Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Your Obedience Is Just an Excuse to Give You Something [Hikam 211]

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the benefits of Islam's "medourcing" concept, including physical accomplishments and the use of addiction to motivate behavior. They also emphasize the importance of avoiding alcohol and drinking, avoiding promises, and finding success through hard work and positive experiences. The speakers stress the need for people to commit to a particular behavior and to give money to charity, and urge them to find success and build a good legacy.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
hamdu lillahi Hamdan kefir on
		
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			forgiven Mubarak and fee Mubarak
and Ali Khanna your Hebrew Rabona
		
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			were the
		
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			Jalla Jalla. Who am an hour was a
Salatu was Salam. O Allah say you
		
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			will have you will Mustafa
		
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			Salah sallallahu alayhi wa ala
alihi wa sahbihi Baraka was seldom
		
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			at the Sleeman Kathira on Ilario
Medina Amma bad
		
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			we are on
		
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			wisdom number 211 which is on page
206 of Ignatov Allah al Eskandari
		
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			Rahim Allah, His aphorisms is HECM
his wisdoms.
		
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			This is what he says in there.
This is something that you've
		
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			probably studied before learned
before and probably know from
		
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			before. He says lerton Pharaoh who
thought I took
		
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			well, the Douro who Marcia took.
		
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			We're in America, we had the heat
when a hurricane Harvey Lima,
		
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			yeah. Oh, deutlich.
		
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			This is one of the most simpler
ideas, but he's going to provide a
		
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			lot of justification for this. He
says, Your obedience does not
		
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			benefit him.
		
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			So outright he is declaring that,
because there's a common question
		
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			today, not a common but
		
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			a question that is asked today is
that why does he need about
		
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			worship if he's so independent,
and so on?
		
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			So he says very clearly, your
obedience does not benefit him.
		
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			And your disobedience does not
harm him either. So then why do
		
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			you do it? That's the question
that arises, he said is is only
		
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			for your own good that he
commanded that and prohibited the
		
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			other.
		
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			He commanded this and he
prohibited the other it's to your
		
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			own benefits. It's what's good for
you in this world.
		
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			So that's what he's saying.
		
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			There the there's another aspect
of this aphorism, which is lie as
		
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			you do, fear is the Kabbalah lumen
Kabbalah Ali, wala Yun CUSUM in
		
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			Kadri. He is the ballroom and at
Baran.
		
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			That's another aphorism. But it's
linked to this one, that
		
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			those who turn to Allah subhanaw
taala and focus on him. They're
		
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			turning to Allah subhanaw taala
and focusing on him does not
		
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			increase the honor of Allah
subhanaw taala in any way
		
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			whatsoever. Oh, I've got this many
supporters. I've got this many
		
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			people worshipping me. Look, this
is how many likes I've got none of
		
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			that works with Allah subhanaw
taala. Likewise, it says that
		
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			anybody who turns away from him,
who ignores him, shows his back to
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala. That doesn't
decrease the status of Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala in any way. Allah
is who he is everything that's
		
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			happening. It's he did it. It's
almost like the world was a
		
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			project to create creation, and
then give them a test and then
		
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			have them in Paradise. Allah
subhanaw taala is independent of
		
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			everything. He is self subsisting,
self enriched, he doesn't need
		
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			anybody else. Allah is not in need
of anything else. So that's why
		
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			anybody who's obedient, their
obedience is not going to benefit
		
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			him.
		
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			It only all it does is that it
makes Allah happy with you so that
		
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			he gives you something, it's an
excuse for him to give you
		
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			something that says otherwise he
personally does not benefit,
		
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			because he is how he's always
been.
		
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			Likewise, he's not harmed by the
disobedience of the disobedient
		
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			ones. That's why towards the end
of this book, there's the
		
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			menagerie which means the intimate
discourses. So if you if you have
		
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			this copy, you can check on page
342. This is kind of related to
		
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			what he's saying here. He says
		
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			Ilahi de cada serie Dhaka and
Hakuna loca Illa to mink, for
		
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			caverta. Kunal who are ill to mini
until honey up the attic, and
		
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			jasola in Aiken, nephrogenic for K
Villa takuna, honey and honey,
		
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			my God, love to listen to this
carefully, oh, my god, your
		
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			contentment is too holy, for there
to be a cause for it in you.
		
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			You're too holy, you're too
dignified, you're too high above
		
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			and purified. that there needs to
be a cause in you, too, that
		
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			forces me to worship you.
		
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			Meaning I'm not I'll explain. So
how can they be a cause for it in
		
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			me if there is no cause in you
that forces me to worship you.
		
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			Then how can they be a cause in
		
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			either forces me to worship you,
and you need that worship.
		
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			Likewise, he says, You are
independent of any benefit coming
		
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			to you. So why should you not be
independent of me? You're
		
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			independent of yourself for any
benefit from yourself coming to
		
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			yourself. So why should you then
not be independent of any benefit
		
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			coming from me, you don't need
benefit from anyone. So
		
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			contentment is a divine attribute,
meaning Allah to be satisfied with
		
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			something. Because this begs the
question here that Allah, it is
		
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			mentioned that Allah is satisfied,
meaning Allah is happy when we do
		
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			good things. So what is that
satisfaction, then if he doesn't
		
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			need anything from us? Surely,
when you want to satisfy someone,
		
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			that's an objective and a goal,
right? So I'm going to give him a
		
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			gift. So he gets satisfied, I'm
going to go and visit him and get
		
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			satisfied. So the guy is
benefiting. So does that apply to
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala as well, that
when Allah says he gets ready,
		
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			Allah is satisfied with such and
such a servant, Allah is satisfied
		
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			when a servant does this action
and that action. So do we
		
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			understand in the human context
that humans get satisfied with
		
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			things so they need it, it makes
them feel good, if they're having
		
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			a bad day? It's gonna make them
feel good? Does that the same
		
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			thing happened with Allah? Not at
all, he doesn't need that.
		
