Abu Usamah At-Thahabi – Hadith #23 – Manners of the Caller
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Prophet sallallaahu Salam, and the mother would say, what's the secret? He says the secret of a Sunni law and I'm going to tell you, even his mother, tremendous personality. He said that the Prophet says Allah Allah while he was setting them for life from the cartoon with an iPhone Manji yet, three things are destructive, they will destroy you. So avoid them.
Any one of these three things by themselves will destroy you. With an iPhone one jet and three things are big enough. See, the three things that will destroy a person is being stingy and not sharing.
Not sharing his time, his wealth, his knowledge.
The other thing that will destroy you is following your desires the Hawa at Valhalla will destroy you. And number three, the third thing that will destroy a person is being impressed with oneself looking at yourself and seeing that you're better than other people in you you impress with what Allah azza wa jal has given you before going to the other three inshallah that will save a person. We have to understand that this hadith is talking about the moon the cat and the moon g mu g at the
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Nejat comes from that word the felucca to Nigeria, the Save sect, I still mean the Hajj. And the key though that the Prophet brought Salah when he was setting them every Muslim has to try to be upon it. As the Prophet told us, Allah, Allah who it was setting them that is I will talk to you for two min material Hartman surah. They will not cease to be a group of people from this ummah, they will be victorious, the Save sector for Africa to Nigeria. So if a person believes and wants to be from
the Philippines to Nigeria, he can't walk around being arrogant, being impressed with himself saying to everybody, you're not on it, you're not on it. You're not on it. I'm better than don't. We're really talking about cricket in Nigeria. He thinks he's from the felucca tonight inshallah he is, but all of the three things that will destroy you in that person. The three things that will destroy you are in that person. And that's what the things that will save you doesn't have it. So concerning
the three things that will destroy you, is for a person to be stingy. being stingy is a characteristic of the you hold from the many characteristics that Allah described the hood wave in the Quran. This is one of them to be selfish.
Allah will Tiana mentioned in the Quran when Allah Subhan Allah venia Luna Bhima Tao whom Allah whom and from the V who hate and lo, whom Bell who was Cerullo,
do not let those people who Allah has given them
wealth from his virtues, Allah gave it to them. Do not let them think for one minute when they are stingy that that's better for them like they're saving money by not giving. You're saving money by not giving. Allah said no instead, this is worse for them. So what booklet is a big muscular because it shows that a person's key this jammed up, Eliza honey, he's the one who provides for everyone. And he provides for everything in creation and will provide for you bye for everybody in sha Allah
azza wa jal so the Muslim has to know that so he can be healed. As relates to the authentic sunnah. The Prophet told us Allah Allahu alayhi wa salam tacos. Sure, fair enough. Sure. Like I'm in Canada blucon. Beware and avoid being stingy. Because stinginess destroy the people who came before you and yahood when NESARA is from the things that they did, that they were destroyed as a result of that. So in our religion, we were told to avoid it and the one who makes jihad against this knifes in
terms of being not stingy is a lot of reward Well, meaning you should have enough See he for a woman muffler on any
One who was saved from being stingy then those are the ones who are successful now you look in the audience and we have children, our children a boy Allah fie muy bien en fusi him
they don't even want to share between themselves. They can share the iPad, they can share the computer, they can share things that are there from the food and other than that it's the me myself and I culture this it
these three things. If a person has one, he can be a narcissist or three, he can be in a narcissist, Bella shuck. And Narcissus is the person is all about me. So all about me is when I want. It's not about the group. It's not about anyone other than me. He's married to his wife, but he doesn't care about anyone except himself. He's always first he wants all of his heart doesn't want to give up.
He doesn't want people to bother him. He doesn't want people to impress him. But he never thinks like that. For other people. Narcissism is a mental illness. He thinks he's right. Everyone else is wrong. will lie. I've seen people like that in the dollar. And that's why nobody can get along with him. And that's why he can go into the masajid of the Muslims, men nor for Him to come into the masjid because it's too rough, too tough and looks down on everybody. Well, lucky. I know people
like that. A person like that. May Allah help us. So as it relates to stinginess, it will destroy you. The Prophet Toby Lao sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he eyebrow spin and Allah's spin on you. But I didn't have any money. He didn't have any money. And yet Allah's Rasul told them you spin and Allah will spin on you, man NaPCA Somalian cutman sadaqa. Anytime you give sadaqa that money never was decreased, instead is going to be increased. And you're going to find your reward with allies with
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stinginess with your time. This book is the Dow in the dot, the dollar in the Duat What's your Dawa and you're one of the people call into that dollar. You can't be stingy with your time can't be stingy with your time. How is it possible we want to call the people to the Kitab in the Sunnah and we miss understand about mixing with the people of innovation so the people who are on the whacked out understanding of salvia whacked out is his beer like the his be of all of these gems that we
always want you have you don't have to be with any of these groups. Don't be with any of these groups don't be with any group calling themselves Salafi. A whiny none of them groups. But look at the understanding no doubt the Senate based upon the kingdom, the Sunnah, they used to boycott and they used to avoid people of innovation, no doubt about that. That's from the assault of a silly fear to boycott people. But it needs fifth has to have physical hunger, not based on just getting
