Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – No Shame So Do as You Please (Hadith Commentary from Zad alTalibin)

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of high and low Hadith numbers is discussed in various segments, including a sarcastic video about a man namedcentipede claims to be a great person, and a woman named Carnaby describing herself as a professional Hadith and comes from the word " Has been a woman" and "has been a woman for a long time." Carnaby describes herself as a woman with a history of shyness and comes from the word " Has been a woman for a long time."

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			All
		
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			right, let's look at these number
256 Hadith number 256 either
		
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			lambda stay fosse navmesh it.
		
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			When you feel no shame, then do as
you please Hadith related by Imam
		
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			Bukhari
		
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			Hadith number 256 of provisions
for the seekers. This hadith is
		
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			something that is quoted quite
frequently many Roma discuss it
		
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			I'm sure it's been discussed in
many hotbars lectures and other
		
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			places because it's something that
is very fundamental to our Eman
		
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			because I've always said Allah,
why are some said adhere Amina
		
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			Iman. He was describing the 70
Something branches of faith.
		
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			And he one of the things that he
singled out to say this is a
		
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			branch. He said I'll hire Amina
Eman. Modesty is from faith. In
		
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			fact, many orlimar mentioned that
higher and Eman go together. And
		
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			it's so true. Because the more
higher a person loses, where they
		
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			become a lot more crass in the way
they do things a lot more bold.
		
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			You know, don't don't have as much
higher in dealing with others in
		
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			front of Allah subhana wa Tada.
When whether they're alone or in
		
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			front of somebody else, then that
means a higher is being lost. And
		
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			you will notice that the more the
higher is lost, the more sins a
		
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			person will commit. Because the
Eman is that much weaker.
		
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			That's what it is. It's that much
weaker.
		
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			When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam said that when a person
		
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			commit Zina that Iman comes out of
the person and hovers above the
		
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			head. When he's finished that act,
then it comes back, the man comes
		
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			back in. And essentially that act
is a great act of
		
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			anti hire as such,
		
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			as they say, in all this great
timber hierarchy, right? You know,
		
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			when there's no modesty, so the
man leaves because that's just
		
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			such a vulgar act that the person
commits. May Allah protect us from
		
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			all forms of fornication.
		
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			But higher is very comprehensive.
There's another Hadith by a video
		
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			by Abdullah Masuda the Allah one
where it's, it's saying that hey,
		
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			it really means that
		
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			you protect your head.
		
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			And from anything that it would
entail
		
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			that you don't want Allah subhanaw
taala or that Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			should not see you do that means
listening to anything that wrong.
		
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			Seeing speaking
		
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			all of these things relate to
higher
		
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			likewise than the body and the
private parts and so on.
		
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			Or them I have written big books
just on the single Hadith alone on
		
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			the concept of higher because it's
so important.
		
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			And subhanAllah when the way this
is mentioned, if you do not feel
		
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			shamed and do as you please, and
it's not to be taken as well, I
		
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			don't really feel shame, so I can
now do what I please. It's
		
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			actually said in the form of
sarcasm as such. If you do not
		
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			feel shame, then you could do as
you please, you will do as you
		
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			please because you've just broken
down the barrier. So this
		
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			essentially tells us that the
barrier of hire is so important
		
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			that once that barrier is lost,
		
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			you will do as you please
		
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			so it's not permissive. It's
actually a very sarcastic in its
		
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			approach in one way you could look
it up you could look at it like
		
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			that. So it's not to be taken
literally.
		
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			There's a hadith related by
there's a there's a great Hadith
		
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			scholar actually.
		
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			Ignore Kodama humbly refer he
mentions this.
		
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			In his guitar with the well being
there's a great Muhaddith whose
		
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			name was Carnaby, Carnaby, great
Muhaddith.
		
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			He used to enjoy just chilling out
with his friends and drinking.
		
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			That's what he mentions.
		
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			One day, he'd call his friends
over.
		
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			And he'd call his friends over for
food and drink afterwards. So he
		
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			was outside the house waiting for
them to come. You know, unlike
		
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			today, where you'd be getting
every 10 seconds and update on
		
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			your Twitter or your Facebook on
your phone. That Okay, we're here
		
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			now.
		
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			This has happened on the way you
know, somebody just cut us off.
		
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			Don't worry. We're going to be
the, you know, minute to minute
		
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			update with about 20 Friends,
right? He was just sitting there
		
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			waiting.
		
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			And it actually says in this
narration that he had red trousers
		
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			on
		
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			Right, who has read trusts? So
trying to show that he was off
		
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			that tape, you know, like, like
today you have people with
		
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			these kind of flurry baggy
trousers not for the sake of
		
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			sunnah. But to look like somebody
else with maybe it writing halfway
		
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			down the bomb, or something like
that, right? So
		
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			Allahu Allah, what He was into,
but this was the kind of attitude
		
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			that they had. So he's sitting
there waiting, and suddenly he
		
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			sees that there is a man coming
along, who's sitting on his
		
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			donkey, and there's numerous
people behind him, obviously looks
		
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			very imposing, looks like a very
honorable person. So he's quite
		
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			taken aback by this because it's a
stranger. It's somebody maybe from
		
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			a different city. So he says,
what's going on? Who is this? So
		
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			somebody said this is sharper,
sharper, sharper, is the name of
		
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			great Muhaddith
		
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			right, so this is sharper. So this
is what he says in Arabic, he says
		
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			a sharp What the heck is shorba?
		
