Abu Bakr Zoud – Q&A #01

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The operator ofie's mouth and Branded for All" discusses the importance of social media and finding sexual satisfaction in relationships, while emphasizing the history of Islam and seeking patient forgiveness. The conversation also touches on the negative impact of wearing a dress and the use of hair extensions, with a focus on the rules of Islam and avoiding smoking in public. The discussion also touches on the negative impact of wearing a dress and the use of hair extensions, with a focus on the rules of Islam and the importance of dress code in public.

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			Salam Alaikum
		
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			when I was Ravi, the terminal Miss for group and from the level the word of Allah this is a new
thing that we've bought mitzvah group inshallah we're gonna have a
		
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			platform to merciful group alongside obviously all the
		
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			I saw that on donations that we do.
		
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			This came about as obviously a part in that we're getting the message across. And obviously we're
always getting asked questions, especially during Ramadan events I get to the men.
		
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			And obviously all the related questions to sadaqa
		
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			one of the things obviously that ticked us off as well is we usually get a lot of people who want to
slaughter
		
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			for someone who's sick. And this is something made the chef we're talking about and he brought up
and he said that look, you know, that the slaughter itself, there's no no reward or no actual good
in luck towards the end, so there's no rewarding but the sad Okay, so So then when this came about
as well, this was something that's let's is such something so small that we grew up thinking, Okay,
if I slaughter for a sick person, or for a dead person, this benefits them, but it doesn't. So this
is where this came about. So inshallah the chef will jump on. He's gonna give a bit of a talk and
shallow we're gonna get through some of the questions. We did get a fair bit of questions we got, I
		
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			think close to 150 questions. We're going to do what we can do tonight and show live the next couple
of weeks as well. It doesn't have to be live. We're going to do that and then we're going to share
the link with everyone else. So we'll just get shuffled back on.
		
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			biller hub for him and hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam O Allah rasool Allah, Allah Allah
He also be Germaine
		
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			all praises and thanks belongs to Allah subhanho wa taala. May the peace and blessing of Allah be
upon His servant and final messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa salam as to our followers, My
dear respected Brothers and Sisters in Islam as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. And I'd
like to begin first and foremost, by welcoming you all, to this new project initiated by merciful
group may Allah azza wa jal reward them and reward everyone that is involved.
		
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			A few months ago, we sat down, and we discussed how to better serve the mouth
		
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			or at least contribute in some way or shape or form. So we decided to initiate a project. And we
titled Questions and Answers. Very simple. The idea is that this is a platform open for all of you,
for my brothers and sisters in Islam.
		
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			Whoever has a question related to matters of his worship and religion, then you may feel free via a
dialer to head towards this link that we have created. We shall attach the link could be put up on
the screen. So that you see it. You go to that link, and you ask your question.
		
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			And since we launched this project by the will of Allah solution, we have reached and we've received
		
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			more than 100 questions and of course it is unlikely that we will answer them in one sitting.
However, in sha Allah Allah the plan is that we answer all your questions from the beginning to the
end, if Nila hit Isla, but that will happen over a few weeks and sha Allah Jota Allah and these
sessions will be recorded and uploaded. So that in sha Allah, if you missed to hear the answer to
your question live, you will be able to hear the answer to your question later on. When you review
the uploaded video at a later time at your convenience, if Nila hit isla. And so because today we
wanted to go through as many questions as we can. We're going to just start with the questions
		
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			themselves.
		
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			We will not be taking any questions live obviously because there is no time for this for it to be
done live. So if you do have a question and you're watching live, just head to the link that should
be there inshallah Tada so you can see it and put your question and send it we'll reach it inshallah
to Allah and then the plan is
		
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			for every question that is answered, we will send out the video to all the emails that we have
received and that way inshallah Allah you will not miss the answer to your question. Allahu Alem.
Okay, so our brother Obeah and shamatha Allah will be the host, he will ask the questions, and
whatever we can answer we answer by the will of Allah has social
		
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			search. So we've done the question exactly in the order that they came in.
		
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			First, from first to last
		
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			exam first question from a sister says I have a gay brother. And he isn't accepting the fact that he
is doing haram Should I cut ties with him? Or keep reminding him and advise him about Islam?
		
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			Allah Hoffman Rahim. First and foremost, we ask Allah how social to save us from this calamity. We
ask Allah azza wa jal to great she fed to our brother. We ask Allah azza wa jal to grant him a
correct understanding of Islam. Of course, there is no doubt that homosexuality is haram in Islam.
And this is in agreement of all the scholars of Islam, not a single recognized scholar in Islam went
against this opinion. And in addition to this, it is a major sin that enclose upon a person, the
anger of Allah subhanahu wata isla. And so if that's the case of your brother, and you're confused
as to whether you should cut him off or not, then we answer this by saying, My dear sister, your
		
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			brother, needs reminder of the reminder of the reminder. And if you reflect over the story of Musa
alayhis salam, you will realize that loathe a prophet of Allah was sent to his people, and his
people committed the shameless immoral act among each other. And even then, this was no reason for
low poly his salam to cut them and leave them. Rather some ruler Matt mentioned that low poly his
Salam remained among his people. 30 is calling them to Allah and condemning the evil in their sin.
When Allah azza wa jal commanded him to leave them and move away from them, then and only he left
them and moved away from them. So the fact that he is your brother, my advice is that you continue
		
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			to or you remain, you maintain your ties with him. You remind him from time to time, you don't know
when the reminder will benefit him. Allah azza wa jal, he says was that cared for in a thicker
autumn fall, meaning the reminder it benefits the believers and if he has an ounce of Eman left in
his heart, then be if Nila heater Allah, one day in sha Allah have good thought and good hope in
Allah azza wa jal that he will be cured, and he will come off this major evil and major sin that he
is committing. And so continue your relationship with him. Cutting the tie will not solve anything
unless his evil and his sin begins to affect you in a negative manner. And then you're starting to
		
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			have thoughts to be like him. Then of course, in this manner, you keep away from him and you move
away. But so long as the if Allah hit the Isla, you're strong and you know what is halal and you
know, what is haram? And you may have an influence and an impact upon him. Then you continue to do
so what Allahu Allah, and most importantly, continue to make dua for him in private. We ask Allah
azza wa jal to answer and accept your DUA and we ask Allah azza wa jal to save him from this sin.
Allahu Allah. The
		
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			next question, is it haram to use * toys with your spouse?
		
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			By Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim.
		
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			This question is saying is it haram to use * toys with your spouse? Now first and foremost, my
brothers and sisters in Islam, we must understand that no, that sexual relations is a very important
part of marriage.
		
