Abu Taymiyyah – Marriage, Divorce, Zina, Hijrah, Combining Maghrib & Isha… Hot Topics Q&A
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I wanted to start inshallah hot topics are the question related
with the UK elections coming up? What's the ruling on voting? Is it
haram? Is it sure is it is it permissible?
Hamdu lillahi rabbil aalameen or salat wa salam ala and Murthy
Rahmatullah Alameen batho lauscha. Hayden Aubuchon one of the raw or
die in a Liberian, he was Rajan manera.
First and foremost Zuckerman law here, Mr. Farhan. They're always
kind and generous and inviting me over
for these discussions, and also from the law today, we went
through a very important poem that covers the best of etiquettes. So
with regards to this question,
this is an issue that has already been spoken about time and time
again, by the scholars. Right. They've dealt with this
contemporary issue. However, it's a question that pops up every
single time when there is an election taking place.
So to break the question down, first and foremost, why do people
associate the topic of elections with shirk and kufr I think it's
important that we understand that and then inshallah to Allah, we
can perhaps cite some of the reasonings and the effective
causes, that the lemma have mentioned, when they said it is
permissible in certain circumstances. But firstly, where
did his whole shtick and Cofer come from? Right, and I think it's
only fair to touch on this. Think about it, my brothers and my
sisters, when you are now voting someone into power,
and he is now going to be adhering to manmade laws, right?
As a Muslim, which laws should we be adhering to?
The laws of Allah subhanaw taala right. We know that sovereignty,
right. lawmaking governance belongs to none other than Allah
subhanaw taala in in hochma, illa Allah, sovereignty lawmaking,
right governance, it belongs to Allah subhanho wa taala. It is He
Who puts down rules and regulations laws, that are in the
best interest of the Muslims and society as a whole. Agreed.
Likewise, the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam or should I say
Allah subhanaw taala he mentioned in the Quran. Today you wish for
the hokum of Jaya Helia right? Also Allah says in the Quran woman
Lamia can be met as the Allah for Allah ecoman Kathy rune, whoever
doesn't rule by what Allah subhanho wa Taala sent down, he is
indeed from the calf Iran. So as we mentioned, we can agree that
lawmaking belongs to who belongs to Allah subhanaw taala. However,
we need to understand the following my brothers and my
sisters, the Sharia is fixed. However, we have a flexible
framework within our Sharia that adjust the variables due to the
changes that happens within this very quickly changing reality on
the ground that we have to deal with. Circumstances change isn't
so right. So there is a level of flexibility and adaptability
within our Sharia.
When we have these changes that take place, the footwear may
change. This is why when you start the fic you may come across a
legal Maxim to her you will fatwah whichever you resign you will
McCann where effect will change is because of the time and place.
Are you provinces with me? Like this is why perhaps many of the
lemma whether they are in Saudi Arabia outside of Saudi Arabia,
shut up north Amy and Charlotte Hernando De Barak shell company G.
Breen, right. And many other scholars, these are some of the
household names. I'm mentioning them, because many of our brothers
who may follow a certain persuasion or leaning they take
from the scholars, they mentioned certain circumstances such as if
this candidate is going to serve the Muslims or he is a better
option for the Muslims or he is the best of the two evils that you
have. Or he is able to lessen the evil.
Right. You can vote for that individual
or your brother and sister with me. Like I mentioned our Sharia is
fixed. However, due to the flexible framework that we have
within our Sharia is adjust the variables due to the change of
circumstance.
Right. We have different leading legal Maxim's within our Sharia.
The Sharia is fixed.
However, because of these occurrences and changes and the
situations that we find ourselves in it would fall under one of
these leading leading legal Maxim's or actually we've heard of
it right you have the cooper or the five leading legal Maxim's and
then you have so many other legalities right legal Maxim's
that the scholars have mentioned over time
Okay, so what are some of these legal Maxim's you have this legal
Maxim called weighing between the pros and the cons have we heard of
this before? I'll masala haven't manifested a cod Rahim Allah tan
is here. You can say Saturday on Saturday, but many say there's
more Greg says Saturday, he says a de NUMA balloon Island masala.
Hey, Fiji will be harder in Aqaba a vain Tirzah ham or the dunya
masala, Allah Mina Masada Hey, well, let's do it as that one my
first CD or tackable nm University, when you are in a
predicament, and you have one of two options, there isn't a third
option. If we had the best of options, we would have to take
that but you only have these two. And both of them are bad, but one
is a lot better than the other because of his track record.
However, if both of them are really no different to one
another, in that case, you wouldn't.
Does that make sense? But you have a candidate. I'll give you guys an
example. Now let's start we have a candidate, right? Over 95% of the
Muslims. Right? And even the massage that are all standing
behind him
is I've never seen anything like this. Right? Them uniting behind a
certain candidate.
Far better, right, then whatever else that you currently have on
the menu.
Hmm. So in that case, what does the Sharia say to you? And by the
way, this principle of weighing between the pros and the cons, if
you're in a predicament, and you have two evils, you take the
lesser of the two evils, this legal Maxim, it doesn't only apply
to one or two things in our Sharia no extends to all aspects of our
deen. This is why he said Dino marinara masala, hey, the whole
religion is built on weighing between the pros and the cons.
