Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Imam Sha’rani’s Code of Companionship Series Rights of Brotherhood

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The segment discusses the misunderstandings of people's views on society and the importance of finding a positive balance between one's own behavior and others. It emphasizes the need to avoid harming others, and the use of negative language in relationships. The speakers stress the importance of honoring individuality and finding one's own success in life. They also discuss the challenges of disclosing one's secret and privacy, as well as the importance of learning to read books and practice learning in order to become more aware of Islam.

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			Allah subhanaw taala says in the
Quran that there are three
		
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			categories of people, I mean, who
mocked acid, or in combining
		
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			Malinowski, there are those who
are on the middle path, there are
		
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			those who have accomplished great,
and there are also those who are
		
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			oppressing themselves. And you
will see this in every group. A
		
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			lot of the time what happens with
people of one group is that they
		
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			will folk if they want to
denigrate people of another group,
		
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			they will focus on the worst of
that group.
		
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			Like this sectarian problems or
any other group problems that we
		
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			have or tribal problems or
whatever may be the case. What
		
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			generally happens is that we will
generally focus on the worst of
		
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			the other group and say, look at
that, as though the group is
		
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			bringing down That's just human
nature that this is what happens.
		
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			Unless of course, you see that the
ideology of a particular group
		
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			creates a particular weakness or a
defect in everybody that's a
		
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			different story.
		
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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
hamdu Lillahi wa salatu salam ala
		
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			say you did mousseline whiner
earlier he will stop me he he
		
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			married a man back. We're going
through
		
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			all of the rights that
		
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			each one of us has over
		
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			another
		
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			and rates that
		
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			we have to fulfill for each other.
This is Imam Shah, Ronnie's
		
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			suggestions and his
recommendations. So then, the
		
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			second one is women have killed
archaeology. And young in my era,
		
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			meanwhile, are watching Minitor
when Jamila onken The intermediate
		
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			that Whelan Raja, Allah and FC he
belong
		
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			maybe sometimes difficult to do.
But once you practice this, and
		
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			you change your outlook, this is
actually possible. For a lot of
		
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			people that thing How do you do
this, what he's saying is that
		
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			whatever you see of your brother,
		
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			especially something that doesn't
seem to be so perfect, then you
		
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			try to give it the best possible
interpretation.
		
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			You try to spin it in the best way
people do evil spinning outside
		
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			all the time, you know, be a
politician, although just do it
		
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			positively. So give everything a
positive spin and there's always a
		
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			possibility for a positive spin.
And try to look at everything in
		
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			the best possible manner
		
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			Jameela uncle as positively as
possible
		
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			for in the music that we learn,
sometimes you are going to run up
		
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			against the wall, and you just
can't find any way to extract your
		
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			brother from the
		
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			the defect that you are noticing.
You can't put a positive spin you
		
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			can't seem to find a good opinion
or a good interpretation. Then in
		
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			that case, he says if you don't
find something like that, Raja
		
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			Allah enough See he belongs then
just blame yourself for being
		
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			for being unable to do so.
		
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			Like I wish I could have seen this
in a better light and blame
		
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			yourself for it that I wish I
could have been more positive
		
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			about this. So when a person is
always trying to act positively
		
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			and censoring oneself and
reproaching oneself for not being
		
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			positive, then inshallah
positivity will come about. He
		
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			then says that
		
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			one of his teachers Ibrahim at the
Suki Rahim Allah, in one of his
		
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			councils in his Wasa, it mentioned
that Latin guru either a compiler
		
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			who will arriba WHO, WHAT ARE
Toriyama who, what a shadow.
		
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			don't censor your brother for his
different states. Don't Don't
		
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			reproach him, Don't accuse him for
his different states, whether that
		
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			be in terms of his garments, his
clothing, wearing some strange
		
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			clothing was strange garments, or
his food,
		
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			his dress, his hairstyle, his
drink, whatever it may be, because
		
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			when you start reproaching
somebody about these small minor
		
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			things like this, you recall why
Shatta Wale in Quito Anila heater
		
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			Ira then your focus changes you it
creates. Number one a disquietude
		
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			and a balloon. It creates a
problem in between because it
		
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			muddies the water in between
because you're looking at
		