mad and you void boycott people. So therefore,
the only data you can give is in your Masjid. You can go to the masjid over there the masjid over the the masjid over there. So people's understanding is we only can give Dawa from right here and we preach to the choir to the people already upon the Sunnah know you will heal in your time. I don't say go and jump in the water with everyone. You're going to go to a place of people curse the Companions rub the Allah I know maybe you can go and give them down as long as they don't put
conditions on you and so forth and so on. The point is given down with Allah, it requires Karim The second thing that the Prophet mentions of Allah who it was sending them was the how that is followed the how're your desires, everybody has a enough's a Dubai enough's. Allah mentioned about that knifes in the Quran, F la Menza ka waka gravamen this DISA anyone who does does key it to his knifes, he's going to be successful, does get the knifes means you know how to deal with your
telephone. You know how to look in social media you know what to listen to what not to listen to? That's the knifes because if you left this knifes it will become your god your Illa
Allah says in the Quran for eight a minute Dhaka Hawa who, Allahu Allah Allahu Hawa, have you not seen the one who has taken his knifes as his got his Hawa is his God. Whatever the Hawa tells him to do that's what he's going to do. steal the money. Do this, do that. Don't
Don't pray, don't fast
lie, cheat, whatever it is. His religion is Hawa, whatever his Hawa, his knifes to stay whatever that's going to be his religion. He want to curse the Companions he's with these group of people and make convicted in a way that's whatever, whatever let's just get along with the people. So this Israel of the knifes is that we have to make jihad against enough to bring it under control. Well, I'm in the car from a coma or b We're not enough, sir. And then
for Jannetty, we're healing my wife, Amy, anyone who's afraid of yomo Kiama and he's afraid in this dunya Allah MACOM of Allah, that Allah is looking and listening anyone who has fear of Allah and he holds his knifes back, he holds it back, then the jinn is going to be the final resting place for that individual. So these two things will destroy a person in the Quran. Allah mentioned a person you should know it is a man that the scholars who gave the Tafseer of the Quran like an imam injury
recovery and other than Him in Kashmir and other than him, Rahim Allah Allahu taala. This is a man who Allahu Taala gave him his SM an album, the essence of them the Greatest Name of Allah, you make dua to Allah, by that name. And Allah will give you that thing is the life as to what that name is. Some of the scholars say that it is Allah itself, Allah, that name. And there's the little for that. We don't have time for that. But Allah will tie the mentioned a man that he gave to him his IAct he
gave to that man signs funds, Salah minha, and he left those signs that Allah gave to him. He forgot him he left Allah took it away. The point here is this particular man follow his desires. So he lost that knowledge. He's in the book of Allah. He sent him the Quran will Oh shit nah, Laura fat now who will be her when I can, when I couldn't know. Let the Inner Earth whatever Hello
hat we wanted. Allah said if I wanted out to raise him with my X rays, anybody with the eye the religion, Allah said he would have raised them, but the man the man, he held on to the dunya to the earth, and he left that and he decided to follow his Hawa. He followed his Hawa. As a result of that he became a bad man. This is one of the eyes of the Purana go to show the Polo of the slaves are between the two fingers of a rat man you can label her K for your shirt ALLAH turns hearts of people
as he likes what Sally never levy it now. Tina from Santa Rita them Yeah, Mohammed the story of the man we gave him our if he was from the old era of Allah.
But when he followed this how're we follow this Hawa? Allah sent him straight, and gave him a terrible example in the Quran for methanol who can methanol kelp. Internally, he yelled halfway through who yelled that the commercial common living in Canada will be I had to let his example is like the dog. So what when I lay him and I'm LEM tomorrow. Now you may know his example is like the dog. If you bother the dog, the dog was staying there with his with his tongue out. If you leave the
dog, he'll stay there with his tongue out. That person is the same. Give them Dawa. You don't give them Tao is the same,
like kill. So following the Hawa at Valhalla mosquito, the third one honey is what the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu it was sending them a job and not have enough See, for a person to be impressed with himself. We gave a call about this you go back and check that footbed out but as we mentioned back then, being impressed with yourself with ourselves is from the characteristics of the Yoho den the Nosara now when yesterday,
the yo hold and the Christians from before and now
throughout the Quran we have what Allah tells about how they looked at themselves and how they looked at other people, how they looked at themselves, and how they look condescendingly down on other people. And they said a lot of statements that their actions didn't back up, that it could be unknown Colin Thomas seminara Illa yam and Matt Duda.
That is because they said, if we go to the Hellfire we only gonna go for a few days, just for a few days if we have to go, but they say more than likely we won't go
So Allah told the prophet to say to him hi to butter Hana coming come from Saudi clean Where's the proof of that? We'll call it Talia who do one sobre la nueva Allah He were at BAT Oh call for the might be the new become Bell and tune beshir or min min Haluk your filthy manga share where you I leave Romania shut the Jews and the Christians say we are the sons of Allah. And we have Allah the ones that Allah loves. Allah told us Allah say to them, then why is it that Allah punishes you for
your sins if you were sons?
If he said no money and was his son, why would Allah allow a sibling money and his son to get hung on a cross? Although this is not talking about your sibling money? If you people are the real sons of Allah and His beloved, why does He allow you to why does he punish you?
