Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Podcast Discussing Islam in the West Dr Mangera

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The conversation covers various topics related to learning from people with similar backgrounds, including the challenges faced by Muslims in various countries, the importance of education for graduates, and the need for people to understand the changing world. The speakers discuss the challenges faced by graduates, the importance of learning from neighbors, and the need for people to understand the modern world and its impact on society. They also touch on the challenges faced by graduates, the importance of learning from their neighbors, and the need for people to understand the history and implications of modern society.
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hated. So it depends on where you started first. So for example,

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where I studied, the teachers I studied with, I have absolutely no

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complaints against any of them except one complaint. And that's a

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compassionate complaint. And if you really want to study your

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study, otherwise you didn't people go to study just to get away from

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home. Right? So it depends on where you are. You can't say

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University is all the same, likewise, or others are not the

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same command like, you know, this is not even regulated. Do you see

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what I'm saying? So it depends on your experience depends on what

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you're looking for, and where you're coming from. And if you

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have a trauma or something I said, every thought alone recognizes in

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the world. That's how I use it all that there's $50,000 loans in the

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world, and they will all recognize if the extent is good. If they

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take the exam, they will accept this name calling me saying I'm

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behind two older Auntie's that look like they've just got off the

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plane, but they've got the most British accent out there. They

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like your multi generation. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, it is. I mean,

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yeah, I think it's mostly because I think you guys had something

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where only Lebanese and Turkish good Kuwait, Australia, the White

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Australia Policy.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to the magic

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carpark podcast episode 60 from memory with a 60 Anyway, today we

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have a very special podcast for you with some special guests.

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While we wait for Shala to get off his phone. Right? You've done 60

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or 80? Yeah. Alhamdulillah.

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Yeah, we did to Harlem's welcome,

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masha Allah, welcome with the Dr. Mufti Abdul Rahman, from the UK.

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And we have brother tell her but I think to introduce the two

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properly, we'll hand it over to our illustrious companion over

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here. Go from me. Okay. He's very self conscious today.

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Hello, hello. Today we have the ramen use of manga from London. I

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had the pleasure to meet him many many years ago in London is one of

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the highlights of my trip there hamdulillah and establish a

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connection and over the years, with the sub has advised me Due to

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the extensive experience on various matters, like how doodles

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in the masjid and so forth, as an example,

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contacted Musab regarding a mystery how to actually approach

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it does with his different mother hip and mashallah sub the advice

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that he gave? I think I've followed for about two years. So

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So Masha Allah is studied in the UK, the only two years what

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happened after that? I had to stop that I had to stop none of that

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advice continued was continued till now it's

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but the that stopped a nice start in another place. But mashallah

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sobs a graduate of Donaldson barre, and then study the thigh

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Dharamsala, Korea, also study Musa masala alongside on board and also

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in Syria, and mashallah did his PhD, if I remember correctly in

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sauce. So SOS sorry. And hamdulillah like he's studied, is

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well known. We don't need no introduction. But hamdullah has

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blessed our land in Australia, the big brown Land Down Under, far

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away from everywhere in the world.

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Every from everywhere. Someone's nervous.

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Because you guys, you guys are

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following me in between. Any time I'm lucky, keep going. started

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some more brother.

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Just like

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I think New Zealand is further out. doesn't really count. It's

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like a Pacific Island.

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From the

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US anyway, and also we have battle hobos good from Melbourne Muslim

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seminary, correct. And somehow he's a student I moved up the

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ramen had the opportunity to attend couple of his classes on

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reading manuscripts at the Cambridge Muslim College. Okay,

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Michelle, instead, just bring the mic be closer. Yeah, yeah. Since

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then. I've been following with the Simon he's socials and through

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zooms and academies and hundreds I think it's, it's really a blessing

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for the Melbourne community to have Musab Down Under and

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hamdulillah the seminary is fortunate enough to host him today

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for Iftar Allah we can now there's a lot of us goods, muskets,

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baskets. Your translates to The Great Wolf in Turkey. Okay, cool.

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Well, nationalist

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totem as they call it, okay, how could you must have caught the

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wolf

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mashallah,

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in the UK in study, I was online No, I was there in 2000 was there

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physically physically how was he moved to sub give us give us the

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real truth? Yeah, I didn't get to see him that often. But when I did

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see him is really good. Mashallah. That must be representative of how

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he used my brain still at this stage of wanting to call it

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getting advice from anyone.

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That's a pretty big deal.

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And is it in 2001? I was your teacher as well. So I'm gonna put

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myself

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grades while you're in college. That in the results in your

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seventh year seven actual. So we have a shared student. And

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firstly, finished therapy for that year or is it still continuing?

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Now that was a good was a good, good Elon College. We're going

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there today actually, I haven't been there since 2001. So I

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visited last year right now is the head office.

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But we're going to the actual Inverloch campus where I was

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teaching you. Okay, that'd be blast from the past inshallah.

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Okay. How long ago was that? 2001. We were there we carried by he was

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a principal and, and we were

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September 11 happened. We had a day off. If you remember. Like, we

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were saying I had a day off was up from reliving. Yeah. This was such

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a shocking event. Like, they were trying to process like what's, you

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know, and they felt that it was yeah, we got a day off. I think we

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were there. The teachers were there. But the students got the

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day off the reasons to avoid Yeah, from the community. They were

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there. There are backlashes for those sorts of things.

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Unfortunately, like even when the Bali one happened, then our Masjid

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got attacked, like the next day. So it was I think they were just

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being cautious.

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This up like, this is the podcast at the masjid carpark so much the

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car park meaning the brothers they meet outside in the car park, and

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sometimes it's so that's what we've taught. And you can play

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with them with somebody who will not tell you hear me? Yeah.

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Yeah, so they're using this opportunity to arrest me now?

