Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Integration Challenges and Our Responsibilities

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The speakers discuss the challenges faced by Muslims in various countries, including domestic abuse, mental health problems, and racism. They emphasize the importance of praying and balancing health and prosperity, and ask for forgiveness and respect from their neighbors. They also ask for forgiveness and respect from their neighbors and encourage strong employees to be strong and strong in their jobs. They end by asking for forgiveness and respect from their neighbors and to reward those who organized programs.
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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim hamdulillah

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Al Hamdulillah. Hamden Catherine de uban Mubarak and fie Mubarak

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generally, come on your head Bharat buena way Allah Jalla Jalla

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who are I'm Anna word was Salah to Ursula more either so you will

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have a bill Mustafa SallAllahu Taala are they he was the he was

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sabe he were Baraka was seldom at the Sleeman girthier on Isla Yomi

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Dean Amma bird

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called Allahu Tabarka Terada for the Quran emoji they will for

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carnal Hamid in Lavina Kalu Rob buena la husen Mr. Komuter

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Turner's xinyuan ie model

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Iike

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that unnecessarily quarreling he was

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eager to alert the half who knew whatever she will build in

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Atletico equal to two I do

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not know Ollie, welcome Phil hayati, duniya or Phil.

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What a comfy tester he. Fuso Kumada comfy. Mad the rune loose

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zulum min or foolery Rafi.

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So the Kola one Aleem will call up no Otto Allah al Eskandari Rahima

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top er tune female RT m k for your Hello il Allah who are McKibbon on

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bisha harati

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I'm gay for y'all tomorrow ain't near the hola Herat Allah He Wahoo

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la mia Tata her main Jana but he offer Lottie

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m k for Jada ju n f Hama, Dhaka Ecole Asare Wahoo Olivia to mean

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half Awatea

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My dear respected friends, our brothers our sisters are Salam

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alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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it's a pleasure and an honor to be here in your midst, in this really

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beautiful city of Bergen Allah subhanho wa Taala has blessed you

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with a lot of nature. And Imam Ghazali ramped Allah here and he

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says that when it's raining then you should make dua because the

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was accepted because rain is a Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala so

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mashallah, you guys seem to have a lot of Mercy of Allah subhanaw

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taala here, we just need to use that mercy when it's raining then

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remember Allah and make some DUA and may Allah subhanho wa Taala

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accept our dua.

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Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran, the iodine that I recited,

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it's all about this concept of St. Karma steadfastness. So we're

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speaking about this the karma

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is the Karma is a to understand is the karma is to call remains to be

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completely on the balanced and moderate and straight path,

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avoiding every type of extreme

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avoiding going left and right, just being on the path to Allah

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subhana wa Tada. Now, this applies to ideology. If a person is going

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to deviate in terms of the ideology,

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take on ideas, doctrines, beliefs, aka ID which are not Islamic, then

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they will go off the path Illa Zhi Li with Bala Al, towards deviance

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and misguidance.

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Number two, it also deals with practice in action, a person

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should avoid that which is not established by the Sunnah, by the

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general understanding and the spirit of the shittier. Avoid the

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bitter Earth and the innovations that is also going off the path.

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So we can go off the path intellectually, we can go off the

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path.

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On a doctrinal level, we can go off the path on a practical level

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on a practice level. And then on a spiritual level, a number of

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different levels. That's why it's the common is very complicated to

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stay on path.

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If we're delaying in our prayer in our salats if we're delaying in

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the way we should be covered, and the way we should express

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ourselves in our HELOC, if we're expressing too much anger, where

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we should not be where we should be controlling it, then that is

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also going off the path that is against is the karma. The Allama

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have explained that for a person to have a balanced character,

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a HELOC. We're in Nicola Isla Hulu can Aleem ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada

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said that to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that you are on

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the most sublime character

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What is that character? There Allah ma have explained that that

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was the most finest tuning of human characteristic and behavior,

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you could have complete equilibrium, complete perfection.

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And anybody who is close to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam in that, in that Allah can its balance will be the closest to

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the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam.

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Generally, what the other must say is that there are three things

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which in which

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contribute and effect our character. The first one is a

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HELOC. The first one is anger, anger. Anger is a faculty huddled

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over the anger is a faculty.

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Which, if you have too much of it leads to crime, it leads to

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murder, it leads to enmity, it leads to harming someone else.

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Person is just too angry. He's always going to get, he's not

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going to be able to control himself. He's going to lash out,

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he's going to become violent. And this is what happens. You look

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around the world. And you see it happens on every level, even

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leaders to the common folk. You get so many questions from people,

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they say, you know, chef, I have a question. I just divorced my wife

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three times, but I was angry.

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So you don't divorce your wife over a cup of coffee in Starbucks

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do.

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That's how people divorce. Unfortunately, they get angry. The

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idea is in their mind, and they get angry and they say it. That's

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why you should never think about divorce. Even if you're having big

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arguments. Don't think about divorce in your subconscious.

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Because if you do, then one day will just slip out.

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That's the problem. argue no problem. If you want to argue you

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can argue, try to avoid it. But don't think about divorce.

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Otherwise it slips out and then you regret it. So that is

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abundance of anger. If fraud, you call it a fraud to hold on.

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On the other side, we need the faculty of anger to also assist in

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courage. If a person doesn't have heat inside him, this anger for

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the right reason, then they will have a shortcoming. They will

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become cowardly, this will be called juban. They will be

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cowardliness, then, their rights will be taken away. People are

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abusing them, they'll be abusing their parents, maybe they will be

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abusing their religion, and they will feel nothing

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but handed me this today saying very cold person. He just sits

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doing nothing. Nothing moves him was got by Nene Hilda. That's what

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they say. This is a shortcoming in this regard. We have to have fine

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tuning in this regard. Stand up for the right things. But don't

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stand up for the wrong things don't get angry for no reason.

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So, what you see in the world, I mean, the fraud and

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excessive anger leads to people killing people it leads to ethnic

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cleansing. And this is the kind of things that it leads to. Now we

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can think about our level in our own our own lives, we all need to

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attain this balance number two, the second thing which is very

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important is shower which has to be balanced as well. The shower is

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desire,

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desire for more food, desire for sexual fulfillment, these are this

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is shower. Now, if a person has to less of this, than the husband

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will not fulfill the rights of the wife, the wife will not fulfill

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the rights of the husband.

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They will not fulfill each other's rights. That's generally not a big

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problem. The bigger problem is if fraud is too much excessive

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abundance, where a person goes beyond the halal into haram and

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commit sexual deviant sees and this leads to all forms of haram

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which we don't need to, you know, explain today. It's

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understandable. That needs to be moderate as well. The shower needs

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to be moderate. So the hot tub needs to be moderate. The shower

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needs to be moderate.

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And then we also have

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ailment hikma. We have to be balanced straight in there to get

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our source of understanding. If you have too less of knowledge

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than will be ignorant and ignorant is a massive problem. Ignorance is

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one of the biggest calamities of the human being to be ignorant.

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When you're ignorant. You don't know how to act. We don't know

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what's recommended recommended for us. We don't know what's required

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for us by our dean. If we don't understand confusion, when you

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have ignorance when you have Jehovah then you have ignorance

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and you

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You have confusion, bewilderment, and we don't know what to do. And

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then we can do many things which are wrong. And that's why lots of

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people do things which are wrong. And

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too much means to go into areas that is not for the intellect to

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get into. The human has five faculties, the sense of sight and

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hearing, and touch, and so on. These act like satellites for our

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intellect, our brain, and our brain processes all of these

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signals we get from what we see what we hear what we touch, what

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we smell, our brain gets the signals and it processes this

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information. The brain is an amazing piece of masterpiece of

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Allah subhanaw taala, even when a person is sleeping, the neurons in

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the brain, there are millions of processes that are constantly

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taking place, constantly 24 hours a day, in our brain, even when we

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think we're sleeping, that is the ability of Allah subhanaw taala

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that nobody can create something like this. It's just amazing. That

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is a constant movement in the brain of what's happening.

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Now,

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the brain processes the information that we have, but how

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would our brain and intellect understand what is to come after

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life?

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What is paradise and hellfire,

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what there is in terms of other existences.

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These are all things where the brain stops. So just like our

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sight and our ears, our hearing our touch, and everything has a

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limit, a boundary, beyond which it doesn't work. If I look at this

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microphone, and I look at it with my sight, I can hear its effect.

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But there's no way I can understand just with my sight and

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my hearing, or my touch, or my sense of tastes.

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How this is functioning, I can see the color, I can see what it's

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doing. But I can't understand how that's happening. My intellect

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needs to come in here and process this information.

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Now, there are many things in the universe, which the brain cannot

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understand because we have not been programmed to understand

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this. That's why Allah subhanaw taala has made certain things out

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of our boundary. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam once came

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out into the masjid,

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that where His room was when the Prophet saw some came out,

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actually, you know, that's where the Muslims room was. When he came

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out, he saw some Sahaba they were in discussion. They were

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discussion they were discussing.