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			With sexual relations, a person he fulfills his sexual needs. Sexual relations is also a means to
increase the amount of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this was something recommended to us
by the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa salam was sexual relations with one's partner is a form of
sadaqa and it's a worship and there is reward in this as well as in the recent Allahu alayhi wa
sallam said with the Boo boy or had a consult aka that the sexual relations that one engages with
his spouse. There is immense reward in this. There is a silver cut in this as a result Allahu alayhi
wa sallam said and these sexual relations, it's one of the rights that belong to both the husband
		
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			and the wife. And so here we see that both the husband and the wife must make sure that each other
sexual needs are met.
		
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			They should sexually satisfy
		
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			each other, it is not allowed for a man to fulfill his sexual needs, and leave his wife unsatisfied.
And as well, it is not for the woman to fulfill her sexual needs and leave her husband unsatisfied.
Now I am taking this question in good form. And I'm assuming that the one who asked this question is
asking this question, in the case where both husband and wife
		
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			or one of them has a sexual issue as a sexual problem. And so they are asking, Is it permissible to
resort to sexual tools are these * toys, so that in order for them to satisfying the sexual needs
and desires of each other, let me say this, if either the husband or the wife is unable to satisfy
the other than they should seek first and foremost, medical treatment, that's the first and foremost
thing that is to be done, go and check what is the cause of the sexual dysfunction. This is a
disorder, sexual dysfunction, and sexual dysfunction could be related to physical cause. And it
could be related to a psychological cause could be a person stress or anxiety or even sexual trauma,
		
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			or it could be depression, whatever it is, there are underlying causes. And then once a person is
diagnosed, and it turns out, that he really does suffer from sexual dysfunction, then there are many
treatments that are offered to treat sexual dysfunction, including medications and psychotherapy and
so on. And most of the times by the will of Allah azza wa jal, the matter could be identified and
the cause could be identified. And if a person was to seek the right treatment, most of the times
they would be improvement in his sexual health and his sexual life. But if the problem persists, and
it continues, and now, either the husband or the wife is unable to satisfy his partner with his
		
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			organ, or even with the hands, because the hands on each other, from husband to wife or from wife,
the husband is permissible. If all of this is not fulfilling the need, then there becomes a
necessity here. And in the necessity here, it is then permissible for the husband
		
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			to use a,
		
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			a * toy, or a sexual or six tool in order to achieve the sexual pleasure for his partner in that
case, and only in that case, it would be fine if Mila hit the island, because this will help them
keep each other satisfied, and away from home and away from Jonnie.
		
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			Jonnie thoughts and desires that can lead to harm, otherwise, a healthy couple
		
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			that are sexually active. Then, I advise for them to keep away from such toys. Allah azza wa jal, he
said, and he counted this as a quality of the believers. He said, Well Levina humbly Ferrucci him
have your own Allah azza wa jal when he praised the believers, he said they are those who protect
their privates from the haram. He said it Allah Allah as well as you him, oh man Melaka, a man whom
they only fulfill their desire with their wives, and what their right hand possesses. And that is,
of course, the sleeves that are taken as a result of war. And there is, of course, no sleeves today
that exist in that manner. However, Allah azza wa jal, he mentioned about a quality of the believers
		
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			that they protect their privates. And so a healthy couple should entertain each other and see fun
and pleasure with the limbs that are in the organs that Allah azza wa jal gave them these tools,
various agree great.
		
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			And what can we say? The these tools could could might be a replacement for a person's
		
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			sexual satisfaction. And that could be a problem. It could be a problem, these tools are made. And
they are purposely made and designed in the way they are designed, so that they can satisfy a
person. So imagine a husband went and bought something and began to use this on his wife.
		
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			So Pamela, Yanni, what happens then this thing will always do its job. And perhaps it could reach a
point in where the wife would say, this satisfies me more than you. This becomes a problem in the
marriage. This
		
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			It becomes a problem. So its disadvantages and its cons perhaps outweigh its benefits. And as a
result, keep away from them, they are not necessary, and they are not from the teachings of Islam,
and they are not among the practices of a Sahaba and those that came after for we keep away from
this Bismillah heeta Allah and oppose them.
		
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			As we said, if there is a sexual dysfunction, there is a problem, then after he has sought
treatment, and the problem persists, probably in that case, any it could be resorted to, however,
this question is a longer question because then every six story needs to be spoken about, and then
each one will have a different ruling, right? Because some are permissible, perhaps in that case of
necessity, and some are impermissible. Allahu Allah. Now, I will leave that discussion for a limited
time, the question arises for Allahu Allah. Also to add to that is, a lot of the times now, the the
husband or the wife doesn't have any interest in the other one, and many of the reasons we were
		
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			about now is
		
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			obviously they're not looking after themselves.
		
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			In obviously, in looks, or obviously being claimed in certain areas, and that puts up the other one,
but they're kind of embarrassed to talk about it. Let's check no doubt, no doubt, it is from Islam,
that a person is supposed to look after himself in terms of his looks, in terms of his cleanliness,
in terms of his appearance,
		
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			and perhaps to remain physically strong, physically active. And as a result, if a person maintains
this, he begins to become Jani more of an attraction to his spouse when it was evident our best
probably Allahu Anhu I think that said it knee or hip one at the at the Z iannelli Marathi camera or
Hibou her and that is iannelli. He said I love that I don't myself or for my wife in the same manner
I love from her to adorn herself for me, for this is a two way for a person cannot only expect that
a woman look after herself so that he can feel attracted to her. This works in the other opposite
way as well in where a husband is supposed to also make sure he is looking good and attractive for
		
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			his wife. This is from the rights that belong to each other now Mala Juana
		
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			third question is keeping ties with kinship and obligation and if they cut you off is a stone
obligation.
		
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			Bismillah R Rahman Rahim we see here first and foremost, there is no doubt that maintaining ties
with blood relatives or known as Daniel kin, your kith and kin.
		
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			This is no doubt an obligation. Allah especially said in the La Jolla model Bill Adler will send one
ether even orba Allah azza wa jal commanded, he commanded that we maintain ties with the relatives
were either evil or bad to give the relatives meaning give them their rights, and from the rights is
to maintain ties with celeb with talking to them with visiting them making dua for them. All of this
is considered maintaining ties with relatives were a Sharia I did not mention anything concerning
Yanni, the specific timing of when and how frequent should maintain should maintaining ties with
relatives be. So there's nothing in the Sharia that says it must be once a day, or once a week or
		
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			once a month? No. In the end, the measure for this in Al Islam is a law of customary practice,
whatever the people are used to, and whatever the people are accustomed to, then that would be the
Islamic way. So if people are used to visiting the relatives once a week, or once every two weeks,
whatever it is, then this is what would be the only the Islamic way in terms of keeping this tie
between you and your blood relatives. Of course, that includes your mother, your father, your
grandparents, your brothers, your sisters, your uncle's, your aunties, all of these that I
mentioned, are the blood relation, the blood relatives that you must maintain ties with the second
		
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			part of the question here it says, And if they cut you off, is it still an obligation?
		