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No,

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just because we had such a short amount of time with you. You're

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this is what number trip is is Australia. I think it's the fourth

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one. Okay. So now you have a good idea or second time. Second time

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to Melbourne for Australia. Last year, you came to Melbourne this

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year. What's the couple to be honest, before I came to

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Australia, hearing about certain things in the media. There were

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certain politicians that did some weird things about hijab and niqab

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and things like, several years ago, I can't remember what it was

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like, I just, you have this idea. And I've noticed that this is

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usually the case that you you usually hear the worst things of

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any country. And then when you actually go there, you find out

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that it's not actually that bad. In fact, from my interaction with

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many Muslims and some non Muslims here, I found it's actually very

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pleasant to be honest, you know, it's not bad at all. It's actually

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very good. Muslims are seemingly doing quite well, of course, we've

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got challenges everywhere. But Australia is not a bad place. I

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mean, it's a really nice place. I mean, it's just too far for two to

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come settle yellow light here this time. This time, I think it was,

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what, 12 hours to Singapore, and then another 600 Something hours

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to here. So with some stopover in between. So yeah, I mean, nearly

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22 hours or something like that altogether. Okay. So besides that

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fact, I mean, it's a nice place. And Marsha, I think the Muslims

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are doing well. Of course, there's challenges everywhere, but that's

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the nature of the dunya of the world itself. So Insha Allah, may

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Allah allow it to prosper? I mean, I mean, and like what you compare

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it like, I, the UK as a South Asian Muslim, was because we have

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Turkish rather than Turkish and but there's another there's

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another title outside Lebanese, Lebanese. And so

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like, that's we used to very different. So as a South Asian

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Muslim, when I went to the into to London and to UK, he felt he was,

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you know, he was talking about the YG that said, we this is what we

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missed that in our childhood, you know, like you now we have a lot

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of like Indian cuisine and all that sort of stuff. But when we're

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growing up, we were like,

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we're a rarity. You know, like, I remember him calling me saying I'm

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behind two older aunties that look like they've just got off the

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plane. But they've got the most British accent out there. They

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like your multi generation. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, it is. I mean,

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yeah, I think it's multi because I think you guys had something where

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only Lebanese and Turks could come on Australia, the White Australia

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Policy. Then after that the mass immigration that was till the

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early 70s, where they had what literally what nearly 470 years or

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something they had a white only from the turn of the century,

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early 20th century. So all the early Turks, Arabs, Albanians,

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Bosnians, all protons, I mean, what about Pashtoon? batons a

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quite

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often, we are white. We will probably white for India, but not

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white for

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Australia. We probably didn't pass the test but we got in there. But

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the Pashtoon they did come here.

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Yeah, we Yeah. Before with the government's Yeah. How are you

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with camels nowadays, right? No, no, I can't.

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But in England, I think we started in the 1960s the mass migration

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we've had Muslims throughout

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post World War 219 This is when the whole communities came in. So

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I think we're telling you like 60 to 70 years now in England Yeah,

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that's it's a little bit older than Australia probably Yeah. Yes

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probably almost generation Nigeria's as well with England.

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It's not just it's a little bit older however, in terms of this,

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my understanding of is when it comes to the institutions, or

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establishment of modalities, um, you guys are lightyears ahead of

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us I think multiple reasons for that number one people. I mean, if

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you compare to America, right, so in America, people went there for

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education. So it was mostly academics that went there

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initially and professionals whereas in England, it was people

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from the villages they literally came with lock stock and barrel

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madrasa, Masjid Imam, Mufti, everything. And the first thing

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they established was Mother resource. So village migrated.

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Well, I mean, that means a lot of lots and lots of people migrated.

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I mean, it was an entire village. I mean, there are some villages

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are totally empty. But then they when I say Gujarat, for example, I

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can speak about this Pakistan is Kashmir, there's lots of people of

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Bangladesh. The Navy had the Somalis, and we've had the

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Algerians and we've had Turks, huge amounts of Turks. So there's

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a politan. But you see, England is very small compared to America or

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Australia. It's much more concentrated. That's right, right.

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And everything is close by here. We're driving to Masjid in

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England. That's crazy crazy to drive to a masjid you move the

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Brahim

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one or the other HOXA younger brother. He came here last year.

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He said he said you guys have a warped sense of distance. He said

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I'm going to do it just three kilometers up the road because

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that's that's not that's because there's 15 Mustard walking

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distance from his house in Leicester three kilometers is a

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long distance for me. Literally. I've got two masters walking

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distance. Well, no fat five musters walking distance within

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1520 minutes. And within a 10 minute drive, there's at least

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more than 10 messages within just a 10 minute drive. Yeah, easy.

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We've got

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we've got three from where we are

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to help what's foreclosure.

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And Coolaroo how much within the 10 minutes

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depends on who's driving. But that's you but the over there just

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as masjid and even sometimes as anisul Speak Like in East London

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or something like that. Yeah. I mean, like, it's, it is very

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concentrated and even I realize academically, like when you see

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the you know what we, for us, it's like suburbs, almost they like a

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car that's list is just there, Sheffield, like when you see the

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signs on trains, or everything is just next to just very close. I

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mean, the longest distance we go in England is about four to five

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hours maximum. Yeah, driving, you know, that's it. And then if you

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want to go to Glasgow, which is Scotland, we might do it.

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An hour flight or seven hours, but we hardly drive the let's just

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take a flight but that's it. Yeah. Okay. You know, maximum is

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probably about 12 hours. That's why when I'm Dixon job, I'm one

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half an hour away. Yeah, that was a long distance. For us. That's in

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London. That's still okay. Because to get from East London to West

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London, takes over an hour. It's easier to get from East London to

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Cambridge, which is another town 50 miles away.

