Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera – Asma’ The Great Daughter of Abu Bakr (r)

Abdur Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera
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The conversation discusses the importance of having a smart and flexible mother, as well as the qualities and characteristics of a woman who delivers excellence and integrity. It is emphasized the need to prioritize protecting parents and the generation they are in, as well as the trend of divorce and the importance of principles for understanding. The speakers also acknowledge the recent attacks on Saudi Arabia and the need for peace, while acknowledging the importance of knowing the generation they are in and the recent attacks on Saudi Arabia.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim
		
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			Al Hamdulillah Hamden Cathedral on
a uban Mubarak and fie Mubarak and
		
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			rd gamma your Rabona were the
Jalla Jalla who am Manuel are
		
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			salatu salam O Allah say you did
have a bill Mustafa SallAllahu
		
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			Taala either are they who are
other early he or saw me he or
		
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			Baraka was seldom at the Sleeman
Kathira on Eli Yomi. Dean a mother
		
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			art
		
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			dear friends, dear students,
		
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			nice to be with you guys. Again,
I've kind of for some reason I
		
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			enjoy coming to Imperial been
here. I think this is probably my
		
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			fourth or fifth time I can't
remember probably predates your
		
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			entry here
		
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			several years ago, started several
years ago, but what is found the
		
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			crowd to be a bit mature. So I
mean, I guess it must reflect
		
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			maybe whatever the case is. So may
Allah bless you. Because it's a
		
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			it's a nice experience. And I
think the last talk that I gave
		
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			here was about Abdullah hidden and
Mubarak Rahima lights. I mean, for
		
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			me personally was extremely
inspiring. And a lot of the time,
		
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			depending on where you are, it
makes a difference as to what
		
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			you're able to say because I
believe that whatever we say,
		
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			comes from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.
		
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			So it's nice to be in your midst.
I know there's one of you at least
		
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			that is supposed to be in forest
gate at this time. Right. But for
		
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			some reason he's still in Imperial
College is supposed to be in
		
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			Forrest gates. I hope he doesn't
get in trouble.
		
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			So let's start our talk.
		
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			To start the talk today, I think
what's important to understand
		
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			first is that when we're covering
a biography,
		
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			then the whole point of covering a
biography, so that we can learn
		
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			something from it, we can
hopefully relate to it. There are
		
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			a huge number of individuals and
luminaries and role models,
		
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			exemplars in our history that we
can benefit from, some of them
		
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			will be able to relate more to
than others, I may be able to
		
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			relate more to maybe OH MY GOD,
ALLAH who won more than I can to
		
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			maybe a Buddha or the Allah who
		
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			some of you may be able to relate
to Hadith or the Allahu anha more
		
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			than you can to shatter the Allahu
anha maybe you can benefit from
		
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			some aspects of eyeshot of the
Allahu and has lived some aspects
		
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			of Hadith Allah, the Allahu
unhand, and some aspects of a
		
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			smart or the Allahu anha. The more
we can learn about these
		
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			individuals, the more we become
enriched in our understanding,
		
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			because the reason we're here and
we're listening, and we're
		
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			interested is because we're
Muslims, Allah has chosen us for
		
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			Islam. Now to become good Muslims,
the best people we can learn about
		
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			Islam from in a more practical
sense, are the Sahaba reason is
		
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			that from for theory, we learn it
from the Quran and the Sunnah, the
		
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			Quran and the Hadith, for example,
but the way the Hadith are
		
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			actually enacted, the way they
are, it's personalized in a human
		
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			being, you're gonna get that from
the sahaba. And there are so many
		
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			Sahaba to give us numerous
different manifestations of what
		
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			the Hadith are saying, because
when you read a hadith, how we
		
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			apply it, we may have some doubts
about that we may have some there
		
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			may be some obscurity in that
regard. But when you actually see
		
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			the companions and the way, they
did things in the light of what
		
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			they had learned from the
messenger of allah sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wasallam, then that really
helps us that's what I found to be
		
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			useful in all of this. And the
reason I picked this particular
		
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			individual, this particular female
companion of the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
because she has really inspired
		
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			me. She's an amazing individual,
not to say the others don't, but
		
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			there's just something about her
that you will find.
		
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			The person we're speaking about is
a smart been to Abdullah, a smart
		
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			the daughter of Abu Bakr is Abu
Bakr is his title. His name was
		
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			Abdullah Abu Kochava again is the
title of his father. Right. So, so
		
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			anyway,
		
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			or ignorant of man, that another
opinion, but whatever the case is,
		
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			her name is Asmaa daughter of Abu
Bakr, Siddiq or the Allahu Allah.
		
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			So she's the daughter of Abu Bakr
Siddiq, really Allah and most
		
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			people must have heard about Abu
Bakr Siddiq or the Allah one. Her
		
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			mother was
		
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			another quarter she was from the
Quraysh as well. And
		
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			she is the sister of Aisha Radi
Allahu Allah. She's the older
		
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			sister at least 10 years or more
older than I showed her the Allahu
		
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			anha
		
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			she had a different mother to a
shot of the Allah one or the other
		
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			had different waves over his over
his life. And the mother of our
		
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			Isha the Allahu anha Her name is
Amal Romain, whereas the daughter
		
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			aware
		
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			was the mother of, of a smart with
the Allahu Allah was was another
		
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			It was another wife. So they are
half sisters father is the same.
		
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			Now what we have to understand is
that when you're looking for
		
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			courage when you're looking for
chivalrous chivalry, courage,
		
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			valor, heroism, it's not
restricted to men only when you
		
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			when we will just go through our
brief biography of a smart lady
		
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			Allahu Allah, you will understand
that she is equivalent to hundreds
		
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			of men's, she is equivalent to
hundreds if not 1000s of men.
		
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			Right? So courage and valor. And
greatness doesn't discriminate
		
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			between men and women. And we have
to really understand that. And
		
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			when you look at the Sahaba, and
how they shone and what they
		
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			managed to achieve, then you will
actually see how Allah subhanho wa
		
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			Taala chooses people despite the
agenda. That's why Islam creates
		
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			heroes out of men and out of
women, not just out of men, you
		
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			may hear about the men much more
but there may be a greater number
		
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			of men, but let us not lose sight.
And let us not forget the women
		
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			who are the heroes that Islam has
created as well. So this great
		
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			Sahaba this great female companion
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam, you have to understand
what she is.
		
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			Number one, her father is a great
Sahabi her grandfather is a
		
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			Muslim, oh Kochava later became
Muslim. Her husband was none other
		
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			than the Hawaii of the Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam, the the
		
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			special assistants the special
supporter, just like isa Ali
		
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			salaam had a number of disciples.
The Prophet sallallahu sallam said
		
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			that my disciple is obeyed ignore
our arm that was her husband, her
		
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			son, and none other than the likes
of Abdullah hypnosis obeyed the
		
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			one who became a Khalifa
eventually.
		
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			Then she has Ottawa hypnosis obey,
she has a number of other sons as
		
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			well.
		
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			So her father, her grandfather,
her husband has sons, number of at
		
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			least one of her sons, they're all
Sahaba.
		
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			And then in sha Allah, you'll
understand what we're looking for
		
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			now, I'm going to give you a few
pointers as to what to look for in
		
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			her story.
		
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			Because this shouldn't be just the
narrative, this shouldn't be just
		
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			the story, this is going to be
inshallah a lesson for us that we
		
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			can all benefit both our brothers
and sisters. Because this is not
		
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			just that only the sisters can
benefit from this talk. This is
		
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			actually for brothers as well.
Because as I said, greatness, and
		
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			good qualities are something we
can all share.
		
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			The points we're going to be
looking for Inshallah, in today's
		
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			talk, number one coping with
difficulty. How does one cope with
		
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			difficult difficulty comes on
everybody. But how does a person
		
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			deal with difficulty?
		