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They were discussing powder, Destiny, predestination.

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And there was a good discussion, heavy discussion going on, the

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person said stop, this is not something that you should get into

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the depths of because you will either come out of it in one

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extreme or the other, or the Kadri or a Jamboree, like the came out,

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come out as a fatalist or absolute proponent of free will. It's not

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the time to go into that discussion. But for anybody who

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wants to understand that discussion, I have a one hour and

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15 minute detail lecture on that on zum zum academy.com. It's

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called, don't be depressed, you don't know your future. Don't be

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depressed, you don't know your future. Very important discussion

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for a lot of people because they think that if my last 1015 2030

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years have been miserable, lots of setbacks, then my remaining 2030

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years will also be miserable. And that's the wrong thought. The

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prophets Allah lorrison wants us to be optimistic. That's why

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hadith of Muslims says it is Allah Maya and Farooq, Wallah carriages,

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ages do not become enfeebled, and go and avidly search and look for

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that, which is to your benefit. And then he said, if something

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were in fire to cache, if something does miss you, then

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don't start crying over spilt milk. He didn't say Spilt Milk, he

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said, Then don't say, Oh, if only this, if only that, because

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shaytan then uses that to open the door. He says no, then you just

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say in that Allahu nada, write your own, and you just carry on.

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Because whatever has happened in the past doesn't have to happen in

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the future. This is the debilitating state this is where

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shaytaan makes us think

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that if something has happened in the past, it will happen again.

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They think people start to think I'm a loser. Nothing's going to

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happen for me. My marriage will never work out. My business will

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never be prosperous.

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This is what people think. But no, we have to be optimistic. So the

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intellect also has a boundary and there are many things that the

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intellect will not understand like powder. Another thing the Prophet

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sallallahu sallam said that don't

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ponder and reflect over the essence and being of Allah

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subhanaw taala. What is he made of? What does he look like? This

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is not something we'll ever understand. But you should think

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about his signs his names

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around you. That's how you understand the power, and the

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efforts, the attributes and the Beautiful Names of Allah subhanaw

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taala. That's how we understand Allah.

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To give you an example, do you remember the first time that you

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ever got a calculator, who remembers the first time that they

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laid hands on a calculator. And when you first got the qlT, I

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remember when I was about, I don't know, five or six years old, and I

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got a calculator. I was very excited. So I started, you know,

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10 plus this and 10 times this, and then you get more numbers. And

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then you do some crazy numbers, and then it gives you a e sign.

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Have you seen that E sign? What does that E sign mean? It means

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error. I didn't know what it meant. He just gave me E. What's

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the problem? And why cannot this? Why can't this do? The

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mathematical sum I wanted to do is to give me this E sign. What's the

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problem with this? Then, my son has a scientific calculator, which

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can take a lot more sums, bigger numbers, because we use the square

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roots and everything scientific. But the reason is that that

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calculator, it was only programmed to do so much you had a boundary.

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Beyond that, it doesn't work.

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Do you understand it doesn't work. So likewise, the human beings we

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have been bounded by certain things hamdulillah our boundaries

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are great, there are so many things that Allah has opened up

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for us. But then there is a level beyond which it cannot go.

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So that's why agnostics who are still searching after the humanity

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has been in existence for 1000s of years. History has been recorded

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for hundreds of years in accurate detail. There have been many

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belief systems and doctrines and agnostics I don't understand why

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they keep saying I still don't know

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in Arabic they call hola Adria.

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I don't know, I don't know is that's why do you need to be

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agnostic about that? There are many belief systems pick one of

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them is lazy.

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Right? You're being lazy, that you don't want to pick something.

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Right? You want something that goes against goes goes with the

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knifes and with the desire. These are some of the challenges that we

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will be dealing with. We want to reach moderation and estate karma

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because it's on estate karma that will be accepted in the hereafter.

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As Allah subhanaw taala says that very those who say that our Lord

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is Allah, Robin, Allah, our Lord is Allah.

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So muster calm, and then after that they tried to remain on the

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straight path.

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If they do that, and if they succeed, then the angels will

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descend it and as early human Mala Iike the angels will descend upon

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them. And the angels their their promise will be that alert The

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Hafele you don't have to fear what attacks No, you don't have to

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grieve

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What obihiro and accept the glad tiding Bill Jana, with the

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Paradise and the gardens that you have been promised.

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We were your assistants. We were your friends. We took care of you

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in the world. Phil hayati dunya in the life of this world war Phil

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era. We will also do the same in the hereafter.

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Magnolia welcome Phil hayati, duniya Orfila hero. What a comfy

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Hi I'm Tasha he and Phu Kham and then for you in the is whatever

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your knifes and yourself desires.

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What a coffee hammer to their own and for you is everything that you

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now want. And you call for new zulum men are food and Rahim This

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is abundant hospitality, special hospitality from the Forgiving

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Lords and the merciful Lord, look at the two names of Allah that

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have been used here. Out of all of this. Allah uses not garter

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Cardiel he doesn't use that name. He doesn't use generous he uses

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the food on Rahim. He is Forgiving and Merciful. Because when

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somebody reads this ayah they're gonna think, oh man, I have

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misbehaved. I have problems. I have crimes. I have sins. I have

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transgressions. I have many shortcomings. How am I going to

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get this? Allah reminds you at the end he gives hope. He says I am

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going forward on rahimian, the forgiving one and the Merciful

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One. So yes, you may have made a few mistakes. But at least you've

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got this. That's why there's another Hadith in Sahih Bukhari

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etc. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, said they do work on rebou

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Another one said they do what she wrote

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hit the mark

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or get close. What that means is that we are told that try to aim

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straight. When a person is trying to fire at something, he wouldn't

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he needs to aim straight to be able to get the targets. If you're

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aiming in that direction and your target is here, or you want to go

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to Oslo, and you take a road to some other direction to North care

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North cap, then you're going to reach the North cap.

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Right, you're not going to get to Oslo. So at least get on the right

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roads, that likewise for Muslims, our responsibility is to try our

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best to get on the right track, through knowledge, perseverance,

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subber, patience and inspiration. And then if we have moved, here,

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here or there, then Allah subhanaw taala will

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at least forgive us because the Hadith mentions

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aim for the mark, or at least close.

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And then the other Hadith says, and accept the glad tidings

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because Allah understands our weaknesses. See, when Allah

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subhanaw taala created humanity, as a hadith which mentions that

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after creating the Insan, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala saw that the in

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sun is weak, we are vulnerable, we will fall, we will fall prey to

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sins, we will make mistakes. So, he said that if I am going to deal

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with these people in just the complete just way, if they make a

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sin, I'm going to punish them. If they make a good deed, I'm going

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to reward them if this was such a fixed system of punishment for

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every sin and reward for every good deed, and we would never

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survive.

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We would never survive. So you know what he made his special

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mission here. That's when he said in Rama T sub aka the hobby, and

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he had that specially written above his Arsh that my Lord My

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Mercy has overcome my anger. So when I deal with people, the

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majority of times and instances it will be through mercy. And that is

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why we're still surviving today. That is why we can hope for

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Allah's Mercy despite our wrongdoings as greater problem we

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may have as great sins we may have committed in the past, inshallah

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we will be able to hope for Allah's mercy. That's why if not,

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I thought Allah says something else very interesting. He says,

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law sorry, rota either Karbala cara de Loup.

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Right for those who understand Arabic will really appreciate this

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beautiful last saw Hirata either car by the car I don't know who

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won or Kabira either wotja fabuleux. There is no there is no

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small sin. If Allah is to confront you with His justice, then even

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the smallest sin we're in big trouble.

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That's why we should be thinking you know, when people say oh,

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don't worry, the short are gonna it's a small center, the Saudi

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royal who Allahu Allahu Allah Who for Rahim right? People say this

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is a misunderstanding, right? So, there is no small sin, when he

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wants to deal with you with justice, and he can if he wants

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to.

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But then in the same breath, he says, but there is no big sin,

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when his grace confronts you.

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If you have sinned, as big as those sins are as great as they

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are, as much as they fill, Allah subhanaw taala is fallible and His

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grace and His Rama is greater than that. is greater than that. That's

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why Subhanallah if we just think about the Mercy of Allah subhanaw

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taala. Then

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if we focus on that, only sometimes it could mislead us.

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That's why we need to have a balance of health of fear and

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promise. Because look, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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is a servant of Allah subhanaw taala Yes, he's the greatest

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prophet.

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He comes into McCampbell Corolla, and he forgives everybody. After

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all of this aggression, they have thrown him out and he persecuted

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his followers

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made their lives miserable. And then when they moved to Madina,

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Munawwara they had been attacked over and over again.

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But when he comes back to MK como karma, He forgives everybody.

