Allah mentioned another iron of the Quran. There are many, when I touch her beasts an article when I had to have it be her was telling Bain and Danica Sabina, when you pray a
sloth, then don't do it so quietly, and don't do it very very loud. But choose the path that is between this and between that right in the middle. Some of the scholars will slam like I Isha. Like a blood now dance may Allah be pleased with both of them. They said that the Salah in this ayat is talking about the DUA a solid talking about God. When you make dua, don't scream out loud, making dua to Allah azza wa jal, as the Prophet told his companions on Allah while he was sending them,
wherever they align. They were traveling, when they went up a mountain they would scream, Allahu Akbar, when they went down the mountain they would say Sao Paulo Allah and they were screaming. The Prophet told them be easy and be gentle on yourselves. Finicum led to the Runa or some whenever I iba, what I can tell the ruler, Sammy Sera, hey, you people have mercy upon yourself. Take it easy on yourselves. You're not calling on someone who can hear you're not calling on someone who was
absent. You're calling on someone who he is and he can see. So Abdullah and now bass and Aisha said, don't make dua out loud.
Some of the other MUFA ceiling of the Quran they said the meaning of Salah here is the salah. This is in surah Al Israa al Israa when Mirage, the sewer was revealed in Mecca when the Prophet used to pray with his companions on the love while he was setting them around the Allah. Do you mind? If he read out loud? The non Muslims the machete Can we hear him and when he read the Quran, they will start cursing, the one who's revealed the Quran, the one who was revealed on and the people who
embraced it. So I told them in this ayat, don't read out loud so that the Mushrikeen will become upset and curse Allah don't
will be a reason why nine non Muslims curse Allah
when asked us who will lead me I don't really mean doing Allah for you sue Billa Don't be of those people who curse the other guys. Don't be like that don't curse the bad guys and never mess around in their curse Allah don't be the reason why people hate this religion blowing up people being extreme
given a bad example of Islam, first thing they say is look at the Muslims who did it, we give them information or we give them fodder we give them we give them ammunition ammunition to say it was so true and his name was so true. Then why is this situation like this this this is? So Eliza Zhang told the prophets of Allah when he was setting them Don't be sold out with a non Muslims here you so they start cursing Allah cursing the prophets Allah Selim cursing his companions, Christian
religion, and don't read so low that the Companions who are praying with you cannot hear, stay in the middle and stay balanced from those Iots in Surah Al Furqan Al Furqan, Allah gives a number of characteristics of the Rebadow Rockman and from their characteristics those people worship a rock man and we ask Allah azza wa jal to make all of us truthfully from the those people who worship him. He mentioned in the Quran well levena either. Well, levena Yvette unfuckable lamb us three four,
what are your total? Well, well, total, what kind of Balan that if a koala, that the people who worship Allah the true worshipers of our Nana those people when they spin, they don't waste nor they miserly. They don't spend all of their money. Nowadays people know Are they those people who don't spin at all? The Prophet told listen and authentic hadith Psalm Allah what He was sending in Allah Hello Rama alaykum
Pokken Ummah hat. Well Melange, my hat. Well what dill Burnett, Allah has made it haram for you to be bad to your mothers, disrespectful disobedient to your mothers, and he made it haram for you to be a person who always says give me this give me that. Give me this give me that. When he goes through your house, and he goes into the toilet Accomack Mala to wash his hands get ready for the full, he sees some oil perfume, you come out and say, Can I have this? He says that he sees a book?
Can I have that? Everything he sees? Can I have that pen? Can I have that? Can I have that? That's not permissible in our religion.
To always give me had this, let me have this, then you have that let me have that. And the opposite is not permissible to be a person who never ever, ever gives gotta be in the middle. So that a bad the Rockman the Muslim is the individual who he doesn't waste the food that he buys. He doesn't waste it. And the food that he buys, he doesn't buy such a little amount of food that it's not enough for him. Not enough for his family. Not enough was guessed. Those iron and other minerals,
iron. They showed the importance of the legislation of being in the middle. When man was giving advice to his son, he told his son walk sit for Michika Hey boy, and give you this advice. When you walk. Be calm. Don't walk with arrogance. And don't walk in a way in which you're showing people you're weak. Like Omar saw that man from the Muslim. He wanted to show the people he was zakat. He had Taqwa. He was humble and humility. And he was walking me Kasara he was walking with his back
like this. I'm I took the stick in him. Don't don't walk like that. Don't walk like that. Do you want the non Muslims to look at you and the thing you're weak your chunk your punk as a result of that they're going to take advantage of you. Don't walk like that. And on the other hand, don't walk around with that swag. Like you're somebody I would like to ask some of your young brothers to stand up and show us what kind of walking is impermissible? I don't know if you guys know what I'm talking
about. Anybody know? Anybody knows walk of the arrogant people. Anybody? show me show me how did the Arabic stand up? Stand up, stand up. You're gonna want to show us stand up man. Show us you know, anybody know, you'll get rewards inshallah because you'll be educated the people anybody know.
Show a stand up, stand up. Hurry up. Hurry up. Show us. What's the walk that's haram.
Yeah, that's one of them that you'd walk in like a mummy like Frankenstein. That's, that's kind of like it. That's the shy version of it. But you'll see the hip hop culture and these people. It's part of the African American culture. How we used to walk like that to show people don't mess with me. All I'm accepting and I'm cooling on down. That's not the walk of the Muslim. You have to walk in a way with you
don't want people looking at you saying Look at him. So the point here at 20 is all of those ayat and other than then they go to show the importance of being balanced in our religion and they're more I act as for the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was sending them and there are many those if we chose it just a few many. What ton met Kenny matura Becca sitcom Adela lamb who bet Billy Kenny Matty. Allah described his religion in the Quran. He said the words of your Lord had been
complete this religion, the Quran has been complete with truthfulness and justice. There is no change in concern in the words of Allah. Just as is our religion, you have to be in the middle you have to be just against your friend, against your fault for your mother, against your mother, for your tribe against your tribe, have to be fair. As for the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu it was set up for Hadith when a hostage
Abdullah meeny Massoud may Allah be pleased with him said that they were sitting with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And he drew a long line in the ground February to see and he told the people had that subito law, this is Allah's path. And then he drew lines to the right of that line, and lines to the left of that line. And then he told the people who are happy soup balloon, and luckily, Sybil and minha shaytaan Yeah, Drew ha ha. And these are Divergent Paths. And each one of
these paths is a shaytaan. inviting people to that path is against the set off of Allah, that's Musa pain. And then the Prophet read the ayat of the Quran, and now have Sarathi Musa Peyman tiberiu When I type it will sue Bill Fattah Farah kabhi commensurability. All Muslims follow the Surat of Allah, that's an optimal stopping. That's a bill that is straight and don't follow the Divergent Paths. They're not in the middle. They're too far to the right, too far to the left. The person have a soul
Wolf. He wants to make the Dhikr of Allah and AZZAWI are all day and that's it and not go out and earn money and defend himself and his ummah. And his Dean and his family and his honor. That's a problem. That's a problem. Then you have the individual wants to go out and he wants to shed blood to show that he's not a coward and he's a warrior and he's not afraid. But he does that without knowledge. So problem. You have an individual who has Jamar is about politics. And in his
understanding the ends justify the means he can lie, he can cheat. He can warn against people were beneficial. The important thing is we have to get the courtesy no matter what, that's not okay. You have to be in the right path,
the middle path, and that's why the scholars of Islam they said the Serato Musa Kim and Surah Fatiha is the serata Abu Bakar and her mother Earth man and it Radi Allahu Anhu the spirit of the companions Ridwan Allah Allah him Jermaine, another Hadith from those many, many a hadith is the companion jabber in Sumatra, Radi Allahu Anhu con so late to Juma ma Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for qanat Salah tahu caston mo bateau Costa, he said, I pray the Juma prayer with the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. His hookah was moderate, and his Salam was moderate. You go to some of these masajid especially in America, that people come from the Nation of Islam Louis Farrakhan, Elijah Muhammad, when they became real Muslims when they became real Muslims, they embrace the Quran and the Sunnah, but many of them are still lacking behind in terms of knowledge. So on the day of the Juma is not strange to find them praying salatu Juma for one hour or more. You go to some
misogyny in Egypt, the man give us the hotbar for an hour or more Rasul Allah Akbar was not like that. SallAllahu it was Senator. It was short, moderate, and as salam was moderate in the middle, people have to go to work, people have things to do. The Nabi usum Allahu alayhi wa sallam said an authentic hadith from what shows the importance of being in the middle in the rub because Alika haka. Were Emily Anika Anika haka were elderly Nipsey Kalika, haka five vertical if you happen
Harpal Your Lord has rights over you. Your family has rights over you and your enough's. You have rights over yourself
your own soul has rights over you. So give everyone who has a right over you give them their rights. Don't be in a masjid all day, every day. Don't stay in the masjid or die every day, at the expense of your wife and your children. You spend no time, downward, downward, downward, traveling traveling downward, downward die when you say the NABI SallAllahu wasallam. When your wife says, Hey, spend some time.
No, it's not our religion. You have to give your family their rights, your own self. Some people work themselves like animals. Animals can work like that. You have to be moderate. You have to be in a in the middle. One of the youngsters he wants to be a student of knowledge and he takes the statement of lymphedema of the past and they say those scholars said, If you give knowledge all of yourself, it will give you a little back. Because the knowledge of Islam is like an ocean that has
no shores, it is endless. What do you want to major in? Do you want to major in FIP or solo FIP? To have seen Hadith, the Quran? What aspect of the aroma of the Quran, you want to know the Syrah? There are many things you can major in. If you give knowledge all of yourself, it only gives you a little back. And we talk about how the self used to make a lot of sacrifices. FISA be knowledge that's true. But that requires FIP that requires fic don't come telling me that you're going to lack
you're going to lacks off in your secular studies because you want to learn the knowledge is of Ellis lamb, you got to give it all yourself. No, it's not acceptable. So all of those are Hadith and even more when the Prophet heard Salah white. He was talking about those three men and he came to rectify those situations and he told them Yeah, are you a nurse and me a shot Camilla. He will come look.
We're in it will suddenly will output will assume what after?
What is always a nice for my rugby bar and Suniti for Lisa Mimi, are you people. I am the one who has more Taqwa than all of you. And I have more Hashem than all of you of Allah and fear him more. And I have more knowledge and the best one from amongst you. And yet, and yet,
I pray pmla and I go to sleep. I fast and I break my fast and I get married to women. Anyone who abandons him for six months sooner, he is not for me. Because it's extreme to say, I'm not going to get married is extreme to say I'm going to fast all the time. I'm going to pray all the time. All of those are Hadith and other than them, they go they show they indicate have to be balanced in Ellis lamb. We come to the statements of the Sahaba Diwan Allah I named him Jemaine and made many
statements from them as well. But we'll only rely upon one of them and their meaning. And that's the statement of for the Fibonacci Mia man Radom Allah He and He will they even said to the people, yeah, Masha, Allah Cora is stepping. Oh, you people who are students of knowledge. You people are trying to read the Quran, you're trying to be knowledgeable. He said, it's stepping beyond St. Karma be straight up and beyond the middle path. He said to them, if you do that, if you do that, you
would be far far ahead of everybody else. So victim soup, and by EDA, you will be far far ahead of everybody. And then he mentioned Radi Allahu Anhu. When
you mean where she myelin, the load to Boliden variedad. But if you guys if you people go to the right or the left of that certain stuffing, you're gonna go astray.
You are going to go straight, just stay in the middle stay in the middle. That's from the benefits of this hadith
be imbalanced. Also, from the benefits of this hadith is the issue of part of how to love in Al Islam. Let me tell you, if there's anyone sitting in this audience in this Masjid right now, hearing my voice right now, and you are a person who you never loved anyone and never You were never loved by anyone. I'm not going to say that you are a human being. But you don't know what life is. If that's your situation.
If you're sitting here and you don't love people, and you never felt love from people, your mother, your father, you grew up not feeling loved. Some people grew up they didn't feel any love from their father but they got it from the
A mother, they will fill love for the mother but they got it from the Father. We're not talking about that. We're talking about the person who can honestly say, I don't know anyone who loves me. I'm not going to say you're not a human being. I'm not going to say that. But you don't know the real life problem. So because loving people and being loved pie people is part of what it is to be human being Alice lamb Cain, the Quran and the Sunnah, and said a lot about how to love there is fit
and loving, Fick.
