Abu Taymiyyah – POWERFUL The Dangerous Consequences & Effects of Sins London

Abu Taymiyyah
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The conversation covers the historical and current impacts of the blessed message of Islam, including its potential consequences and the importance of memory in one's life. The speakers also discuss the struggles of men in society, including struggles with their husbands and their families, struggles with their emotions and struggles with their bodies, and the negative consequences of drug use and the negative impact of drugs on one's financial situation. The segment also touches on the struggles of women in their own lives, including struggles with their husbands and their families, struggles with their emotions and struggles with their bodies, and the importance of avoiding drugs in one's life.
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Yeah.

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Join in nola.com Teva raka

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yes Desi, for Hi here

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first and foremost, I just want to take a moment out to thank the

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administration of the masjid for hosting me in this wonderfully

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built messages. As I was driving in too often, I thought to myself,

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says if I'm in Bangladesh, in a Muslim country honestly, seeing so

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many Licchavi is Javis

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Gil Bobby's brothers were thoughts walking around. So I felt

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extremely good. As we drove into the carpark of the masjid, I felt

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even better. Saying the masjid the way it is Wallahi it really brings

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a lot of joy to one's heart. And now I see all of these glowing

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faces all of the Shabaab who could have easily been doing all sorts

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of evil things on this day, Saturday, right, right. What are

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mostly Shabaab doing either watching Premier League

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or they are up to no good Saturday night getting ready to cause all

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sorts of evil Right, right. So milma has already bless every

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single one of you guys for taking up the time to benefit to acquire

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some understanding of the religion.

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My brothers and my sisters our lecture today may Allah azza wa

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jal keep us all sincere is about the effects of sins.

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Have you ever felt extremely miserable and down now?

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And you try to find answers as to why you may feel so spiritually

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empty.

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Has there ever been a time brothers and sisters,

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when you try to pick up the book of Allah subhanaw taala he tried

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to read the Quran. However, it seemed as if there was a barrier

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between you

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and tasting the sweetness of the speech of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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Has there have been times when you felt

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that all of the doors have been closed around you?

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Every time you want to get up on your two feet to accomplish

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something.

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The doors seems shut on your face.

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Has there ever been a time my beloved brothers and sisters?

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Well, you have been struck with so many financial difficulties.

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Every single time when you try to get up on your two feet to better

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your financial position. I can you felt

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as if there was no way out of the situation that you're in

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Luma to bow to have Volkova darkness above darkness. Either

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Astra Jaya, the whole new era.

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You take out your hand it is as if you can't see it.

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That's because of how dark it is.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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there are many reasons as to why we may feel a certain way

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as to why we may feel

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with what I mentioned.

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The sins that are times you may take so lightly have some serious

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consequences. Many people think that when you sin, you will only

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be held to account when you meet Allah subhanaw taala on the Day of

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Judgment.

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Three reality of the matter is my brothers and my sisters, this is

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far from it.

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The sins have some serious consequences that will come back

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to haunt us. Especially when we think that we can deceive Allah

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azza wa jal it is just one night that I will disobey allies though

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agenda.

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My brothers and my sisters, and now which is even worse than us.

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And when we take these sins so lightly, not realizing that it

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could be the first fork to one shooting out of the religion. And

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yes, I'm not the one who said this. In fact, it was mentioned

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over 700 years ago by the great Imam even though theme Rahmatullah

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he it when he said,

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Al Marcia to be very uncomfortable. The sin that one

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carries out it is the first spark to disbelief to one apostate in

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front of you

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Allah subhanaw taala can go Blatter very Zina over at Gmail

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should I say just as the kiss is the first part to sexual

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*? What come and Xena very Zina and just adds the music

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the one listens to is the first part two

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brothers and sisters, the sins are not a light matter

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that we might sometimes brothers and sisters look down on in the

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community I'm gonna hear a duck puffy, a unique combination of

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what could

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never do have in a movie odds

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as a great companion

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I will not be allowed to either and I mentioned indeed you carry

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out sins

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that you see Subhanallah smaller or should I say maybe more

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thinner, then a piece of hair.

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And we used to count it or see it as the most destructive sins.

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Today that which we take very minor, the major sins that might

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happen in our communities, because we become so desensitized to it.

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This my brothers or my sisters,

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would be considered by the Companions as something that is a

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no go it can't happen never.

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Let alone the mind that sense, though is perhaps seen as

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a normal part of life. These minor sins they used to see as the major

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sins look how times have changed.

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May Allah azza wa jal protect us. So I have brothers and sisters a

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number of

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the effects of sins written down here that I took from this guitar

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coat adapt with.

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The sickness in the cure

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will lie when you read them oedema, the introduction it breaks

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your heart because it was a letter that was sent to ignore team of

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one saying,

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If I continue like this, then indeed I will run myself in the

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destruction. I remember when chef Andres awful brother was teaching

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us this guitar. He was saying that this is a guitar. It is a book

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that is so relevant

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for those in today's day and age, especially those who have become

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addicted to since because the question, the one who sent this

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rissalah this message to him no time Rahmatullah and he it was

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very evident that he was addicted to some sin. However, it wasn't

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made clear exactly what the sin was. But it was some sort of

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addiction that you could take away from the Mapa Dima.

