Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Missing Friday Prayer (Hadith Commentary from Zad alTalibin)

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The importance of missing a prayer in Arabic language is discussed, including the need for a woman to fulfill a sin and avoid mistakes as a fundamental responsibility for men. The speaker also touches on the idea of a woman being considered a goddamn woman and the importance of avoiding avoiding sins. The importance of avoiding traveling to a particular airport for severe weather conditions is also emphasized, particularly for men. The speaker advises avoiding going to shopping malls and avoiding going to the mall due to the "what is it?" sense of hope and forgiveness.
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Because Heidi's number 218 which says methodical Juniata mean lady

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de Ruritan katiba Mona if you can fie Kitab in LA Yong Ha, what are

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you but then

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whatever misses the Friday prayer without any legitimate excuse will

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be recorded a hypocrite, in a book that is never deleted nor changed.

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hadith is related by Imam Shafi in his Muslim in his Hadith

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collection, wherever misses the Friday prayer without any

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legitimate excuse, will be recorded a hypocrite in a book

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that is never deleted nor changed.

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Right from the beginning, we can see that there is the room for an

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excuse in the sense that whoever does it for illegitimate they

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could be excuses. So this is someone who has no excuse, but

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just leaves it abandons it, taking it lightly negligent, not thinking

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it's important enough, making some other excuse. That is not a

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legitimate excuse.

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Because really, the Arabic word is not excuse, it's mean lady Dora,

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without the without there being another need that was so important

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for the person to fulfill, that he couldn't go, for example, he was

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sick, he was ill, he had to take care of something was a life,

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death matter, something of that nature. Or he had to travel

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because the person who's traveling, there's no Jamal and

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the person who's traveling.

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So it says been laid in the rural without any other need that

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superseded this obligation. So one, this is a very, this just

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shows how the importance of Joomla is and obviously this relates to

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men and not to women.

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There are a number mentioned that, although it is

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it says that will be recorded as a hypocrite in a book that is never

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deleted or changed.

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or Allah might have understood this not to be literal, in the

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sense that Okay, once you do it if the make person makes Toba, if you

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look at this, literally, if the person makes even though about

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afterwards, and repents change the changes the ways

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that means it's still going to be counted against them. No, we're

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not to take this literally this is mentioned in an exaggerated manner

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as a as to magnify the problem and magnify the danger of it just as

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in other narrations, which says that a person of doing something

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is not going to enter Paradise, which obviously means is not going

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to enter paradise initially, or before he's punished for it. Or

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like those who go in in the beginning, and so on, and so

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forth. So here as well, what you've got is that really might

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have mentioned will likely have clearly he released that the

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record is not erased unless a person repents for having

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committed the same. So that's the great thing, because the way that

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hadith mentions this.

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Clearly, missing jaw is not a cover, unless a person rejects the

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obligation of Jumar, then it could be a cover, because at the end of

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the day, Joomla is a solid like all others. And it's established

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through absolute proof, definitive evidence and anybody who rejects

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that is going to be considered a golfer. So if you want to take

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this hadith, literally, then it's going to be in an extreme sense,

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is that person who absolutely rejects Juma, then, you know,

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maybe because of his golfer, and he remains like that doesn't

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change his way, then yes, he's not going to be changed is going to be

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considered a hypocrite, that he may be outwardly saying, I'm a

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Muslim, but his belief about Joomla is leading him to abandon

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the Joomla.

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But if somebody does change their ways, then then we understand that

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this hadith where he says that in a book that is never deleted, no

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change unless the person makes Tober.

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So if the person doesn't make Toba, it's not going to change,

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it's going to be there. There is some discussion, though, about the

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concept of our sins being written and recorded, and then are making

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Toba of them. What exactly happens? We know from certain

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Hadith like a 30 boomin of them be common law them better, that the

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person who repents from sins is like the one who does not commit

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sins in the first place. So based on that end, they both the same,

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clearly there's going to be a distinction between the two.

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Although it really depends because in some cases by verse and

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commitment that committing a sin, their sense of sorrow actually

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encourages them to do more good deeds, and to really make a great

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repentance, as opposed to a person who's not committing any sins, but

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they're just kind of continuing along and doing a basic amount of

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good deeds. Sometimes a sin will be the impetus to do a lot more

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great deeds. However, you don't want to risk that. I mean, you

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don't want to look at this from the outset and things

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Well, I can continue just to do good deeds and abstain from sins,

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or I could do a major, major sin and then have so much Toba that I

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could actually become better one why use that we just encourage

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yourself otherwise is there are many Hadith of encouragement,

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there's no need to go this way, because you're taking a major

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risk.