You're human beings like everybody else. He punishes whoever he wants, and he forgives whoever he wants. So kind of who what to Allah. It is a characteristic of the yo who then Asara, the yo Jose, new shot * matar, we are allies, chose chosen people will take the Palestinians and kick them in the Red Sea. And we can do that because we Allah has chosen people and the world better get with the program. How does your conscious allow you to do that? And that's why there are some yahood who
are not Zionist, who are against what design is still. But my point is, how can any human being in this masjid, your father, his father's father, his father's father, Father, Father, owns the land that you have back in Pakistan back in Bangladesh and Afghanistan in Somalia? You had that land in America, and somebody comes today Johnny come lately 2021 and says, This is our land. You have the D but it's mine. Oh, you get that from? God promised us this land? Who talks like that? That's a job.
That's a person being super impressed. The Christians say and they believe if you believe that the Seminole medium was hung on that cross, and He died for your sins. You go to Jana, you can drink hammer, you can make Xena you could do whatever you want. Just take me several money Him and believe that He died for your sins and do whatever you want.
That's what this is talking about. A job a lot of enough's. And as it happened to them. It happens to us. As soon as a man can a couple of whom this community you're going to follow the people went before you everything they did, you're going to do it. That's something that they did. And this is something that we have a job. Okay, my beard is beginning yours. My job Bab hijab is nicer than yours. Here's a sister. She's a new Muslim and maybe she'd been in the deen for some while but she
has a funky hijab. I don't mean it smells funky when I'm talking about the colors, the print in her hijab. Her Kimani the way she wears it. The other sister who dresses properly. She has jute bags, she has gloves. She has me cop. But when she sees that girl, she feels a I'm on it and you're not on and I'm a better Muslim than you.
When Allah knows best, who is who? I am Tara Illa levena Use a Coonan for Soham Bella who use a key Manisha.
Have you not seen those people praise themselves. Allah praises who he wants to praise, talking about the yo hold and the nasaga that ayat, Allah told me that haram led to the coulomb Fusa come who Allah will be minute taka. Don't praise yourselves. Don't praise yourselves. Allah knows best who has Taqwa. Allah knows best. So don't walk around when you find people who are not practicing from your relatives and whatever. I'm coming here on the bus number six. I got stuck out out there
taking a bus today. I asked the guy on the bus. What time is Maghrib? He was honest. He said I don't know I don't pray.
I said to him, May Allah help us help you may said I mean he said I looked for it because of the DUA guess didn't treat them bat. He started looking for it. I said come on, and we're gonna go to the mystery. Get off right here. He came. I lost him. I don't know what happened. But he came off the number six bus from green lane right here.
So we're gonna look at him and say, Yeah, that's a major sin what you're doing, but whoever doesn't live in a glass house, let him throw the first rock right here from the people who are sitting right here. Whoever doesn't live in a glass house, meaning we all
have mistakes that we're making. So his jihad is Salah, with jihad, maybe something else, or maybe like his salah, you pray, but you're not praying, are we not praying all five prayers. So the point here at Cleany is a job and model. And a lot can be said about Jabba
the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa, it was setting them. One of the famous wars that they had was the Battle of her name. It was the only campaign in which the Muslims had a lot of numbers, they used to always be
our number three to one and better 300 of them over 1000 kuffaar That was always the case. But in this world remain a slam spread. And when it was time to go, waged a war, everybody came out. The Companions looked at themselves and they were happy. Allah mentioned that in the Quran, where Yama who name is Jay but come Catarratto come from talking about income che. And remember the Battle of TuneIn when you looked at your lodge numbers, but it didn't help you at all. You looked at your
large numbers and you were pressed with it, Jad the Muslim said Yes, look our numbers.
And Allah cause them to kind of lose the battle. Radi Allahu Anhu edge main teaching us a lesson is not the numbers that win or lose is not the medicine that makes you well and not it's not the bullet or the knife that kills is Allah's widow, Allah. So don't be a person was merge it. Like for an example we're given doubt Allah. So a person given Dawa says looking my hits. I got more hits than you.
I got 50,000 and next year I got 80,000 Let's say I got a million. Anything's better than people because got a million hits. That's not the goal. That's not the objective. And the classroom. One of the people giving Dawa says I have more people attending the class than me mashallah look at my class last
night, I bet then people come up to you and the Imam reads the Quran in a beautiful voice in a beautiful way. And people come and say mashallah, your recitation, a jab enough's. And this is why the Prophet told the people salah, why do you say to them, don't break your brother's neck by going overboard and praising him. And right now from the minute I just said, if he is that we don't see the permissibility of Rouge against the Occam of the Muslims. As long as they are Muslims, we don't
say we don't see that you can revolt against them, not with the sword and not with your tongue. But although we don't see that we also don't see it as being the hack that we find some people always praising these leaders with what is not in them.
Rather the self we're not upon that. The set of us to avoid the doors of the Sultan, they want to go to the door of the leader, because they didn't want to be tried in the religion. You have to give a footwear to please me.
So they would avoid now we have people I'm telling you the we're living in a strange time. That people praise is one thing not to me horloge we don't make horloge whether it's another thing you praising him, you even have one of them. i His tweeter tweeter, he has the picture of his king
pitch of his king that's not from the man who just said if you to say about these people what is not in them as well respecting them Yeah, Amir meaning things like that. Nothing wrong with that. You want to respect them or mirror line, no net Zilla nice Monday, Zillow, you have to respect people who have positions nothing wrong with that. So a job and not enough. Try to avoid these shallow who Tyler will come to the next one is 20
and these are the three things that will save you three things that will save you the first when he mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has shipped to Allah facility will Allah Nia
fearing Allah, in secret, and in public, now wherever you want is going to feel Allah in public inshallah the way we are right now. Nobody's going to take out a spliff and light it up here, loud outside or cigarette. No one's gonna do that. But when a person is by himself, he may do that. He may masturbate. He may do things watch *. He may curse when he's by himself and if people were not around, he swears use his foul language. You want to be saved. He said Salah while he was
cinema, then fee Allah in
Secret and an open and public public is easy.
