Abu Taymiyyah – Part 4 Traits Of The Awliyaa Amsterdam

Abu Taymiyyah
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The importance of gratitude and the power of words in achieving happiness is discussed in a series of videos and podcasts. The speaker emphasizes the need to leave one's past and be present in a new state, showasing Allah Subhanahu wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa
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And he goes on to say,

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These people my brothers and my sisters,

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they ended up reaching a station.

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And And this station, my brothers and my

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sisters, is a station of a riqa, satisfaction

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when they go through trials and tribulations. And

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this one my brothers and my

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sisters, it's a really really important one if

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you wanna become from the greatest of the

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people.

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You have patience

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when you are stricken

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with trials and tribulations.

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You have a station, a level that is

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higher than that.

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And that is what minzilatul rida.

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Becoming pleased and satisfied with the trials and

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tribulations that you go through.

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There are some people my brothers and my

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sisters that walk on the face of this

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earth,

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when they go through difficulties and problems,

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they actually

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experience enjoyment.

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They are not moved whatsoever.

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They don't become moved.

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He said, alhamdulillah. He's actually, you know, really

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pleased that he's gone through a trial and

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tribulation.

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Why?

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Because the messenger salallahu alayhi was somebody who

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say,

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For Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loves the person

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who's going to trial him.

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And these trials and tribulations, my brothers and

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my sisters, makes that person strong. It really

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does.

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It makes his body bulletproof.

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Bulletproof, I think maybe that's the best way

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to put it,

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In the sense where

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it is bulletproof from the different problems that

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he keeps getting hit by.

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So next time he goes through it, it's

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like, I've already been through it so many

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times.

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Really, it doesn't make a difference.

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Even Sheikh Ullisame Taimur hamalahu ta'ala, he mentioned

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something very powerful. He said,

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In this dunya there is a jannah, there's

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a paradise.

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Whoever doesn't enter into this paradise, he won't

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enter into the paradise of the akhirah.

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Some of the scholars they mentioned that this

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jannah is jannah tur rida.

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Having the satisfaction when you go through difficulties.

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Even one time my brothers and my sisters,

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he mentioned

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about Sheikh Usanim Taymiyyah rhamalala wa ta'ala. One

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time what

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he said to him was because you have

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to understand guys, Ibrahim was tortured.

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He was tortured.

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He died in prison.

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And then when they took everything away from

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him like, you know, the scrolls and even

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his pen,

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he died.

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That's how much they wanted to annihilate him

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because of the ilm. He didn't see people,

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you know,

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in many, many thousands and thousands attending his

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classes.

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The same way today,

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you have like millions of people benefiting from

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his works, even the non muslims are benefiting

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from his works.

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He died in prison.

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He said,

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What can my

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enemies do to me? My Jannah is in

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my heart.

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What he meant by this is his iman

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that was in his heart, and also the

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kitab and the sunnah that he memorized. Wherever

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I go, it's always with me.

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If I'm put in prison,

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it's I'm by myself. It's me and my

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Lord.

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In Mutaymah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala before mentioned? One

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of the ways to attain. The love of

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is what?

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Being in seclusion.

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Last third of the night, it's you and

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Sometimes guys, my brothers and my sisters, people

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who wish to get away from everybody

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because there's people around them all the time.

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Just once moments with his rod.

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Sheikh Ullissam Mateymu hamalawta a'ala, If I get

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put in prison by myself, Ubu Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala,

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I can study, I can revise, I can

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do zikr of Allah aza wa jal. I

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have that free time, that free time that

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many people today don't have

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because of the kids, the family, the work.

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He's always around people. He struggles to find

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time for himself. Just Ibadah going to the

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corner, breaking down in front of Allah azaawajal.

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And that was also one of the things

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that we mentioned. Right? Breaking down in front

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of Allah aza wa jal in humility by

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yourself.

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He said,

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Me being killed is a shahadah or become

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Insha'Allah Ta'ala.

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And if I get kicked out of my

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city,

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I go on a tour.

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Tourist,

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I begin to see different places. I go

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for

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travel.

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This is He's saying this, my brothers and

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my sisters, after all the trouble that he

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went through,

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looking at the bright side of things,

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the benefits that could come out of the

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difficulties that he's going through.

