Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Shamail AlTirmidhi Manners of the Prophet () Part 69
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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al Hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah.
Hamden, Kathy Rhonda Yibin Mubarak confy Mubarak an RT dinner your
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Kathira laomi. Dean America. Inshallah we continue with the
hadith of chapter 48 about the lack of Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam and read a few Hadith that we're going to
inshallah cover today. Mr. Miller, who Rahman and Rahim what we call
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Bina? You know, I mean, now the way the Hadith I mentioned in this
one edition edition in the order of the in the order of the
narrations in this chapter, they're different to what's
mentioned in the commentaries. So that's why if you're following
with one of your additions, it may be different, but
it will cover them either before or afterwards, so they'll
eventually get eventually they'll be covered. Bismillah al Rahman al
Rahim OBE called Mohammed Abu Bashar and call this an Arab drama
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Qadir called a samurai to juggle Ragnar Abdullah here kuruma so
Allah Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Shane got to for call
Allah. So that's a very simple Hadith the first one here, Hadith
number 359. According to this edition, it's related from Java
ignore Abdullah the Allah Mourinho, famous a hobby. He says,
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has never asked about
something except never asked about something ever. Where he said no.
That essentially means whenever he was asked about anything, he would
not say no, no
doesn't mean he has to say yes. Because sometimes if he didn't
have something you couldn't say yes. But it means he never said
no. So he never bluntly told you, I'm not gonna do it for you. I
can't do it.
He always, if he couldn't do it, if he couldn't give, then he would
do something to help you're gonna give you $1 or something, we kind
of covered this hadith in a sense. So, it really Allahu Anhu related
before that, whenever anybody asked him for a need, he would
never,
he would never let him go into empty handed, he would either give
it to him, or he would say something nice to him, you would
make dua for him. So that's the prophets of Allah is and Professor
Lawson is considered to be extremely generous, because he
just felt that the world and everything that he's been given
there, it's all for the sake of distribution.
He said, he used to say I'm the costume. I'm the distributor.
That's what classy means. Classy means the distributor. That's, I'm
just the distributor, Allah Almighty. Allah is the One who
gives. So Allah is giving. I'm just distributing Subhanallah
that's, that's how he used to think of himself. So you think the
same way then our hearts will become open. Allah is giving
anyway, I'm just channeling it that's just is channeling it
through me. And it's going to be channeled through me and rather
than somebody else, if I prevent, if I if it's coming to me and I
block it, people are going to use another source. Okay, this tap
doesn't work. Let's use this one.
At the end of the day, Allah is there who's giving. So now if we
want to open up and let it go through us to others, Allah is
gonna give us more this man gives. Let's give him more IGF
SubhanAllah. And thus, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam didn't say it
that way
that you like a tap. And the more you know, the more this the more
you open up, the more you'll get. Because the other thing is that
you know,
you know if a tap has been closed for a while, and then you open it
after a while, what happens? What's What What color does the
water look?
He all looks dirty. First, you need to let it run for a while and
then it gets clean again, from the source at the back because this
stagnates. Essentially, our wealth with us stagnates. But if we're
going to open up and start giving out the
the pipeline to the back, because Allah is the Giver, that's the
prophet, the prophet Sal has been said in a more eloquent way. You
know that that's exactly what he did. And what the Prophet said,
Awesome, say, What does Allah say in the Quran, you spend one thing
in the path of Allah and we will make it 700 times as much. So it's
amazing. It's amazing. Subhan Allah, and that's exactly what the
prophets of Allah cinemas he used to just give. I mentioned last
week, in a hurry, he gave some phenomenal Omiya so many sheep and
goats, so many such a flock, they filled the whole valley, take it
and he just couldn't believe it. He says what kind of a man is
this, he gives the man he gives in a way like he doesn't think
poverty is gonna come when you're,
you're clinging on Allah so much that I'm just channeling and he's
gonna give the more I give the more he's gonna give the more he's
gonna give me to give and I get the reward for it.
It's like the more you distribute you know like you've got these SIM
card distributors they make a lot of money because for every SIM
card you if you become a distributor every SIM card you
distribute you get a certain cut a commission even if it's 10 Pence
imagine
a VC the more you sell the more commission you're going to make
and the guy who's giving the guy the distributor he is going to be
more happy with you he's going to give you is going to say oh wow
this is one of my best ones man this is one of my best
distributors because every day he's got an order of 500 cards
and then if you need it one day more than somebody else just say
you run out one day and he's only got so much stock he's gonna give
you a preference because he knows you're a good customer because he
wants his SIM cards you know wherever it's like a mobile or
Libero or whatever it is these ones you know I'm not here to
promote them but you understand this the way this sim card big
because there's a brother that told me about another brother who
made a lot of money distributing SIM cards because you make no
money so now one day let's just say you needed supply your
distributor your domain guy he's gonna look after you because he
knows you're a good customer.