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So the che ne Rahmatullah Allah He He wrote a whole book that has

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also been translated into English, which I advise every single one of

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you guys inshallah to Allah to look for it's called the sickness

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and the cure by an author implements Allah

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the first consequence brothers and sisters of the sins that we carry

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out,

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held manually.

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Brothers and sisters, from the most common questions that I

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received, especially in the month of Ramadan, is the month of Quran

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right? Shadow Ramadan Eleni on Xena via Quran, the month of

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Ramadan in which the Quran came down. We all want to open the book

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of Allah azza wa jal. We want to hit the ground running. We want to

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better ourselves so that we become better Muslims outside the month

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of Ramadan. We want to use Ramadan as a stepping stone.

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And is there a better place to be starting than the Quran? You open

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the Quran in this blessed month when the shayateen have been

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locked up, and the doors of Jannah haven't swung open, and the doors

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of hellfire have been slammed shut. You open the Quran, you sit

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there for a couple of minutes and it just doesn't seem to be

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penetrating an individual's heart. You can't sit there holding the

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Quran. You close it and then you come back maybe 20 minutes later

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you open the Quran doesn't seem to be happening.

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Seems like our hearts have become sealed. We struggle to have that

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connection with the Quran. That connection with Allah azza wa jal

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why brothers and sisters, eminent Dame Rahmatullah Alayhi. He says,

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from the consequences of sins is that one is deprived of knowledge.

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Have you guys heard of an imam Shafi I know Salima Malik.

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Two out of the four great Imams the fifth.

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The first of them is the great Imam Ali Mohammed

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Al Imam Abu Hanifa Rahmatullah Ali

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and then you have any memory and then the one who came after me

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Shafi and then an email.

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Two of them Imam Shafi and acima Malik, they came together and at

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the time Imam Shafi was a student he sat down in front of the great

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Imam, the Imam of in Medina.

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Malik known as Rahmatullah he was he

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was absolutely amazed

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at how sharp the memorization of an imam Shafi Rahmatullah era and

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he said to him the following in the Quran, and Allah, Allah

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vehicle, Vika Lura fella two three have You vomited Marcia? I can see

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that Allah azza wa jal has placed a nor a light in your heart.

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Do not extinguish this light

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with the darkness of sinning

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Subhan Allah and Allah.

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As time went on, they say the memorization of Imam Shafi became

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effective, he started suffering from some memory loss.

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His memorization was so sharp, imagine you have a Kitab right? He

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would have to cover one side, just so it doesn't get mixed with the

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other side of

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photographic memory.

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Lahu Artois.

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So his memory became affected. You know what the reason was? They say

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because he sold the ankles of a woman. So spine goes on the ankle,

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and he looked at it.

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And that affected his memory.

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I remember before I was leaving, and Yemen

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one brother said to me listen to him, because he knew I memorize

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the Quran. He said, Mohamed, I advise you not to go back to the

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UK. I said why? He goes, you may look at a woman and you will end

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up forgetting the whole Quran. When I looked at her brother and I

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thought, Is he being serious.

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As time went on, I began to realize exactly what he meant. By

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image Scheffer is memory becoming affected because he looks at some

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bangles on a woman's ankles.

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Now you live in a sexualized society where women are

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objectified.

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Just about every banner. And every billboard you have a half naked

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women

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that is being used as a marketing tool to sell a product. That's

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what it's come to brothers and sisters. If only our sisters knew

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exactly what society is trying to do to her.

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They are there to strip you off your clothing to objectify you.

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While Allah subhanho wa Taala has honored you as a woman.

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And everything that is precious when you think about it. It is so

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hard to get to a grid

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who in his right mind walks around the streets of East London

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flushing his bank card or the money they are stored in a safe

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the diamonds and the power. It's very hard to get to. And now women

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are precious. So it's hard to get to them. They are covered just

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like all of these other precious, materialistic things.

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Anyways, brothers and sisters, he saw the ankles of a woman that had

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bangles and they affected his memory.

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And then he mentioned his very famous lines of poetry when he

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said

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Shaco to Isla okay and so heavily Farshad Annie and Arthur King

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Massey, fast Bernie be underlined Manu Ron, well known Lila Daniels.

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I complained to hear about my bad memory loss for a very long time.

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I thought, why did he go to a Kia who's this individual called Rocky

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and Adjara. He could have done to Mr. Malik he could have done to so

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and so. And that individual payment to a Kia I'll tell you

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guys why after.

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I complained to Wilkie about my bad memory loss.

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He advised me to leave off sending out of all of the advice that I

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could have given him. He told him leave of absence

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for Shannon electrical mass law what

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he didn't say to me Imam Shafi. The glory days are behind you.

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You've memorized you're bound to forget at old age.

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fast burning dandelion, Manon

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Well no Loyola your daddy I'll see.

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He told me that his aim is they know it is a light

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and this light is not given to a sinner.

