Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – Hadith #25 – The Way to Educate and Cultivate
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The history and implications of Islam, including its impact on people and the use of cigarettes and fear of others, are emphasized. The importance of not cutting off culture and not giving too much information is emphasized. The history of Islam, including the use of hikes and hats, is also discussed, along with the importance of rectifying bad character traits in Islam. A woman who died while wearing a dress and was not allowed to go out refuses to go out until she receives her license and receives her license. The segment also includes a brief advertisement for a powdered garden Seeing tree.
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and be mentioned some Allah while he was setting him when he went from Medina to Mecca. And he went back to Mecca, and he conquered Mecca. So there's a surah in the Quran called Surah Al Fett,
locket, fadein. and lack of faith in Medina. Allah gave him the victory over the non Muslims. After being expelled from Mecca.
He went to Medina, and then he went back to Mecca as a victor. And he could have dealt with all of the non Muslims when he went back. And he could have done a lot of things to pay them back. And to get into common revenge for what they did, had been left to any one of us, except the one that Allah gave him Rama would have taken revenge from those people for all of the drama and static and problems that they gave us.
They killed some of his companions, only because they said La ilaha illAllah. That was it. So like I see these disturbing talks by some of these Braley Imams, and some of these Deobandi Imams, they plant in the heart of the youngsters who are on that stuff, hatred for people of the Sunnah. And I'm talking about hatred. I have children, I have children.
But does it looked like a Muslim father or mother, teaching their children to hate the Muslims? I tell my children, I hate all of these Jamaat, right. And if you're with any of these groups, any of them without any exception if you are with any of these groups, I'm going to disown you because those groups teach you the hate the Muslims and teach you to look at Islam through a very narrow scope of that metal hat or that group that you're on. But to tell my kids to hate she I have Iran
and Iraq. They curse the companions or of the align them. I hate that with a passion. But I know they're ignorant. I know that the one ignorant what they're doing is bad. I've been to Senegal I've been to Gambia been to Nigeria. I've been to the West African countries with a T Janee. People have people committing shift, left right and center worshipping Allah and Allah.
And I hate that shit in court are fat. I hate that. But I know that those people are ignorant. They are Muslim
Bravo's that we should have Rama upon and hold for them hired. They are like in many instances as far as understanding the deen and like the bedwin who urinated in the masjid a chroma Kamala, that you were in a that bedwin doesn't know his religion, who's going to urinate in a masjid?
Who's going to do that? Someone who has an Acquia his intellect, something's wrong.
So as it relates to the Prophet, going back some Lola what he was sending them and forgiving most of those people, he let him go, most of them, you let them go. They said the real, that he was a person that had Rama. If that opportunity was given to many of us, some of us can't make up and speak to relatives, who we have ongoing beef with, we won't be the first to extend the olive branch, the olive branch to them. There are people who have done us wrong. If Allah gave you the ability to be
over them, some of them, some of us would take our heart. Some of us will take our heart. And it's not always wrong to take your heart. It's not always wrong. But the prophets of Allah while he was sending them, he went back to Mecca. And when he went into Mecca, he was riding his horse. And he had his head close to the neck of the horse, as if he was making sage the or ROCOR being humble. And he heard one of his companions, so Oh, CT H O Quraysh. We're gonna chop that meat up today. That
meat is going to be chopped up and that blood is going to be spilt. We remember what you did to Hamza
and that companion who said that he wanted to get the other companions agitated, so that they just start going and taking heads off. The Prophet said, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what we're doing here today. That's not what we're doing. So when he went there, so Lola did send them a lot of things happened. One of the things that happened was this idea. He said, Yeah, Isha. Yeah. Isha. He was looking at the Kaaba.
And I It shouldn't him we're looking at the Kaaba. And there were people going around the Kaaba after he conquered Mecca. Now McCobb is under his supervision and his authority he can do with it, what he wants to do with it. Let him who he wants to let in and kick out he doesn't want to let in as those Ayat will reveal. Tell him the non Muslims you can't come to the club after this year Mr. Cohen, you can't come that's it.
So as he looked at the card is a guy he shot
if it wasn't for the fact that your people were new, newly out of Javea
Jamia everything that happened before Al Islam. You people were new, I came a conquer Mecca, and they came into a slam. And they saved their lives as a result of that. And I accept that they told me they had slammed, but if they were not new to this religion,
what I would have done is I would have taken this kava, and I would have done some things with it.
I'd have rebuilt it on the Kuwait of Ibrahim, what if Yarrow, Pharaoh Ibrahim will kawaii the minimum date and remember, when Ibrahim and his smile the two of them, they built the Kaaba and special pillars. And it's not on those pillars anymore. The Prophet says Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam. If these people were not new to Assam, I would have ordered for the cabinet to be destroyed, rip down all of it destroyed. And then I would have entered into it, what has been taken out of it
and out of started from the ground, maybe even with the ground, and I'd have made two doors, one door first facing the east and the other door facing the West. And if I would have done that, then I would have built it the way it's supposed to be built when Ebro Haim did it. This hadith has a lot of benefits in it. But the chef Rahmatullahi it he brought it, for one reason has a lot of benefits in it. Part of it is the history of the Kaaba, part of his the history of the Prophet sallallahu it
was sending them leaving Mecca and all of that the chef brought it in this book, the Darwin the Duat we're giving Dawa and we're calling people and we're all duat we're all callers all of us it teaches
so what's the connection here?
The hadith shows the importance of any and everybody who's giving Dawa to have a comprehension of and a good understanding of the Dawa ficou dalla. The Tao requires comprehension.
Tao is not something
That's just wild. You just throw it up in the air and you do what you want to do. No. What are you calling to? How are you calling? And the people that you're calling? What is their situation? What are the different things that you can do to give them dower all of that problem has been brought to us sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this hadith is one of those pentacle Hadith that shows this that you have to know the condition of the people that you're calling to. Yeah Isha. Your people are new
to Islam. So that means you have to deal with them a particular way. It was that same i Isha, may Allah be pleased with her who said, Allah Allah subhanho wa taala. Had he made come a haram in one shot Quraysh would not have accepted Islam, because they are new to Islam. That guy is a new Muslim, the crackhead you smoke weed, he's doing something. Now that he came into a sign you got to take your time with him.
