Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Signs of the Last Day Series Intermediate Signs Part 1

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss various topics related to the final science, including the Day of Judgment and the Day of Killer, and emphasize the importance of finding balance and respect for women while acknowledging the demands of their mother. They also discuss the use of Facebook to be closer to friends and family, the importance of teaching children respect for their mother, and the negative impact of actions and actions on people's lives. The speakers emphasize the need for people to learn to respect the presence of the Prophet and find ways to avoid them, and stress the importance of avoiding giving backhanders to businesses in cities like third world cities.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Hamdan
		
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			cathedra on the human mobile
rockin V. Mubarak Canada. He can
		
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			now your Hebrew buena Huerta gel
La Jolla who are Manawatu was
		
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			Salatu was Salam ala as the dill
Habiba Lucifer SallAllahu Taala
		
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			are they who are the he was about
to go seldom at the Sleeman
		
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			Kathira in Iowa within a month.
		
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			So today, we officially begin the
second part of our series and the
		
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			second part of our series are
speaking now, about all of the
		
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			prophecies the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam made about issues
		
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			that will occur continuously, and
they will become more intense,
		
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			they will become more
proliferated, they will become
		
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			more widespread and more popular.
		
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			And day by day, as the time draws
closer to the day of judgment,
		
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			they will increase. So these are
those types of prophecies of the
		
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			messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi salam. So these are those
		
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			things which He foretold 1400
years ago, and he said that these
		
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			things will increase. These are
still minor signs. But they're
		
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			unlike our first part of the
series, which were the early signs
		
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			which were more about specific
incidents, specific happenings,
		
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			very particular notes about
certain things, or particular
		
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			prophecies about particular
individuals or places. That's what
		
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			we've covered till now, we've
already had a bit of an
		
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			introduction about this, this
second part of this series, which
		
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			are about the things which the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam told us that they will
occur. And these things, the
		
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			unique thing about these things
that didn't make distinguish them
		
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			from the major science, which is,
which we'll be covering in the
		
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			third part of this series. The
thing that distinguishes these
		
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			things that we will be speaking
about right now, is that they are
		
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			minus signs in the sense that they
will occur in different
		
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			intensities, different amounts,
		
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			in different parts of the world.
		
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			The major signs, once they appear,
they will be global, they will be
		
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			they will affect everybody. But
these ones they not necessarily in
		
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			the sense that that you could have
places in the world where these
		
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			things are a lot less than in
other places, as you will start to
		
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			see.
		
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			But they will grow and grow and
grow and become more intense and
		
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			more clear and more vivid and more
apparent, as the days go towards
		
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			the final science until a meet up
with the final science. So the
		
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			first thing, which we already
looked at last time, but I'll just
		
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			repeat it. The first sign in this
regard
		
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			is related by Muhammad Imam to me
the number of other authors from
		
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			who they thought of the Allah one.
		
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			And ignore the way has related it
from it really Allah one as well.
		
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			That the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam said that the Day of
		
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			Judgment will not occur most of
these Hadith like the Day of
		
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			Judgment will not occur, the final
day will not come the final day
		
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			will not come until so and so will
happen. So, that the call was at
		
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			the Akun. At the Hakuna as sad, as
I do nasty bit dunya Luca IGNOU,
		
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			Luca,
		
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			we covered that, at some, you
know, with some details last time,
		
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			but just again, the Day of
Judgment will not occur until the
		
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			most fortunate person among people
		
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			in the dunya, or the person who
will be considered to be the most
		
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			fortunate from a worldly
perspective among people will be
		
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			the base born person person who is
the son of a baseball in person,
		
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			which means a person who does not
have any particular nobility as
		
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			such. You know, there was nothing
about the family ancestors. In
		
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			fact, there was meanness there was
they were considered to be of
		
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			nuttin, you know, of no substance.
I mean, this is not about class,
		
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			racism, you have to realize that
it's not about we're not talking
		
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			about goodness, only being able to
come from people who have high
		
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			clans. That's not the point here
at all. The point here is that a
		
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			person who was looked down upon
because they were the the people
		
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			who used to, you know, be
despicable in their behavior in
		
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			the action in the conduct. And the
forefathers were also like that,
		
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			and now they're still like that,
but they have reached a high
		
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			position in terms of the dunya. So
people begin to respect them not
		
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			for their behavior because the
behavior is still bad, but because
		
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			they've been able to do to the
crime or their swindling, or their
		
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			corruption or whatever it was.
		
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			They
		
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			They've been able to amass a lot
of wealth or influence or
		
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			some kind of stature. So it's,
it's a status, but it's kind of a
		
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			negative status, that you're more
likely to consider them to be
		
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			fortunate because of your fear of
them, or your fear of the evil. So
		
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			this is not about a race or racism
to do with class or anything of
		
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			that nature. This is more about a
person, even if they were from a
		
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			decent clan as such, but they were
despicable in their nature, they
		
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			were vile in their nature. But now
because they've amassed so much
		
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			they've
		
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			they become considered, they're
now considered to be the most
		
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			fortunate according to the dunya.
		
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			Well, the Hadith makes it out that
they were looking at if you look
		
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			at so they would have to actually
come from a kind of a, not a very
		
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			noble class anyway to start with.
And
		
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			so that's, that's that hadith.
		
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			And now we see that we see people
who started off from nowhere,
		
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			absolutely nowhere. No quality, no
qualifications. But
		
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			you flaunt your body, you say, a
few lines, you swear a lot, right?
		
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			You cuss a lot, and you just act
bad and stupid and
		
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			wicked, right? In fact, those
words wicked and bad or good now?
		
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			Right? That's really wicked.
That's really good.
		
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			Right? So these are, I mean, you
can just see how the whole trend
		
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			is changing, including in the
terminology.
		
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			So something good happens, you
will call it wicked
		
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			or bad.
		
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			So yeah, that's now you can
understand where this is coming
		
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			from. And look at it means either
a slave which we don't have any
		
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			more, right, so this would be in
the earlier days. Oh, just
		
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			somebody who's foolish, somebody
who's not very intellectual,
		
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			somebody who's of a low IQ,
		
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			or a mean person, a debased
person, somebody who's just very
		
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			mean and despicable kind of
person, but now, because of
		
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			something, because now people
respect that kind of attitude or
		
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			behavior, they become prominent
now. And there are so many TV
		
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			shows like that,
		
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			that are purely based on
despicable behavior.
		