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As time went on, after studying this guitar brothers and sisters,

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I was reading said Hola Mundo Bella and I came across

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what was so amazing about working with giraffe, and it will make

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sense as to why you went in

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I even have some inventions

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now right to da de Verkehr in Katana. I never, ever saw Akia

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holding a book, never in the mountain will have everything was

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from the top of his memory.

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So I asked him man the world this year. What is the cause of

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forgetting or memory loss is the reverse. You don't act upon it. So

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they will Allah He said

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cool mousey

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to leave of sinning merger Rob Tomislav, I've never tried

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anything like

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the sense brothers and sisters, it deprives god

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of being able to taste the pleasure of the Quran, to be able

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to sit down and to recite Wallahi the sins that we carry out, it

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prevents us

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right?

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They could have made a lot of excuses for themselves. However,

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they were self critical which you will come to in shallow dialogue

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in a moment.

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Even if Nakoda Rahmatullah Alayhi he says the following mean Melania

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ephemeral Quran your talent to levy from the causes as to why one

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may be deprived of being able to understand the Quran

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and tasting the sweetness of it. Three things

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number one, and number seven

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he's someone who persists on the sense that he does everybody makes

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mistakes, here is speaking about persisting on it.

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He got away with it, there were no consequences. And sometimes that

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happens, right? There were no consequences. So how about I got

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away with it.

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I was struck with any difficulty or any hardship or any financial

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problems. Let me try it again.

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And you're gonna miss out on Allah. Number two,

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and you're gonna move Tell him we'll keep it

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to be tested with arrogance. This is a huge factor as to how an

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individual may be prevented from being able to taste the sweetness

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of the Quran.

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And he may make sense as to why we struggled to open the book of

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Allah azza wa jal. It may well do brothers and sisters

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even show some tips on how to lie on a fake Italia rug Alisha theory

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says.

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Alright, so Cassie, are on midwinters Even in a lesson.

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You've told me keep an eye so many, many of those who ascribe

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themselves to knowledge. He's not just talking about the average

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Joe, they see walking around the streets of East London law. He's

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talking about people of knowledge are tested with arrogance. Well,

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you're Ramona Hurricane Katrina.

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They are then deprived of the essence of knowledge.

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You've been studying or you've been upon a certain way for maybe

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10 years.

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Or you were brought up from a young age doing something that is

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in contrary to the Sharia.

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You become old white vein, you have a little bit, someone comes

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and corrects you, who are you to come and correct me.

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That's the kind of response that comes out of your mouth.

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I knew what the Sunnah was, before you knew what a sandwich was, what

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Elia had this ammonia is by one of the pioneers of the dialogue when

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I was in Yemen throw Do you want to tell me what the Sunnah is? I

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knew about a pseudonym before you knew what a sandwich was.

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I heard statements such as

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I used to clean your backside. Now you want to teach me how to make

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although all of this Brothers is killer, it's arrogance. And the

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messenger colonialism said arrogance is bottom half

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wantonness, to belittle the people

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and to reject the truth.

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Does that make sense to my brothers and my sisters? We really

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have to empty the vessel. This heart needs to be cleaned.

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Otherwise we will be

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deprived of that, which is going to grant the salvation, and I

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think it's important that I touched on this

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statement of imminent Joseph Mitchell like it, a lot of the

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time we talk about it What's so good about El, many people think

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that you only seek knowledge. If you want to become a chef. If you

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want to become a serious student of knowledge, now allow

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brothers and sisters pay attention to this very important point.

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Would you agree? Would you agree that because of a lack of

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knowledge,

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there is that which is inflammatory. Considered by the

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text. I'm not here by the way, brothers and sisters to express my

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own views and opinions.

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I'm just quoting

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there is a morals sexual practices that has become normalized in the

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society.

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The world's become a very colorful place.

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You want to cross the road, the zebra crossing is rainbow colors.

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It's become a very colorful world, right?

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We've become so desensitized. So what is unacceptable morally as

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per the scripts, and by the way, brothers, sisters, this isn't this

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isn't only a Muslim position.

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The Jews believe the exact same thing and the Christians. I

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believe it's 230 Jewish rabbis They call themselves the Torah,

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Jews

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and mental health experts and doctors. They came together to

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take a unified position against the telephone team.

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Saying how this is what harmful and immoral?

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Does that make sense?

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But then as Muslims you feel extremely embarrassed and shy to

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speak about what is in the Quran. Come on brothers. We are either

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made to feel that we have to have coalition's with them or we must

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be on the backfoot

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the point I wanted to make is likewise, how to be a man

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how to be what a man

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toxic masculinity.

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Alpha Male materialshe People are taking guidance from an individual

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for half the times he is absolutely filthy evil.

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The feminists have had a stronghold on society for a very

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long time. And now the opposite has emerged. Shabaab are glued to

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these individuals either a feminist or what now this new

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movement

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isn't in line with the Sharia. I will allow a lot of it isn't

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points I want to make my brothers and my sisters

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teaches us how to navigate and maneuver around fitness to shoot

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for fitness to share what

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the fitness of sexual temptations and desires

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teaches you that.

