Abu Taymiyyah – Part 2 Methods to increase income Dubai

Abu Taymiyyah
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The host of a political discussion discusses practical ways to increase provisions, including learning from the Internet and sun, practicing Islam, and finding one's behavior to be a "most important point." They stress the importance of avoiding mental health issues and finding one's behavior to be a "most important point." The segment also touches on the importance of thanking Allah for his promises and finding the light on the dark, and the difficulty of finding a wife who gives her permission to be married outside of her family. The importance of duowned leagues and finding the right way to increase provisions is also discussed.
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Welcome again to another episode of your weekly

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Islamic discussion show, Lifa Islam. As always, I'm

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your host, Ismael Buluk.

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And today, we have a guest that we

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had on a previous show who had been

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visiting us from the UK, brother Abu Tamir

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Jelani. Assalamu alaikum, brother. Assalamu alaikum.

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Now you'd come on a previous show

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and that show you'd spoken I mean, many

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of the viewers, they can go on to

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YouTube and find it, but,

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what we can do is we can do

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a very short recap

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of that for the first 5 or 10

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minutes on what we discussed in that episode

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and then we could talk about

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the

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the next step which is we've spoken obviously

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before about the bad effects of trying to

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get provision

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or leaving from haram methods. And today's episode

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will be focusing after the recap on

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the practical ways to increase your provision, obviously,

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in a halal way.

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Okay.

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In the previous episode, we discussed how,

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you know, sometimes leaving something for the sake

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of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, the wonderful,

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positives and benefits that come with it.

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And we gave practical examples of how there

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was people who were involved

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in some Haram, like the brother who was

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writing down the Riba,

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when he was working as an accountant, and

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he came to know about the impermissibility of

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the jutul hadith and the messengers.

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Allah cursed the one who takes it, the

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one who gives the one who Waqeel for

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it,

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the one who is a, who writes it

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down, the one who is a witness for

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it, all the same.

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And when he left it for the sake

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of Allah based

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on the hadith

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that I asked, you know, everybody to kind

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of like place it between the eyes and

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to write it with golden ink.

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You only need something out of tahwa except

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Allah Subhanahu will always

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give you that which is better. And Allah

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won't fail in His promise.

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Something that has been practically

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seen,

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experienced by many, And

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it's a promise that is mentioned in the,

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in the Quran.

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And you know how the Shaitan works really

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hard

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to

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push you into falling into haram by

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telling you that you don't have any alternatives.

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You know, you're going to suffer financially,

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you're going to have problems with your families

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if you leave this job.

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But how, you know, Hasan al Basir said,

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I read in 90 places that Allah Azzawajal,

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he mentioned in that your provision has been

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decreed and I read

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in He scares his

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in one place. But what did we do?

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We

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we

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left

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the

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speech of

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the truth in all these 90 places,

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and,

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and we ended up believing the shaitan in

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this one place. Okay? But we need to

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know in a kay the shaitan.

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The plotting of the shaitaan is weak, and

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it's just empty

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threats that he makes, but

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if we really connect ourselves to Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala and take this Quran, which is

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a guidance, in a hadil Quran,

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If we read this Quran, it guides to

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that which is more upright.

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Allah

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will really give us the guidance that we

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are all looking for in every situation that

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we find ourselves in. Now we wanna talk

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about

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practical ways because, you know, we spoke in

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in in that episode on how many people

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feel

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that they cannot,

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if I leave the Haram way or

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in many ways it may seem and it

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could be true to some extent,

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especially in certain environments or certain places that

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the forbidden ways to make money and to

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make provision,

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seem to be so many, and the the

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ones that are permissible seem to be seem

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to be a lot less. So we wanna

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give some points or some practical,

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advice or some points on things that we

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can Islamically

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from Islamic teachings that will show us that

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it's not actually

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1 or 2 points. There are actually many

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points and many methods on how you can

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increase your provision.

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Inam, it's a it's a very important point

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that we actually,

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mention examples,

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from the Quran and the sunnah.

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If you was to kind of like apply

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that in whatever situation you were in, because

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it can get very very tempting to go

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and do haram because it's so easy to

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do. People actually tend to,

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not realize how easy is to make crazy

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amounts of money, but you will have to

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do that at the expense of your religion.

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But things that you could do,

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if a person engages in it, Allah Subhanahu

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will bless his wealth and give him an

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increase in it. And,

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first thing that I want to start with,

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inshaAllah,

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is

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a shukru,

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showing gratitude to Allah Subhanahu

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because Allah

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tells in the Quran

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you thank Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. What happens?