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He says, Whoever enters the house of Abu Sofia and one of the

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leaders of the time of the Meccans he says he is safe. What mercy is

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that? What mercy is that? Use of Ali salam after what his brothers

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did to him. We don't need to talk about the whole story. We know the

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story. He for

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gives them these are servants of Allah, forgiving,

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showing their mercy. And Allah subhanaw taala out of His mercy,

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He is only sent 1% of His mercy onto the earth, that 1% is used by

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these prophets that 1% from their all the mothers have mercy over

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their children, just from 1%. So can you imagine if 99% of Mercy

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was descending on this earth, or we were to be confronted with 99%

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of mercy. That's why if you just think about the Mercy of Allah,

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that could become a fitna for us. Because then we think, has 99% of

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Mercy. Mercy has never seen before. I'm going to be forgiven,

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let me carry on doing sins. But that is the wrong approach as

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well.

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That is the wrong approach as well. That's not is the karma is

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the karma is I need to fear Allah as well. How do I know that he

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will use his 99 Personal mercy for me, sometimes he may dislike one

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act of mine, like we've seen stories of the past of people who

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are great worshipers. But at the end, just due to one act, one deed

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they lost their faith, then that mercy is not coming. And yet, we

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have also seen that out of one act, a prostitute who's never done

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any other good deeds, except fed a dog water

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that was thirsty, suddenly she gets salvation. That's up to

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Allah, Allah is independent, nobody can claim that I've got

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contacts with Allah, He will do my bidding.

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So we can never be but if somebody has done wrong, then they've got

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lot to think about and look for hope, from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.

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Now living in the West, we have challenges. Living in the east,

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they have challenges.

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I know mushrif is where the sun rises. The East is where the

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sunrises and mothering is where the sunsets, I don't know if that

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means anything. But we are here, and we're here to stay. And the

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one thing that I have seen, which keeps us back is this

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is the mentality that us against them. This needs to go.

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If this is where you live, and this is your home, and this is

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where you have citizenship from, then this is your country. And

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until you don't consider this to be your country,

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then you will never be successful. You won't understand how to deal.

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Your confidence will not be there. You will constantly be in survival

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mode, constantly on the defensive. I'm not saying there's no

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challenges, there's huge challenges. But this challenge is

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everywhere. I have lived in

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I have lived in at least four countries in different continents

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for extended period of time, meaning more than a few months,

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like at least a few months. And believe me anywhere you go, even

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to a Muslim country where they have Sharia law, sometimes, in

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some cases, there are challenges there as well. Because it's the

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dunya Dunya is a place of challenges.

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Dunya is a place of challenges. There are Muslim countries where I

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would not be able to speak

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unless somebody five months ago, six months ago did an application

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and they checked you out and everything just to give a small

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ban.

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There are Muslim countries like that where they would not allow

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anybody else to speak except certain people.

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The hotbar has to be one around the whole country.

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You cannot teach any other book. There are places like this

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Subhanallah we are everywhere the challenge because Dunya is a place

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of challenges. Allah placed us here for a certain reason.

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Now yes, if you cannot do your deen, you cannot practice your

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deen somewhere then understandable. Then you have to

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make sure that we have laws for them. But where you've got freedom

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to practice your religion as much of it as possible. Right, doing

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your father if your father Tulane then after that we are here for a

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reason.

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All of these refugees that are coming in here million, just a

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million in in Germany, and then the rest, then maybe Allah

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subhanaw taala has something great in store for us. Right? The whole

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of Europe. The whole problem that we see around us today is

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look, if you look at it from the country's perspective, people who

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run the country and they see people who are going against the

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norm of the way people dress of the way

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People eat of the people, the way people greet, have their approach

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to matters of the Hereafter of their approach to worship of their

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approach to God, then they've been used to things for a very long

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time. And then suddenly, we get all of these Muslims who come in,

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because Muslims haven't had a heritage here for hundreds of

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years, what's been lost 50 years. Now, it takes a lot of getting

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used to you understand it from their perspective, from, you know,

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from the people in authority and from the host community, they see

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it differently.

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They get suspicious. Just imagine if you're from Somalia, or from

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Pakistan or whatever. And you get a whole community of sick people

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from a different country. You can imagine what you're going to

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think, right? You're going to be suspicious. You're going to be

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considerate. Now, there's a very interesting story that's related

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that when the Zoroastrians when they were thrown out of Persia,

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the fire worshippers they came to the Indian subcontinent, that time

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India was one Indian subcontinent and they said we want to come and

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settle here the leader of India, whoever it was at the time, he got

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a he got a glass full of milk.

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And he said, the person understood that we are already full here in

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this Full House is a lot of people live in India right.

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So, what this person said did is that he took some sugar and he put

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it inside

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he put it inside

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right. So the person understood now, is that what we do? The

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question is that us Muslims who have come, I mean, many of us are

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born here, but those who came here are first generation. Are we

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putting sugar here?

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Or are we taking from the milk? Are we consumers or contributors?

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Are people appreciating us? Or do people see us as a burden?

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Forget religious issues, a HELOC issues? Religious, you know, I'm

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not talking about freedom of religion here. I'm talking about

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just humanity.

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How many of us muslims contributes to purely social issues, social

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needs of everybody, Muslims and non Muslims alike. That's also a

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Muslim issue, to look after others, not just in fact, the

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other ma say like the Hanafuda Lama they say that if it wasn't

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for that one Hadith of Ma dibujo Bella the Allah related by Buhari,

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etc, where the professor was sent him to Yemen, and he told him how

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to teach people. And then he talked about zakat. And he said

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that you will take from the rich and you will give to the poor.

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That Hadith restricts zakat to Muslims only. You take the cards

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from Muslims and you give it to other needy Muslims, Zakat is

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restricted. So the number of Hanafi Roma what they say is that

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if it wasn't for this hadith, even zakat we would have given to non

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Muslims.

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But we can't because of this hadith, but Sadat cards. So the

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cattle feeder of Ramadan can be given to non Muslims, your old

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here and your Kermani can be distributed to non Muslims.

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So that's a Muslim issue as well. But we see that okay, we're going

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to help only Palestine, only when there's problem in Somalia, only

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Muslim places.

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We don't contribute to others to show that we are also going to

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sweeten this place. We don't want to be a burden there are countries

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in Europe, who initially welcomed immigrants. But mashallah the

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immigrants came and discovered that this free money on offer

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here,

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the welfare system, if you just sign the papers, and you write

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this, and you can do work on the ground, and you do this and so on,

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you can make a lot of money.

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Now, this is tax money, somebody's paying taxes for this. So the host

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community who is paying taxes, now they start thinking these people

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are a burden on us. And this creates more Islamophobia. Look,

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there are people majority of people are fair, decent.

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Most people, they have humanity within them. They don't mind

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people. Right? Of course, we have racist and racism is a problem.

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And there are there is a minority who is very vocally racist. And

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some communities are known to be more racist than others. And

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that's the fact that it's a problem. And Islamophobia is

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there, but there are many. There are many things that contribute to

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that. It's just the question is, are we helping to remove that? We

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unfortunately have our members of our community, different parts of

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the world that suddenly take a take a small

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area of 10 miles in Iraq. And the first thing they want to do there

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is to establish cutting the hands off. The first thing.

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They don't want to educate first, they don't want to the first thing

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to show people we mean business. So cut people's hands off

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this process.

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And that is to just start with the big bang, and it creates a big

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bang. But it creates problems for the rest of us. Is that helping

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Muslims? Or is that harming Muslims?

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They don't understand.

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We have that problem. But we, in the West, we must start taking

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ownership.

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What can we do within our Islamic law in our Islam is encouraging us

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to do this. What else can we do for the welfare of others, instead

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of just consuming, consuming, consuming?

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That's why university students, those who are going to university

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should also think, what are the courses that I need to do not just

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to make money, the vocation that I choose? The specialization that I

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do, is it just to because this specialization makes a lot of

00:36:09 --> 00:36:13

money, it has a lot of prestige. I just want to do it for my own

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career and comfort.

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Do things for your own Korean comfort, but have an element of

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welfare, have an element of how you can give back using that?

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Those are the people who are going to succeed? Those are the people

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who are going to make some difference for everybody. So

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choose your career, well, how can I contribute in this career, this

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career is more suited than this one. This one is more limited.

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This one is better, I can contribute on a policy level, on a

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consultation level. That's what needs to happen if you want to

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make a difference and a change. Unfortunately, what we have in

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many places, is that we have a group of people who are so

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dedicated in their work.

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And they are fully career oriented, brothers and sisters,

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that they will even hide their faith, because they feel it will

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be a stumbling block. They will not pray. They will not ask for

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leave for prayer. They will not ask for a prayer room. And they

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will just be completely focused trying to be as fitted in as

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possible. We have those people, then we have another group of

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people who say they're very strong in their salads.

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And they want time off for Friday prayer. But they're very bad

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workers.

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They're very bad workers. So if they have a generous supervisor

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who says okay, fine, you can take 10 minutes for your prayer, they

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will take 1520 minutes.

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They will say, Oh, I've got this function, I've got that function

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is my religious right. And then they will take off, and they will

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not do good work. They will come late, they will leave early. And

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all of these things, both of these extremes. It's not just the power.

