Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Q&A Removing Hatred for Someone That Has Done You Wrong

			How do we remove heal from the
heart? If it's for someone who has
		

			wronged me destroyed marital
relations or caused
		

			misunderstanding in marriage?
Well, they've already done that.
		

			So now for you to hate them will
make no difference I understand
		

			that kind of hurts is difficult to
just get rid of. But at the end of
		

			the day, we must think that what's
the point? What am I going to do
		

			out of this, just because you
don't have an ill feeling doesn't
		

			mean you have to become their
friend necessarily, or that you
		

			have to start going out with them
and eating with them. And visiting
		

			them doesn't mean that it just
means that you don't have to carry
		

			the baggage anymore. Whether it's
healthy for you to have a
		

			relationship, that's a separate
issue. Sometimes it is, sometimes
		

			it's not. But it doesn't, it just
means that you take it out of your
		

			heart, focus on other things and
don't let this sink you further,
		

			because it's only going to harm
you. That guy's done what they've
		

			done, they've done what they've
done, they may be laughing about
		

			it, they may be sad about it, they
may have sought forgiveness about
		

			it, they may be excited about it,
but that should not you should not
		

			let that affect you. All right,
you move on to maybe another
		

			marriage. You know, go and get
married again. For example. Just
		

			because you've been divorced once
doesn't mean that you never get
		

			married again. A lot of people
feel that way that I've had a bad
		

			experience so everybody must be
like that. That's not true.
		

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