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			something negative negativity has
that idea even the self care
		
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			experts self eating experts will
constantly telling you think
		
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			positively. This is what the
Sharia tells you to think
		
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			positively in general. And it will
also cut you away from Allah
		
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			subhanho wa Taala Allah subhanho
wa Taala is good. Allah is Jamil
		
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			where your hibel Jamal, Allah
subhanho wa Taala is excellent and
		
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			elegant and beautiful. And he
loves elegance, excellence and
		
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			beauty. So as long as you can
extract beauty out of anything,
		
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			then that is what we should be
doing well
		
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			In Colorado, in Tacoma Huron
Salahi Cherie and moto hora. And
		
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			he says at the end of the day,
what the person is doing in terms
		
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			of the weird clothing he might
have on,
		
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			or the weird hairstyle or food or
clothing or drink, as long as it's
		
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			not haram, as long as it's not
something prohibited in the
		
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			Sharia. As long as it's not
something that has been considered
		
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			unlawful in the pod, then after
that, you can't reproach somebody
		
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			for that.
		
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			You can't reproach somebody for
that. And then he says something
		
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			very important. And if we can
understand this, I think this is
		
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			the crux of this whole point. And
it really enlightens us, it really
		
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			gives a very good understanding of
how to understand especially how
		
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			to work with your own family
members, your own
		
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			people at work or anywhere else
for that matter. He says, because
		
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			for in the NASA hustle, will
hustle house will move to the
		
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			woman dahin or moto Chabane Momota
hockey team will cover Eulalia the
		
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			rattle Mashima dive waxy wala with
Dara Yarraman, Belga, Bilbao. He
		
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			says, Because among people, if you
take a assessment of people, there
		
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			are the elect among people, the
high level ones, then there is the
		
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			hustle house, there's the elect of
the elect, the very special
		
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			people, meaning those who've
really been able to be particular
		
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			about their faith, you know, so
there's the particular ones, and
		
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			there's the very particular ones.
And then he says, there's also the
		
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			beginners, there's also the
advanced, there's also those who
		
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			are just trying to impersonate
others, we're trying their best.
		
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			And there are also those who have
actualized, and who who've reached
		
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			and who've accomplished, and then
he says, The going, the one who's
		
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			spiritually stronger, and more
powerful, or higher level, is
		
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			unable to walk and keep up with
the weak one. The strong one is
		
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			unable to keep up with the weak
one. And likewise the opposite.
		
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			The weak one is unable to keep up
with the strong one. It's going to
		
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			be the case if you're traveling
together one is spiritually much
		
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			stronger and he's doing extra
Nawab feel and everything and the
		
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			other one wants to carry on he's
done his forehead only and his you
		
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			know, too soon. But in suffered,
you don't have to do your Sunday
		
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			in journeys you don't have to do
Sunday if you're in a hurry. But
		
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			one insists on doing his sunnah
and his issue aka no often and the
		
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			110 minutes of vicar and so on as
well. He's way advanced. And he's
		
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			comfortable with that. It doesn't
matter how long it takes, the
		
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			other one just wants to move on,
move on, move on, you're not going
		
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			to be able to keep up. But
understand that that not everybody
		
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			is like you. So don't stop
criticizing people. As long as
		
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			they're doing the basics of their
Deen don't criticize people for no
		
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			reason. Over and above that.
		
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			arbitrarily, of course, if you're
trying to help somebody, it's a
		
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			different story. But arbitrarily
don't just keep your eyes just
		
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			pretend to overlook it. You can't
see it.
		
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			And then he says, And the
wonderful thing is that Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala has mercy on some
people by virtue of others. So at
		
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			the end of the day, this mix that
we have, this is by the same
		
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			thing, that Allah subhanho wa
taala, he gives Baraka due to the
		
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			weak people to the strong, due to
the Allah gives Baraka because of
		
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			the young people to the old, to
the very old, by by virtue of the
		
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			very old to the middle aged, Allah
subhanho wa Taala chooses
		
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			different people. And he uses some
to spread the baraka and the mercy
		
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			upon others.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala says in the
Quran that there are three
		
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			categories of people mean hooked
acid, or in combining will NFC,
		
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			there are those who are on the
middle path, there are those who
		
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			have accomplished great, and there
are also those who are oppressing
		
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			themselves. And you will see this
in every group. A lot of the time,
		
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			what happens with people of one
group is that they will folk if
		
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			they want to denigrate people of
another group, they will focus on
		
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			the worst of that group.
		