A man came to him and said give me advice yeah Rasul Allah. He says Allah what He was salam ah, ooh seeker and to stay a min Allah command to start he mineralogical salah, Min Benny Komik, I advise you, they have higher, to be shy of Allah to be modest, have high yet the same way you will be shy of a religious man from your people, a religious man from your people. So for the person who watches TV, and the different shows in the movies on the TV, with a cursing, swearing and carry on, a
comedian comes in, he swears he watches that by himself. But if his mother's father was there, you won't watch it if his uncle can go and watch it. If an older brother from the community came, because it's public, he's not going to do it. And that's a good thing. That's a good thing. But the Hadith said, Fear Allah in secret, and fear Allah in public as well. So public is pretty easy. It's the secret issue.
Or a secret that is to struggle with the issue. The Prophet says Allah Allah who I they were under it was called Luma t ma alpha in L. mu j, he wrote, all of my OMA will be forgiven by law except those who broadcast they say God is Allah Who are those who bought broadcasts. He said, the ones who broadcasts are the ones who during the night, when they by themselves, they make mistakes. They make the new, all of them. Not a person here doesn't make the new. They make mistakes in secret. And
Allah who has a satiric from Allah's names, a Satir. Like the curtain Satya, he covers and conceals, conceals your fault.
So he does a crime or he doesn't sin in secret. And then it comes out in public. And he says a full nine, I did this, Hey, I did that. I was drinking, I got high. Hey, I did that on a computer. I killed someone, and on and on and on. He's the one who's broadcasting because if a person doesn't send that Allah covered him up, and then he comes out and starts talking about it. sins in the community and society are going to be looked at as being simple and easy. If everybody kept doing
that. You get used to the sin. Like the man who killed 100 people. And he wanted to make Toba. He said you have to leave this place and go somewhere where the people not doing what they do. Why? Because where you are for you to have killed 100 people it's a sign an indication that sins are rampant in that society, or people would have stopped you and said what are you doing?
You killed three people already. He got up to 100 because that's the society like here, like here. So we don't find this strange anymore. We don't find it strange. When the Muslim girl gets on Tik Tok. And again, she starts to sing those songs that Cardi B making those these people and then she's cursing and swearing and it's not strange. This is the society we're living in right now.
So as it relates to sin in and secret,
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa ala it was setting them told the man in tequila Haytham, I couldn't fear Allah wherever you our fee Allah in the masjid and out of the masjid fee Allah daytime and nighttime feel like Ramadan outside Ramadan. Fear Allah when you're making hydrogen you're not making hydrogen
free Allah in secret and in private. It cannot pay for my account. So that's the Muslim wherever he is, whenever summer for winter, wherever he's going to try to practice his religion, as it relates to this word, a Shia Tula cofe of Allah, all of that Kushtia to Allah to be afraid of Allah. Allah Allah Tada mentioned in the Quran in sha Allah min rebadged de la.
Verily those people who feel Allah are the ones who know him. Now the word that's being used here is
the dilemma. Whether when am I here and not necessarily the people are in Emma that we think is any and everyone that has enough knowledge not to do the Haram you are a scholar and I limb I don't want to say scholar an island because you have enough sense and you could be a regular person who doesn't even memorize tinsels of the Quran.
In sha Allah Himadri Badie and the Golem the objective is 20 of
Learning this book is not to just a memorize it, memorizing books, that's important. But that's not the goal, the objective of knowledge, the goal and the objective of knowledge is to practice it first and foremost in the call to practice it. So that's the issue behind, fearing Allah, wherever you have to happen to be in public or in secret.
Before we move on to the last two, the Prophet mentioned sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the mimma a direct canals main canal in Ubuntu hula, is a lamp to stay first night, my shit from what the people learn from the prophets of the past with all the people learned was that the Prophet said, if you feel no higher, if you don't feel shyness, then do what you like. One meaning of that hadith is, I don't know, should I do this? And I don't know, should I not do it? Is it halal? Is it haram? I
don't know. So let's say it stuffed the Calvin consult your heart.
If you wish, if this thing doesn't bother you, then go ahead. If you got a good heart, ask your heart. If you're not shy of doing it, go in and do it. That's one way.
And the other way of understanding of the one we want to use here is if a person doesn't have higher, he's going to do what he wants to do.
He's going to urinate a crummy Kamala in public. These people drink Hummer, they get high in city center, other than city center here, here in our area, but more on city center. That lady is out there drunk, drunk, like a skunk drunk. And she'll just go to the side and in front of people urinate, because there's no higher.
The kid is in school. And he's working out one of us is working out lifting weights. And after you finish he gets in the shower with no clothes on with all of the non Muslims in the in the shower with him. They all looking at each other showering, talking like it's nobody's business. If you're not shy, then do what you want. This is what happens when you don't have a higher.
