Abu Taymiyyah – Hadeeth 3 Bulooq Al Maraam Chapter Of Night Prayer , Itikaaf & Laylatul Qadr

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The importance of remaining in the same line of life for a period of time is emphasized, along with the negative impact of technology on people's lives, including mental health issues. The importance of studying and practicing at the same time to become a successful man is also emphasized. The segment touches on issues related to the message of Allah Alaihi Waslification, including the possibility of a woman being sexually assaulted, the loss of men due to the message, and the potential impact of the message on the heart of a man.

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			The messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam he used
		
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			to do a tikaf in the last 10
		
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			days of Ramadan.
		
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			Until Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala took his life.
		
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			And then after that his wives, they don't
		
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			have tikaf after that.
		
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			What are you guys? And the hadith is
		
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			Mutafakun Aireh.
		
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			What does Iftikaf mean? We need to stand
		
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			over the issue of tikaf for a moment.
		
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			The poet says,
		
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			The first line he mentions it's a'arif,
		
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			the definition of Iatikaf.
		
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			Iatikaf my brothers and my sisters, it is
		
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			to remain in the
		
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			Masjid. For the purpose of worshipping Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Are you with me guys?
		
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			Remaining in the masjid for the purpose of
		
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			what?
		
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			Gaining closeness to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. And
		
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			that's very very important guys.
		
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			Because when an individual now wants to go
		
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			into the Masjid
		
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			because he wants to sleep, is he gonna
		
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			get the roads back together? No. He has
		
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			to be for the purpose of what?
		
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			I am now what's getting closer to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala. And the hikman behind that, together my
		
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			brothers and my sisters,
		
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			is that the heart now becomes devoted to
		
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			who? Allah
		
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			And you keep yourselves away from all types
		
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			of distractions.
		
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			So if an individual has his phone, guys,
		
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			he's on his
		
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			phone.
		
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			He's in the Masjid and outside the Masjid
		
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			at the same time. What's the point?
		
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			Because these phones, guys,
		
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			is a very very big distraction that has
		
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			destroyed the lives of many. Not just what
		
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			you said at the time, it's destroying their
		
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			lives.
		
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			The guys become addicted to it. The poet
		
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			he says,
		
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			He ended up getting the internet. You know
		
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			the word internet is an English word, right?
		
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			He put in the Arabic line of poetry.
		
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			That's how bad it became.
		
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			I began to dislike the Internet.
		
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			And then my, you know, my my chest
		
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			became so tight.
		
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			And the reason why I hate the net
		
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			is for a number of issues,
		
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			a number of reasons.
		
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			And from these reasons is what? It is
		
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			a
		
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			it's a very deep ocean.
		
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			You find that ends up wasting so much
		
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			of your time.
		
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			Me, when I'm in Medina, guys, I don't
		
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			have Internet.
		
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			Whoever wants to die can die, whoever wants
		
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			to live can live.
		
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			I went there to study, and I know
		
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			if I have Internet, I know myself.
		
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			I'm gonna get very very I'm gonna feel
		
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			very very sorry for all those, you know,
		
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			mothers and sisters and brothers who are going
		
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			through problems, and I'm gonna spend so much
		
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			of my time sending voice notes, dealing with
		
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			this. I'm gonna struggle to deal with it.
		
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			Allah and my brothers
		
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			and my sisters, it was the biggest nihmah
		
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			that Allah gave me when I went to
		
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			the Deelah.
		
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			First day, when I when I went to
		
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			the Internet, I went to the phone shop
		
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			to buy Internet.
		
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			I forgot my money.
		
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			And the next day,
		
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			Again, I forgot my money. I'm thinking I've
		
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			got it. And then I realized, what? I
		
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			was in a different thought.
		
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			3rd day
		
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			well, like I said, I'm not exaggerating.
		
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			I walked in. The guy goes, he doesn't
		
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			have because I was looking for, the modems
		
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			that we put the SIM inside. What do
		
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			you call it?
		
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			Router. Router.
		
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			I was looking for the router. He goes,
		
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			oh, brother, it's finished.
		