If you're giving giving giving a Can you imagine Allah subhanaw
taala is going to give you
so there's a number of stories that we mentioned last time. Let's
look at the next Hadith Hadith number 357 which is related from
GitHub, Mohammed ImmunoCAP al karate,
karate. Where does that come from? By no Kure
In one of the three Jewish tribes, so this is Mohammed Abu Qatada Al
Quran. He was from that tribe originally. That's quite, quite
interesting. He relates from Cameroon to answer the Allahu
Allah so the Allahu Anhu. He says that Canada sort of like Salalah
ism yoke below B which he he will Hadith here Allah assured will
call me at a level who will be learning.
In other words, man sitting in the gathering, the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam would focus on the prophets, Allah would focus on him
to make him closer, or to make him familiar to bring him not making
feel strange or left out or to bring him closer to the guidance,
he used to focus more on like the worst of the people of the,
of that group that were sitting there. So you'd have the major
Sahaba sitting there. But the last one, sometimes focus on give a lot
of attention to, like really speak to them nicely and everything like
that, to the west of the people there. Now, look at this hadith,
understand the mindset and how Cameroon as the narrator is
speaking about this, and the different frames of mind is going
through. So first, he makes this as a general statement and
observation about Rasulullah Saracen that he would focus and
pay attention, a lot of attention to the worst of the people in
order to bring them closer, make them feel comfortable, and bring
them closer to the guidance. Right? Yeah, to a level.
Then he says
that. So based on that, based on that, that means that the believer
who's weak needs more attention from the scholars and others, then
people who are martial already sailing,
because they're saving they find so the focus needs to be on those.
That's why mashallah the German League and all these other people
that do this kind of thing, that you can see the benefits are they
focusing on on that? Anyway?
That is why you have to focus more on people who are starting
studying, for example, studying Arabic grammar, studying Hadith,
they need more attention because they need to know more than those
people who are at a higher level because they've already made
themselves reach a position where they can work things out for
themselves. This isn't everything they need more than you need more
help.
Right. That's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam once
said, in nila, Dr. Raju, whether you have been a human who has shed
that you keep the hula hoop in for some time, sometimes I give
whether attention or wealth or whatever it is or gifts or
whatever it is
to a person even though there'll be others who are more beloved to
me.
Why? Because my fear is that Allah subhanho wa Taala might throw him
head long in the fire. If I don't pay attention to him, it doesn't
come closer. And then he says in the ER OT or in your ot Coleman
Hafele volare whom we're just at our home. We're Akira Coleman,
Ilana Jana, Allah who feel could obey him in ladywell Hina mean
home Amber Ibnu develop with taglib
This is a group of people who I'm fearful that they will incline
towards the wrong or they will become upset or whatever the case
whatever the reasons will become upset or whatever the reason is.
So sometimes I give those people more and the others who I know
they've got some goodness in their heart I leave them to Allah
subhana wa Tada that Allah will look after him directly. So back
to the hadith of Amarula. So the Allahu Anhu. He says that
Fergana yoke below be which he YDC here are the year so he's made his
observation that the Prophet salallahu lism used to focus on
the worst of the per pupil, in the group more than the others. Now,
he says he personalizes it, he says, the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam used to always face me, used to turn to me. And he used to
pay a lot of attention to me, he used to singled me out for
speaking to me. Right, so he used to do this Hatao volunteer anyhow,
you don't call
until I began to feel that I'm the most superior of these people
sitting here because he's showing me so much attention. I'm getting
all the attention. He felt that. So he said, I started thinking I'm
the best of the people. Right. Now think of the observation he made.
And now think of this statement and try to work out which one came
first. We didn't make that opposite. Obviously, here he is.
But what in his mind which when did he make that observation? And
when did he feel this? Try to understand it? So then he explains
his situation. He says until I started feeling like I was the
best
The people for call do so one day. I got really excited and I said to
him, ya rasool Allah,
I know Hayden Abubaker who's better than me? Oh,
it felt so good that he wanted to clarify he wanted to just make
sure he's feeling the right thing, whatever the case was, am I better
or Abu Bakr the Illawarra so the problem is, he was honest. He said
Abu Bakr
says okay fine, mainly Abu Bakr the Allah, we can't get to that
level according to yours will Allah and Athena were Omar
am I better than Omar? Omar? They may have been in the Middle East
as well, but
I would give more attention to that. Am I better than normal for
color? Omar? Of course Omar probably still hasn't said for
call Dr. Salah Anna you know this man. Me Earth man.
For color with man. He said
one thing this is sidetrack for a while. This is a person who's come
new into the faith because I'm rasayan became Muslim just before
the conquest of Makkah with Khalid bin Walid. So he's not an early
adopter. He's a later adopter.
But he's one of the great ones afterwards, but he's already
understood who the top three are.
Oba Coronavirus, man because that's another proof for the
superiority of these three
which doesn't put it with your mom down he was much younger these
three were older and you can tell the spirit anyway. And then he
says follow masa alto rasool Allah is Allah Allah is and for sada
Pany. When I asked these questions Rasulullah sallallahu. Yesterday,
he told me an absolute truth, follow wedded to a Neelam
reconcile to then I started feeling like I shouldn't have
asked him.
Because it was better for me to just feel like I was the best,
then to now find out that it wasn't like that.
So now, do you think this experience came first? Or do you
think what the observation he made? That was what he first saw?