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			Number two, being revolutionary,
doing something different, not
		
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			just following the grain, but
coming out of your comfort zone,
		
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			doing what somebody else, nobody
else, in fact does. Because it's
		
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			needed. And it's what's right at
the time, that's being
		
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			revolutionary, you're going to
look out for revolutionary ideas
		
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			from her. Number three, dealing
with an alien environment, maybe
		
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			how she deals with new
environments,
		
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			contribution to conquest or Dawa,
inviting others. Another aspect of
		
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			faith in the time of struggle, we
really need that Muslims are going
		
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			through a great struggle at this
time. Many are losing their faith
		
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			because they can't bother. They
want to be comfortable. But there
		
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			are going to be difficulties. So
how is a person able to hold on to
		
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			their faith at a time, just
general role in society. That's
		
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			another aspect. And then of
course, very specific to women
		
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			roles as mothers roles as females
roles as mothers. This is, these
		
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			are some of the things that we're
going to be looking at here. One
		
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			of the most famous things and most
popular things that you will hear
		
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			about a smarter the Allahu Anhu
whenever you do any search on her
		
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			and whenever you pick up any book
on her is that she's called a to
		
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			Anita arcane. nataka is the jewel
of NITAAC to detox, what's in the
		
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			dark. And the talk is like a
girdle or a belt, something that
		
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			women will use to basically
tighten their clothing around them
		
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			a kind of a belt of some sort. So
essentially a piece of cloth or
		
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			some other material that is used
to make a belt. So she is the
		
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			she's been called. She's known as
the one with the two belts. Now
		
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			why was that the case? Well, she
had a piece of cloth, she had a
		
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			cloth that she used to use. And on
one occasion when the province of
		
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			the last one was about to migrate
to Madina Munawwara
		
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			there was some food and supplies
that were being prepared but there
		
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			was nothing to tie them into, or
there was nothing to tie them up
		
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			with. So what she does, she was
quite young at the time. This was
		
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			before the migration. She was
quite young at the time. You can
		
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			tell her intelligence from here
that she immediately she took this
		
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			cloth the sheet that she had, she
tore it into two pieces, and she
		
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			used one to tie up the cloth that
cloth the profit and loss
		
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			intervene observing this, and he
gave her the title to Natalka in
		
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			because now she had two pieces,
one she used for a belt. The other
		
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			one, she used to tie up these
supplies, this pack lunch and
		
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			these other supplies for the road.
And she was extremely, extremely
		
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			proud of this title because the
prophets also had given her this
		
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			title, when a great person gives
you a title, then generally you
		
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			really revel in it. So that's why
she was called the verb to knit
		
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			Artane. That's what it means. Now,
another thing that we have to
		
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			understand is that despite the
fact that her father is this great
		
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			person, or grandfather, or
husband, or Son, why does it make
		
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			her great? The reason it makes her
great as well as not just because
		
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			of where she came from not because
of these individuals only. She was
		
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			great because of her Eman as well.
So let us not try to try to take a
		
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			ride on who our father or mother
is, or which village we come from
		
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			which postcode we live in, or
which family we come from, or what
		
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			background we have, that's going
to not help you in the accurate at
		
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			all. It's your own qualities, your
own Iman with Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala, that's going to be of
benefit. Every one of us maybe has
		
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			something that they can maybe brag
about. But let us not become
		
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			deluded. That's maybe not our
achievement. Let us not just ride
		
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			on the achievements of others and
think it's sufficient. We can ride
		
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			on the achievements of others, but
we need to make a name for ourself
		
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			for the right reason, then we will
be remembered for our own self
		
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			rather than through somebody else.
And that's exactly what she did.
		
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			That's exactly what she did. So
now what we have is, that's why
		
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			there's a poem in Arabic, which
says letter called ously latoken
		
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			ously. Were firstly above them in
Oslo Fatima called hustle.
		
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			Basically, don't keep saying that,
Oh, my lineage, my ancestry. My
		
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			background, I'm from this family
and I'm from that family. Don't
		
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			keep saying that forever. That's
not going to help you. The your
		
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			real origin. The real thing that
you stand on the foundations that
		
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			you stand on is what you actually
achieve. That's very important.
		
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			Now, a smart mint boubakeur,
acidic Radi Allahu anha her entire
		
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			life was full of iman. So from a
very young age, I think she was
		
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			only 14 years old when she became
Muslim. That is when the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu Sallam declared Islam
and her father was obvious the
		
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			first man to become Muslim
Khadija, the Allahu Anhu was the
		
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			first person and the first woman
to become Muslim, but the first
		
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			person as well. She became Muslim,
a smarter the Allah one who became
		
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			Muslim and she was only 14 years
old. And it looks like there were
		
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			only 17 Muslims at the time. So
she was probably the 18th one. So
		
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			that's very early on at that age,
she becomes Muslim, and then her
		
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			entire life seeing her father and
his closest to the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wasallam. It
taught her a great lesson. She
		
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			obviously benefited hugely from
that and her life reflected her
		
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			father's relationship with the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		
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			as well.
		
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			A very interesting incident tells
us her her intellectual acumen,
		
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			her insight into matters how she
was a very practical woman who
		
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			managed to deal with with issues
in a very practical way after her
		
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			father left with the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam. They
		
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			leave for Madina Munawwara for the
migration, they go secretly. Now
		
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			for that trip as Albuquerque, San
Diego, they pretty much took
		
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			everything, all of his wealth.
		
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			He took everything with him
because they would need it on the
		
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			way this was all preparation, the
two animals that he had the
		
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			additional supplies and everything
he took with him. His father, who
		
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			was a missionary who was a policy
at the time, it was not a Muslim
		
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			at the time, he says to a
smuggler, the Allahu anha. After
		
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			the after Bakr Siddiq or the Allah
one has disappeared. He says that
		
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			it looks like just as he has
disappeared himself, he's also not
		
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			left you any money and he's taken
all of his money with him as well.
		
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			And he's left you nothing. Now,
smartly, the Allahu Anhu felt that
		
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			it was a great affront, especially
from an Islamic perspective that
		
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			this is coming, though from her
grandfather, who is the father of
		
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			her father. And he could be saying
this in a fatherly way. But she
		
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			felt that this may be coming from
a mushrik apologist against Islam
		
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			as such. What she did is she says,
No, my my father, look, I'll show
		
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			you what he's left. What she did
was, she went to that place in the
		
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			wall that where they would
generally store their coins. She
		
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			went and put a number of stones in
the pebbles in there. She covered
		
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			it, covered it up with a cloth,
her grandfather couldn't see she
		
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			was blind. He and he she led him
to this place and says here, give
		
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			me your hand. And then she made
him feel around and he says, Oh,
		
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			your father has left you a lot.
That's good. He's left you a lot.
		
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			So you can tell her intelligence
right from that he is quite young,
		
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			right? 1415 years old, but she's
able to deal with these matters.
		
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			And today, I mean, we get our
young brothers and sisters 1415
		
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			years old. 16 years old, they lose
their phones and they start crying
		
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			I mean, no phones are bad to lose.
But the problem is that they flush
		
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			them everywhere, then they leave
them on a bus.
		
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			Because I remember I lost the
phone one. So the lesson I learned
		
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			from it is that when I'm sitting
in my car, whether as a driver or
		
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			passenger, don't leave your phone
on your lap, because when you get
		
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			up, it dropped somewhere. It's
obvious, isn't it? So keep it in
		
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			your pocket. Now a lot of us what
we do is when we're eating
		
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			somewhere, whatever we just leave
our phone on the table and that's
		
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			really a bad habit to be honest,
because it's just right for
		
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			pickpocketing. It's just right for
stealing. So mashallah, that's,
		
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			that's her state. On one occasion,
she says, just after this, she was
		
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			sleeping at night, and suddenly
there's a loud knock on the door.
		
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			So she opened the open door in the
middle of the night. And you know,
		
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			who's standing there, abou John,
one of the arch enemies, very
		
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			violent individual. And he you
could tell the anger on his face
		
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			because he just discovered it
looks like that the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu Sallam had left and
migrated had slipped out. Because
		
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			remember, if you know the story,
that they're actually all
		
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			congregated outside his house on
that very night, Coincidently,
		
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			right? That very night, they had
actually congregated outside to
		
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			try to kill him, you know, through
one individual from every tribe so
		
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			that the blame would be so far
spread that they wouldn't be able
		
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			to retaliate. But the province
also managed to slip out because
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala blinded the
eyes, which are unknowing being at
		
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			him said that
		
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			so he quickly burst into the
house, and you could tell he's
		
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			very angry, asking where's your
father? She says, she I don't
		
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			know. I don't know where he is.
Meaning at this point, I don't
		
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			know where he is. So he gave her a
slip by which her her earring fell
		
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			off. She remembers that slap that
he gave her a huge slap.
		