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			He goes, come back tomorrow.
		
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			I'll go back on the 4th day. Wallahi
		
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			stood at the door. He's like, Mohammed, don't
		
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			you think there's Hikma behind why there was
		
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			3 days you couldn't find it?
		
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			And you know this is gonna busy you.
		
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			You got the 4 corners of the world
		
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			people contacting you.
		
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			I'm all like, guys.
		
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			If you really, really wanna memorize,
		
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			you're gonna have to get rid of your
		
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			Internet at the time of memorization.
		
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			You really would have to.
		
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			As a brother, I mentioned this before ago,
		
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			some of my YouTube channel.
		
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			He said to me, Abutaim, I can't memorize
		
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			man. You really can't.
		
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			I said to him, Akhi, get rid of
		
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			your phone, brother.
		
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			Because I sit for hours, I can't even
		
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			go have a page.
		
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			So switch off your phone. He was one
		
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			of them guys. Every time he messages me,
		
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			every time I message him, Ubaid Shah is
		
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			online.
		
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			He's online very quickly.
		
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			Like, ding. Me, I switched up all my
		
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			notifications on my phone. I don't wanna know,
		
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			brother.
		
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			Please, just let me live.
		
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			Let me learn. Let me study.
		
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			Only when I go in and out of
		
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			the jammer, there's like, you know, some Internet
		
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			through the jammer, it gets connected.
		
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			That's when I ask the people's question offline.
		
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			Because I didn't go in order to be
		
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			the Mufti Salam,
		
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			one in Madinah, guys.
		
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			And in order to be the Mufti to
		
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			ask people's questions, I wanna study.
		
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			I wanna learn. If you wanna learn, guys,
		
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			you really have to do something by your
		
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			phone.
		
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			So point of the matter is,
		
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			people come into a tikaf and they're on
		
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			their phones. It's inside and outside at the
		
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			same time.
		
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			Inside and outside at the same time.
		
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			Also, what tends to happen sometimes, guys, and
		
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			this defeats the purpose of Iktikaf.
		
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			The
		
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			place where he sleeps has become like a
		
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			station.
		
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			You know a train station?
		
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			Guys know what train station is? Or bus
		
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			station? What do bus station and train station?
		
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			What happens there?
		
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			It's a meeting point. Right?
		
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			It's a meeting point for you to take
		
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			the bus.
		
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			Everybody crowds there, they get together, and so
		
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			on and so forth.
		
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			That's what's become.
		
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			It's called it's called it's called shahi.
		
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			You read me, guys.
		
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			Instead of him now beating himself with worship
		
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			at night, the guy's got his his guy
		
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			who's also got his hallelujah.
		
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			The whole place is circulated. People are coming
		
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			there. They're chilling, relaxing,
		
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			or chillaxing as they say.
		
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			What's the point of your Atikav?
		
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			This is not atikav, guys. It really isn't.
		
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			When does the take place?
		
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			Last
		
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			week. Zayi? Anytime. Anytime.
		
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			Anytime of the year. More recommended in the
		
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			month of Ramadan and even more recommended last
		
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			time.
		
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			Even if it is for one moment.
		
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			Even
		
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			if it is for a moment.
		
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			Obviously with what?
		
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			With the intention of what?
		
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			Doing the tikaf.
		
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			Who's made the tikaf when they came to
		
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			the masjid?
		
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			You made
		
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			He made it right now.
		
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			He made it right now. And to the
		
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			marriage, some scholars they say, one night or
		
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			one day.
		
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			And they took that from the hadith of
		
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			Umar Khattab radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu. So, ma'am, when
		
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			he said,
		
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			He said in Jahiliya,
		
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			Omar is saying this, I made a vow
		
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			that I'm going to do a tikaf for
		
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			a night in the Hazir
		
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			Haram.
		
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			Guys.
		
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			And he ended up doing it for a
		
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			night. So they said, okay, the least is
		
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			what? A night or a day.
		
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			When,
		
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			inshaAllah, this issue is quite broad.
		
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			Perhaps, you know, we wanna open the door
		
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			for people to get rewarded inshaAllah.
		
