Abu Taymiyyah – Social Fitna Facebook or fisgbook Instagram or fitnagram
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The importance of being truthful and blunt in the face of reality is emphasized, along with the need for people to be straight up. The speaker emphasizes the importance of changing behavior and rectifying mistakes in dating, as well as the trend of guys taking pictures with their wives and putting them on social media. The discussion also touches on the issue of marriage and the difficulty of finding the right person to show up with, along with the importance of privacy and privacy in the age of Facebook.
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And inshallah
said some light on it, hoping, hoping
that every single one of us, we act
upon this, and we take it very, very
seriously. I don't think there's any point
the you're probably organizing lectures,
organizing these events
when the people are gonna come,
and they're just gonna listen, and everyone's just
gonna go and just carry on with their
weight. Tells us about the stories in the
Quran. They're just not there to
So when we hear this,
we hear these stories from the Quran.
They're meant to be there for us to
use
our minds
and to come to realization.
Tell them about the stories. Tell them about
the stories
so that they may think.
So that they may think they come to
realization. They see their life.
And that's a whole different topic anyway. But
brothers and sisters, one thing we need to
realize most of us here, we either have
brothers, sisters,
whether there's any parents that I don't know
that have children.
Sometimes, I think
we tend to have
too much of good assumptions when it comes
to
our children
or the young brothers and sisters.
And also, I wanna point out that is
a disease,
constantly having doubts about people is a disease.
But the reality of the situation is
that a lot of people that we see
to be innocent
a lot of people that we see to
be innocent, whether they are brothers, sisters, cousins,
whoever it might be,
how many girls do you find?
And please, I don't want anyone to get
upset. I just wanna be very, very straight
up here
and talk the reality.
And we will come to
think how many girls
today you find.
Now when they are leaving the home,
the mother, the father, everybody knows or thinks
that
my girl, she goes to Madrasa,
And I heard of the guy. There's no
difference.
She goes to Madrasa.
She does the Quran. She
When it comes to social media,
she's one of the worst of the people.
She is displaying herself,
trying to grab her attention,
mothers,
and all sorts.
What can be an immigrant
and how many women are there? Because of
the social media, they've been corrupted.
This mobile phone with all these different phones
on social media.
A guy comes and he corrupts the life
out of that.
And this is the relative situation.
Sorry for being very, very straight, but me
and the person who used to be
in these kind of things, whether whether it
was Myspace and all this other stuff that
they have, we know the reality that goes
on. So we can only relate to the
people.
And you find whether it's the men and
the women, they always tend to find themselves
in one of these 3. And like I
said before, I'm not talking about them guys
or the people who might use Facebook
for that lot
or for whatever other means, whether it's business
and things like that. We're talking about the
majority of those, the Fed Robins, the majority,
who are on Facebook, Instagram,
My sheikh my sheikh Ya'i used to call
Facebook, Facebook,
the form of transgression.
I don't know what he would say now
if you find all these other different forms
of social
media, like
and, as the brother when he came up
with a new name, Fitz and I Brown.
That's the best time I ever heard it.
That comes out on social media,
dressed inappropriately,
wear your makeup, wear it, might be, beautifying
yourself
on social media.
This woman, she might go and leave the
house,
go to the shop when it's come, where
it might be. And she might go past
10, 15, 20 people going to the shop.
In this house, then we know
that the prophet said,
when a woman leaves, it is not permissible
for the husband
to stop his wife from going to the
mischief.
Do not prevent the woman from going to
the
but They should be
in the state that she did,
and also holds it.
Then you have the type of girl that
comes out on social media.
This
individual
is worse than the one that comes out
of the house. Why? Because only 10, 15
people saw her or 20 people saw her.
You have on Facebook,
if you have friends and the friends' friends,
and then it goes on, the friends' friends'
friends.
Let's just say each friend has a 100
friends.
A 100 friends.
Every single individual now has access
to your Facebook and is able to see
your face.
A lot of the girls, they always say,
why do you always pick on the girls?