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You know, Ibn Al Uqaym then

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says,

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I didn't see or I never met anybody

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who lived a better life than Ibn Utaim

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even though things were so difficult for him.

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And he didn't have luxury at all.

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And he used to be thrown into prison.

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He used to be threatened.

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He used to be kicked out of his

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own city.

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I never saw anybody who was living a

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better life

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and who had more insirah as sadr.

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How do you guys say insirah as sadr?

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Contentment in his heart maybe.

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Then he goes on to

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say,

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These people, my brothers and my sisters, that

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which they are known for

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is that they are thankful to the one

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who is most deserving to be thanked.

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In that which He blesses them with.

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Bilqalb, with the heart.

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Ask yourself my brothers and my sisters, when

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is the last time I thanked Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala?

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So how do you thank Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala bilqalb?

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By actually recognizing the blessing of Allah as

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the wajal upon us.

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And not being like those who deny these

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blessings,

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They recognize the blessings of Allah but then

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they deny it.

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They think that they have reached somewhere because

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of his own intelligence.

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They think that they have reached somewhere with

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their own intelligence.

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And there's not a blessing my brothers and

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my sisters that we have

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Sheikh Abdul Azakal Badr, he always used to

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say, remember these 2

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If it wasn't for Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala's

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favor upon you

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and also his mercy, he would have never

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purified any of us.

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And also the other statement when Allah azzawalu

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said,

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let her back to mushaytaanillakalila.

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And if it wasn't for Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala,

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his favors and also his mercy,

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the majority of the people that followed the

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shaytan.

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I'll give you guys an example. Tomorrow if

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the jail comes

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I'm not saying that the jail by the

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way. I'll give you guys an example. This

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great fiasco, this drama that's happening online.

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All of these 1,000 of people, they were

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cheated in their money, right? Supposedly.

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Apparently, from what people are saying. They gave

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their money and then later on they ended

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up find out finding out that he was,

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or he actually left the fort of Isthan

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while he was collecting this money. Allahu alaam,

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whether he took the money or not, but

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this is what the people are saying.

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If this is now the case,

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this is now the case.

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If these people, they fell into this trap,

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what's gonna happen tomorrow to Dajjal?

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I was saying it's a Dajjal. I'm not

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trying to make a comparison

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at all,

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but people ended up falling into this, and

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they were swayed with them hard earned money.

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That went somewhere.

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Whether he took it or whether it was

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taken by the charity commission,

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people's money was taken just like that.

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And they followed this couple while at the

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same time, they were going or they were

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having an iman crisis.

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And people don't know.

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Lowny later on, it was established with certainty

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that this was the case

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because of the witnesses, you know, his wife

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and things like that. Point is

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kaden.

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You see how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, if

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it wasn't for Allah aza wa jal, many

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of us could have actually lost our iman.

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Really could have.

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And that's the

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The greatest blessing that Allah azza wa jal

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can bless you with, is for you to

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have iman

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all the way till you die,

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that you die upon al Islam.

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And also my brothers and my sisters, they

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thank Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala through statements.

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Allah Azzawajal quotes Suleyman and Dawood saying,

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Oh praise to the one who preferred us

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over many of his creation.

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Are you with me my brothers and my

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sisters?

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That we thank Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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through our tongues.

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And also through our limbs. How do we

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thank Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala through our limbs?

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When someone thing came to the messenger salaam

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alayhi wa sallam that would make him happy,

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he would rush to

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prostrating to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in thanks.

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Sajdhati shukr.

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Question you might want to ask us, when

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is the last time I don't sajdhati shukr

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for all the blessings that came my way?

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And it is us that will benefit us

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in any case.

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Whoever thanks me, I'm going to give him

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more. Allah aasawal really doesn't need our thanks.

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You are the ones who are in need

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of Allah azza wa Jal. He really doesn't

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need you.

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But the sad reality is,

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Those who really think Allah is only a

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few in number.

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And also my brothers and my sisters,

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from the ways of thanking Allah is through

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our limbs

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is

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through our limbs is

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to keep

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our limbs,

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our away from Ma'ase.

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And through our limbs we worship Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala. How do we know this? The

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messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam

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used to pray so much in the night

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that his feet would become swollen.

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And Aisha radhiallahu ta'ala, she would say to

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me, You Rasul, why are you doing this

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to yourself? And Allah has forgiven your past

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and your future sins.

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What would he say?

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Shall I not be a thankful slave? That

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shows us what? That a person,

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he thanks Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, he shows

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his gratitude in his Ibadah.

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And the opposite applies as

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well. By thanking Allah Azza wa'b, by keeping

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these blessings away from it.

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So whenever

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Allah aza wa jal gives you something, you

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thank him.

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And also this is very very important.

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Also, some times when something is taken away

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from you, thank Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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And perhaps this thing that was taken away

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from you my brothers and my sisters that

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seem to you from the apparent that it

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say, Ni'amah. Allah azza wa ji is actually

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protecting you from a bigger evil that may

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have come your way.

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And sometimes we don't see this.

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We only see it later on.

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Brother, he goes for a divorce,

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or a miscarriage happens.

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Let me mention the example of the miscarriage.

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Because you know sometimes my brothers and my

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sisters,

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if a divorce takes

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place and there's kids in the equation,

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one might go through a lot of difficulty

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and hardship.

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Living in this country also, the UK,

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it always isn't the best when it comes

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to the brother or the guy in the

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equation.

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She wanted to kinda like take custody. She

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gets all the rights in most cases.

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You go through a miscarriage even though you've

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been trying so hard to have a child.

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Later on, Allah aza wa decree that you

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go through a divorce.

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Can you see my brothers and my sisters?

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And a lot of cases where, you know,

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kids kids come from broken families,

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they don't tend to go

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towards a very good direction.

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Later on you wanna have a relationship with

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your child, it gets even more difficult.

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That's just one example from the many things

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that happen in our lives that Allah azza

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wa'am protects us from, that only later on

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we realize the hikmah of Allah azza wa'al

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The next characteristic my brothers and my sisters

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that was mentioned was

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that they have tawakul.

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They put their trust in Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala in all of their affairs.

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While at the same time they take the

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Izbab.

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They come with the means

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in pleasing the most merciful one.

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When individual, my brothers and my sisters, and

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this is just one example from the many

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examples where a person should

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accompany Tawakkul in all of his affairs.

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He wants to leave a sin.

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He takes all the isbaab.

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Because you have to understand my brothers and

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Is to put complete trust in Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala and dependence while at the same

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time

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you take the means

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possible.

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Okay. You come with the means

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in whatever you're trying to do. Like for

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example now,

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someone has made now the decision to leave

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of a sin.

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Okay? While at the same time, he takes

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the asbaab and keeping himself away from that

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sin.

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Not just saying,

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I'm going to put my trust in Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, and he just carries on

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doing whatever he wants. No.

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You move yourself away from that type of

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environment maybe.

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You even try your utmost best to stop

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yourself from thinking about these kind of things

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and being around good people that does that.

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Being around good people helps you forget a

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lot of the bad things you might do

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when you are by yourself.

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That's why they also say in English, they

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have a statement where

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being alone,

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some of you guys may know, you can

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be your biggest shaitan or something.

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Or you you can be your devil, you

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know, devil's friend. Oh, shame in hada.

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Wallahi is very true.

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Being by yourself sometimes

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with all the afkar that comes to you

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can be really destructive.

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So point is,

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put his tawakkull in Allah azza wa ta'ala

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to leave this addictive sin while at the

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same

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time,

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takes the asbaab

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by moving away from it.

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You put your tawakkull in Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala

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that he's going to help you find a

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righteous wife or a righteous husband.

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And what's that mean? That you sit at

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home and wait?

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I have the trust in Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala is going to give me money insha

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Allahu ta'ala. And

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I'm sitting at home.

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Now go out, look for the isbaab.

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Try and inquire, try to move around and

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do something about it.

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Guys.

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3 different levels.

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First one is

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to leave of

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complaining.

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To leave of complaining.

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The second one

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is being pleased

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and satisfied.

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And the third one, my brothers and my

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sisters is

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loving that which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala decrees

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for you.

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So the first one my brothers and my

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sisters is going back.

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Leaving of complaining.

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K? Leaving of complaining.

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This is the level of a

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sabar.

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And the second one that we mentioned which

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was the rida, the second level, rida, satisfaction,

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is for the alib to not even be

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moved

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in that which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has

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chosen for him.

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We're going into the exam.

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I've tried everything possible but Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala chose for me to get a b

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even though I desperately wanted an a star.

