Abu Taymiyyah – Coronavirus & Last 10 Days of Ramadan

Abu Taymiyyah
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The importance of fasting during busy months like Easter is highlighted, with a message to avoid feeling like too intelligent or smarter than it is and to be mindful of upcoming seasons. The speakers emphasize the need for forgiveness and a willingness to forgive one another, as well as the importance of seclusion and seeking forgiveness in the face of oppression. They also recommend paying charity and a website called 83 years.com, which takes out money from one's bank account and provides a chance to pay a monthly donation to help individuals. The segment also emphasizes the importance of not feeling caught up in the current crisis and not losing faith in oneself.
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My brothers and my sisters,

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another Ramadan,

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another 30 days

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that is about to get away.

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Have we benefited from our Ramadan?

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This is a question

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we need to be asking ourselves

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as the 21st night is about to kick

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in.

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We know from the famous hadith of

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She said,

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Ramadan. If the last 10 days kicked in

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from the month of Ramadan,

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the the messenger

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would do the following.

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He would tighten,

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as they say in Somali,

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his Or in Pakistani, they say the,

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the lower garment.

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The messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam would tie

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it. This is as figurative speech,

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meaning he would up his game.

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And he would also bring life

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to his night.

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And he would also wake up his family.

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His pure,

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immense wives,

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the greatest of women to walk on the

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face of this earth.

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So we know from this hadith, my brothers

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and my sisters, that he used to up

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his game. He used to do better than

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that which he used to do in the

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first twenty.

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This reminder that I'm about to give my

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brothers and my sisters,

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I want also the sister

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who is not going to be able to

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fast and to pray

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in these last 10 nights to really pay

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attention to it, pay a lot of attention

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to it.

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And the reason why I say that is,

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year in year out,

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sisters are messaging and saying, what can I

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do?

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Because I can't pray and I can't fast.

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I feel like I'm missing out.

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There is a lot that you can do.

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The brothers can benefit from it, and also

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the sister who might not be able to

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fast and and pray

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can benefit immensely from this.

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Why my brothers and my sisters do we

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strive so hard

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in the last 10?

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When the horse is about to reach

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the end of the race,

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it exerts all of its efforts

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in order to win the race.

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So ibn al Josi says to you,

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Don't let the horse be more intelligent, be

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more smarter than

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you.

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If you didn't do well,

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welcoming the month of Ramadan,

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perhaps

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you can do better

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bidding it farewell.

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It's about how the race finishes.

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As Ibn Taymiyyah

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mentioned,

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What really matters is that you finishing the

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race

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in a complete manner,

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in a complete manner.

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Doing it as perfectly as you can, as

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you're getting to the end of the ibaadat.

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Not the deficiency

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in the beginning of that act of worship.

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Ibn al Qayyim

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in his kitab,

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he mentions

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The people who are upright in their religion,

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they

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strive harder at the end of the ibadah

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than they would

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in the beginning of it.

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Hassan al Basir

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yukfarlakama

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mother

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For indeed you don't know when you are

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going to attain the mercy of Allah

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Ramadan. It could be that this is the

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last hour of the month of Ramadan.

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So keep going my brothers and my sisters.

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Do not lose hope.

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There is still time. Do not feel heartbroken

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thinking that you have missed out.

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You can still immensely

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benefit from it. You can attain

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that forgiveness from Allah

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This is what we're trying to do. Right?

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In the month of Ramadan, we fast.

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We're praying in the nights

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on Laylatul Qadr as it came in the

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hadith,

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Whoever fasts, whoever stands in the night, and

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whoever stands on laylatul Qadr

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with iman

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and htisab.

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Iman

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He believes

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firmly in the reward of Allah

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and also

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and seeking the face of Allah through that

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which you are doing.

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Your intention is only for Allah

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You will have your past sins forgiven. We

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wanna be forgiven, right, my brothers and my

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sisters?

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We don't want to be from those

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who the messenger

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made du'a against, and Jibreel said,

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May the nose of that person be dragged

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in the sand.