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			Contentment is a divine attribute.
Allah is always satisfied, in a
		
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			sense, right? All attributes of
Allah Most High are eternal, and
		
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			the eternal has no cause. So if
Allah has satisfaction from
		
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			eternity, there's nothing that can
cause it because he's always had
		
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			satisfaction.
		
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			It's a bit difficult to understand
but that's what it is. Nothing
		
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			causes the satisfaction of Allah
really, he is satisfied. Since
		
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			Allah is attribute of contentment
is eternal with no cause. It is
		
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			inconceivable that there can be
any act of the servant to be the
		
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			cause for the contentment of
Allah.
		
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			Nothing can act upon Allah Most
High change does not come to him.
		
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			Allah's contentment is not
dependent on the servants action.
		
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			The servants good deeds and
conditions are the effect of
		
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			Allah's contentment. On the other
hand, it's the servants actions
		
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			and deeds that are the fruits or
the effects of Allah's
		
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			contentment, it's the other way
around, he is the cause of
		
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			everything. Right? But we do take
it we do kind of operate in the
		
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			sense that if I do this, Allah
will be happy with me, but not
		
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			that he's going to benefit from
that it's so if he's happy with
		
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			me, then he's going to treat me
he's going to reward me, he's
		
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			gonna give me he's gonna be
satisfied with me. That's the
		
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			purpose of it.
		
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			Okay, so now to move on. So Allah
does not benefit from our worships
		
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			in a way that he needs them
because Allah is well above that.
		
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			And neither does he. Neither easy
harmed.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says in Surah
Al Anam verse 61. Will who will
		
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			call Hiro phulkari verde.
		
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			He is mighty, above all of all of
his slaves, all of his servants,
		
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			He is mighty well above them,
makes no difference what they do
		
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			with others in the world, you have
some people who enjoy a huge
		
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			amount of ascendancy rule, power,
love.
		
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			And everybody they love them and
or everybody is vanquished under
		
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			their might. But eventually it
stops. Eventually, they get weak.
		
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			Eventually they do something
wrong. There's many empires like
		
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			that, including many Muslim
empires. They had their
		
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			ascendancy. But eventually they
became weak or lacks in certain
		
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			things. And eventually that same
car, that they had the same might
		
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			the head was diminished. But Allah
subhanaw taala is mate has been
		
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			forever. And it continues to be
forever and will remain forever.
		
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			That's the difference. That's why
he says, well, we'll call Hebrew
		
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			folklore a body and in Arabic uses
the word call here. Not what will
		
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			it be your car that he will? Or he
is currently no, he is. It's a
		
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			very permanent idea that he is
always mighty over his creation.
		
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			So then he only commands you so
that you can get close to him.
		
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			That's the huge benefit we get.
And it's beneficial for us. That's
		
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			why you'll find so many people say
I feel so far from a life and
		
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			miserable. They feel misery
because they feel far from Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala. But then they
can't do anything about it. So
		
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			they know that the solution to
their problem is to go and do
		
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			worship, but they're too stuck in
a rut, to go and start doing the
		
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			worship so that they can actually
feel good, and these other people
		
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			who have some consciousness about
him, because if somebody is not
		
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			even conscious of that fact, that
they're far from Allah, they don't
		
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			care about how far they've never
measured the distance, never
		
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			figured out and try to give an
estimate to that, then they're
		
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			just out of it. But anybody who
cares, and they're doing well, and
		
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			then suddenly they start becoming
a bit lacks. They find it
		
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			difficult because that's human
beings. We get stuck in a certain
		
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			way.
		
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			habit, a certain schedule a
certain rhythm, you need something
		
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			strong to pull us out of that.
That's why there's a lot of people
		
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			they say that they finally they're
usually very good. But now they've
		
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			just become addicted. If you can
use the word addiction to
		
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			tick tock, right. And then they
got off that. So it was a two week
		
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			edition, a two week stint
addiction stint on Tik Tok. And
		
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			then they realized they got rid of
it. And then he said, I've only
		
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			got YouTube. And then YouTube has
something called YouTube shorts or
		
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			something like that. So he got
addicted to that.
		
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			And then finally, they figured out
this is not good for me say they
		
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			got off that as well. It's like
the human is all and then after
		
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			that. They it's movie clips.
		
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			It's certain Facebook posts. Its
Twitter, its Instagram. So they
		
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			have short stints and they realize
no, no, this is not good for me.
		
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			So they stop, but then they need
something else.
		
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			Allah, Allah, Allah, there's just
so much out there. If it's not
		
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			this, everybody's competing for
your attention.
		
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			It's good that people even figure
out that this is bad and they walk
		
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			away. Because some people just
stay in there for a very, very
		
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			long time.
		
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			And I think the only way to stay
away from all of that is to be
		
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			busy with something but because
we're going to need something.
		
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			Every humans needs something to
engage in. Very few people are so
		
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			disciplined. So that's why it's a
good idea to there's some
		
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			allowance of Halal entertainment.
So use some Halal entertainment.
		
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			But otherwise, keep yourself busy.
With something more serious, if
		
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			you can get excited by learning
something new.
		