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Allah will increase you in your,

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in whatever you thank Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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for. And Allah says in another verse,

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a blessing from us and we will surely

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reward the person who is grateful.

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Okay?

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And, Allah, if you look at the Ayat

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from different Suras

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Surah.

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And what something that, you know, many of

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the prophets had in common,

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it was that they were thankful. And we

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really need to take this from, we need

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to take a lesson from this. Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala told us about

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Nuh

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alaihisattu

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wasalam.

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He was a very thankful slave,

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Shukura. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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tells us

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about, you know, Dawud alaihis salaam and Sulaiman

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alaihis salaamwalakaddaatina

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Dawud alaihis salaaimanalma

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And we gave Sulaiman and Dawud

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We gave them knowledge. And they said, faqal

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alhamdulillahi said, Oh, praise to Allah Subhanahu who

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preferred us over the,

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rest of the creation.

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Ibrahim alayhi salatu wasalam

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He was a thankful individual from the blessings

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that Allah

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gave him. And, and most importantly, obviously the

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Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam who used to

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spend so much time at night even though

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we know that the messenger

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passed and previous is were forgiven.

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As Allah says, His past and his future

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sins were forgiven. Even Haisha said this to

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him,

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Why are you doing this? He used to

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pray so much

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until the street became swollen and they became

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reddened. Hajj will say, why are you doing

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this? And Allah has done no. Forgive your

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past and future sins. He will respond back

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and say,

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shall I not be a thankful slave? There's

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a man who was walking on the face

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of this earth and his future sins and

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past sins were all forgiven.

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So in order to show his gratitude to

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Allah from all the different blessings that,

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he gave him. So moving on swiftly, Insha'Allah,

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of this matter. You know,

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we as human beings,

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it's become a habit of always looking at

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the people above us. And we don't necessarily

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sometimes

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look at those below us who are less

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fortunate than us.

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And the Messenger Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam came

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with the complete opposite that which most people

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are,

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the mentality that most people have. He said

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to us in a hadith,

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Look at those below you and do not

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look at those above you. This will make

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you more thankful,

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for ajdaraa letters during Ahmedullah. Make a person

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more thankful of what he actually has. You

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see a person, okay, he's earning minimum wage.

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K, minimum wage might not be a lot

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in your eyes.

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K,

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you're asking the question, are you not content?

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Okay. Do you not?

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Are you not happy with what you have?

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The prophet says, no. Like,

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My cousin, my uncle is earning x amount

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of money.

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Brother, there's people who don't even have minimum

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wage.

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Maybe if you looked at those below, it

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make you more thankful that people are less

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fortunate.

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From

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the little that you have, maybe if you

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thank Allah you'll

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get more.

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Allah might replace with that which is better,

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you know. And what's amazing is if you

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look at the wisdom behind that statement,

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even if you take that to someone who's

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not a Muslim and is a psychologist, he

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will tell you that it's an amazing statement

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because, you know, if

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if you look at those above you, you're

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never ever gonna be happy. There's always gonna

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be someone, unless you become the richest man

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of the world, which most people aren't. There's

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always gonna be people who are richer than

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you. You'll you'll always you'll never have happiness.

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You'll be miserable. Whereas if you're always looking

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down on those lower than you could say,

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you know, I have a I have a

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quite nice car, quite a nice house.

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Look at these poor guys. This guy you

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you'll always be thanking Allah and realize that

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you know what?

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Of course, yeah. They I could have more

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money, but I'm so much better than a

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lot a vast majority

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of the population. And if you then, depending

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where you live, looking to other parts in

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the world, you'll feel like you're a millionaire

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compared to the sum of the simple life

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that that that people live. And I I

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know it's slightly off the topic, but,

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my

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we as a family had recently been to

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Zanzibar,

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which is the island in in, you know,

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which falls under Africa. Right? Yeah. It falls

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under now Tanzania. It used to be its

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own used to be owned by Oman for

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100 of years, but in the last,

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I think, 30, 40 years as part of,

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Tanzania.

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And,

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there

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there was a small village

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and

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their life is basically they go fishing, their

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kids go to school memorize Quran, get very

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basic education,

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they come home, help the mother and the

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father

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get the fish ready to sell Mhmm. And

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it repeats. But if you see them,

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they look so happy because

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they have what they need in the sense

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of they have a basic house, they have

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a loving family,

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they have food to eat, and they don't

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know what they're missing. They're not exposed to

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the Xboxes and the Playstations and the flash

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cars and none of them at all

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look upset. They all just seem to be

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happy living their life. So a lot of

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the time what we

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perceive

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to be we're not well off,

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we are actually very well off. It's because

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we've always been pushed certain movies and Hollywood

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and whatever it may be that you have

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to have a

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Maserati, a Ferrari

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and everything is so out there that we

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feel if we don't have that, that our

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life is over. And we can never have

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a good life unless we reach those levels.