That everyone get that? I know it's a bit of a controversial
topic. But this is why many of the Ulama even though the apostle the
base origin, they say that you shouldn't, but when we have a
change of circumstance, right? The Sharia right because of the
flexible framework that it has it adjusts to these variables and
changes and the ever quickly changing reality on the ground.
Right. And we will continue having modern day occurrences and things
that unfold within our reality that we have to deal with. Right.
And film is required, right more than the film is required in order
to be able to deal with it even though our Sharia is fixed. It
tells you halal and haram while at the same time you have what legal
Maxim's that adjust the different circumstances that the Sharia
itself propagates.
Did everyone get that?
Am I calling the confidential now?
I'm not.
It's important that I make you all understand why many of the URL
amount will take a position and is not just specific to a rule, Amma
in a certain locality law. I've looked at countless fatawa just
the other day when we're having a discussion in a WhatsApp group, I
was sitting in front of 30 fatawa.
But then you have individuals that may come along and just give a
blanket statement without really even understanding even if the
team Rahmatullah alayhi, who, by the way, passed away in 720 8am,
Abu Tamia, Tamia over several years ago, so it's not me. Right?
He doesn't have a horse in the race. He asked for tower, right
from over 700 years ago, when he is asked about someone taking up a
position. Right? Where he's able to establish justice, even if it's
not all but some or he's able to lessen right you can lil Minalima
facet.
Right, the evils that will come out of the situation he gives the
FET to at times, it may even be why'd you have upon him to be in
that position?
Like I'll give you guys an example me, right? Just take me for an
exam. If there is an institution, and I'm able to go in there and
listen to evil, and these people, my brothers and my sisters,
they're in lala land or in no man's land.
Right? And I believe that I can make significant change.
Right?
Should I now withhold from it? And this institution now is extremely
well
well known and they're having a big impact, but they still require
right guidance in
making things better now I'm not running for presidency, we're not
going to do anything I'm I'm talking about this generally.
Right this is when these principles will come in handy
Milazzo to protect me from that.
Let us get him out of the messiness, Allah, Allah said to
avoid. Don't ask for Mr. Leadership
comes with a lot of headache.
Exactly. However,
knowing that you've traveled now, back for your masters, what advice
do you have for students of knowledge? or aspiring students of
knowledge that want to study abroad? I think they've asked this
question many, many times in the masjid. Right, with regards to
wanting to be an aspiring student, that knowledge my brothers, and I
suggest that you start at home, if you can't get into that routine,
or at least, you can't start now. Trust me, my brothers and my
sisters take this from me when you go there, it'll take you a long
time to get into gear.
You know, when you get into a car, you have to get 1234 You're
driving manual, right? Mom's may go past and you're struggling to
get into gear.
So you'd rather get used to that environment and that kind of
learning over here.
Learning the religion of Assam is not like learning medicine or
engineering, I did engineering this big difference.
Right? Very, very different. Say requires you to adjust. Does that
make sense? Right. And I advise you to be extremely patient,
extremely, extremely patient, when you go abroad is not going to be
easy. You know, when they ask this question, I always remember the
statement of a Lima Malik Rahmatullah Lee. We've all heard
of Imam Malik. Right, one of the four great Imams of FIP one of
them is a member Hanifa then who Al Imam Malik Imam Shafi and then
Mr. Mohammed
Imam Malik Rahmatullah. Allah will say, Lane Lane Yuna, Allah had
Amar had you that apartment Facom
you will not be able to acquire this knowledge until you taste
poverty.
Until you what you taste poverty.
Right. It's going to be challenging, it's going to be
hard. Then an Abu Huraira the alotta and anatase poverty. To the
point Canada is a huge ximo he would write, force him to get
stones and to tie it across his stomach.
He was jobless at a time living in a masjid, the messiness allottee
was turning would encourage him to continue to continue
and inform him that the good times are to come.
Right.
Many people don't know this, but Abu Huraira the Allahu Anhu did
you know my brothers and my sisters he became the governor of
Medina.
And Allah subhanho wa Taala blessed him with much land
and he would wear such expensive clothing
and he would sneeze in it and then he would say to himself buying
buying it's like saying what's wrong with your IRA? From how you
were before living in the masjid barely anything to where now he's
what he's like you guys when you're on the Dave eight? Would
any of you you just bought Nike now forget about like, right? But
let's just say you just bought some expensive Gucci clothing and
you're on your way to the age saleha when you start sneezing in
your
or blowing your nose with your Gucci clothing you wouldn't do
that this is
not the allow to add item
right? You will go through struggles but Allah says in the
Quran what are the hola hola the nominal income while I'm in
Asante, Haiti layers the Khalifa Nam fill Allah, Allah has promised
those who do good deeds, and they come with iman and from the best
of good deeds is what seeking knowledge. He will give them
authority on the earth.
It's not going to be easy, but you have to be patient. As time went
on my brothers and my sister I would reflect on the statement.
Many today may not necessarily be in financial difficulty when they
go abroad, people vary, some are struggling, some Subhanallah go
through all the challenges.
Right?
I know a lot of brothers, they went through
marriage issues they ended up separating from their wives
because the wife just couldn't settle in within that environment.
Like being in Medina, my brothers and my sisters, not like the UK.
And many of our sisters May Allah bless them. They think when
they're on their way to El Medina, you know, when you go to an MRI
and five star hotel, you just come down here, Malaysia in the Rola.
