Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Power of Acknowledgement Boosting Confidence and Connection ibn Yusuf

			affirmation. The second A is
affirmation. So the first one was
		

			affection. Second one is
affirmation. Affirmation means to
		

			basically acknowledge and show
that we value them whenever they
		

			do anything good. Many times our
attitude is that if they do well,
		

			well, they should do well. There's
no need for me to compliment, but
		

			if they do bad, then they're in
trouble. Why did you get less
		

			marks? Why did you get a low grade
but if you got a decent grade,
		

			well, you should be getting a
decent grade anyways to get decent
		

			grades, so you shouldn't be
getting decent grades. Very
		

			important here is that we need to
show positive reinforcement of all
		

			the good things they do. If
they've made the bed in the
		

			morning. They bet they've cleaned
up the room that should be
		

			complimented. I know it's a duty,
but it should be complimented. If
		

			they woken up early. If they've
gotten ready early for school for
		

			example, if whatever if they've
done anything they need to be
		

			complimented. But don't overdo the
compliment so that it looks fake.