Abu Taymiyyah – Part1 The ill Effects Of Consuming Haram Dubai w Ismael Bullock

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The speakers discuss various personal and professional updates, including the ill effects of insha's title and the negative consequences of it, including difficulty in falling into it and potential health issues. They also touch on the importance of not giving up one's source of income and not giving up love or something like that. The speakers provide advice on handling situations, including leaving clothing and not giving up one's source of income. They emphasize the importance of patient and hardworking, and mention a former employee who found a job with a better salary. The speakers also emphasize the importance of trusting Islam and working on one's own health.

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			And welcome again to another episode of your
		
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			weekly Islamic discussion show, Live by Islam.
		
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			And, we always discuss, alhamdulillah,
		
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			very important topics.
		
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			And today, we want to discuss
		
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			the ill effects
		
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			of the forbidden.
		
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			What are the bad effects that can happen
		
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			to us by being involved in things that
		
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			are haram, things that are forbidden? And so
		
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			many of us obviously fall into forbidden things.
		
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			So we also wanna discuss as well, insha'Allah,
		
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			as well as the ill effects. We wanna
		
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			discuss, insha'Allah, ways to,
		
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			stay away from falling into haram
		
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			and hopefully provide some solutions and remedies,
		
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			for those people. Because many of us fall
		
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			into haram, we kind of give up and
		
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			think I'm bad, I'm a sinner, I'll never
		
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			be a good Muslim, and just kind of
		
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			give up and go back to our bad
		
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			ways. So inshallah to do that with me
		
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			So this is a topic you actually felt
		
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			quite strongly about Yeah. The the ill effects
		
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			of haramun. And you're gonna obviously through throughout
		
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			this discussion, you're gonna mention some examples that
		
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			you've personally experienced of people who,
		
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			you know, left the the, the the doing
		
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			the haram things and it turned out better
		
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			for them.
		
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			First and foremost, I
		
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			just want to
		
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			touch
		
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			on some of the textual evidence that speak
		
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			about consuming
		
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			Haram, being involved in it. Because SubhanAllah, as
		
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			time goes on, the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,
		
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			he told us
		
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			There doesn't come a time except that a
		
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			time that comes after is more worse. And
		
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			especially the way the world is moving and
		
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			how Fawahishan
		
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			and Fisk is becoming more apparent
		
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			in this world.
		
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			It is more easier for a person to
		
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			fall in these kind of things. And inshaAllah
		
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			ta'ala, we just want to stand over the
		
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			issue
		
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			of Alikhtisaab,
		
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			where a person, he earns wealth in maybe
		
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			a unlawful way. Messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			he told us in another hadith.
		
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			There will come a time that a person,
		
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			he doesn't necessarily have any care
		
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			to where he earns his money from, whether
		
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			it's from halal or whether it is from,
		
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			haram.
		
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			So as you can see, that time, I'm
		
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			sure we,
		
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			can kind of relate to that. We are
		
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			in that kind of time where, you know,
		
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			to fall into haram, to earn haram money,
		
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			which is so easy to do, is just
		
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			becoming so widespread.
		
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			And there's so many ill effects in this
		
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			dunya. Likewise, in the,
		
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			Akhirah.
		
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			I know, subhanAllah,
		
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			there's so many people who are going through
		
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			a lot of issues in their lives.
		
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			Okay? They're going through difficulties,
		
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			financial problems,
		
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			and some of them have money, but because
		
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			they have other issues maybe with their kids,
		
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			and they put their hands up to Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, but they feel like that
		
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			there is no,
		
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			health assistance coming from Allah Subhanahu
		
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			and it doesn't require rocket science to understand
		
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			as to where the problem is and what
		
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			the solution is.
		
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			The the famous hadith that you could also
		
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			find in our Bayin in Nuwih,
		
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			where the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam gave us
		
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			an example
		
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			about a traveler.
		
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			A man who's traveling
		
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			and and we know when a person is
		
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			traveling his
		
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			clothes are going to get
		
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			very, maybe, dusty. If you see the traces
		
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			of,
		
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			of going through a journey on him.
		
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			This individual,
		
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			he puts his hands up to Allah
		
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			He says, You Rabb, You Rabb. Then look
		
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			what the messenger salallahu alayhi says,
		
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			His food is haram. His clothes is haram.
		