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			Finally, she also goes from maca,
maca, Rama and she also migrates
		
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			but she is heavily pregnant
because by this time, she has
		
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			married a zubaid in an hour and
Rhodiola Juan Zubaydah our I'm
		
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			ready Allah Who on the great
Sahabi now one thing about
		
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			Abdullah Hypno Zubaydah or the
Allah one, let's talk about she
		
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			becomes pregnant. And
		
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			in that state, she is under
migration on a camel on a horse
		
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			whatever it was, as soon as they
get to Madina, Munawwara and they
		
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			enter Masjid Koba that Koba area,
she gives birth, so you can tell
		
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			she was heavily pregnant, just
ready, and the and the child was
		
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			born to her ear. His name is
Abdullah.
		
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			That was the first child born to
the MaHA genie in the integrators
		
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			when they reached Madina Munawwara
and they were extremely excited
		
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			and happy. And the reason is that
there was I think there was some
		
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			rumors going around that there's
some spell a curse has been placed
		
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			on them, oh, hygiene, etc, that
they can't have children. So when
		
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			Abdullah Abu Zubaydah the Allahu
Anhu was born, there was a huge
		
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			amount of happiness. She sent the
child to the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam, and the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam took this child,
		
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			he he kissed him. And then he did
the technique. You know that
		
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			Danny, when you take a date, he
had a date, he chewed it soft and
		
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			put it into the child's palate.
That's what you call the hammock
		
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			is the palate so he placed it by
the palate and then if you do
		
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			this, you'll see that the child
really enjoys it because very
		
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			sweet, right? They really enjoy
it. So basically, the first thing
		
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			that enters into the mouth of
Abdullah Hebron is the better the
		
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			Allah is the saliva of the Prophet
sallallahu sallam. Now, for those
		
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			of you who don't understand this,
that this has a great huge
		
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			spiritual connotation. Right? You
know that we believe in this kind
		
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			of spiritual aspect here, that the
saliva the Prophet salallahu
		
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			Salam, the bless it, saliva is
going into his mouth first. And
		
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			thus, he becomes one of the
greatest and bravest of the of the
		
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			Sahaba later on.
		
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			So yeah, they took this baby and
they were going around, but then
		
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			I'm gonna wa la ilaha illAllah La
ilaha illAllah. Really, really
		
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			excited. Allahu Akbar. They were
saying all the way through.
		
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			This Abdullah Haman was available
while he was still a young, young,
		
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			young toddler young boy, actually
young boy, not a toddler, but
		
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			young boy. He was playing with
some of the other students. Sorry,
		
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			he was playing with some of the
other children at the time. Why am
		
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			I remembering students? Right? He
was playing with some of the other
		
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			children at the time some of the
other kids and American
		
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			photography Allah on passes by now
I'm going a little hotter from the
		
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			beginning had an aura about him.
He commanded a lot of ore. So the
		
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			children all ran away except
Abdullah Hamza bin, right, the son
		
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			of a smuggler, the Allahu Allah,
Allah, and he stands there he kind
		
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			of just looks at him you politely
he stands there politely not not
		
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			in a kind of with an attitude,
right? So the thing of amaro the
		
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			Allahu Allah is that he's
interested in what's happening
		
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			here. So he gets to him and he
says, young boy, how come you
		
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			didn't run when everybody else
ran? Why didn't you run away as
		
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			well? So look at the answer he
gives is a you help me.
		
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			You're not an oppressor, that I
need to be fearful of your
		
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			oppression.
		
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			And neither am I guilty for
anything that I must be fearful of
		
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			you punishing me
		
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			You're not guilty of anything,
either you're an oppressor. And
		
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			you know the path. There's enough
of it for both me and you, for you
		
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			and I there's enough road so that
you can just tell where this is
		
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			all coming from Ottawa, who is her
other son Abdullah as brother is
		
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			name is Ottawa. So Ottawa Ignacio
Valle, he says that
		
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			he relates from a smart lady
alone, his mother, his mother said
		
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			that disobeyed Him and our
Meridiana married me. And he had
		
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			nothing to his name. He was very
poor, very didn't, was actually
		
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			very, very poor, except his horse,
and a piece of land that the
		
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			profits and losses had given
gifted him, he had nothing else.
		
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			So he had in those days, you know,
you had servants, he had slaves,
		
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			whatever, he didn't have anything
else. So we had to do all the
		
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			work. So now, this is she saying
that I used to look after this
		
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			horse, I used to feed this horse,
I used to go and get the seeds and
		
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			everything I used to grind them.
And I used to get the other fodder
		
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			for this horse so that I could
feed this horse.
		
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			She says that he the piece of land
that he had was quite a distance
		
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			away. So I used to go all the way
there, pick all the seeds up, and
		
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			then put them on my head. And I
used to bring them back. And then
		
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			on one of these occasions, there
was a very famous incident that
		
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			took place, as she's coming back
with this bail on her on her head
		
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			carrying it back for him. She
didn't have to do this. But this
		
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			was just the husband and wife
relationship. This was just the
		
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			Hitman that she was doing. This
was just the just the assistance
		
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			that she was providing him. He was
working nights where she was
		
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			looking after the animal. So as
she goes past is the province of
		
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			law some day with a number of his
companions. He sees her in that
		
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			state room, but it's his sister in
law, because the province of Assam
		
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			is married to her sister, earshot
of the Allahu Ana. So he says it
		
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			which means get on the animal.
Right. So she remembered, I mean,
		
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			there was a lot of men there. And
she remembered that zubaid Even in
		
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			our model rhodiola, who has a lot
of self esteem, jealousy about his
		
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			wife, you know, he was known for
that, right? That is very
		
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			protective of his wife. So she
said no, right. She said, No, she
		
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			refused to go and ride on the
animal of the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam. So the Prophet
Allah some lifter, and then she
		
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			went, and then she went and told
this disobeyed Him that our *
		
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			Allahu, and that look, this is
what happened. So he said, Look,
		
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			you know, you're, you're carrying
this heavy weight on your head
		
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			that's actually more severe on me
than you having written the animal
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, that would have been
		
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			fine, but she's still refused for
whatever reason to go on there.
		
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			Eventually, though, a worker,
worker acidic or the Allah one
		
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			sent some help for them. And then
after that, she says that life
		
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			became easier. But you know, as
the Prophet, Allah says, In the
		
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			Quran, in the Marlos, three usara.
These were the humble beginnings
		
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			of zubaid, even Halawa. Now
remember, he is actually one of
		
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			the 10 that have been given the
glad tidings of paradise. Her
		
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			husband is one of the 10 that have
been given the gluttonous paradise
		
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			I shall Mashallah. And among those
10, he is actually up there with
		
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			earth Amanda, the Allahu, and
zubaid, sorry, Abdul Rahman
		
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			himself as being a millionaire, a
billionaire, he was extremely
		
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			wealthy afterwards. Right. So he
eventually became extremely
		
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			wealthy. So that's fine. You know,
if there's tough beginnings, it
		
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			doesn't have to remain tough for
the rest of your life.
		
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			We can only obviously touch on
some very salient features of her
		
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			life, because in the time that we
have, it was during the Khilafah.
		
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			Just one story that I do want to
talk about. Remember, this is a
		
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			Bakr Siddiq are the Allah one, the
closest to the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			sallam, he could have pretty much
had his daughter marry anybody one
		
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			of his daughter was married to the
Prophet salallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, he could have had her a
smart lady to marry to anybody he
		
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			wanted. But he lets her marry this
very poor man at that time is
		
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			available in our the Allah one.
And the reason for it is that you
		
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			look for quality, as opposed to
just material substance. If you
		
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			have quality, it will last
forever, that quality will stay
		
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			with a person forever. Whereas if
you have wealth, not to diminish
		
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			wealth in any way not to denigrate
it in any way. Wealth is fleeting,
		
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			you could lose it tomorrow, or you
may maintain it tomorrow. But at
		
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			least if you have the quality you
have the ability then to have
		
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			wealth with it as well. What's the
point of wealth with no good
		
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			qualities? So if there was a
choice between the two that's why
		
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			there was a famous stab at
somebody who came after the Sahaba
		
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			his name was
		
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			sorry he didn't know Musa say the
minimal say I'm
		
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			not saying given a job I'm sorry
the minimal say he had an amazing
		
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			daughter.
		
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			She was a big scholar in her own
right she was one of his students.
		
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			She was a huge scholars. She was
proposed to by so many different
		
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			people including the the prince of
the time. Abdul Malik new Marwan
		
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			who later became the Khalifa after
Zubaydah in Milan after sorry
		
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			after
		
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			The likeness of man. The person
who became Khalifa was Abdulmalik.
		