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Put your hand up if you came to my lecture yesterday in Edmonton

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Islamic center.

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Play to me Let me ask you guys a question.

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When the Why have an ISIS blocked use of interrupt. And she said

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let's go.

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What did he do?

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He saw refuge from Allah azza wa jal and then

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they just sit there. What did he start doing? He ran away from her.

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Run away from her right. Is this not a how to deal with some of

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these sexual temptations? Today, a sister slides into your DM, right?

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And then the shaytaan whispers I'm going to give her Dawa.

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She ends up giving him Dawa.

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Her looks and love giving him dialogue.

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Because of you entertaining, that which you should have ran far away

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home.

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And there's so much more that can be led brothers and sisters so

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much more.

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Does that make sense? But how to deal with the day to day struggles

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and challenges.

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Likewise, money Malleus thought was around when Jabril came to

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Africa methanol Robuchon Surya in the form of a human being, they

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should just sit around entertaining this man for just

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approach that in your own development. I seek refuge in

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Allah azza wa jal from you if you are someone have to stay away from

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me.

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That's the response. She never got to

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excited I'm getting a little bit of attention

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teaches us a lot. So that

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enables us to maneuver and navigate around these temptations.

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And most importantly, also brothers and sisters Pfitzner to

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Shubo hat.

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The fifth now of Dallas, we are taking our kids and our brothers

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and sisters, to these universities and the schools

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which have breeding grounds for cohort shake, and all sorts of

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evil, agreed. And even more so. So they are being fed a lot of

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colorful things

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and then when the child comes home asking questions, we get angry, or

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we say that she has or he has a gin now internal agenda.

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He just doesn't know he wasn't taught how to tackle a lot of that

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which is facing and now. Hello, he has every right to ask us

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questions.

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Brothers and sisters their enemies not just to become an island a

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scholar.

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It will help you immensely in dealing with a lot of your

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problems. Has anyone here watch the lecture on my YouTube channel

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called filthy fathers, cheating husbands and premixing

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put your hand up if you have

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hamdulillah so I can ask the question why

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if we sit here and we speak about why you shouldn't gender mix,

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people say are heavy come again. Haram please write backward minded

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out of touch with reality. What do you mean don't gender mix we are

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in a 21st century.

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I mentioned a hadith and verses. But what I also did, I mentioned

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firsthand accounts of people who fell victim

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to gender mixing

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a woman would open the door come with your husband's and let's all

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sit around and have tea

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what happens and by the way, I took all of these accounts from

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some q&a Because they emailed in

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sharing some of their personal experiences of how they fell

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victim to the gender mixing walleye some husbands were

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cheating on their wives and they are in the same house

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because of his gender mixing and probably the woman that's writing

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this email she's writing a watch she's what

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crying eyes eyes.

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I remember I said something when I was going through these different

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accounts.

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It's times like that when I really appreciate knowledge.

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Because they Cherie I tells us how to save our relationships. All of

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these people are emailing in

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the talking about how their relationship broke down. I lost

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the love of my life. My husband,

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I lost him because I innocently opened my house for people to come

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in.

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Can you see our M comes in extremely handy for not being

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alone with the opposite gender Maha Rajan Mamre de la Cannatonic.

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The machine one never does a man seclude himself with a woman

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except that the third one? Well, I don't care if you're a chef. I

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don't care he or she is solid and frozen.

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Or one of the great scholars of our time. Have you think that you

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can control yourself when you're alone with them? Then I think

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you're alien.

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You're not a human species.

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As men, that's our biggest Phitsanulok to be honest here

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guys.

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According to Mirova, who use the limb Puck, no, could barely see

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properly. Right? And he was paralyzed.

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He never had a wife. You know what he said?

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If you make me the Chancellor of the city, I will take the job in

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charge of the wealth. But if you ask me to be in charge, or to look

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after me to show her an ugly slave then I wouldn't do so I don't feel

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comfortable. I fear for myself.

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That makes sense. My brothers and my sisters. This is teaching us

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how to have a way of life that will protect us from a lot of

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heartbreak, a lot of problems, a lot of struggles, a lot of

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difficulties that we experience when living life.

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So going back to the point that I mentioned brothers and sisters

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about aliens shaitan does not want you to study

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if you're not studying

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And then know that the Satan has managed to get the better of you.

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Why do I say this? Look, white men chose to lie and he mentioned

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he died by the way in the year 590, Judas maybe over 800 years

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ago.

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Allah No. And Owen, tell bees to Iblees. Ireland, Nancy subdomain

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again, the first deception of iblees was the rocky away from

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knowledge.

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This knowledge that will give you the insight of how to deal with

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doubts, that will shake your Eman and also some of the sexual

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temptations that will lead you towards that direction.