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			The haram he's been consuming, and then the
		
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			messenger says,
		
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			How does this person expect that he's going
		
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			to be responded back to when he's making
		
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			du'a to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?
		
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			When he's been consuming haram?
		
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			His whole life was involved in haram.
		
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			It's interesting because even at that the description
		
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			of that man, he's actually a traveler. We
		
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			know that one of the best times for
		
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			your dua to to be accepted by Allah
		
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			is the dua of the traveler.
		
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			So even there Yeah.
		
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			It wouldn't be answered because of the fact
		
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			that you mentioned, you know, his income, his
		
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			food, everything, his clothing is haram. And subhanAllah,
		
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			it's not just necessarily the,
		
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			fact that he's a traveler, which is a
		
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			means of getting your dua accepted. If you
		
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			look closely the hadith, he had three means.
		
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			The as you mentioned,
		
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			he was a traveler, the hadith of the
		
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			messenger of Allah a'aihi wa sallam.
		
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			The messenger of Allah a'aihi wa sallam said,
		
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			3 types of supplications.
		
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			It will always be responded back to and
		
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			there's no doubt in it. And one of
		
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			them was,
		
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			the supplication of the one who's traveling.
		
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			What also he done was, he put his
		
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			hands up to Allah
		
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			We know through another narration the messenger Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam he said,
		
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			Allah is shy,
		
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			he's generous from when the servant puts his
		
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			hands up to Allah
		
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			that he sends him back empty handed.
		
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			So he was a traveler, he put his
		
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			hands up which is another means. And the
		
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			third one was, he said You Rabb, You
		
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			Rabb. If you look at the end of
		
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			Surat Al Imran,
		
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			where it says Rabbana Aatina, Rabbana Inna.
		
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			In the end what does it say?
		
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			They use
		
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			and then in the last page you find
		
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			Allah
		
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			responded,
		
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			back to them. So he had 3 means.
		
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			But because of the Haram that he was
		
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			consuming,
		
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			all of that was, you know, buried and
		
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			it wasn't
		
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			a means for his dua to get accepted,
		
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			even though SubhanAllah,
		
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			he was in dire need.
		
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			And, and, SubhanAllah, we see this today with,
		
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			you know, family members, parents whose kids
		
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			have driven them crazy, involved in drugs,
		
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			they're involved in all sorts of haram.
		
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			And the parent keeps making du'a, but the
		
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			response doesn't seem coming. And we have this
		
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			in in Britain. I don't know how common
		
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			it is here in, in Dubai and other
		
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			places as well.
		
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			Where it's very easy to cheat the government.
		
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			Lying to the government to claim that you're
		
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			single, and because of this, you get the
		
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			dollars. The Americans say all benefits.
		
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			So they claim they tell the government we're
		
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			single. We've got x amount of kids.
		
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			And they make the husband leave the home
		
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			just so they could get
		
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			more of an income.
		
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			And you're you're actually lying. You're not single.
		
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			You've got a husband, and
		
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			and it's something very common, and it doesn't
		
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			require rocket science to actually understand where the
		
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			problem
		
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			lies. And then not just in the dunya,
		
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			but then the akhir, the messenger of Salahi
		
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			Abu Sam said,
		
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			A piece of flesh that has been produced
		
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			through haram,
		
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			will not enter into Al Jannah.
		
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			The now, the hellfire has more of a
		
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			right
		
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			for this piece of flesh that was, you
		
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			know, produced through Al Haram. These are, insha'Allah,
		
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			you know, the in effects and
		
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			the effects that it has on a person
		
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			in this dunya and then likewise in the
		
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			akhirah. Not only does he suffer here, you
		
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			know, things don't get answered for him. And
		
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			then in the akhira, unfortunately, he enters into
		
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			that blazing
		
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			fire.
		
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			Now you mentioned you had some examples and
		
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			the the ayah that came to came to
		
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			mind was Umayyatakillahiyachaalhu
		
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			makhraraayim.
		
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			Whoever fears Allah, that he will make a
		
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			way out from them and will provide them,
		
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			you know, you know, abundantly or in a
		
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			way that they cannot even comprehend.
		