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			Number one. He proposed to her for
his son Walid when he didn't have
		
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			the money who later became the
Khalif. Right? And he refused. He
		
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			refused. On one occasion, what
happened is one of his students
		
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			disappeared as a faqeer student
who had no money. He disappeared
		
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			for two weeks. And he was
wondering where his students gone
		
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			for two weeks and Sunday when he
came back, he asked, Where have
		
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			you been? He says, My wife passed
away, my wife died. So you know, I
		
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			was taking care of a burial and
everything. And so he said to him,
		
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			are you married? Meaning do you
have another wife? He says, No, I
		
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			don't have another wife. I can't
marry another wife. I don't have
		
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			the money to marry another wife.
So I said, Okay, I'm gonna marry
		
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			you to my daughter, you my
daughter, I'm going to marry you
		
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			to my daughter,
		
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			whatever. Then he goes home that
day. And suddenly at nighttime,
		
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			right, in the evening, at
nighttime, he suddenly hears a
		
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			knock on the door. So he says, Who
is it? He says,
		
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			Saeed, and he says to himself, he
says later, when he's reporting
		
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			this, I thought of every side in
the world except my teacher, why
		
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			would my teacher come to my house,
that's too much of an honor. I
		
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			thought of every side, I would say
he does this coming at this time
		
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			of the night. So I opened the
door, and it's my teacher. And I
		
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			did my teacher is saying to me, I
brought your wife for you. I
		
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			didn't want you to sleep alone
tonight.
		
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			That's just amazing. She was a
sought after, she was beautiful.
		
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			She was a great scholar, she had
the knowledge, you know, you can
		
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			say this was a woman with a PhD in
the works. But he marries her to
		
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			this poor student of his because
their focus is something else. If
		
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			your intention is inshallah to
help people because medicine, you
		
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			know, scholars and medics, they're
very similar. Do you know that
		
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			scholars and medics are very
similar economy, economic
		
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			conditions don't don't effect
scholars and doctors, because
		
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			people still become sick. Right?
So you need to go to scholars for
		
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			spiritual sicknesses. And you need
to go to medics for physical
		
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			ailments. So you guys, you know,
scholars, and medics will always
		
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			be Inshallah, in demand. And we've
got more potential than engineers
		
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			than accountants to have learned
huge amounts of rewards, believe
		
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			me. And the reason is that if you
have the right intention, and the
		
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			motivation for why you are doing
medicine, then your entire study
		
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			and your entire life afterwards
could be just full of rewards. If
		
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			you haven't changed your
intentional corrected your
		
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			intention already, then you've
wasted a lot of time already. And
		
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			it's not too late yet have an
intention that because it's one of
		
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			those fields where you can you are
individually going to be
		
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			confronted by people with a need,
engineers aren't going to be as
		
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			much they have general needs
sometimes, right? But a lot of
		
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			their work is less, less directly
related. Whereas for medics it's
		
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			directly related. So believe me
you're in a wonderful vocation as
		
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			long as you do it right for the
right motivation and may Allah
		
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			give us the right motivation for
that.
		
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			So Inshallah, in general, you're
gonna get a lot of scholars and
		
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			medics Navy,
		
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			and others.
		
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			It was during
		
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			the Khilafah of her son at the
liveness debate after Malawi after
		
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			it Rudy Allah 100 Young became
holy for about six months, then
		
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			why we are the only became honey
for several years. Then his son
		
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			years Eid became honey for some
years after he died. Then the
		
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			people in Madina Munawwara in the
Hejaz, they gave their beta as to
		
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			make Abdullah Abu Zubaydah her son
to be the next Khalif of the
		
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			Muslims. Right. But there was a
lot of civil war during that time
		
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			because there they had the
Armenians in in in Damascus, you
		
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			know, who didn't agree with that.
And they felt that they had to
		
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			continue there. So there was
Marwan down there. So there were
		
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			skirmishes throughout his life,
but they were they did come a time
		
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			when he had much of the Muslim
world under him. But later he
		
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			started losing it when the son of
Marwan took over Abdulmalik number
		
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			one, and the reversal began until
eventually, until eventually what
		
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			happened is that he was then
confined to maca, maca, Rama
		
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			alone, right? It was quite a bad
scene at that time. It is no time
		
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			to go into that, though. If you do
want to listen to it. I've covered
		
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			it in what is it the signs of the
Day of Judgment. It's under the
		
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			signs of the day of judgment on
zum zum academy.com. I mean, you
		
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			can listen to the whole story of
Abdullah Agnes herbarium there but
		
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			it's not the time for it right
now. But during the time when he
		
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			is the Khalifa, when he is the
Khalifa and He is the ruler of the
		
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			Muslim world, or at least much
most of the Muslim world. Once his
		
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			mother invited him over and spoke
to him.
		
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			He used to actually live with his
mother, his mother, he used to
		
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			actually look after his mother
afterwards, because it transpires
		
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			that later there was a divorce
that took place an interesting
		
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			story of how that happened between
us martyr the Allahu Anhu and her
		
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			husband Zubaydah the alarm later
on. So she moved in with with
		
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			Hassan Abdullah Abu Zubaydah. He
said she she told him that look,
		
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			I've heard the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam
		
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			mentioning that the Kaaba which is
square right now as
		
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			as it is today a cube, it's
actually supposed to be rectangle.
		
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			And so Abdullah Hypnose Zubaydah.
The alarm says that my mother
		
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			Osama bin Abu Bakr, Siddiq has
told me that the Messenger of
		
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			Allah and Allah used to say to
each other the Allahu anha, her
		
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			sister, that if it wasn't that
your people had just become
		
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			Muslim, the Quran had just become
Muslim, out and come out of their
		
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			disbelief, you know, their state
of disbelief and I would have
		
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			taken the Kaaba and made it back
into the rectangular shape that it
		
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			used to be, right, because the
Kaaba before the Quraysh was or
		
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			during the time the coalition was
rectangular, but when they
		
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			renovated it, they didn't have
enough money to make it
		
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			rectangular sort of made it
square. And that's why they kept
		
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			that semi circular wall next to it
to show that that's also part of
		
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			the Kaaba, but then it was just
cut short.
		
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			So when he found out about this
up, the liveness obeyed. That's
		
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			what he did. He dug up the
foundations, and he made it into
		
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			the rectangle.
		
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			He made the rectangle, he added
two doors, both on ground level
		
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			one, two going from one one to go
out from because the reason the
		
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			coalition put the door higher up
is because then they could
		
00:31:04 --> 00:31:07
			regulate who go in there. Now you
might be thinking is that where is
		
00:31:07 --> 00:31:11
			all of this coming from and Aqaba
we see today is square. Right? So
		
00:31:11 --> 00:31:14
			exactly what happened, you will
find out later. Right. I'll just
		
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			tell you now that though he made
it rectangular, after her judge
		
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			took over and had him killed out
of spite, he put it back into the
		
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			square. Right. The scholars did
come later to our great sorry, not
		
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			the scholars, but some of the
later leaders. They came to Imam
		
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			Malik and said we want to make it
back into the rectangle as had
		
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			been the wish of the Prophet
salallahu Salam. But he said Look
		
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			now leave it because he's already
gone through all of this turmoil.
		
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			Every subsequent leader who hates
the previous leader is then going
		
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			to make this a plaything and a
demonstration or manifestation of
		
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			His power and thus keep changing
it so just leave it now so we're
		
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			stuck with it as it is right now.
Right though the profits or loss
		
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			unwanted it back into the
rectangular extended shape as
		
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			Ibrahim Ali Salam had originally
made it rectangular.
		
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			Now what happens is, it's just
some moments or some some time
		
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			before the before Abdullah
hiddenness debate is finally
		
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			finally martyred. He goes to visit
his mother. He goes to visit his
		
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			mother. She was by this time over
100 years old, extremely old, over
		
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			100 years old. And she it says
that she couldn't see at that
		
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			time. Maybe she had cataracts or
something but she'd lost her
		
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			eyesight by that time. She still
had all of the teeth though, but
		
00:32:30 --> 00:32:34
			she'd lost her eyesight. So he
said Sarah Malika uma
		
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			Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		
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			Peace be upon you. Oh, my mother.
And Allah's mercy and His
		
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			blessing. She says why Lika
salaam, yah, Abdullah.
		