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Shaitan doesn't want you to study he will look for every way to

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block away from knowledge. And that is because there is no it is

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right. For you. The Oxfam has not been uncovered on the dilemma of

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Russia. If you manage to extinguish the light, you will see

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yourself stumbling in the darkness

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does that make sense? My brothers and my sisters we don't just study

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because I want to become the next share. I want to become the man

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here to do the harvest. A new very massive

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that's not why we study

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your salvation in this dunya is totally dependent on you taking

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time out to study the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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also that which I want to make mention of as to why we may be

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struggling to read the book of Allah azza wa jal has music

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entered into our hearts immunostain Rahmatullah Ali. He

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mentioned the very powerful line of poetry. I remember when I was

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younger, my mom caught me with music on my phone, we used to have

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the Nokia, you know in for it, you connect to the guy's phone, and

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then he transfers the music files.

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Because remember, it's

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best to hold the phone together for like 10 minutes to move one

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file.

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So I will give the phone to a classmate and throughout the hours

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in school, he will transfer it. And then one day my mom caught me.

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She said to me, I'm Hemet. I know you want to memorize the Quran,

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you will not be able to do so if you are listening to music. We

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always think our parents are backwards.

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They don't have a clue of what the reality on the ground is.

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Yet later on I started studying I came across his line of poetry

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when he said Chable Kitabi worship while hanging Alina fatale beyond

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delay ch Sirmione

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the love of music

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and the love of the Quran are two things that just can't come

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together on top

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does that make sense? Because

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I'll tell you guys about a friend that I had in in Medina

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should I mentioned it later on?

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I'll mention it all

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right, I

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know I mentioned it later on

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my show later here because this you're probably thinking to

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yourself * addicted to Netflix.

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This is what may be going to prevent

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them from entering into my heart is that it? This is what rushes to

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people's minds. The moment we speak about sins that will prevent

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knowledge entering into your house

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Have you guys heard of Have

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you seen

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this title half it? Does anybody know what half it may not have the

00:33:53 --> 00:33:54

user today have is

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back in the day if someone has the title habit how many have you

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doesn't need to memorize in order to have this title of habit

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100 1000s 100,000 Hadith

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even the hedgehog mentioned about this individual

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fantasy volleyball match for that the Hatton for it

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he forgot the majority of though he memorized and even the Quran

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you know the reason was well Creole in no Canada, Africa or in

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in America Canada seven.

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Milwaukee it fineness because he always used to rip into people. He

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always used to rip into people. And because of that he forgot the

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majority of what he memorize. And also the Quran.

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100,000 Hadith brothers and sisters.

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When I came across this statement, a lot of things began to make

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sense to me. I will see this brother in Yemen Wallahi

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Opening the Quran will sit down for 10 minutes

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it was close it go off for 20 minutes and come back open the

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Quran sit there five minutes and leave again

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for the state in Yemen in the match for years and he still

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didn't memorize the Quran and likewise he struggled even

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understanding the Arabic language

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and he's just like everyone else who's gone there to study you know

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what his brother was known for? I'll just put Syria

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he was sent around

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the ship is like that the church is like this T shirts like that

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the shirts like this non stop

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makes a lot of sense now brothers and sisters right? So a lot of

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sense.

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Whatever sin it might be, whether it is *, addiction,

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adults content,

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you struggling to stay away from your girlfriend, whoever it might

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be or whatever it might be.

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sins have a detrimental effect and being able to acquire this know

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that will

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be your salvation in this dunya before the hereafter

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How long do I have

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to

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lie? I've got another lecture in the OSI

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just check for me how long will it take to get there?

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Or someone else maybe he's using his phone just check the pipe I

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follow. I would love to spend more time with you bros. Like I said, I

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feel like I'm Indonesia.

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I feel like you're in a Muslim country seeing all of these

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pipelines.

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Families Together.

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The second consequence of serious health man or risk

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being deprived of provision

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money.

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Did you know my brothers and my sisters

00:37:02 --> 00:37:08

that the sins that we carry out has a direct correlation with our

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

financial status.

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What's my evidence for it when the messiness allottee was some set in

00:37:15 --> 00:37:20

Judah now you around Morris will be healthy at any one is deprived

00:37:20 --> 00:37:23

of the provision because of the sin that he carries out.

00:37:26 --> 00:37:30

You know, the out office they have a save you know, the thing is, I

00:37:30 --> 00:37:33

don't know that you saw Have you ever go on holiday you saw Have

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

you ever gone?

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No one who has haram relationships, he's going to

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

become bankrupt.

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The one was haram relationships is going to become bankrupt.

00:37:48 --> 00:37:52

There are so many different weak narrations as well, that how Zina

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has a direct impact on

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

your financial situation.

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You know, brothers and sisters, I receive a lot of messages of

00:38:01 --> 00:38:05

brothers struggling with * on Instagram, saying I

00:38:05 --> 00:38:08

have this issue I have that issue. I'm become addicted while atheria.

00:38:09 --> 00:38:13

And I can just say just about every single message that I

00:38:13 --> 00:38:18

receive of someone who's struggling with *. He

00:38:18 --> 00:38:21

always writes in that message. I'm struggling financially as well.

00:38:26 --> 00:38:27

Just about every message

00:38:30 --> 00:38:31

you provinces with me.

