Abu Taymiyyah – Why Many Men Are Like Dogs

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speaker describes how men and women are becoming increasingly exposed to sexual behavior online, leading to behavior like "boods." The speaker warns that these behavior is not sustainable and that women need to be careful with their behavior. The speaker also mentions a woman who found a woman online who was trying to sexualize them, but she eventually found out that she was actually trying to sexualize them.

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			Even Imam Ghastani,
		
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			he
		
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			mentioned some lines of poetry. He says,
		
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			These men who are looking
		
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			are women, they're like dogs.
		
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			This is a man saying this. And, yes,
		
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			my sisters,
		
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			I'm telling you this as a brother.
		
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			In the rijal and nadireen, and it's that
		
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			those men who are looking at women, they're
		
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			like dogs.
		
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			Okay? They're like dogs who when they see
		
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			a piece of flesh, what do they do?
		
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			They start going around there, right? They start
		
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			chasing after it. And
		
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			then he addresses the man.
		
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			If these pieces of flesh are not guarded
		
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			by the lions,
		
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			it's just going to be
		
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			taken like that without a replacement,
		
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			without anything in return.
		
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			And this is how men think.
		
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			They just wanna come after you, they wanna
		
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			like use and abuse it like a piece
		
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			of chewing gum, chew you and then spit
		
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			you out.
		
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			And a lot of the time you find,
		
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			you know, them contacting you and whatever
		
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			because if that individual really wanted you in
		
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			a halal way,
		
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			he's going to what? He's going to come
		
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			straight through the door.
		
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			He's not gonna try and creep through the
		
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			window ever then.
		
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			That's how it starts. Okay? She's still not
		
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			getting that amount of attention,
		
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			and then more skin starts showing,
		
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			more skin starts becoming apparent.
		
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			And then what happens, my sisters?
		
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			The attention increases, right? The d m start
		
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			coming in on her Instagram
		
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			and because she has never been given that
		
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			attention before,
		
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			she is just blown away,
		
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			she is just blown away,
		
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			starts getting excited,
		
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			she starts getting these urges.
		
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			She begins to hear things that no one's
		
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			ever said to her.
		
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			And before you know it, my sisters,
		
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			they meet up,
		
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			you see,
		
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			and then the unexpected takes place. Can
		
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			you see my sisters,
		
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			this whole cycle,
		
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			how it started
		
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			and how it ended?
		
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			On Wallahi my sisters, it's happened to a
		
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			lot of individuals that I personally know.
		
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			And you think what happens?
		
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			Her mother never used to dress like that.
		
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			Her older sister never used to dress like
		
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			that. Her grandmother doesn't dress like that. Her
		
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			aunties don't dress like that. But all of
		
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			a sudden now, she started dressing a certain
		
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			way because of what? What she started seeing
		
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			online.
		
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			This shayateen that she was looking at, these
		
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			female YouTubers
		
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			online who supposedly do Islamic Hijabi tutorials,
		
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			but in reality, they're there trying to sexualize
		
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			the hijab.
		
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			She saw them doing it and they urged
		
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			one inside
		
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			the heart.
		
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			So the point of the matter is, my
		
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			sisters,
		
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			be very, very careful.
		
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			Firstly,
		
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			with the sisters who are around you.