Abu Taymiyyah – Be My Bae Choosing a Spouse pt 01
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The speaker discusses various topics related to the man Insha'aleh and his spouse, including their attributes and characteristics for a spouse. They also mention a recent incident where a woman was pregnant and had sex with her husband, which was reported on social media. The speaker provides examples of how these sp People are seen walking around in public. They also discuss the spread of sexual misconduct in media and the negative impact it has on society. The Prophet sallali alaihi was allam said that the situation is becoming more worse and that knowledge is going to become very less, and illegal sexual relationships are going to become very apparent. The symbol of the hour is that knowledge is going to become very less, and the shyness of women is becoming so less as well.
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We've got brother Abu Taymiyyah.
If you lot don't know, he had the
opportunity to study in the Maj for 4
years in Yemen.
And, America is called Darul Hadith.
And Alhamdulillah,
you know the Baba came all the way
from Lesta to give the to the reminder
to you, Allah. So Insha'Allah,
pay attention,
have your questions ready,
and also the topic that he will be
covering is what to look into
a spouse. So when you're finding a wife,
what is the attributes or characteristics you wanna
find or look in in her, you know,
before you marry her? So give the mic
to the brother, and,
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So, before you let leave, I'm gonna give
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just to better ourselves and cover certain topics
that maybe you lot don't hear all the
time, and then an example for future events.
So, anyway, I'll give the mic to the
brother.
I'm assuming everyone single here.
Is there anyone here that's married?
Only 2.
3.
This is more like, you know,
convenient for the guys that are not married
unless you're looking for a second wife than
Alim Wasallam, Insha'Allah.
You know, brothers and sisters,
there's no sisters here. No brothers.
We used to give lectures to both people
and okay. Brothers, you know, we're
living in a time now, as you are
probably aware,
we walk on the streets of London, wherever
it might be,
to our right, to our left, we see
unlawful
acts. Evil is taking place.
You see women, especially when it comes summer,
it's it's very very hard for a person
to actually maybe walk on the streets of
London
with all of these women walking around in
such a
how can I put it like in such
a you know, their proper displaying themselves their
explicit manner?
My English goes missing sometimes in a
in such an explicit manner,
half naked, some of them
You
know, it's basically like so close that
barely anything is showing on their bodies.
And the Prophet
told
us,
There doesn't come a time except that the
time after it is more or
less.
We're living in 2016. If you look back
now, 10 years ago,
the situation that we're in now, was it
the same or has it become more worse?
It's become more worse. You find today some
of our sisters, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
guide them. It has reached the point now
where you find the hijab and a miniskirt.
This wasn't seen 10 years ago.
This was something unheard of 10 years ago.
And wallahi, don't be surprised
if you saw women coming out on the
beach, Muslim women wearing bras and wearing all
these stuff that the kuffar wear today, Naaman
wearing hijab on the same time as well.
This is something that is expected due to
the type
of
time that we're going through,
And also the prophet
told
us in hadith,
You're going to be following the people before
you.
Handspan by handpan
and arms length by arms length.
So the Prophet
said to him,
Are you talking about the Jews and the
Christians?
He said, Who else?
He said, Who else? And he came in
some narrations
that the Prophet
he said,
If you was to see them now coming
and having sexual * with them on the
road,
husband, a
is coming
from the Jews and the Christians, he's having
sexual * with his wife on the road,
you're going to find the people doing it
as well.
And I've mentioned this before in the previous
thing that they had the social fitna one,
that recently what happened was, I think it
was in Greenwich.
And this was going all over social media.
A Muslim family with the name Khan.
I don't know, the the wife was pregnant
and her hormones go over her. She got
over excited and she started doing with her
husband inside the mall.
And that's the hadith the prophet
told us this maybe 1400 years ago. We
never heard this yesterday or the day before.
It was something that happened a very long
time ago that the prophet mentioned, and we
can see it now happening in front of
our eyes. So the point is brothers and
sisters, as time goes
on and on,
our situation is going to become more worse.
Whatever was
When we heard about them, we start going
like, I started coming out about these affairs.
Today is becoming normal.
Today is becoming normal. And the Prophet sallallahu
alaihi wasallam also told us this, he
said,
From the signs of the hour
is that knowledge is going to become very
less. Ignorance is going to become so widespread.
Also that which is going to become very
apparent is
fornication, illegal
types of sexual relationship.
Relationships
are going to become very apparent,
very widespread.
Maybe when I went to primary school, not
primary school, forget primary school, secondary school,
I I remember they used to dare each
other,
they used to dare one another.
Who's going to go and hug that girl?
They're daring one another.
Who's going to go and hug that girl?
Today, why here in the universities,
who's going to ask that girl out and
who's going to basically
ask her to do maybe
a * move with her?
As you can see again, Zina is becoming
so widespread and wallahi the haya of women,
the shyness of women is becoming so
less as well. It's becoming normal, wallahi they're
boasting about it.
Someone sent me something yesterday on social media,
and they told me, look how the world
is coming up to
Some of these guys they're coming out on
Stratford.
I don't know their names, some of these
boys now they're coming out, and they've got
a camera, and they're basically interviewing the girls,
and interviewing the guys, would you like this
or would you like that? And the girl's
bossing about, yeah, I would like this.
Read between the lines.
So it's becoming very very widespread
and as we all know our Sharia is
arrahma.
Our legislation that we have in this Quran
and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi
wa sallam is arrahma.
Every problem that we have,
every fitna that comes our way,
you find
there is always a cure for it.
As the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,
Never did Allah
send down a sickness,
except they send down with it what?
This Quran that we have in front of
all in front of us.
Allah says, we have sent down in this
book that which is a cure for the
people's hearts.
And without the shadow of a doubt,
forget about a woman coming in front of
you, the voice of a woman,
the voice of a woman
can be a sickness to a person or
to a guy's heart. Allah
tells us,
Do not be seductive in your speech, Allah
is addressing the women.
Why? It could be the reason why sickness
ends up hitting the guy's heart.
Let alone her coming out
in a dawn manner.
She's all beautified.
She's wearing makeup. So it's a fitna
that we will have to deal with as
men. And it's a fitna where the Promised
SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,
I have been left a fitna that is
more harmful
upon the men than women.
So it's a problem that we all have
that we need to face,
and we have a cure for it as
well.
Disclose what?
Send down upon us which is to get
married.
The Prophet told
us
Get married, He commanded you to get married,
He commanded you to get married,
and He also told you to have children.
I'm gonna come on
and boast about it against the rest of
the Ummam, the nations.
So I just want to inshallah today
stop at a few hadith
of the Prophet
and to
get every single one of your gas stops.
So after election, InshaAllah.