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			Like this sectarian problems or
any other group problems that we
		
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			have, or tribal problems, or
whatever may be the case, what
		
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			generally happens is that we will
generally focus on the worst of
		
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			the other group and say, look at
that, as though the group is
		
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			bringing that up. That's just
human nature that this is what
		
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			happens. Unless, of course, you
see that the ideology of a
		
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			particular group creates a
particular weakness or a defect in
		
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			everybody. That's a different
story.
		
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			A lot of the time what we do is we
compare
		
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			non Muslim ideas or cultures or
trends with the Islamic ideal, not
		
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			with Muslims. We compare non
Muslim fashions of the day. We
		
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			compare that to sahabi, a
companion or a big scholar, not
		
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			with the state of Muslims today.
Do you understand and then we try
		
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			to show
		
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			Islam is superior because of that.
It's not superior because of that
		
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			it's superior as it is, it's got
its own ways, but one needs to
		
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			follow it. So it's not a very
straightforward comparison that we
		
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			do a lot of the time, we take the
worst of another group, and we
		
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			show the best of ours. And we try
to compare it like that, you can't
		
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			make comparisons like that, that
doesn't deny the point that there
		
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			is great good here, or that it's
the best or the most excellent, or
		
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			it's God given or divine. That's
not the point. That's not That's
		
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			not we're trying not to deny that,
but we're trying to say is that
		
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			when you make a comparison, be
fair in your comparison. But going
		
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			back to this point, the point is
that look positively as as many
		
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			things as possible, and inshallah
this will really, really create
		
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			harmony between us. That's why
this thing about quickly
		
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			criticizing people in a hurry on
any small thing that you see on
		
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			the apparent face of something
that's very, very dangerous.
		
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			That's very dangerous for just
generally general brotherly love,
		
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			and harmony between people in
general, and just people in
		
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			general, this is very important
that a person doesn't do that.
		
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			Because people are of different
categories and different levels
		
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			and different states. And we need
to understand that that diversity,
		
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			we have to be able to deal with
it.
		
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			A lot of people, they become
pious, righteous,
		
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			they suddenly have illumination,
they suddenly become practicing,
		
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			then they want everybody to walk
along with them. They want
		
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			everybody to be illuminated. At
the same time. If you do, ask
		
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			Allah for that, don't get angry,
and people say, Why don't you get
		
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			up to my status? Why don't you do
the same thing that I'm doing now?
		
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			I've put my TV away. Why don't you
do the same thing, I've stopped
		
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			watching all of this film, you do
the same thing.
		
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			It took what it took time for you
to gain this inspiration, this
		
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			motivation.
		
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			So it may take time for others. A
lot of the time has happened
		
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			between husband and wives who
happens to be one spouse to happen
		
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			between brothers happens between
parents and children, children and
		
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			parents.
		
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			So ask Allah subhanaw taala, you
might say the woman will say
		
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			you're
		
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			one of the greatest of the
February.
		
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			He it's mentioned about him
		
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			that he says mom and Sharif and
what are the fondling in Luffy
		
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			Hinrichsen. There's no honorable
individual, meaning every
		
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			honorable and individual and
anybody with any kind of
		
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			distinction in this world,
		
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			every one of them will still have
a defect.
		
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			So even people who see people with
great honor and his generally
		
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			accepted as being an honorable
individual, and a person of high
		
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			distinction. Still a person is
going to have some defects, ask
		
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			his wife,
		
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			you know, ask the people close and
we're going to there's going to be
		
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			some defect to the other. But the
best part is this. That's a
		
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			reality. We can't do anything
about that reality. That's the
		
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			thing here.
		
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			These are realities that we can't
do much about, we can help in that
		
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			situation. But while I can, men
can afford to work for me noxee
		
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			Wahiba, not to leave for the day.
However, the one who is
		
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			distinctions is honor, his merits
are better and superior and more
		
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			abundant, then his defects, then
his defects become disguised in
		
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			the good points.
		