Like the event, I was at MSG recently in America,
the brother who made the event young African American brother had a beautiful voice and pronounce the words correctly and beautifully. I told him afterwards come in your van was good because I want him to continue I said, but it's not enough to just have a beautiful voice and just learn that event like that. You have to get sick of the event. There are different things to say the things that you shouldn't do, you should know a lot about the event which brings me to this point. As you brothers
sit in this audience, you can be a scholar of the event. You may not be a scholar overall in this religion, but you are a scholar real scaleable will do. You are a real scholar when it comes to an homage the person knows how to make Hajj and he knows the laughable hedge and he knows what he's doing left right and center in and out from worse and backwards. So it's possible for an individual to be knowledgeable and one particular masala. Then do that. If you can get everything do that.
There was a chef in Saudi Arabia and he's still living from the balance sheet. You can remember the Salafi a share. Saudi Abdullah Abdullah Abu Musab al ERBE line, her feather Hula, hula Tada used to be in hot in
women used to go to visit him, his students, if something came up in the language, he will say a smile. What's the answer to that?
Something came up in some aspect of fifth, he will say hey, Nora being musty and saying that he has students in his Mejlis, who were prolific and upper most. And he had that humility to point them out. If he didn't know, they didn't have the overall knowledge of the share. But they knew aspects of the religion where they surpassed him.
So as it relates to this particular issue as it relates to this particular issue, when he there is Fick in the brotherhood of Al Islam, how are we going to be brothers to one another, and we don't even comprehend how to be a brother. So a lot has been said about loving in Ellis lamb for an example, the virtues of loving and there are many issues. The prophets on the loved one he or it was seldom mentioned.
Allah will shade under shade seven people you'll know piano and from them to people who love each other for Allah's Cause, from the virtues of loving people. If two people love each other for Allah's Cause, then that makes it Whadjuk. They have to have to be loved by Allah.
The prophets and the Shahadat people were killed and given martyrdom, they have ELLIPTA or jealousy for people who love each other. So this brother loves this brother and he only loves them for Allah, the prophets and the messengers have the permissible jealousy for what's going on, because of the reward of that. And who is the Prophet going to be jealous up?
They'll only be jealous to permissible jealousy. It's like, you know, when a man who gives a lot of sadaqa and you're jealous, and you say, I wish I had that money to do what he's doing. So you have that jealousy, not the one that's haram. You hate that he's been given that money, the prophets and the shahada, they had that jealousy. Why? From the rewards of what we mentioned? There'll be under the shade of Allah they get the Huck of Allah loving them. They will be on members made out of
light. Yo mo Kiana. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam he mentioned as well, that they are three people the latter two
men What You Don't Know all men could Nephi men can Nephi Wajid the Halawa till Eman. Anybody, anybody doesn't have to be from the OD of Allah. Someone who memorize the Quran, someone who's praying tahajjud every night fasting every Thursday and Monday. Anyone who has these three things he finds them within himself. He will find any with taste the sweetness of an E man. First thing that he mentioned, and your call allawah Rasulo Who are you
A either human Masiyiwa Hema that Allah and His messenger are more beloved to him than anything else. Number two, he loves a man and He only loves them for Allah. Our wives, if we love our wives because of Allah and for Allah, her virtues her righteousness, her Sobor her holding on to the dean and vice versa. She loves you for the same reason. And in addition to that you love a naturally because there is the NC jam and the harmony between you and her. But you love her first and foremost
and you chose her because of Allah. That's what it's about. From the benefit of that is the sweetness of LTE man. He told the people from the virtues of loving for Allah azza wa jal, and the danger of not loving for Allah. He told the people sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, not to Tolonen Janita had to me no new people will not enter into the agenda until you love one another.
You will not go into the agenda until you love one another. Should I not tell you something that if you do it, it will force the love between you? They said what is it? Yes, Allah, He said, Say Salaams to one another. Give salaam something as simple as that. And I think most of us if not all of us, we see the manifestation of when our relationships break down with people we can't even give sometimes.