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			I think what she means is if they cut you off, is it still an obligation to maintain ties with them?
		
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			Look, this is an incident that happened during the life of Rasulo
		
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			loss of Allahu alayhi wa sallam. So Abu Dhabi Allahu Anhu narrated and this is an authentic hadith
that a man came to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said the rasool Allah in the
near corroborate and also why accoun Annie was, you know ailing him or you see una la Lumo led him
for Asia Luna Ali, a man came to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said the Rasul
Allah.
		
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			He said, I have relatives
		
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			in the kilometer, I, I tried to maintain ties with them, but they continue to cut their ties with
me. So this is like the question that the sister has asked. He said, I have relatives. I tried to
maintain ties with them, but they continuously cut me they have to borrow money. What else does he
do? What do I see no III him. I always treat them with respect, and I treat them good. And they
treat me badly.
		
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			And I Lumo Allah him. I am forbearing with them. I'm patient with them. Were you Swedish Luna Ali,
and they are harsh towards me. So now he wanted advice from the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and he and the be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said to him in koonta Karma Alta FATCA
unima de su formal Mal. He said to him, if indeed this is what you're doing, meaning you keep trying
to maintain the ties and they keep cutting you off. If indeed that is what you're doing, then you
should know that you are throwing hot ashes on them. The SuFu Moolman you're throwing hot ashes at
them? What does this mean? Well, hey Muhammad Allah, they say that your goodness towards them is
		
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			going to enrage them and it's going to burn them and it's going to make them feel humiliated. So
continue your goodness towards them. And they are feeling humiliated, that they continue to cut you
off while you are doing good to them. And then a Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, well there
is no Merica mean Allah here for hearin Allah him madam Tala VALIC and you will always have with you
Allah as a supporter, as long as you remain like this, what Hadith Sahih Muslim, Allah azza wa jal
aids you and he supports you so long as you to continue to make sure that you're maintaining ties
with your relatives. This is what is important. You see, you have an obligation towards Allah. Allah
		
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			is the One who obligated upon us to maintain ties with relatives. So whether they cut the tie or
they maintain it, it's not I didn't care. I am fulfilling what Allah instructed me to do. And that
is that these are my relatives. I have no permission to cut them off whatsoever. Even Ibrahim Ali is
set up. And as bad as his father was Ibrahim his father, his father, Azhar wanted to kill him. He
wanted to kill he wanted to stone him to death. And even then, Ibrahim would say Allah salaam when
Alec and he'd say to him, yeah about it with the utmost respect it speak to him. Allah azza wa jal,
he says about the parents are in their head, their gala and Tusheti kabhi mele, Salah can be here,
		
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			fella to pay homage if they were to cause Jihad upon you, so that you can commit check in Allah do
not obey them, Allah says but then he says, also hippo, Murphy dunya ma rofa Be good towards them in
this role be life now for you have a obligation that you must meet. And that is to maintain ties
with your relatives. By Allah's command, it's up to them whether they maintain they come, that's no
problem. But the thing is, once you take this decision, you make sure that they know your door is
open, and that your call and you're all good, and you want to maintain ties. That's it, leave it at
that. Leave it at that because you've made it clear that my door is open. Anytime you're willing to
		
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			come and reconcile and sit down with me and maintain your tie with me. Then I am available and leave
it at that Nam Allahu Allah as for seeing their bad, they cut me I cut them, then this is wrong in
Islam, wouldn't it be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam warned against this and he said layer could ima do
not be a blind follower. What is a blind follower in as an
		
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			asset or asset net? Do not be the blind follower that says oh, if people do good to me, I'll do
good. And if people do bad to me, I will do bad to them. Then in the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam
said the correct stance of a believer is to see if people did good to me, I will do good to them.
And if people do bad to me, I will not oppress them. So
		
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			Do not oppress in that manner fulfill Allah's right. And of course this question yeah and he could
branch out on many other things. Perhaps there is insult from these relatives perhaps there is abuse
from these relatives. I don't know exactly what the circumstances so I just leave a general answer
here. Nom Allahu Allah
		
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			says The brother asked if a person makes a doll that is very bad and feels remorse for after saying
it. Will Allah subhanaw taala still answer
		
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			Okay, by Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. First and foremost, he said if a person what made the Doha in
the end ended, or it can be forgiven and taken back. Okay, so let's ask that and so the first part
he said if a person makes it right, that is very bad. Firstly, it is haram and it is impermissible
to make a dua for a sin or for something bad. So asking Allah to make a sin easy for you, or asking
Allah azza wa jal for a sin or for something impermissible, then that in itself is a haram dua it is
known as transgressing in a dua This is known as the de facto Allah and social in the Quran, he
said, would roll back on top of Ron welfare in the whole layer hibel Mata Deen. Allah does not like
		
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			those who transgress in Doha. So there are rules and there is etiquette and manners when making dua
to Allah has social a person needs to abide by this. So that's the first thing making dua for
something bad is haram wannabes, Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, use the jaboulet a honeycomb, Mel
Amido will be if men out copy out the line. Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Allah would answer
your door, so long as you do not ask Allah for a sin. Or you do not ask him for a severing of blood
relations, meaning it is haram to say Oh Allah,
		
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			keep this relative of mine away from me, oh Allah destroy this relative of mine. This is
transgression in Doha, it is forbidden, and a person that makes such a DUA, then he risks that all
his dua that he has made comes to a stop, all of it will not be answered. But that's how serious the
matter is. So a person should avoid making a dua that he is asking for more for something bad or
evil. So now that he said he feels remorseful after seeing this video, you want hamdulillah and
that's exactly what he's supposed to do. What he's supposed to do is he's supposed to make a Toba to
Allah because he's transgressed in a dryer. So my brother may get over to Allah has solution, seek
		
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			ALLAH has socials forgiveness and begin to ask Allah azza wa jal for that which is permissible. Now,
well, Allahu Alem. And that's the answer to the question.
		