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			At the end of the day, that's what
we're all going to try to achieve.
		
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			Everybody's going to have a
defect. But
		
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			the more good merits that we try
to create for ourselves, our bad
		
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			things will just become dissolved
in that it will become hidden in
		
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			that essentially that's what it
is.
		
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			And that's that's what we're
trying to achieve.
		
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			About
		
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			Saeed in the mosaic Rahima. Hula
is from the high debating the most
		
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			elective the targeting, and one of
the greatest narrators of Hadith
		
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			as well from the sahaba. He took a
lot from Abu Huraira the Allah one
		
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			for example. He took a lot from
him.
		
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			And he used to exert himself a
lot. He was a great worshiper. He
		
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			says this is his own statement. He
says Marfa tetani three Lawton
		
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			fija Martin Mundo Barbarina. Santa
		
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			for 40 years. I haven't missed the
salaat in Java.
		
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			Like he know Salah Did he miss for
40 years without congregation. He
		
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			prayed in congregation. And during
his time in those early times,
		
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			there was a major problem during
the those early times there was a
		
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			lot of sectarian wars, especially
over Madina, Munawwara who's going
		
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			to become the governor during the
time to lighteners obey and the
		
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			OMA years and so on and so forth.
So at that time, I mean, you'd be
		
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			surprised about this, but they
came three days when it was really
		
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			severe, and no Advan took place in
Masuda nubbly
		
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			That's how bad the situation was.
The Muslim could not go to West
		
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			you never want to give a damn.
		
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			So, in those days, he stayed in
the masjid. He was in retreat in
		
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			the masjid. He literally like made
it take off in a sense. I mean,
		
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			those days you didn't have clocks.
You didn't have timetables, you're
		
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			inside. So you can't. I mean, it
probably be dangerous to go out
		
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			and see the sun. So where is how
does he find the time of the
		
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			prayer?
		
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			How does he find time of him?
Because he seems like he's the
		
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			only one inside. He says that he
used to recognize and identify the
		
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			time of the press by a sound that
would come from the grave of
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.
		
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			He died in 93 Hijiri. So this was
this was his statement. It's a
		
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			very penetrating statement that
everybody is going to have some
		
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			kind of defect, but the more
merits you'll have your defects
		
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			will become dissolved in that in
those merits. Another right this
		
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			is the third one I think that
another eight that a brother has
		
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			over a brother, a yellow jeweler
who women are three routes you
		
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			have to wish well for them.
		
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			One is you overlook their defects.
turn a blind eye. But number two,
		
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			you wish well for people in
general, every brother of yours.
		
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			When we say brother here we mean
in general. We mean in general
		
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			here, Muslim brother, Muslim
sister, humanity in general, we
		
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			want good for them. Your jeweler
who means the rods,
		
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			we wish well for them. Well, Musa
Maha, we want pardon for them,
		
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			just like we want pardon for
ourselves. We want pardon for
		
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			them, who will Adobo and we also
want their Toba to be accepted
		
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			just like we want our Toba to be
accepted. What does that tell us?
		
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			It tells us that just like we also
sin, anybody who criticizes
		
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			others, they should think to
themselves haven't I got any
		
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			problems? Don't I commit sin as
well? Don't I want doba? Over I do
		
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			too. Well? Don't you want doba for
your brother? Don't you want
		
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			repentance to be accepted for your
brother just like you want Toba to
		
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			be accepted for yourself. So that
is a right that we must have
		
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			towards others that we must feel
that way and have that emotion for
		
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			others. Well Oh for elemental
bouncy, and Islamia my foreign
		
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			come I argue that he couldn't have
seen regardless of what sins
		
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			they're committing, we went over
for them just like you want for
		
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			us. Another one another right that
he speaks about is Alliander Illa
		
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			zileuton Eliza let in Sabah cots.
What are the actual hula hoop? I
		
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			will attend SUTI. Right.
		
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			So one another problem that we
have in our communities is a
		
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			person holding a database
		
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			of everybody's past wrongs, even
though they've sorted themselves
		
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			out now, people may become
reformed, now maybe reformed now.
		
