Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – The Difference between a Mufti, Judge and Arbitrator

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses their experiences with divorce and a husband-wife conflict, including their roles as Mu Mister, wife, and arbitrator. They emphasize the importance of not forgetting to answer questions and not just remembering information. The role of an arbitrator in a situation where a favorite dish is considered a favorite is discussed, emphasizing the importance of not forgetting to answer questions and not just remembering information. The arbitrator has to assess the situation and use both sides of the story to determine the truth.
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I just want to clarify one thing. I've had this experience twice

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now, I received the question from somewhere.

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Generally generally related to a divorce issue

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or a husband wife conflict. So I got this well worded written out.

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Question a fatwa is ticked up asking for a fatwa. So I look at

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it, and I respond based on exactly what's mentioned in there. And

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this is essentially the task of the Mufti to do this.

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Then after that, two occasions, I've then had after a few weeks,

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or whatever it is, or sometimes after a few months, one, in one

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case, it was after a few weeks. In one case, after a few months, I'll

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get another correspondence from someone else, from somebody else,

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saying that you've given a wrong photo, your foot you have in one

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case, it was your footwork conflicts with the fatwa of

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another Mufti in another town in England. I have a lot of respect

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for that Mufti. So I said, what happened? Which fatwa did I give

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him? What was the issue? I tried to avoid localized issues, where I

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just tell people look, ask the local mufti, there is no see what

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sometimes what people do is they ask them off the somewhere else

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who doesn't understand the whole significance of that context. They

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get a yes patois from him. And then they wave it around to all

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the other people in that area. Whereas the Mufti is in that area

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know the situation better. And they would say it's wrong. In that

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case, I try to avoid those kinds of situations anyway. So this

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wasn't one of those kinds of cases, I was quite perturbed. I

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said, what happened? And then I discovered that what it was, is

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that he's saying that you did not listen to the whole story. And you

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acted based on one side. So then, this was the first case. In the

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second case, again, it was a wife asking me certain questions. I

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responded, based on what she asked me no more than that. And then her

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husband calls me several months afterwards saying, I'm really

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upset. I read my wife's email. I read your response to her. And

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there were a lot of inaccuracies in it says whether inaccuracies in

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my response or the inaccuracies in what she said. He said, obviously,

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in what she said. So then I tried to explain to him, I said, Look,

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first and foremost, don't worry about it. Because I don't even

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remember much of these details. We answer so many questions. We

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don't, we can't remember. We shouldn't want to remember all of

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these details, and walk around knowing so much about other

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people. It's not right, right. It's not healthy as well. So first

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and foremost, you don't have to worry about that. Number two, let

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me explain something. And this is the main point of bringing this up

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today. There are three different hats a person can wear. There are

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three different capacities that a person can act in. Because there

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are three roles we're talking about. One is the role of a Mufti.

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Number two is the role of a official of the an official judge,

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set up by the government, by the ruling faction, whatever it may

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be, right, that's the party. And number three is the arbitrary. The

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arbitrator, the one who's been set up as a judge in an unofficial

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manner between two parties that I've said, Okay, we'll listen to

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what you say. So now you've got three positions, arbitrator called

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the judge and number three is a Mufti

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and one has to understand each one of these, the coffee is the most

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powerful position, the coffee is set up by the government. He has

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the law at his hands, whatever he says the decree that he gives can

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be imposed, they can use force to impose it that is legislative, it

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is something is not just an opinion, it is the law. When a cow

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he says something, he consults a Mufti. The Mufti is the

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knowledgeable scholar about the fic and jurisprudence about

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something, they give an opinion they could have 10 Both these as

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his consultants, and he will take based on what he thinks from these

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different movies. Now, in this case, in this country, we don't

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have any of these as such, generally speaking, we generally

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have the arbitrators, arbitrators. And so now we're going to deal

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with arbitrator, arbitrator and coffee very similar except that

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the coffee is official, arbitrator is not official. That's the only

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difference prior main difference. We're going to understand the

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difference between an arbitrator

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and a Mufti. If I get a question from somebody, my job as a Mufti

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is only to respond to what I'm being asked about. No more than

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that. It's not my job to then go and investigate, hire an

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investigator do snooping myself, and to kind of figure out what the

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reality is and whether it's real or not, or this, that and other.

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That's not my job as a Mufti Murthy just responds to the

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question please to him. That's what I'm doing. arbitrator on the

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other hand, if he hears one side of the story, and he makes a

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judgment, you will be completely wrong to do this. Because his

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judgment tends to be binding and you can't

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Have a binding judgment when you don't know the full story. So the

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arbitrator has to ask both sides, speak and consult with both sides

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and really assess the matter and then try to ascertain the truth

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that both these job is different. Yes, if a Mufti wants to then act

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as an arbitrator and get involved in a marriage issue or a

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situation, it's a different story whatsoever, but when you get a

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straightforward questionnaire from one person, as an estimator, our

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job is only to respond to that. And if you look in the books of

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fatawa Kitab Nica, you know, all of these photo books Kitab Nica,

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this is what you'll see, there's a question that's asked, and the

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response given based on that question. And a lot of the time,

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the question could be, not 100% accurate. But that's why it's the

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responsibility of the other side that if somebody shows you a

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fatwa, you look at the question that was asked.

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That's very important, but it is not the job of Mufti to go and

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investigate to find out both sides of the story and then give his

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response because he is not an arbitrator. Yes, if somebody asks

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a Mufti to arbitrate, and the mostly agrees to arbitrate, then

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he can ask both questions. So then he's going to be wearing the hat

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of an arbitrator them and not just not just the hat of a mufti, but

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when he's wearing the hat of just the Mufti, then he's only going to

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respond based on what's asked of him. So just try to understand

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that this will help cases inshallah you won't have to deal

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with such cases. But I'm just mentioning this because it's it's

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a common kind of misunderstanding that why did he ask the other side

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of the story?

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