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			I mean, not like men who are
shocked by it, it was not a
		
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			respectable term that men who are
you know, who is he? Right? Or who
		
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			is this man is like, a sharp, a U
shape H comes from a U shape. Like
		
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			what thing is this? Like a shot
what the heck is shot, but, you
		
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			know, you could just imagine the
attitude that somebody would have
		
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			today, you know, some guy who's
just seeing like a gangster type
		
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			just sitting outside waiting for
his friends to come along. You see
		
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			this big scholar compasses, like
who the heck is like a man you
		
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			know? You can just imagine what it
was like? So it's like a Sherpa
		
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			said Muhaddith you know he's a
he's a hadith Master is a Hadith
		
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			scholar. So you know what he does?
I don't know what comes into his
		
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			mind ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada put
something in his mind he gets up
		
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			goes right up to shot but you
know, he's got all of these
		
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			followers behind him is probably
great respect for him and
		
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			everything. But he just goes up to
sharp it says, had Disney
		
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			mentioned a hadith to me relate a
hadith to me. So sharp, I must
		
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			have looked at him. And he says,
you know, you don't look like a
		
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			person involved in in Hadith.
		
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			Right? Like, why should I he says,
and I had this joke. I should
		
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			relate to Hadith. So you don't
look like a person involved in
		
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			Hadith narration, study your
teaching or whatever it was. So
		
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			who is this guy? Right? Can you
imagine somebody just comes along
		
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			in the way like telling me
something? What are you gonna say
		
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			like, what's wrong with you? So,
you know what? What kind of view
		
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			does he pulls out his knife.
		
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			He says to her destiny, a joke.
You're either going to mention a
		
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			hadith to me, or I'm going to
wound you. I'm going to stab you.
		
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			I'm going to do something with
this knife. A shotgun was thought
		
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			Subhanallah you know, mentioned a
hadith to him. So he relates his
		
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			whole Hadith to the chain had
dinner. He gives three people to
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam saying the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi salam said,
either allow him to stay first
		
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			nashit he related this exact
Hadees to him.
		
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			And this is the one Hadith that
Carnaby has related from shortbow.
		
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			They say same person kinda be has
related from shorba. If, when you
		
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			feel no shame, then do as you
please.
		
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			That those words with what?
		
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			Loss and sincerity and that had
come suddenly in his mind, and
		
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			he'd asked with the fervor that he
had and then sharper. You know
		
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			what, kind of further he had
related this hadith with the words
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam that had such an impact.
		
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			He came back in his house,
Carnaby. And he told his mother,
		
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			when my friends arrive, call them
inside the house, let them eat,
		
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			give them to eat. And then
actually what he did was he came
		
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			in the house first, he went to all
of the supply of wine he had and
		
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			he dropped it all down, he spilled
it on, He spilt it all. And then
		
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			he told his mother, when they when
my
		
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			friends come in, let them come
inside, feed them properly. And
		
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			then after I showed them and tell
them what I've done with the wine,
		
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			I'm off, he went to Madina,
Munawwara immediately,
		
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			immediately, like, can you imagine
a guy today, something like that
		
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			happened to him? He goes to the
travel agent book me a flight to
		
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			Saudi right now, you can't really
do that right now because you need
		
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			visas. Right? But Subhanallah
there are people who have gone to
		
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			the Saudi Embassy and got their
visa in a day.
		
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			You know, that Subhanallah So, but
in those days, you just had to
		
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			make your way there, right. You
just have to make your way there.
		
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			So he goes, he goes to Madina,
Munawwara and he goes to Imam
		
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			Malik
		
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			and he stays with Imam Malik
becomes a hadith scholar Subhan
		
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			Allah so now when you read the
Hadith examined I never knew this
		
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			until I read the story. I've read
gotten to be so many times it is a
		
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			kind of unusual names. Do you
remember it had the funnel
		
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			cartoner be you? Right? Then he
came back to Basra. By that time
		
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			when he came back to us after
finishing with the my Malik
		
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			shortbow had passed away that
Muhaddith Shaba he had passed away
		
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			Rahim Allah. So
		
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			this is the one Hadith he relates
from Shopbop so
		
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			panela
		
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			but that just shows that it
doesn't matter who you are where
		
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			you are. Change can come in an
instance. That's very important,
		
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			important to realize. And it was
this hadith, the words is such a
		
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			penetrating effect, if only these
words could have the same kind of
		
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			effect on us as well, that when we
also feel the same way that if you
		
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			have no shame, then do as you
please, the next time we are
		
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			thinking about something we need
to realize a way is our balance of
		
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			modesty and chastity. And one
thing we have to realize is that
		
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			this comes from the word Higher,
higher is not the natural shyness
		
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			in a person that prevents them
from speaking, right? Because
		
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			sometimes you have to speak,
especially if it's about defending
		
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			your faith defending your honor,
and so on.