We can say a simple word salaam, Allah Annie can say that to him, and he did not say it to you. So there are a lot of virtues of loving for Allahu SubhanaHu wata Anna. And this is one of those a hadith and they're meaning to hide due to Habu give gifts and exchange gifts between yourselves. It causes you to love one another. If you love someone, you should tell them individual that I love you. The Prophet said if you do that, it caused the love to Forster between you and remain between
you some Allahu alayhi wa, it was said this is one of those I need. The benefit of the Hadith balance in Islam, the benefit of Hadith. This is from the Hadith that teach us about love in this religion. Our religion told us from the sign of El Faro, Mr. ruddy Allah I know he told the people don't love like a child.
And don't hate like a child.
How does the child love, he said that the child is the one who loves so much He's immature. So when he loves something or someone, he's not balanced, and when he hate something, someone he does not balance. So if something happens where you take the candy or the Halawa the sweet from the child, he'll say to his mother, I hate you. After all the way she did, he doesn't really mean that, but he's a little kid. Don't be like that. And don't hate someone to the degree where you want them to
be destroyed. That's how the little kid is the little child because his mind is not complete. You do something to him that he doesn't like he's not balanced, he wants you to be destroyed.
And so Pamela, we found that amongst many of the Muslims, many of the Muslims, I will religion, wedding is a religion, where we should want guidance for people, especially for Muslims, we should want guidance from them. We shouldn't be the type of people who we want people to be destroyed. So we make dua against people because they didn't follow our points of view and issues of HDI and must others affect. May Allah break your back, May Allah destroy you. That's the love and the hatred of a
child, take it easy and relax. One good for the Muslims, if he doesn't agree with you make dua that Allah guides him to the truth that you perceive that you're upon. Take it easy. As for the one who is a leader, and Cofer. He is a leader and innovation. He's a leader in fitness and facade, then that's a different issue. But that fitness and facade shouldn't be your interpretation, because he doesn't agree with everything that you say your chef, your Gemma, your messaging your madhhab then
he wants fitting in and for saddling the earth No, no, you have to relax. Which brings us to the last issue of money. And the last issue is what happened recently with this fight. Concerning this brother from the miss the mixed martial artist Habib Habib, may Allah azza wa jal give him good and give it us good. After that fiasco transpired, you look on social media, and many of the Muslims who are given down on social media, we find a lot of our youngsters think it's your religious obligation
to hurry up and jump out there and give you a position in your opinion. When in fact when things like that happen is better for you to be quiet and to relax and let the dust
settle. Everybody has a religious responsibility to give Dawa and Allah everybody but a little any will I tell people about me even if it's something small one I have one Hadith. So you get in when you fit in you get down with Allah. But in giving Dawa, you have to have some knowledge about what you're talking about. You have to have some experience, you have to have some hikma, you have to have some common sense. And when these big issues take place, big issues that the whole world is
talking about, you should relax and take it easy, who said you have to speak the very next day who said that?
Who said that? You know what that comes from part of that comes from this culture of getting the most hits.
Getting the most people to come in on your page or something like that. Just relax. Just relax and let things calm down. And then make a point.
As it relates to this issue after it happened, we heard and we read what people were saying, This brother is an example for the Muslims. He's a hero for the Muslims and on and on and on and on. And that's extreme. That's not in the that's not in the middle. That's not in the middle at all. Because without any shadow of a doubt, mixed martial arts the way they do it is haram. Allah doesn't love it. Prophet Muhammad doesn't love it. sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Listen, there are many things that
prove that you are Muslim. Prove that you have Eman you wearing that phobe is a proof you have a man inshallah you stay in in this dance after Sonata Isha. You don't get any extra credit. You're not getting an extra credit and university. You're here because you want to be and some of you have your your will do believe in that the melodica asking Allah to forgive you. That's a delille of your Eman. Some of you want to stretch out but you don't put your feet out like this. You put your feet
in because you're respecting the Qibla and you want to sit like a student of knowledge. And when that was mentioned, some of you put your feet in. That's a sign of Eman and sha Allah so sign of Eman, the beard that you have sign of Eman many, many signs that prove that you are Muslims. Mashallah.
