Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Iddah of Khula’ is not One Month

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of finding a woman who has a mulesholes view in order to encourage others to take a serious interest in Islam. They explain that this view is not the dominant one and is not the strongest one. The speaker also mentions courses on Islam and the importance of reading books to gain an understanding of the subjects.

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			Also another thing I want to make
very, very clear is that recently
		
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			there's a I've had two or three
questions like this when a woman
		
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			does get a holler, right from
either a shittier
		
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			a Sharia Council, or between
husband and wife.
		
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			There is a
		
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			there is a Hadith which only one
opinion of Imam Ahmed ignore
		
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			humble supports only one opinion
the other opinion doesn't support
		
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			it. Is that in a holler in a hola
situation where the woman pays for
		
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			her divorce pays to get a divorce.
Right?
		
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			When he pays for a divorce, that
the her in that is only one month
		
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			and not three months. That's one
opinion.
		
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			This is a very, very weak opinion.
It is not accepted by the majority
		
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			the older mother hips and the
Sahaba etc. They said as Allah
		
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			mentions the edit of a woman is
three ministrations three months
		
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			three ministrations.
		
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			Literally a woman called the other
day,
		
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			actually her friend called first
and she had found out this
		
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			massage. She wanted to confirm I
said, Yes, you're right.
		
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			She got finally a whole lot from
her husband, just less than a
		
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			month ago.
		
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			And it's going to be a month this
weekend. And she's got a new Nikka
		
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			plan for this week. This Saturday
thing. I said, Look,
		
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			you can tell me whatever you want,
but whoever's told you is wrong.
		
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			This is not the Hanafi view is not
the Shafi view is not the Maliki
		
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			view. And it is not the stronger
humbly view. It is ignore him and
		
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			entertain me as view.
Unfortunately, they were good
		
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			scholars, but they have these
views that go against everybody
		
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			else. And today, there's people
who pick that up and against the
		
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			whole majority. Right. So some
Mufti some Sheikh, somewhere has
		
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			given her that fatwa. I'm saying,
Look, your Nikka is going to be
		
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			Zina. According to the majority.
How do you feel about that? Oh,
		
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			but it's already fixed. I said,
Look, just wait. suburb Karla two
		
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			months.
		
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			So I just want to make it very
clear that it that all it that is
		
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			minimum three months, for any free
woman, and that is three months.
		
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			And for a woman who has been has
died, then hers is four months and
		
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			10 days, there is no one month it
that, according to the format has
		
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			the dominant view and a strongest
view, that is a very, very minor
		
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			view. And you're going to be in
Zina, according to everybody else.
		
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			So I just wanted to clarify that
the point of a lecture is to
		
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			encourage people to act to get
further an inspiration, and
		
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			encouragement, persuasion. The
next step is to actually start
		
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			learning seriously, to read books
to take on a subject of Islam and
		
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			to understand all the subjects of
Islam at least at the basic level,
		
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			so that we can become more aware
of what our Dean wants from us.
		
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			And that's why we started Rayyan
courses, so that you can actually
		
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			take organize lectures on demand
whenever you have free time,
		
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			especially for example, the
Islamic essentials course that we
		
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			have on the Islamic essentials
certificate which you take 20
		
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			Short modules, and at the end of
that insha Allah you will have
		
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			gotten the basics of most of the
most important topics in Islam and
		
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			you'll feel a lot more confident.
You don't have to leave lectures
		
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			behind you can continue to live,
you know to listen to lectures,
		
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			but you need to have this more
sustained study as well as aka la
		
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			harem Salaam Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh