Abu Taymiyyah – Prt 2 Social Media Kanye west guys being like him

Abu Taymiyyah
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The speakers discuss two scenarios involving men making false accusations of bribery and trying to blackmail women. They emphasize the importance of changing one's behavior and reexamining one's behavior to avoid future embarrassment. The trend of men taking pictures with their wives and putting it on social media is a common excuse for their religion, and the trend of men cutting hair like the prophet sallali alaihi wa sallam said to them is a common mentality. The segment ends with a discussion of the sad situation of a family member being harsh on their wife, where they try to be like their mothers and brothers.
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Do that to grab attention, to please the

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people.

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That's the main objective, to please

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to get comments you look nice, you don't,

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and this, that.

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To get likes, to feel better, to feel

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more confident as they

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say

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because maybe someone's told her or him that

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you look like this, and they're trying to

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maybe gain their confidence back. Back.

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And because of us trying to please the

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people, look what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala does

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to certain people.

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The prophet sallallahu alaihi was

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said,

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Whoever now tries

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to please the people.

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And through that,

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he enrages and makes Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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angry.

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What happens?

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will become angry with

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this person and he will make the people

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angry with him as well. The people will

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become upset with this individual. Why he's constantly

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just trying to piss

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people? So this woman now, do you really

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think

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that she had the intention

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to maybe

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end up or someone getting a picture and

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this happening to

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her. It was more about, oh, I want

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to see what this guy has to say

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or what that guy has to say and

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etcetera. To feel better about herself, she cared

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more about what the people

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think. So what happened after Walaiah, the brother

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said to me, she was crying crying. She

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didn't even know about it.

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Some guy tried to blackmail her, either you

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come back with me or I'm going to

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do this and do that.

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And the brother was saying, wallahi look like

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a professional.

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You actually think that it is her.

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Very easy to do that this day and

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era. To get someone's picture and place it

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on top of Beyonce or whoever it might

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be to make her look like like that,

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very very easy.

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We have to do a lot of blurring

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as well to get the color the same.

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So brothers and sisters,

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this matter

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is very very serious.

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We might not say it to ourselves

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that we are trying to call the people

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to misguidance

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even though we might not say with our

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tongues. That's the reality of the matter,

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whether we know it or not.

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The second kind of scenario,

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and this is wallahi very very ajin. Very

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ajin. Yeah.

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Like, from the size of the hour that

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is actually taking

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place.

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Sorry. Before I go on to that, I

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want to mention another point. A hadith that

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just came to my head.

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Some of these people,

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when they come on,

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you find them swinging and swaying

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on the Internet.

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In the best possible pose, they're trying to

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take pictures.

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What does the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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say about this?

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And it is from the signs of the

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Awa. The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says,

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Women

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that are clothed

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and naked at the same time.

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They swing and they sway. These people they

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don't want to go into the Jannah, and

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they came in a narration,

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they are cursed.

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How can a woman now be clothed

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and be naked at the same time?

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Her clothing is so tight

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that you could

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actually see the whole form of this women.

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And please, well, my brother, sister, I'm not

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trying to attack anyone. All of us we

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make mistakes, and I really don't want anyone

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to get offended.

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We all make mistakes. I've made so many

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mistakes in my life. I was running around

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in

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Camden. Did whatever we did. But

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what is important for us is that when

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we actually hear the reminder

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is that we try to change it

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and we try to maybe apply it and

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try and rectify this matter.

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Their heads

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are like the humps of a camel.

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In another narration,

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the prophet

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said,

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The most hated

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people to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala are 3

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types or 3 kinds of people.

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1 of those mentioned was who?

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Someone that tries to come in Islam

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and seek

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the ways of the people of Jahiliyyah.

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Why is the ways of the Jahiliyyah that

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what did the women used to do back

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in the day? They used to come out

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and display themselves and they didn't have any

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hijab at the time.

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And we know that from the trace of

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the Allah

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tells us abide in your homes and do

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not come out displaying exposing yourselves like

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the time of the Jahiryah.

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So sister,

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you have so many of these hadith.

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You can see the matter is very very

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serious. It's not something very small

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that we can just maybe sleep on or

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just put to the side and just forget

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about.

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And as we're gonna comment today,

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Does a person even want a bubble around

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his head, a possibility that he might touch

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the fire?

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That there's even a possibility.

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You find people, they say Allah

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Allah forgives

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and pardons

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whatever we do. Yes.

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But that's

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whoever he will.