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			But
		
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			we remember 20 years ago, they did
something bad or they were in
		
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			prison
		
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			or
		
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			the state wasn't very good,
whatever the case may be. So, a
		
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			person should not look at past
defects, past slips and flows. And
		
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			a person should not open up and
reveal any hidden defects. You
		
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			know, that are veiled and conceal
the nobody knows about a person
		
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			should not reveal them to people.
Because he mentions in a hadith
		
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			and this is from the Hadith he
mentions in a hadith woman mantra,
		
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			I will often for Salah gonna come
in here, ooh, that data.
		
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			Anybody
		
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			know who that and recovery how
anybody who conceals
		
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			some hidden defect of somebody,
anybody who conceals. So this is
		
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			actively concealed. So even if
somebody is about to open it up,
		
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			you are conceding it or you're
trying to make an excuse for that
		
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			person. So one is you don't open
it up. You don't say anything
		
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			about you keep silent. The other
one is somebody wants to reveal it
		
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			or starts talking about it, you
say? Normally you try to
		
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			some just kind of gloss over it
somehow. you conceal it you
		
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			actively. So he says that whoever
does that. Now this is not talking
		
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			about somebody's harm to others,
that has to be opened up. The
		
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			Goodwill there is that you reveal
to people that Be careful of this
		
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			person. That's a different
situation. But this is something
		
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			that is not contagious. Somebody's
own little problem that he has,
		
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			that he's working with is trying
to you know try to struggle with
		
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			or whatever the case is, don't
make it more difficult by making
		
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			it public conceal it. Anybody who
does that the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			sallam said is like the person who
brought back to life. A infant
		
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			girl buried alive.
		
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			Now an infant girl buried alive
was something that was really an a
		
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			very emotional sense point of
sentiment for the people of Makkah
		
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			at that time because this was
		
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			The pre Islamic Jahai, the
practice of burying the daughters
		
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			alive because they felt that sons
had more valued. And daughters
		
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			didn't have enough value for them
that you'd have to invest and
		
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			bring them up and spend on them,
and so on, so forth. And then
		
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			after they get married to somebody
else, and they're gone, right,
		
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			they don't carry on your family
name. You know, this is one of the
		
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			extremes of being so focused on
your tribal lineage. There are
		
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			extremes in everything, when you
become so engrossed in your tribal
		
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			lineage that I'm put on or am
		
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			this, that, or the other, whatever
it is, I don't know why I thought
		
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			at the time right now, but you
know,
		
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			anything, for that matter. And
then you get so extreme about it,
		
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			that you don't want to dissolve
that in any way or dilute that
		
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			anyhow, and this is one of the
extremes of these things. So
		
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			Subhanallah if somebody goes
against that trend, and brings
		
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			back a girl who has been oppressed
in that manner, can you imagine
		
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			such a high deed that is what a
great deed that is, that's just
		
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			like the profit or loss I'm
saying, that is just like, if you
		
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			conceal somebody, and you conceal
their defects, they flow.
		
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			The machinery say, when you say
the machinery, this word machine,
		
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			I agree first, generally the
spiritual scholars, scholars of
		
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			spirituality, could lumen lamea
store, Allah Juan Heemeyer, all
		
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			human human and Hatha words for
confetti had NFC Berber cashmere
		
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			Arathi because there are other
haram in Haifa to him.
		
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			When this is the general guidance
of Islam to conceal people, that's
		
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			the general guidance right? As far
as possible, if that's what Allah
		
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			wants from us, that anybody who
violates that, then what's going
		
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			to happen? So that's what he says
that the Messiah is say that
		
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			anybody who does not conceal of
their brothers, whatever faults
		
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			that they notice that they are
opening for themselves a door to
		
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			their own defects being revealed.
		
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			Because if we're not actively
trying to keep the balance that
		
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			Allah wants in this world, the
MISA, then Allah is going to open
		
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			up the door of our defects.
		
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			Because Reema Amina half of our
team, and as much as we reveal of
		
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			others, that is how much Allah
will reveal of ours.
		
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			So if you don't want to do it for
somebody else, at least do it for
		
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			yourself. At least think that way
if, if not in a more positive way.
		
