Abu Taymiyyah – Be My Bae Choosing a Spouse pt 01

We've got brother Abu Taymiyyah.

If you lot don't know, he had the

opportunity to study in the Maj for 4

years in Yemen.

And, America is called Darul Hadith.

And Alhamdulillah,

you know the Baba came all the way

from Lesta to give the to the reminder

to you, Allah. So Insha'Allah,

pay attention,

have your questions ready,

and also the topic that he will be

covering is what to look into

a spouse. So when you're finding a wife,

what is the attributes or characteristics you wanna

find or look in in her, you know,

before you marry her? So give the mic

to the brother, and,

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that maybe you lot don't hear all the

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So, anyway, I'll give the mic to the

brother.

I'm assuming everyone single here.

Is there anyone here that's married?

Only 2.

3.

This is more like, you know,

convenient for the guys that are not married

unless you're looking for a second wife than

Alim Wasallam, Insha'Allah.

You know, brothers and sisters,

there's no sisters here. No brothers.

We used to give lectures to both people

and okay. Brothers, you know, we're

living in a time now, as you are

probably aware,

we walk on the streets of London, wherever

it might be,

to our right, to our left, we see

unlawful

acts. Evil is taking place.

You see women, especially when it comes summer,

it's it's very very hard for a person

to actually maybe walk on the streets of

London

with all of these women walking around in

such a

how can I put it like in such

a you know, their proper displaying themselves their

explicit manner?

My English goes missing sometimes in a

in such an explicit manner,

half naked, some of them

You

know, it's basically like so close that

barely anything is showing on their bodies.

And the Prophet

told

us,

There doesn't come a time except that the

time after it is more or

less.

We're living in 2016. If you look back

now, 10 years ago,

the situation that we're in now, was it

the same or has it become more worse?

It's become more worse. You find today some

of our sisters, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

guide them. It has reached the point now

where you find the hijab and a miniskirt.

This wasn't seen 10 years ago.

This was something unheard of 10 years ago.

And wallahi, don't be surprised

if you saw women coming out on the

beach, Muslim women wearing bras and wearing all

these stuff that the kuffar wear today, Naaman

wearing hijab on the same time as well.

This is something that is expected due to

the type

of

time that we're going through,

And also the prophet

told

us in hadith,

You're going to be following the people before

you.

Handspan by handpan

and arms length by arms length.

So the Prophet

said to him,

Are you talking about the Jews and the

Christians?

He said, Who else?

He said, Who else? And he came in

some narrations

that the Prophet

he said,

If you was to see them now coming

and having sexual * with them on the

road,

husband, a

is coming

from the Jews and the Christians, he's having

sexual * with his wife on the road,

you're going to find the people doing it

as well.

And I've mentioned this before in the previous

thing that they had the social fitna one,

that recently what happened was, I think it

was in Greenwich.

And this was going all over social media.

A Muslim family with the name Khan.

I don't know, the the wife was pregnant

and her hormones go over her. She got

over excited and she started doing with her

husband inside the mall.

And that's the hadith the prophet

told us this maybe 1400 years ago. We

never heard this yesterday or the day before.

It was something that happened a very long

time ago that the prophet mentioned, and we

can see it now happening in front of

our eyes. So the point is brothers and

sisters, as time goes

on and on,

our situation is going to become more worse.

Whatever was

When we heard about them, we start going

like, I started coming out about these affairs.

Today is becoming normal.

Today is becoming normal. And the Prophet sallallahu

alaihi wasallam also told us this, he

said,

From the signs of the hour

is that knowledge is going to become very

less. Ignorance is going to become so widespread.

Also that which is going to become very

apparent is

fornication, illegal

types of sexual relationship.

Relationships

are going to become very apparent,

very widespread.

Maybe when I went to primary school, not

primary school, forget primary school, secondary school,

I I remember they used to dare each

other,

they used to dare one another.

Who's going to go and hug that girl?

They're daring one another.

Who's going to go and hug that girl?

Today, why here in the universities,

who's going to ask that girl out and

who's going to basically

ask her to do maybe

a * move with her?

As you can see again, Zina is becoming

so widespread and wallahi the haya of women,

the shyness of women is becoming so

less as well. It's becoming normal, wallahi they're

boasting about it.

Someone sent me something yesterday on social media,

and they told me, look how the world

is coming up to

Some of these guys they're coming out on

Stratford.

I don't know their names, some of these

boys now they're coming out, and they've got

a camera, and they're basically interviewing the girls,

and interviewing the guys, would you like this

or would you like that? And the girl's

bossing about, yeah, I would like this.

Read between the lines.

So it's becoming very very widespread

and as we all know our Sharia is

arrahma.

Our legislation that we have in this Quran

and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alaihi

wa sallam is arrahma.

Every problem that we have,

every fitna that comes our way,

you find

there is always a cure for it.

As the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,

Never did Allah

send down a sickness,

except they send down with it what?

This Quran that we have in front of

all in front of us.

Allah says, we have sent down in this

book that which is a cure for the

people's hearts.

And without the shadow of a doubt,

forget about a woman coming in front of

you, the voice of a woman,

the voice of a woman

can be a sickness to a person or

to a guy's heart. Allah

tells us,

Do not be seductive in your speech, Allah

is addressing the women.

Why? It could be the reason why sickness

ends up hitting the guy's heart.

Let alone her coming out

in a dawn manner.

She's all beautified.

She's wearing makeup. So it's a fitna

that we will have to deal with as

men. And it's a fitna where the Promised

SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam told us,

I have been left a fitna that is

more harmful

upon the men than women.

So it's a problem that we all have

that we need to face,

and we have a cure for it as

well.

Disclose what?

Send down upon us which is to get

married.

The Prophet told

us

Get married, He commanded you to get married,

He commanded you to get married,

and He also told you to have children.

I'm gonna come on

and boast about it against the rest of

the Ummam, the nations.

So I just want to inshallah today

stop at a few hadith

of the Prophet

and to

get every single one of your gas stops.

So after election, InshaAllah.