Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Three Divorce in One Sitting

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh, my beloved brothers

and sisters, there's something really important that I want to

tell you today. Right? It's something that I've wanted to tell

you for a very, very long time. Three divorces are absolutely

wrong. It's a sin to give three divorces, right? To utter three

divorces at once is an absolute wrong and it's a sin and it is not

required. And that is not what is necessary. Right? If somebody

wants to divorce their wife, they're very angry or they want to

divorce their wife for whatever reason, please, one divorce is

more than sufficient. This is agreed upon, they will all agree

all the owner will agree that three divorces and there are

Hadith about this as well, three divorces are wrong, you do not

give three divorces together, we really really need to understand

this. Because for the absolute overwhelming majority of scholars,

if you give three divorces, it's a point of no return. Which means

then there's a halala, that has to be done with the wife and so on. I

know there's a minority opinion out there, right, which is not

agreed upon by the majority, that three is equal to one. But even

those people who say that I mean, I don't particularly take that

view at all, I reject that view. However, despite that, even the

people who hold that view would say that to give three is wrong,

right in the first place. It is wrong to give three, it is not

necessary at all.

We get calls all the time saying oh, I divorced my wife three times

I did it three times, the wife will call and say my husband said

it three times. Right? And then when you ask them why they say

they would say that, Oh, we did not know I didn't really mean it.

I thought you actually had to say three times one doesn't do

anything. The way to do it is actually three times. These are

all excuses. These are excuses. They say I'm ignorant of my faith.

I didn't really know Brother, you're married, you should know

about marriage, you should know about divorce as well, especially

if you've been contemplating divorce, most people will not

divorce unless they've contemplated it. Lots of people

get angry and have arguments with their spouse, they don't issue a

divorce just like that. They might swear they might do something

else, they might get very angry. They may tend to get up but they

do not say the word divorce or Talaq or whatever the case is,

generally, it's people who contemplate divorce,

from whom it actually then just comes out like that. So there's no

excuses. Again, just to finish off, three is completely wrong.

One is more than sufficient. One is more than sufficient, right?

One is more than sufficient, please, I would really, really

request really, really plead to you that tell at least 10 people

from those around you, your friends and family that just one

divorce is more than sufficient. You do not need to give three

three is actually wrong, you will be sinful for even giving three

three, right? Besides the fact of whatever happens afterwards, it

will be wrong to even get three please tell at least 10 people

this so that we can actually stop this abuse we can stop this sin

and we can actually stop so much misery from taking place and so

many families from breaking up for no reason please be part of the

change here. Right so that we can stop this abuse from taking place

please do let other know others know. And just alcohol here on a

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