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So it's really difficult to actually say, who comes out

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better. And then because it's all about what a person changes to

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afterwards. The great thing about this, though, is that there's a

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lot of hope, which is given an Islam. And that hope is built in

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to this hadith as well. That's how we understand it, because the

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sense of hope, and a sense of forgiveness, it dominates. It

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dominates except go for obviously, except go for unless a person is

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committing a sense of comfort through this by a very extreme

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opinion of Joomla. That a person may have.

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And this is another thing here is that

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the

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valid excuses would be traveled, for example, severe weather. And

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when we say severe weather, if it's, I mean, sometimes we have

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what we consider severe weather, but because of our amenities that

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we have, and the facilities that we have of traveling, for example,

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somebody has a car in the garage, so he doesn't even have to go

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outside, wants to go shopping. So he or she goes down, gets in,

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opens, the garage, gets in there, from the internal door, for

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example, gets into the car warms it up, and then goes out, they

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don't feel a bit of cold, they go, they go to the shopping mall, the

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shopping center, wherever there's nice parking place covered

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parking, you go in the mall, so relaxed. If a person could do

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that, and the weather is not so severe, that is maybe you know, 15

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inches of snow or something like that,

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then fine, you don't have to go to the gym or, you know, meaning if

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it's what I'm trying to say is that if it's so severe, that you

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wouldn't go shopping, you don't go anywhere else, then fine. You

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could make me miss Joomla. For that reason, although your

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threshold for missing Joomla should be a lot higher, right?

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Where you might give up going shopping, but you try that much

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more even for Joomla. And this is again for men.

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So that's the way you look at these things. That's the way you

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look at these things. In fact, I think the way you should we should

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look at this, because it is as important. Is that okay? If it's

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such severe weather, and we're not going to go to the shopping,

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because we can leave that for another day. We're not going to go

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anywhere else. What about equating it to if we had to catch a flight,

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we'd gone undergone a great difficulty to get a booking on a

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particular day at a particular time. From, for example, the

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airport that's two hours away from your house.

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And will you undertake the journey from your place to the airport to

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catch that flight in those conditions? If yes, right, then

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you should go to war. And if not, then maybe that would be that

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would be justified. However, having said that, if it's

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dangerous, where you could be killed, or you could you could

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attract some great disease or be injured or something of that

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nature, then clearly you won't go anywhere anyway. Right unless

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you're escaping from somewhere. In that case, it's permissible. I

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know I'm really magnifying this, but it's a serious issue,

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especially Jumar. The other prayers they could probably be

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missed for slightly lower excuses. But Gemma is a lot more important.

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Illness

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just being a student, missing a class. I mean, that's one that

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is a common question that comes up. We've got a class at this

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time. I mean, the main thing is that you need to choose your

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classes and then you need to discuss with the university and

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most universities nowadays understand and that's why I've

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actually seen it that many universities won't won't have

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classes

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on for example, that time on Friday, but we'll try to avoid

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them as much as possible. If that's not possible, and there is

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a class of that time, then what you need to do is that even if

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you're going to miss it in the lesson, then you need to try to

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establish a congregation. right even if it's a 1015 minute

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congregation, as long as this four people in on one Imam and three

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individuals, three men, then that then that would be valid for Jamar

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congregation the Hanafi school the chef is require 4040 people in the

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congregation for it to be a valid Juma. So having said that, if it's

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difficult to run to the masjid and come back for work in a big

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company that has a lot of Muslim employees and it's very difficult

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to go to the masjid and come back then fine. Have a have any mom

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come or train one of them to be able to at least need a gym opera.

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because that's a very important community worship that Allah

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subhanaw taala requires the normal Salawat you go to your local

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masjid, but for the Juma you go to the jewel on Masjid meaning the

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masjid for German, the German. And it's difficult in big cities to do

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that nowadays because imagine if everybody had to come to one

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Masjid in London or in Chicago in New York, I mean, it'd be two,

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three hours, it'd be very difficult, right? Because we don't

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have a day off on Friday, right for most for the most part. So

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what's important though, is that there is a congregation everybody

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comes together. It's a time when Muslims meet each other. That's

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one of it's a social worship. It's a time when the community gets

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together. And then on aid is when the whole community including the

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people on the boundaries on the suburbs, they will come together

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as one in one place.

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