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Because it's your outside then. But for for London, if I go to

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West London, that's literally another city for us. South London

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is another city for us. It's very complicated. London is London, he

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says, like Sydney, I think. And because of that, like I noticed

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that the institute's are so close. Yeah. And they're sort of there's

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a lot of cross pollination, and they're benefiting. Cambridge is

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just the Oxford is just there. And even like, even when I was at

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Brahim college, I sort of understood a little bit why, like

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you have, then you'll have connections with Cambridge and or

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even law shell, Dr. Murad or so forth, just because they're just

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so close to each other. So they'll have joined programs or assist

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each other and the resources are shared, probably better. We're

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here we sort of these little islands, that distance from each

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other. So in East London, where I stay, there's at least 15 There's

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probably more than that now, but there's at least 15 madrasahs that

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are teaching up to nearly up to Sahil Buhari for men and women. My

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show 15 of them are shown. Right. Yeah, that was when I counted

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last. Well, so classes, full classes. Yeah. Wouldn't that make

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the luck in terms of the output of that the output be so great in

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London, that is saturated with the saturation of like, there is I

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mean, Hamdulillah. I'm done. But you see, what we have to really

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understand. And I think this will be something that's transferable

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is that not every area of London is like that. You've got certain

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areas which we call boroughs of London, like Hackney, Ilford new

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home, Tower Hamlets, where it's very, very well catered. Because

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you've had such a sheer output of local optima, local heirlooms,

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local scholars and argument. You've got them catering for every

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segment of society. We can still do more, but for every segment

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You've got children's classes to adult classes to women's classes

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at multiple levels sure there are classes you want to specialize in

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Cara you got Cara, of course is going on. You got everything.

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However, there's other boroughs which are not so well. Not so well

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catered for in London itself. You go to Barnet, Kingston, etc. Why

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not? Well, because and this is what it is. The sacrifice of these

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individuals in these areas is that they took their children when they

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were young and sent them to study. Right? Right, because they weren't

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no local places to study, send them to study, they came back and

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they're catering for the area. Most people stay within the same

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area. Whereas the others are probably more focused on secular

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education instead, there's plenty of Muslims in those Oh, yeah. Oh,

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there's massive Masjid. But they just don't have the same kind of

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Ottawa. Like there's one massive area with multiple big Masjid in

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West London. But they've only got about seven or 10 scholars.

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Whereas in my local area where I was born, there's about 1000, half

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visitors.

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At least Chava in just Hackney or Clapton alone is at least 1000.

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Who five? So that's quite something quite interesting for us

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here. Because when you when you're talking about sending people, some

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borrow send people to see because it might keep going out.

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He's very particular about my advice. No, because you keep

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going. So some borrowers so you look better with their headphones

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on.

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I I'm very excited

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about it. Right. So you've got some areas where they did send

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their parents where the parents sent the kids off. I think that

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might be what's required here. I think they did that in the back

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then. But I'm saying for now they did. This is sending their kids to

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look Barry and Jewsbury. Wherever.

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And, you know, that's what we used to do before. Okay, now, the big

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mattresses, the boarding ones there. We don't need to go there

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anymore. Because, you know, the graduates they've literally come

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home and started off in local intimacy. That's why we're talking

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about 15 locally here, right? That you're gonna have to do that.

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Because if you keep trying to import whims, you're you're going

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to struggle that because it's a culture clash, a number of other

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things. Yeah. And, sorry.

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These like the large boarding witnesses, the old ones, like

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Barry and Jewsbury. Now, the do you have, like boarding mattresses

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in London are good? Are they more like there's one? There's one,

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there's one boarding mother's in London? Only from London is now

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from London. Yes. Okay. Yeah, just Just on that point, the question

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is often posed, you know, where shall we go to study sacred

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knowledge? Would you say now that the answers are more now localized

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in the there isn't much need to travel abroad, especially in the

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clinical? And that's what's happened context of England?

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Obviously, probably not here, we're not there. But would you

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would you sort of more confidently direct them to one of these data

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alone? You see, it's much easier to go local, because it's within

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the country, no visa issues, no culture issues and things like

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that. Also, after 911, and so on, there's issues with number of

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countries where you have to have very specialist visas, and usually

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can't get them England, for example, has stopped all

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foreigners from coming to study there. That's right, right. So

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people in Barbados, people in

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Panama, and all of these places, they no longer can come or

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Trinidad another they can't come to them study, which is in a

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blessing in disguise because now you've got a mother, you've got a

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full fledged alum in Panama. Yeah, and, and Barbados, and so on. So I

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think this is what creates demand. It's like you can't stop this is

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going to happen somewhere else. sha Allah hamdulillah that's one

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of the things that impressed me in my observations of England is when

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I was just sorry, if you bring speak louder, not just not just

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bring close to very softly spoken.

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Okay, right. Is your 70 slams perfect studies, teachers therapy.

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The difference? Yeah, sorry. You're saying I was impressed by

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the response. So when I asked you know, some of the students at CMC

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they you know, where do you where do you study? And And the

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challenge was, they're speaking like with a Bangladeshi Bengali

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accent, Indian accent, and like I said in Daraa, alumina berry or

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Jews bureau of Birmingham, so, I'm like, no, no, would you study to

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become an Olympus Okay, here Shala. Like, you still have an

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accent. He's like, I was born and raised here as well. So it's quite

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impressive. Lebanese accent now they can preserve not only their

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culture, but also raise up right.