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Do you guys have a stars here?

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So only

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a. We have a star, a and then

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b.

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But then he ended up what? Getting a

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b even though he desperately wanted an a.

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I put my trust in Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala.

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When I done my exams, I put all

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my effort, halas andaraldi. His heart doesn't become

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moved. He doesn't feel that sadness

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in his chest.

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And this second, of course, has a higher

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status than the first.

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Then the third one is

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3rd one is love.

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That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. That this individual

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is in total love.

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With that which Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala does

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to him.

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Whatever he has chosen him,

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he has love for that.

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These trials and tribulations,

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he loves it.

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Yeah.

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So only a little bit left insha'Allah ta'ala

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guys.

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They worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala with the

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belief that he is with them

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at all times.

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He is present with them.

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And through that

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they have reached the station of Ihsan.

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Because we have al Islam and iman, and

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also al Hassan. Right? Why is al Hassan?

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And ta'abudallaha?

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That you worship Allah subhanahu wa as if

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you can see Him.

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And if you can't see him, he is

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looking at you.

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And you won't be able to reach us

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my brothers and my sisters, Al Hassan, except

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by what?

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Tadoruj.

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Moving from one stage to the next until

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you reach that stage.

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And this is only done, my brothers and

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my sisters, through muhajaat

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al nafs.

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Constantly striving against yourself.

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Let's put this in a real life scenario.

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How many of us actually, like, constantly when

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we fall into a sin, we feel sad

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about it, and we tell us I'm not

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gonna do it again.

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And we constantly are what? Striving and working

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hard, wrestling with ourselves.

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And I've mentioned this many times in the

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last couple of days.

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If you truly show Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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that you wanna get away from this addiction,

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it is wrong to think that Allah is

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not going to help you.

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He is there to help you.

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As opposed to the individual,

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when he falls in tarsen, he doesn't really

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necessarily care. You guys are going to be

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doing actions.

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It is lighter to you. It has less

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worth

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than the hair. Doesn't mean much. Does the

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hair, little hair that you have, does it

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really mean anything?

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And we used to see it as the

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the destructive major sins.

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Sometimes we do something, we think lightly of

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it.

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K.

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They in the past, my brothers and my

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sisters, these little small things, they used to

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see it as great major

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sins. They would be fighting with themselves.

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So this is Hassan my brothers and my

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sisters

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is that constantly a person,

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he's worshiping Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala through the

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name

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Al Raqib.

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That he's constantly watching him.

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In every single step that he takes, and

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every move that he makes,

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He is god conscious of Allah aza wa

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jal.

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And my brothers and my sisters,

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this part is really really important.

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K.

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You know how terrified we become when it

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comes to

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our parents.

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Maybe finding out something that we are doing

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in private.

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One time Sheikh Abdul Azaq Al Badri told

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us a story about a man

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who had a laptop.

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He had a laptop.

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And he was looking at things he shouldn't

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be looking at.

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Something came rushing into the door. He broke

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his laptop and he dropped it. It was

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a cat.

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Thinking that someone is about to walk into

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his house and he's about to catch him

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in what he's doing.

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Look how scared we become my brothers and

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my sisters when it comes to us

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or maybe our parents finding out whatever we're

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doing.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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it is greater

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that we meet Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala with

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a sin

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on your Multiamah

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than us being exposed to all of the

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public.

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People today, they don't wanna be exposed. Right?

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And it's so easy to expose somebody.

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And everybody finds out.

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And that's going to cause you humiliation and

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embarrassment in this dunya. Bow allahi that you

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meet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala with that one

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sin, ho a'lamuwajib.

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And that should really really terrify somebody.

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Because all of these people, they won't be

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able to benefit beyond your mal qiyamah.

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And you have to face who? Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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And his anger, and his rage,

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and that which you used to do before.

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There's 2 types of people, my brothers, and

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when it comes to the sin.

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First one who committed a sin in private,

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and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said to her.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, he's hid his sins,

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and he's grateful for that.

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And there's a second type of individual.

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He fell into these sins, Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala He

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hid his sins.

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And then he carried on doing it.

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Because he got away with it the first

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time,

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he thought let me get away with it

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again.

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You know my belief, my brothers and my

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sisters, and I always say this to the

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brothers, those who become exposed online, I do

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not believe

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that this is the first time at all.