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It is a figurative type of speech that

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the Arabs use,

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meaning destroyed destroyed

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is that person.

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When the month of Ramadan kicks in,

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it departs,

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and it hasn't been forgiven.

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So my brothers and my sisters, strive your

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utmost best.

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I constantly keep receiving messages

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on the different platforms of social media,

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being asked,

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when is?

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When

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is?

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You know my brothers and my sisters, what

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Ibn Khaym

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he mentioned,

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He says,

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If

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was in any of the days of the

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year,

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then I would have stood up

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on every single night

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of the year

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until I catch the night of al Qadr.

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And then he says,

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If that is the case, then what do

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you think

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about the last

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10

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nights?

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Year in, year out, we see that the

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are extra packed on the other nights,

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especially on 27th.

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The 28th night comes, you find that the

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mezr is half empty again.

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How can you say with surety

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that Laylatul Qadr is going to be on

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the 27th or 23rd?

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It is

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more expected that hopefully it's going to be

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on these nights, but we can't stay with

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surety.

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As it came in the hadith of Irbad

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ibn Samit,

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the messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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said,

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I exited my home to inform you about

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when the night of alqadr is going to

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be.

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The messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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he saw 2 people arguing, involved in a

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disputation,

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argumentation.

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That peace of knowledge that the messian had

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disappeared. It was raised.

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And he said, perhaps, this is better for

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you.

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So Ibn Kathir

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has a nice benefit. He said,

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disputations and argumentations, what it does is

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it kills off the benefit.

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Point of the matter is my brothers and

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my sisters, we can't say with surety

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when Laylatulqadr

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is going to be. This is ibn al

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Qayyim saying, I will stand

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every single night of the year,

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so I can catch later toqadr if I

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was told that the night of al Qadr

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would be on any day, any day of

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the

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year. It has been

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specified for us even more. It has been

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narrowed down for us

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the last 10 nights.

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So which

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intelligent person, my brothers and my sisters, and

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this is sarcastic,

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would just wake up on maybe the odd

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nights,

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or just maybe wake up for 1 night

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and then sleep for the rest.

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Mu'adashi

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said,

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Who is Abu Sahaba? He was from those

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who took knowledge from Ibn Mas'ud,

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Abdulai ibn Mas'ud and

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also Abdulai ibn Abbas.

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Abdullah

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ibn Abbas. He was from the most tremendous

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of the Tabi'in.

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You know what she said about him?

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He would pray so much

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that the only way they can get to

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his bed is by crawling.

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And this is exactly what the messian salallahu

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alaihi wasallam used to do,

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My brothers and my sisters, isn't this so?

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He would pray so much in the night

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until his feet would become swollen.

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Aisha

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she would say to him,

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why are you doing this to yourself?

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Hasn't Allah

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forgiven your past and your future sins?

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Allah tells us in the Quran, right?

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Allah tells us in the Quran,

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Your past and your future sins have been

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forgiven.

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His response would be,

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shall I not be

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a thankful slave?

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This is how he showed gratitude to Allah

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And then we

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deficient

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Muslims

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who sin regularly,

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we want to also be heedless in the

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last 10, my brothers and my sisters.

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So how can a sister who's on her

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menses

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benefit from this hadith?

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Messenger salallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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Aisha said about him,

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right?

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He would tighten his ma'wis, his lungi, his

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lower garment,

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meaning he would up his game.

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He would bring life to the night.

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And he would wake up his family as

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well.

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How can a sister

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of this kind benefit from this?

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The way she can benefit from this, my

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brothers and my sisters,

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is by waking up her family members.

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The one who encourages and indicates others to

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do good, directs them to doing all of

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these khairat,

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all of these good acts.

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It is as if he gets that reward

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as well.

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So encourage your husband.

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Don't use it as a night to just

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go to sleep,

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but encourage your household.

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Wake them up.

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Maybe even send

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messages around encouraging

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others to wake up in this night.