Right, and then you come back up again.
And then you have your five star buffet.
It's not like that when you go right? To settle with your husband
right so they begin to feel you know very lonely because they're
so family
orientated hmm is a lot more conservative over there.
So we have to take a lot into consideration right it can be
difficult it can be hard, but you will reap the fruits inshallah to
Allah comes with great rewards
right I'm not trying to put anyone off by the way I struggle myself
but that hamdulillah if you ask me the struggles that I go through
like right now Wallahi being in Riyadh is not easy.
Right? And having my family over, we have to leave every three
months we have to go across the border because she doesn't have
what I residency. I have to drive all the way to Bahrain.
And I'm gonna just come in, right, it's not an easy thing. But if you
ask me that hardships, right, in comparison to the fruits that you
come out with, of course, I would prefer that Ellen.
Right.
familia.
So, I advise you guys all to be very patient. Right very, very
patient, especially in today's day and age. It requires what
for parents
to see Subhanallah we are being bombarded with information we are
being overwhelmed with filth and evil, more than the ideology is
that is stripping
our children of their Muslim identity. Agreed.
And we require or we need in fact, we are in dire needs huntleigh
Forgotten Mohammed Salim you were meant to read Quran today. Another
time you Shala blames that our VEDA
we need people Subhanallah that are able to repel these doubts.
Right.
Sorry, I suck.
So one of the benefits share of traveling to Saudi Arabia or any
of these Islamic countries to travel is obviously spending time
away from the temptations and all of the the ideologies in the UK.
And this count is a type of Hijra hydroxytoluene item but if you
brought in the question when it comes to his euro is his Euro
something that is necessity and compulsory upon Muslims in the UK
play first and foremost, my brothers and my sister I'm not
going to give a fit to I'm not going to issue a verdict saying
that it is compulsory upon every single one of you guys to leave.
That is not my role in this. I honestly believe it's one of those
issues that requires a body of scholars to come together and to
make this decision because it's very, very complex.
Right, Shai? kegiatan, very complex situation. You have what
how many Muslims in the UK Am I correct to say 4.1 million
quickly do a Google search and tell me please 4 million and then
I think in Europe is 25.4 I think that was long time ago when I
checked it
maybe it's a bit more now maybe it's a bit less shared mil column.
Yeah to boo Tamia will Tamia comes in it gives a fair to all of these
25 million they need to live where do they go
where should they go my brothers and my sisters sometimes you're
able to go to a certain Muslim country but
going there and then not being able to acquire residency does not
hit your my brothers or you're given what one year
to stay in this country. And it's pretty complicated. However I will
say this my brothers and my sisters especially to a lot of you
youngsters to start thinking about where I'm going to take my
children
I've already personally made the decision this is my personal
choice. And I think we can agree it is recommended saying why jump
is one thing but to say recommended to go to a Muslim
country or to a country that is much better than the situation
that in without a shadow of a doubt. This is agreed upon
however.
Right however my brothers my sisters, right?
I don't think a lot of us feel comfortable keeping our children
in these institutions.
So hey, you know once upon a time,
our generation, right if you saw someone walking funny
read between the lines, encrypted language.
Noise Whoa, whoa, whoa, you're right someone the way he's walking
is
not how a guy should be walking. They will call him all sorts of
names.
Am I wrong to say that
However today,
the kid that thinks otherwise, he will be seen as someone that's out
of touch with reality. Well, how the healthier 100 Then
it may even reach a point that he begins to say that this is awful.
There's nothing wrong with it
Where do you go with this? Like I've personally is just my
personal.
I don't want to be bringing up my children in this country. In fact,
I encourage people to look elsewhere. You go to different
countries, my brothers and my sister I'll just give you guys as
an example, right Mombasa Do you know, there's a lot of white
Westerners who have moved over there.
And they've now settled down. I've gone to some of these African
countries, my brothers and my sisters, and they have Asians that
are have been told about Asians, Indians and Pakistanis. They have
settled these countries, and they are the most what? Wealthy within
our society. And they came early on, they settled down Allah azza
wa jal opened doors.
The issue that we have sometimes is living in this country becoming
so comfortable, we feel as if
there is no other option.
Right at the expense of our children.
Maybe we start thinking from now, just exploring the option, right,
maybe 10 years down the line, you'll be in a better position
than someone who just wakes up then
it's honestly something to keep in our mind, I'm not going to say to
you go to this place, or go to that place.
Because even that is pretty complicated. Today, I was speaking
to a mirror poem about Hassan he said hello, as I've moved my
children to a
different country.
Right. And they've settled down well, how can I?
And I know a lot of people that have done that many Somali Messiah
that I've come across, all of them are leaving one by one.
Now we're part of the community within London Leicester, like
where did they go? Just panela they started thinking about this
topic maybe 10 years ago, and working towards it and Allah
subhanaw taala is Kareem.
What did we take today in personal lung? Which I think was the sixth
or the seventh etiquette right? Remember when I quoted him not
that you don't have to lie it? We all have memorized the Hadith of
the Prophet saw when he said, whoever leaves something for his
sake, what will Allah give him better? What did it no time say?
Whoever thinks they've he was the now leave haram for his sake, or
do something for his sake, and that Allah will not give him that
which is better for Calvin Nabila, he won the soul. He has had bad
thoughts of Allah subhanaw taala.