Did you understand the question when he said, the Brontosaurus
would focus so much on the worst of the people in the group until,
you know, to bring them closer? And then after that he felt this
for himself that I was the best of the people. So which one do you
think happened? First? I think the experience happened first, even
though he's mentioned that second, he's mentioned in the first thing,
just as this is the conclusion I've come to and this is the proof
of it. That this is what happened to me initially, that the profit
or loss, I'm used to pay so much attention to me, right? And I
started saying I'm the best of the people even better, no walk around
with I've been Muslims for so much longer. So then I asked these
questions, and I was put into my place. That's when I recognize
that this is what the professor Larson does. This is his
methodology, where he focuses on those people.
Because it's important, because if you're new, and you've gone to a
gathering to benefit from someone, and the Sheikh is not looking at
you, because the teacher is not looking at you because he's more
focused on the students who have been with him for a while, maybe
that's justified in certain degree, but then you're going to
feel left out so he wants the shakes, you should the teacher
should focus on getting you in into it as well. He knows he's not
going to lose the old students because they've been with him for
a while they know him. But the new students, so it's that kind of a
it's that kind of a thing. And this is all foresight, insight
into down into teaching into education. Just social
understanding. This is the Rosa Larson was just so good at it.
Yeah, Allah. Now, I'm not gonna ask for the analysis take a while
to understand who He is. He was from me infrasonic Quraysh. He was
from one of the elite cavalry of the Kurdish good horsemen.
Amazing horsemen were upto bloom filter here from the time of
Jahangir. He's one of the leaders.
He's one of the main men from the time of JD, and he was known like
that among them, he was known
what Ken has to share. He was very good at poetry as well.
And he was also extremely intelligent, intelligent, very
intelligent, had penetrating insights. The people of Makkah
sent him to Najafi to bring back the margerine when he was a
graphic they sent him because he knew how to speak to the world
leaders and the kings. So if there's anybody they could send to
bring back Jaffa, the Allah and other Muslims it was him. So they
sent him and Amara, the Allahu Anhu if he ever found somebody to
be a bit lacking in the intellect, you know what he used to say to
them? The same God has made you and honorable us. So what's wrong
with you?
The same God has made you and honorable as this. You come
I'm the same Lord. So what's wrong with you? He used to say he used
to say I bear witness a shadow and the HA
HA HA the camera camera hit your creates an ominous create is the
same, what's wrong with you?
So you can tell that what he's trying to say. And you can tell
the level of intellect that I'm lastly alone and anyway he came
with high Dibner weddings. And Earthman iblue Tala they came
finally accepting Islam. They went Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam
and the promises and looked at them and he saw these three of the
most elect and choices of the people of of MACRA suddenly come
to him in Medina Can you imagine how elated that is? Three of the
great people of Manila Khalid bin Walid amber glass, and you
probably hear about
Orthomosaic little hobbit less but so the prophecy was um said
God the Romans could be a flood he can be the
mugger has given you the best of its liver as thrown out the best
of its delivered now.
Right Maka thrown out it's best through you.
Brother sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam gave him that made him the
governor on Oman during his time.
And
after that, he was also a governor for Omar and erythema under the
Allah one. And he was then the conqueror of what of Egypt
is the first one that crossed into Africa conquer of Africa, in a
sense North Africa, because that part of Egypt is in Africa. So he
crossed over into Africa from the Irish, essentially through HERSA.
That when you Reza of Palestine, when you cross over to that in
Egypt, that's the Sinai desert. That's where he crossed into and
there's a place called they're called Irish, the firt. One of the
first towns and cities as soon as you come out of Gaza haven't been
there. But when you come out of Gaza into Egypt, into the Sinai
area, it's called Irish Irish means
one of those canopies you produce for a shade. So they stopped there
for a while. That's why it's called Irish. And then he came in
to Cairo. That happened during Ramadan, the Allah Juan was time.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
made a lot of documents and Allahumma Salli ala Ahmed in Laos,
May Allah send blessings and he may Allah bless him, essentially.
They know your hippo Allah wa Sula, he loves Allah and His
messenger.
And then one day the price of awesome said you have to do more
it could lead or Julian Hakeem on will hurt urine. Tonight the man a
man is going to come who is wise he's a muhajir
tonight such a man is going to come who's very wise and he's
emigrated. And in came amrutam loss of the hola Juan as even our
circles related.
It was an amazing Sahabi is one of the most amazing Sahaba right the
next hadith is Hadith number 358
which is
related from
this is one of those famous Hadith we've done two of those related
from Hassan Hussein with the Allah one from their father, related
from Khadija the Allah one has relative as well. You know the
famous Hadees where they describe the long ones that describe
Rasulullah sallallahu in great detail. This is that a boy has the
so in the sense that
has some of the Allahu Anhu relates he says that Hussein
ignore it. His brother, he asked, he said he says that I asked my
father it really Allahu Anhu about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam with his companions, meaning with the people that used
to sit around him How did he used to deal with them?
Remember he asked him how his internal behavior was at home how
his external behavior was and how he was remember that was the other
Hadith we read a bit earlier. Well this one is how he was with his
people that used to sit around him for color. So I needed the Allah
one respond to Ghana sort of lifestyle Allah ism de Mille Bishi
the Prophet sallallahu sallam was constantly all the time he was
happy
that immigration which means he's always show express happiness in
his in his face. So he wasn't putting it on that proves that he
wasn't putting it on for someone we just laugh at somebody because
he's good public.
Would you call that? It's good customer service. It was
It wasn't done for under training. They just do it as a job. And then
as soon as you walk away that smile just disappears. You only
put it on this, put it on, this was done all this is the way he
was.
And then he says
Sir, hello Hulk
saddle hook,
which means just very easy mannered, is very easygoing,
just very easygoing, lay, you know, journey.
Very quick to show compassion.
Very quick to show compassion is very compassionate, didn't take
him long to soften his heart. He would be more ready to soften his
heart and be compassionate. So to forgive and so on. Laser before
them. He wasn't harsh. That's what you would. You wouldn't couldn't
be harsh if you had all of those minutes, essentially. So Lisa,
behind Alvin Walla, Hollywood, harsh and hard he wasn't like
that.
That's why Allah Subhana Allah subhanaw taala says two things in
the Quran.
He says Willow couldn't afford one Holly the local v lynford. Domain
Holic 511.
If you had been harsh and hard like that, then even the sub they
would have run away from you. And then another one is work a low
value.
be harsh on them. Yeah, Anita kuffaar be harsh on them. So when
you're not harsh, you have to be told when you need to be a bit
strict. Like you know, we have sometimes a teacher,
there was one teacher and somebody is telling me that students just
walk up and go inside a class go out whenever they want. They talk
whenever they want. So I call the teacher and I know that the
teacher is a good teacher, because I've been told the teacher
teachers well.
So I called the teacher and I said, what's going on? And the
teacher said, yes, there is an issue, they do mess around the
videos, or what have you done about it? Well, I am going to ask
another teacher how to deal with it.
So I said you need to be a bit more strict, you need to like use
your voice a bit. Or maybe you need to give them some detention
or you know, there must be something to show your authority.
So you have to tell them something because they're naturally they
don't know how to do that. Naturally, they just too soft,
very compassionate.
So now the promises are awesome. He's so compassionate. He's having
he's having to be told what to look at him. be harsh on them.
Meaning on the California when you're in that state because
you're in a state of it's a war.
If you accepted them, they'll overcome you. So that's that's
what it is. And then the earlier the Allah one who said
well, that's a Harbin wala Hashem he didn't used to go on shouting,
raising his voice all the time being heard like that. Well, after
hashing, he wasn't vulgar, very balanced in what he said, Well, I
Yeah, Ben.
What are ya Ben, he wasn't critical list, pointing out the
defects and things.
Sometimes people do that, to show that they know stuff. The way they
do it is sometimes people they put a lot of knowledge out there.
Others they do it by criticizing things to show that I know I can
understand these things.
There's two words in Arabic I and Them.
Them and I keep them is critical criticism on things which a person
acquires. earns learns, not natural things. Whereas Are you
sorry, or Yeah, been is to do with our human. So the IPE is a natural
defect.
A defect like somebody's got a finger missing, somebody's got to
squint in their eye a limp.
They're short, they're too tall. They're too thin, they're too fat,
something like that. I mean, being too fat. I don't know if that's
natural sometimes. Right?
Of course, we have, you know, eat too much. But then people say is
genetics can help it. Right? There's a genetic gene in there.
So anyway, that's debatable. We'll leave that. But I born is a defect
that's natural. And I yob is the person who likes to criticize that
kind of stuff, and then means to criticize things that are
acquired. You don't drive too well.
Right? You don't
cook very well. That's,
of course, to criticize and point out somebody's natural defects
that's pointing out the defects of Allah. You're saying this is a
defect of Allah. Allah has his wisdom in the way he makes those
things.
So that's more severe than pointing out criticizing
somebody's methodology in the way they do things.
Then he says, well,
in fact, what the Obama mentioned, Imam No, he says, In fact,
there's nothing, it's permissible to criticize for the sake of
tarbiyah. For the sake of nurturing, teaching, educating is
permissible to criticize, because you're not then criticizing
natural things. You're criticizing how they do things.
But of course, should try to do it in a way that it doesn't hurt
their heart or break their heart.
And because the best education is that one, and sometimes we lose
it, and we don't, you know, we say things that break people's hearts,
even though maybe justified to criticize, but it should be
constructive.
Well, while I'm at the end, in another version, he says Mirza,
he, he didn't joke excessively, or he didn't praise excessively, you
know, just to flatter somebody.
Get some benefit out of them is praise them just to make them
sound weak, even though you don't believe in it, he wouldn't do
that.
And, and then he says
yet the Half Ironman is the he the things which he wasn't interested
in? Because he didn't, he felt that it wasn't appropriate for him
to eat it or do it or whatever, then he would just kind of ignore
it. Not we're not talking about haram things that he has to
prohibit that. These are things which are not necessarily haram,
but they're just not he's just not
interested in them is not according to his position. So he
would just ignore it, he wouldn't say anything about it, he would
ignore it. What are you used to mean? Who are Well, are you
assuming who, so that he doesn't cause others to be deprived of it
because others might like it?
