Abu Taymiyyah – Prt1 social Media come like me on Facebook woman putting pics up Jeylani

Abu Taymiyyah
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The importance of social media is discussed, with Speaker 1 stressing the realities of the situation and warning of "has beenays" of certain people. They also discuss the "has beenays" of certain people and the "has beenays" of others. The speaker emphasizes the need for women to show their face on social media and avoiding the "has beenays" of others. They also mention the concept of " fitna for men and women" and the reality of the sin that carries on throughout one's lives.
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Brothers and sisters,

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when I do do this topic,

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I'm not trying to attack or insult anyone

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specifically,

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and I'm not trying to refer to everyone

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because there's different are

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all aware, there are all aware, there's a

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law of fasaid, corruption, trials, and tribulations

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that

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happen on all these

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social networking web sites, the social media that

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we have. But Insha Allahu Ta'ala, I just

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want to stop at a few things

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and Insha Allahu Ta'ala and shed some light

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on it. Hoping, wallahi, hoping that every single

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one of us, we act upon this and

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we take it very very seriously. I don't

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think there's any point

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the brother organizing lectures, organizing

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this event

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when the people are gonna

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come and they're just gonna listen and everyone's

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just gonna go and just carry on with

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their ways.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells us about the

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stories in the Quran. They're just not there

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to give us a, you know, a good

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or a bedtime story, these stories of Yusuf

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Musa

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When the verses come to us, it either

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becomes

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The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,

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The Quran is either a plea for you,

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is going to defend you, is going to

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be against you.

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Why? Because you either acted upon it or

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you didn't.

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So when we hear these ahadith,

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we hear these stories from the Quran,

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they're meant to be there for us to

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use

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our minds

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and to come to realization.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells about the stories

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in the Quran.

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Tell them about the stories so that they

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may think.

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So that they may think, they come to

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realization, they change their lives.

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And that's a whole different topic anyway, inshallahutta'ala.

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But brothers and sisters, one thing we need

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to realize, most of us here, we either

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have brothers, sisters,

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whether there's any parents here, I don't know,

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that have children.

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Sometimes I think

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we

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tend to have

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too much of good assumptions when it comes

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to

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our children

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all the young brothers and sisters.

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And also, I wanna point out as though

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having doubts is a disease. Constantly having doubts

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about people is a disease.

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But the reality of the situation is

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that a lot of people that we see

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to

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be innocent a lot of people that we

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see to be innocent, whether they are brothers,

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sisters, cousins, whoever it might be,

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how many girls do you find? And please,

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I don't want anyone to get upset. I

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just wanna be very very straight up here

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and talk the reality and

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we will come to think

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how many girls

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today you find

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that when they are leaving the home,

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The mother, the father, everybody knows or thinks

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that

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my girl, she goes to madrasa.

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And likewise with the guy, there's no difference.

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She goes to madrasa.

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She learns the Quran. She wears the hijab.

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But in reality,

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when it comes to social media,

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she's one of the worst of the people.

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She is displaying her self, trying to grab

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the attention of others

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and all

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sorts. And how many women are there? Because

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of this social media, they've been corrupted.

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Her shishma, her shyness

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has gone out the window.

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What she was before because of the social

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media. And likewise, Sheikh Soleiman Arrahili says the

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same thing, and I've got this from him.

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How many women

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chased women who were in their homes? Nobody

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knows about them because of this jihad,

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this mobile phone with all these different forms

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of social media.

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A guy comes and he corrupts the life,

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however,

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and this is the relative of the situation.

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Sorry for being very, very straight, but me

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as a person who used to be

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in these kind of things, whether whether it

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was Myspace and all this other stuff that

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they have, we know the reality that goes

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on, so we can only relate it to

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the people. Myspace.

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What is it?

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So Inshallah, I want to talk about 3

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kinds of scenarios.

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And you find whether it's the men and

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the women, they always tend to find themselves

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in one of these 3. And like I

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I said before, I'm not talking about them

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guys

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or them people who might use Facebook

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for Dawah or

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for whatever other reason, whether it's business and

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things like that. We're talking about the majority

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of those, the Bel Ravis, the majority,

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who are on Facebook, Instagram.

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Masheif Masheif I used to call Facebook Fisk

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book,

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the book of transgression.