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			Like on BBC, there's, there is a
show that they find people who do
		
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			funny things, like, pick their
nose. And they actually filmed
		
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			that person picking their nose and
eating and all sorts of stuff. And
		
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			then they show that to the people.
		
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			You know, there's people who
fought
		
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			flatulence, you know, release
wind.
		
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			And they find people who do that,
and they're willing to come on TV,
		
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			they film them, and then they show
that to millions of people. And
		
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			people actually enjoy watching
them.
		
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			So there's people of despicable
things like that, that make people
		
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			famous.
		
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			They throw people into a house for
about six months, or four months,
		
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			or whatever it is.
		
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			And then the one that acts in a
particular way, or whatever wins
		
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			the show, and makes a lot of money
become celebrity, and even those
		
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			that don't, these are various
different ways of exploiting
		
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			people's
		
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			strange tendencies and so on, and
becoming famous with that,
		
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			then suddenly, the person has a
perfume to their name, they sign
		
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			many deals, then they do a little
singing job here, and then you
		
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			become famous. And then the thing
now is that all these young kids,
		
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			they all want to become famous,
easy.
		
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			So this whole discussion that I
was listening to another day, the
		
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			other day, that if your children
come to you, and they want to be
		
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			famous,
		
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			one is that they want to be
accomplished. You know, I want to
		
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			be a top surgeon, I want to be a
top scientist, fine. You know,
		
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			that's a good thing. I want to be
a you know, a great scholar,
		
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			that's completely fine. That's all
good things. Because then if
		
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			that's what they think now, that's
their ambition, then they will
		
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			work towards it. They will take
the right measures, but I want to
		
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			be famous.
		
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			How would you want to be famous? I
don't know. I just want to be
		
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			famous. Why would I want to try
these big Cadillacs, Escalades?
		
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			You know, or I want to just wear a
lot of chains
		
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			or I want to have big houses or
whatever, because that's what
		
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			they're seeing. How do you want to
be like that? I don't know. But if
		
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			that's the ambition and the goal
that this child holds in their
		
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			mind, then they then you can see
that this is very shallow.
		
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			A focus on fame is very shallow,
whereas a focus on
		
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			and accomplishments that shows
something that showed ambition and
		
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			this shallow, superficial kind of
ambition to just become famous. I
		
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			don't know how and I don't care
how, what's that going to do that
		
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			is going to take this person to
find ways to become like that.
		
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			Easy Ways, shortcuts, and the
easiest ways,
		
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			the worst of the ways.
		
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			So these things are going to
become respected on it in a
		
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			certain way.
		
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			Because you know that BBC is not
going to put up programs if they
		
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			don't work if people don't watch
them.
		
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			The whole thing about TV is that
you make programs and
		
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			documentaries and other things of
that nature that people watch so
		
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			that it's worth your money.
Otherwise, they will be scrapped.
		
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			But there's just so many things
like that.
		
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			Another one,
		
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			which we looked at as well
		
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			is
		
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			this one is related by Montero
MIDI,
		
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			in which the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said that either
		
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			afar Raju Imran
		
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			Wacka, Omaha, or other NASA who
saw above whatever I tell us where
		
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			to fill masajid.
		
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			So, this is the part of the
Hadith, which tells us that the
		
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			issues or the occurrences is that
when a man begins to obey his
		
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			wife.
		
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			Now,
		
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			let me read the whole Hadith first
before I start explaining that,
		
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			when a man begins to obey his
wife, and disobey his mother, so
		
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			you have to take those two
together.
		
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			Now there's a relationship between
the two, you have to realize that
		
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			there's nothing wrong with obeying
one's wife if she's telling the
		
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			truth, or if she's giving you the
right guidance. That likewise, the
		
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			wife, there is nothing wrong with
her obeying the husband, he's
		
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			doing the right thing. But you
cannot obey your husband or wife.
		
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			If they tell you to disobey Allah.
What are they telling you
		
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			something wrong, you know, the
relationship between a husband
		
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			wife is not that the husband
always has to be listened to by
		
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			the wife, and the wife never can
be listened to. That's not the
		
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			point. The point is that when it
comes to a decision making,
		
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			because the husband is supposed to
be according to the Sharia with
		
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			the prophets of Allah, why Islam
gave him the responsibility as the
		
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			head of the household, then that's
just this hierarchy that's there.
		
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			However, in certain issues, for
example, many men, they have no
		
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			idea what the children are doing
at school, or how the school
		
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			functions when the parent evenings
are, they have no idea about that.
		
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			It's the mothers that know about
all of that, in fact, when you
		
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			have to decide which secondary
school to go to a junior high or
		
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			whatever, you know, the next
school to go to and there's
		
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			choices. A lot of the time the
father has no idea, right, because
		
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			they went to Homerton house and
Hamilton house is no longer there.
		
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			Right? So they have no idea. So
it's the mothers that normally
		
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			know, right? It's the mothers that
normally know, they look at all
		
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			the research, all that kind of
stuff. So I mean, if the husband
		
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			then insist on certain things,
whereas the the mother really
		
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			knows. And she's done all the
research as to what's a good
		
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			school and all that. And her
husband is just insisting that his
		
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			son goes to a particular school
because he went there. But now
		
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			it's a bad school. Right? That's
obviously going to be ridiculous,
		
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			right? But anyway, that's not our
point here. Our point that we want
		
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			to speak about here is that at the
expense of his mother's happiness,
		
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			the person will obey his wife in a
sense that he will shun his
		
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			mother. And He will put His wife
closer to him. And that's the
		
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			problem we're talking about here.
Right? Because that's the sign. So
		
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			these are connected, a person will
put aside his mother and will obey
		
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			his wife. Now, of course, you have
to realize that if the wife is not
		
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			making unnecessary demands, right,
she's not making unreasonable
		
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			demands, but the mother is making
unreasonable demands, then this,
		
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			obviously, you'd have to put it in
perspective. It doesn't mean that
		
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			if the mother tells you to be bad
to your wife that you're allowed
		
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			to do that. Because she hates her
guts, she has no religious
		
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			reasons, she's thinks that she
stole you.
		
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			Right? If I'm talking to the men,
that's how certain most thing the
		
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			mothers, they, they want their
children to get married. And when
		
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			they do, and they find out that
there's somebody else that they
		
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			can actually love. Right? Then
they start to think that they've
		
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			been stolen. So then they become
an enemy, and is this achieved
		
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			dynamic that takes place there. So
if it's that kind of a situation
		
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			is different, but a person looking
at this must still proceed
		
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			cautiously.
		
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			So that it's not that he
completely, completely puts his
		
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			mother aside.
		
