Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Engagement Period

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker is discussing the engagement period and how it works. They mention a Hadith about wanting someone to buy or sell something, but it is unclear what that is. The conversation is difficult to follow and the speaker suggests that people should consider a certain person before committing to anything.

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			Just to cover the engagement
period, when people get engaged, I
		
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			just want to clarify that that is
not a Nikka that is not a marriage
		
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			engagement just means okay. You
have been fixed up with this
		
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			person. There is a Hadith which
mentions that when somebody has
		
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			already is in advanced discussions
with somebody else to get married,
		
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			or to buy something or sell
something, a business deal or
		
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			something that nobody else should
come in and try to sway this or
		
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			remove it, yes, if it's just
initial discussion, I'm looking,
		
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			okay, I'm gonna go and see such a
person, then it's okay for
		
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			somebody else to come and say, Oh,
but have you considered this
		
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			person? But once you have advanced
discussions, and it's like you're
		
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			going to commit because you have
to have a discussion. So after
		
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			that, you can't until it falls
through. If it falls through