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			Is there any verses that you guys know
		
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			about with the Wasabdikaaf?
		
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			Who am I giving a hadith?
		
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			Okay. We hear about him all the time
		
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			He was a student Imam Ahmed. He asked
		
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			him, do you know any hadith that speak
		
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			about the virtue of the atikaf? He said,
		
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			I don't, except narrations are weak.
		
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			So what we're doing it for?
		
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			Brothers and sisters, the mere fact that the
		
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			messengers of Allah Alaihi Wasallam done it, and
		
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			also his wife has done it after he
		
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			passed away,
		
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			and continue to do so.
		
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			It's enough of an honor.
		
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			You have a perfect example in the mess
		
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			of Allah,
		
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			and it doesn't stop there.
		
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			Who before him done it?
		
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			This is a Sunnah of your forefathers,
		
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			Ibrahim and Ishmael.
		
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			And if you imitate them in doing this
		
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			act,
		
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			They are the ones that Allah has guided
		
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			and take their guidance as a guidance.
		
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			You with me guys? Allah told you to
		
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			take their guidance as a guidance.
		
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			Who is he going to be with?
		
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			Those who Allah has bestowed his favors upon
		
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			them?
		
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			Prophets
		
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			The martyrs. The martyrs.
		
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			And
		
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			what an excellent company to be in.
		
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			I'm gonna ask you guys a question, what
		
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			is the Hikma behind it being specified for
		
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			the last 10 days?
		
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			Why the messengers are doing the last 10
		
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			days?
		
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			It's to get a little
		
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			Jamil,
		
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			before that, I'll give you guys
		
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			Why? Because he was looking for.
		
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			Then I ended up doing a
		
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			in the second 10.
		
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			Then it was said to me,
		
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			it is in the last 10 days.
		
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			Meaning,
		
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			the last 10 days.
		
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			Last
		
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			10
		
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			days. What about the women?
		
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			Can you?
		
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			Yes. Yeah.
		
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			Yeah. So yes. Yes. Yes. Some said no.
		
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			Some said that? Yes. Yes.
		
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			They can do.
		
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			3 conditions.
		
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			First one is
		
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			She has to be clean from her menses.
		
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			While the second condition is
		
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			you got like 30 women,
		
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			and you will say, hey, guys,
		
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			do you think there's gonna be a problem?
		
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			It's gonna be a problem.
		
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			He might become infatuated in this country just
		
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			because of hearing her her voice, right?
		
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			Them laughing, joking, that might hit his heart.
		
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			1 just listening to a woman could really
		
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			destroy his heart. Am I wrong for saying
		
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			that, guys?
		
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			That could really possibly happen.
		
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			And then I take off, what is the
		
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			behind it?
		
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			That one's heart becomes fully what? Devoted to
		
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			Allah as a way he's not distracted.
		
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			Especially if the guy is not married,
		
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			and he can hear the women
		
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			speaking, joking, laughing, It could really really affect
		
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			his heart.
		
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			3rd condition is
		
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			The husband gives a permission.
		
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			What's the second
		
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			one? There's no fit or not.
		
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			It's not permissible law for for a woman
		
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			to fast
		
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			while her husband is there with her,
		
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			accept with his permission. Are you with me,
		
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			guys?
		
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			If a woman now wanted to fast, a
		
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			voluntary tired fasting,
		
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			She's not, except with his permission.
		
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			You guys with me? Because he might need
		
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			her. He might wanna, you know, get intimate
		
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			with her. And if she's fasting, you can't
		
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			do that.
		
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			And the guy might end up being deprived.
		
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			Especially being in a society where
		
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			there's so much Shirdana.
		
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			He comes running into the house, the messula
		
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			has done that one time. He end up
		
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			seeing a lady, he went home and he
		
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			had
		
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			done his thing, you
		
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			know. So now, especially in that time, it
		
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			wasn't even as bad as this time. He
		
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			runs into the house and then he finds
		
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			his
		
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			wife asking. What's he gonna do?
		
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			If you're a guy, that'd be cool.
		
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			Anyways, read between the lines.