Does that make crack? halau getting high? No. But it means you have to take your time with him and understand his situation. You're giving Dawa to him. Don't cut his head off strong with you. The man is dependent. We have people in our community who smoke cigarettes they can get rid of the habit. So we give Dawa to him?
Are we going to cut them off because they smoke cigarettes? He's addicted to nicotine. He's addicted. It's not that he just wants to disobey Allah and follow his Allah. He stressed out we got all kinds of issues. He needs to kick that habit. But we have to support him.
But there may be that individual No, you don't support him.
But generally speaking, generally speaking, don't look at people in that way where you're really intolerant. very judgmental. Our children, our children, the Shabaab of the muscles right now. They have an identity crisis. The Muslim kids don't know who they want to be who they want to look like.
Do they want to look like mo salah? Do they look want to look like Jay Z? Do to do do they want to look like a little baby? Do they want to look like
so now as a father you meet fathers mothers, we have to know how and do our best with trying to deal with them. Yep. Me. I could come out and just go off. But is that going to work? I don't think it's going to work. Because everybody who's around your child wants to look the same way your child is looking.
So is the issue love? Having flick of the doubt gotta have flick of the doubt. If Allah azza wa jal has said once at once, first one time, they said no Hummer, he said kofod Quraysh would not have ever embraced Islam, because they love that color. It's a part of who they are. The girl is a brand spanking new Muslim, one of the biggest things that stop Western women from America from Europe, one of the biggest barriers is that he John,
meaning what? People are gonna look at her, she doesn't want people looking at her, her relatives or family just to make a statement. So once she comes into the religion, and she's your wife, or you know her, we have to support them.
Don't cut off and say you're not wearing hijab, you're not a serious Muslim. And when she wears hijab right away, gloves, make calm right away. Black. Well, it may work for this one, but it doesn't work for that one. And when it doesn't work for that one, you relax, you relax. If there was a sister, who from day one, she put the gloves, the niqab, all of that on, then let her start giving down in a nice way and say, Hey, I did it. And I didn't have these problems. But don't let us say,
Hey, I did it. So therefore you can do it. No, don't do that. You have to know what people's conditions happen to be. Even the issue of Hey, John, she doesn't want to hear where he just don't even talk about that he John, get it to believe in Allah azza wa jal first, that Tawheed of Allah. And then after she believes in the shahada tank, get into believing that sloth, and how she has to wear the hijab for the salah. But don't be a fitna for the people. That's the point. Don't be
intolerant. So our mother I Isha, may Allah be pleased with her. The Prophet told her that message and that lesson some of what he was telling me he's teaching us, hey,
some people in Islam for a long time and some people not in Islam for a long time. Sometimes the one who has been in Islam for a short period of time, sometimes you could get more out of them than you can from the people being snapped for a long time.
So as the di e as the teacher, you have to know when to do that you can get more out of them than the one who's been in Islam is lackadaisical. She's lackadaisical, you can get a lot of traction out of the one. Those people embrace the slap. You have to know when it's like that. So it can be a positive thing. And it can be a curse, you could put too much on people, and you run them away from the Dean. You run them away. And sometimes you could put a lot on them, and they're gonna handle it,
because they, they have that youthful exuberance, and it slammed in them. It means something different than the people been on his land for a long time. They just taking it for granted. Those people when they hear something, they're inspired. There is a video going around with a well spoken Sumati. Katie looks mighty to me. And he's talking about how his mother helped him to memorize the Quran. At eight years old. He's very well spoken kid, very calm. And he was saying his mother is not
married. He has brothers to another mother, but his father is not married to his mother and the way the kid was talking. Now when one of us sees that, we look at it we say mashallah, mashallah, that's a nice video. There's a woman who sees that a brother who sees that, who says, I'm inspired, if they can do what I can do it. And then from that point, they get serious trying to do that thing.
Revert.
So here we have two extremes. One extreme is the person who he claims everything is hikma, everything heck my heck my hikma by hikma is not what he's doing. He's just being apologetic, and he doesn't want to say the truth. So anytime he's asked a question about anything, he'll say, if the laugh you can never get the hack from him. And he thinks that that is hikma. But when in fact it is hope he's afraid. That's an extreme. Hickman Hickman. And then there's the other extreme where the
person has no Hickman at all rough, tough, intolerant, run people away. He doesn't care about hikma right here in this semester, if we were a community, us right here, only the people in this masjid, if you could put us in one of these, these rural communities in the UK with not a lot of Muslims, and only us without families were there. Only us. We got transported there. We're going to have to cooperate with each other. I'm not going to agree with everything you see not gonna agree with
everything I see. But what do you think if I'm the teacher, and as I'm teaching, I'm just saying you're not on it, and you're not on it, and you're not on it, and you're not on it? Anytime one of you do something, you don't do something that I don't like you I disagree. I kicked you off and say you're not practicing. And I just keep doing that to you. You got to say what kind of teacher you met. We're in the middle, dab smack in the middle of a Euro rural white community. And we're trying
to hold on to our religion for us and our children. What are you doing Bible? What kind of Dow is that, that you're giving?
No, you have to have Hickman and as we mentioned many times, listen, there's not a person here, except that the word hikma is an original word from his language. It's an Arabic word, but it's in everybody's language. This man is from Cameroon hikma is in his language. Sumani. Hickman Otto hikma is in that language, English Heckman is in that language. We all know him his wisdom.
But the way we always give the type the type of hikma it is putting things in the proper place. That's Hickman, Allah is Allah Hakeem. Because when he may Hello, hello, how haram haram. He knew what he was doing. So never come and say never, never, ever, ever come and say why those Hadith in Sahih Muslim don't allow us to make Hooroo which against the whole can because Allah knew what he was doing.