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Call some of your family members that might

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be a bit heedless. Encourage them,

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admonishing them

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to wake up and benefit from these days.

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Even

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How is it

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that one doesn't shed tears,

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that Ramadan is about to depart,

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and he doesn't know as to whether he's

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going to be able to return

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to this Ramadan.

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Lastly, my brothers and my sisters,

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would any of us have expected

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in their wildest dreams

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that the are going to be closed,

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that we wouldn't be able to stand in.

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Did that ever cross our minds, my brothers

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and my sisters?

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Did it ever cross our minds that so

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many people

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are going to pass away before the month

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of Ramadan, many of them Muslims?

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How can we be heedless, my brothers and

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my sisters,

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If the shayateen

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have been locked up,

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and also my brothers and my sisters,

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the shayateen of the inns,

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they are locked in their homes as well.

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So we don't have an excuse. How can

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we be heedless on these nights?

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So encourage

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my sister,

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your household.

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Encourage your husband.

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It came in the hadith of

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that the messenger said,

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May Allah have mercy upon the man

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who woke up in the night,

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who woke up in the night to pray.

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And he also woke up his wife, and

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she prayed,

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And if she refused,

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he would take water, and he would sprinkle

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it on her face.

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And may Allah have mercy upon the woman

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who stood up in the night and she

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started praying.

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And she also woke up her husband.

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She would take water, and she would sprinkle

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it on his face.

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And my sister, this is something that you

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can still do.

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Because

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as the messenger

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told us,

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if the one who was praying, or he

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was doing an act of worship,

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and then all of a sudden now,

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he can't do that because of traveling

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or because of a sickness,

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he still gets the same reward.

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He would get the reward

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of that which he would normally do when

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he was

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perfectly healthy,

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and also while he wasn't traveling.

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Can you see my brothers and my sisters?

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My sister

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have glad tidings

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that you can still attain an immense amount

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of reward.

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The second thing that I want to mention

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today, my brothers and my sisters,

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is something that is very, very dear to

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my heart.

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And we're going to stand over the hadith

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of Aishatah

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And this is something that every Muslim

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needs to do,

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and it's something that

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you, my beloved sister,

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that's not a rabao, that's not able to

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pray or fast,

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can engage in a zaw.

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The hadith of Aisha

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She said to the Messenger

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She said, O Messenger of Allah,

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if I come to know

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when the night of al Qadr is going

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to be,

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What do you advise me to say?

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Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam responded back, and

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he said,

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Oh Oh Allah,

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indeed you pardon.

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And you love to pardon.

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Forgive me and pardon me.

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This hadith was narrated by

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the 5 other than al Imam al Tilmidi

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My brothers and my sisters, there's a number

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of benefits that we can take out from

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this.

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And Ibn Rajab in his

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there's 2 things that I'm going to mention

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with regards to this hadith that he mentioned.

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And they are my 2

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most favorite quotes

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from this wonderful kitab called

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Lapayf Al Ma'arf.

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First thing that I want to mention my

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brothers and my sisters

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is when he said,

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Al

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Afoo is from the names of Allah

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And it is him, Allah

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who wipes away the sins

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of his servants,

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and removes any remaining traces of these sins.

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And Allah

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loves to pardon.

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And he loves to pardon

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his servants.

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And he loves for his servants

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to pardon one another.

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And then my brothers and my sisters, here

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is the catch.

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He

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says,

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If they pardon one another, then that's when

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he pardons them.

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And Allah

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pardoning

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his servants is more beloved to him than

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punishing them.

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Let me repeat that again so it resonates.

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If they forgive and pardon one another, then

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when that, then that's when he forgives them.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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we wanna be pardoned. I mentioned the 3

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hadith earlier. We fast.

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We pray. We stand in the night of

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al Qadr.

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From the rewards that we're trying to attain

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is what to be forgiven.

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You've done all of that,

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but imagine my brothers and my sisters, you're

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not forgiven, you're not pardoned simply because

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you weren't able to pardon

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those who oppressed

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you. And this is a reminder to myself,

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my brothers and my sisters first.

