Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Speaking Back to Parents

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of respectful language in Islam, as parents and children are not the only ones affected by it. They emphasize the need for Mhmm, Mhmm, and Mhmm, as long as one is not harmed by the other's actions. The speaker also mentions that parents and children are not the only ones affected by it, and that this language is important for everyone.

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			You mentioned that one must not
say off even to one's parents and
		
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			always remain courteous and
respectful. Does this ruling
		
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			remain if it is difficult to
maintain respect towards them due
		
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			to them going against teachings of
Islam making relationship
		
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			extremely difficult? Again, that
requires probably a bit more
		
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			detail as to what, what are we
speaking about? However, I want to
		
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			clarify that it's permissible to
disagree with your parents on
		
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			issues, because there will be
issues of disagreeing they can't
		
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			be right all the time. Parents are
not God. They're not, you know,
		
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			they're not the Quran. They can be
wrong. They could be unreasonable.
		
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			They could be oppressive. All of
these things are possibility. You
		
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			can disagree, but respectfully,
respectfully means that you should
		
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			always honor them. You don't
always have to follow what they
		
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			say. If it goes against the
Sharia, because Allah says the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu sallam said
Lautaro attorney MacLaughlin,
		
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			female Satan harder. They can't be
any obedience to any of Cree
		
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			creation, when the disobedience of
Allah is involved. So Allah's
		
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			obedience is above all, if they're
telling you to do something wrong,
		
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			you don't have to listen to them,
but you have to refuse
		
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			respectfully. That is getting that
balance is what's complicated, but
		
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			that is what's important.
		
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			Right. And again, this will
manifest differently in different
		
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			issues.