Allah is not telling you to love the Hohokam. We're not religious enough telling you that Allah is telling you don't make horrible chickens, those who can because if you make literal chickens, them, you're going to compromise the stability of the Muslims.
Why did Allah do because he knew what he was doing. Why did Allah allow a man to have more than one wife? Why? Because he knew what he was doing. Don't be one of those people say I hate the institution of poor marriage. Why? Because my husband didn't do it right. Or this one and don't know you're supposed to be a Muslim Amina.
And it goes back to the hikma of Allah Hala was halau in our religion, because it makes sense is wisdom. Why is the Mole it? Why is the moment not permissible? Why is that
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is no hekman connected to it, no hikma at all.
So people should just get plugged into and except what Allah azza wa jal has legislated and know whether we know the wisdom we don't know the wisdom, but there is wisdom. So, heck my is putting things in their proper place. Knowing when to talk, how to talk, what to say what not to say who to say it to. Sometimes hecms just being quiet and hating it in your heart.
Hayek Mises overlooking, overlooking, like last week's Hadith, it is not okay for the husband to hate his wife. If he sees in her a character trait that he hates, then I'm looking for one that he likes, heck, my necessities if you don't do that, you won't be able to live together. She won't be able to tolerate you. You won't be able to tolerate her al hikma Allah mentioned in the Quran. You Tillich matter. Many shots were made to hikma. fucka Gupta Haman Kira, Allah has given hikma to
whoever he wants to give it to. Anybody who has been given hikma, he has been given a lot of cayenne. Not a little bit. A lot of hail. The hurricane from amongst us is the key to hate.
If we have karma, like Abdullah bass used to tell his students cool, no, Rabbani, so karma for
you people should be Rabbani noon. Teach the people the basic knowledge first, the simple, easy knowledge first, and also be okay man, people with wisdom. People who know what you're doing.
The Tao of the Tao of these Jamaat there is no Hickman with these jemat they don't have Hickman is MUFE. Paul dies lost
is lost.
They have no power, and they want to start fighting America. What are you doing? Get your country together, get your country together. That's in a Muslim world. Here here. Remember 15 years ago, 10 years ago, we have people Hizbul to hear this craziness about establishing the Khilafah I don't say that to put you down because your husband time here, I want to take cheap shot at you. I'm saying this madness.
You look in this audience right now, we're all responsible for establishing that Khilafah in our homes, you all of us, to the best of your ability. You're the only thing your own house, everybody here. And your children, your wives, they are the man called mourn the one who you're judging who he could put his hand up and say, Hey, I'm taking care of this responsibility of being that leaf in my house.
Who can say that? And then that same person who is with his battaglia goes out and says, We want to see laughter here in the UK. And then the BBC acts that God never forget it. As long as I live my doom to hire, they said, What are you going to do if you guys get the Khilafah? He said, first thing you got to do is chop their heads off. And ladies who don't wear hijab, I said that guy has to be a plant. No one in his right mind will say something like that on TV. He has to be paid to say
something like that. Where's the Hekmat in that?
So, hikma to endow putting things in the proper place. But you don't give dollar you never see here on Monday. You'll never get up the on the member. So does that mean you excluded Canada? You're married? You're married? What about the one who's not married, so he doesn't have children? You have relatives. They're not Muslims. You have relatives who are Muslims, you have to give them down. You have a neighbor who's a problem. You have people you work with. At dalla you gotta have hikma. We
all have to have hikma. And there are some people as I mentioned, just as Allah gave some people Subhan Allah gave some people that ability to speak, they very articulate, Allah gave some people at the cat. Allah gave some people hikma.
This guy knows how to deal with things. And may Allah have mercy upon us chef Musa, a chef Musa from the Sudan. Rama Talalay, he couldn't read couldn't write. The man couldn't read couldn't write. He was only me but a lot of Aqaba never saw a man as wise is that man walking on the face of the earth, right not to lie it was offered Hola Hola. Hola. Hola, who tremendous man, a chef Musa
al hikma be balance be in the middle. Allah azza wa jal mentioned in that i He gives hikma to whoever he wants to give it to. And another it said in the Quran. Yeah.
Ah, yeah. Who the Kitab weten. Why, Tina, who will Folkman Serbia? Yah, yah yah, then maybe take the book with strength, be a Muslim and be strong. Don't be a Muslim and you're lackadaisical. Like the Prophet says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Abdul Ali have been Awaji if
any of you who lives for a long time, you're going to see a lot of the life. Take my sunnah and the Sunnah of the right the guidance of Allah for Rashi Deen those companions beyond the Senate fee of that they were upon with that religion. Not no group, but upon what they were upon. He said bite on it and hold on to it with your morals bite on to it. Don't put in your pocket like that. lackadaisical about your deen. That doesn't mean to be more to shut down and go overboard in your
religion neither. But don't be no flaky. Don't be no flaky.
Yah, yah, yah. Take the book with strength. Take it with strength. Don't be a chump. Be a punk. People push you off the square. You will Muslim. They push you off the square. Because you ski your skin. Your skin can play drummer can't do anything to scare. Change your name. His name is more IWEA they say just call me mo that my dad didn't name me mo
My father made me more. Let me school you to whom are we is. Now obviously when you have to have hikma. I remember when I was young and I was a new Muslim. I was pumped up like the new Muslims pumped up. I met some new Muslims they were from. They were from India, actually from Kenya. Then once they the boat, the boat they call it again.
They were those Bahamas Bahamas. Those ones in Kenya.
The Indians in Kenya. Were free him is smiley Jonas my avian Qadiani is and I met those guys. And they were working on a masjid and they had some non Muslims working with them non Muslims. And non Muslims picked that thing up and was a bunch of ants walking billion ants. And I started telling the guy about schooling man and the ants.