One of the best signs to prove that you have Eman is this issue of loving the Muslims and how you love and what you love who you love. He said as Abdullah Abdullah scroll mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, OLFA Eman and hook bufala will book do for
the strongest most important band, like a band on your ring, band, circle, institution, the strongest band of LTE man is loving for Allah and hate him for Allah.
Love the people you love moderately, the day may come where he is your enemy.
If your mother and your father fight against you with endless lamb, you have to draw a line and take a position against them.
If your wife or your husband win against this religion, you have to take something and draw a line and you tell them look come Dino come when he hit Dean, you have to take a position you have to
and that's why we have all of those I get that the Quran many, many, many. You won't find that people believe in Allah and last day loving those people who wage war against Allah and His messenger.
That curse in the Companions gotta draw a line.
your community, your community, the people were listening to you during the hotbar they're listening to you. And you know, people believe this. People believe that about the companions or whatever, you have to address the issues. You can try to placate them all the time. Every answer that you give, the answer is trying to make people like you. You don't want to make people not like you intentionally No. But the truth has to be said. So when someone asked you the truth, it's gonna make
you unpopular.
What is the reality of a Senate fear what you have to say what the truth is? You can't say if I answer it correctly, they're not going to like me. Now you have that wisdom.
And some of the to this is this issue. This brother who fought now we have to be balanced. Don't get me wrong. Don't get me wrong now. Mixed martial arts, I would advise everybody to learn that.
Don't be fat. Don't be out of shape. Don't be a person who people can beat you.
But watching that stuff, that stuff is more haram than what Amazon is doing. You know King Khan. No
In talking about the boxer, that is haram boxing, mixed martial arts is more haram because it's pugilistic breaking people's arms, you understand putting people to sleep knocking them out, it's not permissible. Not to mention not to mention the way they dress, the lady walking around the gambling that's going on the cover all of that stuff is designed to take people away from the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal.
So what is loving for Allah and Hayden for Allah? He says, Allah Allah who it was Solomon I have been Allah he will abaca denilla He walked on the line were men and alive after the stickman Eman who, anyone who loves for Allah, he's for Allah give so Allah and he refuses to give for Allah He has completely man. Loving for Allah means you love people according to how close you perceive them being upon the obedience of Allah, and you hate people based upon your perception of how far they
are from the religion.
So the non Muslim, the non Muslim, you're not going to love the non Muslim more than you hate the worst Muslim because although the worst Muslim is far from Ellis lamb May Allah protect us from that. Nonetheless, he doesn't have chicken cover and we got to be fair and balanced. Listen to what we hear. It's not fair. It's not balanced. Listen, because this may be you. It's maybe your wife or some your sister.
The Muslim sister. She wants a hula. And it's not easy to get a hula because sometimes the brother she's married to he doesn't treat a well as if he wants her and wants to keep her. He treats a bad forces that have come to the masjid here at Green Lane. They have this problem. She wants to call up. The Imam at Green Lamy administration that Green Man can't just say okay, you have a hula because you walked into the room. They have to call that man up coming for meeting. He doesn't come
from the meeting. He runs away. He doesn't answer the phone, two months, three months, four months, one year. And she's she's didn't get a whole lot yet. And she's tired of that. And rightly so. And then she gets so tired. She says you know what? You Muslims don't want to help us. You don't want to help the women. You guys are against women and I should go to the Kufa because it not Muslims, you get justice with them. That's not balanced for her to get upset and to say that
what can msgid do? What can the message really do your need and when he of the girl can't force him to do that? If he's not cooperating, and it can be her own cousin, her father and uncles they may not force and you want the message it the force? What are you talking about?
Can't do that. That statement of hers. I'm gonna get justice from the Kufa can't get it, quote, only the Quran and the Sunnah. There's justice, there's no justice in it. Were you talking about justice with the non Muslims? Is that just what they're doing to Palestinians that just what they're doing to Iraq and Syria? Is that just as what they're doing, what do you what makes the lady say that, that anger
to Muslim businessman, the same thing, they come to the Imam, the Imam judge for one, but it can't make the guy give him the money. That brother gets upset and he says the same thing. I can only get justice with the non Muslims that's not balanced. That's not fair.
