Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Groom Your Hair (Hadith Commentary from Zad alTalibin)
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The transcript discusses the use of oil and spiked oil for hair maintenance, with a focus on managing the process and avoiding overgrooming hair. They also touch on the importance of the head for stylish hair and political reasons for not wanting to groom hair. The speaker emphasizes the need for a good head and mentions a woman in Syria who may have been a victim of bullying. They also touch on the negative impact of the Sun Standard on women, particularly those with short hair.
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Hadith number 245
Mankind Allah Who shall run for you Chrimbo mankind Allah Who
shall run for you, Kareem Imam Abu Dawood relates this hadith, it is
recommended, while actually the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said,
Whoever has hair should groom it, which is the majority of pupil.
Right? Whoever's hair should groom it. So if Allah subhanaw taala has
given you hair will look after it essentially saying look after it,
you can remove, honor it,
which means to oil it, to comb it, to keep it cut neatly, to make it
look decent, and so on and so forth. There's a whole chapter
about the hair of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and
how he used to groom his hair. And what he used to do for his hair in
the Shama and it's a chapter well worth reading, the Shama Iloveyou
mountain movie, the prophets of Allah who is I'm used to use a lot
of the prophets of Allah while he was telling us to use a lot of
oil, because he had long hair, the normal way of Rasulullah
sallallahu sallam was to have long hair as opposed to short hair.
The only time that is related that he had short hair was when he went
for Umrah or Hajj, and he had it cut there. Otherwise, all the time
his hair dangled down to his ear lobes, or halfway down to his
shoulders, or all the way down to his shoulders. Those are the three
limbs that we that we hear about. But he used to keep it oiled
properly, because then you have a lot of hair.
And women would notice when they have a lot of hair is that it
pulls a lot of resources from your brain from your head. And you need
to keep it oiled to keep it all otherwise it gets very dry. And
then it becomes harmful for the hair as well. So keeping an oil
actually keeps your brain fresh as well keeps the head fresh. And
it's important to do that.
The way to apply here, one of the best ways to apply here is to get
some oil and put it into the middle of the head to put it in
the middle of the head by the brain towards kind of middle the
front, so that that part sucks in. And then after that to oil, the
rest of the hair as well.
The process that a lot of them used to carry a comb with him, he
used to look in the mirror, he used to comb his hair. So it's not
a woman thing to do. Only, yes, it should not lead to a level of
obsession. That's what's important. So it's not that even
men, I mean, it's bad enough when women do it. But it's bad when men
are always putting out there come to see and look at look at
themselves, and not their con necessarily but their phones
nowadays, because the screen acts like a very good mirror.
So you know, they're constantly looking at themselves and making
sure every every hair is in its place. That's really weird.
Especially those that use
those that have the spiked up here where they have to actually manage
it every morning, like women have to spend two hours on their makeup
every morning. So you got boys, you got these young guys who have
to gel it up in a particular way and then have the spikes in our
you know, only five spikes to the front and three spikes in the
back. And so on. And or tuft of hair right in the front or under
sight, you know, in a particular way, because of trying to copy
somebody else maybe or have a unique look, I really feel sorry
for those people who are really obsessed because they're really
obsessed over something which is not really worth being obsessed
over as such. And it's a very womanly thing to do. It's okay
when women do it to a certain degree, it gets really bad when
they're doing it every traffic light as well.
This obviously includes the beard as well, the beard is very
important for it to be managed properly as well. And not that it
should just be left to grow on its own and then let it be wispy and
flying all over the place. That's also very important.
Having said that, it's necessary, as mentioned in the majority of
mud hubs that the beard needs to be at least one fistful on you,
the chef is have an opinion of less than that. So just because
you keep the glue there there is that there are people in a
particular country that I visited, and they all had short beards. And
one of the reasons they cited there was because it says that you
should groom your hair, and you should make it look good. So this
way, it looks better. But that's really just the justification. The
reason is that the reason why they're not allowed to the reason
why they don't keep a big, big, big beard is because of political
reasons. And they receive a lot of harassment, major problems. I
mean, I'm talking about Syria, you can understand the government how
it is done there, and what the kind of cracked down. They're
very, they're very the way of the government of Syria is they just
absolutely have no compassion for anybody you think before. What
Before we saw, we saw you think that Israelis were the worst. But
what what these guys are doing here? They, they might even be
putting the Israelis to shame in what they do, then they both they
both seem to have been influenced by each other. And the Syrians who
are doing this there are other ways. So they're not proper
Muslims anyway, not wanting to attack fear, but they're not
proper Muslims. Even the main body of the Shiites would not call them
Muslim, because they've got some really extreme view of the other
whites otherwise who believe that Oliver the Allahu Anhu was divine
was was like God or something like that. So even the normal shades
would probably consider them to be off the track. It's a very small
minority, very, very small group of people who are doing this and
probably for them, it's just like survival, because if they lose
that they've lost it. All. Right. They may have shared with Saddam
in being Baathists, which is ideology. But But Saddam was not
not sad. So that was actually Sunni, right? Whereas this guy,
these guys are not Sunni. They're and they're the form of extreme
Shiites so
they it just you can you can see what they're doing, just like the
Israelis are doing but we don't know who's who's doing worse now.
It's really bad. Now what happens in situations like that with the
with the ruler mother when they can't keep a beard and I know that
you know, it was like that in Egypt as well, is that then you
have to find ways of justifying why you're doing what you're
doing. And eventually it becomes a justification only, which is
really sad. But for the chef is they have some allowance in their
school anyway, though. It's not something we need to try to look
for and follow because what's most important is what Rasul allah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did, regardless of mother, and what the
Prophet said Ulsan did was something that happened before the
mother who's or even around the Malays are based on their
perspective of wars with the loss of a Larson did, but the Sunnah is
clear the way the beard of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was,
so that's why this should not be used as an example to chop the
beard off a search