And shoot a man was talking to the ants. And I'm calling myself giving him dollar. But that wasn't the dollar to give that non Muslim white man he was looking at me like I was crazy. The ants was talking to the man and a man was talking to the ants in an ant stone to go back into your house because to a man as I was slowly making the wind and the birds and the gin, the gin I was telling him that. That's no hikma because he doesn't understand that.
Now, for Muslim, you're going to tell them or someone who knows the story of suit a man and the Bible. Maybe you could tell him things like that because he has a man in that.
Warehouse hikma is knowing what to say what your Dawa is who you're talking to, like that Bedouin man who urinated in the masjid. So Eliza Joe said in this ayat
that he gave Yahia hikma when he was young.
So there's, there's a person that Allah can give your child hikma. The kid is 1415 You're not a baby anymore, man. The door is 14 feet, you're not a baby anymore. Walking around with Pampers on we got to pamper you and baby you. You yourself now are responsible for developing those things within yourself. You're smart enough to do that.
So a young person can be given hikma. But usually, it's with older people. It comes with time. So I know that a lot of you young brothers, you think you know, you think you have more knowledge and experience to your mother and your father. And in some things, maybe you do it and stuff like that. But in the game of life, your mother and your father should be listened to. You should listen to what they have to say. You should listen to them. Allah audit the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam Urdu Elizabeth Rebecca Bill Heckman. Call to the way of your LORD with Heckman. I'm a married man. I'm married man.
Different wives, different children.
I cannot believe for one minute that I can deal with all of them the same way. This is not possible. I have neighbors in front of me neighbors to the right of me. It's not possible for me to think I could just deal with everybody the same way. Rough and tough. On Friday, that same energy that's what I'm dealing with people with all the time.
That's not gonna work, man.
There is a time and there is a place for everything. That's Hikmah
Last hikma treating your mother, as the mother and your father as the father even if the kuffar treating the Muslims as the Muslims, treating the one who's on the Sunnah, and he made a mistake treating him correctly, treating the one who doesn't know, the scholar of the Braley scholar of the brow. We are praying behind them. I'm not praying behind them.
I'm not praying behind them.
But your bravery relatives we go to their house, I'm going to pray behind them no problem. The scholar of the people have to shave.
I'm not going to see here and preach sectarianism to our community. But I will say anybody who has knowledge and you curse the Companions, you will out of this religion will lack karama you out of this religion. And that's why I won't pray behind you. And the one who believes that Rasul Allah so Allah Allah ism didn't die has Eliza knows that little hate all of that stuff, and he knows when he said you outside of this religion,
but our regular people, they're not like that. So I'm not going to teach that hatred. I'm gonna say have hikma have hikma, there's going to be a wedding are going to be your funeral. And the relative is on that Brailey stuff. Those people are Muslims. I'm going to go and I'm going to attend. Because by attending, I'm going to make a leaf between the hearts of me and my relatives. By not attending. They're going to look at me as a wobbler even more I hate Rasul Allah, I hate them. No, I'm gonna go
to that wedding and I'm going to validate my presence.
My valid date, my present, I'm gonna give dower in being there. And in dealing with this situation. As for the people just sick and have heart hearts, and they just want you know, just imagine the kid is growing up and he's being taught by the movies
to hate people who don't have that Akita. So the case is you and he really hates you. It's not his fault. He's a little kid. So we can be of the people because they do that we do that. I'm not going to teach that kind of sectarianism. But I'm going to tell you, you're not a real Muslim. If you don't have a problem with someone who curses Abu Bakar ermine or if man and it and the rest of those companions rubbed the Allah and you're not a real Muslim even more important than that more
dangerous than that. You're not a real Muslim. If you don't know who Allah is, and who Allah is it. Allah doesn't go to sleep, he is not tired. He has no Shruti he has no sons. Prophet Muhammad is not equal with him.
Prophet Muhammad is not equal with Allah azza wa jal sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
so therefore we got to make it clear. Hey, those earlier ma who saved key through a key through a Keith, you guys are kuffaar Well, that KERAMA but the r1 No, man, that's that's not hikma that's not putting things in the right place. Because the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam used to make mistakes like that similar to that and Rasul Allah would correct them and not put them out of the religion because they didn't know and they did big things, big things. And he Salah love
while he was southern border religion that gave them an Musa Maha forgave them.
As relates to the issue of an hikma whiny, this is one of the many examples this remember this hadith. You remember this hadith Rasul Allah is looking at the Kaaba. He said, I shot because the people are new to slam. I'm gonna leave this Kaaba, not touch it. But really, if they will not know, either, I would have destroyed I would have taken the carpet down to the ground.
And then I would have built it up. The way Ibrahim built it. What did he mean by that? Well, those of you who have been to the Kaaba, you know, you walk around the Kaaba, and then you walk around the hedges of Ismail, that thing that's open. If you pray inside of there, you're praying inside of the Kaaba, then the abuse of Allah, it was said Allah meant it if I could do it, if I had the money now, which I didn't. And if these people were not new, I would bring the copper down, build it from new
and include all of that so that the copper would be further and big and longer than it is right now. But he left it, although that's what should have happened. That was the heart
which helps us to understand Yeah, feet. You may be present and the hotkeys for this to happen for that to happen. That is the hop, but it's not the time to do it. It's not the time to do it. This is not the time to make that move. If we make this move right now. We're going to be punished by not being able to realize it. That's
principle in a solo FIP anyone who is Mr. Rajan and he hurries, he makes try to do something before the time, he'll be punished by not being allowed to do that thing. That's the punishment. That's the cop. For an example. That's his dad. He says that he wants to get his inheritance. This example they gave him Philip. He wants to get his inheritance. His father is about to checkout. So he unplugs the IV or whatever, he gives him some medicine. And he, you know, he kills his dad. They found out he
killed his dad, he hurried it up, he's going to be punished. Now he can't get that inheritance. He can't get the inheritance, because he was trying to do it quick. And in this time, same thing in the dollar.