The women are a victim for the guys?
And at the same time, the prophet said,
and the prophet said,
Well, why it is fair to this girl
that comes out?
The hadith of the prophet
said,
for him is the sin. Everyone that follows
him up on that sin,
and that won't take anything away from this
is.
So you're coming out now. Even though you
might not say it directly, everybody come look
at me. Look at
everyone
now
also
said,
Do not cooperate in sin and evil.
So the guy you are now is attracted
to you,
and you putting off every single one of
them is
what's
they get the reward for it
forever and ever
in your grave. And likewise, you'll see.
My
mom
my
one brother, one of
my close cousins,
was just telling me
there was a girl. There was a girl.
They photoshopped her picture
onto what? An 8 woman.
Because she left them on there.
And it carries on. It carries on. Why?
Because of her.
Initially, putting her pictures up on Facebook.
That's the main objective to please
to get
To get likes, to feel better, to feel
more confident, as I say.
Because
maybe someone's told how or him that you
look like this, and he's trying to maybe
gain their confidence back.
And because of us trying to please the
people,
Whoever now tries to
please the people.
And through that,
he enrages and makes Allah
angry.
What happens?
People?
So this woman now, do you really think
that she had the intention
to maybe
end up or someone getting a picture and
this happening to her?
It was more about, oh, I wanna see
what this guy has to say and what
that guy has to say, etcetera.
To feel better about herself, she cared more
about other people.
So what happened after the? The woman said
to him, she was crying crying. She didn't
even know about
it. Some guy tried blackmailing her. Either you
come back with me, or I'm going to
do this and do that.
And the prophet was saying, Allah, he looked
like a professional.
You actually think that it is her.
Very easy to do that in this dating
era. To get someone's picture and place it
on top of Beyonce or whoever it might
be to make it look like like that,
very, very easy.
We have to do a lot of blurring
as well to get the colors in.
So Robin and his sisters, this
matter
is very, very serious.
We might not say it to ourselves that
we are trying to call the people to
misguide us
Even though we might not say we're not.
That's the reality
of whether we know it or not.
The second kind of scenario
and this is
very reality,
very ideal.
Like, from the side of the, that actually
taking place.
Sorry. Before I go on to that, I
want to mention another point. Hadith just came
to my head.
Some of these people
will lie when they come on.
You find them swinging and sway
on the Internet.
In the best possible pose, they're trying to
take pictures.
What does the prophet
say about this?
And it is from the signs of the
Awa.
The prophet says,
women
that are clothed
and naked at the same time.
They swing and they swing.
These people, they don't go into the jannah.
And they came to a narration where,
how can a woman not be clothed
and be naked at the same time?
Her clothing is so tight
that you could
actually see the whole form of this women.
And, please, my brother says, I'm not trying
to attack anyone. All of us, we make
mistakes, and I really don't want anyone to
be offended.
We all make mistakes. I've made so many
mistakes in my life. Running around there in
Canada
did whatever we did. But
what is important for us is that when
we actually get the reminder
is that we try to change it,
and we try to make it apply it
and try and rectify this mess up.
Their
heads
the most hated
people to Allah
3 times, for 3 kinds of people.
One of those mentioned was
Someone that tries to come in Islam and
see
the way of the people of
Why in the ways of the jahiliyah that
what did the women used to do back
in the day? They used to come out
and display themselves,
and they didn't have any hijab at the
time.
And we know that from the trace of
the jahidah,
So, Shista,
you have so many of these hadith.
You can see the matter is very, very
serious. It's not something very small
that we can just maybe sleep on or
just put to the side and just forget
about.
And that's what we're gonna come in today,
inshallah, does the person
You find people, they say Allah
forgive
and partners
whatever we do. Yes.
But that's.
Why do you want even there to be
a possibility
that you might even touch the fire?
Would I sometimes
the only way for a person to realize
is to go and touch that fire or
that stove inside his kitchen to realize how
hot
the fire or the can be.
And and still, there's no comparison.
The prophet told
us,
and now the fire in your kitchen,
it's 170.