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I don't know what he would say now

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if you find all these other different forms

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of social media.

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Taib.

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And, as the brother Walid, he came up

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with a new name, Fitz and a gram.

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That's the first time I ever heard it.

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But you you find 3

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types of people.

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The first type that I wanna talk

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about is

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and I'm gonna try and be as balanced

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as possible because, otherwise, there's gonna be problems.

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The woman

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that comes out on social media

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dressed inappropriately,

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wearing makeup, wear a bit might be beautifying

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herself

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on social media.

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This woman,

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she might go and leave the house,

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go to the shop whether it's town or

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wherever it might be, and she might walk

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past

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10, 15, 20 people going to the

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shop.

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In this Haram state, and we know

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that the prophet

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said, when a woman leaves, it is not

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permissible

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for the husband to stop his wife from

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going to the masjid.

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Do not prevent the woman from going to

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the masjid.

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But

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They should leave while they are unbeautified

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when leaving to the masjid.

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Whether it is a akhar, she's not allowed

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to come out with perfume. The prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam

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Any woman that comes out and she's wearing

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perfume and she goes and walks past the

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men and they smell her, she's a fornicator.

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I'm not saying this. Not me. It's the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Whether it is any sort and any form

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of beautification,

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it is

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not permissible.

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So the woman now, she comes out of

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her house.

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She gets the sin for maybe these 10,

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15 people

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holds that account.

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Then you have the type of girl that

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comes out on social media.

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This individual

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is worse than the one that comes out

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of a house. Why? Because only 10, 15

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people saw her or 20 people saw her.

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You have on Facebook,

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if you have friends and the friend friends,

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and then it goes on, the friends, friends,

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friends. Let's just say each friend has a

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100 friends,

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100 friends.

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Every single individual now has access

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to your Facebook and is able to see

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your face.

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A lot of the girls, they always say,

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why do you always pick on the girls?

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Tell the guy to lower his gaze, and

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they've got a point. But at the same

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time, there's a big blame on you as

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well. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala just say,

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Tell the believing man to lower his gaze.

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And that's right.

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But why are you coming out being a

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fitna knowing that the women are a fitna

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for the guys?

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And at the same time the Prophet SAW

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Alaihi Wasallam said,

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The woman, she's a And the Prophet SAW

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Alaihi Wasallam

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said, I haven't left the fitna that is

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more harmful

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and more great upon my ummah than the

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women.

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So the woman comes out and she displays

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herself. She exposes how she looks on social

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media.

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Wallahi, it is fit

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with this girl that comes out. The hadith

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam when

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he said,

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Whoever now calls him is guidance.

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For him is the sin. Sin. Everyone that

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follows him up on that sin,

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and that won't take anything away from their

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sins.

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So you coming out now. Even though you

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might not say it directly, everybody come look

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at me, look at how, look, this, that.

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Or

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sorry, with the actual tongue saying it or

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writing it down, but that's the reality of

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the matter.

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Putting your face on Facebook,

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not even just a normal picture,

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but the best form of picture they stand

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in the light

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in order to come out more light or

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light skin or whatever it might be.

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When the reality is they look completely different.

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And that goes to the men as well.

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That happens to the men as well,

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and they try to do the exact same

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thing.

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But

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everyone now,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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do not cooperate in

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evil.

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Single one of them is what?

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Cooperating a sin and evil. So they all

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share out the sin,

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and that's the reality of the matter. Even

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though you might not say with with your

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tongue, it carries on. You know how we

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always hear about

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the continuous charity

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that everybody knows about that carries on even

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your grave. There's something called

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The continuous reward and the continuous sin.

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You in your grave

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you in your grave

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can carry on getting rewards if you taught

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someone

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If you taught the hadith and the guy

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goes and teaches people the hadith, they get

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the reward for it.

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Forever and ever

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in your grave, and likewise your sin.

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Likewise, the sin of a person.

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When he falls into sin and this sin

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is still present amongst the people, it is

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carrying

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on. Brothers and sisters, how many times have

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we sinned? Because of images

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because of images.

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And one brother, one of my close cousins

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was just telling me,

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there was a girl there was a girl.

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They photoshopped her picture

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onto what a naked woman

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because she left it on

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there.

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And it carries on. It carries on. Why?

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Because

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