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			Right. So firstly, if somebody is
really into entertainment, then
		
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			try to get out of the
entertainment. If you can't get
		
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			out of it, then try to get into
documentaries or something like
		
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			that. Because at least that's
better than the waste of time.
		
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			Because unless you learn something
at least, and then wean yourself
		
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			off there slowly, slowly on to
something that's really very
		
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			useful. And because at the end of
the day, you watch documentaries
		
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			about different things that are
they useful in the sense that they
		
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			add some knowledge, but they're
not necessary for life. People
		
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			have passed, people have lived for
hundreds of years 1000s of years
		
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			without this document without
knowing you know how earthquakes
		
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			occur.
		
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			Right? Without seeing how cheese
is made. Right? Oh Subhanallah
		
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			and they live the life and
mashallah they died with the Karim
		
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			Allah, Allah. Hey, Lulu, and they
probably in Jana, you know, so
		
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			it's not necessary. There's just
so much I mean, subhanAllah
		
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			there's just so much that will
take your attention today. So, as
		
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			I think as long as you understand
what's right and wrong, and you're
		
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			making an effort, and you have
something good, most people don't
		
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			have anything to produce. They
don't have anything to contribute.
		
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			They literally just the rat race
of the world. So they're gonna get
		
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			involved in things like this,
because you have time people have
		
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			time. Everybody has and because
you don't have time, we actually
		
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			have a lot of time. There's very
few people who are back to back
		
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			meetings and projects and like
literally get out in the morning
		
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			do X, Y and Zed and then they have
to go to sleep. And that's it.
		
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			There's nothing else in between.
Right? So there's, there's time
		
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			people do have it's just where do
we spend that time? Allah, so we
		
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			do worship to Allah subhanaw taala
and he commands it so that we can
		
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			get close to Allah subhanaw taala
because Allah says in surah talara
		
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			verse 56, in Naramata, Allah He
Kariba Minal Marcin in Allah's
		
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			Mercy is close to the doers of
good. So that's what what we get
		
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			the Mercy of Allah subhana wa
Taala gives us good.
		
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			So why did Allah subhanaw taala
prevent us from harm, prevent us
		
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			from sin, if it is of no benefit
to him, is because Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala prevents us from
disobedience because Allah has
		
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			placed in that kind of a
situation, that if you do a
		
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			prohibition of Allah, that means
you are far from Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala
		
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			doing a prohibition, doing
something which is wrong, is just
		
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			a sign of being far from Allah.
Because Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			doesn't deal with us in a physical
location in a kind of a physical
		
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			relationship, right? He deals with
us in terms of how much we obey
		
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			Him, and how much person disobeyed
Him. So that is then equated to
		
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			what we would call closeness and
distance. So the more good that we
		
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			do we get closer to Allah. And
when he's prohibited us from
		
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			something that means if we do it,
we're going to be distant from
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala and then we
can understand the idea
		
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			Know that if we're distant from
someone like this, and even then
		
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			we say, if we're close to
somebody, but they live in another
		
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			country, we're very close. And
we're speaking to them every day
		
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			that's close, even though they so
far, sometimes is even husband
		
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			wives leaving the sun, but say
they are so distant.
		
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			They're so distant, because
they've got a problem. Distance
		
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			means problem. Distance means
rift. Distance means an issue. But
		
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			with Allah subhanaw taala, it's
one way because we can change that
		
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			he's willing to accept, he's not
stubborn, like others, just tried
		
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			to deal with a case of 20 years
where the wave finally once out,
		
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			and I'm trying to put them
together again. So they can't 20
		
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			years. They just don't want to be
with him anymore. Like, absolutely
		
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			no, it doesn't matter what he does
now. So it's huge baggage with
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala, saying, I
want you back. I know you're a
		
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			disobedient person, I know that
you've done SRF you've
		
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			transgressed. But Allah was so
broad, Allah is so expensive ally
		
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			so benevolent, he's willing to
forgive as long as we show that
		
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			genuine forgiveness. So when we're
dealing with cases between husband
		
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			and wife, you get either the wife
or the husband, whoever it is,
		
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			whoever has been doing the wrong,
they still very arrogant, some of
		
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			them. And I'm not going to change
the legend. So they both saying,
		
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			I'm not gonna change today change
this, that's difficult. In some
		
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			cases, you have one person is
blaming the other, and the other
		
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			person like, Yes, I'm wrong, I
don't care, I'm wrong, I'm willing
		
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			to change, then we've got
something and but even in that
		
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			case, the other person is so badly
hurt sometimes that they feel like
		
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			they can't change. But if they're
both arrogant, that is very
		
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			difficult with Allah subhanaw
taala. He can be as he wants, he's
		
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			over us. Well, hi above us. But he
says I'm willing to, that's why
		
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			the Hadith then tells us that he's
you go walking his he wants to,
		
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			he'll come to your running not
physically, but to give an idea.
		
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			You go, you go, you know, you you
try to extend out to him that
		
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			much. He extends out to you that
much. Allah is just willing,
		
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			because he's so kind, he's got
nothing to lose again. But he
		
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			wants us to benefit. He's just got
absolute love for the creation.
		