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What the Sharia wants is that you have a contract with somebody,

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fulfill your faith, fulfill your contracts. That's why Subhanallah

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there's one Hadith related by

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Imam Muslim imam Buhari, it's a Saudi narration that one of the

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grid, there's a few things which have a huge amount of rewards.

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They get the reward twice. One of them is that servant, that slave

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who works for his master but also fulfills his right to Allah

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subhana wa Tada.

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They get double reward because they've got two responsibilities.

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We have a responsibility to Allah. And we have a responsibility to

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people. If we have a contract with them, I give you an example. Give

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you a few examples. A friend of mine, who when I was imam in

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America, there was a one of the brothers in the masjid. He have

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Palestinian half Egyptian brother. He was an engineer in

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superconductor technology, you need superconductor technology for

00:39:06 --> 00:39:11

mobile communication. You know, the mobile communication. So at

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that time, was just beginning about 50, you know, 10 1015 years

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ago, so there was a big need for that. So he worked in one of the

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firms, very good worker, very, very valued.

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He would work every day a bit extra, so that on Friday, because

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he was management of the masjid, he would he could take off half

00:39:31 --> 00:39:34

day after July, he could take off, but he would fulfill his hours and

00:39:34 --> 00:39:38

they were happy with that. And in annual general meetings, he would

00:39:38 --> 00:39:43

not go there. He would not attend the annual general meeting of the

00:39:43 --> 00:39:47

company. Why? And he made it very clear because I can't sit on table

00:39:47 --> 00:39:49

where the wine is served.

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So now after a few years, one day his supervisor came to him and he

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

said to him that we've got a meeting in a few weeks. He says,

00:39:57 --> 00:40:00

Yes, I know. And I'd like you to attend. He says you know

00:40:00 --> 00:40:03

My problem is that no, we've just changed our policy that no wine

00:40:03 --> 00:40:07

will be served, no alcohol will be served in these meetings anymore.

00:40:08 --> 00:40:12

Now because of one man who is a contributor, valued

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true to his Lord, and also working hard to fulfill his right, he

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mashallah they want him there. So they changed their policy.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

They changed their policy,

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numerous stories like this, I've got a friend in London, he was

00:40:32 --> 00:40:38

going to he runs a particular software, he's an IT person. He's

00:40:38 --> 00:40:43

very good at a particular software for housing associations. So he

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went for the interview. And after the interview, he said to them,

00:40:47 --> 00:40:50

Look, I'm a Muslim. And because of that, he didn't hide, right? He

00:40:50 --> 00:40:54

said, I need to pray. Why did you can go there and just say, I'll

00:40:54 --> 00:40:57

find a place afterwards, he was clear says, Look, I need to pray.

00:40:57 --> 00:41:00

And generally it's problem in winter, because the prayers are

00:41:00 --> 00:41:03

all close together. I just need a room that I can spend, you know,

00:41:03 --> 00:41:09

710 minutes. And in some way, it's not a big, big problem. So they

00:41:09 --> 00:41:12

said, Okay, let's look, let us look into it. Right, because

00:41:12 --> 00:41:15

anybody could make any claim. They did their research. And they

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

discovered Yes, as Muslims, Muslims have to pray five times a

00:41:17 --> 00:41:20

day. And these are the prayer times. So what they said in the

00:41:20 --> 00:41:24

next meeting with him is that next door is a I think it was a Holiday

00:41:24 --> 00:41:29

Inn Hotel, we will book a room in there for you for the whole year.

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

And you can use that whenever you need to go to pray.

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

And he said, No, no, no, no, you don't need to do that. That's

00:41:35 --> 00:41:38

gonna waste too much money. I just need a small area this much.

00:41:38 --> 00:41:41

That's what I need. So they found a storeroom, and they put a carpet

00:41:41 --> 00:41:42

in there and they gave it to

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valued worker. He just told me before last Ramadan, that a few

00:41:48 --> 00:41:52

weeks before Ramadan, they sent him a schedule. They sent out the

00:41:52 --> 00:41:57

schedule. And his schedule for Ramadan said, was more lenient,

00:41:58 --> 00:42:00

because he can work from home on certain days. And he says,

00:42:00 --> 00:42:02

Ramadan, Ramadan, Ramadan, Ramadan, they were taking that

00:42:02 --> 00:42:04

into consideration as well.

00:42:05 --> 00:42:10

Now you can only do that, if you're proud of your faith and

00:42:10 --> 00:42:16

know how to carry yourself not in a fanatical way. Right? Not in a

00:42:16 --> 00:42:19

way that no one was praying, you know, you can go to *, right?

00:42:19 --> 00:42:22

Let me pray. Otherwise, I leave my job. You know, this is there's

00:42:22 --> 00:42:25

different ways people do that. They think that they must get

00:42:25 --> 00:42:28

angry for Allah. So they must do it in an unwise way. And that's

00:42:28 --> 00:42:29

wrong.

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

You do it in a way Now I'm not saying that this will work for

00:42:32 --> 00:42:36

everybody. There will be people say no, I don't care, you know,

00:42:36 --> 00:42:43

but these things have been known to work because they value people

00:42:43 --> 00:42:49

value good humanity, people value good contribution. As Muslims we

00:42:49 --> 00:42:53

must be those who when we walk in a room, we will say mashallah, now

00:42:53 --> 00:42:57

the cold breezes come in. Now, you know, something of value is going

00:42:57 --> 00:42:58

to come about.

00:42:59 --> 00:43:01

That's what's important.

00:43:03 --> 00:43:07

So we ask Allah subhanaw taala for Tofik to help us and assist us.

00:43:07 --> 00:43:11

Now we'll move on to some other topics of the other challenges

00:43:11 --> 00:43:15

that we have. Allah subhanaw taala has blessed us all in this

00:43:15 --> 00:43:19

country. I was talking to some of the brothers yesterday and they

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

said that I said you should do you know some something for poor

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

people. They said there's no Norwegian poor people.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:28

Right? There's nobody, nobody who's poor except maybe immigrants

00:43:28 --> 00:43:32

or something like this. Now, this is what we thought in England as

00:43:32 --> 00:43:38

well. But we have a local, we established a local charity. And

00:43:38 --> 00:43:41

subhanAllah. What we discovered is that there are quite a few poor

00:43:41 --> 00:43:44

people. There are people who have paperwork problems, they can't

00:43:44 --> 00:43:48

work officially. So people abuse them. Number two, there are a lot

00:43:48 --> 00:43:53

of women who are in domestic shelters, domestic abuse shelters,

00:43:53 --> 00:43:56

they've had problems in their marriage, or whatever the case is.

00:43:57 --> 00:44:01

There are people with mental health problems. So in the last

00:44:01 --> 00:44:06

three to four years, we have spent over 60,000 pounds, just locally

00:44:06 --> 00:44:12

in just three areas of London. That's it. So these are some of

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

the things that we need to take into consideration.

00:44:15 --> 00:44:20

But generally So alhamdulillah it looks like in Norway, just like in

00:44:20 --> 00:44:25

England, Allah subhanaw taala has blessed us. We have security we

00:44:25 --> 00:44:28

can walk out on the street, go for a walk and no problem. I have been

00:44:28 --> 00:44:31

to countries where you can't do that. So let's go for a walk. So

00:44:31 --> 00:44:35

no way. You have to go in the car. And you have to lock the car. You

00:44:35 --> 00:44:40

can't go out You be you will be mugged hijacked carjacked whatever

00:44:40 --> 00:44:44

it is hamdulillah here we have a few problems but generally it's

00:44:44 --> 00:44:49

safe, you know, safety, Allahu Akbar, Amman, right? That is such

00:44:49 --> 00:44:55

a valuable asset. That is such a valuable assets that you don't

00:44:55 --> 00:45:00

have to worry about just being killed, just randomly assigned

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

End of the Day of Judgment, that a person towards the sign of Day of

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

Judgment is that a person will be killed. While I agree female

00:45:06 --> 00:45:11

Cotulla you will know not know why he's been killed. And this can be

00:45:11 --> 00:45:16

gang violence. This can be just just a breakdown of society and

00:45:16 --> 00:45:19

problems as we see around the world. Allah help our Muslim

00:45:19 --> 00:45:22

brothers and sisters around in the Muslim world because there's no

00:45:22 --> 00:45:27

Arab Spring. It's an Arab storm, an Arab hurricane. And there's a

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

problem down there. May Allah subhanho wa Taala Asst. May Allah

00:45:30 --> 00:45:35

help us. So in these countries, we have access to the food that we

00:45:35 --> 00:45:39

want to eat, we have access to the type of clothing we want to wear,

00:45:40 --> 00:45:45

we have access to to mashallah comfortable and safe places to

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

live. That is the name of Allah subhanaw taala, we must not take

00:45:48 --> 00:45:51

it for granted. And

00:45:52 --> 00:45:56

this prosperity brings about another challenge though,

00:45:56 --> 00:45:59

everything can be a challenge. Even this prosperity is a

00:45:59 --> 00:46:04

challenge. When you have a lot of disposable income and money, then

00:46:04 --> 00:46:10

as they say, in in order to basically musty write the mischief

00:46:10 --> 00:46:14

of money. So you understand what that means the ability that I can

00:46:14 --> 00:46:18

get whatever I want. Now, what happens with that is then you feel

00:46:18 --> 00:46:22

like indulging, then we get caught up in the whole consumerism

00:46:22 --> 00:46:27

culture. In the whole capitalist. Have you seen how they measure the

00:46:27 --> 00:46:33

success and the prosperity of the nation? They they see how many

00:46:33 --> 00:46:38

people are going into stores and buying? It's crazy. This system is

00:46:38 --> 00:46:41

crazy. They say, you know, Christmas time sales, and then

00:46:41 --> 00:46:44

they have do you guys have Black Friday here? Right? Mashallah. You

00:46:44 --> 00:46:47

have the American Black Fridays as well. Right?