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			If a person makes are those the same one, what is the punishment for breaking the ties of kinship
that relates it's a different separate another person asking, but I think it relates to that one
		
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			down or
		
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			it's asking what is the punishment for breaking
		
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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. breaking ties with kingship is a major sin. It's a major sin. Allah azza
wa jal he said in the Quran, file RC time interval Latham and tuxedo fill up the photocopier or
hammer calm. Will Erica Levine Allah and Muhammad Allah, Allah azza wa jal, he mentioned that he has
cursed those who break ties with their blood relatives, or more subhanho wa taala. When he created a
wine when he created the womb,
		
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			Allah azza wa jal he said, I know what man I am the most merciful Haluk to rhyme I created the womb,
was shocked to the Eastman men is me, and I gave the womb from my name. Look how important this is.
Allah is Allah man, and he created the womb, and he named the womb from something of his name. And
our last name is Allah man, the Most Merciful and the womb is known as a rhyme. It shares a name of
Allah subhanho wa Taala or it takes its name from one of the names of Allah. And then Allah azza wa
jal said Furman wa sallahu wa salatu. Who, whoever maintains ties with his blood relatives, Allah
would keep this person in his mercy and Allah has social would bestow this mercy His mercy upon this
		
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			person, well, not Kappa and whoever
		
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			slivers, and cuts and breaks the ties with his blood relatives. But the two are in another ration
COPPA to Allah would cut him off from his mercy. So such a person is cut from the mercy and the
goodness of Allah subhanho wa taala. And on the Day of Judgment of a man or woman, as mentioned by
Nerys Allahu alayhi wa sallam, and enter responsibility and trust, and Allah him the womb, they both
would stand on the left and the right of the bridge of slop that people would walk on on the Day of
Judgment. They stand there, and no one is allowed to pass the slot until the money, your
responsibilities and your trusts in this life were conducted in a good manner. And also your ties
		
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			with your relatives. If that was conducted and well maintained, then you pass this you pass that
you'll be able to pass a solo up. And if you fail, in your relationship with your blood relatives,
and you failed in upholding the responsibilities that were given to you in this life, whether they
are the responsibilities of Allah or other creation than a person doesn't make it fall on this
bridge. So to severe sin, we ask Allah azza wa jal to see this now.
		
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			Next one is if I recite sort of last three or 10 times do I have to say Bismillah R Rahman Rahim
each time
		
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			now now the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that he would recite an Bismillah
which is Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim at the beginning of every Surah This is what the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would do. So it is best that every time you read sort of the loss, even
if you're reading it 10 times, then you read this millennial Rahman Rahim at the beginning. And of
course there is a Hadith that mentions whoever read saw the last three times. He owns the reward as
though he read the entire Quran. And whoever eats sort of the last 10 times Allah azza wa jal builds
for him a house in the Paradise Subhan Allah, this is from the generosity and the mercy of Allah
		
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			azza wa jal and this is also from the bulkhead the blessings of the Quran. So it's advised to say
Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim and then you read a solid loss over and over again. And if you did not
read the Bismillah if you did not say Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim, then that would be fine also,
there's no issue in that but what we're saying is it's better to recite the Bismillah at the
beginning of the class for as many times as you read it now Allahu Allah
		
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			Allah Tada
		
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			Okay, the next one is a cinema like me a chef, please I would like to know your techniques for
memorizing the Quran. And most especially your technique for revision of what you had memorized.
		
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			JJ it Masha Allah this is a good question. Firstly, why they consider more Allahu bochetto Or ask
Allah azza wa jal to give you the Cincy passion
		
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			to memorize the word of Allah azza wa jal, we ask Allah azza wa jal also to make use of those who
memorize the Quran, for indeed the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in the letter he ATHLEAN
Mina nurse, there are special people selected by Allah has social and this special people that are
selected by Allah.
		
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			Whom Allah Allahu wa Soto, they are the people of the Quran for Ask Allah azza wa jal to make us all
among them, memorizing the Quran, even Allah he's very simple as Allah azza wa jal he said, Well,
are they a subtle por la vicar follow me mode dekat we made the easy to ponder and to reflect and to
memorize and to read this is a vicar Valmy muda then Allah azza wa jal he asks Is there anyone that
that wants to reflect over the memorize its words read it ponder over it implemented. Now, so we
need to answer this call of Allah azza wa jal and approach it because it is easy for the one who
seeks Allah azza wa jal is help it is easy for the one who seeks Allah's help. And all worships
		
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			including memorizing the Quran becomes easy when you recognize that it can only be possible by
Allah's aid and help and support. So that's the first and foremost thing you need to do. Ask in
abundance. Allah asocial to make it easy for you say, Oh Allah make the Quran easy for me make its
memorization, its re citation, its revision, its implementation, pondering, reflecting, make it all
easier upon me. Now that's the
		
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			First thing they ask ALLAH has soldier. The second thing is you need to have a strategy.
		
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			And this strategy will not work until you have absolute commitment. So you must be committed and
consistent. You must have commitment, strong determination. And you also must be consistent
consistency each and every single day. And when I say every single day, you need to now identify
what part of the day is easy for you. In the mornings, or in the afternoon or at night, before
certain prayers after certain prayers, whatever it is, don't just sit there and make a commitment
and say, Inshallah, I'm going to start memorizing tomorrow, tomorrow, when, when, when exactly, and
then how much you're going to memorize. These are two things you need to first and foremost, find
		
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			out what is the best time in which you can memorize Of course, the mornings after Fisher is always
better. I even know from the students have knowledge that had memorized the entire Quran An hour
before solid television, every day before solid television, they would wake up and spend that one
hour memorizing until they finished the entire Quran. How beautiful is this, to know that you
memorize the Quran, because he gave it an hour of your time before solid and Fisher an excellent
beautiful time there is no distraction. Everyone is sleeping. Everyone there. No, your phone is not
calling everyone's dead at that time everyone's sleeping. There's no worldly distraction, it's the
		
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			best time. So find the time that works for you, maybe an hour before sleep works for you. But any
Subhanallah a person during a day, when you first wake up, it's like you're a baby, in which you
were just given birth right now. And at the end of the day, a person becomes like an old man. And
the difference is when you're young, your memory and your mind is like a sponge you memorize
quicker. And when a person is old, he suffers from memory loss, and so on. So it's not the best age
for memorizing. And that's the day, the beginning of the day, you're like a newborn, the end of the
day, you're like an old man. So keep your memorization at the very beginning of the day. And that
		
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			would be better be if we let hit the island. And then after that, once you've committed to a time,
find the right amount that works for you. So it could be an A day
		
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			or two a day. Start with something minimal so you can see progress. And your progress will then
		
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			create that passion and eagerness within you to continue. Because if you start slow, let's say you
did one a a day for the next seven days. By the end of the week, you've memorized seven, eight,
that's almost three quarters of a page, that you'll be happy you'll be satisfied, you will see that
you're able to memorize and that you're progressing, and that will entice you and it'll encourage
you to continue down that path. But if you began the first day by memorizing one page and you
struggled with it, and you couldn't recall it the next day, you will be turned off and you will not
memorize anything at all. So start slowly start slowly. And that was the advice here any interview
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for example, when he saw the poor people of a sofa that was sitting at
the back of the masjid, he said to them would any one of you like to go to Japan and Japan is a
valley in Medina, any one of you would like to go there right now and pick up too fat full of meat
camels mean lady if men will have coffee
		
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			without any sin yeah and halal 100% Go to the valley and grab too fat
		
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			Yanni full of meat, camels, and this was like a massive commodity. It's a very valuable item at that
time among the Arabs. So then they said the Rasul Allah is we all love to go out for a simple
journey of an hour and come back and have two candles. This is great position, great value. So then
in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam said to them, if one of you was to go to the masjid and read one
area, it is better for him than one camel, and to eight better than two camels. And three is better
than three camels. The camel at that time is like a color. So one area is better than one car. And
two a are better than two cars.
		
