Abu Taymiyyah – WOMAN RIGHTS The real rights woman praying in masjids A Balanced View

Abu Taymiyyah
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The issue of women being allowed to pray at facilities is discussed, including the need for facilities for women to attend prayer and the importance of finding suitable settings for prayer. The speaker emphasizes the need to not be seen as a burden and reminds oneself of the message of Allah Subba Ali. The speaker also mentions a woman who claims to be a Capitalist and apologizes for past mistakes.
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Touch on a topic that is

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very, very touchy in certain places

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in England,

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especially in places like Leicester where you find

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that

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every Ramadan

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there is a kind of commotion amongst the

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communities.

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Is it

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allowed for the woman to go and pray

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the Jama'ah?

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Is it allowed for her to go to

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the Masjid

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and attend a congregational prayer,

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for Taraweeh?

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Or should we even provide that facility?

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Is this something that the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam did or did not do?

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Should we be providing

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a facility for the women?

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And just generally the woman just going out

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to the masjid.

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And we want to, inshallah, bring a balanced

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position on this issue so that everybody is

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upon clarity

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from the matters

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that the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam talked about

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and obviously anytime there is a dispute Allah

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Subhanahu Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala told

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us,

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if you ever dispute in any man then

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take it back to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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and His Messenger SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam if you

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are people that believe in Allah Azzawajal in

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the last day

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that is good, Waasannu Taawela.

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Sheikh Muqbil Bin Hadi

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which is a compilation of the hadith Mimalasaf

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Sahihain.

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Mimalay Safih Sahihain, he compiled

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a book where he brought a hadith

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that is not in al Sahihainin Bukhari in

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Muslim,

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but they are authentic narrations.

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And the reason why I'm specifically mentioning this

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book is because

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the Sheikh, the Imam, Muqt Bilhardil Waadhiyah brought

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a chapter in,

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where he brought the eye of Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala, Woman Azzalamu Mi'min Mena Amsajidullah,

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and who is more unjust than the one

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that prevents

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people from going to the House of Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?

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Then he brought the Hadith

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to maybe

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make it more specific

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and explain it further.

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When the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam he said,

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Laatam Nahuw

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Ima Allahima Sajd Allah,

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do not

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prevent the female slaves

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of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala from going to

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the Masjid.

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It is incorrect. It is haram for the

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husband

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to stop his wife from going to the

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Masjid if she wills, but

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waliakhrujna

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wahunnatafilat,

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they should leave

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while they are unbeautified.

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And he came in a narration

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by Ibn Khuzaima Rahimahu Ta'ala

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the Prophet The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said

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their houses are better for them,

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so you have the father and the Mafudul,

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firstly we have to understand is it permissible

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for her to go? The answer is yes,

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without the shadow of a doubt,

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because the Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wasallam commanded the

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husband not to

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prevent his wife from going, but then you

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have the issue

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which one is better and which one is

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not better,

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and it's not permissible for

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someone to enforce

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the father over the mafdul upon an individual,

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that which is more preferred over that which

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isn't preferred,

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as long as the matter is not Haram

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or there isn't a clear or there's a

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clear prohibition on there,

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and also Abdulai Namas Uddur radiAllahu anhu

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he narrated Hadith upon the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam, he said

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The prayer of a woman in her

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home

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And here the intended purpose by bait is

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her room, like her bedroom.

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It is more better

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it is more better

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than her prayer that she does in a

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and the intended purpose by

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is, you know when you come into the

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house

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and the door

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brings you into maybe the living room, you

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find that some doors are connected straight into

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the living room and you walk straight in.

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So her doing actually in her bedroom is

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better than her doing it

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into the main room that is attached to

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the door.

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Then the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Salam said,

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and her prayer in her

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and the Magdha is a

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room that you normally put your valuables in

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there,

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it's better than the Salat that she does

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in her room and the hadith was narrated

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by Imam Abu Dawood

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and also

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Imam Atir Mirrahima Mutta'ala was authenticated by Sheikh

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Al Bani Rahim Muhammad Allahu Ta'ala Ajma'in.

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So as you can see, the more

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concealed

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a woman is even within a house it

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is more better for her.

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So you have the issue now, is it

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permissible for her to go out to the

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Masjid? Am I allowed to stop her? Am

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I allowed to stop my wife from going

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out? The answer is no, but she needs

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to realize oh this is more better for

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her and we should strive

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to try and obtain that which is more

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of a reward and that which is more

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better in the eyes of Allah Subhana Wa

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Ta'la

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and at the same time when the woman

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goes out in which way does she go

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out?

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The prophet

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specifically mentioned to us in the hadith,

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they should leave while they are unbeautified.

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Under this will go wearing

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clothes that attract attention.

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Wearing maybe

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bangles, which will attract the attention of men.

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Wearing makeup

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which goes under beautifying yourself,

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wearing perfume, the Prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi

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Wasallam

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said

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Any

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woman

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now

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that

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wears

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perfume

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and she goes past a group of men

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and they smell her, she's a fornicator.

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The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said this and

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it was narrated by Imam Abu Dawood Rahimhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala.

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So when a woman goes out, she goes

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out in a according manner

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based upon the Sharia and beautified not wearing

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makeup, not wearing perfume, not beautifying herself, well

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the only time she should beautify herself is

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in front of her husband

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and if she is sitting around women,

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it's perfectly permissible for her to wear whatever

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she want in front especially in front of

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the husband. Rabi is

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recommended that she beautifies herself as much as

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possible

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and it should be inside the house, but

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this is Safitna today that we have

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which is very very problematic.

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And this was from the affairs of the

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Jahiliya, the women of the Jahiliya, how they

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used to go out displaying

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themselves

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and not covering themselves properly.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala He told us in

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the

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Quran and abide yourselves in your home and

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do not display yourselves,

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expose yourselves just like you used to expose

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yourself in the state of Jahiliya.

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So we have come to know now a

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woman now exposing herself and displaying herself

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is from the matter of the Jahiliya and

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi was telling me told

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us, the most hated people

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with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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are 3 people, and from those that were

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mentioned, wamuptarifilIslam

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is sunnatal Jahiliyyah and someone that tries to

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come into Al Islam and seek the way

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of the people of Jahiliyyah.

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Brothers and sisters, Wallahi,

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come back to religion.

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We're not here to bash the people, all

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I'm trying to make you away is the

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Akaam of Sharaiyah

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where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is messenger salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam mentioned keep us balanced as

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possible without favoring or following our desires

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and it's important that we know this.

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We all make mistakes,

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whatever sin we have done

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the door of repentance is always open. Allah

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says in

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those servants who have transgressed against themselves

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do not lose hope in the mercy of

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Allah Subhanahu wa'ta'ala

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Allah forgives all sins whatever sin it might

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be, even if you fornicated with a 1,000

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men

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but the guy has slept with so many

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girls,

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whatever he's

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done, whether it is even

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frustrating to

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a grave, whatever it might have meant,

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the door of Repentance is always open. That's

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how Rahim Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, we're just

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here to remind ourselves

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firstly and then remind our brothers and sisters

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secondly,

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Reminds for any that Reminds me that Reminds

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me that Reminds me that Reminds me that

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Reminds me that Reminds me that Reminds me

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that Reminds me that Reminds me that Reminds

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me that Reminds me that Reminds me that

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Reminds me that Reminds me that Reminds me

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that Reminds me that Reminds me that Reminds

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me that Reminds me that Reminds me that

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Reminds me that Reminds me that Reminds me

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that Reminds me that Reminds me that

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