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There was a brother that one time called me

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LIVE in Birmingham.

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He said, no matter what I try, I just don't seem to be able to find

00:38:44 --> 00:38:44

a job.

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So I asked him, because you know what this book changes your life

00:38:49 --> 00:38:54

changes the way you think. I asked him? How are your relationships

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

or your relationship with your father, your mother, I just happen

00:38:57 --> 00:39:01

to ask that. But before that I think I questioned as to whether

00:39:02 --> 00:39:05

his private life is found or not. How's your private life? He goes,

00:39:05 --> 00:39:09

No, I'm not addicted. I don't do any of the stuff that how's your

00:39:09 --> 00:39:10

relationship with your parents?

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This is now

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the answer that I was looking for in order to help him

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

he says I have a very very bad relationship with my parents. I

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said why?

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He said I started practicing and I came to know about raising your

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hands in the Salah.

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And this is very very important I'm about to say. We know that

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raising your hands in the Salah is sunnah Hadith, Abdullah of normal

00:39:41 --> 00:39:44

canovee Somebody was telling me are very they had an incubator

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

that Xanadu with a Kimberley record with a lot of harassment

00:39:46 --> 00:39:47

requests in Varanasi.

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However, many families they don't know that this is a tsunami.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

So he's learned something he starts rubbing in his dad's face

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All right. He says rubbing in it doesn't look is how I pray.

00:40:05 --> 00:40:09

What is that taught him not to raise his hands from a young age?

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Why don't you go and Dad, look, I came across this have a nice

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relationship with him a nice discussion.

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And because of that they're getting into arguments, something

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as small as that.

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They're getting into arguments. I said to him, you're 110% Wrong.

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He started disrespecting your father and your mother. Because of

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a sunnah that you learned, which you didn't approach in the correct

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way when discussing with your parents. What like some parents,

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they think the moment you start raising your hands in the Salah,

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this is the first step to joining ISIS. Do you know that? Some

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parents think that

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and because of that, they may react a certain way. And you as a

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young man should deal with it in a more smarter way. You're here.

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He's arguing with his mother. He's arguing with his father. I'm like

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why?

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The biggest right after the right of Allah is what? How you are with

00:41:10 --> 00:41:11

your parents.

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This is a major huge sinner you're falling into are told to get

00:41:17 --> 00:41:20

tequila go and kiss them on the forehead and say sorry.

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You think a father or a mother will reject a hadith and cite

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Buhari.

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He could have easily taken the Hadith book and said that look, I

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came across this hadith. Maybe the father was or Subhan Allah I

00:41:37 --> 00:41:40

didn't know. But he's rubbing in his face.

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Well, I called me back two weeks later, and he says, All the doors

00:41:45 --> 00:41:49

open up for me. I'm doing this now I'm doing that. And whatever have

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

you.

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I'm doing amazing financially.

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The sins that we carry out brothers and sisters has a direct

00:41:58 --> 00:42:02

impact on our financial situation.

00:42:03 --> 00:42:08

In the Rajala Johan risk, the hottie at Indiana, someone may say

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

to me, I don't know probably someone's gonna ask as I'm walking

00:42:10 --> 00:42:14

out. Look at all of these kuffaar Look at all of these drug dealers.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:16

They have the latest cars

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and they have all the money.

00:42:19 --> 00:42:21

They why hasn't the sins affected them?

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Is money the only type of provision that Allah azza wa jal

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grant see.

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When you interview a lot of these people of money is

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something that you will find common within a lot of them is how

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they are so empty in their hearts.

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Miserable so many issues in his life. And there's nothing more

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worse than being struck with an empty heart.

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As Monica Medina mentioned, I don't even have to obey Him.

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Because

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you haven't been struck with a punishment more greater than

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having what a hardened heart.

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I always mentioned this and you've probably heard it before. Do you

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guys know Logan? Paul?

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You guys know ksi?

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Guys, no, Justin Bieber.

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Have you guys heard of The Beatles?

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Or the Beatles? You guys are saying yes.

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The elders know what the youngest don't the millennials. You guys

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are outdated.

00:43:34 --> 00:43:38

Ashamed middle column, there's a brother Oh, compiled figures. No

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smell to Jana. He compiled small little clips. Of all of these very

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well known famous individuals

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who are saying exactly the same thing.

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We thought the money would give us the happiness that we were looking

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for.

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However, we on antidepressants, I have this issue of that issue at

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Institute to it as well.

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Let me also read this out. I wasn't planning to talk about it,

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but I mentioned it

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I remember sending it to a brother.

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Have you guys heard of Jim Carrey?

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Who's Jim Carrey?

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He's an American Canadian comedian such as

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Liberty said, I think everybody should get rich and famous and do

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everything they ever dreamed of. So they can see that it's not only

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on sa

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condo my brother and my sister. It's not all about money.

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It's not all about fame, which we are chasing

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

The Money cannot fill the void Wallahi you can be a drug dealer.

00:45:05 --> 00:45:08

You have all of the money, and he may well be the Christ Himself.

00:45:08 --> 00:45:09

See?

