Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Iddah of Khula’ is not One Month

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of finding a woman who has a mulesholes view in order to encourage others to take a serious interest in Islam. They explain that this view is not the dominant one and is not the strongest one. The speaker also mentions courses on Islam and the importance of reading books to gain an understanding of the subjects.
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Also another thing I want to make very, very clear is that recently

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there's a I've had two or three questions like this when a woman

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does get a holler, right from either a shittier

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a Sharia Council, or between husband and wife.

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There is a

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there is a Hadith which only one opinion of Imam Ahmed ignore

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humble supports only one opinion the other opinion doesn't support

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it. Is that in a holler in a hola situation where the woman pays for

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her divorce pays to get a divorce. Right?

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When he pays for a divorce, that the her in that is only one month

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and not three months. That's one opinion.

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This is a very, very weak opinion. It is not accepted by the majority

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the older mother hips and the Sahaba etc. They said as Allah

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mentions the edit of a woman is three ministrations three months

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three ministrations.

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Literally a woman called the other day,

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actually her friend called first and she had found out this

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massage. She wanted to confirm I said, Yes, you're right.

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She got finally a whole lot from her husband, just less than a

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month ago.

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And it's going to be a month this weekend. And she's got a new Nikka

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plan for this week. This Saturday thing. I said, Look,

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you can tell me whatever you want, but whoever's told you is wrong.

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This is not the Hanafi view is not the Shafi view is not the Maliki

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view. And it is not the stronger humbly view. It is ignore him and

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entertain me as view. Unfortunately, they were good

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scholars, but they have these views that go against everybody

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else. And today, there's people who pick that up and against the

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whole majority. Right. So some Mufti some Sheikh, somewhere has

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given her that fatwa. I'm saying, Look, your Nikka is going to be

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Zina. According to the majority. How do you feel about that? Oh,

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but it's already fixed. I said, Look, just wait. suburb Karla two

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months.

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So I just want to make it very clear that it that all it that is

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minimum three months, for any free woman, and that is three months.

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And for a woman who has been has died, then hers is four months and

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10 days, there is no one month it that, according to the format has

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the dominant view and a strongest view, that is a very, very minor

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view. And you're going to be in Zina, according to everybody else.

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So I just wanted to clarify that the point of a lecture is to

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encourage people to act to get further an inspiration, and

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encouragement, persuasion. The next step is to actually start

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learning seriously, to read books to take on a subject of Islam and

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to understand all the subjects of Islam at least at the basic level,

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so that we can become more aware of what our Dean wants from us.

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And that's why we started Rayyan courses, so that you can actually

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take organize lectures on demand whenever you have free time,

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especially for example, the Islamic essentials course that we

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have on the Islamic essentials certificate which you take 20

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Short modules, and at the end of that insha Allah you will have

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gotten the basics of most of the most important topics in Islam and

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you'll feel a lot more confident. You don't have to leave lectures

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behind you can continue to live, you know to listen to lectures,

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but you need to have this more sustained study as well as aka la

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harem Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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