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And also, just on that point, it wasn't just I know, there's a lot

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of challenges with the current classical model curriculum and so

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but I was impressed with how they could actually contextualize the

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knowledge to a certain extent as well and how they were aware of

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contemporary realities despite just going through the thought

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system that might be exemptions but that was I have a lot of even

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today in that Whatsapp group. You know, the discussion was there and

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I made a few comments on it like as well that there's some WhatsApp

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and local education Whatsapp group and I

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No, no like the i I'm always suspicious of the reforms. This is

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my personal I'm a bit too traditional maybe for that. What

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do you mean by that? You gotta clarify. It's, there are certain

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maybe off the side can elaborate like, you know, this pressure

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constantly to update or to add things. Maybe some items feel like

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oh, we need to change like the, the adding in there is it's a big

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topic. So look every mother. So when I say 15 madrasahs, and in

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England, maybe a few 100. They're not all the same. He says there's

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the Joe Bloggs madrasahs there's the very good ones. And there's

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some decent ones. Yeah, that's going to be across the I mean,

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universities have rankings, whether this is the same thing,

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you can't expect that from every single one of these data rooms,

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that you're going to get a top notch scholar, because that's just

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not going to happen, because there's quality differences. So

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what we're doing at white thread is we're just trying to raise the

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standard by taking graduates and trying to raise that standard.

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Because some places, they just do things very easily. It's just

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like, Okay, you study a bit or whatever, but they don't, they're

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not really particular about the academics like really pushing them

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to do that. There's nothing wrong, I think with the curriculum,

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because the curriculum is a modern curriculum. Anyway, the original

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Dulcinea Dhami curriculum was many years longer. And it was very

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different. There's just some of those books are still there, we

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already have changed. I think, I don't want to get into this. But

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really, what we need is you just need, the way it's taught needs to

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be changed, is the teacher. So the more aware the teacher is of the

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context, the better he'll be able to deliver that same book, and

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that same core content. That's, that's my understanding, use the

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same syllabus. It's just the way you articulate it. And the way you

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contextualize it. Everybody can't do that. But we're getting there.

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And the big challenge was this when our first scholars came from

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India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, etc, the older generation, they came in

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a different world. Yeah. So world has changed, you have to

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understand that in 50 years, the world has changed, as is never

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changed in history. Like literally let that sink in. The world has

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not changed in in about 50 to 100 years as it's never has changed.

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Because it's never changed in history, the advancements in

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technology in our own lifetime. I mean, you know, yeah, I mean,

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mobile phones, you know, and so on, and so forth. Windows 3.1. To

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know, Windows to now windows, I don't know what it's on right now.

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It's a massive change. The older generation couldn't adapt, because

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it wasn't for them to do that. Now that the newer generation, those

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who they taught, my generation is teaching, were in sync with all of

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this kind of stuff. Yeah. So it's changing. Now, before there was a

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complaint. I think that's getting that that's getting sorted now.

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And it's only going to get better because come on, I mean, anybody

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who's going to teach now who's going to study through the system

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now and is going to become a teacher, they have to be aware of

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all of these things. Yes. Right, that our older teachers weren't,

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but now they everybody is. So whatever it is sort of like other

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than actually teaching the class society specialization or sub

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specializations. There is also like a Camille as well, like get

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them. The students sort of abreast with the with all that what a

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fella was mentioning regarding contextualization, or today's

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needs contextualization and advancement, because after six

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years of study, it doesn't complete there. That's only a

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beginning. I mean, I tell that to everybody, anybody who thinks

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this, it's the finish the end of it that you know, you really don't

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know what you're talking about, right? So you need to carry on. So

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that's why we provide those advanced courses, but not just as

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advanced courses, we also try to then make it contextualized. And

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just get them an understanding of how you deliver this in the modern

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world, because the modern world has changed. Because you've

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yourself has, you're coming from a traditional background in your

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Islamic academia, but also you did.

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University education, how did you find like, there's a lot of a lot

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of young alums, like they sort of, I've seen young darlings go into

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academia. And it didn't turn out so good. I sometimes, you know,

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worried because I have an opportunity to do it. I mean, but

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it didn't turn out. So Well, would you mean, the campus sort of them?

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So I don't think we can generalize in this at all, because there's a

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number. So there's so I'm talking about the specific people just

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saying it's not. So what it is, is that I don't think this can be

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replicated. So it depends on where you studied first. So for example,

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where I studied the teachers I studied with, I have absolutely no

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complaints against any of them except one complaint. And that's a

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compassionate complaint. That didn't make me memorize enough.

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You know, didn't force me to memorize big texts, because I

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would have that's only feel I think, I feel a sense of loss and

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but that's just not part of our tradition. It will it is and part

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of the older classical tradition of memorizing major milestones and

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big text and so on, but that's a compassionate complaint I have

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right. I have no other complaint. So when I went to university, I

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appreciated what I was getting from there, but I never felt that

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I was the

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This was better. Yeah. There's there's some who studied in maybe

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are not studied well enough. They've had good teachers, but

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they messed around in madrasa. Right. Right, they went into it.

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Now they're blaming the mothers. And in some cases, the mothers are

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maybe to blame, or some teachers are to blame that didn't give them

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the best that they could have got. Now they go to university and they

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compare. I saw no comparison, I saw a different system that I

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could take from its unique points. And that's what I that's what I've

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tried to do. So it depends on who you are, what your experience has

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been, and why you're going to university for others is the

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difference in comparison, is that not every university is top

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either? That's correct, right. Some universities, it's just a

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play school. I've been to many have spoken at many universities.

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Yeah, right. I've lived close to certain universities and the

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parties, you started Thursday. Right? And if you really want to

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study you study, otherwise you didn't people go to study just to

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get away from home. Right? Yeah. So it depends on where you are.

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You can't say University is all the same. Likewise, others are not

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the same. Come on, like, you know, this is not even regulated. Do you

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see what I'm saying? So it depends on your experience depends on what

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you're looking for, and where you're coming from. And if you

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have a trauma or something, so how do you if you're, whether it's in

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the madrasa or if you're a Muslim parent, and you've taught your

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kids Quran and things like that, what would you say to somebody

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going into university? Like you're saying, where you're coming from?