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			The idea of the hadith is look and the reason Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he brought their attention to
1238 something minimal. So start your memorization like this. A lot of people haven't memorized the
Quran yet. Because they haven't started with one. They only need one a day that's it. And B if the
letter B is nila, once you do one a a day. Then in sha Allah after a month, two months, three months
of an ad, you will find your mind naturally has expanded. You'll find it easier to memorize that
		
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			When you will start to three or four a day, according to what Allah azza wa jal gives you of
strength and ability in memorizing for this is the technique Allahu Allah start with something
minimal and then be even Allah, the passion and the strength of memorizing will can be easily led to
Allah by Allah azza wa jal the most Hi Nam, Allahu Allah, and we'll leave the topic of revising for
a later time now.
		
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			If I have just five minutes of break, can I read the front of the herd? So the final prayer and then
later before ourselves time, pray the Sunnah. So yes, now it is absolutely fine no problems if a
person prayed Salah too, but he has all the way until then Allah sought to pray the Sunnah, the
Sunnah afterwards, he has all the way until then colossal. And the only time in which a person is
able or allowed to pray the Sunnah of a borehole after event and also will be based on two
conditions. Number one, if a person is regular, he's a regular who prays the sooner afterwards so
he's regular in that. That's number one. Condition number one, condition number two, from after
		
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			bottle until then, and also he genuinely had an excuse in which he was not able to pray suitable. So
if he's regular upon the Sunnah, and he genuinely had an excuse, and that's why he missed it in its
time. Then he's allowed to pray the to Aloka sunnah of Baba. He can pray that after also no
problems.
		
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			How does one move on from overwhelming grief of regret from a neglectful life towards the worship of
billions of Allah?
		
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			No, no, this is a good question. And is a very frequent question, especially in the day and age that
we live in. We're going to say that first and foremost, you must know my dear brothers and sisters,
that there is always hope, as long as the person is still alive. And as long as the sun hasn't risen
from the West, yet, you still have hope, and companions, companions that were disbelievers, and
accepted Islam. Their past did not prevent them from becoming among the best and the greatest of
this ummah, like Alma, Robbie Allahu Anhu. Holly didn't believe Robert Allahu anhu, and many, many
others have male and female companions. So that's the first thing you must know and be convinced
		
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			that there is hope. There is hope for each and every single one of us to overcome the grief of a
neglectful life, the life of sin, or the life of the past in which you abandoned the remembrance of
Allah and the worship of Allah. And now you feel so bad about all of this. Stop. You're still alive.
Have hope in Allah has solution and make a Toba make it over from all the past and think God of
Allah azza wa jal and if you were to make the most of what is left of your time on earth, Allah azza
wa jal would forgive all the past. Not only this, everything good you did in the past, no matter how
minimal it was, that would remain recorded for you that doesn't wipe away and everything of that you
		
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			did in the past, that would be converted to good deeds you never done Allahu Akbar. You could the
mercy and the generosity of Allah azza wa jal, indeed, as Allah azza wa jal said, as the prophets
would say that Allah said in the Quran,
		
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			the rule comb Leah will feel Allah coming to know because Allah azza wa jal is the one who invites
you. He is the one who calls you so that he can forgive your sins and accept you come to Allah azza
wa jal come come the way you are doesn't matter. Whichever way you are, just come to Allah azza wa
jal rushed to him and seek his forgiveness and repent to Him, and then commit yourself upon goodness
and what's going to help you do this. Seek knowledge. Seek knowledge, the more you learn about
Allah, the more you are encouraged and you'll find passion and eagerness to worship Him, that you
have to do this now that you have left your your past life behind. Seek knowledge that will enhance
		
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			your worship, because you know who you're worshiping now, attend al Masjid regularly, because these
are the houses of Allah. This is where the Mercy of Allah is found. You'll find the deep spiritual
connection with Allah in a masjid. You're the guest of Allah and the guest of Allah when he comes to
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			He doesn't leave empty handed. How can a guest of Allah leave the house of Allah empty handed? There
is no doubt when you leave a masjid Allah azza wa jal fills this person with reward with contentment
with satisfaction, you will be Yannick Bismillah Hidayatullah on a spiritual high. And number two,
and number three, surround yourself with good company. Because if your company around you is good,
they'll always encourage you to do good if they see you do bad, they'll warn you against that. And
if you surround yourself with Bad Company, you'll end up just like them and you'll go back to your
old ways narmala One add to that as well a lot of people tend to repeat it and then they start
		
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			making mistakes again and it becomes constant and these people then tend to flock hypocrites they
always say an awful okay, but I don't want to pray. What do you what would you say to those heads
that no doubt no doubt this is coming from a SharePoint no doubt this is coming from a SharePoint.
If this type of feeling this type of feeling is much worse than your entire criminal history and
whatever you had done in the past, the fact that you think that now Allah would record you as a
hypocrite, and that your Toba is not good enough that thought alone is worse than any major sin you
had committed before this so don't fall in another bigger major sin. Rather stop right then and
		
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			there. And, and Islam is clean. The hadith of rasool Allah a clean the words of ALLAH a clean that
the door of Toba is open. And now leave that past, make it over turn to Allah azza wa jal, and Allah
would accept. Allah accepts anyone who turns to him. This is the Promise of Allah oscillation. And
that's the promise of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, as he said, in the release of
Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, Isha, he said, Isha in the lab that is a Torah forbidden be through
metab tab Allahu La. He said, They are Isha. If a slave of Allah was to acknowledge his past, and
then he sought Allah's forgiveness, Allah will forgive him. Colors, no doubt. So once you know this,
		
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			you move forward in your relationship with Allah and understand it's a battle between you on the
shape or it's either the shape on will defeat you. And if you keep thinking you're a hypocrite, and
that the path to Allah is not for me, then the shape on has defeated you. He'll take you with him to
where he goes. And if you fight him and you overcome him in battle, then the sign of this is that
you believe ALLAH will forgive you and you move forward in your relationship with Allah Now I'm
Allahu Allah
		
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			okay, I read I read my 200 and make all my dogs but no proposal comes my way and my past negative
feelings come back
		
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			so they they read the issue then they make that comment that's coming from a Sister Yes, sir.
		