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Because from the names of Allah azza wa

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jal is what? A sateer.

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Allah azza wa jal, he always hides the

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sins of others.

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And Allah aza wajale is not going to

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expose you the first or the second name.

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I believe in his name.

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But you know my brothers and my sisters,

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I know a lot of things that happen

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sometimes, you know, with things that

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might arise on the internet.

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A lot of time is not the first

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time.

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Maybe some people I knew about them years

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ago.

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They thought they got away with it the

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first time, oh, let me get away with

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it again.

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And he keeps doing that, and Allah aasai

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wa Jal, he just keeps accumulating, accumulating, accumulating

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this for him. And a one time back,

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he gets hit really badly.

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Then the poet rhamallahu ta'ala goes on to

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say,

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They advised the creation.

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In order to attain the satisfaction of the

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one that they really really love, and that

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is Allah azza wa Jal.

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With knowledge. Walirshad,

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giving them the instructions that they need, directed

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them to that which is correct.

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Waliksan

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and out of good favor by being nice

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and kind to them.

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They accompanied

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the creation

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with their bodies.

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While their hearts and their souls was roaming

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around somewhere very high up.

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What is the Sheikh, my brothers and my

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sisters, what is he trying to say here?

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He's saying from the characteristics of the oliya

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is that they are there for the creation.

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Helping them in whatever way it may be

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possible.

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Whether it is through advice,

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whether it is them accompanying them with their

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bodies, helping them out

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whenever they need help.

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Do we not hear this all the time?

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Brother,

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you only call me when you need me.

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Where are you for the rest of the

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year?

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You want me to help you now when

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you're never there for me?

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Instead my brothers and my sisters, we should

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be thanking Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that he

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made us

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a

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means

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of being able to engage in this wonderful

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Ibadah.

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And that is being able to help others.

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The messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam he said,

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The most beloved people to Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala are those who are most beneficial to

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others.

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And from the most beneficial

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or from the most greatest of acts to

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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is happiness that you enter into your brother's

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heart.

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He's going through some difficulty, you remove that

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difficulty from him. The brother is in agony.

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He's going through a lot of troubles and

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issues.

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And you have the ability to remove that

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from him.

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He has a debt, you remove it from

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him.

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You help him pay it off.

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And the messenger salalaiya wasim said,

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He's suffering from hunger.

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You help remove that hunger

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by feeding him or quenching his thirst. Then

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the messian salalaihi was

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That

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I accompany my brother

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for something that he needs is more beloved

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to me than me doing iatikaf for a

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month in which Masjid.

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam is

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madina. Are you with me my brothers and

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my sisters?

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Also the masallahu alaihi wa sallam, sometimes an

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lady would grab him by his hand. Sometimes

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you say, we are busy. Right?

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He's like the president,

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really busy. He needs to book people in.

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In essence you can't really go and help

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these people.

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Forget about helping people, can't even sometimes help

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our families,

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our parents, our moms. Especially in the month

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of Ramadan, I was telling a lot of

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people.

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Our moms have become like what? Or our

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female relatives have become like servants in the

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house.

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We want them to cook hand the samosa

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with the jubna inside.

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The pokores,

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x, y, and

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zed. But we don't wanna go help them.

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You see? So one time the messian sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam, a woman came to him.

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She said she needs x, y, and zed.

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He said,

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Take me whatever you need to take me.

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And he went and helped her,

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and then he left her.

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This is the man my brothers and my

00:31:08 --> 00:31:08

sisters

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who was more busier than anybody who's currently

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breathing today,

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and he still found time to go and

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help others.

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Also, my brothers and my sisters,

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if you look at

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Allah is in the aid of his servant

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as long as the servant is in aid

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of his brother.

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You know my brothers and my sisters, try

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this out. Sometimes you're so busy, you're going

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through so much headache, agony, distress.

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Go and help somebody.

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Just opening the door sometimes of a woman

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who's carrying,

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a lot of shopping.

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Take her up to the 2nd or the

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3rd floor by helping us, see how you

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feel, and see how Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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puts blessing in your time for you.

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Sometimes you see an old lady,

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she's struggling to cross the road. Go and

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help her,

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and then see how you feel. Wallah is

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one of the things that really softens up

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the heart. It really is.

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