So we love for Allah we hate for Allah based upon many issues. So why is Habib or Habib, the perfect example that the example for the Muslim the example for the Muslim of the prophets and the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa salaam Ali Jemaine the example for the Muslim other companions around the Allah and whom and we judge people based upon that. But we have to be faring just don't get it twisted and don't misunderstand what I'm saying. One of the reasons that make a lot of Muslims like what
happened and support this man is, whenever in an environment right now there's a lot of Islamophobia, where people can talk bad about our religion and misconstrue our religion. Draw Muhammad day and be disrespectful for our religion, curse our religion and say all kinds of things. And as Muslims of the Sunnah, we say, we hate that, but it's a way we're going to go about showing our displeasure, we're not going to go overboard. Now when you get an individual who one on one in
the ring, someone was saying those things, and then he almost cracks his job and makes you say, good job. Another thing is, the Muslim knows how the warrior nature of the Muslims used to be
not like now, where our countries are trampled upon. The resources of our country is stolen from right under our feet. And we're weak as the Prophet said some allottee was weak, like the form of the ocean, but now we see there's an individual
Who is not just defeating people, but I have to be honest, he mold that man, you know, tomorrow someone MA You are more 10 More decimated that guy. So when a Muslim sees that, it reminds him, wow, that's the strength of the muscle. So that resonates with us, but you have to stay balanced. That doesn't mean MMA doesn't make it halal. Doesn't make that brother our example. Muhammad Ali. Rahmatullah Alayhi. The boxer Muhammad Ali, he used to buy, brag us boxing the man, and he told the
man say my name is Muhammad Ali. But the man kept saying caches claim he just beat them up,
beat them up. A lot of Muslims during that time felt proud, because of that moment, he's not apologizing about his religion. So here you have that brother saying that Hamdulillah you have that brother defending his arm, his religion, his wife, his father, his nephew, so we can understand that, but don't go overboard. Does Allah like or love mixed martial arts not like that? Well, Allah He not like that. Not like that at all. So as Muslims as Muslims, we have to be truthful and honest,
upright enough, knowledgeable enough to be able to say the truth in those issues. Mixed Martial Arts is haram like that, watching it like that. Now with that man had covered up his hour, and was being displayed in another way, then it would be even better than boxing it because they always punch in the face and boxing, if they took that out of the equation, just wrestling and all that kind of stuff. That's my religion. If you recall, in the Battle of bedden, the battle better. There was a
duel that started the battle off and it was the practice of the Arabs. Three people from the Muslims came forward, three people from the non Muslims came forward, and both sides will look in and they were spectators to see what was going to happen. Finally, the two armies met each other. But before there's a melee, these three come in these three come. And when the Muslims defeated those three people, what it did in the minds and the hearts in the spirit of the Muslims, it goes to show Yes,
when he beat that man up, when he Malton and did what he did, and made them submit that happiness that the Companions felt at that dole, it's the same kind of happiness that a Muslim will feel someone's speaking back about our religion, about our religion. And here we have someone as if he is representing all of us. So we understood that
but stop right there. And don't say that he is the example. He is the example in terms of if a Muslim has to hold on to his religion, but you can say this guy over here is selling drugs. And he's fearless in selling drugs. And he's very smart the way he's selling drugs and he made a drug empire is a barren he's a good example for the Muslims know what he's doing is haram.
Although in what he's doing, he has it gone. You know, there's a hadith and Allah castability sand Allah coolly shaken. Allah wrote perfection and everything. So he's doing it with perfection, is that what that hadith meant
to be perfect drug dealer.
That's not what that hadith meant. You can't use that hadith add a context. So a person is not a good example in that which is impermissible. It's not a good example and that which is impermissible. This is what we want to present concerning this third Hadith of the 40 Hadith of the Muslim personality. What if Allah stay balanced? Stay balance. I know people really love boxing, they could tell you the fights that have taken place from now, this year all the way to I don't know
how many years ago they are experts when it comes to information and how to box but they have enough Dean to say enough Dean to say, but boxing is haram.
I know some people are very good in chess, very good chess players. Very good. And chess players. You don't know what you're doing. Those guys will checkmate you in 789. moves. But they'll say but chess is impermissible. The least is the last but it's impermissible. Don't be one of those people come and you have no Fick about how to love and about how to hate okay, if any of you guys have any questions, inshallah five minutes to do what your question really quick about the data. And if not,
sha Allah will call it a day. Hi, Linda come shake
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When a person is making dua, should his supplication be completely absolutely quiet. This hadith that we mentioned, as well as the ayah that we mentioned in the other ayat of the Quran or the rub Bakuman Tada mafia 10 In hola Hebrew Marta Deen, make dua to your Lord, with humility will hopefully attend and quietly. Allah doesn't like those people doesn't love those people and to deal with those people go overboard by making dua loud. So it's better to make dua quietly when you hear yourself,
will you hear it yourself? Will you hear it yourself? Because it's less apt to be a sign of area the person is not showing off. As for just making a dua within himself, and he's not moving his lips. The scholars of Islam said this is not reading in Ellis lamb. So when you read for the five prayers, or the silent prayers, you shouldn't stand there reading and hamdulillah in yourself like this and you're just not moving. That's not called Al Cara to the Arabs. It's not called reading. So you read
and you move your lips. So in this instance, he makes dua low, unless unless the situation necessitated or dictated that it should be loud. He's making dua Knut, or something like that, and the people are going to say, I mean, he's making dua from the member, which is the Sunnah after the hotbar. And the people are going to say, I mean, without raising their hands.
Any more questions or any any more questions?
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what's the ruling of watching boxing, I'm not going to say is haram to watch boxing because there can be a situation where the ring and the actual match is being regulated. They have head guards and they both been instructed don't hit to the head don't punch the face. Prophet told the man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam got into an argument with another man and he slapped him in his face. And when that man who was slapped came and complain, he said to the Companions, Allah Allahu alayhi
wa sallam told you to boo Phil Raju when Allah Calaca Adam and authority.
Don't punch people in the face. Don't slap in the face. Because Allah created Adam in the image of this person who gets slapped in the face. So you have to honor Benny Adam? Well, well, Carambola Benny Adam, we have honored Adams children and we put them up walking on his feet. You put them up. So don't dishonor Allah's creation by slapping and beating the head beating the face. So what happens is, if that's regulated, it's permissible. As for the boxing that you're asking about right
now, it's not permissible to sit and to watch those boxing matches. It's not permissible to sit and to watch those boxing matches the way we see it right now. The fighting trying to knock the people out, it's not permissible trying to knock them out, not permissible. It's not permissible trying to hurt the guy. And we gave a talk about that after our brother Imran Khan King hun when he gave his fight and Liverpool that he won, not permissible. So it mixed martial arts is even worse than that.
Any more questions? And what if he left for the air?
I thought she was gonna say but if your wife wants to back shoe or something like that I was given a says upon
if a lady wants to go to the gym is permissible for her to go to the gym. She doesn't have to wear hijab, jilbab, anything like that. But she should stay decent. She doesn't have to cover up all of herself. Long as that there's not going to be any fitna. She knows that there's no CCTV taken pictures of her taking recordings of her men have access to it. She knows that in the gym, no one is going to go there to tell a man or someone else outside what he saw of her mahasin So it's
permissible, permissible for her to appear in front of the women with her arms expose women what she normally wouldn't where she could appear in front of her sisters in front of her daughters like that it's permissible even in front of like her or servants and things like that. And some of our grandma said Alan slam even women from other religions in your hood when NESARA but she has to have some level of awareness she has to fear Allah azza wa jal just fear Allah azza wa jal. She shouldn't go
to small Heath Ledger see
went over there and go swimming with those people with that which is not appropriate, because she doesn't know everybody was going in. So she has to have some level of awareness, some level of comprehension and be what she doubts for that which she doesn't allow. But she's one Muslim woman doesn't have to cover up in front of other women provided there's not going to be any fitna. We're going to stop here in sha Allah azza wa jal, Heather was Allah Allah who was setting them robotic
and in the beginner, why not it he was having he made the brothers of Greenland and asked me yesterday, send out a message about the class encouraging people to come to class. Maybe some of you can tell we're going to talk about a beep. I said that is not about hubby is about loving which is bigger than cubby or Habib. Love in a balanced way. And I have to say in the book comfy lab