Abu Taymiyyah – Your Boyz Are Not Going to Break You Out of Prison
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My dear respected brothers and sisters, ask Allah
Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to bless you all, and
we will welcome you, in this blessed event.
Firstly, we thank Allah
for giving us this opportunity
and gathering and coming together to learn and
to benefit. And secondly, we'd
ask,
we'd ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to the
committee of the masjid
for allowing this gathering to happen.
And thirdly,
we would like to ask our master
to reward you all for coming and attending.
And finally, we would like to
ask our
to reward our dear brother
and our lecturer today for taking the time
out on busy busy schedule,
and, inshallah, benefited with important points.
And inshallah,
the Ustad
will mention a beautiful sub subject which in
regards to friends
and everything pertaining to that. So inshallah,
without further ado, as they say, we'll hand
over the mic to,
Sadat al Mutaim Mehdi Allah to enlighten us
with the beautiful reminder.
Dear respective brothers and sisters,
for attending
again,
this evening.
As the brother announced, we want to speak
about this very, very important topic, which is
the companion
that a person
takes as a friend.
And, SubhanAllah,
I think also previously,
I gave a similar lecture
about this topic a couple of years ago
in the same masjid.
And I think this is around the 20th
time I'm speaking about this topic,
bad companions.
It's become like a signature lecture.
And the reason I believe that
we have to speak about this issue so
many times is
every city that you go to in this
country,
even in other, you know, places in Europe,
you find that there's a same problem
that every family is currently suffering from.
Most of our kids are not able to
stay at home.
You see there are they are in the.
They are socializing
and the socializing
normally comes from
where people they go to school,
the universities that they study in, where they
meet new people.
Had I been staying at home
24 hours of the day under the guardianship
of his parent, then I'm sure they wouldn't
be able to interact with others.
But this is just the reality they are
that we have to face. They have to
go outside.
And when they do go outside,
they start interacting with all kinds of people.
And you know, mothers, especially the youngsters and
our sisters,
today I just wanna
share an experience.
I just really speak to you from my
heart. They say whatever comes from the heart
hit ends up hitting the heart.
Something that happened to me personally
so that you take this as a lesson.
I'm not here to preach to you. I'm
not here to tell you how to live
your life.
I'm not here to lecture you. But rather,
somewhere that happened to me personally, hopefully inshallah
time when you do leave today,
this will
play a part in your
minds.
And then hopefully, you
can go and take it to our Allah
young brothers and sisters.
You know, brothers and sisters, I have a
big scar on my head right here. If
I was bald, I would have shown you,
but I'm not.
I have a lot of hair.
I have another
stuck wound right here,
next to my shoulder, in between my chest.
Yeah. Very long one.
Another one here on my finger.
I have a scar on my finger. Yeah.
You know, brother insisted the reason for this,
you know why?
All because of a stupid postcode.
I lived in London for
couple of years.
And a lot of the youngsters then, they
were up madness and doing all sorts of
crazy stuff.
You know why they used to fight and
stop one another?
Just because this guy is from another postcode.
Here you have cv6. Right?
Cv6. The message is postcode is cv6.
This is one area,
c v 4 is another area.
Imagine stopping another individual because he's from c
v 4.
He walks into your neighborhood,
you ask him what area are you from?
Because he's now
in the wrong territory,
He's in the wrong hands.
You decide to scam him.
And through that, what do you get?
You get street rights.
Street rights.
And when you look at the reality of
the situation, brothers and sisters, the most stupidity,
the most stupid of things.
So many that is so worthless and meaningless.
How many people in London, you know, they
died,
They were stabbed.
They were shot.
All because of this stupid thing.
Do any of your brothers know Muslim
A lot of youngsters know him. Right?
Do you know his friend called Musa as
well?
His name is Musa Gambi.
Couple of weeks ago when I was in
Brixton,
this brother Musa was telling me something that
took place
when he was still in Jahiliyyah.
Because this is verse in the Quran
where Allah
talks about 2 tribes,
Aus and Khazraj.
Allah says in the Quran with
Remember the blessing of Allah
When you used to be enemies to one
another.
And because of Al Islam
the blessing of Al Islam, you became friends.
You are on the edges of the hellfire.
You are on the edges of the hellfire
about to drop in.
Him.
And Allah
saved you from it. When Binda's brother Musa
was speaking,
and obviously him and Muslim Bilal, they're very
close friends.