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Yeah. A lot of people are actually not

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happy. You know, I've seen this sometimes sitting

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in the Haram,

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in Medina.

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A guy is coming out on Snapchat, you

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know, he's recording himself.

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Wallahiakhi. I could see as soon as he

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gets off Snapchat, the guy looks miserable.

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SubhanAllah.

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I'm going to mention, inshallah, a

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real life experience of a brother.

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Okay? And hopefully, we can take from this

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a lesson.

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Because something that the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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used to engage in, we really should ask

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ourselves when is the last time that we

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actually done this Ibadah?

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Okay? He said that if something came to

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the person

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that brought him happiness,

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he would hasten to prostrate into Allah

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in thanks, out of gratitude, to what Allah

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blessed him with. It was his brother. Okay?

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I know who was studying abroad.

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And this brother, SubhanAllah, when he came back,

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he didn't have any qualifications and he didn't

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have any experiences.

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Today, when you look at the work industry

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that which gets to a job is normally

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what?

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Experience

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and also having qualifications.

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Right?

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So this brother came back and, he used

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to say this about himself because, I was

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fresh off the boat.

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Like, I didn't have nothing. He just just

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didn't know how to go about life,

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in seeking an income.

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Okay? And I remember the brother

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used to see people around him who were

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earning minimum wage and will say, guys, you're

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not happy.

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And they they will say to me, no,

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Fulan is getting this and I'm not getting

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that. The prophet is saying, I wish I

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had your job. And the jobs that they

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were doing was like hamali jobs, warehouse job

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where you had to carry a lot.

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Okay?

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So this prophet is like for 8, 9

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months looking for a job.

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He wants to get married. He's been away

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for quite some time. Things are getting quite

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difficult now, you know.

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And, he's just wishing he'd get a job

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like this.

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After some time,

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you know, much hard work, Allah

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blessed him

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with a job in a office.

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Still he was getting minimum wage, but he

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felt like, okay,

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firstly, you have people, they don't have jobs.

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And secondly, people are coming back from their

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warehouse jobs with back pain.

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And hamdulillah, I'm just sitting on my chair

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even though I'm not earning much. And hamdulillah,

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and he hasten to frustrating to Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala and thanks. Okay.

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It's gonna get a bit funny now.

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We mentioned earlier the had the eye. Right?

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And

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When you think, you get more. And this

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is the promise of Allah We know Allah

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doesn't fail in His promise.

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2 weeks later,

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guess what happens to his brother? He gets

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kicked out of his job.

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And what I mentioned, I mentioned that he

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thanked Allah as the wudu jal. Right? And

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even he learned his brother, he studied some

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of the Quran.

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And,

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his, his finger to him was, okay. I'm

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sure now that Allah has got something else

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in store for me.

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Couple of weeks go past, you know,

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again, gonna go through a difficulty.

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He was earning minimum wage. And again, I

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mentioned earlier that this person doesn't have any

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qualification. He doesn't have any experience.

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Guess what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala blesses him

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with? A job where he was now getting,

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you know, £3 more

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than,

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his job that he was doing earlier. And

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this all came, SubhanAllah, out of, you know,

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you know, the mercy of Allahu,

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Okay. I know graduates when

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they graduate after studying for 4 years

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in a secular university,

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they struggle to come anywhere near

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£9

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an hour. I told you before about the

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accountant. Right? He was getting minimum wage and

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he's been working for 3, 4 years,

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studying for 3, 4 years. Okay. He's working

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in his job now. He hastens to frustration

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to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. He remained in

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his job, from what I remember, around 2

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years.

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All the time thanking Allah, all of a

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sudden, he finds himself being pushed out of

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the door.

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Now he's already seen it because I'm sure

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Allah

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definitely has something else in store. You know,

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Akhismail, you know what this brother is doing

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now?

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This brother is no longer working for,

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these, you know, under a manager.

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The brother Allah subhanahu wa'ala blessed him with

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some investments

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where he invested in money,

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in businesses,

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and he's just, you know, doing his da'wah,

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trying to help the community,

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and he's getting his income

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through means where he just wasn't expecting.

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And as you can see, each time he

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thanked Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he would prostrate

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Allah in thanks, and each time he would

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increase.