Do you want to get married and you're not ready to get married right now. You're going to be punished by not being allowed to do it because you're not doing it the right way. You're not going about it the right way. So that's just a general rule in a Dow especially
in a Dow especially. So in regards to this hadith is just one of many one of many show us that Prophet Muhammad had. He had a lead so that
he had comprehension and understanding fiqh jurisprudence. He knew how to move. He wasn't one of those people. I'm Rasul Allah, I'm a Muslim. I throw caution to the wind whenever I want to do and I said, can't do that.
Can't do that guys.
Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu was sending them
when the Jewish lady gave him them food with the companions and they ate it. And about 12 of his companions fell dead. He told them hey, it's Cazes poison. They die.
Sent Buhari he had the Jewish lady they brought him brought her to why you do that?
She said if he was a newbie, he would have known that it was in there.
And she saw that he knew after the fact and what he did to a people. The companion say Yara zoologica weed killer. She tried to kill the newbie of Islam SallAllahu sallam, she tried to kill them attempted murder.
And she killed a number of other companions Rasul Allah say no, let it go.
Today, some young people whippersnappers will come and say, but Allah said, Women lemmya commands of Allah who lack a woman Cathy wrote, whoever doesn't judge by what Allah revealed them. They're the cafe road. So actually, are you Sandra Sula, as a caffeine from caffeine use what you're saying?
He he didn't even do it.
Why didn't he do it? He didn't do it because he looked at the whole situation and he waited
the time that it happened, what's the relationship with the yo hold? What is he trying to do? Many examples like that. Then the beaver snip that that one that that one urinating? I don't think that one either as a person sitting here, I know some of you are very laid back introverted. monthto. We like that. But I think if any of us saw someone urinating in the masjid, even though we know this hadith of the Bedouin, I think somebody's going to pick up this blue. This this would Quran thing
that they use for sutra and hit him in his head.
How many of you will not hit him in his head? How many won't hit him his head? How many Put your hands up?
But that's the minority. Because the majority of the people here are gonna hit that guy not in his head because you can't hit people in their head. They're gonna hit him in his back and say, What are you doing, man?
But sulla because the Companions got ready to do that. That's what they were getting ready to do. They would get ready to beat that man up.
So let's say hey, don't do that. Let that man finish. Finish urinated putting the Jassa so it's not 123 times. It's a lot for Mama Ibn O'Fallon. He came in he used to kill the Companions used to kill them. He used to tell his tribesmen if you accept this lamb, I'm gonna take you over the coals and burn you and kill you and take you apart piece by piece. tie you up your extremities and make the horses run in different directions pull your your your lens out and make your family watching then
after that I'm gonna take your wife and your kids and make them slaves.
You're talking about Islamophobia.
This man was on another program. But when the Companions caught him by himself, they brought him to the masjid and Prophet Muhammad said tie him up to the pull of the masjid left for me for three days to look at what was going on. After the third day let him go.
And the man King back
After he took a whole school on his own
nobody told him go take a hole somewhere he found the place to go so came back anybody watched him coming to the Mr. came up to the newbie and said I've been witness there's no God worthy of worship but Allah bear witness that you are His Messenger
look at the heck man.
But so Allah knows that full mama sallallahu alayhi wa sallam robbed the Allah and you gotta go back and read his story. Rasul Allah knows that fu Mama is a leader of the Arabs and he has a mind he's not like the people just copycats whatever you say to people just follow it the Muslims should be thinking forward thinking certain trends not following trends and the trends that we want to follow the trends that indicate something's wrong with us. I'm gonna go be all into some products and
mother cat the me and I'm going to pay 356 $700 Just because a guy his name on it.
Get it here man. I make my own name or find a Muslim brother does that let him get the money? Oh, what are we doing?
I don't make that haram. I don't make that haram but the Muslim is the trendsetter. Salah knew that man thought like that. That man just looked at the Muslims for three days, three days. And then he accepted Islam. Listen to this. After he accepted Islam, he went he perform Umrah and toe qurayshi I'm a Muslim now. And I'm a good shoe. I'm with him. He said that and Mecca. Prophet Muhammad can say that.
This man being with his tribe, he said in Mecca from today on, I'm not giving you people anything goes from my people. And let's assume Allah says okay.
Confirm Karissa Killam shoot, they say You better not sure you shoot that man. His tribe. Benny. Hanif can come to kill us. We're done. He went back to his tribe put an embargo on Quraysh they contacted Missoula. Yeah.
I met with Dion, TOEFL. Mama lift up the embargo, he lifted it up. Quraysh became Muslims.
What if Rasulullah had killed through Malmo right away for all of what he did.
To mama did Allah
rasool Allah let them go, and that Karim and that hikma, whoever's given hit, so the point is, is a lot of mawatha it's not one tooth is a lot a lot. The man came to the Prophet who was resting some Lulla what he was telling me he took his knife and put his knife on Russell's neck and say Mohammed I got you who's gonna help you? I'm gonna kill you right now. Rasul Allah said, Allah, Allah, Allah, the thing fell out Rasul Allah grabbed that put in my hand, who's going to help you say, hold that
hold that Muhammad Take it easy? Take it easy. You say that? You know, Lisa, I'm not gonna say lie. But I promise I won't fight you anymore. I'm gonna fight against you anymore. Right? So I said, Okay, let him go. That man went to his people. He told the people what happened? They became Muslims.
What if what he just turned the corners, you put this knife on me? Come and tie him up.
I'm going to terrorize him. I'm just not going to chop him up right away. I want him to live the turn the fear that he put hat on me. Because right before when he had that knife on me, I thought about my baby. I don't know. I won't see my wife again. I thought about my community. I thought about all those things flashed across my eyes, my life. He tried to snuff it out. Now I'm gonna make sure he fills all of that. So let him didn't do any of that. Just let the man go. Let the man go.
His people went and they came Muslims.
But the man didn't become a Muslim. And that man got caught again the second time fighting against the lobby caught him. The man said nice guy. Let me go before me. He said the believers not stung from the same hole twice and he dealt with them. You had your chance.