They're all from the hood over there.
They were out to madness back in the
day when they were still non Muslims.
Where in Brixton,
the brother is saying to me,
there was times that they discussed after him
and our brother, Muslim Bilal,
Muslim Bilal wanted to come
and stop him on one of these days
Because he heard that he's hanging around in
this area.
But he managed to get away. Another
time, same thing.
He heard that he was in full lockdown.
So Muslim is coming with all his
boys
and his friends in order to hurt him.
But he didn't manage to give it.
And now when Islam came to them, they
became the best of friends.
His brother Musa said to me when I
hear a verse like this,
it really makes me
thank Allah
for the blessing that he gave me over
Islam and appreciate the fact that I'm Muslim.
Because this is exactly what the people used
to do in the time of the prophet
And this is exactly what is happening today.
You have a predecessor. These gangsters will go
around
and they fight, and they start, and they
shoot,
all for pathetic reasons.
They are carrying on the trend of the
people of the past that Allah
really defamed.
They
realize
and are beginning to realize as well.
Allahi brothers and sisters recently,
to show you not know and heard about
it in Islam,
2 good families that we know about,
member of each family,
one of them stop the other.
When you look at the reason,
pathetic.
A life was lost from our Somali community.
From our Somali community, brothers and sisters.
Because of what?
A pathetic reason.
So brothers and sisters,
sooner or later you will find out
why a person wants to risk his life.
He wants to risk his reputation.
He wants to risk
his life and his dunya.
As I'm going to come on later on
inshallah and
speak about some of the consequences it has.
You being trapped into prison for the wrong
reasons.
Remember brothers, in this country, I have one
shop.
There's something called CRV check. You won't probably
realize it now.
But later on when you wanna get married
and you wanna start your life, you wanna
make tawba to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and
you wanna better yourself.
You wanna start working.
But because you have something called the CRB,
there's something on your CRB.
It's a criminal record.
People today who don't have jobs
are struggling.
And they don't have a criminal record. They're
struggling to find a job, brothers and sisters.
So
what makes you think that a person with
a criminal record
is going to get a job?
You get trapped in prison, will lie, brothers
and sisters, you're going to go in circles
for the rest of your life.
I see it's not with some of my
family members.
He's had enough of prison.
He's been chucked in there time and time
again. He used to go and he used
to come out. He used to go and
he used to come out. Finally, he says
He
wants to start life. He wants to be
married. He has desires. Once you get home,
you want to have that spouse.
And then you can't find a job.
You can't find a job when you're going
yourselves.
So because he can't now pick spot his
life, he goes and does the exact same
thing.
And what's going to happen is he's going
to get shot to prison again.
Brothers and sisters, I always mention as the
people start laughing.
Nobody is going to do a new addition
of prison break and this is the reality.
The only one that's probably going to come
and visit you is your mom.
The one that you disrespect at this moment
in time.
She tells you, Stay home. Don't do this.
You think she's backwards.
She doesn't know the reality of what we
are living in.
She's Afar.
That's how we look at it.
She is Afar.
She's backwards.
We are living in the 21st century.
So we know and they don't know.
They're backwards.
The only person that is probably going to
come and visit you is your mother and
your father and your other close relatives who
used to advise you from day 1.
Your friends
I'm gonna tell you exactly what happened to
my friend now.
Who was shot
in London a Somali mother called Shamarqi.
I mentioned this before as well.
Maybe for a couple of weeks, they're going
to be writing on Facebook, on Twitter,
Instagram also known as
It's one of the some of the they
say Snapchat.
RIP, my brother.
Some of us might find this funny.
That's why they want to write, Alright. Be
my brother. I'll hit the road soon.
Couple of weeks will let you die out.
Nobody is going to give 2 hoots
about your life after to exure
Forgotten messian messiah.
And that's exactly what happened to my friend.
Shimon Gehasn, type him into Google.
Type him into Google. Type him also Camden
shootings.
Shamaki Hassan.
Brother.
16 years old, brothers and sisters.
16 years
old. He gets shot.
Someone in the high street comes in.
Guess what happens after that? Nobody does absolutely
nothing.
Because now they are beginning to faithfully life
as well.
This is when I started thinking, okay.
Nobody done anything now
to my friend. Tomorrow if I get shot
or something happens to me, nobody's going to
do anything.