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Okay? And, this is the power of, you

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know, studying the Quran,

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implementing it, you know, finding these,

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little secrets, these gems and pearls from the

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Quran that a lot of people are oblivious

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about simply

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because they

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feel like it's not a realistic alternative

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or maybe because they just follow everybody else

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in the way that they are seeking a

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provision, and that's the only alternative in Allah's

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best wishes. Well, what we'll do now is

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we'll the rate we started mentioning, we basically

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had been discussing for the first part of

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the show, and now we got about 10

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minutes or less of of of the end

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of the show. We've been discussing a very

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important point is being thankful to Allah. Now

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we wanna go through some of the others.

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What actually came in my mind during the

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break is,

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is the giving of

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When the prophet said that,

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that someone's wealth does not decrease

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from giving charity, meaning giving charities away to

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increase your wealth. And, subhanAllah, it's been there's

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been times that I can not that, mashaAllah,

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I'm a great giver of charity, but I

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can just remember times where there's been times

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in the past where, you know, you sometimes

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you might

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in the past where you feel like it's

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a bit short before payday and then you

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have a few dirhams

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or brials or pounds in your pocket,

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especially when you're a student and you put

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you put some, you know, money into the

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charity box, say, mister Mullah. And you surprisingly

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later, you someone calls you and says to

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you, oh, you remember that thing you did

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that time? Yeah. The money's come through. Or,

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Aqi, you let me about 1 year ago,

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£20, £30.

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And then out of the blue, the person

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calls you and said, apologies, Akhi. What for?

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A year ago? What happened a year ago?

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What's that time at the at the masjid

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you let me £30?

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I don't remember. Yeah. I've got a ahi.

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Can I meet you today at the mosque?

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I'm coming for Asia. And and you're like,

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you know, and you just you then you

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kind of said to us, I just gave

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away that £2 that I kind of needed,

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but I had a bit, you know, I

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had like £4. I thought let me make

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me similar and so that

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people people can see that, and I'm sure

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there's many people out there who can also

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relate and have their own stories of that.

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Yeah. Allah says,

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Never whatever a person spends in charity, Allah

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will replace that for him. And I was

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just about to mention the

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what you just mentioned, SubhanAllah.

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Yani, this is something that is known,

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from Salihin. Even the scholars they mentioned, the

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Salihin, what they do is that just when

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his money is about to run out

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and he's got a bit left,

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he'd go and give a major part of

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that charity.

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Because he knows

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that Allah is going to place Baraka and

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Allah is going to replace that for him.

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So I always tell people guys, you know,

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just set up direct debits

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or standing orders. I don't know what they

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have here in Dubai. Something that I know

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to hurt the pockets

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and is less

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because the messenger says, what do you say?

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No most beloved actions to Allah is that

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which is because even if it is something

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small, something maybe 10 dirham,

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10 riyals, you know, £10, something that doesn't

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put a hole in the pocket,

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and it's coming out on a regular basis.

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But what is Allah doing? He's multiplying it

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for you because of the sadaqah that you're

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giving. That's one thing it is.

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Another Another thing that pops to mind is

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which is also a very a very important

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thing generally is keeping the family ties. I

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mean, we know that prophet said, man.

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You know, that whoever believes in Allah on

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the last day that he should keep, maintain

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his family ties.

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And you I also remember the other hadith

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that whoever wishes that his life

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to be extended and his provision to be

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increased for Yesur Rahima, you know. Yeah. I

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think you're friends

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Whoever wishes that his lifespan is increased and

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also his,

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his risk has increased and let this person

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tie the kit and kill allahi brothers and

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sisters.

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I see this so, you know, common and

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how

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brothers and sisters I'm talking about,

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you know, real brothers and sisters,

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blood brothers and sisters, how they cut the

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kith and kin, their relations between them over

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the most pathetic of things.

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Maybe because he didn't give me enough notice

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for the wedding.

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Not because he didn't call him, but because

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he didn't give me enough notice of the

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most pathetic of things. I'll give you this

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example and I think it's,

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kifai for this specific

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means of getting an inquisition.

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Abu Bakr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu,

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his daughter

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Aisha

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when she was accused and slandered

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to have gone and committed fornication or to

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be a fornicatress.

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Okay? From those who

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spread the slander was his cousin, mister Ahluthaiza.

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He was from those who, you know, spread

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the slander as well. And Subhanahu Abu Bakr

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was

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the only one who was providing for him

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financially, looking after him financially

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after Mi'ztah made Hijrah from Makkah Jwal Midi.

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He did not have any other source of

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income. He was the only source of income.

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So after it became clear and the verses

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came down that she was free from this,

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Abu Bakr radiAllahu ta'ala and he swore I'm

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not going to help my cousin again. So

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verse came down.

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Do not let the people of virtue, you

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know, swear that they're not going to help

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them.