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			That's what he means absolute love
for creation. When you get a few
		
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			people like this, were absolutely
selfless. Doesn't matter what
		
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			you've done to him, they're
willing to forgive and the profits
		
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			or loss and manifested the highest
level of that, no matter who it
		
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			was, he was willing to forgive and
just forget. And those people who
		
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			can't forget things, and can't
overdo them, they suffer
		
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			themselves, they suffer
themselves. So what's going to
		
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			happen is that if you can't get
along with X, Y, and Zed person,
		
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			one person, maybe it's your
spouse, first, you're going to
		
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			learn to distance that person,
this is very psychological, you're
		
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			going to learn to do without them
right now that you've learned to
		
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			do without somebody you are very
close to, you can easily do that
		
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			to a number two, you can easily do
that to a third person, you can
		
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			easily do that to a fourth person.
And eventually I've seen this,
		
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			you'll realize that, hey, I've cut
out five people that were very
		
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			close to me from my life, because
I just couldn't get along with
		
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			them. I hated something that they
did. I just couldn't stand them.
		
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			They were human beings. Right?
They made mistakes, yes. But once
		
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			you start cutting people out, you
will become accustomed to cutting
		
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			people out. You will become
accustomed to estranging yourself
		
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			from people, you will get you. But
you will then suffer afterwards.
		
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			Because then you if you think back
in like in the last five years,
		
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			I've cut down three of the closest
people to me, is that a problem
		
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			with me or them now?
		
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			Right, is everybody messed up,
anybody that gets close to you,
		
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			eventually has problems because
you just can't tolerate defects.
		
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			I'm imperfect, you're imperfect?
Well, we're both imperfect. Let's
		
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			live with that. That's how Allah
has created us. We live in an
		
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			imperfect world. There's problems
in the world all the time, we are
		
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			part of the world, this problems
within us as well. So don't ever
		
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			learn to just knock somebody out
of your life.
		
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			Not to say that you must be buddy
buddy with them. But don't learn
		
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			just to knock somebody out that
you just completely cut because
		
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			you'll just do that to everybody,
eventually. Some people you do
		
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			because they are genuine,
everybody's cut them often. That's
		
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			understandable. But if you're the
one cutting everybody off, and not
		
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			everybody else, and there's a
problem with you, most likely
		
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			is really bad. It's a
psychological problem. I think a
		
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			lot of this happened during the
COVID. Don't get accustomed to
		
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			that unless you're connected to
Allah subhanaw taala but then not
		
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			at the expense of people. That's
not a good thing.
		
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			What I mean by that is not that I
mean that maybe that's not the
		
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			right way to say that at the
expense of people. What that means
		
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			is that you can't be bad to
people. That's not what Allah
		
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			wants from you. You should love
people for the sake of Allah. So
		
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			if you don't do that, then that's
a problem then that's not proper
		
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			Love of Allah Allah. So Allah
subhanaw taala is prohibited us
		
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			from wrong things. Because what
that does is that distances us
		
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			from Allah, anything that Allah
subhanaw taala will commanded us
		
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			to do.
		
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			then that the purpose of that is
to get close to Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala.
		
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			Because there's benefits in there,
and anything that he's prohibit us
		
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			from, there's actually harm in
there. Now, you might say, Why did
		
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			Allah do this? And not this? Why
did he change it? Oh, well, I
		
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			mean, at the end of the day,
there's not much we owe our
		
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			creation to him. We owe our
existence to him. What are we
		
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			going to say to him? Why did you
make this halal? Why do you make
		
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			that haram?
		
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			You're just gonna have to take it
the way it is. Take it or leave
		
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			it. I need the job. You know, it's
a matter of survival. It's what
		
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			I'm gonna have to do. Right?
That's my existence. i We need
		
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			that hereafter. We need to be
successful. So just do it. The
		
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			world is in a weird time. You
know, we're going through some
		
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			really weird times right now.
Because it's so easy to indulge in
		
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			the world. We're no longer in a
state of survival. We're in a
		
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			state of luxury. There's a fitna
to Surat right now. Which means
		
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			it's the fitna of prosperity, the
challenges of prosperity right
		
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			now. Especially in the West.
There's many places in the world
		
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			where it's still dealing with
difficulties but for us mashallah,
		
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			you know, we can get so much
that's why it is the self
		
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			independence, individualism that's
taking place.
		
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			Subhanallah
		
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			I don't like Islam. I don't like
the strictures of the rigors of
		
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			Islam. Okay. And what are you
going to go into what you think
		
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			you, you think if you have no
rigors in Islam or strictures in
		
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			Islam, then it's all going to be
wonderful and rosy, you're just
		
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			gonna go on work. And you're gonna
have to go to a pub or something,
		
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			right to relax, you're gonna have
to commit some other haram you're
		
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			gonna have to go into some other
situation, there's still demands
		
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			of life, you can't get out of that
as the dunya Allah just wants you
		
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			to be in the right strictures. So
we have unfortunately we have you
		
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			know, we have some Jimmy loves
leaving Islam and some
		
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			even Muhammad's unfortunately, the
Mohammed atheists, I mean, what a
		
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			juxtaposition. Right? But you do,
but hamdulillah there's many
		
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			Jennifers coming into Islam. And
John's coming into Islam, and the
		
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			Bob's in the garden, Jordan, and
you know, everybody else
		
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			hamdulillah curry, Allah purifies
some people and doesn't purify the
		
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			others, what are you going to do
about them? There was a mass
		
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			exodus from Islam and nobody was
coming in. Okay, maybe there's a
		
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			problem here. But hamdulillah
that's not the case.
		
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			Right? And you will never be the
case. Law user one, if Allah hung
		
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			yourself when Allah says in surah,
Colombia, he cannot be questioned
		
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			about what he does. But everybody
else is going to be questioned. I
		
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			mean, look,
		
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			I just don't understand how people
can just absolutely, really
		
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			genuinely disbelieve in another
life.
		