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			So with that verse in mind, I'm assuming
		
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			you're gonna be able to give us, from
		
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			what you mentioned to me earlier, some examples
		
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			of people who did. They had this taqwa
		
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			of Allah, they had this fear of Allah,
		
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			and there was this makhraja, this way out.
		
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			Because many a time people will say, you
		
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			know, look, if I give up this haram
		
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			thing,
		
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			you know,
		
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			it's it's my income or
		
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			she's my
		
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			love or it's my whatever it may be.
		
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			You don't have any other choice. Yeah. I
		
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			won't it it things just won't work out,
		
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			you know. I will lose this. I will
		
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			lose that. And then so many times we
		
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			actually find out that people did it for
		
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			the for the spirit of Allah
		
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			knowing it's wrong
		
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			that, you know, actually sometimes we hear stories
		
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			of
		
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			not only has it become better, it's become
		
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			better in so many ways, much more than
		
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			they would have imagined at the time when
		
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			you said to them, leave this thing alone.
		
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			Yeah. There's a hadith I'm going to mention,
		
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			inshallah. I was told many years ago that
		
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			I've always placed in between my,
		
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			eyes. But before I do that, these whispers
		
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			come from who? It's the Shaytan who's always
		
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			scaring the human beings,
		
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			with poverty
		
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			that, you know, that there's no other option.
		
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			They're going to suffer financially. They're going to
		
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			become bankrupt and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is
		
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			just going to abandon them.
		
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			I'm gonna mention something so powerful by the
		
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			great Imam Hassan al Basri the Tabi'i.
		
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			SubhanAllah, this beautiful statement that he mentioned where
		
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			he said
		
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			I read in 90 places that Allah
		
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			has decreed your provision.
		
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			And I read in one place that the
		
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			shaytan,
		
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			he scares the people with poverty. And he
		
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			was referring to the statement of Allah
		
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			The shaitaan, he scares you with poverty,
		
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			and he commands you to do fasha, unlawful
		
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			acts. And then he says,
		
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			We ended up leaving the statement
		
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			of the truthful one, Allah
		
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			all these 90 places.
		
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			And we ended up believing the statement of
		
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			the lion in this one place.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			I think that's really powerful and it should
		
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			be written with golden ink. Okay? And it
		
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			should really kind of make a person enthusiastic,
		
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			encouraged
		
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			about the situation that he's in.
		
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			Okay. Insha'Allah, I'm going to share the hadith
		
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			and then bring the practical examples.
		
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			This is hadith, subhanAllah, that is mentioned in,
		
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			that was narrated by Imam Ahmed
		
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			that,
		
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			now anytime something happens or, you know, I'm
		
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			I'm in a difficult predicament of what to
		
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			do,
		
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			It doesn't require me a lot of time
		
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			to actually make the decision simply because of
		
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			this hadith. And also, suddenly, it takes you
		
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			to see something before you actually okay. I
		
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			can do this straight away now without any
		
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			thought. The messenger salalahu alayhi wa sallam said,
		
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			You don't leave something out of taghwa.
		
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			No fear of Allahu Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Taghwa
		
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			is a more comprehensive.
		
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			And maybe later on we could cover,
		
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			you know, out of Taghwa. We don't live
		
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			something out of Taghwa except Allah Subhan will
		
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			always replace it with Allah, which is better.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			I knew this brother,
		
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			my neighbor, a very good friend of mine.
		
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			He's done Hajj with me a couple of
		
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			times through our
		
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			organization.
		
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			This brother, he was an accountant.
		
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			For years he's been doing, he's been in
		
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			this accounting industry.
		
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			And he came to know that what he
		
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			was doing was a form of Riba. Because
		
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			we know writing down Riba
		
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			is nothing different from actually giving or taking
		
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			as the messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam hadith
		
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			jabri said.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala curse the one who
		
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			gives you, the one who takes you,
		
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			the one who is a witness to it,
		
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			and the one who writes it down. Then
		
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			the messenger said, wamfi isawat. They are all
		
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			the same.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And he knew this. And we know the
		
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			seriousness of what
		
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			Riva,
		
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			Ibraheem
		
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			says that it is the worst sin,
		
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			the biggest sin that a person can fall
		
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			into
		
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			below kufr, you know, disbelief.
		