So from those things that will save a person and make you from the first cut to Nigeria and make you from the Nag gene and dilla yomo Kiana save save save set, but it doesn't have any higher, any higher. And approve he doesn't have any higher is that you can be older than that individual. And he talks to you as if you are the kid with the hierarchy. This boy this boy is their father. If one of them did this to his father.
We're gonna say Brother, what's wrong with you we as your Hyack. You do that to your dad.
His father went to the refrigerator, open up the fridge, there was a soda in the refridge fizzy drink. The dad took the salt in the drinking. She knocked it out.
It killed it. But it was the sun's soda. The sun come say hey, who took my drink who took my drink. They said Dad took the drink, save get me sick. He gets you sick. Everything that you eat, it's from your father.
Everything that you wearing dresses from your father, one soda cost less than a pound less than a pound. And you got mad that your father drink your drink.
And you got an attitude with your father. So Pamela
so as it relates to the issue of fearing Allah azza wa jal, Fela in secret, just as much as feared in public, and this is something that the self used to take great care of. And they used to talk down on people who, when they're in public, may give you a nice picture. When they secret. Everybody's up to stuff. That's why when the man said to rob the Allah I know Yeah, Ameerul Momineen. You see that man over there? He's a good man. You should put him in your in your cabinet.
Give him some responsibility, let him be a minister. And I said, Do you not know him? He said, he said, Yeah, I know him. If you traveled with him, you did this did that. He said no. He said, You don't know that man. All you did was you saw him bow down, make ROCOR and make sage in the masjid. That's what you did. And it's good that you saw him bow down and make your record but you don't know that man. You don't know that man until you borrow money to him. Does he give you your money back?
You don't know that man until he marries your son
until he marries your daughter
I'm tired man. I'm still tired.
I'm still tired.
I did a recording in Bradford man bro.
Africa, Mr. Cole, Kuba and they built a beautiful,
a beautiful
studio down in the basement, they utilize the space and upstairs it was a church. And both floors are beautiful. And in the basement they have a Pakistani TV program comes on the TV, you know by Islam channel called pagan TV, pagan TV. So I was talking to some brothers yesterday about how in Greenland we have a basement as well. And if you've been in the basement, they fixed up the basement, but there's still space. I said to the Ringling Brothers we were eating you guys they
asked me about that mess. I said their their basement is nice. It's the studio. I said Look, you guys should make a studio in the basement downstairs. They said to me Shall we got a studio upstairs and you tucked in that studio?
I'm so tired. I forgot that they had a studio that I gave lessons from that studio.
Alliance. So you guys got to help me if I say marry the man marry his son. Okay. You have to correct me alright? Because people get that off the internet and say that's what I'm calling to. And it's a mistake. As it relates to the issue at hand when he the people who are fearing Allahu taala. In secret, Allah will tithe as he mentioned in the Quran, Allah Houma Farah to agilon Kabir, Allah has prepared for them a great reward. And he has prepared for them. MK Farah. So as I say, with that
thing of Omar, we look at each other. And we have husen oven with each and every person. And we smile at each other and we support and love each other. And we don't have sooner than you never say when he leaves. He's probably no you don't say that. But don't clean. You know anybody until you've spent some time with that individual.
If you're married anybody who's married here, who's married Shala
everybody who's married, you know your wife better than anybody else, and she knows you better than anybody else. And this is why the Prophet sallallahu said that when he married more than one women married 11 Women 11. One of the hikma behind that is, if he was metronome, if he was sat here, a magician, if he was a Kahin, if he was a soothsayer, if he was any of that Elia, one of those 11 women would have came on and say, Hey, this is a situation where Hi, Shirley lackey
he was responsible for killing some of the relatives of his wives, husband of his wife, father. So that lady had more reason to say yes, he's this he's that but when all 11 of those women lived with him, they testify and they supported in that colada hooligan RV. You're in a high level of o'clock. Nobody ever came and accused him Salah white he was setting them up saying what he didn't do anything that was unbecoming of someone who was given dollar Salah what he was sending. We go to the
next one when he in the next one in sha Allah is Al cos to fill fucker. What will save you as being moderate moderation when you're poor and moderation when you are rich?
Moderation, a custodial sunnah. Hey, men and it's raw Phil Beda.
of Imam and no we in the book Iago saw the hand and the chapter of innovation. And remember no we started that chapter off by saying moderation in the Sunnah is better than doing a lot of innovation.
And Hublot model Allah He might do we might even come the thing that Allah loves the most is what you do with consistency even if it's a little bit one right guy for winter just one someone comes and he does the salad arugula in the salad of the people of a Sofia la de la Liga there's no so no solid quarter if that the profit left and they read this read that do this do that. Just praying one rock kind of witness to rock out. That's from the Sunnah rock. I tell. fetcher rocket ah, l February
Hey Ramona dunya. Well, my fear the two rockets of fudging the Sunnah, prayers, better than the whole dunya and was in the dunya. Not to mention innovation, only this innovation.
So the person says 33 times so Paola.
Hamdulillah 3333 34 That's better than him saying 1000 times. Who were Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah.
And if he keeps saying that Allah Allah, Allah, Allah who will who is going to feel lightheaded, he's going to feel lightheaded. That's not a sign on the occasion of anything other than a shape on came to you. A che THON came to you to make ested Raj make you feel good about what you're doing the same way we used to feel good when we were in the church.