00:46:48 --> 00:46:53

The idea of Black Friday is that this is when the shops go from red

00:46:53 --> 00:46:59

to black. In terms of the the earnings, a crazy idea, but the

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

idea is just buy, buy, buy now look, I'm saying that if you need

00:47:02 --> 00:47:06

something, go ahead and buy it. You need a new phone, go ahead and

00:47:06 --> 00:47:09

buy it. But you have a completely sound phone, but you just need the

00:47:09 --> 00:47:15

next iPhone. Right. But you've got a completely completely fine

00:47:15 --> 00:47:20

phone. Just I got a question once. And a brother said, I can't

00:47:20 --> 00:47:23

remember which country it was from. He said, I've got a

00:47:25 --> 00:47:27

I think it was a yes is a Samsung

00:47:28 --> 00:47:33

particular one. And he says, Do I have to buy the next one? So what

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

kind of a question is that? He said, Because if I don't then

00:47:35 --> 00:47:36

people will make fun of me.

00:47:38 --> 00:47:43

I G, I said you do things for yourself. Don't do things for

00:47:43 --> 00:47:49

others, this group culture. This is exactly what it is. Right? You

00:47:49 --> 00:47:54

know, if you look at people who are fanatically in love with

00:47:54 --> 00:48:01

products, fanatically in love with teams, right, like Manchester

00:48:01 --> 00:48:06

United Liverpool, Arsenal and things like this. You will see

00:48:06 --> 00:48:11

that the tendency is that they display a very similar to those

00:48:11 --> 00:48:13

found in religious fanatics.

00:48:15 --> 00:48:18

Do you understand? They're very similar to those found in religion

00:48:18 --> 00:48:21

Otherwise, why would you spend hours and hours waiting outside a

00:48:21 --> 00:48:25

shop just so you can get the first handset, which after a week you

00:48:25 --> 00:48:29

can get it very calmly and comfortably. It's a it's a

00:48:29 --> 00:48:33

psychological issue. Right? It's a psychological issue. Now if you

00:48:33 --> 00:48:36

want to do that, do it for your dean. Don't do it for anything

00:48:36 --> 00:48:40

else. It's just about thinking about it you become slave to

00:48:40 --> 00:48:40

something

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

that you must have it

00:48:44 --> 00:48:47

that's the problem. Yes, if you're in need of a phone go and get the

00:48:47 --> 00:48:50

best phone if that's what you need. But if you don't need it,

00:48:50 --> 00:48:53

you don't need to do it just for an upgrade. Because our lives does

00:48:53 --> 00:48:57

now becoming that one year we upgrade our phone. The next year

00:48:57 --> 00:49:01

we upgrade our appliances because the next one looks a bit more

00:49:01 --> 00:49:05

futuristic. Looks a bit more streamlined. And it has better

00:49:05 --> 00:49:08

angles and edges so we need to buy the next one even though our

00:49:08 --> 00:49:14

kettle at home is perfect. Or our cooker or the TV just the new a

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

new technology came out. What is it 4k?

00:49:18 --> 00:49:22

Some of these screens that I have seen in shops they they don't even

00:49:22 --> 00:49:23

real

00:49:24 --> 00:49:27

you look at the picture and he's got so many vivid colors that in

00:49:27 --> 00:49:29

reality you don't have those colors.

00:49:30 --> 00:49:35

I'm looking at those that pink, the red so bright, this is not

00:49:35 --> 00:49:38

reality. They just add a bit of extra color in there.

00:49:39 --> 00:49:42

And it makes it seem like extra reality. So now you must get the

00:49:42 --> 00:49:47

curved one. Right, just your you know whatever you have at home

00:49:47 --> 00:49:50

then and the problem is that a lot of people are getting this

00:49:51 --> 00:49:56

without having the ability to have it. So now you get a new sofa.

00:49:57 --> 00:49:59

A nice sofa suite and

00:50:01 --> 00:50:06

You're now paying for the next three years. By three years when

00:50:06 --> 00:50:10

you've paid off, when it's now yours, he would be old now.

00:50:11 --> 00:50:12

No pleasure.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

Because when you're on there, and if you lose your job, then what's

00:50:16 --> 00:50:20

going to happen? This is what most people think. Everyday when they

00:50:20 --> 00:50:24

sleep, they're worried about the car that they have bought on, on

00:50:24 --> 00:50:29

this, the sofa, the refrigerator, and everything else in the house,

00:50:29 --> 00:50:32

if they lose their job, what's going to happen, and thus they

00:50:32 --> 00:50:35

feel obliged to take on certain types of jobs.

00:50:37 --> 00:50:43

Stay free, start off small, the pleasure of saving up and then

00:50:43 --> 00:50:46

buying something is immense because you know, it's yours and

00:50:46 --> 00:50:47

you can enjoy it.

00:50:48 --> 00:50:50

Abdullah Abdullah Mubarak,

00:50:51 --> 00:50:53

sorry, Abdul Rahman him now.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:57

His story is amazing. Now, you know, he's one of the Ashura

00:50:57 --> 00:51:00

Mubasher. Right. He is one of the 10 given the glad tidings of

00:51:00 --> 00:51:04

Jannah. Now, if you look at the 10, who are given the glad tidings

00:51:04 --> 00:51:06

of Jannah, none of them were poor.

00:51:08 --> 00:51:11

Who are the poorest Sahaba that you have in mind that you can

00:51:11 --> 00:51:15

think of, that were known to be poor? Give me a few names.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:21

A Buddha. Buddha was an ascetic, he had decided that I don't want

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

anything beyond what I need for today. Right? He had a special

00:51:24 --> 00:51:27

fatwa that was different. Who else?

00:51:29 --> 00:51:32

Abu Hurayrah, the Allah one, right, and a number of others.

00:51:32 --> 00:51:35

None of those are actual Mr. Bashara. I showed Mr. Bashara are

00:51:35 --> 00:51:36

the highest,

00:51:37 --> 00:51:41

you know, the top 10 among which is the top four which is the

00:51:41 --> 00:51:41

forefather.

00:51:42 --> 00:51:46

Do you know that among the 10 four of them were billionaires.

00:51:48 --> 00:51:52

Who postman are they are we know about that? You know, who can

00:51:52 --> 00:51:57

spend this many animals in the possible path of Allah? Right by

00:51:57 --> 00:52:02

the well when nobody else could do that and give it sadaqa it's a

00:52:02 --> 00:52:07

crazy amount of money yet. The other one was zubaid in our very

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

wealthy, some of his son's

00:52:11 --> 00:52:12

forts

00:52:13 --> 00:52:17

are still in Madina. Munawwara right, very wealthy. Another one

00:52:17 --> 00:52:21

was Taha ignore, obey the law. And number four, Abdul Rahman

00:52:21 --> 00:52:26

Ignatieff. Allah had given him so much money. He himself says that

00:52:27 --> 00:52:31

if I pick up a stone, I will find gold underneath it. The Golden

00:52:31 --> 00:52:36

finger he had a Jeep. Now. He was a Mahajan. He was from a coma

00:52:36 --> 00:52:41

coma, he had to abandon everything and he went to Madina, Munawwara I

00:52:41 --> 00:52:45

took a lot of lesson from this. When I read the story, he went to

00:52:45 --> 00:52:46

Madina, Munawwara and the Prophet sallallahu. Some, you know, he did

00:52:46 --> 00:52:51

more ahart He made brothers with one Mahajan and one Medina and

00:52:51 --> 00:52:57

Ansari. He made Adorama now of the brother of one of the wealthiest

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

Ansara, one of the wealthiest of the answer.

00:53:01 --> 00:53:05

So, this unsought he said to him, I've got this money, you can have

00:53:05 --> 00:53:11

this and I've got if you want, if you want a wife, then I can

00:53:11 --> 00:53:15

organize that as well. He said, Look, just tell me where the

00:53:15 --> 00:53:17

market is. I don't need anything from you. Just tell me where the

00:53:17 --> 00:53:22

market is the souk he went there in the morning, and this is how he

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

did business.