Because before the shootings, what used to happen
is if someone
just got slapped up or he got punched
up,
All his friends are going to come running
from one side of the city all the
way to that spot they're in.
Street rights. Right?
Who's who can touch my friend? No.
Before I get in touch, I'm gonna do
something about it.
Nobody done anything. This is when I started
thinking, okay. Tomorrow, something might happen to me.
What's going to happen? The last of my
life is gonna
go down the drain like that.
Brothers and sisters, these things that happen around
us, they're lesson to all of us.
Lives are being taken like it's a joke.
So they have passed and filled. This is
this is the the light that we're dealing
in at this moment in time. Prophet told
us, light is the light is the light
will shower men. There will come a time
except the time that comes after promised
Elijah told us, there will come a time.
He said the time that comes after it
is worse.
You will be surprised. People come tell me,
brother, I'm carrying x y zed. Okay.
It is becoming normal. It's becoming like
a trend
to carry the knife because he feels not
safe.
Well then, sister, Gulai,
the Shaykhman has many, many
different
ways of really brainwashing the individual
and making him take a very misguided path.
He said,
This is my path.
Then he put 2 lines on the right
and two lines on the left. And you
know what he said after that?
These are the different paths of the different
devils.
Then we recite the verse of Allah Subhanahu
Wa Ta'ala.
This is my path.
Mustardiman
is straight.
Follow it.
And do not follow the different paths.
It will make it will make you
misguided
and become deviated away from the correct path
once you start taking these different paths.
So this is a clear indication, brothers and
sisters, we all have a common enemy. Enemy.
He is called the
The shayman
who swore by Allah
Allah
I, by your might, he's swearing my Allah,
I am going to medicate every single one
of them, except those who are sincere.
In another verse,
he swears by Allah that he's going to
misguide every single one of you.
Does it now require rocket science to understand
that we all have a common enemy?
I ask you by Allah. If someone threatened
your mom to stop her one of these
nights,
you're going to be very weary.
Day night you're going to be thinking about
it, right?
Someone wants to take my mom's life?
Shaytan, he clearly told you I am there
to misguide you.
You might even go as far as hiring
a bodyguard.
Going to call the police.
They're going to stop putting
different
safeguards in place in order to guard your
house. Right?
It's going to bother us.
Does it bother us the same way when
it comes to the shaykh line? And he
has all the different paths of misguiding us.
And one of these top prophets that says
this is Judas El Assur.
Having bad companions. The kind of companions that
you have.
And also the parent has a role to
play.
Because the prophet
gave emphasis to Ismaila time and time again.
Every single person who is given birth to
every child. He is born on the natural
disposition,
the fitra,
the natural
way. He's free from any sicknesses,
whether it's spiritual,
that which would come from different deviance in
our world.
But what happens
when that newly born child is brought into
this world?
His parents, they turn him into a Jew,
or a Christian, or a Magusi.
Because of the Tarabiya,
the nurturing of the parents,
the kid doesn't know anything. But the people
he surrounded with,
they lead him towards the Jewish path. The
Christian path, the Majestic path, either a Sikh,
an agnostic, an anti white, it might be.
If the parent is someone
who choose not all the time or he's
a smoker,
What's the likelihood the kid's going to do
this is all? He's been seeing his dad
take your bath throughout his whole life.
You wanna tell your son don't smoke and
you're smoking yourself?
You wanna tell him, don't chew.
And you're always chewing. You wanna tell your
child, stay in the home where you're never
ever there. Or you expect him to come
to the masjid,
when you, your staff will never come to
the masjid.
And the
wherever that common goes,
then you have all the,
what do you recall it? The child comes.
Right? Baby come on. The baby come on.
They have followed the
father wherever he goes.
Likewise, you have the father sheep.
All the children, they go pass, they go
behind him all the time.
The parent has an influence over a child.
And the parent should be a role model
to his children.
Time and time again we've seen
that
because of the way the kid was brought
up,
it passes on very bad traits to the
child. So that's not containing the parent.
Another line that I wanted wanted to mention,
brothers and sisters, we all know. Right? Is
there anyone here that know?
So
who's the guy that turns around, say, wearing
the black
Who is he?
If you don't know Sayyidullah. They say, why
does Sayyidullah is giving the fattwa? Don't worry.
Was the uncle of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
wa. He stood up for his salam.