We used to feel good when they started the preacher when he shut up and he sat down because you never know what he's talking about. Just be quiet and sit down, let the band play. And when they start playing, you get into it and you feel good. You even feel and think that you're closer to Allah, you believe that? What is then pulling on the strings of your emotions is not the knowledge. It's not the knowledge.
So from what will save you is El Castillo, this hadith, this aspect of the Hadith shows the importance of being balanced and being in the middle, being balanced and being in the middle. Allah will tie that mentioned in the Quran. When I touch,
multiple wallets and electronic when I tap so called bust is a very important issue.
What will save you being moderate, when you don't have money, you're rich, you got money and be a moderate when you're poor. Now be a moderate when you're poor is easy.
You don't have a lot of money. So all you're going to spend every week is 75 pounds, 80 pounds, 100 pounds every week at Morrison's every week, because you don't have money. That's your budget.
The husband and the wife put their money, whatever, all we could spin as 100 pounds, because they don't have a lot. You students you don't have a lot.
But the real challenge is being moderate when you have money. And a big problem is when you don't have money, you go overboard. And this is part of our culture. This is part of the culture of the millennials. And it's part of Pakistani culture, Arab culture, African culture. I don't want to
throw mud on any body but Africans were people who love to show off.
In certain countries in West Africa, people get married, and they be throwing money on him throwing money on him throwing money on
like, the hip hop people. They want to make it rain to show people that they have money. And you want to make it rain at the wrong place that they don't base the concept, just throwing money $20,000 or 1000 5000 $10,000 in $1 bills you don't you don't need two people. To show you that money. I saw an interview with this guy who's one of the big hip hop artists name is Fat Joe lost $10 million $10 million $10 million.
Because every day he was going to the bank taking out $50,000 every day with his entourage, when to get the money. They said you ain't got no more money that happens to us. People will poor people have years of generational poverty. So when we get money, first thing that we want to do is floss. Got to get a Bentley for every day of the week.
The Muslim feels he has to get necklaces, platinum. Even if it's a cross, he doesn't care. He wants people to look at him and say he has money.
So what will save you, I'll curse to Phil fucker. Well Avena that you will moderate. When you have a little bit of money. Don't be one of those people. You got to have the latest kicks, the latest sneakers trainers.
Don't be like that.
Keeping Up with the Joneses, they have a new a new kitchen, we have to get a new kitchen. They have this 50 inch TV, we have to get a 60 inch TV and on and on and on and on. When you have money as well, you have to stay moderate. And again, it's funny. The Bill Gates of the world people like that. You don't see Bill Gates wearing 345 $1,000 suits. The guy has jeans on the guy has a flannel shirt on, you know like a Farmer Jack shirt. You think he can afford those kinds of clothes?
And it's what the Prophet says salam alaikum salaam, being rich is not having a lot of money is the contentment in your inside of you is the contentment
As I mentioned in the Quran in the marine Can you want to share a theme? Those people waste? They are the brothers of the devils wasting money wasted. Now if you can afford a nice car, no problem, a phantom, you know, Bentley, Mercedes, Range Rover, kitted out if you can afford that. And you don't think you're better than other people, then Allah loves to see his NEMA on his sleeve. No problem. We're not going to make that haram. But the problem is you can't afford it. You cannot afford it. So
stay in your lane and relax.
Become to the last issue and 20 be it and let the dollar and the dots the third thing that will save a person and make them from the footpath to Nigeria and make them from those people who will be saved almost Kiama and entered into it the Jana May Allah make all of us from the net genial more piano without any other than without any he sat. And may Allah put us on the midnight just set it up with hikma knowledge and cost being balanced, not this extreme stuff that we find from people today.
The last thing from what will save you an idle Florida, Florida
will have up being fair and just when you're happy when you're pleased. And when you're angry,
being fair having an idle will terminate Kereama to Rebecca, second Weigela the words of your Lord have been completed with truthfulness and justice. The camera lellis Lamb about this beard is just the camera of Islam about the women, children and how to deal with them an idol. We are cam of Al Islam, about the hurdled Adam. Allah is Al Hakim.
Allah Who Yalom went to let Allah Moon Allah knows when you people don't know.
And we challenge anybody, anybody come, and let's make them Mikado. Now between the legislation of Al Islam, I do not sit here and say there is nothing in Judaism, nothing in Christianity, Sikhism, Hinduism, that is not fair. And just no hair. I didn't say that. I say, but the whole religion of Al Islam is justice. And you don't find that with any other religion or any other religion. And that's just not canon. If someone would have claimed that, just like us can stand up to the litmus test. It
can.
So look, being fair. And just when you're happy, please, that's easy. That's easy. But when you're angry, that's not very easy. And that's why the newbie sets of Allahu alayhi wa sallam lair to the Enel kadhi BNF name will walk ban, the judge anyone who's judging, he shouldn't judge between two people when he's upset.
Why? Because if he's upset, he's not on his equilibrium. If he's calm, he ate. He's not too hot, too cold. He's not too tired. That's when he judges if he's too tired or too hot or too cold, angry. He's not in his, you know, his is normal. So he shouldn't judge Be quiet. Don't do it right now.
So those people who judge with Justice judge in the hokum that he gives the ruling the position that he gives is from the court to Nigeria, and he doesn't you guys know he's not fair. He's not fair. He has a double standard. He Sheikh said, Rob be asking me Kabir My Lord is a big, big, big military man. But the chef didn't mean that. The chef didn't mean that. The chef said that Cabo nomadic is a straight when it strays. So a man doesn't know the flick of the walker, the chef said a lot of
stuff, but when the share can make a mistake, give the people a break. But when someone else makes a slip of the tongue, they hold you accountable. Because double standards, all of the gematria like that.