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			He said, she said to him, what
brings you at this time,
		
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			there are all of these massive
bombs that are falling on Makkah.
		
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			And he was supposed to be
defending that because it's his
		
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			Khilafah. And they had judged him
the use of has been sent against
		
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			him to finally finish him off
there said all of this attack is
		
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			taking place on Maccha mukarram.
And at this time you come to see
		
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			me what is going on?
		
00:33:09 --> 00:33:13
			Generally, is the sheer luck, I've
come to ask you for your opinion
		
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			about something, some advice on
something?
		
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			What are you going to ask me
about? What advice are you going
		
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			to ask me said, Look, people have
people have humiliated me. And a
		
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			lot of my supporters they've left
to me, they've left me out either
		
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			out of fear for Hajaj and what he
will do to them, or out of out of
		
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			greed for what they've promised.
Because you know, people who are
		
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			being either bribed or whatever
the case is to leave his side. So
		
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			much so that even some of my own
family some of my own children
		
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			have turned away from me, he says,
and they've run away from me. I've
		
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			only got a small band of men with
me that remain with me. But the
		
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			problem is that they are so tired
and weary from the constant
		
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			battle, that any moment they
can't, they don't have they don't
		
00:34:01 --> 00:34:07
			have the same ability to withstand
this, as they did before. And also
		
00:34:07 --> 00:34:11
			now there's another proposal that
has come up. And the proposal is
		
00:34:11 --> 00:34:14
			that the bundle Omiya the
Romanians who are fighting against
		
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			him, they've sent me a proposal.
And they've told me that they're
		
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			willing to give me whatever I
want. Anything of the dunya
		
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			anything of the world, whatever
worldly possession I asked for,
		
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			and I demand from them, they're
willing to give it to me, as long
		
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			as I put down my weapons, and I
give the bait the pledge. The
		
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			pledge of allegiance to Abdullah
sorry, Abdul Malik. Number one,
		
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			the one they had given beta two on
the other side. What do you think
		
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			I should do? What do you think?
What do you what's your feeling?
		
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			She suddenly her voice
		
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			became raised and she said Shut
shut. Look, you're you're
		
00:34:50 --> 00:34:54
			Abdullah. It's up to you.
Abdullah, it's up to you. You know
		
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			your story better we're under and
there will be enough sick
		
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			if you believe that you are on the
truth.
		
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			Listen to these words carefully.
This is a mother, who is speaking
		
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			to a son who is about to be
killed. She knows he's gonna go
		
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			very soon, if he carries on the
way he, you know, in his mission,
		
00:35:10 --> 00:35:15
			and she is over 100 years old, and
she's speaking, she says, if you
		
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			are on the truth, and you have
been inviting to the truth, then
		
00:35:19 --> 00:35:23
			be patient and persevere, just as
your companions have have
		
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			persevered, those who've already
been killed in the past those
		
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			who've already been martyred in
the path under your banner,
		
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			they've gone for a cause. You need
to also be patient for that cause.
		
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			And if you feel if you feel that
you want the world now, you want
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:44
			the world now, then what a evil,
what a evil person you are, what
		
00:35:44 --> 00:35:48
			an evil person you are, then you
have destroyed yourself. And you
		
00:35:48 --> 00:35:51
			have destroyed your own people as
well. They have fought in vain,
		
00:35:52 --> 00:35:56
			you've destroyed them. So then he
turned to and he says, What are
		
00:35:56 --> 00:36:00
			kidney Mattoon alone, la Mahara.
Today, I'm gonna die. Regardless,
		
00:36:00 --> 00:36:03
			I'm definitely going to die today
because it was a small band of
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:08
			people. And that was it. He said,
I'm going to be dead. So then she
		
00:36:08 --> 00:36:11
			says to him, that he got hydro
luck, that is actually better for
		
00:36:11 --> 00:36:17
			you. Then you give yourself up to
her judge willingly. So then you
		
00:36:17 --> 00:36:21
			allow your head to be played with
by the young children of the
		
00:36:21 --> 00:36:23
			blooming of the Omega, they'll cut
your hair because they were known
		
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			to cut people's heads off and play
with it. Right? He says, she says
		
00:36:27 --> 00:36:31
			that's what's going to happen. So
he said, Let's do actual cattle. I
		
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			don't have a fear for death. I'm
not fearing the death. But I fear
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:38
			that they're going to mutilate my
body. That's the fear that I have.
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:42
			She said, You know what she said
that? What is the mother gonna say
		
00:36:42 --> 00:36:47
			that? She said, Lisa bad, the ugly
Maya half of will. After you die,
		
00:36:47 --> 00:36:51
			there should be nothing that you
fear for even a slaughtered sheep
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:56
			a slaughtered goat. It skinning it
doesn't harm it anymore. Doesn't
		
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			hurt him. He doesn't feel the pain
of its skinning.
		
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			Suddenly his face lit up. It says
that the lines of his face
		
00:37:04 --> 00:37:09
			suddenly lit, lit up. And he said
to her boo * in common. What
		
00:37:09 --> 00:37:12
			a blessing mother you are, what a
blessing mother you are. He's
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			basically saying this is exactly
what I wanted to hear from you.
		
00:37:16 --> 00:37:20
			boudic, the monarchy, monarchy,
baka Algeria, your great
		
00:37:20 --> 00:37:25
			excellencies may they be blessed
for you. I only came to you today
		
00:37:25 --> 00:37:29
			at this moment. So I can hear from
you what I have just heard. This
		
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			is exactly what I've come to hear
from you. By Allah. By Allah only
		
00:37:34 --> 00:37:39
			He knows that I have not become
weak and I have not become
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:45
			cowardly. He is a witness. He is a
witness that I did not embark upon
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:49
			what I embarked upon this entire
mission, this entire movement for
		
00:37:49 --> 00:37:53
			the love of this dunya or for its
adornments. It was purely for the
		
00:37:53 --> 00:37:57
			sake of Allah, it was purely for
the sake of Allah, because his
		
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			limits were being violated by
these people.
		
00:38:01 --> 00:38:06
			And here I am, I am going to
continue on to that which you are
		
00:38:06 --> 00:38:11
			pleased with. If I am to die
today, then do not grieve over me.
		
00:38:11 --> 00:38:16
			Do not grieve over me, and consign
my Mata to Allah subhanaw taala.
		
00:38:17 --> 00:38:19
			He is talking to his mother,
people have a special relationship
		
00:38:19 --> 00:38:24
			with their mothers. And she said
to him, I would only grieve over
		
00:38:24 --> 00:38:29
			you if you had died for falsehood.
I would only grieve over you if I
		
00:38:29 --> 00:38:30
			had died for falsehood.
		
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			And then he said,
		
00:38:33 --> 00:38:41
			Please, be fully confident, have
full trust that your son
		
00:38:42 --> 00:38:48
			has never listened to this. He's
saying that to her that make make
		
00:38:48 --> 00:38:53
			sure that you understand very
clearly and be in complete, be in
		
00:38:53 --> 00:38:57
			complete confidence that your son
has never purposely done any
		
00:38:57 --> 00:39:03
			wrong. He has never purposely
committed any indecency. He has
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:08
			never committed any indecency. He
has never oppressed anybody. And
		
00:39:08 --> 00:39:12
			neither has he been treacherous to
anybody. He has never purposely
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:15
			oppressed Indian Muslim or even a
non Muslim,
		
00:39:16 --> 00:39:21
			Muslim What am I ahead and there
is nothing according to him, which
		
00:39:21 --> 00:39:25
			is more pleasing than the pleasure
of Allah subhanho wa Taala I am
		
00:39:25 --> 00:39:29
			not saying this. He says I am not
saying this to you to purify
		
00:39:29 --> 00:39:34
			myself to my show myself as being
great. But
		
00:39:35 --> 00:39:38
			why am I saying this to you? He
says because Allah knows me better
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:43
			than I know myself. The reason I'm
saying this is because I want to
		
00:39:43 --> 00:39:49
			give you a condolence. I want to
show you I want to I want to just
		
00:39:49 --> 00:39:52
			give you some condolence that your
son is not dying in vain and
		
00:39:52 --> 00:39:56
			you're and you had a good son. I'm
just really focused on you. She's
		
00:39:56 --> 00:39:59
			saying, she said Alhamdulillah all
praises to Allah
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:05
			Who made you according to his his,
his wishes, and according to my
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:11
			wishes, and then after that, she's
she comes behind them. She comes
		
00:40:11 --> 00:40:15
			behind them to her son, Abdullah,
Agnes obey. And she says Come
		
00:40:15 --> 00:40:19
			closer to me. She says, Come
closer to me, so that I may smell
		
00:40:19 --> 00:40:23
			your fragrance your odor, and I
may hold your body
		
00:40:26 --> 00:40:30
			because this may be our last
meeting. This may be our last
		
00:40:30 --> 00:40:34
			meeting. So let me just hold on to
you for a while. So Abdullah knows
		
00:40:34 --> 00:40:37
			when he went down to where she was
sitting.
		