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			He needs to make sure that he
creates a balance where he's
		
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			fulfilling the respect and the
honor of his mother. But at the
		
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			same time, he has to look after
the wife the wife has left her
		
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			home to come and meet me in this
home. So there's both of these
		
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			aspects that have to be looked at.
But when a person completely be
		
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			comes his his wife's, and
disregards his mother even though
		
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			she's a nice person, right? And
she's not asking for any
		
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			unreasonable something, then
obviously that's wrong. There's a
		
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			story that I read recently that
was brought to our attention. A
		
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			person went into a gold shop, you
know, these Saudi gold shops that
		
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			they have. I'm sure the women who
are listening know what I'm
		
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			talking about. They go when they
go for Oberon Hajj, they also take
		
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			their jewelry with them. Right? A
lot of them, because these this
		
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			jewelry they've had with them for
the last 1015 years and they're
		
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			tired of it, their husbands are
tired of looking at it as well.
		
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			Right? So they want to go, they'll
go and change it with something
		
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			else. They'll exchange it. So
there's a lot that's why you see a
		
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			lot of this proliferation of gold
shops around the Haram in Makkah
		
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			and Medina, right is in Morocco is
in Medina, I'm not sure where the
		
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			more famous ones are.
		
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			Both of them, okay. Both of them
the same, okay.
		
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			Right. So then you go there, you
give you a gold, and then they
		
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			wait for you and then they say,
Okay, this is how much the value
		
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			is pick something else. So then,
you know, you pick something else
		
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			and you kind of do a little swap
type of thing, right, you get a
		
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			bit less than what you've what you
gave in.
		
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			So anyway, hair, though, what I'm
talking about is that a man came
		
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			in a young couple, just newly
married, you can see fresh
		
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			marriage, meaning about a year or
something and they had this old
		
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			woman behind them who came into
the shop with a kid with a little
		
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			baby. She's carrying the baby. And
this husband and wife. He's really
		
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			excited. He's telling his wife,
you know, yeah, look, look at this
		
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			one. Look at the one unit strangle
expensive pieces, sets of you
		
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			know, necklace and whatever that
comes with an easterner you know,
		
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			pick whichever one you want. And
at that time, the mother, this old
		
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			woman, you'd assume she's the
mother, and she's on the side, and
		
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			she's holding the baby. Finally,
they select a set and he's been
		
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			asking for prices all along. So
when it comes to this particular
		
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			one, you know, maybe it's 10,000
rial 10,000 Real Saudi currency.
		
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			So he gives 10,000 Real and the
shopkeeper said, plus 10,000 plus
		
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			700. Well, you know, you still owe
me 700. So, this is what's the 705
		
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			This is 10,000 wage overcharging
me. He said no. And then he points
		
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			to the old woman. And she had poor
woman she'd found a ring. And in a
		
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			while, they'd be looking all these
necklaces. And she'd found this
		
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			basic ring and she said, I'd
really liked this for Eid.
		
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			Eid was coming up. I'd really
liked this for Eid. So the husband
		
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			just
		
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			turns around says, What's the old
woman going to do with jewelry?
		
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			What's an old woman going to do
with goals?
		
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			So the mother just dropped that
ring there on the surface and she
		
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			walked off outside the shop.
		
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			Now you think
		
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			look at what the wife says. She
says to her husband, she gets
		
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			angry with him. She said, What's
wrong with you look at what you've
		
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			done to your mother, she's not
gonna look after the baby anymore.
		
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			So the man quickly goes out, goes
out of the shop, finds his mother
		
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			and takes his ring, the ring
whether it says okay, you know
		
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			this is for you. And the mother
just says I've just taken an oath
		
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			of swear by Allah that I will
never wear gold until I die again.
		
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			So now you can see in here
		
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			what's happening in this case.
		
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			Right she wasn't making any major
demands. She wasn't even asking
		
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			for equality as such. Just wanted
a small ring. She's looking after
		
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			the baby.
		
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			You know, there's just so many
other factors aside from being a
		
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			mother that would justify her
having the ring anyway.
		
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			So these are the kinds of things
that this hadith is speaking about
		
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			which is to obey the wife and
disobey the mother
		
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			what are the NASA DECA who were
AXA above the next part of this
		
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			hadith again they go together
		
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			is a person will make close his
friends or bring close his friends
		
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			because if you read them
separately, there's nothing wrong
		
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			with this one.
		
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			Bring close your friends well, you
should you should friends, you
		
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			should be close. The problem is
bring close your friends were AXA
		
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			above
		
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			but distance, your distance your
parents distance your father.
		
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			Now, this is a very RGV very
strange way that this is happening
		
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			in this time and age.
		
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			Draw close your friends and
distance your father.
		
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			How would you do that? You know,
you might come up with different
		
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			ideas. But there's a very unique
way that this is happening now.
		
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			Where you can be in the house.
You're sitting in the next room to
		
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			your father, your parents. See
your parents in the same room
		
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			maybe maybe next to your father,
but you're still closer to your
		
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			friends and your father.
		
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			And that's through your
smartphone, or your laptop, right?
		
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			Your iPad on Facebook.
		
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			So though your father is next to
you, or your mother or the whole
		
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			family, you are closer to your
friends sitting in the same room,
		
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			because you're on Facebook.
		
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			I'm not saying that's why Facebook
is bad. I'm not saying Facebook is
		
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			bad even. Right? There are a lot
of bad things you can do on
		
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			Facebook. Absolutely.
		
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			But the point here is that it's
allowed you to be closer to your
		
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			friends, but distance from your
parents. So they could be talking
		
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			about the most important thing,
and you'd be somewhere else with
		
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			3050 100 other people poking them.
The shaytaan is known to poke,
		
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			especially when people are born,
the shaytaan pokes. And the only
		
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			person that was protected from
that, as mentioned a hadith was
		
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			isa Alayhi Salatu. Salam and his
mother that they were protected
		
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			from the poking of shaytaan.
		
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			That's a bit of a, I mean, that's
a bit of a humor, there may be
		
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			some reality in there. But that's
a bit of a humor, you know, I'm
		
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			not.
		
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			I don't know where they got this
poking business from, but it's a
		
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			bit funny.
		