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I've had rapid say that I have rapid messaging me on Instagram,

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crying the eyes eyes, please help me.

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And the guy has like hundreds and 1000s or even millions of

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followers and they are Muslims

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right

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so to answer a question, there is nothing more greater of punishment

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than being struck with an empty heart.

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He may be given the money, but then that is something that money

00:45:42 --> 00:45:43

combined.

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When you Venerable shahidul Hiva

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let the one who is present conveyed to the one who's absent

00:45:51 --> 00:45:55

who needs to hear this. All of them brothers and sisters, I

00:45:55 --> 00:45:58

remember the Beatles were saying, Well, we thought he was it.

00:45:59 --> 00:46:02

Same money, but then we realize is not the answer.

00:46:04 --> 00:46:08

You have Britney Spears was crying in an interview. The interviewer

00:46:08 --> 00:46:11

is asking what is it that you want? Because I just want people

00:46:11 --> 00:46:15

to leave me alone. I want the paparazzi to leave me alone. I

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

just want to not be touched.

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These are some of the figures that

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our young women sisters are so crazy about and listening to.

00:46:31 --> 00:46:33

What I want everyone to understand my brothers and my sister

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especially the wealth that we use to disobey Allah azza wa jal

00:46:37 --> 00:46:41

morosi Allah will be showing him in Life Center who Allah Sahaba

00:46:41 --> 00:46:46

never do us something to disobey Allah azza wa jal with except

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

Allah azza wa jal destroyed us.

00:46:49 --> 00:46:51

Have you wondered? Sometimes you know, we dropped the phone

00:46:52 --> 00:46:54

or we get into a car crash.

00:46:55 --> 00:46:58

The way we are as human beings, we are ready to point the finger at

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

everyone except ourselves.

00:47:02 --> 00:47:05

It was probably the guy who was in IE his fault why I dropped my

00:47:05 --> 00:47:05

phone here.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:09

Agreed. So

00:47:10 --> 00:47:14

have you guys heard them? How many have you seen in the students are

00:47:14 --> 00:47:18

awarded on the Allah Allah Allah, this righteous man who used to

00:47:18 --> 00:47:23

narrate from the lifetime of our era, you know, after him, he was

00:47:23 --> 00:47:27

thrown into prison. You know why? Because he became bankruptcy.

00:47:29 --> 00:47:34

How did he become bankrupt? He bought oil, you know, as

00:47:37 --> 00:47:41

a businessman, you will normally buy things on credit, sell it, and

00:47:41 --> 00:47:45

then pay the creditor bacsa. That's how many businessmen

00:47:45 --> 00:47:50

operate. So he bought it. And then all of a sudden he found a rat

00:47:50 --> 00:47:53

stuck inside of it. He bought it for a lot of money.

00:47:54 --> 00:47:55

So you have to pull everything out.

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

Who do you think you blame?

00:48:01 --> 00:48:02

The guy who sold in it

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

he could have easily blamed him right?

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

And that's how we are as human beings we're ready to point the

00:48:08 --> 00:48:11

finger at everyone except ourselves.

00:48:13 --> 00:48:18

He was self critical. When things start going wrong in your life,

00:48:18 --> 00:48:22

brother and sisters, the first blade you should be looking at is

00:48:22 --> 00:48:22

yourself.

00:48:24 --> 00:48:25

Nobody else

00:48:26 --> 00:48:28

and I'm not saying that you just need to walk get punched and then

00:48:28 --> 00:48:29

you turn the cheek

00:48:30 --> 00:48:34

he will be held to account for but it could have happened because of

00:48:34 --> 00:48:40

how you conduct it between yourself and Allah subhanaw taala

00:48:41 --> 00:48:44

So Mohammed ceiling what happened to him? You know what he said?

00:48:46 --> 00:48:53

I hear Abla Salah Deena Salah factory to the bottom. I degraded

00:48:53 --> 00:48:58

an individual that I ran into over 30 years ago because of him being

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

bankrupt, sometimes walk past an individual right? And look at this

00:49:01 --> 00:49:01

guy.

00:49:04 --> 00:49:08

He goes I degraded someone over 30 years ago. And because of that,

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

I'm going through this now.

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

Because of that, I'm going through this now.

00:49:14 --> 00:49:18

Allahu Akbar being self critical.

00:49:19 --> 00:49:24

Does that make sense? He held himself to account he took a good

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

look at himself in the mirror.

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And when you do that, you will see things taking a turn for the

00:49:31 --> 00:49:31

better

00:49:33 --> 00:49:37

as he told me to live in LA and in New Jersey mentioned in New Jersey

00:49:37 --> 00:49:40

commented on the Spitzer the story and he said well me through

00:49:40 --> 00:49:45

holacracy examples that these are many well known as an FBI veteran

00:49:45 --> 00:49:49

Juan Manuel are the sovereign individual in RFO. Never I might

00:49:49 --> 00:49:53

afflicted by some sort of distress, anxiety, hardship,

00:49:53 --> 00:49:56

except it is because of a sin that I committed.