00:40:39 --> 00:40:43
			Her arms, her feet, he started
kissing them. And
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:53
			she was holding on to him.
Suddenly, it looked like she was
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:55
			feeding his body and she moved her
hand away.
		
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			And she says, What is this I see
you wearing Abdullah?
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:07
			Oh, that's my that's my armor. And
she said Lisa how they are Benny
		
00:41:07 --> 00:41:11
			Lee batsman, you read the Shahada.
This isn't the garments of the one
		
00:41:11 --> 00:41:13
			who wants to be martyred. This
isn't the garments of the one who
		
00:41:13 --> 00:41:17
			wants to be monitored. So you know
what he says to her. He says that
		
00:41:17 --> 00:41:22
			I only wore this to make you feel
good. To give you some comfort,
		
00:41:22 --> 00:41:25
			that's why I had worn it in the
first place. To give you some
		
00:41:25 --> 00:41:28
			comfort and to calm down and
satisfy your heart. She said take
		
00:41:28 --> 00:41:34
			it off you. She said take it off
you because if you take it off,
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:37
			you will be able to move faster,
you will be more lighter on your
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:41
			feet and that is what's going to
help you however, do wear.
		
00:41:42 --> 00:41:49
			He said do wear a double trousers
do it a double pant and the reason
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:53
			for that is when you do become
overcome when they do overcome you
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:58
			at least you will not become
denuded. That's the main thing. So
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:02
			Abdullah Agnes Zubaydah the other
immediately took off his armor,
		
00:42:03 --> 00:42:08
			and he put on the double his the
double pants on him. And then he
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:13
			went and he said to her make dua
for me. So she started to make dua
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:15
			for him. She said
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:19
			she raised her hands to the
heavens and she said, Oh Allah,
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:26
			have mercy. On his lengthy
standing in front of you, his
		
00:42:26 --> 00:42:31
			lengthy standing in front of you,
the intensity of his crying in the
		
00:42:31 --> 00:42:34
			darkness of of darkness is of
night when other people are
		
00:42:34 --> 00:42:40
			sleeping. Oh Allah. I have
consigned his him to you. I am
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:43
			satisfied with whatever you are
satisfied with for him.
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:49
			Oh Allah give me the reward of
those who are patients.
		
00:42:51 --> 00:42:57
			And oh Allah have mercy on his
obedience on his being obedient to
		
00:42:57 --> 00:42:58
			his mother and father.
		
00:43:02 --> 00:43:06
			I am satisfied with whatever
you're satisfied with that day the
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:09
			sun did not set except that
Abdullah Agnes Zubaydah the Allahu
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:14
			Anhu went and joined his Lord. And
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:20
			it was only about 14 days or so
later that she eventually leaves
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:23
			this world as well. She passes
away as well.
		
00:43:24 --> 00:43:27
			She goes to mocha mocha Rama where
her son was now remember, he'd
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:28
			been
		
00:43:29 --> 00:43:34
			his head has been cut off, or he
sorry, he'd been killed, and then
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:38
			he'd been hung. And there was
nobody brave enough to go and take
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:42
			him down. There was nobody brave
enough to go and take him down.
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:46
			When a smarter the Allahu anha got
there, she couldn't see properly.
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:52
			Her judge who was in Makkah at the
time, he sent somebody to bring
		
00:43:52 --> 00:43:56
			her to him. She refused to go. He
sent another person saying that if
		
00:43:56 --> 00:43:59
			you don't come, I'm going to send
some people to you to grab you by
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:04
			the four locks. To grab you by the
four locks and drag you to me, you
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:07
			can see is an extremely violent
guy, extremely violent guy, no
		
00:44:07 --> 00:44:12
			respect for anybody. So she
refused. says I'm by Allah, I'm
		
00:44:12 --> 00:44:16
			not going to come to you, even if
you call even if you send somebody
		
00:44:16 --> 00:44:19
			to drag me to you. Finally Hajaj
came to her.
		
00:44:20 --> 00:44:24
			She he came and he says, What do
you think I've done with the enemy
		
00:44:24 --> 00:44:27
			of Allah? What do you think I've
just done with the enemy of Allah
		
00:44:27 --> 00:44:31
			referring to a son. So the mother
or smart Radi Allahu Allah says
		
00:44:31 --> 00:44:37
			that what I have seen is that you
have destroyed his dunya for him.
		
00:44:38 --> 00:44:40
			You've just killed him in this
world. So you've destroyed his
		
00:44:40 --> 00:44:45
			dunya his world, but he has
destroyed your akhira he has
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:48
			destroyed your other worlds, your
next world.
		
00:44:49 --> 00:44:54
			It's reached me that you say you
said to him that you're the son of
		
00:44:54 --> 00:44:58
			the one with the two bells as a
denigration he had been saying
		
00:44:58 --> 00:44:59
			that in a mock
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:03
			Anyway, I've heard so she's
addressing him saying that I've
		
00:45:03 --> 00:45:05
			heard that you've been saying that
to my son.
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:11
			I am by Allah I am that to Anita
Kane. As far as one of them I used
		
00:45:11 --> 00:45:14
			to I tied with it the food and
supplies of the Prophet sallallahu
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:19
			sallam, and the other one. I used
it for what women use it for. So
		
00:45:19 --> 00:45:24
			what's the problem with that? But
all I know, and she gives him back
		
00:45:24 --> 00:45:28
			as much as she gets, even at this
age. She says, You know what? I
		
00:45:28 --> 00:45:31
			have heard that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:35
			said, that among the blue Saki,
which was his tribe, had George's
		
00:45:35 --> 00:45:38
			tribe was a thief says among the
bandwidth taki if will come to
		
00:45:38 --> 00:45:41
			people from them will come two
people, one will be the imposter
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:45
			who will claim prophecy, and the
other one was going to be this
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:49
			destructive person, very
destructive person. As far as the
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:52
			imposter. We've all seen him
referring to Mortara McAfee, who
		
00:45:52 --> 00:45:57
			passed before and as far as this
destructive person is concerned, I
		
00:45:57 --> 00:45:58
			have no doubt that it's you.
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:04
			This is after all the warnings he
had given her her judge at that
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:09
			time you didn't respond to her you
went away. Now eventually, there's
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:14
			a another exchange that took
place. And in that case, it was
		
00:46:14 --> 00:46:17
			something similar but finally the
words reached the Khalifa who was
		
00:46:17 --> 00:46:21
			Abdulmalik number one, obviously
for him the
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:25
			Hedgehog is the one who had
actually put everything in order
		
00:46:25 --> 00:46:27
			for him. So you probably
appreciated him for that but he
		
00:46:27 --> 00:46:31
			was unhappy of the way he
addressed a smarter the Allahu
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:35
			Allah. So he said, My luck well
immunity originally solid, what's
		
00:46:35 --> 00:46:38
			your problem? Why do you have Why
are you acting this way with the
		
00:46:38 --> 00:46:41
			daughter of a really righteous man
Abu Bakr, Siddiq, or the hola Juan
		
00:46:41 --> 00:46:45
			and then he ordered him that he
should take down Abdullah Hypnose
		
00:46:45 --> 00:46:49
			Zubaydah, the hola Juan from the
wooden post that he was on. So
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:52
			then finally, smartly, Allahu
Allah was the only one who was he
		
00:46:52 --> 00:46:56
			lay there for a while. It was only
a smart lady at her age, who then
		
00:46:56 --> 00:46:59
			went maybe with the help of
others, who went and took the body
		
00:46:59 --> 00:47:03
			and bathed it shouted perfumed it
and then prayed upon it, and then
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:04
			had him buried.
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:11
			And then after a few days, she
passed away. In fact, on it may
		
00:47:11 --> 00:47:14
			have been the same occasion when
he came to a smarter the Allah and
		
00:47:14 --> 00:47:18
			He says, Yeah, OMA or mother, just
out of maybe showing some kind of
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:22
			respect. In a mirror meaning was
sign Ubik because you're not after
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:25
			Abdulmalik. Number one told her
that you must deal with a properly
		
00:47:26 --> 00:47:28
			so I think he must have come
again. And this time, he said, Oh,
		
00:47:28 --> 00:47:32
			mother, out of respect. The
Ameerul Momineen has told me to
		
00:47:32 --> 00:47:35
			treat you well. For her lucky when
Hajah Do you have any needs? Is
		
00:47:35 --> 00:47:39
			there anything I can do for you? I
know what she says, Let's do
		
00:47:39 --> 00:47:43
			lucky. Um, let's do like her own.
I'm not a mother of yours. I'm not
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:48
			your mother. But I am the mother
of the one who has been crucified
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:51
			on that wooden post, and I have no
need from you. But I will tell
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:55
			you, and then she mentioned that
statement that the prophets of
		
00:47:55 --> 00:47:57
			Allah Islam has mentioned the two
things.
		