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			But seriously, that's what it is.
I mean, there's nothing wrong with
		
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			communicating with your friends
and having good friends have good
		
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			friends, though. That's the point.
And if you only use Facebook for
		
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			that, well, maybe that's okay. But
what we're talking about here is
		
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			this hadith, which is showing that
you're going to be closer to your
		
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			friends and your than your
parents. Even though you're going
		
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			to be living with them, you're
going to be relying on them,
		
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			they're going to buy you this
computer, they're going to do all
		
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			that stuff. Still,
		
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			you're gonna be closer to your
friends. So you don't have to be
		
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			outside the house until four
o'clock at night or living
		
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			somewhere else. You can be right
in your house and doing that. And
		
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			subhanAllah look at what this
hadith say.
		
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			And then what the facts are in the
same Hadith the last portion is
		
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			what the Pharisee swallowfield
masajid.
		
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			Noise and camo will be raised in
mosques.
		
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			That could be for a number of
reasons.
		
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			People just disregard of the
masjid coming and just talking.
		
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			So, and personally, I believe that
one of those things is to talk
		
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			just outside the masjid in a way
that it does serves people in the
		
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			masjid. The whole reason that you
don't do it in the West is because
		
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			it disturbs others, it's supposed
to be a place of calm serenity,
		
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			it's supposed to be where you can
go in there like a sanctuary, a
		
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			place where you can go and just
worship Allah and not be
		
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			distracted by anything. That's why
you're not supposed to have this
		
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			big, different forms of elaborate
design and things of that nature
		
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			will be reading other heart Hadith
to that effect. Because it's
		
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			supposed to be just the place
that's calm and serene for you
		
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			because it's a place of mercy and
all of these things are
		
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			distracting. So if people are
talking just outside the masjid,
		
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			and it's loud enough to be heard
in the masjid, and that's bad
		
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			enough. It's better in a sense
that it's not in the masjid, but
		
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			it's still bad enough. Now, why
would why would discussion? Why
		
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			would loud clamor and talk be
prevalent in the misogyny? Well,
		
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			it could be because people have
lost their respect for the Masjid.
		
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			Maybe people have a different
opinion about what a machine is.
		
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			That's why in some quarters, they
think a machine is a place where
		
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			you can do your politics and
everything else. And they try to
		
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			make it that that was the case in
the mercy of the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wasallam and one
must realize that the complex of
		
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			the Prophet salallahu Masjid was
that it was a masjid, there was a
		
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			courtyard. And yes, the prophets
of Allah did a lot from the his
		
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			house was there, the materials
that was a gathering place, didn't
		
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			have to be set in the member and
be done from there, especially
		
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			when it's not a religious point of
view. Right when it wasn't a
		
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			religious thing that had to be
that had to be done. So that
		
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			really needs to be looked at
again, right as to what exactly
		
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			possessed the position, the actual
Masjid inside area where the salah
		
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			to take place because in a hadith
of ourselves and clearly told that
		
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			Bedouin who had come and urinated
in the masjid, he told him, this
		
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			place is not appropriate for this
kind of thing. It's for Salaat
		
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			vicar and reciting the Quran. It
literally mentioned those things
		
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			he hadn't mentioned. Anything else
he didn't say is put there for
		
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			holding meetings.
		
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			Right? He didn't say that. I'm not
saying it's haram to do that. I'm
		
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			just saying in general, what is
the point of the masjid
		
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			another reason why you'd have
problems or loud noises in the
		
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			masjid is because people would
argue about something.
		
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			You know, so there could be a
program that could be something
		
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			else and there'll be people who
are disrespectful or who will
		
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			cause a commotion,
		
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			you know, criticizing each other,
or something of that nature. So
		
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			despite the fact that the master
is supposed to calm you down,
		
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			because you're supposed to be
there for gaining Rama
		
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			you will be so devoid of it.
People will be so devoid of it
		
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			that they won't receive that and
they would, they would still be
		
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			able to argue with others. It's
not that Okay, let's go outside.
		
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			they'll just start arguing that
that's how No it will be in their
		
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			sights.
		
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			I think it's very important to
teach our children the respect of
		
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			the masjid.
		
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			And I think one mistake that we do
in this regard, right. And I know
		
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			that this sounds a bit
controversial, but many people
		
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			they will send their children to
the masjid on their own, or if
		
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			they go as well, they won't know
what their child is doing. They
		
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			put them in the backs off. And
when they will get along with
		
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			other children, they'll start
messing around from a young age.
		
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			So this six, seven year old, let's
just say seven, eight year old
		
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			coming to the masjid every day,
the mother is sending them to the
		
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			masjid every day. But she does not
know what's going on in the
		
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			masjid. And the kid is coming to
the masjid because he can meet his
		
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			friends. Yes, he'll make some
salata whatever just about on the
		
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			site and then run out straight
away. We've seen this, right. But
		
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			by the time they grow up, they
lose the respect for the masjid
		
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			because they've been playing this
has been their play area.
		
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			Right? That's a play area. Maybe
somebody might say then other
		
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			places. This is going to the
masjid that would be a
		
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			justification for some people. But
what I'm saying what I'm saying is
		
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			that if you don't know your son to
be extremely, extremely
		
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			disciplined, or you haven't
somebody who can take him to the
		
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			masjid. And look after him. They
in a sense, right? So either the
		
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			seven year old is so disciplined
that they will go to the masjid.
		
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			They're very pious, they know what
they're doing. They'll go they'll
		
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			pray they'll come back. Yes, they
might talk outside, that's fine,
		
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			but not in the masjid. Right. And
if you do not, if your child is
		
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			not like that, and believe me, it
is better for you to make them
		
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			pray at home next to you a proper
solid with good explanation and
		
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			counseling.
		
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			Then send them to the masjid, only
on respect when they can be
		
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			respectful of it on occasions when
their father can bring them and be
		
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			next to them. Otherwise you lose
the respect. I'm telling you
		
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			because I've got experience,
personal experience in that
		
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			regard.
		
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			Why we used to go to the masjid.
Yes, we used to make salads. But
		
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			it wasn't for salad. We were
going, you know, I'm sure
		
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			everybody's not as bad as I was.
But I'm serious. This is this is
		
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			what I'm thinking you lose
respect.
		
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			It takes time to get the respect
back.
		
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			That's why I've seen some children
who who's never been to the masjid
		
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			because they far from the deen.
But when they actually come to the
		
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			masjid, they've got a lot of
respect to somebody new.
		
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			Right? It's somewhere it's
somewhere like they think it's
		
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			sacred.
		
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			This has to be obviously put in a
contextualized. And everybody's
		
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			got a different situation. But
it's something to think about.
		
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			It's something to think about main
thing is don't send your children
		
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			just like to the masjid unless
you're confident and you will
		
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			never receive a complaint.
		