But unfortunately, that wasn't enough
to enter him into aljannah,
or to become from the true companions of
a prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Also, the
prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said to him
said about him,
The lightest of punishments
that one is going to be punished with
a Yom Adiyamah
is a man, a bullbar. He's going to
be brought to yawm ad Diyamah.
You know what's going to happen to him?
Jambar al Tanani,
2 pieces of coal are going to be
brought and placed under his ankles.
And through that, you know what's gonna happen
brothers and sisters? His brain is going to
boil.
This is the onkar of the
prophet A
A man will look at his punishment
and will think to himself
that this is the
harshest punishment,
the most painful of them for one to
experience.
For one to experience
on the day of resurrection. But you know
what it is, brother? Jesus?
It is the lightest of them, the perfect
source of the tonest.
You know how the
Then the lowest part of the hellfire.
But Abu Dhabi is going to be in
the highest spot, and still it's gonna be
punished like this. You're going to be looking
at this punishment, you're gonna think nobody can
get anything harsher than this
or more painful
than this punishment that our body was having.
It's actually the lightest.
And this is true code that are going
to be placed under his ankles. His brain
is gonna boil.
This is the uncle of the prophet On
his deathbed, brothers and sisters,
prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said to him,
that I'm going to dispute on your behalf
in front of Allah azza wa jib. I'm
going to defend you in front of that
Allah azza wa jib.
You desire other than the
religion of Abdul Mukbari?
The prophet says,
say, Say the statement.
Then his friend say, no. You wanna decide
all the narration of Abdul Mutari?
They were his what? They were his companions.
They were his friends.
And look how they're affecting him till the
day he died.
They're there
trying to encourage him not to listen to
Muhammad Sallallahu
Alaihi
Wasallam.
What did he die at 1? Did he
say that he died at
He desired the religion of Abdul Muqaddib.
The religion of
worshiping Islam. Statues.
Prophet
saw the hadith on the post bar.
The man who owned the religion of his
friend.
So be very careful and examine
who you befriend and take as a companion.
In another hadith, the prophet
told us,
Like the one who's a good friend friend
good companion. And a bad companion is like
the one who sells perfume.
And like the blacksmith,
who can tell me
which one is for who?
The good companion, is he the blacksmith?
Or is the perfume seller the bad companion?
We're in the Liverpool here.
Take a guess. The perfume seller, is he
like a good companion, or is he like
a bad companion?
Like a blacksmith. Blacksmith or perfume?
Perfume.
Which one is which?
The good companion. The good companion is like
the perfume seller.
The blacksmith is like the bad companion that
you have.
When you go and you want to buy
some perfume, when you enter into a shop,
either you're going to buy from him or
he's going to give you something. Right? Gonna
say, try it.
You're going to come out and you're smelling
nice.
Or you're going to leave that place, you've
come out smelling
you have some very nice fragrance,
something from
you. Why? Because his whole shop
daily saying his family smells very very nice.
You go home, Mahdiya says, where did you
go today? You smell so.
Fragrance,
the traces will sit on you. You go
bitter and blacksmith, what was the prophet
Either when you leave, that blacksmith,
you're going to come out. It either burns
you
accidentally or you're going to come out with
a very very not nice smell, Very bad
smell.
And that's exactly how it is.
You're with the brother who prays, the time
of prayer comes. What's he going to remind
you of?
It's going to remind him the sahad. Okay.
Let's go pray. Pray how long it takes
5 minutes.
And then when you leave him,
you're going to have traces
of goodness on you. It's going to be
on the back of your mind. My friend
took me to lay to the masjid. It
will affect you. It'll influence you to some
extent.
You're in the background waiting most likely to
say, Look how that girl looks like.
Go check her out. Look how she looks
like.
Let's just go watch that movie. Just one
time one time.
Oh, just try this. You know, just try
this little suit that I have.
You know, you know, you only did once.
Just once just once try it.
And as time goes on, he becomes an
addict.
He becomes worse than that person who made
him try it.
Well, I have seen this time and time
again. Schools,
the little young girl, she goes to primary
school, she's wearing hijab. She looks
very very good in a hijab.
Soon as she gets into year 7,
still wearing a hijab. She sees all her
friends around her.
All these wives and these other non Muslims,
they've dressed very very inappropriately.
She feels left out. She feels like an
outcast.
What happens brothers and sisters?
She begins to feel
that she's not part of the
the class.
Slowly slowly, garments start coming off.
She gets into year 9.