It's just something to really think about my brothers and my
sisters.
You know, testing times.
How would you advise the youth to deal with differences of opinion
in Islam? sectarianism is becoming prevalent through celebrity
Muslims
through ah, celebrity Muslims wondering 10 By that, what
influence is online? I am a lot of data saying I can't speak for the
question about the way on the stand is what do you guys on the
Sun one question?
Influences Tiktok was the jump online and they start giving out
fatawa I can see a couple of brothers nodding their head.
The Dow people,
my brothers and my sisters, if your car breaks down,
who you're going to go to? I will Tamia?
You call me to fix your car. I'm an expert in fixing cars. Right. I
have an engineer. I have a degree in mechanics
highenergy Mara has a serious question.
To join Ileana? Well, I'll start with ADA. Do you have a degree in
mechanics or martial law, mechanical?
Law, Homeric, right. But if your car breaks down who you're going
to code, you're going to call a
you're going to then look for the most qualified and the cheapest
ones ahead. You'll do your vetting. You're not just gonna go
to any random one, you're gonna go to the one who is not going to rip
you off and he's going to do a good job.
They've you become sick or you're going to go to someone who's in
third year met.
30 unmet or someone who's extremely experienced
someone who's experienced someone who's qualified.
Well, how can I my brothers and my sister when it comes to knowledge?
Why are you taking knowledge from any random individual, right? Who
just jumps online?
Shouldn't you go to those who are qualified? Someone just pops out
of nowhere a couple of years ago, he was a CrossFit trainer. Now
everyone's taking
Always remember
cave Yanni. Where are the Acela? Where are the questions to find
out? where he came from? Who sent him Yanni cave? Yeah, and how did
he
and he's across the board even with me you ask these questions
right? It's important to my brothers and my sisters important
messages somebody was sending Subhanallah What did he say in
Hadith reminds me of either who Cyril Amarula lady Khalifa and
tada Risa.
If the affair now is brought back to other than its fits people,
then what?
Wait for our minister artesania que Lilia and Maria Laurel Jahad.
From the signs of doubt that Ellen becomes what more scars and
ignorance becomes prevalent. She's more reason for you to ask. Even
the message Ancelotti was telling him he told us about a wound is
against the ROI of Allah. So he's asked who's the ROI of Allah?
Right? Some taffy.
Some ignorant, low life, the individual who starts speaking
about the religion.
Right, so we have to do our vetting. We have to do our due
diligence. Do you want to get married to a lady you will ask 101
questions. And now which is great. And all of this is who you take
knowledge from?
Because your religion is your religion? Sorry.
Seek knowledge is your religion.
Right?
For the
bark Luffy.
I'm going to open up the topic of marriage, and questions related to
marriage. And every time we put out these hot topics, there's a
lot of different questions. Every time I come here, they ask
question my marriage every time
I park there are only going to be four questions related to the
topic of marriage.
The first of them, there is a pandemic of an unmarried woman in
their 30s not finding suitable pious spouses. How would you
advise communities to tackle this?
They'd have to be very pragmatic and answering this question.
Right? I have a number of questions.
And of course, this is not for every single woman Hmm. So please,
no one take away from this that I am generalizing. Because, well, I
am not.
And I'm just going to be honest with you.
A lot of the time,
when brothers are looking for marriage, and they see a sister
that has passed the age of 25, they begin to ask these questions.
Why?
Right?
After the age of 25, she hasn't already married. Allah, He says my
sisters, I'm telling you guys, how these men think these men.
Right?
And we sometimes just have to deal with reality. Sometimes women
think a certain way. You just can't change that. And we have to
adjust to these various Okay, what do we do with this problem that we
have?
Right? Also is not fair to say that all women that have passed
the age of 25 Have they reached the age of 30?
Right? They are feminists, I hear sometimes brothers saying this and
federal law.
There are a number of reasons as to why sometimes a system may not
necessarily get married, right after reaching the age of 30, or
waiting up until the age of 30. Sometimes your simple other, it
wasn't decreed for her even though she was actively looking. And she
was trying to get the right guy, maybe she's in a locality where
most guys over there don't tend to be good individuals.
Right.
So, I advise you brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers,
right
that when a woman now reaches the peak of her beauty,
right, and there are studies that have been done with regards to
this that a woman reaches the peak of her beauty between the ages of
18 and 24
right
normally at the age of 18 and 24 What are they normally doing?
University like even when you look at the system,
right the system of society,
you have now taken these 18 to 24 year olds who are at the peak of
their beauty, right. And it is at this stage of their life when
their
temptations are greatest Saha
The Shaohua it's a spiraling out of control.
Right? The sexual design, you've placed them all in one place. What
do you think is going to happen?
You have your answer.
It's honestly something to think about. These are realities my
brothers and my sisters, I know parents, they listen to the
videos.
What we see on a day to day basis may well be something you will
never come across. It is horrifying. Shocking. What happens
in schools? Now it's trickling down to secondary schools. I speak
to teachers, they relay information back to me of what
some of these youngsters are doing. They're
right. It's a different time.
It scares the living daylights out of me that I have two daughters
that may well grow up in this society.
What should I do shall just sit here and cry about the situation
how many times have sisters come up to me? feeling a sense of
regret? Well, I wish I got married earlier.