The people of the gym aka like that, not everybody, not everybody, but the last people who should be like that if people have the Sunnah. But the chef, he gets a pass to do whatever he wants to do. And they always come up with a reason why it's okay why it's not okay. The chef said, all of the Hohokam of the Muslims are kuffaar Except in Saudi Arabia.
All of them are rafidhi all of them are balcony, all of them and I manage all of them except Saudi Arabia. I know the Shia
If I didn't mean to make too clear,
but that's what it amounts to.
If say a quarterback statement, all of them which come out of the Muslims on which to my cover, if that's him making tech fear of all the Muslims and you're going to accuse him of being a McAfee, okay? You got to say the same thing about the sheer
love for Allah who little Jamia, ALLAH forgive everybody. So judge with justice, for or against.
So judging when you're happy is easy. It's when you're upsetting, you're mad, that's difficult. So Allah revealed the ayat to the Muslims to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam they were getting killed. All of those years in Mecca, they were getting killed. And then they grew and grew and grew and grew. And then they went to Mecca to conquer Mecca. And they said today, the blood is going to the blood is gonna spill and the meat will be cut. That's what the companions were saying we're gonna
get these non Muslims today.
And Allah revealed the ayat Allah your God mana come Shanahan who come in Allah Allah to do evil, who Accra Buddha Taqwa don't allow a people's oppression towards you people don't allow that oppression that they did to you don't allow that oppression to make you become oppressive, but be just idle. That's closer to Taqwa. So we want to say and I said Hamdulillah we don't have this problem this Masjid with our Chabad and it has reduced itself a lot in this country, but it's still
there.
The oppression that the West America at the top of the list at the top of the list, what they did in Afghanistan, what they allow to be done in Palestine, and Iraq, Syria, all of this wound to the Muslims, we see it with our own eyes. That doesn't allow anybody here to become radical and extreme and go and harm people. It's not our religion.
Two wrongs don't make a right in our religion. When the Muslims went to perform the hajj, they said oh when the Muslims they went and allow Muslims were making to off and during the time even in J Lea, if you want to make Hajj you can bring your weapons they respected that they will kofod You can't bring your weapons you have to leave in keep your aunt Rama when the Companions so that they see y'all so let us go and get them. They don't have the weapons going to chop them all up. They
don't have the weapons. It's an even playing field now. Then be told them SallAllahu it was setting them I was in St with a religion like that. You're going to kill the pilgrims.
You're going to kill the pilgrims who are unarmed. You're going to kill children and women and older people on arm that have nothing to do with what's going on in Palestine. It's not our religion. So when you're angry, you have to be fair and just the Hadith says a dill Amana era many term Annika without the human Chanukah. You have in a manner someone gave you a trust. Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam said, give the trust back to the person who gave it to you. And don't cheat the one who
cheated you
don't cheat the one from the ayat of the monastic as for one of them, either has Fajr if he argues, he becomes abusive, he's not fair. He gets upset. And he says you you're mothering your father. And all of your whole tribe. You guys are this are you guys are that a man? What does my mother have to do with what's going on between you and me right now?
Because he's angry. So he dragged your mother into it and dragged your father into it. So the Prophet told the people salAllahu alayhi wa sallam lives have been a battle. Don't let any of you curse your own father, the Arabs? Who would do that? No one does that. That's why they remained on the religion of the fathers and rejected Islam because they love their fathers so much. They couldn't fathom disrespecting their fathers and they will kuffaar
They couldn't fathom. You're not going to read with those Arabs in Jamelia slapping and beating their fathers up.
You got to question the other day. The person is disrespectful to the parents and and has with swas and takes a shower for two hours. As for the wristwatch the parent has to be you know make dua Be patient. As for the shower for two hours, you're wasting money to our shower. Even women shouldn't do that to our shower to ours in the shower.
As for cursing, fighting, attacking your parents
If I'm ever asked that question, I'm gonna just tell it straight up how it is.
And that is
any child who raises his hand against his mother or his father, he should be dealt with. He should be dealt with, dealt with in the best way. Islamically
that's a terrible thing.
Don't let any of you curse your mother, your parent, your father. They say, how does one of us curse his father? He said, That person curse is another man's father. He's arguing with that man. So he says in your father, and then that man turns around saying your father too. So he was indirectly responsible for having his father cursed. So why did he mention his father in the first place? This is between you and him. That's it. Father's in Guyana do it. Village doesn't have anything, tried
nothing to do with it. So stay in the middle. Last thing we want to make sure that any concern of this issue is the tremendous Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in an in an Moxie teen and Allah He Anna Nabbit min norm, Yama, Yama, those people who are faring just their fair injustice yomo piano they will be upon pulpits, the member made out of Nora and the right side of a rock man and both of his hands are right then he went on to explain. They are the people who when
they give a hukum they adjust. They are the people with their families they adjust and then the people who if they may responsible for anything, a leader anything he's just like Greenly masjid, is responsible for this Masjid. So whenever we make a magazine showing what has happened for the last year, we shouldn't just put Pakistani people looking at only Pakistani people. That's not fair. We want to see people from Africa people of color want to see reverse white people want to see
everybody it's not a Pakistani Masjid. You go to these messages not fit. Not just are you giving me a whole bunch in all domain?