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How do you stop those mistakes? Or what's so who's going into

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university? So the student is going to university? Is he an

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animal? He's not? We're talking about Polymer. Okay. Yeah. Am I

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here? I mean, the whole university discussion that will lead to No,

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there will be another podcast. So what would you say about alumina?

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And so what? What is the responsibility of the teachers

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before they send them in there?

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How can I teach you prepare his student? I mean, do they? Do they

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even have to go? Right? It just depends on why you want to go

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there. Why do you want to go into academia? I'll say that our che

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che use of Metalla Rahim Allah has passed away now, he actually

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started encouraging the graduates to go to university. Yeah, I read

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something also about his, he was encouraged by the thesis writing

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in even part of the like in the Alim course, at the end, they

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should be writing a detail longer thesis

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may have been a later development, it wasn't in our time, but he

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definitely encouraged to go to university. I was in America at

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that time, I'd graduated at least 1012 years. And then when I heard

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this, I was like, What is he doing? He's may shake, but I was

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like, What is he doing? But now I understand. So what he what his

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thought idea was, is that we've prepared you enough to be able to

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go into university and protect yourself. He literally said that,

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to some of the students who are a bit concerned that haven't we

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taught you enough here to protect yourself. But why did he send them

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there? So I think he sent them there. Because every island

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because we have so many, as we said, so many graduates, they're

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not all going to be Imams because there's not that many Westerners

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to go around, they're not all going to be able to teach and make

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a living, for example. So I think our sheiks idea was, go into the

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various different fields, become a farmers become an engineer, become

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a doctor, become whatever else you want, you've got your LM and your

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piety to continue. And you can actually infuse these various

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different areas, you know, with some ethics in sha Allah, and also

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make a living for yourself and be somebody that you know, can

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contribute to society on multiple levels. That's what I think he

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did. So for example, from our mothers from the graduates is at

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least now, at least six or seven, I think we have peace PhDs now.

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And in his lifetime, he's kept two programs, graduation programs at

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the Mother Teresa, for those who got PhDs elsewhere that he would

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that they would be salary celebrated in the mother. So I

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actually miss my one because I was abroad, right when he kept the

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second one. But he was really his idea was the ILM should become

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mainstream. So you could be a an engineer, or a doctor, or a

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lawyer, or whatever else it is along with being an Adam. That was

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his vision, I think.

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Yeah, and so other than why trade you also teaching some some

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Academy, so

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they just lectures is just, okay, motivation lectures, we've got

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like over 1200 lectures on the, the ideas that we saw, so I would

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broadly split the, this whole kind of educational environment into

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four. So one is general motivational lectures you have,

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right, just regularly anybody can listen to, but then from that

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we're trying to push people to the second level, which is for the

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general masses, not to become a scholar, but to get more

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structured courses. So that's the second level and I think you guys

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are trying, you guys are doing something like that. Number three

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is the full fledged Olim or adimec course, like an in depth study to

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become a scholar, right or a leader or something like that.

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Then after that is the postgraduate stuff for personal

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development. So we are in three areas and we're just missing one

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area. So we are

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We've got some some Academy, that's for the general lectures

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like 12 and lectures on that, then we've got Rayyan courses or Rayyan

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Institute, which is for the general public courses online on

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demand, then we don't do an ollie Mollema course why? Because

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there's already so many out there, we try not to replicate, we try to

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fill a gap. That's what we're trying to do. So then we've got

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1000s of Olimar around the world English speaking world. So now

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we're, we've got white thread Institute, which is then providing

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for the books graduate scene, right? So you become a scholar,

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wherever you are good or bad, you did it well or not coming. So

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we've got refresher courses on there for scholars, and we've got

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an advancement courses. So we're literally just trying to fill a

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gap shallow.

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And just tell the Muslim, Melbourne, Melbourne Muslim

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seminary, and witness witness, what's the courses that are, so we

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only have one primary course.

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I guess it's an amalgamation of the Father iron and a couple of

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introductory sciences into the humanities, such as making of the

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modern mind and Islamic civilization. So we have three

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terms. The first one looks at what Saul, Saul Quran filk, zero and

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nothing either. Okay. And then second term we have Making of the

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Modern mind we have

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Islamic civilization that were felt to, and also all sorts of

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Hadith. And then finally, we have

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counseling and psychology and the final course, in addition to test

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care, Islamic community, and one more that I can't recall. And

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finally, there's a selective component. So they either do a

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research chaplaincy program or a

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Tober course. Okay? So it's, it's, it's not an in depth course. But

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the intention is similar to what Mufti said is just to connect them

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establish that beginning and hopefully from there, encourage

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them to sounds like every Muslim college with elements

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if I remember correctly,

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said there's a lot of not good. Mashallah. So and your base and

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your class are running out of Elam colleges to them, I guess overall

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in in them college on the Sydney road or five campuses. Okay,

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Michelle, the one on the head office. There's a school there.

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Okay, but your classes are in the Inverloch. Invalid Christmas Alex

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campus. I think as you would probably observe as well, the, the

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connection to the scholarly tradition here isn't as deep as it

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is in the UK. So especially in the non sub continental communities,

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it's a bit weaker. So we want to, I guess, be a platform to begin

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that journey for a lot of the students. Mashallah, it's a very

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strange thing to say in Australia. Okay, we're doing a madrasa and in

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the madrasa, we're going to produce islands in Australia and

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it's not run by an off because the idea of at least in communities,

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is some ministry has to run this. What do you mean you're going to

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be teaching karate in the mosque? Or you're teaching field and

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Sharia law? It doesn't it doesn't it doesn't. Amada says like in the

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masjid just in the masjid that we presented them on the roster to

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six, seven massages in Melbourne. And finally, one of the

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Bangladeshi masjid they they understood the brothers and stood

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at a meeting, they were happy, they were in tears.