If you guys don't believe me, let me find this right.
Have you guys heard of I think her name is
on second.
Harris
think her name is Paronella
Wyatt.
You know she has my brothers and sisters.
The ex girlfriend of Boris Johnson
has had a Boris Johnson show you guys remember his house?
You know what she said this is recently and I'm giving it to you
guys from the horse's mouth from the Daily Mail.
Because her Daily Mail show you how
wonderful.
They posted this. The title says the following I am single. This is
the lady code Petronella Wyatt, the ex girlfriend of
Boris Johnson.
She says I am single, childless and alone.
Feminism has failed me and my generation. This is what she
writes. She wrote herself brother and sisters.
No one forced her to write it.
Write
down Allah. When you think of what feminism stands on my brothers and
my sisters are calling for the structure of society to be
changed. In order for men and women to be equal.
This was unheard of before the 1960s right when second wave
feminism started becoming so much more widespread. Right and showing
opposition to the traditional role that a woman has had throughout
history. So basically, in other simple terms, that for 19 Or
should I say 1960 years, humanity was last till these ladies came
along, after the 1960s who began to advocate for women's rights.
And by the way, my brother's gonna today we spoke about it right and
the hotbar for those who came. Islam gives women the rights that
no other religion or more than the ideology will, it gives her that
which will serve her best interest.
Sorry, I tend to kind of like ramble on a little bit. But
I think that was important to mention. So to conclude the
question my brothers and my sisters, I advise the brothers to
be open minded to ask, do your vetting you have every right to do
so? Not every single Sistar right.
Is single for whatever the negative reasons that are
mentioned today.
Right. And sometimes what they do is they repent.
They realize what they may have been doing wasn't always
compatible with the religion. Like it seems like Petronella white,
she made Toba
looks like Hello, she's remorseful.
On the Islamic Toba with a con.
When I asked the first question, a lot of people actually laughed
that marriage is the most popular topic, but the reality is, and you
have young people asking about it. You have unmarried older people
asking about you have divorce easier people that are married
asking, and the questions that come are an important topic. And
so I know it's a little bit of a light hearted subject for some
people. But this is the reality of the community and the needs of the
community and from the law. We have our study to answer. So I do
ask people to take a little bit
More seriously.
Question asks, I got to know a girl I'm planning to marry her.
But she accidentally told me that she had a physical harm
relationships of a few years. A while back. I can't get out of my
head, but everything else is perfect. It's been six months and
I'm still thinking about it unfortunately.
First question that I have is has this individual may Toba to Allah
subhanho wa Taala or not?
This is crucial. There's an important part of the question.
Have they met all but if they haven't, right? It wouldn't be
lawful for you now to marry a woman whom
is promiscuous going around doing haram? Right? Why would you want
that for yourself? That is torture for you and your future kids.
Secondly, if a woman has made Toba,
we know that the message is alive said what? A Thai woman and then
B, come in, let them below the one who repents, then it is as if they
don't have them. This is a choice you would have to make no one is
forcing you to go ahead with it. If you feel uncomfortable, and you
feel that this may not necessarily be your forte, right? No one's
going to force you to move ahead with that. Or even blame you for
that. Right? There's just certain things that someone doesn't feel
comfortable with.
Right? You either take or leave.
Does that make sense?
So
can new conditions be entered into an ICA contract sometime after the
wedding? by mutual consent? US Humber lights, hello, Ebola, are
very flexible when it comes to this.
Others disagree. And they refuse like the Hanabi. They say hey, if
a woman
if a woman added to the contract,
that you can't get married to another wife? Shut out to do that.
According to Hannah Maria, she can do that. What do you guys think?
Michiga.
Likewise, after the contract, if he agrees to it,
right, then you've agreed to it, and you can refuse to agree to
that stipulation in the contract.
Does that make sense?
The next question, shouldn't married couples get counseling?
Without a shadow of a doubt?
Without a shadow of a doubt.
But who do you go to? This is actually one of the points that
we're going to cover tomorrow in our poem on the best of
etiquettes.
Shallow Tada.
Right, taking advice from the art people that are trustworthy. And
you're going to any random individual that is selling your
course online. Because now we're living in an era right of selling
courses and people are making millions out of it. Some random
individual he just packages costs in such a wonderfully appealing
way. And then you buy it because he has a nice thumbnail
for my circular.
You know what they do in Malaysia, my brothers and my sisters, that
you have to do a course before the marriage. We're actually
discussing this today. It may well be something that we have to start
incorporating into our society
that you don't get married till you go through that marriage
course. And as I mentioned today in the hotline, my brothers and my
sisters, many young men and women, they don't know how to be husbands
and wives, they don't.
Right, and the divorce rates are going through the roof. The same
way you learn about how to make although and how to perform the
salah. You have to also learn how to be a husband wife.
Right?
Shallow towel a fair reflection I'm going to go through it some
important fundamentals when it comes to marriage in the 25
minutes that I have are Fudger
right? You have to learn how to be a husband and wife.
Right?
This is very, very crucial.
Love Ireland. So before and even after getting married you just
discovered that you need to learn how to be husband and wife
type take a course from credible individuals that are qualified.
Whether you may be in Islam and those have experience this is
important. Sometimes a sister gives advice to another sister.