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			They also say that in our eight
minute clinic, Martha, Marcia de
		
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			la Mujer, he'll be half as true.
If you see somebody doing a sin,
		
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			that he is not openly doing
outside. He is hiding and doing
		
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			it. Right. He's not openly and
brazenly going into a pub and
		
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			drink in front of everybody and
going around, you know, he's got a
		
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			problem of drinking poor game and
he tries to hide it. Right? He
		
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			tries to hide it,
		
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			then don't
		
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			if you see somebody like that,
then what be who who basically
		
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			admonished him privately. Contact
him privately first.
		
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			He's trying to make an effort. It
helps when somebody finds out
		
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			somebody tells you nicely, you
know, of course you have to have
		
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			some kind of relationship here.
While Amiens surgery if the person
		
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			doesn't desist
		
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			then and then if he doesn't desist
it means he's going to do it in
		
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			the open then maybe tell him in
front of people, but with the
		
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			intention of his welfare.
		
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			See, even if somebody does this,
what shaytaan puts into the mind
		
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			is to get one over them
		
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			to somehow get some merit out of
it for yourself. But no, that
		
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			should not be the intention even
if you do have to open it up to
		
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			people that do it for his welfare
		
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			with the intention and the hope
that inshallah he will desist and
		
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			stop doing it now.
		
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			Now one thing you have to
understand he says mme a yo yo see
		
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			if you carry the V where you are,
who are they for who Allah mujer
		
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			Yatta jar, as long as the person
is doing it in the deep recesses
		
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			of his home, or wherever it is,
that is hidden, hidden, right? And
		
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			he's closing his door, and he's
not publicizing it. He's not
		
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			putting it up on Twitter the next
day, or Facebook as city people do
		
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			today.
		
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			Then it means he's not openly
doing it. The prophets of Allah
		
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			Islam says everybody is going to
be forgiven. Except the people who
		
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			openly do this in the province
that are supposed to say said,
		
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			somebody doesn't sin at night.
Allah reveals it nobody finds out
		
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			and the same person openly tells
everybody the next day.
		
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			What an idiot.
		
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			Before people wrote diaries and
diaries were generally private.
		
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			They were only generally
discovered after the death, right?
		
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			People kept diaries and they will
try to keep it private and
		
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			They would only be read generally
After Death. Today, the diary
		
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			becomes Facebook and Twitter. And
people want people to read it.
		
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			So a lot of the honesty and it
goes and the genuineness of it
		
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			goes as well. Because to attract
more people towards your hosts,
		
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			and so on, they need to be
dramatized a bit more. So Allah
		
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			knows best how true things are, as
compared to what they used to be.
		
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			But look at where the private life
became suddenly very public, and
		
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			how lives have changed perspective
has changed. Then he says, though,
		
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			that if the person is doing it in
privacy, but there are children
		
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			there who are telling others about
it, then consider that they are
		
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			like adults, then in that case,
and that he is openly doing it as
		
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			well. Because if a person is doing
something wrong, and he's trying
		
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			to privately do it, then he should
not do it in front of children
		
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			either.
		
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			Another hap another rights
		
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			of one brother over another is
law, your IRA, who will be them
		
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			been what led for in them, why are
the Dakota will wind out to cut
		
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			the sofa. So this is another level
now, somebody's committed a sin.
		
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			What one is a genuine
		
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			Naseeha goodwill towards them or
trying to make them desist. But
		
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			another one is where you keep
saying, you do that.
		
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			It's this kind of reproach,
humiliation, putting them to
		
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			shame, essentially shaming
somebody all the time. So your
		
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			idea is not to give them genuine,
sincere Naseeha. But it's actually
		
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			just keep putting them down for
whatever reason, whether in front
		
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			of others, or even if it's not in
front of others, but just between
		
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			you two,
		
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			just to keep shaming them and
reminding them reminding them of
		
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			that
		
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			as very, very dangerous. Because
first and foremost, if you're
		
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			trying to create love and bond
between two friends between
		
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			yourself and somebody else, and
you start bringing these things
		
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			up, then is not going to go very
far in terms of creating love. And
		
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			people do this between spouses
husband will do this to wife and
		
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			wife will do this to husband. It's
a relationship where you're
		
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			supposed to be creating love and
bond and affection between you
		
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			doing this is not going to create
any of that it's going to break
		
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			that anyway.
		
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			If it doesn't
		
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			remove the love, it will
definitely muddy the purity of it.
		
