Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Speaking Back to Parents

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speaker discusses the importance of respectful language in Islam, as parents and children are not the only ones affected by it. They emphasize the need for Mhmm, Mhmm, and Mhmm, as long as one is not harmed by the other's actions. The speaker also mentions that parents and children are not the only ones affected by it, and that this language is important for everyone.
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You mentioned that one must not say off even to one's parents and

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always remain courteous and respectful. Does this ruling

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remain if it is difficult to maintain respect towards them due

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to them going against teachings of Islam making relationship

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extremely difficult? Again, that requires probably a bit more

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detail as to what, what are we speaking about? However, I want to

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clarify that it's permissible to disagree with your parents on

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issues, because there will be issues of disagreeing they can't

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be right all the time. Parents are not God. They're not, you know,

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they're not the Quran. They can be wrong. They could be unreasonable.

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They could be oppressive. All of these things are possibility. You

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can disagree, but respectfully, respectfully means that you should

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always honor them. You don't always have to follow what they

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say. If it goes against the Sharia, because Allah says the

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Prophet sallallahu sallam said Lautaro attorney MacLaughlin,

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female Satan harder. They can't be any obedience to any of Cree

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creation, when the disobedience of Allah is involved. So Allah's

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obedience is above all, if they're telling you to do something wrong,

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you don't have to listen to them, but you have to refuse

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respectfully. That is getting that balance is what's complicated, but

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that is what's important.

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Right. And again, this will manifest differently in different

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issues.

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