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Sometimes being oppressed can be very very difficult

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to forget.

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Or being spoken about can be very very

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difficult to forget. Especially

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when that individual, he laughs in your face,

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and then shows pure hypocrisy.

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Showing you that he is totally with you

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in that which you do, and that which

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you say, and that he agrees with you.

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And the moment

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he turns his back, he brings out the

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knife.

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This is even something that is common among

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students

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who are pursuing that sacred knowledge.

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Unfortunately,

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that can be very, very difficult to just

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overlook and pardon.

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And this goes in line my brothers and

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my sisters what the prophet

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said.

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Have mercy,

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and Allah Azawajid will have mercy upon you.

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Pardon and forgive one another, and Allah

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will forgive you.

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You know what we learned from this my

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brothers and my sisters?

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Treat

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others the way you like to be treated.

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We can't expect

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to always get what we want,

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and then we don't treat the people the

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same way.

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And what goes around comes around.

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This is something that our sharia, my brothers

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and my sisters, really pushes.

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And there's a number of examples that I

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can mention,

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but I'm not going to do that because

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of the nature of our

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speech at this moment in time.

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If we look closely at this hadith, my

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brothers and my sisters,

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who is the one that is giving this

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advice

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when he said

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to Aisha Say,

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Allahumma,

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oh Allah,

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indeed you pardon.

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Tohibbul

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a'fa'ani, you love to pardon,

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fa'fa'ani,

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so pardon me.

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It is the messenger saying this, who is

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he saying this to? He's saying this to

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Aisha.

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My brothers and my sisters,

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this is not any ordinary person

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that he's saying this to

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from the most righteous of those to ever

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walk on the face of this earth,

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He's telling her to ask Allah for forgiveness.

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She's just been working so hard

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in these 20 days,

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these 20 nights that have just surpassed,

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and on top of that, he's telling us,

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seek forgiveness.

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You know, Ibnur Raja

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says, my brothers and my sisters, and again,

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it's one of the most favorite quotes from

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this kitab

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by Ibnur Rajabi says,

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He only commanded her

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to seek forgiveness, and to ask to be

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pardoned.

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After working so hard

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in the first 20 days.

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Because he says,

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the real servant of Allah

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the smart and intelligent one,

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he works so hard.

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And then at the same time, he doesn't

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see himself having accomplished anything.

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But rather,

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he rushes back to Allah

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the same way a sinner would do

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upon committing a sin. My brothers and my

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sisters, when a brother has committed zina, or

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he's committed murder, or he's committed a major

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sin, What does he do? He sits alone

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and starts begging Allah for forgiveness, right?

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And he cries his eyes out.

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Ibn Rajab is saying to us that from

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the way of the awliyah

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is

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to do so many righteous actions,

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to really work your utmost best.

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And then after you've done all of that,

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you beg Allah azza wa jah for forgiveness.

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This is the way of the wali, the

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way of the awliya, the saints, and those

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who are very close to Allah

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Remember, my brothers and masters, what I said

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earlier.

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Who is he advising? Who is the prophet

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making

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or sending this advice to? He's telling

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Aisha He's telling her to beg for forgiveness

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after working so hard.

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Another thing that one can engage in,

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and also my sister,

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who might be on her monthly,

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who's not able to fast and pray,

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is

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to seclude yourself with Allah

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You might not be able to pray or

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fast, but that is something that you can

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do.

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And every single one of us can do

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that.

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Ibn Razi,

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he says,

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from the signs of those who truly love

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Allah

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And this is also how you attain

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala loving you as well.

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It is to love,

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to seclude yourself with Allah

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especially

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when it's pitch dark in the middle of

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the night.

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Is that not something that we can all

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do, my brothers and my sisters? Where we

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can attain the love of Allah

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and we ourselves, my brothers and my sisters,

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we increase in love for Allah

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That is definitely something that we can do.

