Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Removing Hatred for Someone That Has Done You Wrong
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How do we remove heal from the heart? If it's for someone who has
wronged me destroyed marital relations or caused
misunderstanding in marriage? Well, they've already done that.
So now for you to hate them will make no difference I understand
that kind of hurts is difficult to just get rid of. But at the end of
the day, we must think that what's the point? What am I going to do
out of this, just because you don't have an ill feeling doesn't
mean you have to become their friend necessarily, or that you
have to start going out with them and eating with them. And visiting
them doesn't mean that it just means that you don't have to carry
the baggage anymore. Whether it's healthy for you to have a
relationship, that's a separate issue. Sometimes it is, sometimes
it's not. But it doesn't, it just means that you take it out of your
heart, focus on other things and don't let this sink you further,
because it's only going to harm you. That guy's done what they've
done, they've done what they've done, they may be laughing about
it, they may be sad about it, they may have sought forgiveness about
it, they may be excited about it, but that should not you should not
let that affect you. All right, you move on to maybe another
marriage. You know, go and get married again. For example. Just
because you've been divorced once doesn't mean that you never get
married again. A lot of people feel that way that I've had a bad
experience so everybody must be like that. That's not true.
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