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			Because of the statement of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala where he says
		
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			And if you don't leave of Riba, then
		
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			you have proclaimed war with Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			I'm sure nobody's got an army ready to
		
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			stand in front of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			and, you know, start that war
		
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			with Allah
		
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			Okay? It's a very serious thing. So he
		
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			knew that. He came and saw my adviser
		
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			and I told him this hadith. I told
		
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			him this hadith. I remember even his family
		
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			members, they were kinda looking down on him.
		
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			What is this guy doing at home? He's
		
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			got family. Why is he not looking after
		
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			them? And so on and so forth. And
		
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			you have to understand, when you do leave
		
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			someone for the sake of like, you're going
		
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			to be a child. You're gonna go through
		
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			a period where it's going to be quite
		
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			difficult.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala did say,
		
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			Does
		
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			one say think that he's going to say,
		
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			I believe, and then he won't be trialed?
		
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			You will be trialed.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And once you're patient and you remain firm,
		
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			then that's when the perks and,
		
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			you know, the lovely things
		
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			come,
		
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			your way. So I told him this hadith,
		
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			and I said to him, I don't have
		
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			a shadow of a doubt. Why? Because
		
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			This is a promise of Allah, no one
		
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			will fail in His promise.
		
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			Okay? So time went on, went through a
		
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			difficulty.
		
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			Allah
		
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			blessed him with a beautiful job.
		
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			You know, most people that I know that
		
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			teach English in Saudi Arabia
		
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			are either teaches in Riyadh It's quite far
		
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			from the Haramain, Makkan, and Madinah. Some of
		
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			them are in Jidda. Some, you know, a
		
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			few in number. Very fortunate to be in
		
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			Madinah.
		
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			But I personally from the hundreds of weebas
		
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			that I know teaching English in,
		
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			in Saudi Arabia.
		
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			Barely any of them are in Mecca.
		
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			Okay? So
		
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			Allah blessed him
		
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			and his wife, not only him. Him and
		
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			his wife, both, they were getting 21,000
		
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			pounds.
		
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			And in Saudi Arabia, we don't have something
		
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			called tax.
		
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			Okay? Okay. They had a house.
		
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			Every day they can go to the haram.
		
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			They had they were given a car. And
		
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			I think for the first 6 months, they
		
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			were just getting paid doing absolutely nothing.
		
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			And I personally believe with full conviction
		
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			that this happened
		
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			simply because
		
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			of the fact that
		
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			the magnitude of what they left behind.
		
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			You know, and I can sit here maybe
		
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			for another 10 episodes tell you of how
		
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			many
		
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			stories, experiences I've had with brothers who I
		
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			personally gave this hadith to. And they left
		
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			the haram they were doing, and Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala gave them far greater. And it's
		
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			not just necessarily
		
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			about the income that you're receiving, that you
		
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			leave off when you realize it's something haram.
		
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			But something more general, any type of haram,
		
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			whether you're a rapper,
		
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			a rapper is listening, someone's involved in
		
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			all types of other haram in the music
		
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			industry.
		
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			In, you know, the countless things that a
		
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			person might be involved in that is haram,
		
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			Inam. InshaAllah, what we'll do now is we'll,
		
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			brother Wataymi, before we enter the break, you
		
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			mentioned an example about your friend who was
		
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			the accountant. He was involved in interest and
		
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			how he gave it up. And in the
		
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			beginning, he got a lot of slack from
		
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			his family, a lot of pressure. You know,
		
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			what are you doing? You got a family
		
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			to support, etcetera. But you mentioned how he
		
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			got something so much better in salary, but
		
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			he was even like before he settled in,
		
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			he was getting paid months to before he
		
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			even started actually commencing the work. You said
		
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			to me, we've got about 10 minutes left.
		
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			So in this 10 minutes, maybe you can
		
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			mention you said you had a couple of
		
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			other stories
		
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			The Before I do this, pal, I just
		
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			remembered that I forgot to mention, this brother
		
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			at that time, he was earning something called
		
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			minimum wage.
		
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			Minimum wage which is like the Lowest. Lowest
		
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			threshold than Lowest legal. And it's so low
		
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			that they just like and this is an
		
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			accountant. He's been studying for 3 years, you
		
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			know, and that's how much he was getting.
		
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			But look how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala just
		
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			changed his fortunes
		
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			in a space of a few months. And
		
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			I personally have full conviction, it was because
		
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			he acted upon the hadith.
		