00:47:58 --> 00:48:02
			It mentions in on another
occasion, that
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:06
			if no Amara, the Allahu Anhu
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:10
			the great Sahabi he was told that
a smart Radi Allahu anha is in the
		
00:48:10 --> 00:48:13
			corner of the Masjid. This was
when Abdullah Hemant Zubaydah the
		
00:48:13 --> 00:48:17
			Allah had been had been Hunk and a
smarter the Allahu Anhu was there.
		
00:48:17 --> 00:48:20
			So this is Abdullah Agnew. Omar,
he came to her
		
00:48:21 --> 00:48:25
			to maybe give her some condolence,
maybe just calm her down. And he
		
00:48:25 --> 00:48:28
			said to her that look, the souls
are all by Allah, while he may
		
00:48:28 --> 00:48:32
			have been killed the souls are all
by Allah subhanho wa taala. You
		
00:48:32 --> 00:48:35
			just fear Allah and be patient,
fear Allah and just persevere
		
00:48:35 --> 00:48:38
			through this difficulty. And she
says, What am I am not only what
		
00:48:38 --> 00:48:41
			is going to prevent me from
persevering? What can others do?
		
00:48:41 --> 00:48:44
			So yeah, here administer Korea.
Illa bug him in Bahasa Bani
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:49
			Israel. She said that before me
the John Yaya alayhi salam, the
		
00:48:49 --> 00:48:53
			son of the Korea Ali salaam, his
head was cut off and was given to
		
00:48:53 --> 00:48:56
			a prostitute of that time, an
unchaste woman of that time, so
		
00:48:56 --> 00:48:59
			why what what should prevent me
from being patient when they were
		
00:48:59 --> 00:49:02
			patient at that time, she was just
too much in tune with the with our
		
00:49:02 --> 00:49:06
			heritage. She knew exactly what to
do. She didn't lose her mind in
		
00:49:06 --> 00:49:08
			any of these in any of these
situations.
		
00:49:10 --> 00:49:11
			Now what happens is
		
00:49:14 --> 00:49:17
			she passes away, but just a few
things that are known about her
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:19
			I'd like to mention about some of
Her Excellency is
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:24
			it's about her that it's related
that her mother came to visit her
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:28
			mother was not a Muslim. Right her
mother was not a Muslim at that
		
00:49:28 --> 00:49:31
			time, at least. When she came to
visit she said hold on I need to
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:34
			go and find out whether I can
interact with you where I can
		
00:49:34 --> 00:49:37
			still have the same relationship
with you. So she went to the
		
00:49:37 --> 00:49:40
			Barber Salon services in my
mother's come Can I have the same
		
00:49:40 --> 00:49:43
			relationship? Because yes, of
course, she's your mother. Still,
		
00:49:43 --> 00:49:45
			you know, go and go and tie the
knots of kinship with her.
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:52
			Kasim Abner Mohammed says that he
heard Abdullah hipness Aveda the
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:54
			Allahu Anhu saying that there are
I've not seen
		
00:49:56 --> 00:49:59
			there are two women. He's talking
about his his mother and his aunt
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:04
			He's talking about I show the
smart he says, I haven't seen any
		
00:50:04 --> 00:50:08
			woman, any women who are more
generous than those two women. The
		
00:50:08 --> 00:50:11
			only difference in their
generosity is that a smart lady,
		
00:50:11 --> 00:50:15
			Allah, I showed her the Allahu
anha, when she used to get her
		
00:50:15 --> 00:50:18
			supplies, you know, whatever was
given to her, her yearly supplies
		
00:50:18 --> 00:50:21
			and everything, she would gather
whatever bits she had together
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:23
			until she had enough, and then she
would go and give it out to the
		
00:50:23 --> 00:50:27
			poor. Whereas a smarter the Allahu
anha, her focus was totally
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:31
			different. Whatever she got, she
would give out, she wouldn't even
		
00:50:31 --> 00:50:34
			wait to gather it together. And
she would tell, she would actually
		
00:50:34 --> 00:50:36
			tell her, the women folk and
everybody in the house to do the
		
00:50:36 --> 00:50:39
			same, she would, she would just,
she would just give everything
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:39
			out.
		
00:50:40 --> 00:50:46
			She died after a few nights after
her son had passed away. This was
		
00:50:46 --> 00:50:51
			about the 17th of Jumada Lula in
the year, 73 Hijiri, 73 Hijiri,
		
00:50:51 --> 00:50:53
			the same year as her son. And
		
00:50:54 --> 00:50:59
			you can tell from her the the
various different excellencies the
		
00:50:59 --> 00:51:02
			various different merits the
various different qualities that
		
00:51:02 --> 00:51:06
			we get from her, which is extreme
intelligence, being a very
		
00:51:06 --> 00:51:10
			reasonable woman, being very quick
to make decisions and judgments
		
00:51:10 --> 00:51:15
			extremely courageous, not fearful
at all, even at the old age, look
		
00:51:15 --> 00:51:19
			at the interaction that she has
with her with her son, and also
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:23
			look at the service that she
provided to her husband by going
		
00:51:23 --> 00:51:27
			all of those miles and picking up
everything. So she was an all
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:29
			rounder. She is not just some
intellect. You know, you get some
		
00:51:29 --> 00:51:31
			people who are just very
intellectual, and they're very
		
00:51:31 --> 00:51:35
			good in laboratories. They're very
good in the academic setting, and
		
00:51:35 --> 00:51:38
			so on. But when they go home, they
have no idea how to interact with
		
00:51:38 --> 00:51:41
			anybody. Right? And you have some
people who are very good with
		
00:51:41 --> 00:51:44
			everybody, but they're not very
intellectual. She had everything.
		
00:51:44 --> 00:51:47
			She was very intellectual, but
such a decent person of character
		
00:51:47 --> 00:51:49
			and willing to serve others as
well.
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:56
			She left a number of children her
children were asked him muhajir
		
00:51:56 --> 00:52:02
			Ottawa mother, Hadiya, Khadija
Cobra, and Omar, Hassan and Aisha.
		
00:52:03 --> 00:52:07
			These were these were her
children. So we ask Allah subhanho
		
00:52:07 --> 00:52:08
			wa Taala to
		
00:52:09 --> 00:52:13
			allow us to benefit from the great
qualities that we have just heard
		
00:52:13 --> 00:52:18
			of a smarter the Allah may Allah
grant a greatness in where she is
		
00:52:18 --> 00:52:22
			right now. And where she will go
in the hereafter May Allah granted
		
00:52:22 --> 00:52:25
			the greatest places in Jannah to
refer those and her entire family.
		
00:52:25 --> 00:52:28
			And may Allah allow us to be
inspired. And may Allah allow us
		
00:52:28 --> 00:52:32
			to also be like these people and
to have in our families, people
		
00:52:32 --> 00:52:36
			like this, and to be truthful to
Allah subhanaw taala and His
		
00:52:36 --> 00:52:39
			Messenger Salallahu Salam, the way
she was working with Ariana and Al
		
00:52:39 --> 00:52:41
			hamdu, lillahi, Rabbil aalameen.
		
00:52:42 --> 00:52:46
			She got divorce here, I didn't
want to prolong the story, because
		
00:52:46 --> 00:52:48
			sometimes I get into all of these
side points. So what what it is,
		
00:52:48 --> 00:52:51
			is that there's about three
opinions as to exactly what
		
00:52:51 --> 00:52:53
			happened. But it was actually
because of Abdullah was aware that
		
00:52:53 --> 00:52:54
			she got divorced.
		