For example, on one occasion, there was a certain
animal that was presented. And the browser's is that I can't, I don't
feel like eating.
Right, it was the Guana. I don't feel like eating.
It's, it's okay. But you know, I just don't feel like it. But he
said something that we generally will just ignore it. Let other be
if they want to do it, that's fine. He just didn't want to
deprive them either. Just because he didn't like something. You
know, sometimes these people were, if they don't like something a
color or whatever they go on about it. And they make it sound like
it's a bad color for everybody. You have to make that this
distinction. You might not like something that doesn't mean that
it's not likeable by anybody else. Like you might have had one bad
experience with, you know, a Honda car, maybe. So now you start going
on about it. Others have had good experiences, maybe. So be careful
or the way you can be very particular and say, I've just had
a bad experience with this particular one, you have to be
careful. Otherwise, you could be passing comments, which are
detrimental.
And then he says, Well, are you g Boohoo? He wouldn't respond to it.
Because anything he said would be taken as law. So you have to be
very careful what he said. So he couldn't condemn it. He couldn't
say something because then it would be taken as law. How does he
translate that in the genome?
And then he says got Taraka NAFSA who mean fella, he had made it.
His essentially he had abandoned three things. There were three
things that he wouldn't do. What was that? Almira? One is
argumentation quarreling. He just did not prefer quarreling, so he
would just he would never do. So.
Number two, well, IQ bar, which is to think you're bigger than other
people to think you're the best person who's sitting there even
though you are. He just wouldn't, he'd never would show off and put
himself big himself up.
And we're Torquemada Jonnie.
This is anything that didn't
apply to him. That did not concern him. He avoided it. Which means he
didn't go after people secrets if it if it had nothing to do with
anything, he wouldn't go after that. Then he says what Tara can
ask me in philosophy.
He, so this was just general. Then he says there were three things
that he wouldn't do with people. He would leave them and he would
do for himself or cannula. And Wallah, you're able, he wouldn't
criticize.
And here they've used both words, ly assume whether you're even
them an eye. He will criticize them for their natural problems or
natural defects and neither would you criticize them for anything
acquired. This way shows the difference in the meaning here.
So that was number one. Number two, what if we wanted to we would
not
I spy on anybody who wouldn't go after the hidden secrets and so
on.
And
and then he says, Well, I tell them what you love FEMA or
rajyotsava. He was very careful about what he spoke about whatever
he said, He only spoke about things where he felt that he could
be rewarded for speaking about them. It's very particular just
points of piety and amount of Nyan and Mancha and so on, will either
tackle them and now this is what he used to do. Now the effect this
is why you know, the Allah one who is explaining to her center the
analysis what either Tucker lemma at Baraka, Judah. So, when he
spoke, people lowered their heads.
They just listened in calmness, silence,
ultra casual, so they would just sit and listen, it was just so
beautiful. They were just, it was just as if they were mesmerized,
and they were just benefiting from this from the rule Ruhani that he
was able to exude from himself.
And this was obviously because Allah subhanaw taala had given him
that Rob had given him that beauty had given him that command had
given him that effect, that mesmerizing effect. It wasn't
something he demanded that everybody when I come in, you must
look down, you can't ask questions, it was just something
that happened because of the way he wasn't because of what Allah
had given him.
And
Ghana, Ghana, Allah roussy him up by as though they were birds
sitting on their heads. And they weren't bird sitting on their
heads. But this is an expression to show that when somebody is so
calm, and they're still motionless, it's as if birds are
sitting because if a bird comes and sits, is only going to come
and sit on something that's still because birds are very sensitive,
they don't come and sit on moving things generally, because they're
frightened that something's going to happen to them. So you have to
be still for a while for them to come and sit on you. And then you
have to continue to be still for them to continue to sit on you. So
it just shows the calmness in the way they were.
Now I can completely understand how,
you know this, sometimes this kind of situation I've personally
experienced in the presence of certain orlimar. You know, that's
my experience, nobody can deny somebody's experience. You can't
say no, unless you didn't feel that. Because it's somebody's
experience. Right? If you felt that, and the Sahaba felt I
understood the loss a loss, I mean, we can feel that with
somebody who's we think is very close to Allah subhanaw taala. You
can't call a bitter, can you?
Because that's an experience. At the end of the day, I might be
lying. But then you take the person for his honesty, if he's
generally an honest person, he's saying this class.
Yes, if somebody who makes up lies, and he goes, and I was
there, and he was like this, and that, of course. But that's the
way you have to understand these things. But anyway, this is an
expression. And generally speaking, for in edible VA, one on
one will bottom, that's what they say, out to an adult, is
just
an expression of the inner state.
So if there's somebody who just can't keep his mouth shut, in
front of others, everybody signed in, he has to go and say something
just to attract attention, you can tell what they must be inside.
Right? Just to, of course, if it's for need, then that's a different
story.
And you'll understand that from some of the rest of the statements
he's making. For either secretary, then when he was silent, when he
stopped saying what he is, he would never be interrupted. Then
when he finished
the column, they would speak. Right, they would speak. I mean,
generally here as well, I mean, most of these rules that we have,
whether here or in other gurus, generally it's like that, yes. If
it's a fixed dose or something where it's explanation of masala
and people need to understand clarifications, then yeah, then
there's an open discourse going on that's different than where
there's just a one sided initially
exempli exemplification or discourse or something like that.
So when they were when he became silent, then they would speak they
would ask the question, whatever it was, well let it in as their
own in the WHO al Hadith. They would, they would never argue or
quarrel or fight with each other in front of him. Man tokonoma in
the who answer Tula who had Daya frog, and then whenever somebody
didn't speak, then the rest would stay silent for him. The problem
this is so
this is just so unlike us. When we're in a meeting, the one who
shouts the loudest or talks the loudest or stands up and talks or
swears, he wins. He gets hurt. That's really sad. Even in Mustek
meetings is the same thing. Can you believe it? You're running a
masjid. Decisions are being
made by the masjid committee, the members 100 150 203 And whatever
members, but the one who gets hurt generally is the one who talks the
loudest. Right? The one who can throw a few swears in there. The
one who has a few people are supportive, and everybody tries to
speak at once. So the one who speaks the loudest, he's the only
one who gets to speak hamdulillah these things Inshallah, they will,
they will change.
But they would listen this is comes after tarbiyah This comes
after a lot of therapy at the floor.
Now the benefit of listening to this and learning about this and
reviewing it is that one day you will impact our hearts. You will,
as bad as the person may be if they keep reading this kind of
thing. It will have an effect on one day
when you never
even come to July late. So in never listened. Can you can you
imagine I guarantee you if you look around in your family, and
your friends circle, and your associates, there are people who
haven't listened to a single bomb in so many years, even though
there are five times Namazi because whenever they are here
they are outside, even in Joomla.
Right? They come for the footwork they come at half past one they
just about come for that or they stand outside and talk. They have
not listened to a ban they don't think it's necessary for
the man could be speaking about simple things that you've spoken
about over and over again. But this is the benefit of it. But one
day it will impact you because we don't practice about everything we
listen to even though it sounds so simple. And we might even get
tired listening to it. Right.
But there are people that we probably know who just about
making pajama even once a week, they don't listen to Obi Wan.
And these are men who are five times Namazi.
But they will sit outside and talk
that's a sad fact. That's why there's going to be no Islamic,
there's going to be no reform, there's going to be no
enhancement, we're going to stay the same in in 10 years. That's
why there are people you will see around. They're the same they were
10 years ago, there's not a difference. Their beard hasn't
even grown.
The clothing hasn't changed. And sometimes that's all fine.
But their behavior absolutely no difference.
They're the same that they were 1520 years ago here.
May Allah subhanaw taala prevent from that stagnation. We have to
be improving, we have to be granted. And the benefit of these
words is that they will impact they will find their way
eventually. And that's the benefit of it.
And then he says Hadith whoo hoo
SubhanAllah. Look at this.
This is amazing. Just as the Sahaba used to act
when they were in front of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam. The other ma have said that the promise of awesome has
departed from this world. We need to act in the same way where
there's a hadith that's going on.
Right. So now look at this.
Because that's the way of a HELOC. That's the way if you want to be
like the Sahaba
were not the sahaba. And we don't have the promise of loss, but we
have his words.
And that is what they were listening to. So when we listen to
the words of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam. Now look at this.
It's related about Imam Malik
methodic even Abdullah he says that
people used to come to you Mr. Malik, and request that he come
out and give it to us. I remember he was a Muhaddith he was also a
jurist. Fucking, and a hadith scholar Hadith master.
So
when they would go and request us one of his slave girls or somebody
would go outside and say
Sheikh is asking you to return a hadith or will Messiah Have you
come for a hadith class or for masala
this was like in Syria as well I would go to certain orlimar there
was one animal go to Sheikha deep koalas and different people go to
him with different books. I would go to the aikido books somebody is
coming and studying at Def see if somebody's coming to study series
like that. So this group of people they've come okay what do you want
to study so his his slave girl is his secretary. Right Imagine that.
So she would you want to do you don't have eatable Massa in fine
Cornwall, Mercer in hora de la and he said mosyle fit then he would
come out straightaway. If the if if they said Hadith then he will
first go and have a bath.
For us bath is 20 minutes in those days. I mean both the cylinder
bath is using one large cup. Now those big gulp, one of those may
be smaller than that. Throw Wachovia
So that's what above was the human body used to ramp the law they
used to have a bath before every single Hadith. If that was the
bath we used to have your water bill would have been crazy. And it
would have been taken so long. I mean 6000 Hadith Can you imagine
6000 baths like ours,
you know, first time there for a while, you know the the shower or
whatever, then get the shampoo and then the soap and Ramsay and have
a bubble bath and, you know, so kiss.
Now this was just one, maybe more than a bit more than this, what's
this? 5070 liters, maybe a liter it's probably less than 70 100.
Right? That's it just carry over yourself, your body and colors.
There you go. That was probably about five minutes, if even that
much.
I've seen students do this in India, they would sit at the
window place which is outside with the long gun. And they will be
throwing water over themselves. And they will just have a hustle
through the through the long game with the longyuan in front of
everybody. You don't see any.
Right? Anyway, so he would go have a wholesome, make also put some
perfume on, put some new clothes on
and wear the best put on Mr. Montana, He will put His remark on
as well. I'm missing mine today. And then he would put a shawl over
his head, his sheet over his head. And then a specifics place would
be made for him to sit which he would only sit on when giving
tours of Hadith. Then he would come he will sit on it. And he was
absolutely composed,
totally composed, absolute respect for what he was about to teach.
And continuously until the doors ended they will have borehole
they will have the incense
until he finished he would only sit on that sitting for the Hadith
doors.
And once Ibnu abhi always mentions that somebody asked Mr Malik about
this that why all of this arrangement, all of this attention
or hippo and all of the MA Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu Ariosa well
had these will be he Illa Allah taharah tin water Makena
is that it the only reason is that I want to revere
magnify the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam
and I will never relate to Hadith except on will do. That's why he
was who he was. With that respect. So once I remember hearing from
the Lord had heard about a particular scholar, or the scholar
to come take Hadith from him, he went and he saw that people around
him.
There wasn't calmness in that gathering. He was relating with
other people like standing here there and other you know, people
push and they were writing so he walked away. said there's no
worker here is no spoon here. I'm not going to take from this the
chef. So when you've done all of that for your book.
That's where Imam Malik he was told the other people are also
writing waters. He wrote a matar collection of Hadith call it the
more the trodden path. We're going to put all the Hadith in there,
that of the trodden path, the path that everybody knows, so other
scholars were writing as well. When somebody told him why you
know, so many people he said it's okay for America and relay for
whoever, whatever it is for the sake of Allah that will remain.
That will endure forever. So now even the Hannity's they study the
more yes mr. Muhammad's version of Mr. Merricks motto but they still
study the more
because Imam Muhammad Rahim Allah He went afterwards to Medina to
study with Imam Malik. He took the MATA from you and he made some
modifications but it's still everything is from is primarily
from Imam Malik. So that's the power of something when you do it
for the sake of Allah and you give it its due
respect, because the respect is then for Allah then Allah will
give you Yeah, Allah Allah give us this same level of respect. Hadith
who made the Hadith Awadhi him
when they would discuss things, their discussion until the end
would be the same as the people in the beginning which means that
they won't get tired and bored.
process was very careful about that.
It's very careful about that once people are gathered outside, I've
delivered on my suitor the Allah ones place. So one of the other
Sahabi his body is in Buhari, he went inside and caught up too late
and was sort of the Allahu Akbar
and then find me if I had to load or something came out. And he
said, The only reason it's preventing me from this is the
process and told me that don't
be careful that you don't get people bored, that you keep giving
them so many thoughts that they get bored about it.
So you've got some other ones, they just go on and on and on.
They just go on and on and on. You think like what how many things
you're going to send me things are we going to do? Just focus on two
things, you're talking about 10 different things. And that's
totally wrong. I mean, the hadith is the province of Assam used to
he himself was very particular about this. And
yield hack me, my old Hakuna Amin who were there. I mean, my my
attorney Joe boon. I mean, he would laugh when they would laugh.
So he would, you know, he used to console them used to be like them
to make them feel that, you know, he's not a different kind of
person, he would really come down to their level, he would laugh
with them, he would express surprise that things that they
would express surprise, he wasn't like just like, you know, because
there's some people
they think they know everything so nothing surprises them. So just
kind of sit even though somebody's saying something or laughing or
whatever, they're not big deal. Whatever. He would be like them so
this is all part of just being nice to people.
Where spare little hurry be a little Jeff for a few months at
your facility. This is a big problem that I have that I can't
do. But he used to do that promise a lot of salaam he used to be
patient for the newcomer on his harshness in the way he spoke or
in the way he asked questions. I just can't take it.
In fact, I can't even taking notes. Somebody asks a weird
question I really like. And that's wrong.
Because I think you should ask good questions. But then I think
to myself each other he doesn't know. Sometimes if people asked
you such a weird question.
Do you even know what you're asking?
Right? They ask you something as they haven't thought that's what
was said? A good question is half of knowledge. And the biggest
proof of that is a Hadith of Gibreel which is covering the in
Sahih Muslim.
That Gibreel Alayhis Salam he came he asked those three questions.
You know, the famous Hadith, right when he came in this white
clothing, black hair, he claims that were sort of lost. And so he
said, Yeah, what's Islam? What's Iman, what's a lesson? Both of us
have answered him. So
if he hadn't asked those questions, that knowledge would
not have been disseminated. So
asking good questions is half of knowledge. He did half the job
so the prophets Allah was he was very he had a lot of patience when
somebody came in acted with harshness, or anything like that
just medium softer, had an encounter. That's horrible. He
essentially buena home.
So much so that the Sahaba as we know from the stories we read last
time, as well as the Sahaba used to have to pull these people and
say take it easy. The process was very good about it, but they
couldn't bear to look at it. We have Gulu
In fact, the promise of Assam used to say either right on party
Mahajan, your glue for voodoo.