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			The hadith to me, oh Allah,
		
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			it really brings wonders,
		
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			SubhanAllah, through the through Allah Azza wa Jal.
		
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			Aynam.
		
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			Another example I'm going to mention Insha'Allah Ta'ala,
		
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			but before I do this, just a very
		
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			quick advice.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			What people need to know is
		
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			Pleasing all the people is an objection you
		
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			can is an objective you can never meet.
		
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			You please daddy, mom's gonna get upset. Okay.
		
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			You convinced Fulana,
		
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			this person is going to get upset.
		
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			So Imam Malik Rahim Allah mentions some very
		
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			powerful. He said
		
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			rectify that which is between you and Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And Allah as a word
		
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			rectify that which is between you and the
		
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			people. You'll get a lot of slack for
		
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			it. If you just stay firm and you
		
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			keep patient and you ask Allah Azzaw to
		
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			help you through it because it's not easy.
		
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			If you have your close
		
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			relatives,
		
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			loved ones
		
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			attacking you, bullying you, you know,
		
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			subhanAllah, just giving you a hard time, you
		
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			can get to a person, especially the close
		
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			one. But, you know, be patient, InshaAllah Ta'ala.
		
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			And, Biyun Nihlihi Ta'ala, you know,
		
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			wonderful things will happen through that, Biyun Nihlihi
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			Okay. Another one. Insha'Allah.
		
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			This is another neighbor of mine.
		
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			In fact, he used to come to my
		
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			lesson and he sought my advice in regards
		
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			to this issue. I know this brother, he
		
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			was working
		
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			for Carf and Wahls. It's a very well
		
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			known
		
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			phone company. I'm sure you, yeah, come across
		
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			it. Right?
		
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			In Britain, it's a phone company. And he
		
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			was working in the call center. Okay?
		
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			And all of a sudden, they decided to
		
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			introduce
		
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			selling insurance.
		
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			He, at the time, when, you know, they
		
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			put this forward to him, he said to
		
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			them straight away, guys, okay, with all due
		
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			respect, you know, I've been working for you
		
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			for quite some time.
		
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			The issue of selling insurance, it,
		
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			contradicts or goes against my religion and I
		
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			can't do that. So they were like, okay,
		
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			well, don't worry. We'll remove you to another
		
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			department
		
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			and you wouldn't have to do this.
		
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			By that time he came to me and
		
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			and he saw my advice in regards to
		
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			the issue. Okay?
		
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			And, and I told him exact same hadith.
		
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			And I said to him,
		
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			Allah is not going to fail in his
		
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			promise. If Allah promised it's going to happen.
		
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			And this is the kind of community we
		
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			should all have in our hearts.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			SubhanAllah,
		
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			the brother
		
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			left his job. Okay?
		
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			After much thought.
		
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			And SubhanAllah, this brother I remember he had
		
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			recently got married. And we know when you
		
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			get married,
		
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			the wife must be taken out to the
		
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			ice cream parlor, she wants the Louis Vuitton
		
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			bags and, you know, you kind of need
		
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			money at the time to look after yourself
		
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			financially. But even, you know, to really
		
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			do that for your, for your wives and
		
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			for your wife. Okay?
		
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			So I used to see this brother, SubhanAllah,
		
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			Allah,
		
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			at Duhr time in the local Masjid. He
		
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			is making one of these very sincere, you
		
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			know, deep
		
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			du'a and you see the brothers going through
		
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			that difficulty
		
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			and,
		
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			you know, people giving him a hard time.
		
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			You could kind of like feel it as
		
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			well.
		
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			And SubhanAllah, I remember this brother,
		
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			he used to travel half an hour every
		
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			single day.
		
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			And even the half an hour might not
		
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			consume a lot of petrol, but it adds
		
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			up at the end of the month.
		
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			Okay? So that was one thing.
		
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			And,
		
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			he was far from his house. He's traveling
		
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			and it's also kind of okay, he's gonna
		
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			end up, you know, having an infection in
		
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			his pocket.
		
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			And, the other thing was as well, he
		
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			was earning something like
		
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			16,000
		
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			a month.
		
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			16,000 no, not a month. Sorry. A year.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			I wish, you know,
		
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			he was earning 16,000 a month. 16,000 a
		
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			year, which to be honest to me is
		
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			good, Alhamdulillah,
		
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			but
		
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			it's not what,
		
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			you know, you could potentially earn.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			The brother leaves the job and then, SubhanAllah,
		
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			all of a sudden,
		
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			job offers are coming left, right, and center.
		
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			He's going to this interview. Someone not working
		
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			out and just all of a sudden, you
		
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			could see from nothing happening, all of a
		
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			sudden, bang.
		
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			Guess what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala blesses him
		
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			with a job where he wasn't involved in
		
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			any haram.
		
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			Not only did he get an increase in
		
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			wage, I think he was getting something like
		
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			22, 23,000 if I'm not mistaken.
		
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			He's not traveling half an hour every day
		
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			anymore. It's maybe a 10 minute drive.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And,
		
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			Yaniyah, it just was
		
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			something more convenient for me from many different
		
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			angles. I remember the prophet came up to
		
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			me, you know, really gave me a very
		
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			nice hug and, you know, was over the
		
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			moon about,
		
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			the situation that he was in.
		
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			And SubhanAllah,
		
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			again it's that hadith.
		
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			Now you're leaving something for the sake of
		
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			Allah and of takwah.
		
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			The fear that you have for Allah
		
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			wanting to
		
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			stop at the boundaries that Allah has set.
		
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			And through that Allah, as well, can see
		
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			that, you know
		
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			Allah
		
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			sees the khair in your heart, He's going
		
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			to give it to you. You see?
		
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			And Allah
		
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			changed his
		
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			fortunes to I mean, and it also goes
		
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			back to the the same ayah we started
		
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			off with. Whoever fears Allah, Allah make a
		
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			way out for him and provide him from
		
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			where he could not even you could say
		
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			could not even imagine where it came from.
		
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			And you could see some of those in
		
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			these stories you mentioned. You that person never
		
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			would have imagined that him leaving this his
		
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			accountant job that he'd be paying be paid
		
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			so much more money Exactly. And be in
		
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			Mecca where he can pray in the kabbal
		
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			every day, which is like a dream come
		
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			true. Yeah. And then you mentioned the brother
		
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			of the Kaifa warehouse. He would never have
		
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			dreamed again that he could have got something
		
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			which was so much more in money. So
		
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			we can see that these
		
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			I remember the first the first brother used
		
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			to message me, tell me how much he
		
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			was loving life, chilling,
		
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			just going over to him and his wife.
		
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			And that's the
		
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			ideal
		
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			situation that every husband and wife dreams about,
		
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			to be able to get a nice job,
		
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			to go to the Haramain,
		
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			to go to Makkah in Madinah,
		
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			just do Umrah,
		
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			that's that's something that every person dreams for,
		
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			you see. And,
		
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			SubhanAllah, it goes back to the ayah that
		
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			you mentioned,
		
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			the hadith of the Messenger
		
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			Rizq
		
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			comes from where he doesn't expect it even
		
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			though you have the shaytan,
		
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			you know, whispering in your ears all the
		
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			time. Okay? And SubhanAllah, living in the places
		
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			like the West, what he has done to
		
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			the people is because it made them so
		
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			detached
		
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			from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			It's made them so detached.
		
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			As soon as okay, you've got an issue
		
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			at work,
		
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			because it has desensitized the people over there,
		
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			automatically we're giving the Fatur to rebbe, but
		
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			no, it's fine. It's a it's a necessity.
		
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			You can involve yourself in haram.
		
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			But but there's so many different steps insha
		
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			Allah which we will maybe cover in
		
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			the following episodes
		
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			that a person can embark on means to
		
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			take where Allah can give an increase in
		
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			provision
		
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			And then the Sharia has come with, you
		
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			know, telling us to take these options when
		
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			we find ourselves in these kind of circumstances.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And we really need to work on, you
		
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			know, reconnecting ourselves to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			and building that thickah
		
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			with Allah
		
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			That trust, authenticity
		
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			that Allah also can make things happen.
		
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			Can really, really make things happen. And
		
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			Allah is best.
		
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			Thank
		
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			you for coming on the show.
		
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			And inshallah for the viewers,
		
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			may Allah reward you all for training tuning
		
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			in again. And inshallah, please tune in same
		
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			time, same place next week. And until then,
		
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			I leave you with the greetings of Islam.