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			Like, how do they know? Like, do
you really think people can
		
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			disbelieve in another life? I
know, they claim it. What about
		
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			isn't there a possibility?
		
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			Like, just within there? Isn't
there a possibility? Allahu Akbar.
		
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			So anyway, his honor does not
improve in any way or increase in
		
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			any way by those who turned to him
and likewise, his honor is not
		
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			doesn't take a dent does not
become
		
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			the does not does not have any
shortcoming. Right? by anybody who
		
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			turns away from him. There's a
hadith in Sahih Muslim, right?
		
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			It's a hadith and Cozzi actually,
it's Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			Speaking himself, he says, Lo
Anna, welcome. We're here icon
		
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			we're in circum wodgina Calm. Can
who Allah Atka Calbee Raju denwa.
		
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			Hit Masada Liga. femal Keisha,
		
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			what a statement
		
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			what a statement of independence.
He said, If your first and your
		
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			last which means if from other
money, some to the end, and your
		
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			insulin, human beings and your
gym. They're the only responsible
		
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			beings anyway, if they were all on
if they were all on according to
		
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			and if their state was like the
state of the most God fearing
		
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			person. So they will all you have
this whole mass. Everybody was had
		
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			the highest level of Taqwa that
would not increase my kingdom in
		
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			any way whatsoever.
		
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			It makes no difference. Yes, there
will be greater, more people in
		
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			Jannah there'll be more people
with enjoyment. But it makes no
		
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			difference in my kingdom, because
I could have done that I could
		
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			have just made you a creation in
paradise and not have to have gone
		
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			through this could have done that.
He's already got creations in
		
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			paradise anyway. It's just not us.
He's given us a way to get beyond
		
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			them. So the hotel in which are in
Paradise and the Hillman that are
		
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			there, the young boys that are
there that they've been created
		
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			for them.
		
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			That's not who we should have made
$1 You should have made me one of
		
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			those instead. But the wonderful
thing is you
		
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			that the people of this world will
be able to ascend beyond those
		
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			people in paradise. Then Allah
subhanaw taala says it the other
		
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			way, he says and lo and Willa
Kumar Shirakawa in Sakuma Jinnah.
		
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			Colonel Allah AF Jheri curl
bureaux Julian warhead mana Casa
		
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			Dalek me mo Keisha if your first
and last in sun and human beings
		
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			and jinn, they were upon the most
transgressing heart of a single
		
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			person. Right? They were all
absolute transgressors, according
		
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			to that hearts of that one
individual that would not make
		
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			deficient my kingdom in any way
whatsoever. Not in the least not
		
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			even the least.
		
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			If that's what Allah wanted, he
could have just created people
		
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			like that just disobedient wants
to mess around somewhere on on
		
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			dunya and they can just mess
around. That's why the way I take
		
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			this is that look, Allah has
created as this way, that's where
		
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			we're in right now. We can't help
it now. Let's do the best and make
		
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			something good out of it. Why
waste opportunity? Why give up and
		
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			say I can't do anything, but it is
tough. It's tough. But that's
		
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			where we get the reward for
		
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			is designed to be tough. It's
designed to be but Allah makes it
		
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			easy and facilitates when we are
cero Khalil Yusra, believe me it
		
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			becomes easier. This is why, you
know, I've dealt with several
		
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			people who find things tough.
		
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			And they say, Have you never
questioned the faith? Have you
		
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			never questioned God?
		
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			It's like no.
		
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			Right? You've never questioned God
said No, I've never questioned
		
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			God. hamdulillah Hamdulillah. They
can't believe that.
		
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			Look, I have had trouble
understanding something, some
		
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			dilemma, some verse of the Quran,
but then you go and try to find
		
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			out and it makes sense. But I've
never had a doubt Alhamdulillah
		
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			May Allah keep it like that? I'm
not saying this is running. I'm
		
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			just saying there are people with
doubt. Why have they got doubt?
		
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			They're allowing that doubt to
occur? Because Allah is not going
		
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			to push people out of the faith.
Allah does not mislead anybody.
		
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			But if somebody has done something
wrong, the man made a blasphemous
		
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			statement one day, you may have
just made a joke about something.
		
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			Right?
		
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			A sour joke, a bad joke in the
sight of Allah that brings on all
		
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			of this wrath. Allah just stops
like, Okay, I'm not gonna help
		
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			this guy.
		
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			So then they start deviating. So
the only way if you're if this is
		
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			what I believe that if somebody is
having doubts, but they still want
		
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			their faith and just do Toba to
Allah, just repent, just return to
		
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			Allah. There's no other way about
it.
		
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			I spoke to somebody
		
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			before Ramadan. And he was having
major, like, he pretty much left
		
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			the faith according to him, but he
was still open to it. I told him
		
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			two things. I said number one,
stop
		
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			listening to stop reading anti
Islamic literature, because he was
		
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			just unfair what he was doing, he
was listening to anti semitism,
		
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			but he was not reading responses
from Muslims. Like he was just
		
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			listening to the media such you
know what I mean? Right? You don't
		
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			really try to find out like non
Muslims about Islam. They just
		
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			listen to the media, they don't
really try to find out. So that's
		
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			number one. Stop doing that.
Number two, ask God because there
		
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			was that little window open for
him. hamdulillah after about four
		
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			months, I never I didn't know what
to expect really. hamdulillah
		
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			after about four months, I see him
in the masjid.
		