But the point here, honey, is that the newbie of Islam some Lovelady was setting them, he has a lot of these types of mawatha these positions a lot, many. So now before we finish when asked, What did those scholars say in terms of an hikma? Because you know, like the good qualities in Al Islam. They are Tessa you can acquire them. That companion when the Prophet told him to love while he was setting them up in Africa slitting your boom Allah, you have to character traits that Allah loves.
He said what are they? They say? He said you're easy, you're soft, gentle, and and that you're not in a rush. You're easy which have been
abs and with people, you're not rough tough all the time. Every time you come in, people say, oh, boy, the whole the kills coming through the door. Now.
As soon as the kids hear the key of some of our fathers, as soon as they hear the key, as soon as they hear the key, or boy, they even come up with a language of their own, so that the father, the mother don't understand what the knucklehead is here.
And they talk to each other like that.
I know it's funny, I know. You know, I know. My father was like that man will be in the house going off, we'll be going playing as soon as we hear that key 530 caught up, anybody sat down, I just go in my room, I'm out. I'm out. Because that duel was tough. But Hamdulillah he calmed down a lot. Now, May Allah guide them to a slam, he may see this and get mad at me and say I never accept this lamp, make it very clear. That was a long time ago when I used to give him a hard time. But now he's
an older man at something. And he's much better now. But back then that's how. And I said, I never want to do that. Never want to do that.
Be that rough and tough. So you got to be in the middle. You got to be rough and tough when it is required. But generally speaking, we should be easy. So the point is, the prophet had a lot of those situations Salallahu it was it was Sunday. We're not going to go through a moose a lot of them whether those scholars say who any. You want to learn how to get rid of your bad habits.
A lot of scholars wrote about this like the great scholar Imam Abu Hamad Al Ghazali Rahmatullah Lee, who was
really really competent and beneficial and a solo Feck. And also in those books he used to write like, when he would write things like the issues in Riyadh, the Saudi heme, although is mixed up with some other stuff. But nonetheless, he's a great scholar in Islam. We don't follow that Sufism from him, but he gave this ummah a lot of higher Imam Al Ghazali. Just don't go overboard. Don't go overboard, and don't go under board. He is from Marvel Islam. And Imam Al Ghazali has a chapter, how
do you go about rectifying your bad character, according to the Quran and the Sunnah, and he brought some nice cannamd Some nice content. One of the things he mentioned was that in order for a person wants to rectify whatever bad character trait he has, he talks too much is lazy. The person is I need very stubborn, the person
doesn't tell the truth, the person whatever it is, he has anger issue, manage, just get upset all the time, and mature, very self centered. Jealousy. The person is weak, people push him around. He's a pushover. Those things that we don't like about ourselves. What can you do? He said one of the things that you do, he mentioned a few. He said, one of the things is that you
force yourself, you force yourself to do that thing. You stingy, force yourself just to give money.
Force yourself, whatever it is, you talk too much. Force yourself, just don't talk. If you keep forcing yourself, your heart will have an impact and effect. It just happens. There's a hadith like that, that the Prophet says of Allah who it was salam in the Mulholland with the Hello, we're in the middle and the room. If you want to be soft, Helene, and you're not a soft person, then force yourself, you rough and tough. just force yourself. He told us a lot of things. If you have a hard
heart, rub the head of an orphan, rub the head of the orphan. When you make such the make this do I make that dua but he said, If you want to be soft and gentle, then force yourself to do a snarling you. You're not kidding. You're not generous. Like some people, Arabs are generous, and it comes from them. And some of us are like that, but some of us are the heel man. Some of us have the heel. If he has his friend and him are going to eat breakfast together.
They're going to eat breakfast together and his wife cooks the sausages, you know those round little sauces. And she cooks five sauces gives them eggs, eggs, and you have five soldiers. It gives him till he takes too long. There's one more and he said let me give this hint call me be eaten and over in the corner. He's gonna wait from his friend.
His friend didn't see him eaten that fifth sausage.
But the Generous One says Fidel, three 410, five, you're my guess. Some people really like that. If you want to be like that, just give, don't be that guy who always wants to come and crash the party. When you know we go people go to eat you just crashing the party. That's cool if they let you do that, but sometimes you got to say, Hey, let me do it. Let me do it. Let me do it.
And that thing will come, that thing will come. So if you want to learn about Heckman a few things you could do a few things you could do from what the reader might say.
Read the book of Allah make the XR and reading and spending time with that Quran. And you know, in the past, there used to be people who were well known for being people were connected to the Quran. Like in every community. flan is the thought hip of the Quran. He's reading it, he's connected to it. Where is that person from amongst our community? From us to regular people? Those of us who don't memorize, some of us have memorized more than others. But where is that person from amongst us
who in a balanced monitor way, he's reading the Quran all the time, revising, reading, he's balanced, he'll talk to you a little spin now go out with you. But we know this brother is with that what happened to that personality?
If a person spends time with the book of Allah, Allah is Al Hakim
is a hockey
and from reading that Quran, understanding those stories and stuff like that, but just from reading the book of Allah, it had come
number two, number two, number two. Number two is that the person should spend time with people who have hikma yaka, yaka. Beware of being with people who are foolish.
Beware of that foolish friend. He'll do more harm to you then your enemy. The foolish friend,
the one who doesn't have Dean and something's wrong with his AKA, it's better for you to walk by yourself than walk with someone like that heavy on you. Beware. So be around the people who have Hickman like the newbie of Islam, somebody was setting them in these stories, like reading about the Syrah of those people who are known for the intellect from the companions and other than that, those Mo who are judges that you know, in Ellis lamb there's a scholar, his name is Abel Josie Abdul
Rahman had been with Josie wrote a lot of books humbly scour.