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They our communities. And they and because the masjid we it's our

00:33:16 --> 00:33:19

biggest resource out there in terms of amount of money we put in

00:33:19 --> 00:33:23

Australia and the whole this 10 There's several mustards being

00:33:23 --> 00:33:26

built at the moment, they're all over $10 million in Australia, and

00:33:26 --> 00:33:31

in Sydney specially. And they just sit empty the whole day. Exactly.

00:33:31 --> 00:33:34

Yeah, like we don't need even other buildings for it. And our

00:33:34 --> 00:33:38

footprint for madrasahs is so small like in terms of small discs

00:33:38 --> 00:33:41

in on the floor. And I mean, it's there might be other places

00:33:41 --> 00:33:44

sitting and table and chairs, but like it's so small that you can

00:33:44 --> 00:33:47

pack away the mother aside like we've packed away and at the end

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

of the day for the Mussolini's we pack it away, put it in the

00:33:49 --> 00:33:52

corner, and then the rest is gone. Now it's a masjid. So but sadly

00:33:52 --> 00:33:56

like, but try and explain it to people like, okay, so which

00:33:56 --> 00:33:59

University recognizes this, and they're always looking at

00:33:59 --> 00:34:02

accreditation is like I said, every dollar loom recognizes in

00:34:02 --> 00:34:06

the world. That's how you can say all that. There's $50,000 looms in

00:34:06 --> 00:34:08

the world, and they will all recognize if the extent is good.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:12

If they take the exam, they will accept this. So you got to you

00:34:12 --> 00:34:15

know, it's a bit of wordplay, but it's true.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:19

Our students have gone on to study in South Africa in you know, they

00:34:19 --> 00:34:22

they set the entry exam for second third, fourth year. They got in

00:34:22 --> 00:34:26

those classes stream into Malaysia did Muscat with us, 50 with us.

00:34:26 --> 00:34:29

One of the I was really worried for the first batch, because like

00:34:29 --> 00:34:32

it's you've been sitting with six years teaching like you're doing

00:34:32 --> 00:34:37

anything. Right. And then in Malaysia on Dr. Arden monosyllable

00:34:37 --> 00:34:41

Hanson, Shahid Rahmatullah. He's McDonald home in Malaysia. So it

00:34:41 --> 00:34:47

is so he so we send the students there and they took the exam and

00:34:47 --> 00:34:50

he's the move the the Mufti day he sent a message back from Pakistan.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

He said foster foster foster

00:34:53 --> 00:34:56

in South Africa. Good luck. Are you succeeding? Succeeding

00:34:56 --> 00:34:59

succeeding? Sharla looks at but he was he was just happy with the

00:34:59 --> 00:34:59

standard

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

Standard with this like, you're always worried, you know, like, am

00:35:03 --> 00:35:06

I wasting the students time? Or are they actually getting any

00:35:06 --> 00:35:10

benefit but the idea of doing mattresses I think was we seen it

00:35:10 --> 00:35:15

as well. Like in our in Pakistan in North like one of the I forgot

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

the name of the ship, very senior

00:35:18 --> 00:35:21

tip my tongue he used to come in teachable Heidi just take his

00:35:21 --> 00:35:25

child that off is shawl, wrap it up with Buhari, that's one of the

00:35:25 --> 00:35:29

other after book of Allah, you know, in the mattresses, it's

00:35:29 --> 00:35:32

probably the most prestigious seat, you know, book to read, to

00:35:32 --> 00:35:35

teach the shekel had some other assassin agencies to take a shawl

00:35:35 --> 00:35:39

off rapid, and then give them a hurry on it with such simplicity.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:42

So but this is something because we've been conditioned to a

00:35:42 --> 00:35:46

certain way of education has to be a standard should be then when it

00:35:46 --> 00:35:49

gets bigger, all those structures and things come into place and

00:35:49 --> 00:35:53

organization becomes stablished. But you're right, the general

00:35:53 --> 00:35:56

community or the subcontinent community sort of spoiled like a

00:35:56 --> 00:36:01

little bit they they don't appreciate having so many of ours

00:36:01 --> 00:36:04

and modalities and they take it for granted maybe

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

compared to maybe other communities think they take it for

00:36:07 --> 00:36:10

granted in Australia. I don't think so. They monitoring

00:36:10 --> 00:36:12

Australia, they might not even ask the subcontinent.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:15

Yeah,

00:36:16 --> 00:36:21

you have to we have to we have to wrap up just lasting five minutes

00:36:21 --> 00:36:25

inshallah. So don't go yet. The sub you wrote this book on

00:36:25 --> 00:36:29

marriage. So this is mashallah an original work.

00:36:30 --> 00:36:34

I went through it either you can read it before marriage as guide

00:36:34 --> 00:36:37

guidance, or you can read it after marriage and make a stuffer and

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

feel for all the places you've gone wrong.

00:36:41 --> 00:36:44

Me In other words, you were discussing the book and the

00:36:44 --> 00:36:48

advices. And it's really, it's a really good book, Michelle, and I

00:36:48 --> 00:36:52

enjoy the read and advices in it, and shall we get Sofia to

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

implement and practice it

00:36:54 --> 00:36:59

Inshallah, and all of us in sha Allah, and but there was

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

something, this is a book,

00:37:02 --> 00:37:07

a lot of the issues that come as an Imam, they come to myself, it's

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

like, almost, there's very little you can say, because it's like,

00:37:10 --> 00:37:14

they're like, a mindset in a therapy is their way of thinking

00:37:14 --> 00:37:19

is there in the individual that they can't make it work because

00:37:19 --> 00:37:23

there's there's so it's not like one advice. It's like they're on

00:37:23 --> 00:37:28

totally different wavelengths, the couple can be of different

00:37:28 --> 00:37:31

wavelengths, her understandings of what a marriage is totally skewed.