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			So the only way is to actually ask
ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala for help,
		
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			because he can only help there's
nobody else to help really.
		
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			So no, I've never doubted and
inshallah we'll never doubt.
		
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			Yes, we will have issues. We will
misunderstand something, we will
		
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			be confused about something, but
we can always try to find out. Do
		
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			you guys doubt your faith? Like
somebody? Some people do, right?
		
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			It's based on ignorance. It could
be if it's based on ignorance,
		
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			that's easy, and they go and find
the truth. But if it's based on a
		
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			misdeed
		
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			that's tougher, because then you
can only ask Allah for help but
		
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			then it's a bit of a conundrum
because shaytaan doesn't make you
		
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			do they makes you hate Allah.
Right? When you read the law, when
		
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			yah, yah hoo, Yeshua saw their
whole Islam. Wherever Allah wishes
		
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			to guide, he expands his breast.
For Islam for submission, it's
		
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			easier to submit. And when that's
not the case, then it feels like
		
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			you have to climb a mountain. You
feel like you have to climb a
		
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			mountain for this because there's
a lot of atheists they don't want
		
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			to be atheists
		
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			they losing too much. The families
are against them. They've been
		
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			estranged from their families and
Serkan and they feel bad but
		
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			they're not following the right
method
		
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			of trying to get back into it.
There's a lot of other concepts
		
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			that are going around nowadays a
modern ideas that kind of become a
		
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			trend like love yourself. That's
the kind of a modern one. What's
		
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			that to do with Osama said well,
it the devil is in the detail.
		
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			Right? Love yourself that's taking
you some really dark deeds.
		
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			It's not a problem. But if love
yourself means care for yourself
		
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			because you've got this
opportunity, then that's a
		
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			wonderful thing.
		
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			Then another one was, the way you
think about things is what's going
		
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			to happen. What does Islam say
about that? So Islam says, It
		
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			depends, again, the devil is in
the details like what are you
		
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			thinking about? Yes, if you
definitely give out a good
		
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			vibe to others, and you're
positive, then you will attract
		
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			positivity. But if you are
negative, you will actually make
		
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			other people negative, that's for
sure. I mean, that's, that's
		
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			generally shown. But again, it's
not 100% rule everywhere. There's
		
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			a Hadith of the Prophet
sallallahu, which is a Hadith
		
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			could see that Allah says I am
with my servant as he thinks of
		
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			me. But that doesn't mean that if
I think Allah subhanaw taala can
		
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			and is going to produce a Rolls
Royce from thin air in front of
		
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			me.
		
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			If that's the thing that somebody
has going for them, right? Or
		
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			maybe a McLaren, or something, I
mean, who cares about Rolls Royce,
		
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			maybe they want to McLaren or
something, right?
		
00:31:02 --> 00:31:03
			Rolls Royce or McLaren.
		
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			You'd rather have the Rosa, you're
that age now.
		
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			You don't want to call a Okay. All
right, maybe the wrong guy
		
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			mentioned. Okay, so what I'm
trying to say is that actually
		
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			what they're gonna say for
something like this is that that
		
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			is wrong to do that because you're
testing Allah because that's not
		
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			the way Allah does things. You
don't generally have things come
		
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			out of thin air. That happens in
movies or in stories, right? It
		
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			doesn't happen realize Allah works
behind the veil generally, but he
		
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			also Allah give me a Rolls Royce,
then you might get one. But let's
		
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			say I want it. This is only
because I know and I've read that
		
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			you have ability of everything. So
now do this. For me. That's
		
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			challenging Allah. That's actually
wrong. That's not the way to make
		
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			dua. That's what the animal says
very clear. So don't ask for
		
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			improbable things. Don't ask for
unusual things like that, that
		
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			generally don't happen. Because
that's actually wrong to do that
		
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			though Allah if he wants to, he
can do it.
		
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			Right? Because you're trying to
like show yourself to be able to
		
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			be God or something so specially
connected, that he's going to go
		
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			against all norms of this world to
do it for you, he can, but that's
		
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			not generally what he's going to
do. And it's wrong to ask him that
		
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			way. Just the other of the DUA.
		
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			So this hadith is amazing, right?
		
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			Allah subhanho wa Taala is
absolutely transcendent of
		
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			anything that is not befitting
him. That's why we actually
		
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			now look how, how much etiquette
we must have with Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala because he's so perfect,
that we shouldn't even say that
		
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			Allah is transcendent of all
defects.
		
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			He is right. He doesn't have any
defects. But it's like saying
		
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			the, the ruler, the king, right?
Where they still have kings is not
		
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			a butcher. Well known as a bad
one. Sometimes they are butchers
		
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			in the wrong butchers. Right? The
King is not a carpenter. Well, I
		
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			mean, he might be a carpenter.
		
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			He's not a street cleaner. There
you go. He's not a street cleaner.
		
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			He obviously is not. The King is
not a street cleaner. And his big
		
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			worry of Allah and he goes in the
middle of the night to do that
		
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			different thing, but he's not a
street cleaner. That's not his
		
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			vocation. Would you say that
though? Why would you even say
		
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			that? It's just so below to say
that give a better example. You
		
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			know, the king doesn't have to
work. Okay, you know, that makes a
		
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			bit more sense. So to say that
Allah subhanaw taala is free of
		
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			defects.
		
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			You shouldn't even have to say
that, though. It's a reality. But
		
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			it's better than to say that so
that's why the the other month
		
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			Adam, they've said rather than
that say Allah is free of things
		
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			that are not benefiting him.
That's more other to say that well
		
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			etiquette to say that then saying
Allah is free of defects because
		
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			he can't have defects anyway.
		