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Why do you want even there to be

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a possibility

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that you might even touch that fire?

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Sometimes

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the only way for a person to realize

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is to go and touch that fire or

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that stove inside his kitchen to realize how

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hot

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the fire of the akhirah can be.

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And then and still there's no comparison. The

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam told us, and

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now

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The fire that you kindled with in your

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kitchens,

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it's 1 70th of the fire

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in Akhram. These ayat provinces

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should scare us. It should,

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like, make us try to realize what we're

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doing.

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The second type that I want to speak

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about Insha'Allah Ta'ala is more related to that

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guys.

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Today, there's a trend going around

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where

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the guys they take pictures with their wives

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and they put it on social media.

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All their sisters, all their mothers,

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or any of their close relatives

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as if it's happy days. There's nothing wrong

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with it. Everybody, hey, look. Come look at

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my sister

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Oh, come look at my daughter.

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And there's many many hadith, many points there

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in regards to this matter. Wallahi, you think

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to yourself, where has the gira,

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the protective jealousy that is legislating our religion

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call?

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Everybody wants to be like Kanye West.

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Kanye West where he goes with his wife.

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Everybody knows his wife. Shows her off

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to the people. Well, some brothers are looking

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at me. How how do you know this?

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Just because we're fresh. She's from Yemen Yemen

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doesn't

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we we we get told this, you know?

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There's a prophet that always says, who does

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she think she is? Does she think she's

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Kardashians Kardashian Kardashian? So I'm thinking, so who

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are you talking about? Who's that? And then

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he, one brother from the pipe. I love

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Alaikulin basically with his brothers and sisters,

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today everybody wants to be like him. Show

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off his wife. And then they say to

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you, bro, are you

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scared for your wife? Someone's gonna come take

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your wife? Why are you getting jealous for?

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Do you think that someone's gonna do anything

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to her? This is the kind of mentality

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that we have. The kind of mentality

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and the kind of words and trends that

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goes around like this.

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Wallahi, the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said

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to us,

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You're going to follow the ways of those

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before you,

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hands span by hands

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span and arms length by arms length.

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And then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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then said,

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Even if they was to not run into

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the whole of Aliz, then you're not gonna

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run-in there as

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well. Yeah. I need to know. Muslim, they're

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disbelievers. You're gonna try and do everything they

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do. Today Ronaldo, he cuts his hair like

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that, Mohican, everybody does it. How heavy it

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might be, some of these guys that Wawahi,

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we take as role models

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and then the people say we don't have

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any role models.

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It's a big fat lie for someone to

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say that we don't have role models and

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that these people are there in front of

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us. We just act like them.

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It came in another narration.

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It came in another narration. The prophet

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said, If one of them was to come

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now and stop fornicating with his wife

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Sorry, fornicating with a woman on the road.

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You're not going to do

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that as well. Recently, when did we see?

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It was going all over. I think it

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was in London as well.

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I think it was Greenwich or wherever. This

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article that was going around a family,

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Asian family, and no offense to the Asians.

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I'm not trying to just an Asian

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family. The the woman was pregnant and then

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desires whatever happened to her, she lost her

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mind and they started doing things to get

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inside the mall. Some people are saying, oh,

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yeah. No.

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The

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the article was very

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widespread. It was all over social media.

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The point is, wallahi, brother, this is not

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a joke.

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The math is very, very serious.

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We're coming to the end of time, and

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we're trying to maybe do everything they try

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to do.

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How ever they dress, we dress like that

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as well.

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Whatever they say, the way they walk and

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talk, we try to be like that as

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well. That's a very very sad situation.

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Someone

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looking at your wife just talking to her.

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Well, I I know some guys, they don't

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even have a problem with some guy coming

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and hugging his wife.

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Yeah. I need the gheera has dropped to

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that level.

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And wallahi, the is very very sad. It's

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not. Something may Allah subhanahu wa'ala guide us

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and then, but this the reality that we're

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coming to.

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He said if I was to see a

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guy with my wife,

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I would drop him.

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Sahabi janeer is saying this.

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So they all became amazed. The prophet sallallahu

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alaihi

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wa

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sallam

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said,

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are you all amazed

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with the protective jealousy

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sad? I am more protectively jealous than him.

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I am more jealousy than him, and Allah

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has more jealousy than me.

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Why are you being harsh today? Allah, why

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are you being, you know, tough and rough

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and with your wife? Allow her in it.

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That's that's basically what we hear.

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Why are you being so harsh for?

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