00:52:56 --> 00:52:58
			Now you have to remember that in
those days, divorce was quite
		
00:52:58 --> 00:53:02
			easy, right? It didn't hold the
stigma that it did today. Right?
		
00:53:02 --> 00:53:05
			So let's just base it on that. I'm
sure he must have had other wives
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:08
			as well. I wouldn't be surprised.
Abdullah sorry. So bear with me.
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:12
			So what happened is, there's a
number of stories, but one of them
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:16
			is that they had an argument. And
Abdullah meaning the husband wife
		
00:53:16 --> 00:53:21
			had an argument and Abdullah is
there. An Zubaydah the Antos his
		
00:53:21 --> 00:53:23
			son, if you come in here, your
mother is going to be divorced.
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:26
			Right? If you come inside the
room, your mother's he was You
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:28
			stay out of it. But he came in.
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:34
			Right, he came in so she got
divorced. So then she moved in
		
00:53:34 --> 00:53:35
			with Abdullah Agnes obey.
		
00:53:38 --> 00:53:42
			What is important here is that
don't get carried away with your
		
00:53:42 --> 00:53:45
			the normal trend of what everybody
else is doing. Unfortunately,
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:48
			what's happening, and I've seen
this more in America than I've
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:51
			seen here, but I'm sure it's
happening here now as well, which
		
00:53:51 --> 00:53:55
			is that everybody is is basically
saying that look, my son's doing
		
00:53:55 --> 00:53:59
			this. So then suddenly, you feel
that your son and daughter must do
		
00:53:59 --> 00:54:02
			the same thing. Or my son is going
to impair my daughter's got into
		
00:54:02 --> 00:54:07
			Imperial with your son got into
where's your daughter got into? So
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:10
			in suddenly everybody wants a
license becoming a doctor? Right?
		
00:54:10 --> 00:54:15
			A doctor? So everybody feels that,
then they have to do that as well.
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:20
			You just have to really understand
what is the what is the focus and
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:24
			what really ultimately matters.
Don't get stuck. Don't get don't
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:29
			get stuck in the adornments of
what everybody else is doing. Have
		
00:54:29 --> 00:54:33
			your own principles, let these
people be your guiding lights. So
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:37
			really what I want to do is I want
to ask at least two or three of
		
00:54:37 --> 00:54:40
			you what you found to be the most
salient feature that has somehow
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:44
			inshallah impacted you. Right. So
we've, we've had this point that
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:48
			you've brought up, right, can we
have another point from this side
		
00:54:49 --> 00:54:54
			of something that you think that
you can resonate with, or that
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:59
			hopefully will help to, to clarify
and to
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:03
			To improve your understanding, or
maybe change your understanding
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:06
			and perspective, maybe can can we
have somebody? Yes. Yeah, you see,
		
00:55:06 --> 00:55:09
			I didn't think of it from that
perspective, that's actually a
		
00:55:09 --> 00:55:12
			very important perspective, that
we are very quick to keep blaming
		
00:55:12 --> 00:55:18
			our parents, because we are, what
is the generation we called the
		
00:55:18 --> 00:55:21
			complaining generation or
something where we just complain
		
00:55:21 --> 00:55:25
			about everything, right, so to
appreciate your parents for what
		
00:55:25 --> 00:55:29
			they have given us, and even to
defend them in things that we
		
00:55:29 --> 00:55:31
			don't at least to keep your like,
you're not going to go to school
		
00:55:31 --> 00:55:33
			to start today with my dad doesn't
bind me that stuff. You know, my,
		
00:55:33 --> 00:55:36
			my parents are like this, my
parents are like that. That's
		
00:55:36 --> 00:55:39
			probably the vilest thing that you
can do to put your parents down in
		
00:55:39 --> 00:55:40
			front of others.
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:43
			I used to defend my parents, I
didn't have much, you know, my
		
00:55:43 --> 00:55:47
			spending money was very small when
I was young. I used to get even in
		
00:55:47 --> 00:55:50
			mother's house to get one pound a
week. And we used to go out the
		
00:55:50 --> 00:55:54
			next day, and I used to packet of
chips of 70, Pence couldn't even
		
00:55:54 --> 00:55:58
			buy a fish with it. Right?
Seriously, it was about one pound
		
00:55:58 --> 00:56:02
			50 for efficient chips in those
days up north. Right.
		
00:56:03 --> 00:56:06
			So I used to get a power nice to
finish on Saturday. And then after
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:09
			that I had no money for the rest
of the week. But I never once
		
00:56:09 --> 00:56:10
			complained to anybody.
		
00:56:11 --> 00:56:14
			And I remember once one of my
teachers, he said read certain
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:15
			Muslim men.
		
00:56:16 --> 00:56:19
			And you will get Baraka in your
wealth. And I started reading it.
		
00:56:19 --> 00:56:22
			The next week, I got a job in the
mother as I got seven pounds a
		
00:56:22 --> 00:56:22
			week,
		
00:56:23 --> 00:56:26
			one pound to seven pounds, which
is a lot of money in those days.
		
00:56:26 --> 00:56:29
			And since that day, I've never
looked back anything I've wanted,
		
00:56:29 --> 00:56:33
			Allah has given me right. So at
the end of the day, if you have
		
00:56:33 --> 00:56:36
			trust in Allah subhana wa Tada and
I don't even have much trust, you
		
00:56:36 --> 00:56:39
			just put a bit of trust in Allah,
Allah will start giving you so
		
00:56:39 --> 00:56:43
			yeah, never denigrate your parents
never denigrate your parents.
		
00:56:43 --> 00:56:47
			That's a very good point. Another
point, she she had a lot of guts.
		
00:56:47 --> 00:56:50
			I mean, the fact that even when
she's pregnant, she undertakes
		
00:56:50 --> 00:56:54
			that journey. Right, you can tell
she's got a lot of guts, you know,
		
00:56:54 --> 00:56:57
			we only covered a bit of a life,
we couldn't cover too much more
		
00:56:57 --> 00:57:01
			just some of the salient features.
But to say that that exchange with
		
00:57:01 --> 00:57:05
			her son was just amazing, you
know, to to focus on what's right,
		
00:57:05 --> 00:57:10
			in that context, right? We're not,
we're not saying by the story that
		
00:57:10 --> 00:57:13
			you must tell your children to go
out on war or something, right,
		
00:57:13 --> 00:57:16
			don't get that wrong. It's just
that unfortunately, in that time,
		
00:57:16 --> 00:57:20
			there was just a lot of blood that
was being spilled. And the stories
		
00:57:20 --> 00:57:23
			just include some of that, but we
need to take the wisdom from there
		
00:57:23 --> 00:57:27
			and apply to our situation.
Because we need a lot more people
		
00:57:27 --> 00:57:30
			with that kind of fortitude in sha
Allah. And the other thing that
		
00:57:30 --> 00:57:33
			you realize is that today, we've
got crazy stuff going on in Saudi
		
00:57:33 --> 00:57:36
			and other places. May Allah
protect us, and may Allah protect
		
00:57:36 --> 00:57:39
			the Muslim world because you can
see some of the movements that are
		
00:57:39 --> 00:57:42
			taking place. But listening to
this today, doesn't it tell you
		
00:57:42 --> 00:57:45
			that we've already encountered
these things before in the
		
00:57:45 --> 00:57:49
			heartlands in MK karma, karma, it
was being attacked. They were
		
00:57:49 --> 00:57:53
			attack attacking it with huge
catapults, right to get up the
		
00:57:53 --> 00:57:56
			liveness Zubaydah the Allahu Anhu
out of it. So all of this has
		
00:57:56 --> 00:57:59
			happened before this is not
unprecedented. And none of this
		
00:57:59 --> 00:58:03
			should actually cause us to lose
our faith. We've had ups and
		
00:58:03 --> 00:58:07
			downs. Just like a lot where Allah
bless you, Allah bless all of us,
		
00:58:07 --> 00:58:11
			and those whatever you're doing,
may Allah give you the Tofik and
		
00:58:11 --> 00:58:15
			acidophilic to do something for
his sake, whatever we're doing
		
00:58:15 --> 00:58:18
			Allah accept us for the service of
his Deen. He knows best how to do
		
00:58:18 --> 00:58:21
			that will ask you to Darwin and Al
hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen