Abu Taymiyyah – Prt3 Social Media sending nude pictures in the husbands absence
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As more time goes on, as the year
goes on, you find that the hijab changed.
How the guys are towards the women changes
altogether.
The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he told
us about the day
youth. The day youth.
The prophet
said,
3 people,
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will look at them.
One of those that were mentioned
was that they youth. That they youth is
the guy that has no hira over his
women.
He has no protective jealousy
over
his
women.
He's from the worst of the people.
And the jannah on
him. Coming out with your wife on YouTube,
you're making videos together. A 1000000 guys can
see her.
This this bro who who was he mentioning?
There's this YouTube channel. I think it's called
Dina or Weber.
Now everybody watching, they tell you,
we've done this today.
She rips off his wallet
and then he goes and maybe breaks her
makeup
and they're recording this, and how many hits
are they getting? 400, 500,000,
for for for each video.
Who are we following?
Why where is like the world coming into?
The people that we're following.
Well, I understand if the people are following
a scholar.
But today we're following guy who says, this
how I do my imamah. I walked in
the toilet today and I came out.
People are tweeting and retweeting a tweet. I'm
currently sitting in the toilet.
People are following these kinds of people, and
it's not surprising and don't be astonished.
Don't let it surprise you.
A one eyed liar is gonna come, the
Dajjal, and people are gonna be following him,
with anyone else.
And nobody is gonna say to him,
where's your other
eye? Nobody's gonna ask that question. People are
just gonna follow.
The majority of hits goes to pranksters.
People like Adam Saleh that, you know, everybody
loves
pranks.
I do this to this guy, and then
he does this to me and then the
life goes on like that.
It's a sad situation.
Well, life is very, very sad, and we
forgot Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. We don't know
what day is.
A point that I wanna mention, brothers and
sisters,
does any anyone here not have a credit
card? Oh, sorry. Not credit card. I love
that. The debit card.
A debit card.
Is there anyone?
You don't have a
I do.
I'm sure every single person here has a
debit card. They've got some sort of money
maybe in their homes,
putting it somewhere.
Ask yourself, how much do you look after
your money?
The gold that you have, wallahi, I've been
told about people who do benefit fraud,
benefit fraud. They're lying to the government to
take that money.
They can't place in the bank because they're
gonna get croaked.
The government is gonna find that they can't
place. They're basically placing in their homes under
the
carpets.
One pastor has to always stay in the
house to look after it.
They can't leave the house
without full contention. They can't.
Because they put the money all over the
carpet to Allah, the guy that ends up,
you know,
robbing the house
is
and I couldn't look how much we look
after the money
that's inside these materialistic
things, the Louis Vuitton and the Gucci, and
every time something goes on, we get a
paper, and then we try to wipe it
off.
But then when it comes to the women,
when it comes to our wives,
aren't the wives and the daughters and the
girls more precious than all these things?
But there's no.
We don't mind. Everybody come look at my
wife.
Rather, we wanna walk around with her
so everybody can see and everybody can say,
oh, that guy is married to
a nice girl.
She's very good looking. It's become like a
show enough game, like a trophy that everybody
shows off.
The third thing that I wanna mention,
inshallah, is the woman now that goes behind
I think it's fair now, ain't it? The
guys and then the women oh, sorry. The
women and the guys. And then we'll just
balance it out now.
The woman that now goes behind the back
of her husband,
that's from the guys wallahi saalehi.
Righteous individual trying very hard
to look after his wife.
He tells her what's right and what's wrong
as much as he
can, and he leaves everything behind for her.
What happens after that?
She goes behind his back and she starts
using social media, whether it's Facebook, whether it
is displaying herself without hijab and webbing
The prophet Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam told us
3 people don't ask about them.
One of those that was mentioned was a
woman now.
She was given everything that she needs.
He left her behind
in her absence. In his absence, she's there.
She starts violating his kindness
and then she goes behind his back displaying
herself all over the internet.
The prophet
said,
3 don't ask about
them.
The matter is serious.
She goes displaying herself behind the This is
why when the prophet
said, because it's very very common.
The dunya is just a small enjoyment,
and the best part of this enjoyment is
to get married to a righteous
woman. Then he mentioned some characteristics. The guy
will now write it down in it.
The prophet
When you look at her, she makes you
smile.
And when you command her, ask her to
do something, she does it for you straight
away. The third thing that was mentioned,
And when you're absent from her, she preserves
herself,
safeguards herself, and she safeguards
the will.
So that's the reality of the matter.
Because it's very very hard, the prophet sallallahu
alaihi wasallam
has mentioned this in his hadith.
So how does Insha'Allah, we've got 5 minutes.
He just gave me the
paper.
How does one now maybe get away from
all of these problems on social media,
whether it is fits in a gram, Facebook,
Snapchat,
wherever it might be.
Well, I I believe after looking and also
the solution to this is want to
married. The solution to all of this. Why
is the girl going on to Facebook?
A lot of of time is because she
wants to grab attention.
For those that don't know women, they crave
attention,
and they wanna grab attention for a guy
to look at it and make her feel
better, etcetera.
If she gets married or he gets married,
all the attention, it goes between the spouses.
And it's simple as that.
But the problem is today, and inshallah, try
to make this as quick as possible. The
problem is
that
the issue of marriage, things that have been
made halal in our religion very very clear
and easy.
We as a society,
cultures
have made it very, very difficult.
As if it's some big thing about the
fool on him when they hear the issue
of marriage.
You need to have this
£10,000,
the guy says to him as if they
buy some gold or some house or some
debt.
He needs to have a car. You need
to have a degree. You need to have
this. You need to have that.
It's been made very, very hot,
and Allah
tells us the
acts
Allah hasn't placed any
hardness in your, you know,
hasn't made it difficult for you inside your
religion.
And because of this, so much
takes place. How many examples?
How many examples?
I'll just tell you about
anyone else. We're just here, about everywhere else.
The girl wants to get married to the
guy or the other way around. They go
to the parents, the parents say no.
You need to bring a guy from this
He has to be.
You're this,
you're this, and you're a sharaf.
All from different tribes.
Even if they are Somali together, they can't
get married.
And it's more common in Somali than any
other from what has become apparent to me.
And what happens? They end up doing Haram.
Allah
look made it very, very easy for you.
Made matters.
You closed off. You went against the sunnah.
What happens He ends up getting pregnant.
Then the humiliation and the aid comes to
the family.
And before people find out, they try they
try to get the marital together straight away.
The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, he said
to us,
Whoever comes to you now
and you're satisfied with his
and also
his his religion, then get him married off.
Either you do this, there's gonna be a
trial, facade, corruption upon the earth. And what's
that corruption today? The muharramal, people going behind
each other's backs.
The parents' backs. He goes and sleeps with
her, She sleeps with him.
A child comes, then they do it.
Before the humiliation comes, the matter has been
made very, very easy. Brother
is contacting me from Canada and America saying
to me that beaded guys.
Bearded. They're not just any random guy running
around the street
with the kameez, mashallah to a very high
level.
Trying to follow the sunnah. They go up
to parents saying what? I want to get
married to your daughter 20
$1,000.
You need to bring $20,000
for the maha. You need to have your
degree. You need to do this. Otherwise, no.
So people, they start referring to Haram ways
whether it is watching * and things like
that.
Just the reality. No. I don't wanna go
around the bush or anything like that, but
this is what goes on.
You find that the older
generation will light it very very hard.