He wrote a book called Akbar
Al Hunka. One MacGuffin in the news of the idiots and the people who have reflux. They just not aware. And he wrote the antithesis of that Kitab and fKF. The book of those who are intelligent scholars used to write this book, this is not the only book like that and Islamic library. I remember Ben he banned before him. Even he has a book of Hadith. And it's one of the main books of Hadith. So hey, Ben, hey, Ban, he was a scholar of a jack with tideal Imam had been a band.
He also has a book Kitab and Hunka. One Mocha faylene. You read his book about the and some of these stories, some of them are funny. And some of them are sad, because we have people like that around us. Some of them are really funny. You laugh at some of those stories, but some of them are sad, because we have people who are like that and I tell you with this social media the way we are right now
this social media
is helping people to be dumb.
is dumbing us down.
It's making you not we're not use your brain. These people are playing games. I don't want to go off the mark and get into this Illuminati stuff. But you know how they do all of these studies to keep us focused and zoomed in and zombied out. We as soon as we wake up, you gotta go to your phone no matter what time it is the first thing you do if you lose your phone, it feels like you lost a part of your body and all of that stuff.
This stuff is making us dumb. Our children are dumb Dominum down. Our children can't write English anymore.
Because everything when you write with messages is S M H O M G, and all it tbh that's how it is.
They can't even write English anymore.
So now, those books that the scholars used to write those books, why were so many scholars write books about the idiots and the internet, and that's what they call it. Hunka, stupid, idiotic.
People who, when you read their stories,
the man came, and he was lying. He was that telling the people that he met Al Imam Ahmed and Ali Medini, who were contemporaries, and he never met either one of them. He was a Cadabra storyteller. And he's in a messenger given stories telling people and make it up Hadith. And then he told the people a chain of narration, so and so said, he said that Al Imam at NATO him and he Medina told him so and so told him so and so. So I've overheard her say, it's such a such such thing. I remember I
mean, I mean, Medina, he was sitting right in the audience, and they don't even know what a man they say. When we
say it, said it Medina's admitted, no handle, neither one of us know you. What were you mean? We told you this hadith?
The man said, do you think you're the only one who handled in the world you think you only only Medina in the world.
And there are some shapes like that some talkers like that no matter what, they always got something to say. They always they always have something to say as to why their position of what they did was legitimate, just like that you can never catch him. That's him.
And those kinds of stories, and worse than that come in those books. Why those books, they're those books, they're for our community, don't be from those people. Don't be from those people.
Lastly, when he
can't put enough emphasis on integrity, which means experience, they say that everything needs the outcome. Everything needs intellect, everything you have to have the option to do everything. They said but the actual knees experience Tachibana there is no substitute for experience. One of the greatest scholars in Islam as Imam Abu hasm that I told you guys about a few days ago and we talked about the most notable Imam the key blue mark led a sham Iraq the toolani and Imam, Abu Mohammed
immuno hasm was a tremendous scholar in Islam. In his mind, his intellect was on another level. Another level, some people Allah just made them very smart like that. And he was a scholar and another degree.
But because he never ever, ever, ever went to hygiene ever performed Ouch. He has one of the most important books on hygiene
called hedgetrimmer Wada. The Farewell Pilgrimage is thick. From the time he left Medina until when he went back to Medina, all of the feedback between the companions in tabular Iman all of that is a masterpiece.
But an imam who hasn't never went to Hajj. So he has some positions in this book, lack of experience will make you live at his position. How many of you have been to hajj and umrah? How many of you made tawaf? How many of you made 12 How many times you will make two off how many times you go up and down? How many? Seven and we start with what first?
Which mountain? suffer? Why do we start with suffer first?
Because when you go into a surf after you come in from the Kaaba Rasulullah walk towards suffering say no that will be my bet that Allah will be we start with what Allah started with in the suffer when Marwat Misha I relax so we know not suffer. So from suffer 1234567 So you finish on what mountain?
What mountain? Matawan and that Marwat you don't face the cabin make dua it's the only time each one you make dua but the last one no.
So if you guys go in I don't know what it's looking like now but don't go out that door by murder. Why don't go out that door because you get lost you got to go back to the cabin. Go through the shortwave. That ain't the point though. Listen to the point. And the man who hasn't said anybody who's going to make to walk or anybody who's gonna make say they have to do it 14 times 1-234-567-8910 1112 1314
and you finish at suffer 14 times.
Can you imagine doing that 14 times
in Ramadan or at halftime? Can Can you imagine doing that 14 times on the day of Alhaji and Akbar?
You know, when we're doing all of that to waffle II fall down? Can you imagine if people had to do that 14 times, people will stop being Muslims. They say I'm not a Muslim anymore.
I reject Islam from the because there's too much.
He didn't have the experience. That's not to take anything away from him. And that's why from hikma is, when we talk to scholars here and there, you have to know what scholar you're talking to. What's the background of that scholar?
Does he know I was situation here? Is he the person to ask that question?
That's what we have to do. And just before I finish, I just want to make mention of this situation about hikma bow hikma for the brothers who have given dower listen, you know, this intolerance and criticizing people and expelling them. And canceling people. This canceled culture because people make mistakes. This is not from an hikma, this is not from
this fighting and all this madness, not being fair. You have to have Hickman be easy and be fair with everybody. People were the Imams of Cofer and innovation and things like that. And they have the main call as to that representatives and the rules for that you deal with them comparable to what they bring into the table. But for the general Ummah, don't be like that. There's a chef, the chef was saying,
and I know what he was saying. And I actually agree with what he was saying, he has said, if you know you have this thing in Islam, called the Messiah and the MUFE said that the Messiah is the good thing. And the mob said is the bad thing like the Prophet here, Salah Salem, the Messiah, the good was to bring the door down, and to put the Kaaba all the way back to the hatred of Abraham.
That's a must law.
But in doing that, the people would have gotten mad and a bit fitna, and that's a MUFE said that. So when our religion, before you can pull the muscle Aha, before you put the muscle Aha, you have to get rid of the MUFE sit down.
