Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Three Divorce in One Sitting
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The speaker discusses the three divorces that are required in marriage, and how they can be resolved. They emphasize that giving three is not required, and that there is a halala that needs to be done with the wife. The speaker also warns against giving three as an excuse, and encourages others to stop giving them.
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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh, my beloved brothers
and sisters, there's something really important that I want to
tell you today. Right? It's something that I've wanted to tell
you for a very, very long time. Three divorces are absolutely
wrong. It's a sin to give three divorces, right? To utter three
divorces at once is an absolute wrong and it's a sin and it is not
required. And that is not what is necessary. Right? If somebody
wants to divorce their wife, they're very angry or they want to
divorce their wife for whatever reason, please, one divorce is
more than sufficient. This is agreed upon, they will all agree
all the owner will agree that three divorces and there are
Hadith about this as well, three divorces are wrong, you do not
give three divorces together, we really really need to understand
this. Because for the absolute overwhelming majority of scholars,
if you give three divorces, it's a point of no return. Which means
then there's a halala, that has to be done with the wife and so on. I
know there's a minority opinion out there, right, which is not
agreed upon by the majority, that three is equal to one. But even
those people who say that I mean, I don't particularly take that
view at all, I reject that view. However, despite that, even the
people who hold that view would say that to give three is wrong,
right in the first place. It is wrong to give three, it is not
necessary at all.
We get calls all the time saying oh, I divorced my wife three times
I did it three times, the wife will call and say my husband said
it three times. Right? And then when you ask them why they say
they would say that, Oh, we did not know I didn't really mean it.
I thought you actually had to say three times one doesn't do
anything. The way to do it is actually three times. These are
all excuses. These are excuses. They say I'm ignorant of my faith.
I didn't really know Brother, you're married, you should know
about marriage, you should know about divorce as well, especially
if you've been contemplating divorce, most people will not
divorce unless they've contemplated it. Lots of people
get angry and have arguments with their spouse, they don't issue a
divorce just like that. They might swear they might do something
else, they might get very angry. They may tend to get up but they
do not say the word divorce or Talaq or whatever the case is,
generally, it's people who contemplate divorce,
from whom it actually then just comes out like that. So there's no
excuses. Again, just to finish off, three is completely wrong.
One is more than sufficient. One is more than sufficient, right?
One is more than sufficient, please, I would really, really
request really, really plead to you that tell at least 10 people
from those around you, your friends and family that just one
divorce is more than sufficient. You do not need to give three
three is actually wrong, you will be sinful for even giving three
three, right? Besides the fact of whatever happens afterwards, it
will be wrong to even get three please tell at least 10 people
this so that we can actually stop this abuse we can stop this sin
and we can actually stop so much misery from taking place and so
many families from breaking up for no reason please be part of the
change here. Right so that we can stop this abuse from taking place
please do let other know others know. And just alcohol here on a
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