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And while we are

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in seclusion,

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especially

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in the darkness of the night,

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we are crying to Allah

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begging him to forgive our sins.

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And we can also utilize this, especially you

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my sister, is to make du'a to Allah

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This is something that you can't still do.

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In the month of Ramadan, it is a

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month of rahmah,

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the month of mercy.

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And it could be that that du'a at

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that time

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gets accepted.

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The next thing that I want to mention

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is, that also my sister, you can engage

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in,

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and this is something that is universal,

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that brothers

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and sisters who are fasting,

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who are praying can also do is a

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sadaqah.

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It is to pay charity.

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As Ibn Abbas

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he mentioned,

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the messenger

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He was from the most generous of people.

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And he would even be more generous

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in the month of Ramadan.

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He would be quicker in giving charity than

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a passing win,

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As I mentioned.

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If we look closely, my brothers and my

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sisters, at the life of the messenger

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Aisha

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she said,

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One time the messenger

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he entered upon us, and he said,

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is there any food that is in the

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house today?

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The response was no.

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So the messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, what

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did he say?

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Saw

00:31:05 --> 00:31:06

him. She says.

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

He came on another day,

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and he asked,

00:31:13 --> 00:31:14

is there anything that you have?

00:31:16 --> 00:31:17

The response was,

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We were gifted with a type of food

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called hayse. It's something that is very humble

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

that they used to eat in the past.

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He said,

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He said, show me, indeed I woke up

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in the morning

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while fasting.

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He didn't have anything to eat, so he

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fasted.

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He wanted to eat that. Point of the

00:31:42 --> 00:31:43

matter is my brothers and my sisters,

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

even though this was the state of the

00:31:46 --> 00:31:47

messenger

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and his wives,

00:31:50 --> 00:31:51

on a normal day,

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he was still the most generous of people,

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especially even more generous in the month of

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Ramadan,

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quicker than a passing wind.

00:32:02 --> 00:32:05

And this is something that every Muslim can

00:32:05 --> 00:32:05

benefit from.

00:32:07 --> 00:32:07

Fassar,

00:32:09 --> 00:32:10

a man who's fasting,

00:32:10 --> 00:32:12

and a woman who's fasting,

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

and a woman who's not fasting at all.

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

And there is something that you can do.

00:32:19 --> 00:32:20

You can sign up to one of these

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

websites.

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

There is this maybe with this website called

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

83 years.com,

00:32:26 --> 00:32:29

and also crisis aid. They have this

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

option available where you choose

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34

how much you want to pay on every

00:32:34 --> 00:32:37

single night of Ramadan, and they just take

00:32:37 --> 00:32:38

it out of your bank account.

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

There's many websites like that. You can always

00:32:43 --> 00:32:46

pay that to a struggling masjid at this

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

moment in time as

00:32:49 --> 00:32:50

well. And one of these masages is like

00:32:50 --> 00:32:51

mister Al Furqan,

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

who definitely needs your help.

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

And imagine my brothers and my sisters,

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

how much reward you would get

00:33:01 --> 00:33:02

paying

00:33:03 --> 00:33:03

some sadaqa

00:33:04 --> 00:33:06

that will be in accordance to every single

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

night of the month of Ramadan.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:11

And it's very important that I point this

00:33:11 --> 00:33:12

out,

00:33:13 --> 00:33:15

and one of our brothers called Salab al

00:33:15 --> 00:33:16

Abbas just pointed this out in one of

00:33:16 --> 00:33:17

the groups

00:33:18 --> 00:33:19

that one of the sheikhs was asked this

00:33:19 --> 00:33:20

question

00:33:21 --> 00:33:24

about paying the sadaqa on every single night.

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

Does that mean my brothers and my sisters

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

we become complacent,

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or we take a seat back and we

00:33:29 --> 00:33:31

think that what we've committed is totally sufficient?

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

I don't need to pray, I don't need

00:33:35 --> 00:33:36

to do any more good deeds.

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

That is not

00:33:39 --> 00:33:42

the situation of a true believer, my brothers

00:33:42 --> 00:33:43

and my sisters.

00:33:43 --> 00:33:45

As we mentioned earlier about

00:33:47 --> 00:33:48

What

00:33:51 --> 00:33:51

did

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He says because the smart and intelligent, the

00:34:00 --> 00:34:02

true servant of Allah.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:10

They work so hard,

00:34:11 --> 00:34:12

and then after they finished,

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

they don't see themselves having accomplished anything.

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

The same way the sinner would beg Allah

00:34:29 --> 00:34:32

for forgiveness. You've done so good, cry like

00:34:32 --> 00:34:34

the one who committed a zina or any

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

other major sins. Cry your eyes, I'll ask

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

Allah to accept it from you.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:41

Because the believer, my brothers and my sisters,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

that's how he runs himself.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:48

Imam

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53

Si'idi, when he talks about those who are

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

taking the path to Allah in

00:34:56 --> 00:34:56

the hereafter,

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

He says, there are those who structured

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

There are those who structured their lives in

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

a way where

00:35:06 --> 00:35:07

they would worship

00:35:08 --> 00:35:09

Allah between alkhuf,

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

fear of that

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

action not being accepted, and also

00:35:17 --> 00:35:18

hope of the action being accepted.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

So you remain on your toes.

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

This is the way of the aliyah.

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

They do the obligatory acts and the voluntary

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

acts, while at the same time they still

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

see that they are falling short, they are

00:35:35 --> 00:35:36

falling deficient,

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

and that they can do better.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

So do that, hope for it to be

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

accepted,

00:35:44 --> 00:35:46

while at the same time you have fear

00:35:46 --> 00:35:48

that you won't get any of this accepted,

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

and that just pushes you on to keep

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

doing more.

00:35:55 --> 00:35:56

And the next thing that I want to

00:35:56 --> 00:35:58

mention my brothers and my sisters,

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

also to my sister who may not be

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

fasting or praying.

00:36:06 --> 00:36:07

Feed the poor,

00:36:09 --> 00:36:12

and also look after your neighbors, especially in

00:36:12 --> 00:36:13

times like this,

00:36:14 --> 00:36:17

where a lot of people are struggling financially.

00:36:19 --> 00:36:20

This is an advice

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21

that the messenger

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

gave to

00:36:24 --> 00:36:25

Abu Dharr

00:36:26 --> 00:36:28

And pay attention my brothers, especially you guys.

00:36:29 --> 00:36:32

This is an advice that the messengers given

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

Abu Dharr

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

He said to him,

00:36:41 --> 00:36:42

narrated by a Muslim.

00:36:44 --> 00:36:45

When you cook soup

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

try to cook a lot of it

00:36:53 --> 00:36:55

and then go and gift it to

00:36:55 --> 00:36:56

your neighbors.

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

Look out for them.

00:36:58 --> 00:37:01

This is normally seen as a female thing.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:01

Right?

00:37:02 --> 00:37:03

Messenger is advising

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

And this is something that you can still

00:37:07 --> 00:37:08

do, my sister,

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

who might not be able to fast

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

and pray.

00:37:14 --> 00:37:15

I ask Allah

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

to make these last 10 nights

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

the best 10 nights

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of our lives.

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My brothers and my sisters, they should really

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move us what's happening around us.

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The coronavirus

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is a big reminder to us all. Like

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I mentioned earlier, who imagined in his wildest

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dreams,

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last Ramadan,

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when it departed,

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that

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before this month

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started,

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so many people have passed away. So many

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Muslims have passed away.

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They are 8 feet down into the ground.

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That should really give us the reminder

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that

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we might not be able to get another

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Ramadan.

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Who would have imagined in their wildest dreams?

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And I'm going to conclude with something that

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I mentioned earlier,

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that Ibn

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Rajab said,

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How can a man not shed teeth?

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How can a man not shed teeth?

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And he doesn't know as to whether

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he has a return to Ramadan remaining in

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his life?

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