Abu Taymiyyah – Prt 2 Social Media Kanye west guys being like him
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The speakers discuss two scenarios involving men making false accusations of bribery and trying to blackmail women. They emphasize the importance of changing one's behavior and reexamining one's behavior to avoid future embarrassment. The trend of men taking pictures with their wives and putting it on social media is a common excuse for their religion, and the trend of men cutting hair like the prophet sallali alaihi wa sallam said to them is a common mentality. The segment ends with a discussion of the sad situation of a family member being harsh on their wife, where they try to be like their mothers and brothers.
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Do that to grab attention, to please the
people.
That's the main objective, to please
to get comments you look nice, you don't,
and this, that.
To get likes, to feel better, to feel
more confident as they
say
because maybe someone's told her or him that
you look like this, and they're trying to
maybe gain their confidence back. Back.
And because of us trying to please the
people, look what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala does
to certain people.
The prophet sallallahu alaihi was
said,
Whoever now tries
to please the people.
And through that,
he enrages and makes Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
angry.
What happens?
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will become angry with
this person and he will make the people
angry with him as well. The people will
become upset with this individual. Why he's constantly
just trying to piss
people? So this woman now, do you really
think
that she had the intention
to maybe
end up or someone getting a picture and
this happening to
her. It was more about, oh, I want
to see what this guy has to say
or what that guy has to say and
etcetera. To feel better about herself, she cared
more about what the people
think. So what happened after Walaiah, the brother
said to me, she was crying crying. She
didn't even know about it.
Some guy tried to blackmail her, either you
come back with me or I'm going to
do this and do that.
And the brother was saying, wallahi look like
a professional.
You actually think that it is her.
Very easy to do that this day and
era. To get someone's picture and place it
on top of Beyonce or whoever it might
be to make her look like like that,
very very easy.
We have to do a lot of blurring
as well to get the color the same.
So brothers and sisters,
this matter
is very very serious.
We might not say it to ourselves
that we are trying to call the people
to misguidance
even though we might not say with our
tongues. That's the reality of the matter,
whether we know it or not.
The second kind of scenario,
and this is wallahi very very ajin. Very
ajin. Yeah.
Like, from the size of the hour that
is actually taking
place.
Sorry. Before I go on to that, I
want to mention another point. A hadith that
just came to my head.
Some of these people,
when they come on,
you find them swinging and swaying
on the Internet.
In the best possible pose, they're trying to
take pictures.
What does the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
say about this?
And it is from the signs of the
Awa. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says,
Women
that are clothed
and naked at the same time.
They swing and they sway. These people they
don't want to go into the Jannah, and
they came in a narration,
they are cursed.
How can a woman now be clothed
and be naked at the same time?
Her clothing is so tight
that you could
actually see the whole form of this women.
And please, well, my brother, sister, I'm not
trying to attack anyone. All of us we
make mistakes, and I really don't want anyone
to get offended.
We all make mistakes. I've made so many
mistakes in my life. I was running around
in
Camden. Did whatever we did. But
what is important for us is that when
we actually hear the reminder
is that we try to change it
and we try to maybe apply it and
try and rectify this matter.
Their heads
are like the humps of a camel.
In another narration,
the prophet
said,
The most hated
people to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala are 3
types or 3 kinds of people.
1 of those mentioned was who?
Someone that tries to come in Islam
and seek
the ways of the people of Jahiliyyah.
Why is the ways of the Jahiliyyah that
what did the women used to do back
in the day? They used to come out
and display themselves and they didn't have any
hijab at the time.
And we know that from the trace of
the Allah
tells us abide in your homes and do
not come out displaying exposing yourselves like
the time of the Jahiryah.
So sister,
you have so many of these hadith.
You can see the matter is very very
serious. It's not something very small
that we can just maybe sleep on or
just put to the side and just forget
about.
And as we're gonna comment today,
Does a person even want a bubble around
his head, a possibility that he might touch
the fire?
That there's even a possibility.
You find people, they say Allah
Allah forgives
and pardons
whatever we do. Yes.
But that's
whoever he will.