You should leave him I can't believe you still with him. Her
after he'd done one or two things when the masala is Salah is easy
to solve. She's basing of her experience
Sometimes guys behave like this he had a bad experience he went
through divorce Wallah I want him even heard a professor saying this
all women are devils I was belimbing and
insulting my wife as well or my mother Finestra which mean all
women are devils he had a bad experience now is generalizing
Why did you guys all look confused the only when I said that
I don't know what you're going through Allahu Allah
shine man Callum had this problematic making these
generalized statements are sweeping statements
subtle hair and the last question related to this sort of topic
is buying flowers for a girl you get into an awful marriage
considers how long
Leia gemera The author when it comes to this is that it is MOBA
until proven otherwise it comes to the house right
he's trying to be nice sometimes what certain either to do is they
come to the house with a gift
right so here
are the are the are Viola when it comes to house a gift some
chocolates
just drops it off. This is an either
it's a norm a tradition that many different cultures have instead of
coming empty handed is just a nice gesture.
Right
if you can even you know we know through legal Maxim's that will
also verify that you know Eva had he or sorry for the author when it
comes to our norms, our traditions, and are cultural
practices that it is permissible until proven otherwise. But when
it comes to the dean, if you can't do anything until you have an
evidence
you may notice Jani we are close to solid Malaysia. And the masjid
in the days of the summer is not as busy because a lot of people
tend to go to masajid combined mother Venetia. So what is the
ruling on combining Maghrib and Aisha in the summer months, given
the Aisha It's quite late and pleasure was quite early.
Ly This is a bit of a controversial topic. Right. And it
has been for many, many years. And I think is important to
realize very deep just recently in one of the WhatsApp groups who
haven't a discussion and there are scholars, contemporary ones that
have researched this issue.
One thing I was thought of saying is that this is an issue you had
the related issue. Right. This is an issue jihadi related issue what
does that mean? Those who came to whatever conclusion with regards
to this topic I shouldn't say whatever but that which is
substantiated with evidences and of course that which is in line
with the principles of a Sharia they have attempted to reach the
right conclusion so it shouldn't be an issue of Allah well Bara
love and hate
right, where you begin to now associate and this associate
because of it is a fifth he related issue
while the her brothers and my sisters right so the discussion
let me just go through very very quickly inshallah. Anna Well, the
discussion originates from and I think it's important to split into
two The first is right, does ratio time come in Arsalan?
Right.
We know ratio kicks in when
one does actually kick in.
Fish, which is
the disappearance of which type of Shafique isn't a chef I call Mr.
The red Twilight. That's how they translate in English.
Some scholars say this doesn't even what appear
in places like Northern Europe and in Britain between the month of
May and August. This is the conclusion that they reached.
Others use the 18 degrees theory.
Right. And there's a long discussion with regards to this.
Right.
Even though the Asan my brothers or my sister is that each prayer
needs to be prayed at its specific appointed time in masala decanter,
Momineen Kitab and Mahkota. That's the awesome however, if you happen
to be in places like Scandinavia, or in a place now where it doesn't
appear mother Turfan some scholars will say you do something called
what a duck deer so you estimate when the timings are going to be
for each salah.
The second part of the question my brothers and my sister would be
pertaining to.
Right, combining between the salaat.
Like I said before the apostle is that each prayer is prayed at its
appointed time. So we don't differ with regards to that. However, as
we spoke about earlier when discussing the issue of voting,
our Sharia is fixed. However, because of the flexible framework
that we have, it adjusts the variables due to the quickly
changing reality on the ground and the change of circumstances.
And we have legal Maxim's one of the legal Maxim's that some of the
contemporary scholars have taken into consideration when dealing
with this topic is Alma Chaka to tragedy bootay. See,
hardship facilitates is
right, as Hannah Billa Oh, sorry, Mariah when it comes to as Gemma
because of the Azov they mentioned a number of other one of them is
how the one of them is modeled. Also, when it's raining, right,
they may now refer to this position. And likewise, when, when
my brothers or my sisters, you fear for your work and your risk,
and so on and so forth, that he may well become affected. Right.
And these are scenarios that would normally allow you for you that
will normally allow you to be absent from Jim and Jana.
So long story short, I may have gotten you lost over there. But I
think is worth mentioning, I don't like some of these controversial
issues to be answered in one or two words. I like to make people
understand why chefs conclude. Right, with a certain view. One
time my chef said to me, I had one of the machines that taught us
he said don't look at the photo that has been issued, look how he
came to that conclusion.
And that's very, very powerful. Sometimes we youngsters may look
at a view and think this is Tamiya This is watered down this person
is trying to make things helot No, that's not always the case.
Especially if that individual is a well educated qualified credible
person
a person of knowledge
right. So anyways
within the humbly myth hub, you may find
right that which will facilitate this is in allowing to combine the
prayers my brothers and my sisters in difficult situations as such.
However, one thing that doesn't make me feel comfortable is the
misogyny imposing it. And everyone joining these prayers were a what
combined mockery Marisha on every day of the week, if someone has
that kind of difficulty, and he took that legislated concession
that Rosa then be it was for everyone to do it. On every day of
the week. Sometimes you have work and you find hardship, and other
times you don't.
It doesn't sit well.
Right. doesn't sit well. But like I said my brother's Emma says
isn't he had the issue. It has been thoroughly researched by
different machines, and they reach different conclusions. It
shouldn't be an issue that you base well our on.
Does that make sense?
Zack, come to the last few questions. Inshallah.
This question relates to women giving Dawa publicly Is that
something that is allowed? Is that something that is encouraged?
My brothers and my sisters I personally, right. And this is the
position of many others is all a woman coming out and publicly
giving our right is not something that you should be doing.
I know some may get upset at hearing this, but and I'll tell
you guys why. When it comes to a woman participation in the public,
we can maybe narrow it down to two important things. Number one,
she should be dressing with the correct Islamic dress code. And
number two, she shouldn't be drawing attention to herself. She
shouldn't be what drawing attention to herself.
She should be away from the public eye meaning when there is men
looking at her and so on. So as much as possible. What's my
evidence for this? When the messengers I went Allah azza wa
jal, he said and sort of nor while I have the ribbon, or Julie Hina
Lee, you're a lemma your foenum in Xena Tina. She was prohibited from
cluttering her feet. Right a woman that's wearing heels what does
that do? It grabs the attention so she clapped his feet. So the women
were instructed not to write clutter their feet on the floor
which will be
Right,
cause the attention to be gravitated towards her.
Does that make sense? And likewise, you have in the time of
the messiness, allottee, within we had the eyeshadow, the alota.
Alana taught so much.
If it was needed for a male companion to get hadith of hurry
would go and visit and there will be a barrier in between.
Does that make sense? And there is a guy that my brother in law says
something that they could have done, which they didn't do is
something that we shouldn't do as well.
I'll say that, again, something they could have done, which they
didn't do, right? We shouldn't be doing.
She could have done that. Couldn't she have stood in front of
everyone's thought, giving a lecture?
But she didn't do that. She took a very different approach. So I'm
very very for a woman coming into the masjid teaching women, women
only get togethers wonderful. I encourage that highly, but her
coming out into the public, right? And she's dressing up and
beautifying herself and then giving a lecture in front of both
men and women.
Exactly Lucha
question asks are things people were around their neck or arm
haram? Even if he has Quran
I think what they're referring to is stairways. And in Samadhi, they
call it heresy.
Right, they call it heresy soften Somali. And in the Arabic
language, they refer to it as time. So I'm going to split this
into two you have wearing the towers that has Quran in it, and
then you have others with regards to the issue of whether it has
Quran in it. This is an issue my brothers and my sisters that the
cell of the companions themselves differed on.
You have the likes of Abdullah, I have not I would have not asked
who may say, Oh, who said in fact, right? That there is nothing wrong
with it. Many of the companions and this is the position of the
dominant majority.
Right up to live in Massoud, I believe if Nagas as well. And many
of the other companions. They said when it comes to Quran, they
shouldn't
write even Ibrahim and now he said Canada's herbal rasool Allah is
Allah Azza wa sallam he Accra Hoon
right yeah, Accra Hoon wearing it, whether it has what Quran or not.
And here your Quran is important that we know when the righteous
practices are the earliest scholars, they use the term your
Quran, they mean by it what haram not McCraw, which means disliked.
That's a very, very important distinction does it also Leone
mentioned?
Right, and their reasonings are many one of them is
that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he taught us how
to protect ourselves.
When we have the Companions, my brothers and my sisters differing,
and the views are clashing. You shouldn't favor one over the
other. I'm just going to take what this companion said and leave the
other know, what we need to do in these kinds of cases is that which
is closest to what the messiness OLALIA, some may have said and
what did the messiness allottee with lm t shirts, either awaited
Fe Rogic when you now come to your bed, you will remain under the
protection of Allah subhana wa Atana when you read certain, or
AYATUL kursi
right said for CRO AYATUL kursi he will remain under the protection
of Allah Hatha used to be until the morning so this is what the
message is Allah Allah He was taught that and he could have
taught us this, but he didn't. Also we know my brothers and my
sisters are asked to fill a beret what however, the officer when it
comes to a badda is that
it is impermissible until you find that evidence. I'll say that
again. Remember, you mentioned when a submission or I'm in
Omotola division or number school, you cannot do anything in the
religion until you have an evidence agreed?
Can I just decide to start praying now six prayer
and to hula until I find the evidence?
I have to ask okay, did the messengers awesome say it is I
mentioned the Quran? Where did the Companions do this? I have to ask
the question.
Right. And also, when you think about it, my brothers and my
sisters, a lot of the time people become too attached to these
things that they wear around their necks and it could lead to that
which is far more problematic.
Right? You begin to rely on this
when you should be drawing that kind of Reliance to who are
directing it to to Allah subhanaw taala as he is what have you.
And other reasonings that the Allama mentioned with regards to
why like you have the Quran other than the Quran, my brothers and my
sister well I take this from me, a lot of that which people have been
prescribed. It sounds like you would prescribe some dough or
write some medicine.
When you are sick, you go to the pharmacy and then they press
graffia medicine, this is what happens today. Someone has a in or
whatever they say to him go to so and so and he will prescribe for
you and you don't know what's being inserted in these heresies
or this terminal him or these services. I have opened it myself
walleye how many cases? How many cases you open it you find the
names of frown. Herman Qarun, Abu Lahab
and the satanic names there was even a project that some brothers
were running it was called the tower wheeze project.