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

Maybe I start making excuses for myself.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:04

And then all of a sudden, I begin to see the punishment or it's

00:50:05 --> 00:50:06

foreign or whoever.

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

But when you hold yourself to account, things will take a turn

00:50:11 --> 00:50:12

for the better and better.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

So, last point,

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on the last effect of since

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I really want to mention it. Final thing when I find time

00:50:25 --> 00:50:31

when your heart now brothers and sisters become so black, because

00:50:31 --> 00:50:35

everything that you do, guess what? places a black.on your heart

00:50:36 --> 00:50:38

after a point where your heart becomes so black.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:43

And when your heart has become so black, it begins to project on

00:50:43 --> 00:50:48

your face. So much so that you can tell a sinner from a non sinner,

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

especially if that individual has committed Zina

00:50:52 --> 00:50:57

the type of effect that he has on an individual's face Wallahi

00:50:58 --> 00:51:00

it is indeed extremely evidence.

00:51:02 --> 00:51:05

He won't undo the narration that anastomotic saw a woman outside

00:51:09 --> 00:51:13

and he looked at her more than he should have. And then he walked

00:51:13 --> 00:51:14

into his my friend's house

00:51:16 --> 00:51:22

man looked at him and then dropped his head semoga Nigerian Senator

00:51:22 --> 00:51:25

you know why is it that some people they enter into my house

00:51:26 --> 00:51:27

and the eyes committed Zina?

00:51:30 --> 00:51:34

Subhan Allah hola there's so many answers I want to speak about but

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37

I'll quickly mention this what Abdullah Naga said and also has a

00:51:37 --> 00:51:42

Muslim in Nolan has an idea and in which the good deed it was the

00:51:42 --> 00:51:43

glow of somebody's face.

00:51:45 --> 00:51:48

Agreed. When somebody goes for armor and he comes back and he's

00:51:48 --> 00:51:49

growing he wasn't Vaseline.

00:51:52 --> 00:51:54

See, I was growing the good deeds.

00:51:56 --> 00:51:59

Even when we are in Medina, a brother goes what can comes back

00:51:59 --> 00:52:00

would like see difference,

00:52:02 --> 00:52:04

especially when you wake up in the night

00:52:05 --> 00:52:09

has an apostate Rahmatullah Alayhi by the way, this is a solution to

00:52:09 --> 00:52:10

our sisters.

00:52:11 --> 00:52:12

Whoever we can,

00:52:14 --> 00:52:16

I might say to you that make us harm by need to provide an

00:52:16 --> 00:52:17

alternative right?

00:52:18 --> 00:52:22

It's good to provide alternatives. This is a wonderful alternative.

00:52:23 --> 00:52:26

Has an anniversary of Motorola era said no value return.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:31

Oh, my bad hygiene. I've been Lane maniacs any nursing we don't even

00:52:31 --> 00:52:35

know ha why is it that those who stand up in the night they have

00:52:35 --> 00:52:38

the nicest faces in the day.

00:52:39 --> 00:52:43

He was asked that is the random color of money fell by some Allah

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

has

00:52:45 --> 00:52:48

faced secluding themselves with Allah azza wa jal while the people

00:52:48 --> 00:52:53

were sleeping. So Allah I covered them with his nor so my sister you

00:52:53 --> 00:52:58

are not on your face, country or night person Vaseline on inshallah

00:52:58 --> 00:52:58

You look great.

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

Likewise, my brother's

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

right on the LTM

00:53:07 --> 00:53:10

for this I'm going to have to show off honestly I want to spend more

00:53:10 --> 00:53:13

time he will lie. Like I said I'm really happy to be here

00:53:15 --> 00:53:19

for allowing me to come to this wonderfully built masjid and his

00:53:19 --> 00:53:23

lovely area normally I tell people make hit your to Birmingham more

00:53:23 --> 00:53:23

or less

00:53:24 --> 00:53:27

I hear the other three times a day I thought as

00:53:28 --> 00:53:33

my brother good friend Yeah, because the white retracts he

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

walks into the area and all of the Asians they look at it

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

because everyone there is even Pakistani or Indian

00:53:40 --> 00:53:43

that's how much mashallah Islam is there. Right

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

as Panama here this is now something we have to add to the

00:53:47 --> 00:53:48

list

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

of places that people could migrate to

00:53:52 --> 00:53:56

just documented here and why Salah welcome honestly, it was an

00:53:56 --> 00:53:59

absolute pleasure. And I'll see you guys when I see you

00:54:01 --> 00:54:07

for those who want to attend the lecture. The postcode is on my on

00:54:07 --> 00:54:10

the postcard on my social media. So in some ways it

00:54:12 --> 00:54:17

tagless I'll be doing another lecture on the trials and

00:54:17 --> 00:54:19

something I forgot that

00:54:20 --> 00:54:22

there's too many programs as we can.

00:54:24 --> 00:54:27

The enemies of Excel or something along the lines of that shallow

00:54:27 --> 00:54:32

Tada. I'll see you guys over there. Otherwise somebody come to

00:54:32 --> 00:54:34

LA he or workout Subhanak

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