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			So they both realities, but
there's other been speaking to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And everybody in the world, when
somebody speaks to you with better
		
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			other than somebody who's uncouth
is just much better. Right? You
		
00:34:26 --> 00:34:31
			people enjoy such people is of
polite people. Reach out to such
		
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			people, their heart goes out to
such people.
		
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			We cannot even praise Allah
subhanaw taala or describe him or
		
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			say things that are befitting to
him. And subhanAllah the person
		
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			that's going to understand that
most who had probably the most the
		
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			greatest capability to praise
Allah, the language to praise
		
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			Allah, the knowledge of Allah to
praise him to for the things that
		
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			he has would have been the
prophets Allah lowson But what did
		
00:34:55 --> 00:34:59
			the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say?
He said, Learn or see Santa and
		
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			add
		
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			Make under come up with Anita
Alana fsic I cannot encompass all
		
00:35:05 --> 00:35:09
			the praise for you, meaning as
much as this do for you, I cannot
		
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			even bring it together in any way
I cannot encompass it. So this is
		
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			what he then was forced to say. He
said You are as you have praised
		
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			yourself, that's the best way to
praise Allah. Oh Allah, you know,
		
00:35:20 --> 00:35:23
			you try you do try. And it's like
Allah thank you for this. Thank ya
		
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			Allah, I can't even praise you for
all that you're giving me but
		
00:35:26 --> 00:35:30
			thank you. You are as you have
praised yourself, this is what the
		
00:35:30 --> 00:35:33
			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said, if you want success
		
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			in this world,
		
00:35:35 --> 00:35:39
			if you want prosperity in this
world, I think right? And you can
		
00:35:39 --> 00:35:42
			try this and then let me know in
three months, but I think if you
		
00:35:42 --> 00:35:46
			want prosperity in this world,
you're struggling. And you're
		
00:35:46 --> 00:35:49
			always worried about money. Right,
which is the big concern many
		
00:35:49 --> 00:35:54
			people's mind competitions and
because we live in a world where
		
00:35:54 --> 00:35:57
			it's all about investment, and,
and all the rest of it is not just
		
00:35:57 --> 00:36:00
			about being satisfied with you
know, you have enough for the day
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:03
			and for the next two weeks. And
for the next two months. No, it
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:04
			needs to be more than that. Right?
		
00:36:06 --> 00:36:09
			If you really want prosperity,
then there's two things. So it's
		
00:36:09 --> 00:36:10
			spiritual as well.
		
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			Give some sadaqa regularly. And
number two, thank Allah for every
		
00:36:17 --> 00:36:21
			bit of good that you keep getting
as much as possible, make that a
		
00:36:21 --> 00:36:25
			habit of genuine hamdulillah
hamdulillah Like genuinely.
		
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			And you will see that it will just
grow what you have, you will not
		
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			want anything.
		
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			All right. So you give sadaqa How
would you give sadaqa? Well, you
		
00:36:37 --> 00:36:41
			could actively give sadaqa every
week or every day or whatever,
		
00:36:41 --> 00:36:43
			right? That's a bit more difficult
because you might forget you may
		
00:36:43 --> 00:36:46
			not have the change or you may not
be able to have your card or
		
00:36:46 --> 00:36:50
			whatever it is. Put a direct
deposit, direct debit started
		
00:36:50 --> 00:36:53
			direct debit off. You don't make
too much money. I mean, I'm sure
		
00:36:53 --> 00:36:56
			you can do direct debits of a
pound, right? Can you do 50 pence?
		
00:36:58 --> 00:37:01
			At least the pound like pound here
pound that's minimum like you
		
00:37:01 --> 00:37:05
			know, if you don't make too much,
if you're struggling even do a
		
00:37:05 --> 00:37:08
			pound deposit a direct debit.
		
00:37:09 --> 00:37:11
			Just because you're struggling
doesn't mean you don't give sadaqa
		
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			you can also benefit from sadaqa
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:17
			in certain categories of people
living solid goes on and maybe you
		
00:37:17 --> 00:37:19
			owe them I don't know if it's they
think
		
00:37:20 --> 00:37:24
			or poor people or whatever. No, I
think one of them I do give give
		
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			us other QA during the mug if you
do.
		
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			If you say so tell us
		
00:37:31 --> 00:37:36
			five pounds or more welfare five
pounds white thread. This is just
		
00:37:36 --> 00:37:39
			not saying you must but just write
five pounds, your local Masjid
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:43
			five pound to this organization
that were 10 pounds, 50 pounds,
		
00:37:43 --> 00:37:46
			whatever it is based on how much
you think will give you a bit of a
		
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			pinch
		
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			and start doing sugar for every
good thing that you get. Whether
		
00:37:52 --> 00:37:57
			that's a nice cut of meat dish, a
nice cooked meal, a nice day out a
		
00:37:57 --> 00:38:02
			nice jacket, a nice job, whatever
it is even having a job Subhan
		
00:38:02 --> 00:38:03
			Allah
		
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			just thank Allah just continuously
thank Allah.
		
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			If you've got 10 pairs of clothes,
thank Allah, because that is a lot
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:15
			more than some people who only
have one clothes, if they're
		
00:38:15 --> 00:38:17
			lucky, one pair of clothes if
they're lucky.
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:20
			Just think Allah.
		