When you see somebody who's in need of something, help them get
what they need. Bring them to me if you have to. Let me know man
that was in the other hadith of her saying the same same same
narrators Hadith percent of the hola Juan. Well, I have been with
Sana Illa me McAfee, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, literally
what this says is that he wouldn't accept praise, except from the
person who was able to do it properly, moderately McAfee
balanced way. So he wouldn't accept flattery. He wouldn't
accept exaggeration, he would only accept good praise. If it was like
that. This could mean a number of different things though. Oh, he
wouldn't he wouldn't accept Hadiya just like that he would give back
as much and so on. Well, I have to I had in Hadith ohata You Jews, he
would never stop and interrupt somebody in their, in their words
in the discourse in this statement, unless the person went
over the limits, studies talking about something haram or wrong or
vulgar. Whatever the case is, for you after would then he would stop
how he would stop him has been a hint either. He would previously
look do you don't talk like that? Okay. I mean, or by just standing
up. What happened recently is I went to my dad's house, somebody
passed away, I went to that house. And as we were sitting there,
there's a few other people who had come to visit as well. So there's
about three people from the family there, obviously, they've just
lost somebody. There's about three others, four of us that were not
related. So this one person, he's never seen him before he starts
speaking, you start saying that?
Do you know such and such a person? He mentioned somebody? So
I said no, I don't know him or whatever. I thought he was gonna
give some praise for him because you're in a minute. Somebody just
died. Right? So I thought he was going to talk about something
nice. So I'm trying to help him figure out who this person was.
And then suddenly he starts talking bad about the person. He's
had some gripe with him. So you start so
Immediately I said, I think we're going into hibbett mode here.
Right? I think we're doing here. But so the person he says, no, no,
this is completely right about him. And I must say it.
So I'm telling him that I've never heard of this man. I don't care
who he is. Why do you have to say that? It's wrong, it's easy, but
this is a madhouse and everything. Now, obviously, we have to say
this very sensitively, because
we don't want to hurt his feelings, either. We want to
educate it, we don't want to argue with him, you have to be very
careful. So you could tell that now he's one of those who likes to
grind his axe, as I say. So then, after that, we said, look, I don't
think this is the right place because somebody just died. So
let's just, but now we had to break that silence with him.
Because now the silence had been created, he'd stopped, okay, but
now he's gonna feel bad, everybody's gonna be looking at
him, he's gonna feel like he's gonna have to defend himself. So
then I started asking him, I said, Where are you from? Like, where do
you live? How come I've never seen you before? Right? You know, you
should come and so I just changed the whole subject and started
talking about other things and everything like that. So you have
to be careful of the way you
tell somebody off. I can't do that all the time. You know, I've made
mistakes like that. And I'm sure we all make mistakes like that or
we just stay silent or say anything. So you know, you either
be totally silent just let them carry on or you you say something,
you be complicit or sometimes be aggressive. The balance is between
the two. So there is a lot of some you would either say something
nicely, or he would just get up and
I think we will end here alone and Salamanca salaam, the balaclava
jewelry with the chroma lomi Are you a younger Are you going to
study Allah may Allah Allah Allah subhana que now could nominal body
mean? Just Allah one Mohammedan
Allahumma Salli ala Sayidina, Muhammad, Eduardo de se, even Mr.
Medina vertical signin. Allah, these words of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we've been covering for the last
two years, who Allah allow them to penetrate in our hearts and allow
us to imbibe them in our character, and make our character
like those, like the character of your messenger sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam that he recognizes on the day of judgment of Allah that
he see his note in us that he sees your note in us, our law, our law,
give us from your notes that you gave to the messengers, and to the
pious, our law makers of those who you love and those that you will
keep grant generated for those to Allah Your Mercy knows no bounds
of Allah, the days you have made seven the years, oh, Allah, the
days, and many other things that you have made seven, seven is a
very, very common number. But when it comes to the, the gates of
paradise, you made eight gates of paradise so that more people can
enter. Oh Allah, we take that as a source of your mercy as an
expression of your mercy. And that's what we have our hope and
our life if it wasn't for you mercy, we'd have no hope at all.
Because our sins and our darkness and our wrongdoings and the state
of our heart is such that we can't trust any of our deeds. Oh Allah,
Allah, treat us with Your mercy and allow us to go through into
Jannah through one of those doors on the day, when only you can
decide the fate of the people who are there of Allah. We also look
at those Hadith in which he mentions that every prophet will
intercede and then you will and then you will show your generosity
of Allah Allah Allah showers with your generosity in this world and
in the Hereafter, and make our deeds, the deeds of those people
who will gain a place in Ginetta for those who Allah take us again
and again to the heart, Amin make it easy for us and Allah protect
those two sanctuaries of Allah those who are able to go make
their journey safe and make a blessing make it an accepted one
and a life changing one for the better. And those who are unable
to go oh Allah give them the trophy to go and allow them to
benefit from the doors of those who do go for like September the
laws and protect us all. So Hannah be corroborated here on my cell
phone wassalam and Ireland.
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