She tells, oh, yeah, but nobody wears it.
Time goes on. Now the hijabs coming off.
She gets into year 11. She's talking back
to her mom.
College?
Khawazishistan.
Just because of the people around her.
And this is how the biggest of drug
dealers
became the drug dealers they are.
Seeing they were born upon a drug dealer
from a very young age, you think they
were a drug dealer all over them,
To the people that were hanging around
them. Also, what I wanted to speak about
today, brothers and sisters,
is the spouse.
I can see a lot of you are
young.
Maybe a couple of years, you're going to
feel that desire and you wanna get married.
Remember, brothers and sisters, the spouse that you
get married to
is the closest companion that you have. The
closest.
The woman that you get married to and
the guy that you get married to is
the closest
companion to you.
Even a friend that you used to hang
around with every single day. You wake up
the first man on the phone, you answer
your friend.
Even a person who knows you anymore, it's
your wife that you wake up with
and the husband.
If you don't choose the right spouse brothers
and sisters,
as the Prophet Sallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam told us, it's Shabawah.
So time and time again, prophet
he encouraged us to go with the one
who has religion.
A woman she is normally married due to
four reasons.
Normally what people do is what the guy
does, he gets married to a woman, 4
years.
Either because she's rich, she's boring,
and he thinks that she's gonna end up
paying for
his rent,
or she's gonna end up buying him a
car because she's so rich. It's actually a
dul. It's humiliation.
Second thing is, because of how she looks,
Today you find recently I saw on YouTube
what some of these Samani kids are doing
now.
Allah is really really happy.
Because the sister, she is the one that
put herself on social media.
Wanting to get a like, she wanted to
get shares.
And at the end of the day, she
looks so
ugly in the picture that she's taken,
and they're violating her so much.
3 guys, 3 Somadi brothers are saying you
probably know what I'm talking about all the
you know, instead sitting together.
They're getting their picture, and everyone is saying,
how much Umrah would you pay for her?
Some of them are saying $50,000.
The other one is saying 60,000. The other
one is saying 70.
Would you take her? Would you not take
her?
They get to her picture,
and thousands of people watch this video.
They're violating the system.
Oh, no. I don't wanna give her 5¢.
Look how she looks like. Then the next
one, oh, she's nice. And
what was the reason why I mentioned that
even I forgot?
Jammariya. No. Jammariya.
K. Marim because of her what? The way
she looks.
Everybody here wants a very nice looking wife.
Right?
What did your body have? What it has
to be. And also you get married to
a woman, normally because of the name that
she has.
Then the 4th thing was mentioned was the
religion.
And the prophet
is encouraged.
Go for the one that has religion
before you end up hitting your hand on
the floor with regret.
It's an Arab expression they have. Father's
entire
brothers and sisters,
If now your relationship
is totally dependent on the money that she
has
or the money that he has or the
car he has. Because what I see sometimes
is a sister, she sees a guy with
a nice BMW
or a nice Audi a 5 convertible.
And she looks at this and she thinks,
look how rich this boy is. I really
like his car. And depending on that, she
was married to him.
I'm gonna ask you a question now. Where
if the money goes now? Is the relationship
going to break down?
Because that's the sole purpose as to why
you got married to an individual.
Do you see now? When the relationship is
totally dependent on the wealth.
Why does tomorrow if he becomes bankrupt? You
going to leave him? He
wasn't necessarily
dependent on the religion. Right?
Okay. Also,
The only thing that you're looking at is
her jaan,
her beauty.
Whether you know it or not, but not
get to know.
The moment she has kids,
don't think that uni is going to remain
on her face
throughout her whole life.
She's gonna start getting wrinkly. She starts putting
on a few pounds. Starts getting bigger.
Start losing attraction to her.
3rd thing, the lineage.
So what are you gonna do now before
I go into the lineage run? Are you
gonna divorce her just because now all of
a sudden she's born a few pounds?
She doesn't look like
the Coca Cola bottles that you used
to, you know. Imagine in your mind.
Then the image.
A mistake that I see people doing is
sometimes they look at the family of how
good they were.
That's the main thing they concentrate on.
But then,
the sister itself the sister itself,
she might not necessarily be upon the same
way as her parents and those before.
Just because the whole family is good doesn't
necessarily mean the sister is going to be
good as all. She could be polluted.
And then the prophet said the religion. That
which remains the religion. That will always remain
beautiful as religion.
That doesn't mean brothers and sisters,
you don't take the other 3 into consideration.
Of course, if you get married to a
sister, you like her religion, but at the
same time you're not attracted to her. That's
a problem.
You won't be able to stay with her.
But what I'm saying is the main thing
should be her religion.
Because, Wallahi,
it is going
to have an effect on your children. You're
not gonna have traces of that individual on
them.
The guy swears all the time.
He can't control his language,
and he keeps saying this in front of
his kids. You think they're not gonna pick
this up?
With every sentence, they said to use the
f word. F in this and this.
And somehow, so to use the f word
is totally known.
Why? Because everybody does it
and so on and so forth.
Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, you mentioned Al Hadid,
What he said in that year?
What did he say then?
1 of you should try to have
a lisan
that remembers Allah a lot and also a
thankful heart.
And the third thing that he mentioned was
a righteous woman.
Righteous woman, believing one.
That will assist you in your.
You don't wake up. If Rajesh assists you,
why are you not waking up?
This is a beautiful woman.
Your kids are going after her, she's trying
very hard to keep them on the right
path.
She asked you, why
It's mostly the elder are saying this.
You kids don't want this?
Unless they want second wife to go, you
know.
Al Shailh Idou,
a woman she,
you know, constantly
controls the a battle of that husband that
she has.
There's a story of Imran al Halban.
Anybody here know Imran al Halban?
What about
Aisha? You.
Mohammed?
Adika?
Who is Aisha?
So I asked you about Renato, you're able
to tell me his number on the back
of his shirt.
I asked you about the Liverpool,
first him, you're able to even tell me
who's on the bench.
And the guy who's injured, Aries Galeri,
you can tell me Ronaldo, his wife's name.
He has a wife. Recently, he had twins.
Right? You're able to tell me in detail
exactly what's going on in his life.
What about Aisha and the rest of his
companions?
These are the people that, brothers and sisters,
we need to try and be like.
And I've spoken about it time and time.
The last time I came, we talked about
how the sun of his new day
He was someone who used to take
a hadith from Aja Yeah.
You know what happened to him brothers and
sisters?
He met a lady.
And you know as they say, love is
blind.
Right? Sometimes you see a lady,
you get taken by her beauty.
No matter what she's on, you end up
going for it.
Without taking the important factors into consideration.
You know the
Khawarij?
Prophet
called them.
They are the talks of the alfa'am.
Today, we find the Khwarizah around the globe.
People who think like ISIS, Al Qaeda,
and Shabaab, Boko Haram, all these other groups
though we have today, the terroristic ones.
So Imran Khan, you guys have a good
knowledge. You know what he said? No. No.
No. I'm going to change her.
People were like, Imran, don't get married to
her. She's going to affect in your religion.
He was like, no. I'm gonna end up
training her.
He gets married to us. You know where
he becomes brothers and sisters?
Comes from the Hala. The west of them.
The heads of the Hala, she became.
Students of knowledge
who are so committed to seeking knowledge.
And they were doing so well as well.
They got married to sisters
whose mentalities were completely different.
Allah, the potential this prophet had, I remember,
I wouldn't have been surprised in this year,
he would have probably finished Bukhari Muslim by
now.
Because his wife was so,
you know,
just
just wasn't feeling
to seek a knowledge.
And we find brothers now, brothers and sisters
who are married to wives, righteous ones.
They are encouraged them encouraging them to go
out to seek a truth. Don't worry about
me.
It's the example of a good spouse, and
this is the example of a spouse that
affects
their other house.
Can you not see whether or not this
is the effect that it could have
on an individual?
Could either have a positive one or a
negative one.
Just because of your friend.
A man is on the religion of his
friend.
You might not think to yourself
now that he's going to affect me.
As time goes on,
you either get closer to the misfit or
you get closer to the hellfire.
Because of the friend. He could either make
or break religion.
This is why the salah that you say,
The companion,
he somehow will put you.
Depending on what kind of person he is.
You think all your buddies, your friends that
that were there for you, they're going to
be any benefits to you?
Forget about your friends. Your parents are gonna
run away from you. You all made a
favorite
own
me,
your
favorite model. The mom runs away. The father
runs away. Your children run away from you.
Your wife that you love,
that she loves you so much.
She can't bear staying away from you for
like 5, 10 minutes. In the first few
months, honeymoon period. Right?
She loves you to bitch. She's clinging you.
