Abu Bakr Zoud – How to deal with parents that aren’t accepting my righteousness

			In the case where and we have this a lot, our youth would say, unfortunately, my parents did not
accept that I made a tober and I begin to pray at the masjid and, and hamdulillah now I have a bead,
this is this is a problem as well, this is a problem, they go back and they say Alhamdulillah they
go to their parents, and they say Finally, I found the righteous man and Allahu Akbar, my mother,
you should have seen this person we read together and he fasts, these any praise the knights and,
and they are expecting from your mother to clap for you. Instead, she says,
		

			this is a disaster. Or you go back home and you say I heard a listen to
		

			what les was a killer. What do you expect from your parents that says some parents would be annoyed
by this? isn't how, as a young youth, trying to establish his team correctly in the home? How do you
behave with your parents, when they are unaccepting of this kind of attitude and behavior? You need
to understand my brothers in Islam, that you're supposed to be smart. Number one, be smart.
		

			Don't tell them about the things that I went to the machine. I heard this. And I heard that and I
made friends with it. But don't say this stuff. They don't want to hear it. Don't say it be smart
and wise. Number two, don't be confronting. Can you walk into the house, my sister you need to
		

			walk into my Dad, you're supposed to stop shaving your beard. When my mother wants this kind of
clothing.
		

			Don't be like that. That's unacceptable. Don't accept that. Of course your parents are going to
rebel against you. Be smart, be wise. And the first thing you change of yourself in the house is
your manners. That's the first thing you're supposed to change. You come back to the home
		

			and you clean the clothes, do something extraordinary you've never done before. Because people can
really love good manners from anyone. Whether it was from a gaffer, whether it was from someone
else, generally people have good manners. Imagine it came from you as a child. You go on date to
your parents, and you say father, today I want to call my Auntie's and my uncle's from overseas.
Your lovely speller.
		

			What's this Dean that you follow? Wherever you hang out with these things that you've learned from,
it'll give a good impression. And realize and understand that perhaps you are the one who has
established the dean in his life and perhaps you're the only member in the family that such remember
that you're the shining beam in the house, you're going to be the source of guidance to everyone
misguided in the family. And just like a Shining Bolt is very sensitive. Be very careful. A light
bulb just with a flick, it'll crack. Don't break yourself. Be that shining source of light, change
your manners first, do things that you've never done in the house, clean your clothes, shine your
		

			parents shoes, pay the bills, do something, change your character. As a result, you're accepted. And
then your change is accepted. When the recent Allahu alayhi wa sallam he said is the team you stuck
on become very famous, powerful, authentic, it's the chemo universe change. You bring the goodness
upon yourself. You stuck on become people around you change people around you with adopt the good
character and the obedience of Allah subhanho wa Taala if you were to do it first