These I got problems that they should scare
us. They should,
like, make us try to realize what we're
doing.
The second time I want to speak about
is more than this, like, guys.
Today, there's a trend going around
where,
like, guys, they take pictures with their wives,
and they put them on social media.
All their sisters, all their mothers,
or any of their close relatives.
I think it's happy days. There's nothing wrong
with it. Everybody hate to come to the
master's shop or come to
his
It's a big fad lie for someone to
say that we don't have role models and
that these people are there in front of
us. We just act like them.
If one of them must have come out
and start fornicating with his wife
sorry, fornicating with a woman on the road,
you're not gonna do that as well.
Recently, when did you see? He was doing
all of I think he was in London
as well.
I I think it was a London as
well. I think it was Greenwich or whatever.
This article that was going around the family,
Asian family. And no offense to the Asians.
I'm not trying to just an Asian family.
The month the woman was pregnant, and then
desires, whatever happened to her, she lost her
mind, and they started doing things to get
inside the moon.
Widespread. It was all over the social media.
The point is, the lie bonus is not
a joke.
The math is very, very serious.
We're coming to the end of time, and
we're trying to maybe do everything they try
to do.
However, they dress, we dress like that as
well.
Whether they stay the way they walk and
talk, we try to be like that as
well.
That's a very, very sad situation.
Someone
looking at your wife, just talking to her
wife. I know some guys, they don't even
have a problem with some guy come and
have his wife.
Something may Allah
guide us and then but this is the
reality that we're coming to.
He said, if I was to see
a guy with my wife, I will drop
him.
So how do you say this?
So they all begin to me. The prophet
said,
I have a your own, I mean, decide,
you don't wanna be amazed
with the protective jealousy of Sahid.
Roughened with your wife? I love her, ain't
it? That's that's wasted over here.
Why are you being so harsh for?
And this is how the Sahaba, and look
how now the man has become acts.
As more time goes on, as the year
goes on, we find the hijab change. How
the guy
towards the women, change and move together.
The prophet said
that he told us about the day use
If
he's from the west of the people, A
general and a general on him.
Coming up with your wife on YouTube,
you're making videos together. A million guys can
we've done this today. She rips off his
wallet,
and then
he goes and maybe breaks her makeup,
and they're recording this. And how many hits
are they getting? 400, 500,000,
for for for each.
I'm currently sitting in the toilet.
Is gonna come with the jail, and people
are gonna be following him, rather than anyone
else.
And nobody's gonna say to him, Nobody's gonna
ask that question.
People just
The majority of hits goes to prices.
People like Adam Sadat, that, you know, everybody
loves
price.
I do this to this guy, and then
he knows this to me, and then the
light goes, oh my god.
It's a sad situation.
Well, I heard you say, and we forgot
Allah We don't know what day
They've got some sort of money, maybe in
their homes,
putting it somewhere.
Ask yourself, how much do you look after
your money?
The gold that you have, the money, I've
been told about people who do benefit for
it benefit for it. They're lying to the
government to take that money.
They can't place in the family because they're
gonna get closed.
The government's gonna find the complaint. They're basically
facing in their home, one of the topics.
One pastor has to always stay in the
house to look after him.
They can't leave the house.
They do these Natan and Gucci. And every
time somebody goes on, you get a PayPal,
and then you try to wipe it off.
But then when it comes to the women,
when it comes to our wives,
I'm the wife and the daughters and the
girls more precious than do these things.
But it's moving on.
We don't mind. Everybody come look at my
wife.
Rather, we're gonna walk around with her
everybody can see and everybody can see what
that guy's married to a nice girl.
She's very good looking.
It's become like a show enough game. Like
a trophy that everybody shows up.
Is the woman now that goes behind,
I think, fed up with guys and women.
Oh, sorry. The women and the guys. And
then we'll just balance it out now.
The woman that now goes behind the back
of her husband,
Righteous individual trying very hard
to look after his wife. He tells her
what's right and what's wrong
as much as he can,
And he leaves everything behind for her.