00:53:24 --> 00:53:26

He didn't go and get a big loan.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:32

He went and he bought a camel from somebody on credit. Let's just say

00:53:32 --> 00:53:36

for you know, 500 Durham's, he bought the camel for 500 dirhams.

00:53:36 --> 00:53:37

For example.

00:53:38 --> 00:53:42

He took the camel, and the camel came with a string, a rope, he

00:53:42 --> 00:53:47

took the rope off, and immediately sold the camel for the same price,

00:53:48 --> 00:53:53

quick sale, but the profit was the rope. And he went and paid off. He

00:53:53 --> 00:53:57

did this whole day, by the end of the day, he came back to the house

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

with food to contribute.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:03

That's what you call Steven. That's what you call

00:54:05 --> 00:54:09

being a proper entrepreneur. That is what you call really

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

understanding what to do taking matters not feeling sorry for

00:54:12 --> 00:54:18

yourself, you know, how can I make this work? And then Allah gave him

00:54:18 --> 00:54:25

wealth. Right? And the best part of this is when the biographer is

00:54:25 --> 00:54:30

mentioning his serum, he says in Arabic, he says for Robert deja

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

rotta who will be sadaqah

00:54:33 --> 00:54:37

Robert Ijarah, who will be sadhaka that word really hit that

00:54:37 --> 00:54:42

expression hit me. He said the way he made the way he nurtured his

00:54:42 --> 00:54:49

business. The way he made it prosperous. Robber is tarbiyah to

00:54:49 --> 00:54:53

bring something up stage by stage by fulfilling its rights. The way

00:54:53 --> 00:54:59

he brought his business up is by sadaqa ajeeb by sadaqa.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:04

Now this is something that we will not understand. We are living in

00:55:04 --> 00:55:09

Rational times, we are living in a time of modernity, and

00:55:09 --> 00:55:16

postmodernity, where rationality is king. empiricism is what

00:55:16 --> 00:55:21

matters. empiricism is everything has to be proven through science.

00:55:21 --> 00:55:25

Otherwise, it's dismissed. How do we understand that you give

00:55:25 --> 00:55:26

sadaqa.

00:55:27 --> 00:55:32

And Allah will give you more. What we understand what the way we

00:55:32 --> 00:55:36

live, what they understand is you put money in a bank, into bonds

00:55:36 --> 00:55:41

into fixed savings, your money is secure, and you will make 5% on

00:55:41 --> 00:55:46

top. That's what we understand as a way of increasing money.

00:55:47 --> 00:55:52

Does it make sense that you give sadaqa and Allah says He will give

00:55:52 --> 00:55:53

you 70 times more?

00:55:54 --> 00:55:58

How does that even make sense? In the rational world we're living

00:55:58 --> 00:56:02

in. But that's what comes from Iman. That's a test of our faith.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:06

And Lavina you may know Anna Belhaj, those who believe in the

00:56:06 --> 00:56:10

unseen that is our description, Willa Iike Allah who the Mirabai

00:56:10 --> 00:56:14

himolla ecohome of Laon these are the people who are on the guidance

00:56:14 --> 00:56:17

of the Lord, they've understood it. And these people will be

00:56:17 --> 00:56:20

successful. That's how Allah describes a Lavina you know, and I

00:56:20 --> 00:56:23

believe right in the beginning of the Quran.

00:56:25 --> 00:56:29

We need to know more about what Allah requires from us, the

00:56:29 --> 00:56:34

sacrifice of faith, to understand that yes, I will give him the path

00:56:34 --> 00:56:38

of Allah and I will get back how I'll get back on only Allah

00:56:38 --> 00:56:41

subhanaw taala knows, and the stories we have for that an

00:56:41 --> 00:56:46

amazing Abdurrahman him now, he was so wealthy, so wealthy, that

00:56:47 --> 00:56:52

before he passed away, he wanted to give a huge chunk of his wealth

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

to the battery in, you know, the Sahaba who had taken part in the

00:56:56 --> 00:57:01

Battle of boredom after the ashram Wabasha. Then the next hierarchy

00:57:01 --> 00:57:07

of Sahaba is the battery in the 313 or 15 Sahaba, who, who took

00:57:07 --> 00:57:10

part in the Battle of whether they are considered the highest. Now

00:57:10 --> 00:57:14

whoever was left the majority of them was still there. I think. He

00:57:14 --> 00:57:18

wanted to give them each a gift and award of a huge amount of

00:57:18 --> 00:57:21

money. Among them was also a thematic not a fan of the Allah

00:57:21 --> 00:57:25

one. He is the Hadith of the time. This is during his time.

00:57:26 --> 00:57:30

So when he's giving his money out, even a thermometer often goes to

00:57:30 --> 00:57:33

collect his amount. And someone said to Earth man even or affirm

00:57:33 --> 00:57:36

that you're wealthy anyway, why do you need to take it says no, this

00:57:36 --> 00:57:40

is special money, this is baraka. This is Barack

00:57:42 --> 00:57:48

Abdurrahman. Now, one day, he was sorry, I shot at the Allahu Allah

00:57:48 --> 00:57:52

one day she is sitting in a house by the masjid. And suddenly she

00:57:52 --> 00:57:53

hears a big commotion.

00:57:54 --> 00:57:58

Very loud, like a big army has come in like huge amount, a lot of

00:57:58 --> 00:58:02

dust everywhere. What's happened? This is Abdul Rahman Libnah AUVs

00:58:02 --> 00:58:07

trade Caravan has just come back, I think from Sharm or somewhere

00:58:07 --> 00:58:12

with business. Can you imagine how big that was? Huge, like an army.

00:58:13 --> 00:58:16

So she just mentioned she just made a remark. She said, Yes, I've

00:58:16 --> 00:58:18

heard the profit and loss. I'm saying that I've never heard him.

00:58:18 --> 00:58:21

Now if he's going to have to go into Janna on his knees.

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He's going to have to go in Jannah on his knees.

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Right. This Word reached Abdurrahman mouth.

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And he said no, Abdurrahman mouth is going to go into Jana standing,

00:58:38 --> 00:58:43

walking. And he gave the entire proceeds of that in the path of

00:58:43 --> 00:58:43

Allah.

00:58:45 --> 00:58:49

He gave the entire proceeds of that in the path of Allah, how can

00:58:49 --> 00:58:54

he do that? You've just had a major business profits, and you

00:58:54 --> 00:58:58

just give it in the path of Allah. How would you do that? You know,

00:58:58 --> 00:59:02

the way to do that is because these people that Iman was so

00:59:02 --> 00:59:06

strong, mashallah there is the karma was just that nothing could

00:59:06 --> 00:59:10

make them waver. And they did not allow their money to go into their

00:59:10 --> 00:59:12

hearts. They had a huge amount of money, but they kept it in their

00:59:12 --> 00:59:16

hands. When you have it in your hands, you can use it. When it's

00:59:16 --> 00:59:19

in your heart, then it takes over.

00:59:20 --> 00:59:23

Essentially, that is the difference. They had huge amounts

00:59:23 --> 00:59:26

of money. There is nothing wrong with having a lot of money. That's

00:59:26 --> 00:59:30

what I'm trying to say. Because our challenge in the West is that

00:59:30 --> 00:59:34

we have access to money and disposable income and to buy what

00:59:34 --> 00:59:35

we want.

00:59:37 --> 00:59:40

It's just how do we use it? And where do we spend it?

00:59:42 --> 00:59:44

It's really sad. The one thing that I did here and I'm going to

00:59:44 --> 00:59:48

mention this as a shikcha as a complaint, that hopefully people

00:59:48 --> 00:59:48

will listen

00:59:49 --> 00:59:50

that

00:59:51 --> 00:59:53

you people don't pay the Imam enough money.

00:59:55 --> 00:59:59

Right. And what I mean by that is you

01:00:00 --> 01:00:03

100 I think you guys have in this masjid, I believe you have a you

01:00:03 --> 01:00:08

have Imams that you pay. But in other parts of the masjid and

01:00:08 --> 01:00:12

maybe even other cities, the Imam is expected, the Sheikh is

01:00:12 --> 01:00:15

expected to work for free, as a hitman.

01:00:16 --> 01:00:18

And while that's a great idea,

01:00:19 --> 01:00:23

it's difficult, you can't do it you need to survive, then the

01:00:23 --> 01:00:27

problem is that he's going to have to have a job for 12 hours, maybe

01:00:27 --> 01:00:30

even taxi driving, which is a crazy job to start with. And then

01:00:30 --> 01:00:33

he's going to come home and then want to teach a few kids. He's

01:00:33 --> 01:00:37

going to be tired. You know, I've run a mother. So I understand what

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

kind of level you need to be. Somehow we need to think about

01:00:39 --> 01:00:43

this. What is the right way to go about this hamdulillah in England,

01:00:44 --> 01:00:48

right, in England, they pay the Imams, yes, maybe many masters,

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

they still pay low, but they pay them. They don't expect that you

01:00:51 --> 01:00:52

should just take it from the government.