How are you giving us a whole bunch of dough? Now if you were 99% people Urdu speaking Okay, no problem. But where 97% English speaking people, and we're trying to learn our religion. And you're given the only in Arabic, only in Urdu. Where's the fairness? Where's the justice in that? So these people will be on the members of light yomo piano the ones who are fair in the hokum the rule is that they get their fair between the children.
They have fair and just we have brothers in this message right now. And there's drama in our hearts towards some of our siblings, because the dad was married to our mother and then divorced and then got married to another lady so now the children over they're younger and he's closer to these kids than he is he forgot about us
all the man has multiple wives. And he's not fair. He's not just the one who has more than one wife will come yomo piano and his side is going to be dragon justice and Ellison. So from the top is 20 and we Nick Tuffy we have it covered in Sharla three things will destroy you number one, what will destroy you as being stingy? Number two, what will destroy you if the by knifes following your desires
eating anything and everything. He can't stop eating. So the person who is way overweight or obese it's not good for him. But he can't stop because the knifes the knifes can't stop it
and number three for the individual to what was the third one
to be impressed with yourself and as I mentioned the one who has all three just one is enough to make you a narcissist
look at any narcissist
he is impressed with himself. He follows his haha and he stingy stingy maybe not what is money but me me me me me myself and i i want it i felt it. I'm cold. Me
and then the three things that will save you is for the individual to free Allah in the secret and an open in the open and for the individual is the second one.
They have moderation when you're poor and when you are rich. And the last one is what
be faring just okay when you do guys have any questions if you have any questions you could put your questions for that kinda from soil you have a question?
Every week when all of the people in this ministry mashallah no questions okay? You could cut the thing off now I want to ask you a question Okay. Actually gave me three the things that will save you three of the things that will save you
be a beaver
being just in what
you're angry and when you're happy, being moderate in what moderation and what?
Nobody leaves, nobody leaves, nobody leaves. Nobody leaves nobody leaves.
When you have money and when you pull what's the last one?
fee and Allah we are open and then when your secret what are one of the things that will destroy you one of the things that will destroy you
being stingy and you'll
be impressed. And you will the third one.
Allah Allah Allah, Allah he
follow your knifes the follow your knifes. He gave me a delille from the Quran of a sunnah that shows the evil of being impressed with yourself. What's the dealio from the Quran and Sunnah.
The yahood. And then Asara Good job, my man the job. He gave me another deal from the Quran and Sunnah about the evil of a job.
Even from yourself.
Did you guys hear about that hadith of the man who the Prophet said some Allah He was telling me he was walking with this swag. He was walking.
He was walking like he's the man he's the man. And Allah azza wa jal opened up the earth and the earth swallowed him up.
Because he was, so you hear this term, you guys swag, you guys swag. And well, it's okay to have swag, in certain circumstances, mean to be self assured. But walking around like that, and it's in my culture, part of my culture, African American culture is the different ways that we walk to show everybody I'm the man. You can't walk like that in LS net.
You should walk easy on the Earth with respect, not make it people look at you like you're some to be you know, feared.
Now
someone achieves something. Like I just said, being impressed. And having swag. Sometimes it's okay.
Companions were fighting. And they took a break. I will do Jana, one of the big Mujahideen, he was on his Arabian stallion, and the Muslims were arrested and they were tired and wounded. And he wanted to agitate them as Allah said, how to read the meaning in Al Kitab. Make them agitated, get them up and go and fight. That man, I will do Janome his horse walk like this, like in the horse show. You know what I'm talking about? Like that arrogant way so that the non Muslims and the
Muslims can see, we're warriors. We have photos here. We're going to do with you. And when the Muslims saw that the Muslims got pumped up when a non Muslim saw that there was like, wow, these kind of people are these. So that's not arrogance here on the battlefield. Similarly, if someone he were to accomplish something, and as a result of accomplishing that thing, he's happy. There's nothing wrong with that. That's from the NEMA that Allah will try to bestowed upon him. What a muy
bien Amity Rebekah for this. It happened Allah gave it to you, you tell people you love. I got the job. I graduated. I did it. Wow. It was tough. But I'm a graduate of a PhD and nothing wrong with that. Now the problem comes when he starts walking around saying I got a PhD what you got what you got?
You don't have anything. None of your family members got out of high school.
That's a problem idea. That's a problem as well the natural thing no problem for them.
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But he worked with an iron and he has so much money that the keys of his treasure required a lot of strong men to carry just the keys of his money.
And when the people were telling them from Benny and stray harbor Cairo, you better stop that Allah doesn't love love that. Well that turns on the SIVA committed dunya Hey haram don't do that. Don't do that. He said I was giving this because I got a special knowledge get out of here. You guys are educated. And that's always the Qalam of the coconut. Always. I got special knowledge you don't have the knowledge that I have. Get out here. And then Elijah again, punish God. So we may give you a
hadith on iron here, but use your own brain now. Use your own brain. Good job, my brother. Good job, my brother. Okay, it's windy in a toughy have a witness of ALLAH SubhanA wa donnini We're flipping out what yeah, come the Cooley my boo Yaga Heather Wilson Mala who was sending them about a gun in the beginner Subhana coloboma will be Ambika watershed era la