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			200 make the door but no proposal comes my way so
		
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			and her past negative feelings come back. So obviously she's there's a pastor and that's how I'm
gonna play up again.
		
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			We ask Allah azza wa jal to make it easy for her and for all our brothers and sisters, that they get
married in a halal manner and that Allah azza wa jal protect them from the haram.
		
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			Just by reading this question, it seems to be that she's understood the worship of the wrong or she
has a slight incorrect understanding of how it works. You see a Dwyer it doesn't work like like how
delivery services work today. You know, the delivery, your order, whatever, and then you wait for a
few minutes or for a few days, and your order, you're expected to arrive at your doorstep in the
same manner or you, you expect what you ordered to arrive. That's not how it works. It's not like
this. A diet is a worship. A dua is a worship. So it's like the prayer and fasting. Rather, this is
the greatest of worships a DUA, or as in the beasts of Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, Who will a bed?
		
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			And why is worship every worship in one way, or shape or in one form? Or one way or another? It is
all done our solid to worship and it's how much do we make in solid, our fasting and there is the
image I was against and there's diet that you ask Allah to accept that from you. And then there is
diet or follow up in where you request from Allah has solution. So it's a worship
		
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			and there is no promise. But Allah azza wa jal is instant
		
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			going to give you such and such. Your daughter is being tested your commitment upon a DA is being
tested, wouldn't it be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said you stay here Buddha had the Quran, Allah
would answer the dua of one of you, or any one of you, so long as he does not rush.
		
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			Then they said the Rasul Allah, how does one rush? He said, He says, I made dua for such and such.
And Allah did not give me what Allah did not answer. This is exactly how the exactly how the
question is coming. So the way you've asked your question, fits the category that Nabi SallAllahu,
alayhi wasallam forbid, and that is LM you're a shill. And that is a person rushing? How do you rush
in your door? To stay down to fellow ministers? Yeah, Billy, I made diet for such and such, and my
dog wasn't answered.
		
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			Even if you do that, that's a sign you have rushed in your door, as a result that will not be
answered. So continue to make, continue to pray to a Maha solution. And if Allah has decreed for
your marriage, then it will come, no doubt. And if it wasn't decreed, then this is Allah azza wa
jal, his knowledge and his wisdom, and he has written something better for you in this life and in
the afterlife. So accepted, and that's our belief in Elkader. Now, what hamdulillah * of the
irony?
		
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			What, what's the solution to suffering a dip in performance, we're seeking knowledge,
		
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			once knowledge and just all drops for them.
		
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			So that the idea is he that a person is seeking knowledge, but then he is not performing? He's not
acting on this knowledge? Allahu Allah may look very simple. A person always needs to remind himself
why is he seeking this knowledge? Perhaps perhaps you're just seeking and you're sitting there just
to increase your information, and increase the amount of information you know. And that's not what
knowledge is sought for. We don't seek knowledge for this purpose. Knowledge primarily is sought, so
that we can worship Allah upon knowledge. We seek knowledge so that we can worship Allah so that we
can fulfill and implement this knowledge. This is why we seek it. So perhaps, try to understand the
		
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			purpose of what you're seeking, reflect over the purpose of seeking knowledge. seeking knowledge is
the closest and quickest route to Allah has social because now you will be able to worship Allah
upon light upon guidance upon sincerity, right. That's what will happen. And so as a result, the
solution for such a person is that he must consistently remind himself of the purpose of what he's
seeking. And also asking, Allah has social that he makes worship easy for him, and also to associate
with good company, so that they encourage one another, upon Albir what Taqwa upon goodness and the
piety of a Maha so shall, we shall Mata Allah with that a person will find motivation to continue to
		
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			worship Allah and most importantly, a person must remain patient, upon the worship of Allah must
Allah azza wa jal, etc, who was taught that labor that they
		
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			worship and be patient upon his worship. And now it's not an easy thing, but there needs to be
patience upon the worship. And as a result, the believers on the day of judgment are granted the
Paradise because of their patience, upon the worship and patience upon other things, but primarily
patients upon worship now and the idea of patience upon worship teaches us that it's not going to be
easy. Now. For Stein, believe Stein, billet seek Allah's help. C'est la hawla wala Quwata illa say
Allah who are in the Allah Vickery, co shipbrokers diabetic, with sha Allah to Allah, you will find
that energy and motivation to continue to worship Allah upon this knowledge that he has granted you
		
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			and gifted you.
		
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			Okay,
		
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			next question is I have a friend who smokes drugs frequently, but never but whenever I tell him,
it's not good, he will begin to rent. My question is, can I tell him or her it's over between us if
he doesn't keep if he doesn't stop smoking.
		
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			Now, um, so this is known as a luxury, a luxury to boycott a brother or a sister in Islam. So
primarily, it is impermissible to boycott your Muslim Brothers and Sisters in Islam, it's forbidden.
		
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			And if a person wants to boycott someone, then they have a maximum of three days, and then they must
reconcile before the three days end
		
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			And as mentioned by a Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. However, in this case that you're mentioning
here, if you're going to boycott this person, and you believe or because of their sin, right because
of their smoking. So if you believe, if I was to boycott and cut my tie with this friend, and this
boycotting is going to have an impact upon him or her. And they're going to think about what they're
doing. And perhaps they will make a Tober and throw the smoking all away, then yes, boycott them, go
ahead. And that could be for a week, two weeks, three weeks, no problems. But if you know that
boycotting them, is not going to have an effect. And they're going to continue smoking and perhaps
		
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			even become worse, then there is no goodness in boycotting them in this case at all. So Yanni, you i
You will be the judge for the case, I cannot judge it for you. You need to see you know this person
better than anyone else. And you know, if you boycott them, would that have an impact on them, and
they will leave this smoking? And does your relationship and your friendship is that a real
important step? If it is, then be if the law has stopped smoking, in that case, boycott for as long
as you need.
		
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			But if boycotting, they will not care, and they were in need of your reminder. And you were there
and you knew you had an influence on them. But you just could no longer do that. Then there's no
there's no any goodness in cutting them. Stay. Remain. Keep that Tivat, remind them and perhaps meet
with them less often. Send them a message, send them a reminder, send them a video, warn them, teach
them about death, and that death is approaching teach them about the sin and the regret they will
have concerning their sins. Teach them about the Mercy of Allah the forgiveness of Allah and the
need for them to turn to Allah and so many things you can remind them with, we ask Allah azza wa jal
		
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			to forgive us all we ask him anyway ask Allah azza wa jal also that only he helped this brother and
eat him in stopping this bad habit addiction of smoking now.
		