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Rather forgive and forget tender page. Okay? We

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know it's very difficult for someone to say

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something about female relatives. It makes a person's

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blood boil.

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Really is difficult to take.

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Not only did he forgive him as soon

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as the verse came down, but what did

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he do? He carried on.

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You know, looking after him financially and giving

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him an increase in giving him more income.

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SubhanAllah. This is a perfect example of how

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we should be with regards to this point.

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In a one other thing that I I

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really wanna mention is

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the issue of marriage.

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Okay? Some might get baffled. Okay? I'm poor

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now. If I get married, it's going to

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give me more of a financial problem. Okay?

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells in the Quran,

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and get married to the female slaves amongst

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you and also from the righteous amongst them.

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If they are poor, then Allah Azzawajal will

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enrich in him. Will enrich him this individual,

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make him more rich. Umram Al Khattab radiAllahu

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ta'ala Anhu he said,

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It has amazed me as to why people

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they don't go searching for

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an increase in wealth by getting married.

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Okay?

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SubhanAllah, Yani. When you look at it Okay.

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Most people have the mentality

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that I'm going to

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have a major

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financial burden after that. But, no, I can

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give you so many exams of people who

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have nothing.

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Allah, you know,

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they embarked on the issue of marriage, and

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it's not giving them more and more. Not

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the hadith which says,

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3 people that Allah

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has made a right upon himself to help

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these people. And one of them is,

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one of them is Ashaa'bou and liridul akhaf.

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The youngster wants to get married in order

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to safeguard his,

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chase,

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his chastity.

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Okay?

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And, you're like, guys, I'm gonna mention this

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as well.

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I think it's very very sad,

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our situation.

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We as parents,

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as different cultures, what we've done is we've

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made the issue of marriage so hard upon

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them.

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And because of this, it had led to,

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they're being so haram. Like, I I see

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sometimes,

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you know, from from the same country, but

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because they're from different tribes, they're not allowed

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to

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get married. Okay? And we make things so

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difficult when the issue of marriage is so

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simple. Okay? And because we made it so

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difficult now, because we want maybe a certain

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category of a person to come and, you

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know, take our daughters, look what the messenger,

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, said. He said,

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Whatever comes to you, you're satisfied with his

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akhlaq, his mannerism,

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and his relation and getting married off. Either

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you do that, otherwise, there'll be a fitna

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and a facade on the face of this

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earth, and we're seeing this fitna and facade.

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The parents, look at the logic they have.

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Okay. No. This is going to bring shame

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to our family if he gets married outside

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the family, which is very common.

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But later when a haram takes place and

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she gets pregnant,

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oh, now it's a bigger issue, we need

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to get them married off. They're running away

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now thinking, okay, a bigger

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hara a bigger shame is going to come

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to our community, going to come to our

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family and so on,

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and and so forth. Another fasada has become

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so widespread is the issue of *.

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I've had countless emails from people in Canada.

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Okay? These are practicing brothers emailing me saying,

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Ustad.

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These are practicing brothers who have now reverted

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to,

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*.

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And fulfilling their desires through this. Simply because

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when they wanna go and get married,

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one of the conditions that's being told them

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you need to have $20,000

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and you need to have a degree.

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Okay? And,

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if you don't have this, then we're not

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getting you married off. So they've reverted this

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and this is the fashad.

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Not blaming or I'm downplaying the seriousness of

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what they're falling into, but there's reasons, there's

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means, and everything that has caused it, And

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we've made it difficult. And your kids,

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a lot of them are involved in this.

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Whether us parents are very naive about it

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or not, this is the reality. I'm telling

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you from this person who's received countless of

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emails

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and even sisters who

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might even wear niqab

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saying, oh, you know, brother, this is the

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problem now with sisters.

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Naham, you know. And, it's a means of

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getting an increase in provision. Sure. We could

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like, you know, this is a topic we

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could probably talk for so many episodes. Yeah.

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And I think just to end,

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I will obviously

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thank you, Jazakoul Laker, for coming on the

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show. And we thank you also for bringing

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me up. Jazakoul Laker. Yeah. And, also to

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the viewers, one thing that just pops in

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the mind is don't forget

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one of the also the best ways to

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increase provision is du'a.

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Making the du'a as we mentioned in the

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episode before about the man whose his clothing

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was haram and he his,

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income was haram and his, and his food

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was that he ate was haram. So how

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will his dua be answered? The opposite. If

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you're doing things in the right way and

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you're making things in the dua, this is

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one of the best ways inshallah.

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And inshallah,

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until the next episode,

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next week,

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same time, same place. I leave you with

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the greetings of Islam.

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