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			Then only otherwise, it's better
for you to make them pray at home.
		
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			So what are the facts tell us
where to fill my surgeon. We have
		
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			what we have here is that as we're
going into the first recall,
		
00:28:03 --> 00:28:07
			you're going to you're going to
hear a stampede because
		
00:28:07 --> 00:28:10
			everybody's rushing from the door
to the to the you know, to the
		
00:28:10 --> 00:28:14
			third or fourth row so that they
can catch the Imam and recall. So
		
00:28:14 --> 00:28:16
			that just distracts everybody.
		
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			Right? Then a cell phone goes off.
A mobile phone goes off with you
		
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			know, big, big types of music. So,
you know, it's not like a
		
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			ringtone. It's not just you know,
a phone ringing. It's actually
		
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			some kind of music playing.
		
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			And then after the saga these
people have run out and Joomla is
		
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			the worst of this Joomla you see
that as soon as there's a salaam
		
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			that there's like an exodus
		
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			you know, like people have just
been released and they just rush
		
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			out of the Masjid.
		
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			So whatever I tell us where to
fill masajid May Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala protect us.
		
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			Okay, the next hadith is
		
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			we've looked at this one as well.
And I'm just going to read it
		
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			again it's a hadith of Taylor
maybe from Anasazi Allah one. Yet
		
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			the aloneness is a man on Assad.
Juana de Nikhil, kabhi. Viana
		
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			Gemma, that a time will come upon
the people when a person who is
		
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			trying to persevere on practicing
their Deen will be like a person
		
00:29:19 --> 00:29:21
			who's holding on to a cinder,
		
00:29:22 --> 00:29:25
			an ember, something burning is
going to be really difficult for
		
00:29:25 --> 00:29:29
			them to keep hold of it, it's
going to be very difficult because
		
00:29:29 --> 00:29:33
			it's like something burning. You
might not want to be seen with it.
		
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			Right? Because people will look
down upon you. People will say,
		
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			you know, what are you following?
It's going to be not too cool to
		
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			follow a religion, you know,
follow Islam, or it's going to be
		
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			just difficult because
		
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			people are not going to be very
nice to you about it. And that
		
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			could be from your family members
that could be from outside from
		
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			the community from the society.
You know, sometimes your family
		
00:29:58 --> 00:30:00
			would be probably worse off
		
00:30:00 --> 00:30:03
			In terms of the interaction with
you because you want to follow the
		
00:30:03 --> 00:30:07
			deen, you want to do something
right? Because obviously it's more
		
00:30:07 --> 00:30:11
			difficult if you want to suddenly
if the family is not eating halal
		
00:30:11 --> 00:30:15
			for example, right, and you want
to start eating Halal that's a lot
		
00:30:15 --> 00:30:20
			more difficult than your friends.
Because you have to be at home and
		
00:30:20 --> 00:30:21
			you have to eat what they eat.
		
00:30:22 --> 00:30:25
			Right? You have to follow what
they follow. You have to celebrate
		
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			what they celebrate, and they may
be doing things wrong. So at first
		
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			I'm trying to act on their Deen.
This obviously shows the number of
		
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			things he actually shows that
there's going to be a widespread
		
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			dropping of the Sunnah.
		
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			Right, a widespread
		
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			elimination of sunnah. And thus
anybody who's trying to follow
		
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			their Deen according to the Sunnah
way is going to be very difficult
		
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			for them.
		
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			So people will maybe you know be
Islam by name, by Muslim by name
		
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			by certain major rituals, but
other than that, that will be it.
		
00:31:00 --> 00:31:04
			Okay, the next hadith is that this
one in this one the Prophet
		
00:31:04 --> 00:31:07
			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
as related from UNASUR, the Allah
		
00:31:07 --> 00:31:12
			Juan in taba Ronnie min Shruti sir
Alpha Hirsch with the fuck
		
00:31:13 --> 00:31:19
			what Katia to run with the wheel?
I mean, what is the manual heart
		
00:31:19 --> 00:31:19
			in?
		
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			This is a one we haven't read
before. It says that from the
		
00:31:23 --> 00:31:27
			signs of the last day now this one
is more clear. Listen from the
		
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			signs of the last day is for harsh
and tougher harsh for harsh means
		
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			obscenity. And in decency.
		
00:31:36 --> 00:31:38
			I think we've already covered that
to a certain degree that a lot of
		
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			fame comes from obscenities and
deficient and indecency. If you
		
00:31:44 --> 00:31:49
			can sell many million CDs or songs
because which is full of swearing.
		
00:31:50 --> 00:31:55
			Right. That's obviously obscenity.
That's for Hush. And that's a sign
		
00:31:55 --> 00:31:58
			of the Day of Judgment. When you
can actually sell swearing.
		
00:31:59 --> 00:32:01
			You know, when could you sell
swearing in the past?
		
00:32:03 --> 00:32:07
			Swearing was despicable. Now you
can swear it, you can swear that
		
00:32:07 --> 00:32:11
			you know that the worst, the worst
that you can do you know the the
		
00:32:13 --> 00:32:15
			the as bad as you can be.
		
00:32:16 --> 00:32:20
			And the worst you can become more
than others. You probably do a
		
00:32:20 --> 00:32:20
			good job.
		
00:32:22 --> 00:32:23
			I'm not giving ideas here.
		
00:32:24 --> 00:32:26
			But seriously, that's what it is.
		
00:32:28 --> 00:32:29
			And the fact wish
		
00:32:30 --> 00:32:37
			that's again, the fact which is
obscene speech for her of sanity
		
00:32:37 --> 00:32:42
			and decency in general, the fact
wishes, obscenity and speech. So
		
00:32:42 --> 00:32:43
			it's the same thing.
		
00:32:48 --> 00:32:50
			Battiato ROM, which means to
		
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			cut the and sever the bonds of
kinship,
		
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			you know, ROM in Arabic. What does
it mean?
		
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			It means wound.
		
00:33:04 --> 00:33:06
			Rahim means wound.
		
00:33:07 --> 00:33:10
			So cutting the wound, severing the
wound.
		
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			It's not talking about all your
relatives.
		
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			It's starting from your closest
relatives, your closest family,
		
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			people that came from the same
womb.
		
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			That's what this whole thing is
about. It's tying the ties of
		
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			kinship.
		
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			And severing the ties of kinship
is worse than breaking up with 10
		
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			friends.
		
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			Because you are required to be
together by divine decree. Allah
		
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			made you all come to be from the
same family, whether you like them
		
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			or not. So there's a
responsibility there.
		