What happens after that?
She goes behind his back, and she starts
using social media, whether it's Facebook, whether it
is displaying herself without hijab or anything like
that.
The prophet
told us
3 people
And then she goes behind his back displaying
herself. All of it is there.
The prophet said,
The prophet said, 3
don't
pass
about
them.
The matter is serious.
She goes to explain herself behind that.
The is just a small enjoyment.
And the best part of this enjoyment is
to get married to a righteous
woman. Then he mentions some characteristics.
The guy is not gonna write down there.
The prophet said,
When you look at her, she
needs
to
smile.
And when you command her, ask her to
do something, she doesn't feel straight away. The
third thing that was mentioned,
And when you're asking from her,
Because it's very, very hard, the prophet has
mentioned this in this hadith.
So how does Nisha Walker, you got 5
minutes? Just give me the
paper.
How does one now maybe get away from
all of these problems on social media?
Whether it's Instagram, Facebook,
Snapchat,
where it might be?
Well, I I believe after looking and also
the solution to this is one thing about
it.
The solution for all of this. Why is
the girl going on to Facebook?
A lot of times because she must have
gotten attention.
For those that don't know women, they create
attention.
And they wanna grab attention for a guy
to look at it and make him feel
better, etcetera.
If she gets murdered or he gets murdered,
all the attention that goes between the sauces.
And it's simple as that.
But the problem is today,
I'll try to make this as quick as
possible. The problem is
that
the issue of marriage, things that have been
made halal in religion,
very, very clear and easy.
We, as a society,
conscious,
have made it very, very difficult.
You need to have this
£10,000 the guy has spent as if they're
buying some gold or some house or some
that.
He needs to have a pop. He needs
to have a degree. He need to have
yes. He need to have that.
It's in me. Very, very heart. And
Allah tells
us the acts.
Allah hasn't placed
any harm hardness in your you know?
How many examples?
I'll just tell you what this and all.
Forget about anyone else. We just hear about
everybody else.
You're Manahan.
You're all this. You're all this. You're all
from inner tribes. Even if you have Somali
together, they come.
And it's more common in Somali than any
other from what has become apparent to me.
And what happens? They underdo haram.
Allah made
it very, very easy for you, made matters.
You closed off. You got against a sunnah.
What does after? He ends up getting pregnant.
Then the remediation and the aid comes to
the family.
And before people find out, they try they
try to get the marriage together straight away.
And you're satisfied with his and also
his
his religion, then get him
A child comes, then they do it.
Before the humiliation comes, the math has been
made very, very easy. Wallahi,
with the Khamis,
trying to follow the sunnah. They go up
to Paris saying, what? I wanna get married
to a close of $20,000.
You need to bring $20,000
to the Mahara. You need to have a
degree. You need to do this. Otherwise, no.
So people, they start referring to Haram ways
whether it is watching * and things like
that.
Just the reality. I don't wanna go around
the bush or anything like that, but this
is.
You find that the older generation will want
it very, very much. They did. Most of
them are youth, young people.
If the people can apply this sorry. I'm
a little bit distracted. Just give me one
more minute.
If they could just take this seriously
and look at marriage as if it is
a very, very simple matter.
The prophet
said,
I've seen people are making conditional. We need
to have this.
Has not had marriage in this way. We
need to do it like this
with wasting of money in that
You just befriended the shaypa,
Allah tells us, those who waste money.
Well, why after you've come to know all
these hadith, all these ayaats,
is it now still correct for you to
keep your
picture
on Facebook, on Instagram
that you're trying to please the people with?
So we just wanna ask the brothers why
after this,
if we don't back the call, why is
gonna be a? Who
is
going to take the initiative to take this
very, very seriously
to maybe take the pictures
of them displaying themselves or even the guys
and the women.
Because they both have one agenda
to maybe get another person, but they get
a spot through Facebook.
Who's going to be hidden lie to Allah,
going to take your stuff off?
Is it okay to keep it if you're
married? Yeah. I'm