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			So it's going to be really
polluted. Then he says that from
		
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			Hasson bursaries, words, he says
either brother welcome and I had
		
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			in Zelda. If you hear about
anybody's slip a floor of
		
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			somebody, somebody did something
wrong, somebody conveyed and
		
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			there's many people,
unfortunately, who convey things
		
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			to us. Right? You sit in most
gatherings and somebody's going to
		
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			speak about somebody else. Right?
So if somebody does come to you,
		
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			one of these conveyors, back
biters,
		
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			tale bearers, slanderous, whatever
you want to call them, radio
		
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			hosts, chat, show people, you
know, news bearers, whatever you
		
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			want to call them, right?
		
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			Commentators, speculators.
		
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			What is that good during the
hacking, however, whatever they're
		
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			saying, has not yet been
established in front of a judge.
		
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			So it has not been judicially
established and proven for that to
		
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			our hero who behalf. So now don't
take it in your hands to go and
		
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			shame that person about to
admonish him or humiliate him
		
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			because of that, don't reproach
him because of that, what can the
		
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			movement Shah mean? What you
should rather do is you should be
		
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			lying, and discourage and deny the
people who are trying to spread
		
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			that rumor. Especially
		
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			if the person is among you, you
should definitely try to do this.
		
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			The reason is that just by the
default state in everything is
		
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			that a person is free. A person is
a person is innocent, that's the
		
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			default level, you can only prove
it's that guilty until proven
		
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			innocent. That's what he's saying.
But because the default status in
		
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			everything is that a person is
innocent, until proven guilty,
		
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			until there is sound proof that is
established in front of a judge
		
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			after that, even if it is now
proven, and yes, he was a whatever
		
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			he was, still don't reproach him.
Because it's not your
		
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			responsibility to do that.
		
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			It's not your responsibility to do
that to do that.
		
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			Because it's very possible that
Allah will
		
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			cure him of that or even relieve
him off that and he will affect
		
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			you in it. It's a possibility
tomorrow we do the same thing as
		
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			others. You know, whenever you
hear on the radio and TV and all
		
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			of these places,
		
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			And we get the news about certain
people falling to certain human
		
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			weaknesses. You know, we should
just think Allah that we're not
		
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			part of that. Because it could be
us tomorrow.
		
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			We all have lusts and desires and
failings and weaknesses and things
		
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			of that nature.
		
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			And although we may feel very
strong today, if Allah wills, it
		
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			can just change. He doesn't like
it when a person upsets the
		
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			balance of the world just doesn't
like that at all. Because Allah
		
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			says, Well, what are L MISA and so
to Rama, he's created the balance.
		
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			And do not destroy that balance.
Let that overfill Misa
		
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			Do not be tyrannical, don't go
aboveboard, in upsetting the
		
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			balance of the world. Now, the
problem here is the challenge here
		
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			is for the people who for 50
years, 40 years who've gone old,
		
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			criticizing others. That's all
they do.
		
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			They criticize everything. They
criticize everything from food,
		
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			that they will eat somewhere,
		
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			to the way that Imam reads
		
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			to a to the talk of a scholar to
anything.
		
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			Like the scholar gave a one hour
talk, do Mahatma whatever it is.
		
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			And he made one silly comment or
whatever, they will seize on that.
		
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			They are literally just looking
for the evilness. They're just
		
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			literally looking for the floor,
the weak point.
		
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			It's like they say that when a
nightingale goes into a garden, it
		
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			will find the best of flowers. And
it sits in those whenever a pig
		
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			goes into a garden and looks for
the dirtiest place just as nature.
		
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			So now, if we have become
accustomed to doing that 40 years,
		
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			50 years, it gets difficult to
relieve that. So how do you
		
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			relieve yourself? Well, first and
foremost, you have to recognize
		
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			that we've got that problem. And
many of us have this problem. It's
		
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			part of the culture by the way.
		
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			It's part of the culture to do
this.
		
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			It's part of the country to do
this, which is the sad thing.
		
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			So you have to recognize I've got
a problem. I also do this and once
		
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			you've recognized that then cry in
front of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			and say, Oh Allah remove this from
me.
		