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			Now, if there's some despicable
mean person in your family,
		
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			doesn't mean you have to go out
with them all the time, at least
		
00:33:55 --> 00:33:58
			you have to make salami and not
cut your bonds and have to go and
		
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			sit and have big teas with them.
That's not necessary. If it's
		
00:34:02 --> 00:34:04
			going to cause fitna right there
has to be justifiable reason for
		
00:34:04 --> 00:34:10
			that. But the whole point of it is
that keeping your family bonds
		
00:34:10 --> 00:34:13
			together is more important than
visiting friends.
		
00:34:14 --> 00:34:17
			Friends are important, but family
is should be more important
		
00:34:18 --> 00:34:22
			because there's a more severe
punishment or severe warning for
		
00:34:22 --> 00:34:23
			cutting
		
00:34:24 --> 00:34:29
			bonds of kinship because people
come from you know a common room
		
00:34:29 --> 00:34:34
			as such. The next one is renal
Amin. That's another sign that
		
00:34:34 --> 00:34:42
			Amin means a trustworthy person
and the when means to distrust a
		
00:34:42 --> 00:34:43
			trustworthy person.
		
00:34:44 --> 00:34:47
			So where normally a trustworthy
person will be taken as
		
00:34:47 --> 00:34:52
			trustworthy you actually
considered an untrustworthy and it
		
00:34:52 --> 00:34:55
			demand will heighten is the
absolute opposite high in means an
		
00:34:55 --> 00:34:59
			untrustworthy person or deceptive
person, but it demand means to
		
00:34:59 --> 00:34:59
			actually trust them.
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:04
			And these think you're safe with
them. So you think you're unsafe
		
00:35:04 --> 00:35:06
			with a trustworthy person but you
think you're safe with a
		
00:35:06 --> 00:35:08
			untrustworthy person
		
00:35:10 --> 00:35:14
			that's a hadith related by Pablo
Ronnie from Anasazi Allah one.
		
00:35:15 --> 00:35:22
			Another hadith is Wamena and the L
massage to Touro con we're in
		
00:35:22 --> 00:35:23
			Johan Motul Fajr.
		
00:35:24 --> 00:35:27
			Imam Toblerone from Anna's *
Allah one
		
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			massage, it will be made massage,
it will be taken as pathways.
		
00:35:36 --> 00:35:37
			As passages,
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:40
			that's very interesting, there
could be a number of meanings for
		
00:35:40 --> 00:35:44
			this. You might not notice it here
because you can't really make this
		
00:35:44 --> 00:35:48
			Masjid a pathway. But if you go to
these larger masajid
		
00:35:50 --> 00:35:55
			for example, one example is if you
go to the great German mosque of
		
00:35:55 --> 00:35:56
			Delhi,
		
00:35:57 --> 00:36:01
			it's in such a location that if
you want to go from one side to
		
00:36:01 --> 00:36:03
			the other, you want to go to a
shop on the other side of the
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:06
			bazaar on the other side, you're
better off walking through the
		
00:36:06 --> 00:36:12
			Masjid. Otherwise, it would be
three times the distance. Now it's
		
00:36:12 --> 00:36:15
			fine you can walk through the
Masjid. But the point here,
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:18
			according to another Hadith, which
we may cover later, it says that
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:22
			if you are good and the books of
jurisprudence actually mentioned
		
00:36:22 --> 00:36:25
			is that if you were to use the
masjid as a shortcut you shouldn't
		
00:36:26 --> 00:36:28
			it's disrespectful. That's not the
point of the masjid, maybe
		
00:36:28 --> 00:36:32
			courtyard, but not the machine
itself. That if you have to do
		
00:36:32 --> 00:36:36
			that, then you have to fulfill the
right of the machine and that is
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:39
			making sure rockets have enough of
their behavior to the masjid. So
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:43
			this is something very more likely
when you go on Ziraat even I think
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:49
			another one is Masjid another way
or the Haram right? Where you want
		
00:36:49 --> 00:36:51
			to go from one side to the other
because you know the bazaar is one
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:54
			side, and the market is on one
side but your hotel is on the
		
00:36:54 --> 00:36:57
			other side. Now you have to go all
the way around, that's a few more
		
00:36:57 --> 00:37:01
			miles sometimes. So you cut
through the masjid, you pick up
		
00:37:01 --> 00:37:03
			your shoes, you go through the
masjid, you go over people who are
		
00:37:03 --> 00:37:08
			praying and making, you know,
reading Quran and so on. And yeah,
		
00:37:08 --> 00:37:11
			that's one of those things. So
retourner cuts of solid at least
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			some say that even if you do that,
it's bad thing to do anyway.
		
00:37:16 --> 00:37:20
			But it shows that it's going to
become more prevalent. Maybe it's
		
00:37:20 --> 00:37:22
			because there's going to be bigger
misogyny.
		
00:37:23 --> 00:37:27
			And people will just go in and out
of them for meetings or through
		
00:37:27 --> 00:37:30
			them and they won't really take
them for solids. And they'll just
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:33
			kind of use them for other
purposes. And these large
		
00:37:33 --> 00:37:37
			complexes are coming becoming more
prominent where people will come
		
00:37:37 --> 00:37:41
			into these large complexes, you
know, gymnasiums, and look the
		
00:37:41 --> 00:37:45
			people have started creating gyms
and halls and things like that
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:48
			next door massage it for good
reason sometimes that you know, at
		
00:37:48 --> 00:37:51
			least if they come here there'll
be protected from elsewhere. But
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:55
			then if it becomes that that's all
people come for nothing else then
		
00:37:55 --> 00:37:57
			that's a bit of a problem isn't
it?
		
00:37:59 --> 00:38:02
			So yeah, massage will be taken as
pathways and
		
00:38:03 --> 00:38:04
			sudden death
		
00:38:06 --> 00:38:07
			will become more prevalent.
		
00:38:09 --> 00:38:13
			So people will just suddenly die
and SubhanAllah 500 607 people
		
00:38:13 --> 00:38:17
			dying in a Muslim country right
killed by their own people their
		
00:38:17 --> 00:38:21
			own leader in fact for nothing,
just for one thing more just for
		
00:38:21 --> 00:38:23
			wanting more justice.
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:26
			decent living conditions
		
00:38:28 --> 00:38:31
			may Allah subhanho wa Taala
protect these people may Allah
		
00:38:31 --> 00:38:33
			subhanaw taala protect these
people in these different
		
00:38:33 --> 00:38:35
			countries around the world
		
00:38:36 --> 00:38:39
			where all of this happened in
Libya and in other places.
		