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			This one is a long one says Salaam Alaikum when you are going to the altar? That was the last
question. Okay. So this is a Salaam Alaikum Guney are in constant pain, depression, blockages in in
everything you do, can get married and you feel stuck like this for years now. What is the best way
to overcome it or by the will of Allah, even when it's gotten to a point where you are at your
lowest and you can't seem to become better? Every day it just gets worse and hamdulillah
		
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			while I consider Mala, Mala barakato now what hamdulillahi rabbil Alameen for everything but a lot
of social decrease. And there is a lot of pain in this question. It is very obvious. There's a lot
of
		
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			knee pain and and suffering in this person that has written this question and ask a lot of social to
relieve them from the calamities and we ask Allah azza wa jal that he bestow upon your patience and
tranquility and peace and that he makes you from the people of the paradise bit of the lead that
Allah I'll share with you. The answer of shirtless lamb have been Tamia bought him a hula, he was
asked a similar question, and he had a very beautiful answer to it. And perhaps the answer will help
you and shout Allahu taala. He said, mmm every time your Rahim Allah, when he was presented with a
similar question to yours. He said that the cure the cure to such a person and the remedy for such a
		
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			person. And the solution for such a person is to turn to Allah subhanho wa Taala and to consistently
be humble before Allah has social, he also said that the solution for this person is to supplicate
to Allah has social by learning the DUA that was narrated to us by in Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa
salam, and that you make this dua during the times in which it is most likely that the DUA is
answered, and that is before then and Fisher in the last third of the night, between an event while
your karma in your suit especially and before you make the slim from the prayer. These are all
moments in where the DUA is most likely answered. He also said an add to all this a consistent is
		
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			still for consistently seek ALLAH has socialist forgiveness, because Allah azza wa jal he said, We
are called Mr. filmora. Confirm Matobo la your material matter
		
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			Um Hassan Allah azza wa jal, he said, seek his forgiveness for if you were to seek his forgiveness,
He will grant you an enjoyment until an appointed time. Even forgiveness brings upon enjoyment,
enjoyment, it brings upon contentment it brings upon tranquility and peace and calmness in your
life. And then he also said that such a person must appoint for himself of guilt and commit to the
morning and evening of God. The morning and evening of gal they found there are many apps will
Hamdulillah he will find the morning and evening of girl. And recently I gave a an entire course a
lecture a series titled shield in where we explain the morning and the evening of God. And then he
		
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			said a person should also be patient, he should be patient upon anything that he encounters that may
hinder or prevent any,
		
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			any, he must be patient. Rather, he said he must be patient upon the calamities that face him in
life.
		
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			And For indeed, he said the patients, it grants a person light and it grants him guidance in the
most difficult moments in his life. And also, make sure that you're praying the five daily prayers
and concentrating from inside from the heart and your limbs are concentrating as well. Because of
solid is the greatest pillar in Islam. And also make sure that the most abundant and frequent
Vickery are saying is La How will our Quwata illa biLlah Hill Allah you love him? Keep repeating it
in the day in the night in the afternoon before you sleep when you wake up? All the time law How
will our Quwata illa Allah is the Greatest the vicar that will revive the heart and bring this
		
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			tranquility and this peace in your life please Allah while you're Salam said this word is a treasure
from the treasures of the paradise and it is a door of the doors of the paradise. So it brings upon
a person a lot of goodness. And finally he said, Do not become tired from making
		
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			and asking Allah social never, ever ever give up in making dua to Allah has social because a
person's dua is accepted and it will be answered, so long as he doesn't Hastin and rush, the
response of Allah has social and then finally know that the victory and peace and success it comes
with patience and relief. It comes with difficulty and the ease.
		
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			Of course, this this is it comes with the difficulty that a person experiences now. We're Allahu
Allah, we ask Allah azza wa jal to save us. Ask Allah azza wa jal to grant us ease. And we ask Allah
azza wa jal to always, always make us remember his remembrance. In the times of extreme
difficulties, nothing nothing will wake your heart up and bring you relief and peace and
tranquility. Besides the Corolla assertion in the most distressing times, so remember Allah with the
whole load of Quwata illa Allah, Allah Allah Allah Allah, Allah Allah Allah subhana kidney
contributor volume in like you know Salah he said I'm did when he was at the lowest point, and that
		
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			was in the belly of a whale in the darkness of the belly of the whale in the darkness of the ocean
in the darkness of the night. He couldn't even see in front of him. No one could come to his rescue.
He couldn't even risky himself, and he would repeat Leila hailer Subhanallah in the continental
volume it with Rahim Allah is certain when he was thrown in the fire and that is a calamity it's a
fire and he would say a small Allah when Allah killed Allah azza wa jal saved him so this is what we
want to do now Allahu Allah
		
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			keep going let's let's ask a bit more we'll take another 10 minutes to show my intro okay
		
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			please suggest me a dog to quit major sins as are often fall into and regret immediately
		
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			now the question what was the question sorry. So then sort of questions saying please suggest a dog
to quit major sins as often fall into and regret immediately.
		
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			Constantly and regret right after nom nom Okay, so, of course there are Dwyer, in which a person can
ask
		
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			that Allah azza wa jal save him from falling into the sin. And that is the NABI sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam would say Allah Menez Luca ferula HighRock whatever kallmann callot
		
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			He used to say unreasonable seller would say Oh Allah, I asked you to give me the ability to do
good. And I asked you to grant me the ability to keep away from element karate, from the evil
detested matters. So ask Allah azza wa jal that he keeps you away from them by saying Allahu Menez
Roca telecoil moonclerk. We're of course a solid a solid 10 100 fascia we will move on to the prayer
itself keeps the person away from the shameless immoral evil acts. Also the only saying, Alistair
either our will be led ministry upon regime because it is to show you're born who is supposed to
mankind to get him to commit a sin. So say oh, we'll be laying him in a shape on your machine. When
		
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			the thought of doing haram comes to your mind. Say oh they'll be lay him in a ship on a regime This
is the greatest weapon against a Shavon as a result che upon if he's gone, then the temptation to do
the bad is also gone with it. Also from Quran Allah azza wa jal teaches us for example, in salt la
Emraan Urbana led to the Hulu winner but they've had data that would have let me let Uncle Rama ask
Allah azza wa jal and say Oh ALLAH led to the Hello Vana. Do not miss guide our hearts after you had
guided it. So ask Allah not to miss guide your heart because the one who commits sins and error his
heart is misguided at that moment. So ask Allah azza wa jal to keep your firm and always guided. And
		
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			if you do fall into sin, then make Toba was still fought. Don't underestimate the word a stove,
Allah Walla He Allah, one stove filled Allah, if you were to say it once, from a sincere, honest
thought, it is enough to wipe away the major shift if you had committed for Imagine then all the
other sins are stolen for Allah, once with a sincere honest start, will remove an entire history of
bad deeds. So do that. And continue to c'est la ilaha illa Allah also because that's a good source
of having sins wiped after committing them by saying Leila not obviously with the intention. If one
wants to commit a sin on the way to the citizens, you know what, hello, oh,
		
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			I'll do this and then I'll repent after I'll say stuff from laughter That doesn't work. Now, hello,
of course, it's haram for a person, honey, who's the falling? Does he think is falling Allah by
saying, I'll go do my sin, and then after sin, I'll sell stuff for Allah and all should be good.
That's a horrible for and that's a bad way of thinking of things. Because how do you know perhaps
one day, the way you plan it, and you die after your sin and you had no time to seek it still
thought. So the thing is, do not plan it in this manner. Do not think of it in this manner. If you
have fallen into the sin, then acknowledge your shortness your shortcomings and acknowledge your
		
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			weakness and humbled before Allah has social and beg for his forgiveness and beg for his mercy and
ask him to cure your heart and keep you away from sins and places of filth. Now Allah
		
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			next question is A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Someone wants told me that you are not
allowed to pray in a room that someone is asleep in? Or a room where you sleep? Is it true or is
that just a superstition?
		
