Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Long Engagements Are Dangerous
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The speaker discusses the importance of engagement in engagement is like a wedding and guests will feel connected once engaged. Long engagements are dangerous and can lead to feelings of connection, but it is important to act like strangers.
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if you will, once you do get engaged, a lot of people think
that once we've committed to one another, it's like engagement is
like a commitment. Some people make such a big deal out of the
engagement, that it makes it like a wedding in terms of the feeding
the guests and the gifts and everything like that. And that's
totally not what it should be. The best thing is to make the
engagement as short as possible, so that you get fixed up and then
you're gonna get married soon. Long engagements are dangerous,
because you feel you're connected to somebody now, but you're not
really connected. So you can still not act like husband and wife, you
still have to act like strangers. Right, but then some people take
offense