00:38:21 --> 00:38:24
			You got a car that drives and
that's not giving you trouble.
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:28
			Just thank Allah hamdulillah Al
Hamdulillah just have that
		
00:38:28 --> 00:38:33
			connection. You will see
prosperity like no, you don't
		
00:38:33 --> 00:38:36
			believe it, Allah will give you
even more. This is both from the
		
00:38:36 --> 00:38:40
			Quran by the way. So the first
one, Allah says my Ucrete Allah
		
00:38:40 --> 00:38:44
			Quran Hasina for you, though if a
hula hoop or the elephant Kathira
		
00:38:44 --> 00:38:48
			whoever who is there to give a
loan a goodly loan to Allah,
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:51
			that's by giving sadaqa and Allah
is going to multiply it for you.
		
00:38:51 --> 00:38:53
			So you will get it like that. And
the other one is Elaine
		
00:38:53 --> 00:38:57
			Shackleton. zedan accom if you
think Allah then I will give you
		
00:38:57 --> 00:39:00
			more. So if you if you are
thankful, I'll give you more
		
00:39:00 --> 00:39:01
			that's what Allah says.
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:06
			Tried for three months and I think
it's guaranteed
		
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			May Allah subhanaw taala accept
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:13
			May Allah make it easy May Allah
draw us closer to Him. Allah Who
		
00:39:13 --> 00:39:18
			man to salaam Inca Salah motiva
rock then a jet early will a crumb
		
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			yeah hi you Yeah, can you Medina
Judy will karamea a caramel
		
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			acromion where Hieronymous od Nuea
Halal not teen yeah Allah have
		
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			mercy on us yeah Allah have mercy
on us. Yeah, my except us. bring
		
00:39:32 --> 00:39:36
			us close. Yeah, Allah grant us
your love. Forgive us our sins.
		
00:39:37 --> 00:39:41
			Forgive us our distance. Forgive
us our transgressions, our
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:46
			shortcomings our defects. Forgive
us our crimes or ALLAH forgive our
		
00:39:47 --> 00:39:52
			distractions. or Allah forgive us
our indulgences. Oh Allah, we've
		
00:39:52 --> 00:39:55
			done it for too long. Oh Allah
bring us close to you. Make it
		
00:39:55 --> 00:39:59
			easy for us. Oh Allah grant us
Hidalgo, Italy.
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:04
			You can grant us the sweetness of
A. O Allah grant us the sweetness
		
00:40:04 --> 00:40:10
			of faith, our Lord grant us, grant
us indulgence in that which
		
00:40:10 --> 00:40:14
			pleases you. There are so many
things out there which take our
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:20
			concentration that require and
demand our attention that we
		
00:40:20 --> 00:40:23
			become addicted to Oh ALLAH remove
this addiction make it easy for us
		
00:40:23 --> 00:40:26
			to remove that things are only
going to get worse. There's only
		
00:40:26 --> 00:40:30
			going to be more things that will
come about like this. Oh Allah do
		
00:40:30 --> 00:40:34
			not allow us to lose ourself, do
not allow us and our progeny is to
		
00:40:34 --> 00:40:39
			lose themselves in these things.
Have Allah grant us self control,
		
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			grant us a focus on what's
beneficial for us. And Allah, we
		
00:40:44 --> 00:40:48
			ask that you accept us to be
productive, still, especially for
		
00:40:48 --> 00:40:52
			something of your faith. Oh Allah
make us productive, and make us
		
00:40:52 --> 00:40:56
			leave a good legacy of Allah turn
us away from those things which
		
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			are not beneficial for us. Oh,
Allah allow us to see things and
		
00:41:00 --> 00:41:04
			the truth is The truth is, and
allow us to follow it and see the
		
00:41:04 --> 00:41:08
			wrong as the wrong and allow us to
abstain from it. Oh Allah do not
		
00:41:08 --> 00:41:14
			distort to the nature of things in
our in our sight, do not allow the
		
00:41:14 --> 00:41:18
			wrong to be shown as right in our
sight, or the right to be shown as
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:23
			wrong in our sight of Allah. We
can only we can only ask you, we
		
00:41:23 --> 00:41:26
			can only beseech you, we can only
		
00:41:27 --> 00:41:31
			entreat you, oh Allah there is no
one that can guide us, you our
		
00:41:31 --> 00:41:35
			Creator. You brought us in this
world you put us in the situation
		
00:41:35 --> 00:41:39
			when we can't proceed and we can't
succeed except with you. So Allah
		
00:41:39 --> 00:41:43
			grant us success. Grant us
advancements grant us facilitation
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:48
			and ease. Oh Allah, all those who
sit here and who are all those who
		
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			listen, oh Allah bless us on this
night. And oh Allah bless us for
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:56
			the nights that come and make the
remaining days of our life better
		
00:41:56 --> 00:41:59
			than the previous parts of our
life. And Allah allow us to
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:03
			fulfill the responsibilities you
have given us to ourselves, to our
		
00:42:03 --> 00:42:07
			children, to our the environment
and to everything that is around
		
00:42:07 --> 00:42:11
			us and Allah except the little bit
of liquor that we've been able to
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:15
			do and the little bit of
remembrance, because you gave it
		
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			to us, oh Allah if you have given
us the ability to sit here and do
		
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			these things, then Oh Allah Now we
asked you that you accept it from
		
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			us as well. Oh Allah, Oh Allah
accept our doors and remove the
		
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			sickness and illnesses that people
have fallen into and the pandemics
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:33
			and those who have passed away,
bless them. Subhana rahbek robola
		
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