00:38:40 --> 00:38:43
			I mean, we need to pray for them
at least when that's the minimum
		
00:38:43 --> 00:38:45
			that we can do because they
obviously going through severe
		
00:38:45 --> 00:38:48
			times I mean nobody's gonna kill
700 People of theirs you know have
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:52
			had that many people killed if it
was a okay situation just making a
		
00:38:53 --> 00:38:56
			bit of you know, a Kaos know that
there's some serious things that
		
00:38:56 --> 00:38:58
			have been going on for years.
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:03
			Your mobile Fudger people will die
suddenly.
		
00:39:05 --> 00:39:06
			Another one
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:12
			which is just May Allah subhanaw
taala protect us from Abu Huraira
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:16
			the Allahu Abu no aim has related
this in the Hillier
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:21
			Lata Kusa, Kunis Zoho rewired,
		
00:39:22 --> 00:39:26
			well, what are the Sanyuan and you
know,
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:31
			this is something which is
probably very prevalent today.
		
00:39:32 --> 00:39:36
			And, you know, each one of us
probably in here at some level,
		
00:39:36 --> 00:39:40
			and more so, the people that
actually talk about it, so listen
		
00:39:40 --> 00:39:40
			to it,
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:45
			the Day of Judgment will not occur
until zero it will become just a
		
00:39:45 --> 00:39:47
			transmission and duration.
		
00:39:48 --> 00:39:55
			And what, what it means piety will
be the son, no one will be just
		
00:39:55 --> 00:39:58
			made out to be piety.
		
00:39:59 --> 00:39:59
			So,
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:04
			Xvid means abstinence from the
world. There are many Hadith that
		
00:40:04 --> 00:40:09
			talk about focus on the hereafter
abstinence from the world. And
		
00:40:09 --> 00:40:13
			despite sorry, rather than having
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:17
			or inculcating promises of it in
the world, it will be just
		
00:40:17 --> 00:40:18
			something narrated
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:20
			as we're doing right now.
		
00:40:21 --> 00:40:24
			Right? We just narrating the fact
that this is going to happen, and
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:28
			Zod is important and so on. But
each one of us is probably so
		
00:40:28 --> 00:40:31
			immersed in the dunya and we can't
get out, including the one who
		
00:40:31 --> 00:40:35
			speaks. Right? Well, what are the
sun No, and what it means piety,
		
00:40:37 --> 00:40:40
			righteous righteousness, that will
become the sun Nuan
		
00:40:41 --> 00:40:45
			the sun nine means to make out
something to be like something but
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:46
			it's not
		
00:40:47 --> 00:40:51
			to show that it's like something
but it's not. So piety will become
		
00:40:51 --> 00:40:54
			like that. May Allah protect us
because this is probably the
		
00:40:54 --> 00:40:55
			states of many of us.
		
00:40:56 --> 00:41:01
			And that is a sign of the Day of
Judgment, but it's gonna get worse
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:01
			they say.
		
00:41:02 --> 00:41:04
			So this means just a lot of
hypocrisy.
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:09
			A lot of hypocrisy a lot of the
good, good parts of the Dean just
		
00:41:09 --> 00:41:10
			leaving us
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:14
			that's why now we can put into
		
00:41:15 --> 00:41:18
			perspective the following Hadith
which is related by Muhammad Imam
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:21
			Bukhari from medidas and Eslami.
		
00:41:23 --> 00:41:26
			In this as the prophets of Allah,
some said he has humble Saudi
		
00:41:26 --> 00:41:28
			Hoon, and a will fall away.
		
00:41:30 --> 00:41:35
			The truly pious righteous people
will, will leave will will pass
		
00:41:35 --> 00:41:39
			away will diminish one by one,
		
00:41:40 --> 00:41:44
			what tobacco for tharla to
authority share Eve with thermal
		
00:41:45 --> 00:41:47
			and the
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:53
			the sediment sediments that's a
neutral translation, the sediments
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:59
			will remain like the sediments
that remain from wheat or from
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:04
			dates. So, when the good stuff of
it is removed, all of the
		
00:42:04 --> 00:42:10
			sediments which basically means
the dredge the scum, that is what
		
00:42:10 --> 00:42:14
			will remain sort of truly
righteous and pious, people will
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:16
			leave will finish will go will
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:22
			will end what they won't be there
anymore, one by one. And then it
		
00:42:22 --> 00:42:24
			will just be the scum that will be
left.
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:28
			And that's why another Hadith
related by mon Toblerone from
		
00:42:28 --> 00:42:29
			Masuda Rhodiola.
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:33
			That from the signs of the final
day
		
00:42:35 --> 00:42:36
			and clear signs of that day
		
00:42:37 --> 00:42:42
			is that a new Sadhak Alka they
were in you can Assad
		
00:42:43 --> 00:42:46
			that the liar will be believed
		
00:42:47 --> 00:42:52
			and the truthful person will be
belied
		
00:42:53 --> 00:42:54
			the complete opposite.
		
00:42:56 --> 00:42:59
			This will tie into some other
Hadith which speak about
		
00:43:00 --> 00:43:01
			bearing false witness
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:06
			how that will be accepted because
of the force that they will bring
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:08
			with them because of who they're
connected to.
		
00:43:10 --> 00:43:12
			Or the sign that they make
		
00:43:13 --> 00:43:19
			or who they know what club they're
from, or what they have membership
		
00:43:19 --> 00:43:20
			to, or whatever the case may be.
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25
			So it could be various different
factors for this. But it just
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:28
			shows a general corruption among
the people for this kind of thing
		
00:43:28 --> 00:43:30
			to be able to take place.
		
00:43:32 --> 00:43:35
			And something similar to the one
of the first Hadith we read, which
		
00:43:35 --> 00:43:38
			is related by Baba Ronnie from
Edna Massoud or the hola Juan
		
00:43:39 --> 00:43:42
			and I'm in Atlanta Miss sir what a
shout out to her
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:44
			as to the
		
00:43:46 --> 00:43:51
			ability in Munna, Fukuhara
Wakulla, sukin Fujihara.
		
00:43:52 --> 00:43:55
			That from the signs of the final
day
		
00:43:58 --> 00:44:03
			is that every tribe will be led by
its hypocrites.
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:08
			Every group of people will be led
by it by its hypocrites.
		
00:44:09 --> 00:44:14
			And every market by its
transgressors, they will drive the
		
00:44:14 --> 00:44:14
			change, they will,
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:17
			they will set the policies.
		