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			That Allah there's there's no truth to this. Pray wherever you want pray in the room where someone
is sleeping wake them up to pray with you as well. When Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam prayed a
solid he used to pray the night prayers while I shut up the Allahu anha was sleeping in front of
him. And when he would come to a suit he would move her leg because the apartment was small. He
would move her leg so that he could make sujood further is no problem in praying in a room where
someone is sleeping not okay. Eyelashes allowed to wear at all.
		
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			Or at a all girls gathering so eyelashes are allowed to wear or all girls gathering. And if I do
remember for myself, let's get to the first question first because same person I listened to were
all girls given.
		
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			No.
		
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			So here in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam, he cursed lol Sudha while mosto Scylla and Nabi
sallallahu alayhi wa salam cursed the two types of people in this wording of the Hadith. He cursed
the one who gets hair extensions, and the one who doesn't. So whoever requests
		
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			The hair extension, and the one who did the hair extension for the one requesting it, both of them
Accursed In this hadith as an 11. No, we will have Mahala explained the Hadith. And so as a result,
eyelashes, eyelashes are considered and they go and they take the same ruling as hair extension. So
extension to the hair or extension to the eyelashes. That's considered the hair extension. And the
person that does it and the person who requests to get it done. Both of these people Accursed In
other words, this is a major sin. So it is haram, whether it's at all gold gathering, or whether
it's a woman, a woman doing it for herself or whether a woman says I'm doing it for my husband, all
		
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			of that doesn't matter. It is haram, hair extensions are major sins in Islam. And in addition to
this, in addition to this, these eyelash extensions, I actually feel actually harmful. They are
harmful and they are associated with certain illnesses. And they carry great risks to a person's
health such as there could be swelling in the area, or a temporary or a permanent loss of the
original eyelashes you could lose all those skin irritation that is around the eyelid, the infection
of the of the eyelid or the cornea and so on for there's a lot of skin irritation as well add to
that and and so many other harmful
		
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			side effects. For now that's in addition to it being harmful, but we avoided altogether all the one
		
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			continues to question and if I do I'm wrong for myself. After I cannot do hombre for a little
relative that passed away.
		
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			So someone has Anambra for themselves? Can they do them Pamela again, another time for a relative
but there's no problem if a person had done ombre on his behalf or even harsh on his behalf. And
then he wanted to do a hash or a formula on behalf of someone deceased or someone permanently
disabled that he can physically is not able to go to a hash and to perform or has your camera on his
behalf that it is allowed to do a formula or hash on their behalf. And this of course was only
mentioned in an incident with Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam he is he heard a man saying let Baker and Shu Brahma meaning of Allah. I am answering the
		
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			call to perform a Amara on behalf of Shu Brahma. Certainly sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to this
man, man shoe Brewer, who's the shoe promo for this man, he said, Caliban Lee is a relative of mine.
So then the reason I sell them said to him, hello, hush, hush the top. Did you even make and perform
harsh for yourself? The man said no. So then in the visa Allahu alayhi wa sallam said, facial heavy
enough sick meat because as you're going to right now, make it a hash upon yourself first thumb
massage on Shabbat Oma. And then the next day do a hash on behalf of Shaub Roma. So if a person has
done an omelet on behalf of himself, he is allowed to do a formula on behalf of someone else now.
		
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			Last one, what color clothing are you not allowed to weigh in Islam for men?
		
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			Are you okay? So that's the final and the last question. And there is a difference of opinion
concerning this matter. What is is there a specific color of clothing that is forbidden for men to
wear in Islam. So where the discussion is concerning red clothing concerning red clothing, when
asked about a hammer home Allah, they said red clothing is of three types, three types. Number one,
the clothing that is red, because it was dyed with a plant that is known as safflower. A loss for an
A bad loss for if I'm not sure if people are familiar with the plant, it's called ssef. Flower. It's
like saffron. If you look it up, you'll see it it's got like a kind of orange a bright orange color
		
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			to it. So what they used to do back in the days, they used to get their clothing and they used to
dye it they used to dye their clothing with this stuff flower, and as a result the clothing becomes
orange, and the more they diet with this color with this flower, the more it gets darker and darker
until it becomes like almost red. This type of dyeing and this color is forbidden. This color
specifically and the way it's done. That is what is forbidden. When the Rizal Allahu alayhi wa
sallam mentioned as in the hadith of Ali Robbie Allahu Anhu Nahanni
		
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			Nabil sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and lip Silca See, one was for fernery sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
forbid wearing al masks for and we said that is the clothing that is dyed with this plant that is
called SFX flower. Over time it becomes a red that is haram to me. The other type is the normal red
color that we know just normal red strings that have not been dyed with this safflower, that kind of
red, Allahu Allah, it is permissible. There is no issue concerning wearing that red. And the other
type is the red that is mixed with other colors. So a red that is mixed with other colors for
example red, and then it has black stripes on it or white stripes on it or other colors on it, then
		
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			that's fine. There's no issue in that LVF is concerning the second one. As for the first one that
doesn't even exist today. No one does that awesome. Yeah, no one takes clothing today and dies it in
the safflower and produces clothing that is masterful that you won't find it today doesn't exist. So
that's not our concern. So one last one, what we're seeing and what we learned from our machines and
our learner, that the red clothing that is available today in how it's made. That is the animals
likely Allahu Allah permissible to wear with delivery is that as a Bucha heifer probably Allah one
who narrated he said that he saw the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam coming out while I lay
		
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			her little hammerlock he saw him wearing a red cloak, so he wore a red cloak. For as a result, the
red color is permissible, no problems in that none and if it's a plain red or if it's red and there
are stripes on it, all of this Bismillah heeta Allah is permissible as for the clothing that has
become red as a result of being dyed with the safflower. That is what is forbidden Aloha.
		
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