She doesn't want anything to do with you.
And this is an example of the closest
of those
that
are so close to you in this dunya.
Allah said in the Quran
also,
Close friends
close friends in this dunya
are going to be enemies and foes of
Yomariyan
except
for those who are not attacking the righteous
ones.
Allah said in the Quran also,
The day when the oppressor
is going to
stop biting his nails.
If only if only I never took Fulan,
so and so
After the remembrance,
Gaius came to me,
he misguided me.
This is a example of a parent coming
to Israel and telling them, You Muhammad,
stay at home. Don't do x y z.
Read your Quran.
Stick to the masjid.
But then you have the whispers of the
shayman.
Your bad companions coming
telling you, you're good.
You're only in once.
Just try out.
Come do this with us.
And in
the shaytan,
Today, someone started running outside and he's naked.
Every media
team in this country is going to report
that straight away.
David Mira, Dusan, it's going to be on
the front page.
A man lost his mind and he started
running on Broad Street and he's naked.
Everyone's going to come
out on their windows. Oh, look.
What's going on? People are gonna be laughing
at
Aisha radiAllahu
ta'ala, she said
to the prophet,
she had a narration,
On the people, the men and the women
going to be looking at one another.
Because this is what's most likely to happen
now if someone started running outside naked. Right?
You know, prophet Sala'i also said,
The matter is too severe.
The matter is too severe
for a people to be even thinking about
that.
Every breastfeeding
woman, she's breastfeeding her child. She's gonna drop
it.
The woman is pregnant, she's gonna drop her
baby.
Again, if a woman was to get her
baby and drop her,
the social service are going to be at
the door. She's gonna have problems.
That's gonna be something normal.
But that's the severity of that day.
People are running around intoxicated. Today, we laugh
about drunk people.
See a drunk guy going
back and forth like that from side to
side. Stop laughing at him. Look.
But that which is making the people in
this situation is because the adab,
The punishment is so severe and everyone is
scared.
Everyone is fearful of being trapped in the
fire. And I told you about Abu Dua'i,
the kind of punishment is going to have.
Someone's going to think that it's the lightest
punishment
based on
someone's gonna think that it's the worst of
the money but it's the lightest one.
We also love
to make us for those who have the
best companions.
Righteous companions.
Because,
brothers and sisters,
it could either lead us to a jannah,
it could lead us to a fire.
Not only will be
in the hereafter
but also in his dunya.
I have family members, brothers and sisters who
are in prison.
They came out, they wanted to change their
lives. And it only takes one shot. One
shot. You do one thing in the wrong
place in the wrong time.
Whether you think you wanna go and rob
that
thing from the shop or you just wanna
carry that knife, that one time one time
that you try it. That your friend says,
yeah, it's only one time. Brother Noah's gonna
catch up. Not in the land, then someone
come with me just for 1 night.
Just one more once once. Once they're gonna
hurt anything,
we're gonna practice later when we get older.
What guarantee do you have you're gonna even
reach tomorrow?
Prophet Muhammad said in a hadith,
When you pray, pray the Fala'i prayer. Meaning,
pray that prayer as if you might not
get another prayer.
You might not be able to reach mothers
today.
So affect that prayer as much as you
can.
What guarantee do we have that I'm gonna
leave this message today?
To you?
I always mention this problem, no one's gonna
come message you. You're not gonna get WhatsApp
message, Facebook message, oh brother, I'll get ready,
shut up, get a time in a few
hours. Never lie.
That one time your friend is saying to
you imagine within that one time something happens
to you.
And then you get dropped to prison.
And then you come out and you're gonna
change your life to school in circles.
Like I mentioned, I have this on a
back for you my brothers and sisters.
People
today who don't have criminal records,
they can't get jobs.
So who's gonna employ you? You have a
criminal record.
They just want a job that is minimum
wage. £5, £6 an hour.
And you think that boss, the company always
going to
even trust
or take a chance to be.
Inshallah. Assalamu
alaikum.
We ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to the
world of Stan alutinya. Hafidallah for,
his efforts and for his knowledge. We ask
Allah
to bless his knowledge and to increase it
in what's good. I ask Allah subhanahu wa
ta'ala to make us of those who hear
the speech and abide and act by it.
So if the sisters have any questions, they
can send them through inshallah.
And if the brothers have any questions pertaining
to the subject,
they may ask Zakum
Wafi.