Why do you want even there to be
a possibility
that you might even touch that fire?
Sometimes
the only way for a person to realize
is to go and touch that fire or
that stove inside his kitchen to realize how
hot
the fire of the akhirah can be.
And then and still there's no comparison. The
prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told us, and
now
The fire that you kindled with in your
kitchens,
it's 1 70th of the fire
in Akhram. These ayat provinces
should scare us. It should,
like, make us try to realize what we're
doing.
The second type that I want to speak
about Insha'Allah Ta'ala is more related to that
guys.
Today, there's a trend going around
where
the guys they take pictures with their wives
and they put it on social media.
All their sisters, all their mothers,
or any of their close relatives
as if it's happy days. There's nothing wrong
with it. Everybody, hey, look. Come look at
my sister
Oh, come look at my daughter.
And there's many many hadith, many points there
in regards to this matter. Wallahi, you think
to yourself, where has the gira,
the protective jealousy that is legislating our religion
call?
Everybody wants to be like Kanye West.
Kanye West where he goes with his wife.
Everybody knows his wife. Shows her off
to the people. Well, some brothers are looking
at me. How how do you know this?
Just because we're fresh. She's from Yemen Yemen
doesn't
we we we get told this, you know?
There's a prophet that always says, who does
she think she is? Does she think she's
Kardashians Kardashian Kardashian? So I'm thinking, so who
are you talking about? Who's that? And then
he, one brother from the pipe. I love
Alaikulin basically with his brothers and sisters,
today everybody wants to be like him. Show
off his wife. And then they say to
you, bro, are you
scared for your wife? Someone's gonna come take
your wife? Why are you getting jealous for?
Do you think that someone's gonna do anything
to her? This is the kind of mentality
that we have. The kind of mentality
and the kind of words and trends that
goes around like this.
Wallahi, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said
to us,
You're going to follow the ways of those
before you,
hands span by hands
span and arms length by arms length.
And then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
then said,
Even if they was to not run into
the whole of Aliz, then you're not gonna
run-in there as
well. Yeah. I need to know. Muslim, they're
disbelievers. You're gonna try and do everything they
do. Today Ronaldo, he cuts his hair like
that, Mohican, everybody does it. How heavy it
might be, some of these guys that Wawahi,
we take as role models
and then the people say we don't have
any role models.
It's a big fat lie for someone to
say that we don't have role models and
that these people are there in front of
us. We just act like them.
It came in another narration.
It came in another narration. The prophet
said, If one of them was to come
now and stop fornicating with his wife
Sorry, fornicating with a woman on the road.
You're not going to do
that as well. Recently, when did we see?
It was going all over. I think it
was in London as well.
I think it was Greenwich or wherever. This
article that was going around a family,
Asian family, and no offense to the Asians.
I'm not trying to just an Asian
family. The the woman was pregnant and then
desires whatever happened to her, she lost her
mind and they started doing things to get
inside the mall. Some people are saying, oh,
yeah. No.
The
the article was very
widespread. It was all over social media.
The point is, wallahi, brother, this is not
a joke.
The math is very, very serious.
We're coming to the end of time, and
we're trying to maybe do everything they try
to do.
How ever they dress, we dress like that
as well.
Whatever they say, the way they walk and
talk, we try to be like that as
well. That's a very very sad situation.
Someone
looking at your wife just talking to her.
Well, I I know some guys, they don't
even have a problem with some guy coming
and hugging his wife.
Yeah. I need the gheera has dropped to
that level.
And wallahi, the is very very sad. It's
not. Something may Allah subhanahu wa'ala guide us
and then, but this the reality that we're
coming to.
He said if I was to see a
guy with my wife,
I would drop him.
Sahabi janeer is saying this.
So they all became amazed. The prophet sallallahu
alaihi
wa
sallam
said,
are you all amazed
with the protective jealousy
sad? I am more protectively jealous than him.
I am more jealousy than him, and Allah
has more jealousy than me.
Why are you being harsh today? Allah, why
are you being, you know, tough and rough
and with your wife? Allow her in it.
That's that's basically what we hear.
Why are you being so harsh for?