00:37:31 --> 00:37:35

His his understanding is like, he's telling his wife, you have to

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

go bring, you have to work. But these are these are solid

00:37:37 --> 00:37:41

discussions that we had. And there's some basic premises like

00:37:41 --> 00:37:44

missing basic Islamic understandings that are missing

00:37:44 --> 00:37:47

therapy, should not Keller talks about this in his book, see what

00:37:47 --> 00:37:50

that show is a section of marriage. And he says about, well,

00:37:50 --> 00:37:54

he gives advice to mothers, and the same would apply to sons as

00:37:54 --> 00:37:54

well.

00:37:57 --> 00:38:01

It's got to, because we preparing, like, even when you're giving

00:38:01 --> 00:38:04

information, but the therapy side of thing, where did they get that?

00:38:04 --> 00:38:07

And if they don't have parents who can teach him? Like he has not

00:38:07 --> 00:38:11

said that? Many mothers mistake a good education for? That would be

00:38:11 --> 00:38:15

that'd be a. And so if that whole is their therapy is not given?

00:38:15 --> 00:38:18

Where would they? Are we talking about bringing up children now?

00:38:18 --> 00:38:22

It's more about young adults, children that will become I mean,

00:38:22 --> 00:38:27

yeah, you have to start from a young age, you can't wake up when

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

they're 16. And then say I need to teach you now.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:34

That's my next book, insha Allah, about bringing up children. I've

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

been thinking about that for a while that you can't just switch

00:38:36 --> 00:38:39

on afterwards, when things start going wrong. And you start

00:38:39 --> 00:38:43

noticing signs and you thinking, oh, I need to do something about

00:38:43 --> 00:38:48

this. You need to literally direct it from a young age. So that the

00:38:48 --> 00:38:51

tarbiyah is done, because tarbiyah is a flock, it's character. Yeah,

00:38:51 --> 00:38:54

that has to be ingrained from a young age. And I think it can be

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

right and all you have to do is you just have to work on your

00:38:57 --> 00:39:01

first one or two. If you have more children, you only have to work on

00:39:01 --> 00:39:04

your first one or two, believe me, they will help you sort the rest

00:39:04 --> 00:39:08

out. It is really, really useful to do that way. It's not that

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

difficult, but you have to be on the ball from the beginning.

00:39:11 --> 00:39:14

Right. And I guess it's a new thing that people don't understand

00:39:14 --> 00:39:19

the West is because there's the outside community is very, very

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

powerful. It's very challenging. Before you never used to be like

00:39:22 --> 00:39:25

that, because we were in very homogenous societies and

00:39:25 --> 00:39:28

communities. Everybody in the village did the same thing.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

Everybody in town did the same thing. Everybody thought the same

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

way. Everybody was on the same wavelength. We're dealing with

00:39:33 --> 00:39:38

individualism, post modernism, relative truths and things like

00:39:38 --> 00:39:41

that. And you know, you're finding it difficult to get a daughter

00:39:41 --> 00:39:44

thinking the same way as a mother or something and say they don't

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

even want to carry on their businesses unless they're very

00:39:46 --> 00:39:51

easy businesses I've seen. It's a whole new scenario we're dealing

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

with you have to start from a young age and you have so you

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55

literally have to adjust,

00:39:56 --> 00:40:00

you know, to that and be flexible and it's you can't win

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

In every battle

00:40:02 --> 00:40:06

but that's a whole stat. Yeah. Subject. Yeah, this lucky one

00:40:06 --> 00:40:10

young man was saying he wants to marry a doctor. So why? And he

00:40:10 --> 00:40:14

said, Please don't bring the money in. He's a young Muslim man. You

00:40:14 --> 00:40:18

know like I mean this is like he's he's so he doesn't understand you

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

have to explain to give them a sit down and said No, listen, might

00:40:20 --> 00:40:24

even you get married, you're responsible for the household and

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

the finances and this is like, this isn't your Islamic

00:40:26 --> 00:40:29

obligations, you'd have to bring one sent to you. Exactly. You

00:40:29 --> 00:40:32

know, if she's a millionaire, she doesn't have to. So like these

00:40:32 --> 00:40:35

are, these are all these little holes activity said, I want a

00:40:35 --> 00:40:38

doctor so that I don't have to go to doctors and I've got a home

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

beside, I'd appreciate that.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:45

The family is a nice thing. You know, you need a doctor in the

00:40:45 --> 00:40:45

family.

00:40:46 --> 00:40:52

So it's a that'll be a database start young. Yeah, exactly. Mold

00:40:52 --> 00:40:55

the mold from a young, younger age, we have this whole thing at

00:40:55 --> 00:40:59

the moment, the young men, especially the whole red pill, and

00:40:59 --> 00:41:02

there's all movements online, where they're molding, entertain,

00:41:02 --> 00:41:05

entertain, etc. Or the likes of people, the red pill movements,

00:41:05 --> 00:41:09

all these they're trying to mold the next generation of young men,

00:41:09 --> 00:41:12

and it's having an impact in England, especially they, it was

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

brought up in parliament in England, and they were discussing

00:41:14 --> 00:41:17

because they didn't give tarbiyah or they just sort of lifted and

00:41:18 --> 00:41:21

these people, rightly or wrongly, whatever, they may have certain

00:41:21 --> 00:41:24

things right and certain things wrong. But they are filling in the

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

void. Exactly. Yeah, there's negative tarbiyah going on there.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:31

Somebody's trying to provide positive therapy, even here in

00:41:31 --> 00:41:34

Australia as well. And this boys, and it was an article, and they

00:41:34 --> 00:41:37

kept the teacher's name and whatever. And she's, she the

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

students are high school boys. They're telling her you know,

00:41:39 --> 00:41:41

guys, you shouldn't be working should be in the kitchen sort of

00:41:41 --> 00:41:46

things like, oh, yeah, like the impact is huge. And they're

00:41:46 --> 00:41:48

worried now, because it's affecting like more than 50% of

00:41:48 --> 00:41:53

boys, those 50% of boys. They're the net 50% of men of the future.