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			Because if you don't recognize it,
and we just do anything, it's
		
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			completely right to the we should
know the bad of people so that we
		
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			stay safe. Nobody's nobody's
telling you to not know that there
		
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			is a bad person. But it's our
reaction to that which is
		
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			important is how that has to be
managed.
		
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			That's why this hadith Subhanallah
when I heard it, the first time
		
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			Imam told me he has related this
from Morocco Mujibur Radi Allahu
		
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			Anhu. I was, it just really
frightened me because you know, as
		
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			children, you, we do this
generally. And it was a good job.
		
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			I heard this when I was young,
because it helped me out a lot.
		
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			That's why these Hadith are very
important for young people that we
		
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			should teach. We shouldn't do
these things from a young age. It
		
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			will just protect us from growing
up doing having a bad habit.
		
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			Anyway, the prophets Allah some
said man a year or a year or ha
		
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			who be humble. Anybody who's
		
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			who reproaches his brother for a
sin that he's committed. In the
		
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			past, somebody's committed a sin
and then you keep going on about
		
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			it. lamea Matata, yeah, methodical
dumb, then this person who's doing
		
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			this is not going to die until he
also becomes engaged in that
		
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			same thing that we're shaming
others for humiliating others
		
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			because of, we will get involved
in that before we die. Allah will
		
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			not let us down until that
happens. That was extremely
		
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			frightening, that just really put
the frightened and Subhanallah I
		
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			just tried to avoid doing this.
Because as young children, you
		
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			learn these kinds of things you'd
like criticizing you make fun of
		
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			people and things like that.
Subhanallah say the idea of verses
		
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			letter, it could be Masaba hoomin
masorti be dunya.
		
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			Don't bother your brother about
different to nearly calamities
		
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			that come upon him. Because, look,
there could be many reasons why
		
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			this has happened. Either he is
oppressed and not really the
		
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			guilty one. And Allah subhanaw
taala is going to help him because
		
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			Allah will help the oppressed
people. Or maybe he's a he is a
		
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			sinner. He violated. He is a
criminal in that sense, and he is
		
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			a sinner.
		
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			And then Allah is punishing him
now because of this color by this
		
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			calamity. And now he's going to be
purified.
		
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			Now he's going to be purified
because of it.
		
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			And he says it's the most greatest
level of foolishness
		
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			and idiocy that a person is proud
of something
		
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			They themselves are not secure of
staying away from
		
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			like how secure are you that by
your debt you will also not have a
		
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			problem like this? How secure are
you? what guarantee do you know
		
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			it's also stupidity says that a
person reproach somebody for
		
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			something that is not impossible
for you also to vote.
		
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			So, just always think about that
in the in that sense and you know
		
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			that whatever is possible for you
is possible for others or whatever
		
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			is possible for somebody like you
it will be possible for you as
		
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			well. So, if today he has been
engraved in engrossed in that
		
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			calamity tomorrow it could happen
to you as well.
		
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			Okay, we're going to Inshallah,
stop here today, because we did
		
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			promise that we'll take some
questions, inshallah. So
		
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			the point of a lecture is to
encourage people to act to get
		
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			further an inspiration, and
encouragement, persuasion. The
		
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			next step is to actually start
learning seriously, to read books
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:06
			to take on a subject of Islam and
to understand all the subjects of
		
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			Islam at least at the basic level,
so that we can become more aware
		
00:36:10 --> 00:36:14
			of what our deen wants from us.
And that's why we started Rayyan
		
00:36:14 --> 00:36:19
			courses, so that you can actually
take organize lectures on demand
		
00:36:19 --> 00:36:22
			whenever you have free time,
especially for example, the
		
00:36:22 --> 00:36:26
			Islamic essentials course that we
have on there, the Islamic
		
00:36:26 --> 00:36:30
			essentials certificate which you
take 20 Short modules, and at the
		
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			end of that insha Allah you will
have gotten the basics of most of
		
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			the most important topics in Islam
and you'll feel a lot more
		
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			confident. You don't have to leave
lectures behind you can continue
		
00:36:41 --> 00:36:44
			to live, you know, to listen to
lectures, but you need to have
		
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			this more sustained study as well.
JazakAllah Heron salaam aleikum wa
		
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			rahmatullah wa barakato.