00:44:19 --> 00:44:22
			Now, again, as I said, these are
minus signs there'll be different
		
00:44:22 --> 00:44:26
			different places of the world. So
in some countries, the civilized
		
00:44:26 --> 00:44:30
			corruption, that's what I like to
call it. It happens in very
		
00:44:30 --> 00:44:35
			subtle, very subtle ways. And you
get news of it once in a while in
		
00:44:35 --> 00:44:38
			the media. But they only catch it
when it gets into the billions
		
00:44:39 --> 00:44:44
			that his guys wrecked all of these
people's lives. He's stolen all of
		
00:44:44 --> 00:44:47
			these people's in these big hedge
funds and that it just happens at
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:51
			a very very high level it seems
and then you get the petty ones.
		
00:44:51 --> 00:44:52
			Then you get the
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:56
			then you get cities like
		
00:44:59 --> 00:44:59
			certain
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:03
			famous cities of third worlds
which have more money than London,
		
00:45:03 --> 00:45:07
			for example. But then doing
business there is worse than doing
		
00:45:07 --> 00:45:12
			business anywhere else. Because
you have to give suitcases full of
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:13
			stuff to people.
		
00:45:15 --> 00:45:18
			There's a certain tax that is not
official that needs to be given,
		
00:45:19 --> 00:45:22
			because that whole market is
driven. Another one is where you
		
00:45:22 --> 00:45:26
			have to this is in many Muslim
countries where you have to give
		
00:45:26 --> 00:45:27
			backhanders.
		
00:45:28 --> 00:45:31
			In fact, they given us golden
handshakes, there's no back end,
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:31
			as
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:36
			I remember, when I went to study
in a Muslim country, and I had to
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:41
			get a rent, I had to get, you
know, I had to rent a place. And
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:45
			in order for that rent agreement
to be ratified, they have to go to
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:47
			the local superintendent of the
police.
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:51
			Right? So I was just going to pay
my monthly rent, it had nothing to
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:55
			do with me. But I had to go to the
police station to have it
		
00:45:55 --> 00:45:59
			ratified. So the host, sorry, the
my landlord took me.
		
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			So when he got there, I found this
really imposing kind of, you know,
		
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			really respectful looking
superintendent of the police. But
		
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			I noticed that the first thing
that was given to him after the
		
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			agreement was signed, was a
scrunched up note.
		
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			So it wasn't a very respectful way
to give it because it wasn't
		
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			respectful, that thing that was
happening. But that was just
		
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			something that was the right of
the person to get that thing
		
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			signed, he was just trying to do a
tenancy agreement, before that
		
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			they had to be paid. Otherwise, it
take days and days or months and
		
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			months, or whatever.
		
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			And this is, this happens in many
countries. And that's why many
		
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			people like to move to the UK and
to us, because we doesn't have, we
		
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			don't have things like that
happening Al Hamdulillah. So as I
		
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			said, these are minus signs in
different places, they will be of
		
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			different intensities. So it'd be
Adji, that some of these things
		
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			will be worse in Muslim countries,
and less in non Muslim countries
		
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			or different, you know, different
that there's different ways of
		
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			these, these things.
		
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			I mean, we're reading all of this,
the whole point of this is not to
		
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			look at it as a third person, we
make up the communities that this
		
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			is speaking about. So we have to
see how we can avoid it and maybe
		
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			help others avoid it. So that's
the main thing. It's not about
		
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			loving others, or looking down
upon others. It's really that we
		
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			are part of this whole thing at
some level of the other. So may
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala allow us to
reflect May Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			Tada allow us to help better our
communities and ourselves because
		
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			we all have to stand in front of
Allah subhanho wa Taala one day
		
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			that run and then hamdulillahi
rabbil
		
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			olam and the salon in a salon
thermography a little jewelry
		
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			really grown above me Are you yeah
for Umrah medical studies,
		
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			lonelier unknown em and then
		
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			learn how to get in good nominal
body mean just over who I know
		
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			Muhammad. Allah on the field and
our Hannah? Why Athena? You know I
		
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			was looking at Allah who might
nanosilica who that would took our
		
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			effort for Lena Allahumma in an
hour with the becoming an HMI will
		
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			his new and barley will Jubilee
will keep it he was 31 MAUSI Allah
		
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			who made manana Oh, the becoming
fifth I think Macchio and Mummert
		
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			Allahu manana are also becoming
fifth entity we're seeing the germ
		
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			Allahumma zakenna Her book we're
hopefully in Femina herbal who are
		
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			in that Allah hoomans la Humann.
So one enough use of Butik Allah
		
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			hoomans certainly Muslim UniFi
Colima Quran Allah hum and Sunni
		
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			Muslim enough equally McCann Allah
homophobia Muslim you know when
		
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			you will refer to Allah muslim for
him or her I mean how am I bottle
		
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			Allah homophilic etc Then and
Mohamed Salah who it was salam
		
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			alaikum and you'll have to submit
the better well I didn't know
		
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			about tilava Tiller was published
in our Allahumma Filon our him now
		
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			as you know we had in our Sakana
		
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			Allahumma Karina Behala DECA and
haram equals and you know be fun
		
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			liquor admin see work Hola Hola.
Hola homak fina Behala DECA and
		
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			Hara mica well then you know you
probably can't even see work Allah
		
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			hamara Donna habla an ominous
words you know the Rio Tina
		
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			Kurata, universal subpoena email
Subhan Allah be corrupt velocity
		
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			and Milesi Formosa with another
Muslim 100 advice. Don't be
		
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			darling. The point of a lecture is
to encourage people to act to get
		
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			further an inspiration and
encouragement, persuasion. The
		
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			next step is to actually start
learning seriously to read books
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:14
			to take on a subject of Islam and
to understand all the subjects of
		
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			Islam at least at the basic level,
so that we can become more aware
		
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			of what our deen wants from us.
And that's why we started Rayyan
		
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			courses so that you can actually
take organize lectures on demand
		
00:49:27 --> 00:49:30
			whenever you have free time,
especially for example, the
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:34
			Islamic essentials course that we
have on the Islamic essentials
		
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			certificate which you take 20
Short modules and at the end of
		
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			that inshallah you will have
gotten the basics of most of the
		
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			most important topics in Islam and
you'll feel a lot more confident.
		
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			You don't have to leave lectures
behind you can continue to leave,
		
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			you know to listen to lectures,
but you need to have this more
		
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			sustained study as well as local
law here and Salam aleikum wa
		
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			rahmatullah wa barakato.