So you marry to your first wife now. And you want to slide into second base and married a second wife slide into second base. But in sliding into second base is going to this is Musleh is Musleh. benefit. But in doing that, your first wife is going to go off a mother, her father is going to have issues or eight. So before you can pull this and do it, you have to get rid of this to the best of your ability. That's just a general rule in your life.
At your job at the school in the masjid, there is something we want to do is kind must lie, we want to do it. But in doing it, it's going to create some issue. Before you do this, get rid of this to the best of you or don't do it. Because if you do this before it's time, you're going to be prohibited and prevent it from doing it's going to be a problem. It's going to be a problem for you.
Don't do it.
So that Chef he had mentioned concerning the muffs at that site who broke it. He said we anything that causes a fitna we shouldn't do it. As people giving dower he said even cited bucatini cited Bahati, we shouldn't distribute it to the people if it's going to cause fitna
and the people who used to be with that chef, you know, they all was together now they are against them. So they want to catch the shake out. They want to catch the chef out. They call the few shakes the Mufti they call shake. Hey, Dan, they call the shaker foes and someone says we shouldn't give out Bacardi if it's going to cause fit and what you say. Each one of them said that's Barton. That's no good, that's Balkan and reacts who said that? They told him they says bottle.
No, I agree with what he said. But the Sheikh said and I agree with what they said as well.
I wish that they would have asked more questions. But I agree with what that Sheikh said. If sided body or kitasato heat or hot button Hajah is going to make people not listen to you and fight you and stuff like that. Then don't introduce that right now. Don't introduce it right now. You don't have to do
Clipperton hija you all heard of the story of the man who wanted to give his Community Capital he he took the Hulk off the cover off and gave it to him, so they didn't know what it was.
So that's what the Sheikh was saying
that we're going to do the Sunnah. There's the Sunnah when you make his Salah till he actually knew that he was solo and you say, as Sarah
said,
You're not going to do that in comco Sharif not going to do that in zeal Quran. You're not going to do that in Masjid Hydra, Hydra Hydra.
Not going to do that and then places because that's the Sunnah and it's Whadjuk to keep the peace between the people you're not going to pray with your shoes on in any of these messages, none of them you are not going to pray with your shoes on in any of these messages. Because praying with your shoes is the Sunnah is what the Prophet used to do Salah is you doing it is masala you get rewarded. But in doing that, people are going to go off. So don't do it. Don't do that.
Hickman Hickman now as it relates to the chef, the chef people play games. When the Sheikh said when he said he was trying to say something that is a slamming. It comes to us from this hadith of the Kaaba, the Kaaba,
the Kaaba, the house of Allah. Last thing I want to mention he said that was a copy he left it so cited book it we're gonna leave it for right now telephoto he but we're not going to force it on the people. Last thing I want to mention 20 Historically, one of the companions His name is Abdullah Abu Zubaydah, his father's a Zubair one of the 10 people promise Jana, his mother is
a SMAD the daughter of rumor may Allah be pleased with all of them. He was a tremendous person in Islam. In the end of his life, he was killed by an hijab a new use of a Sufi during the time of Abdul Malik even marijuana is Citadis
he was killed
and there was a lot of turmoil between him and while we and all that stuff.
But before he was killed, he got power over the Muslims. He was like the Khalifa kinda he has support. And then he was killed his cousin Abdullah and the bass just tell him for back don't do this. It's gonna be a fitna.
Anyway, you have power, and you have power over Mecca.
He said to the people I'm getting ready to do a prophet Muhammad wanted to do but he couldn't do it. So Allah he was sending, but I couldn't do it now. Or sold. I wanted to put the carpet down. But he didn't have the money to do it. And he didn't have the support of the people because Pareto new in Islam. He said, You people have been Muslims for a long time and I have the money. I'm not scared of anybody.
And he said to the pilgrims, who came? What do people say we should do? Should you agree you don't agree. People gave him his opinion. Abdullah not bad said I saw in a vision site and Muslim. I saw. I think you should just leave it the way it is. It was like that with them. And people who have accepted Islam is like this leaving. He said he Shala I'll make a decision in three days made it staccato three days. After the third day he came in, he said, I'm changing his Kava.
And I'm going to build it how the Russell wanted it to be done.
Because I understood if he had the money would have done it. And if he wasn't afraid for the slam of the people, he would have done it.
So he sent the man up on top of the roof. And the people when they saw that they ran away. They said there's going to be a lightning bolt come out of the sky ends and kill that man. You mess it with the Kaaba. That's a big thing with those people.
When the man started taking it off of the Kaaba, they saw nothing happened.
It turned out that Abdullah Zubair took the whole Kaaba down because it had been destroyed. There was a fight and he messed it up, they attack the car, they got messed up. So they built the Kaabah from new and it included the higit of Ismail.
He built it and included the hedger of Ismail.
But it was time of fitna and the fitna, capac and the fitna kept happening. And then after that Zubayr was killed, Abdullah Abu Zubaydah was killed and the leader of the Muslims, Abdullah Manik Marwan below him, he said, We don't need what he did, and he undid it. They undid it. So the Kaaba has gone through a history
That is tumultuous, the people who gave you the Molad the fatemiyoun of Egypt, they came and took the black stone back with them to Egypt.
Just read about it. They came and took the back stone and took it to Egypt. The people gave this OMA the mole it
and when they killed the Muslims, they took them in exams and well,
they threw them in the zamzam well.
And you got to come tell me that the people gave the mole it has some height in it.
Go back and read about the history of the Kaaba and plenty our religion, well religion, there is no single person as all of it, but you can be the diamond in the rut, any one of you
memorize the Quran, Scallan Hadith, learn about this none about that. Just don't be satisfied with mediocrity just being a Muslim like that when you're not learning your religion. So those scholars wrote those books, a bar Mecca, the news of Mecca before
all the way up until yomo Kiama with Allah and His Messenger Salah where he was someone a lot about a katana that said about the cabin is profit. Okay, we got to stop paying inshallah. Remember this hadith of 20 other Hadith like that, the importance of and hikma in our dollar in Allah, we want to