They would put these boxes outside of the messages and people will
come and put it in there you open it Wallah has got devils names on
there, and the messiness allottee, some says in Naraka with Tana mot
well at a shake
the rakia that has Shirky stuff and also these talismans, right
until Wella, which is a type of car that does heavy making two
people love one another. They all share in another generation the
missing saliva segment. Nakatomi Mehta advocate Ashok messiness,
Eliza is saying that whoever hangs a Tomiyama there is what fall into
Shirke.
I hope that answers the question.
Zack will help welcome on pick two questions that are quite related
to cassava one masa. Someone asks if they read a little call, see
after the Salah. Do they have to repeat it with their cattle with
the Messiah? And secondly, if you if you read your daily at car and
your prayers, but posts on social media, are you still protected
from the evil eye?
So what was the first one was about a scar? Say? If you read it
in your eyes, of course did you read the book and as Kara
sebahagian my son also in your
life we know that the messenger salatu salam said
when you read the AYATUL kursi after your prayers, the only thing
that is stopping him from entering into Jana is him passing away.
Right so you read it then and his question is wife
come on guys.
The other
part of the question was if you read it enough Carlos Saba who
will Messiah like the messenger Latios and we'll say whoever reads
this upon entering right
when you look at the prayer that is happening at a certain time, if
it happens to fall under the generality of the timings of the
messenger, Salah ism talked about in the eschar then inshallah Tada
is hope that he will also be fulfilling that but at the same
time there's no manner there's no prevention you do it after each
prayer and then you do it at your at Cairo sobre el Messiah as well
your morning and your evening as curse. Right because the Messenger
of Allah Islam said specifically whoever reads the after every
prayer the only thing that's stopping him from entering into
agenda is what him dying. So do both in the uncanny gem about
torture Jia Have you able to do both of them then you don't need
to strengthen one over the other
the other part was about
so please What was the question?
If you read your daily ethical and your prayers
are you still protected from evil i If you post on social media, my
brothers and my sisters, I'm going to change the question also. Avoid
doing so.
Avoid posting your name online. Right? As much as you can
lie you know how
the evil is the reality. Right? It kills a camel and you will find it
in a stove.
Right being cooked a semester of Salado some said.
Zach Lowe hair and Zach McCray to all those who waited. The last
question is that it's a question we actually received different hot
topics but wasn't answered. And I was waiting for you to return to
ask it to you. Someone asked I take knowledge from the likes of
Abu Tamia. But recently I've seen pictures of him with people that
are set to be Shia. Is it sinful for me to take knowledge from him?
Shia
I don't think I have a picture with a Shia Lousiana
I don't think I have. But let's just say my brothers and my sister
even if I happen to be sitting or talking to someone who share,
right?
Why am I talking to him?
There's 101 reasons as to why I may be seen with that individual
isn't a soul. But to use this type of
you know one plus one equals two Oh, he was standing with a share
and someone took a picture
because they took a picture together, he's exactly like me and
even.
Even this issue, my brothers and my sisters, I really don't want to
go into it. Maybe we'll go into it.
On Sunday when we go through the treaties and Aqeedah, this issue
of when the self, the righteous predecessor, they talked about
staying away from sitting with the people of innovators, or
innovation,
containment comments, Allah, Allah, He who died, by the way,
728, so he doesn't have a horse in the race. Right? He hinged this
issue, or made it contingent on weighing between the pros and the
cons. If you've been with this individual, you will become
misguided and we say to stay away from him. But if someone now is
there, and there is an outweighed benefit,
more benefit is going to come out with you being there, or talking
to them than the Sharia right.
Takes this into consideration and observes it. As we mentioned
earlier, when we discussed the issue of voting, and masala when
we first said, weighing between the pros and the cons.
I don't believe in that question is accurate anyway, I don't know
where they got that from but
answering. And I've got a five hour video on this stuff. I don't
like returning back to these issues all the time five hour
video discussing these issues that has caused so many problems
amongst brothers who have the exact same doctrine, the exact
same theology, but they fight over these polemics that has caused so
much friction, right. So much for call. Disagreements between
brothers. Five hours is there in sha Allah Tala
zakat Maharaja just Jolo to announce that the sheriff's
schedule is going to continue tomorrow with the federal
reflections at 3:45am in Charlotte, solid visual, and then
the poem continuing the poem of good manners tomorrow after solid
last or 6pm And on Sunday, there will be the federal reflections
again and for the Sunnah, the amendment from at 6pm of solid law
So is that okay, so for those who don't know what we're covering, in
this month, OMA and this poem, we're covering the 82 of the best
of etiquettes we are all in need of bettering our Atticus and then
inshallah on Sunday, it's a treaties and aqidah right, and I
will be discussing some of the modern day ideologies, and how it
links with that which was documented
all of these years ago in these treaties of al Qaeda, like Kadar
that which is happening around us, right, all of these Muslims are
being butchered. How do we put this into perspective? Why is
Allah subhanho wa Taala stopping it?
Right shallow to allow me on Sunday?
Is that not fair inshallah. Again, Zakum la heron, may Allah bless
every single one of you all, for attending, so always a pleasure
coming to Mr. Furqan and seeing all of these glowing faces
attending to benefit. So Allah Allah Nabina Muhammad, and while
early he was happy with