01:00:54 --> 01:00:58

We need to be self sufficient. We need to be self sufficient. And

01:00:58 --> 01:01:02

part of this is that if we don't look after our children, and get

01:01:02 --> 01:01:06

them good teachers who are firing and free to give them all the

01:01:06 --> 01:01:09

investment, our next generation, I don't know where it's gonna go.

01:01:10 --> 01:01:14

What are we doing all of this stuff? Why are we establishing

01:01:14 --> 01:01:18

ourselves for, don't we care about our next generation? That is one

01:01:18 --> 01:01:22

of our biggest responsibilities to give them the best. If we're

01:01:22 --> 01:01:25

trying to send our children to the best universities of hamdulillah

01:01:26 --> 01:01:29

let them be the greatest. But if they're going to lose their faith,

01:01:29 --> 01:01:32

and they will not come to your not remember you after your death,

01:01:33 --> 01:01:37

who's going to come to your cover your grave, and pray for you who's

01:01:37 --> 01:01:40

going to do a saga who's going to read some Quran for you, who's

01:01:40 --> 01:01:42

going to do Hajj for you, even when you have completely

01:01:42 --> 01:01:46

materialistic generation, who doesn't understand that they must

01:01:46 --> 01:01:52

do things for others, and continue and pray for the for the parents.

01:01:52 --> 01:01:56

They have no Dean, Dean can be lost very fast in these places, as

01:01:56 --> 01:02:00

you know, Dean can be lost very fast in this place. We know so

01:02:00 --> 01:02:04

many this one person I know is 19 years old, just started

01:02:04 --> 01:02:06

university, one of the top universities of London

01:02:07 --> 01:02:10

says two of his classmates, one from Pakistan, one from Somalia,

01:02:11 --> 01:02:12

both say I am not a Muslim anymore.

01:02:14 --> 01:02:16

And the problem is their parents probably don't even know because

01:02:16 --> 01:02:19

their parents are not practicing. They don't know if their children

01:02:19 --> 01:02:20

have lost the faith or not.

01:02:22 --> 01:02:25

This is a sad case. At the end of the day, this world is limited.

01:02:26 --> 01:02:29

It's only for so many years, as many years as it is it's only for

01:02:29 --> 01:02:32

a limited, we've got another life to live, what are we forgetting

01:02:32 --> 01:02:37

that we've got another life that is for eternity. There's great

01:02:37 --> 01:02:40

things there. SubhanAllah. Right now on zum zum academy.com, you

01:02:40 --> 01:02:46

will see that we've got the series on the paradise and its delights.

01:02:46 --> 01:02:51

This is based on this huge work by YBNL paymill. Josie about it's a

01:02:51 --> 01:02:54

whole review of paradise, you know, when you want to move into a

01:02:54 --> 01:02:57

new area, you really read reviews about it online. This is about

01:02:57 --> 01:03:01

paradise. Right? You know, subhanAllah This is about

01:03:01 --> 01:03:04

paradise. It tells you everything about what it's going to look like

01:03:04 --> 01:03:07

or it's going to be made of, and I don't even want to get into

01:03:07 --> 01:03:11

certain places because you guys will get too excited. Right? But

01:03:12 --> 01:03:17

that is what creates show. It creates a zeal, a desire, an

01:03:17 --> 01:03:23

interest. And that's what we want for us and our progeny until

01:03:24 --> 01:03:27

the last day. That's why there's a beautiful day of the prophets of

01:03:27 --> 01:03:30

Allah Salam Robina Hublin I mean, as far as you know, the reality

01:03:30 --> 01:03:35

now Kurata Aryan, which are under the mattina Imam, if anybody's got

01:03:35 --> 01:03:38

trouble in their family, and even if you don't have trouble, this is

01:03:38 --> 01:03:41

a dua for it. Oh Allah, this is for men and women. Robina

01:03:41 --> 01:03:46

hablando. I mean, as Vergina Oh, Allah, O our Lord grant us from

01:03:46 --> 01:03:49

our spouses, the wife can read it for the husband, the husband can

01:03:49 --> 01:03:55

read it for the wife, because Oh Allah, Oh my Lord, grant us from

01:03:55 --> 01:03:58

our spouses. And from

01:03:59 --> 01:04:04

not just children, but our generations, our descendants,

01:04:04 --> 01:04:09

because the word uses with Valeriya, the Reott. The RIA means

01:04:10 --> 01:04:13

everybody who's going to come from you until the day of judgment. A

01:04:13 --> 01:04:17

lot of them you will not even see. But on the day of judgment, if

01:04:17 --> 01:04:20

your DUA has been accepted, you will see them and somebody will

01:04:20 --> 01:04:23

say that's your great, great, great, great grandson.

01:04:24 --> 01:04:28

And look what he did. Look what she did, and say, Wow, he's going

01:04:28 --> 01:04:32

to gladden your eyes, and that's why the DUA says Robina Hublin I

01:04:32 --> 01:04:35

mean, as far as you know, the reality now Kurata Aryan which

01:04:35 --> 01:04:39

Tokina EMA wonderful though, if it gets success, one of my favorite

01:04:39 --> 01:04:42

favorite doors should make it after every prayer when you make

01:04:42 --> 01:04:47

dua. So Oh Allah, Oh my Lord grant me from my spouse's and my Nussle,

01:04:47 --> 01:04:50

my gender my descendants, including children, everybody,

01:04:50 --> 01:04:55

those that will clad in our eyes. That will be a source of coolness

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

for my eyes and make us

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

an Imam for them.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:02

with Turkey in for the believers, which means that make me a force

01:05:02 --> 01:05:06

for good that if I'm going to do anything, and I'm going to be a

01:05:06 --> 01:05:10

leader in any aspects, it's for the good people. I'm not going to

01:05:10 --> 01:05:13

be a leader of evil. So wonderful though if it's accepted,

01:05:13 --> 01:05:17

especially, especially those who are doing any kind of Hitman of

01:05:17 --> 01:05:21

the deen, whether in a masjid, the bleak, whatever it may be this do

01:05:21 --> 01:05:23

eyes and not just for them for everybody because then Allah will

01:05:23 --> 01:05:27

accept us. Allah will accept us inshallah. So these are the

01:05:27 --> 01:05:31

challenges that we are facing. Abdul Rahman live now, as I

01:05:31 --> 01:05:32

mentioned, just to finally,

01:05:34 --> 01:05:37

when he passed away, he had more than one wife, you have two or

01:05:37 --> 01:05:41

three wives. Now just to give you an understanding wives get the

01:05:41 --> 01:05:46

wife or wives get 1/8. If they have children, then from the

01:05:46 --> 01:05:49

inheritance laws, they get one eight. If they have no children,

01:05:49 --> 01:05:54

then they get one quarter, right? Otherwise, they get a woman, one

01:05:54 --> 01:05:57

eight. If there's more than one wife, they get a share of one

01:05:57 --> 01:06:01

eight. Now, that's why women don't like to have co wives, because

01:06:01 --> 01:06:06

they get less money. Right? That's not the reason. They just don't

01:06:06 --> 01:06:07

want it okay.

01:06:08 --> 01:06:09

Now,

01:06:10 --> 01:06:13

every one of his wives just to give you an idea of how much his

01:06:13 --> 01:06:19

huge assets were, every one of his wives reached received this huge

01:06:19 --> 01:06:23

amount that they did a recent calculation of it. Huge amount

01:06:23 --> 01:06:28

that was just from 1/8. Can you imagine the rest and before he had

01:06:28 --> 01:06:31

passed away sometime before he had given so much how in South Africa

01:06:32 --> 01:06:36

but the balance was that he still I showed Mr. Bashara.

01:06:37 --> 01:06:42

He is still going to Jannah guaranteed with lots of money,

01:06:43 --> 01:06:47

enjoyed this world, enjoyment of the hereafter. That's the tough

01:06:47 --> 01:06:51

one. That's what we need to ask Allah for help. This is our

01:06:51 --> 01:06:55

challenge and our fitna, we ask Allah for success. We ask Allah

01:06:55 --> 01:07:01

for Tofik. And the way to do this, every day, every day, to records

01:07:01 --> 01:07:05

of salata. Hajah, just to records for the sake of Allah and then Oh

01:07:05 --> 01:07:08

Allah accept me somehow for the service of God.

01:07:10 --> 01:07:14

Allah knows how he can excel, you may be a housewife, you may be a

01:07:14 --> 01:07:17

taxi driver, you may be a painter, you may be an IT guy, you don't

01:07:17 --> 01:07:20

know how to help. Allah knows. He will use you.

01:07:21 --> 01:07:26

Just ask. Don't underestimate Allah's power. Don't say, Oh, I

01:07:26 --> 01:07:32

can't do this. So why should I ask? You're just limiting

01:07:32 --> 01:07:37

yourself. Ask Allah. Oh Allah make me a worry of Allah. Oh Allah make

01:07:37 --> 01:07:41

me a weenie. Make me of the Saudi hain. Make me of those who do

01:07:41 --> 01:07:44

tahajud every night, make me a halfling of the Quran. You could

01:07:44 --> 01:07:48

be 5060 years old and say, Make me a harvest of the Quran. If you

01:07:48 --> 01:07:50

have that in mind, you really have the zeal, Allah will open it up

01:07:50 --> 01:07:53

for you. I have know a number of people who are doing hymns in late

01:07:53 --> 01:07:58

age and they finished some of them. So what a possibility.

01:07:59 --> 01:08:02

Ask Allah subhana wa Tada May Allah subhanaw taala bless you all

01:08:02 --> 01:08:06

for coming here for inviting me here. And may Allah subhanaw taala

01:08:06 --> 01:08:09

make this a useful gathering. A lot of these were thoughts,

01:08:10 --> 01:08:14

reflections of the challenges that we face because we have very

01:08:14 --> 01:08:18

similar challenges. And we ask Allah to help us and assist us and

01:08:18 --> 01:08:21

protect us and protect our next generation and accept us for the

01:08:21 --> 01:08:25

service of his Deen in some way make us contributors and our laws

01:08:25 --> 01:08:30

don't make us burden on anybody else. Make us contributors make us

01:08:31 --> 01:08:36

people respect us. Of those people respect and the value make us of

01:08:36 --> 01:08:38

those who are valuable. We're going to have to do something for

01:08:38 --> 01:08:40

that. Well, I could read that one and if Hamdu lillahi rabbil

01:08:41 --> 01:08:46

aalameen Cassandra Bharatiya then Sheila cron Allahumma Yo yo yo, yo

01:08:46 --> 01:08:51

yo Rama Deaconess delete Allahumma Yohanna yum in La ilaha illa and

01:08:51 --> 01:08:54

Subhanak in good naman allottee mean

01:08:55 --> 01:08:56

Subhan Allah Hinari

01:08:58 --> 01:09:02

Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala early say even

01:09:02 --> 01:09:06

Mohamed El Burdick wa salam. O Allah we ask You for Your Mercy, O

01:09:06 --> 01:09:11

Allah, we ask You for Your forgiveness of Allah we ask you to

01:09:11 --> 01:09:15

treat us with with your mercy and your blessing of Allah we have

01:09:15 --> 01:09:19

many sins of Allah we have committed many sins, we have

01:09:19 --> 01:09:24

committed many transgressions. We have committed many, many, many,

01:09:24 --> 01:09:27

many sins and transgressions we have many shortcomings of Allah we

01:09:27 --> 01:09:32

ask you forgiveness from all such sin that has brought misery in our

01:09:32 --> 01:09:35

lives. Oh Allah we ask you forgiveness from all the sins that

01:09:35 --> 01:09:40

have turned families against each other of Allah, we ask you for

01:09:40 --> 01:09:43

forgiveness from all of those sins that have removed the baraka and

01:09:43 --> 01:09:47

blessing from our lives. Oh Allah we want you we want you to make us

01:09:47 --> 01:09:51

close to you. Oh Allah we want you to consider us for your love. Oh

01:09:51 --> 01:09:55

Allah grant us your love and the love of those who love you. Oh

01:09:55 --> 01:09:58

Allah make our surrounding conducive for us of Allah allow us

01:09:58 --> 01:09:59

to rise to meet the challenge.

01:10:00 --> 01:10:03

Just Oh Allah grant us the strength and understanding of

01:10:03 --> 01:10:07

Allah grant us the strength and understanding of how to deal Oh

01:10:07 --> 01:10:10

Allah, those of the first generation did so much work and

01:10:10 --> 01:10:14

effort to build these Islamic institutions here. Oh Allah and to

01:10:14 --> 01:10:18

entrench the Muslim community here. Oh Allah Now it is our

01:10:18 --> 01:10:21

responsibility to continue this work and to meet the new

01:10:21 --> 01:10:24

challenges. And Oh Allah, we ask that you make us of those who will

01:10:24 --> 01:10:28

contribute, oh Allah make us successful in everything that we

01:10:28 --> 01:10:32

do. Oh Allah grant us success in this world. But above all, grant

01:10:32 --> 01:10:35

us success in the hereafter. Oh Allah allow us to see in this

01:10:35 --> 01:10:39

world what will benefit us in view of the hereafter? Oh Allah don't

01:10:39 --> 01:10:43

make us short sighted that we only think about this world in the next

01:10:43 --> 01:10:47

50 years. But Allah allow us to be farsighted and prudent, and to

01:10:47 --> 01:10:52

allow us to think about how our efforts in this world will affect

01:10:52 --> 01:10:55

our hereafter. Oh Allah we want greatness in this world. But oh

01:10:55 --> 01:11:00

Allah we want also genital third dose of Allah we also want genital

01:11:00 --> 01:11:03

fear dose of Allah we want to be there in the company of your

01:11:03 --> 01:11:07

messengers of Allah, the shahada, the Saudi heme, the seed, the team

01:11:07 --> 01:11:11

of Allah, we know that these are small mouths, these are weak

01:11:11 --> 01:11:15

hearts, these are sinful people who and we are sinful and we are

01:11:15 --> 01:11:18

asking you these great things, but Allah we know that you can turn

01:11:18 --> 01:11:21

the greatest sinner into your greatest worry in a moment in a

01:11:21 --> 01:11:25

moment. Oh Allah do not allow any one of us to return from here

01:11:25 --> 01:11:29

today without being forgiven. Oh Allah grant us forgiveness of

01:11:29 --> 01:11:33

Allah grant us forgiveness, grant us purity of Allah grant us

01:11:33 --> 01:11:38

purity, grant us Tofik grant us understanding grant us knowledge

01:11:38 --> 01:11:41

Oh Allah make the that what is right and that what is wrong, very

01:11:41 --> 01:11:45

clear for us, allow us to follow what is right and allow us to

01:11:45 --> 01:11:48

abstain from what is wrong of Allah allow us, allow us to help

01:11:48 --> 01:11:52

and assist others. Allow us to be a force for good. Oh Allah allow

01:11:52 --> 01:11:56

us to be forceful, good. Allow us to be protective of ourselves of

01:11:56 --> 01:11:59

Allah and our next generations to come. Oh Allah the challenges out

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

there are seem to only be increasing. Oh Allah help our

01:12:02 --> 01:12:05

Muslim Brothers, brothers and sisters around the world, wherever

01:12:05 --> 01:12:08

they are, whatever persecution that they may be going through, oh

01:12:08 --> 01:12:12

Allah help us and assist us and help them and assist them. And oh

01:12:12 --> 01:12:16

Allah. We ask you to make us capable of dealing dealing with

01:12:16 --> 01:12:20

the challenges of Allah grant us agraphia grant us well being Oh

01:12:20 --> 01:12:23

Allah grant us healthy and well being grant us baraka and blessing

01:12:23 --> 01:12:25

and everything that we have everything that you will give us

01:12:26 --> 01:12:29

an O Allah make it a true source of guidance. Oh Allah, Oh Allah,

01:12:29 --> 01:12:32

we ask that you make the best part of our life, the endings of our

01:12:32 --> 01:12:37

life, and Oh Allah, we ask that you make the last words that we

01:12:37 --> 01:12:42

can utter La ilaha illallah, Muhammad Rasool Allah, O Allah, O

01:12:42 --> 01:12:45

Allah fulfill our permissible needs of Allah, those who are

01:12:45 --> 01:12:48

sitting here, they could have been doing so many other things on this

01:12:48 --> 01:12:51

Sunday afternoon. There are so many other distractions, but Oh

01:12:51 --> 01:12:55

Allah, each one of these people decided to come here, oh Allah to

01:12:55 --> 01:13:00

your house and to listen to listen to these words of Allah We ask

01:13:00 --> 01:13:03

that you accept these words, you accept everybody here of Allah

01:13:03 --> 01:13:06

that you accept everybody here and you grant them baraka in their

01:13:06 --> 01:13:10

lives. And Allah those those responsibilities and tasks that

01:13:10 --> 01:13:13

they still have outstanding. You allow them to complete them. Oh

01:13:13 --> 01:13:18

Allah, we asked you one final thing that US you, you reward all

01:13:18 --> 01:13:22

of those who have organized these pro these programs who have

01:13:23 --> 01:13:26

organized these programs who have worked hard and all the Hitman the

01:13:26 --> 01:13:29

service that they have given in disregard of Allah give them a

01:13:29 --> 01:13:32

great reward for this. Allow them to be a force for great change,

01:13:32 --> 01:13:36

allow them to do many other good things. And Allah bless us all.

01:13:36 --> 01:13:39

And we ask you finally that you send your abundant blessings on

01:13:39 --> 01:13:43

our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and that you

01:13:43 --> 01:13:45

grant us his company in the hereafter. Subhan Allah because

01:13:45 --> 01:13:48

Allah is at their mercy for when our Salah when added more So Nina

01:13:48 --> 01:13:49

will Hamdulillah you

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