Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Unavoidable Power of Culture in Marriage Embrace, Modify, and Thrive

			Remember that culture is going to
be the most powerful.
		

			Usually, for the majority of
people, culture is the most
		

			powerful factor in your life.
		

			Even if you consider yourself to
be not cultural, all that means
		

			is, I'm probably not part of my
father's culture or my mother's
		

			culture. I've just developed
another culture. Right? You can
		

			never escape culture. That's why
what you can do though, is you can
		

			take the best of any culture, and
modify your culture and free
		

			yourself from debilitating aspects
of your culture. So that's a very,
		

			very important discussion and
culture as a massive, really,
		

			really, really big influence on a
marriage, you can't escape it.
		

			Also, a lot of people think that
marriage is just between me and my
		

			spouse. And that's a major
fallacy.