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

And they're going to be they've internalized all these ideas. So

00:41:56 --> 00:41:59

that's why it was coming up in Parliament, so forth. So the

00:41:59 --> 00:42:03

therapy is pretty strong. The external therapy is, I think it's

00:42:03 --> 00:42:06

just going back to docile, isn't it? That's why it appeals because

00:42:06 --> 00:42:10

it is the muscle, it is the original, it is the default in

00:42:10 --> 00:42:14

terms of like, it taps into something that isn't it. I mean, I

00:42:14 --> 00:42:18

think the name, I mean, you can call it a throw, you can call it

00:42:18 --> 00:42:21

evolutionary you can call it whatever you want. It's like in

00:42:21 --> 00:42:26

the theater or something that it has. That's why it resonates like

00:42:26 --> 00:42:29

it. It broke through all the programming of decades, just

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

within within one year, like we were raised up, we're in the

00:42:32 --> 00:42:35

generation that the self esteem movement, I remember in the 80s,

00:42:35 --> 00:42:39

we were taken out of class, I was taken out, we were taken out and

00:42:39 --> 00:42:41

was a special class held. It's called a selfless if you read

00:42:41 --> 00:42:45

about it, the self esteem movement. And these experiments is

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

a social experiments that have been done in primary school don't

00:42:47 --> 00:42:50

remember, I remember like, they will teach you anything, it makes

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

sense. Because it wasn't like a normal subject. You're not

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

studying anything. They're talking about your feelings, and they're

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58

trying to boost your esteem self, there's a whole thing about you

00:42:58 --> 00:43:01

know, this whole, everyone gets a trophy. And all that that started,

00:43:02 --> 00:43:05

our generation was corrupted they did at tarbiyah at a very, then

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

you start thinking back all the things that were being said to

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

you. I think

00:43:10 --> 00:43:14

I did have several Lisa selfesteem slogans that they I do think back

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

to high school in Australia and think Yeah, well, look,

00:43:18 --> 00:43:21

there was a lot of things that we were taught, we were taught to

00:43:21 --> 00:43:24

believe is what is successful for the future, which is incorrect,

00:43:24 --> 00:43:28

which you can see now there was an agenda behind it. And I think the

00:43:28 --> 00:43:31

only reason we can see that is because we were brought up in the

00:43:31 --> 00:43:34

West. Our parents couldn't say that I don't think let me use

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

agenda and might be strong word but it's, it's an agenda. I have,

00:43:37 --> 00:43:41

like a It's a conspiracy theory category. And I don't want to be

00:43:41 --> 00:43:46

there. But I think but I think but I think there there was decisions

00:43:46 --> 00:43:50

made in the Education Department. And then they will start at the

00:43:50 --> 00:43:54

implementers by design by design. Yeah, I think that's why you got a

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

lot of self esteem though, right?

00:43:58 --> 00:44:01

At the end of the podcast to have a little bit more and not really

00:44:01 --> 00:44:01

not really.

00:44:02 --> 00:44:06

I was a I was 1100 students. I was like those three Muslims and we

00:44:06 --> 00:44:11

used to get bullied like anything. It was the worst. Yeah, it was it

00:44:11 --> 00:44:15

was we came out of it alright humbler? He actually goes home and

00:44:15 --> 00:44:16

covers himself in the show

00:44:18 --> 00:44:21

yeah, we came back button Yeah, we came out of it. We're going to

00:44:21 --> 00:44:22

change make the whole Australian Muslim

00:44:23 --> 00:44:27

Sharla just like on the phone with the sub. Really I want to talk

00:44:27 --> 00:44:30

more about zamzam and white thread and all the other projects and

00:44:30 --> 00:44:34

good work so you're doing just a time please do get this book

00:44:34 --> 00:44:38

inshallah it's really it's a it's a worthwhile read. There's a

00:44:38 --> 00:44:42

shipment arriving Shall I will talk about at some other time. It

00:44:42 --> 00:44:46

takes a long time mashallah that you don't have these and no, it

00:44:46 --> 00:44:50

wasn't, I know it wasn't no. Next Next. Okay, that's right.

00:44:51 --> 00:44:53

Inshallah, I think someone always stalks these ones.

00:44:54 --> 00:44:59

For fun Sharla will PDF it and we'll share it on our channel.

00:45:00 --> 00:45:00

So,

00:45:01 --> 00:45:04

let's copyright. Just go ahead with the subject like Allah.

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

Thank you for watching, please like, subscribe and press the bell

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00:45:19 --> 00:45:23

and encouragement, persuasion. The next step is to actually start

00:45:23 --> 00:45:28

learning seriously to read books to take on a subject of Islam and

00:45:28 --> 00:45:31

to understand all the subjects of Islam at least at the basic level,

00:45:31 --> 00:45:34

so that we can become more aware of what our deen wants from us.

00:45:35 --> 00:45:39

And that's why we started Rayyan courses so that you can actually

00:45:39 --> 00:45:43

take organize lectures on demand whenever you have free time,

00:45:44 --> 00:45:48

especially for example, the Islamic essentials course that we

00:45:48 --> 00:45:51

have on the Islamic essentials certificate which you take 20

00:45:51 --> 00:45:56

Short modules and at the end of that insha Allah you will have

00:45:56 --> 00:46:00

gotten the basics of most of the most important topics in Islam and

00:46:00 --> 00:46:03

you'll feel a lot more confident. You don't have to leave lectures

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

behind you can continue to live, you know, to listen to lectures,

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

but you need to have this more sustained study as well just like

00:46:09 --> 00:46:12

Allah Hyrum salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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