Abdur-Raheem McCarthy – Give them another chance – Behind the revelation episode 11 I Abdur Raheem McCarthy

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The speaker discusses the importance of not giving up on one's religion and not giving up on their partner. They also mention the need for acceptance of one's religion and partner's manners in marriage. The speaker emphasizes the need for acceptance and acceptance of one's religion in marriage.

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			murkily BSL Radi Allahu Allah and the companion of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he
married his sister to a man who after some time divorced her. And after this, he regretted it. He
wants to take her back, but she had finished her death. So he came back to happen to her brother and
asked if he could take her back and he couldn't marry her again. And in the beginning, when he had
came and requested his sister Mapple made a big feast for him and he honored him and he gave him his
sister. So he reminded him of this. He said, last time you came, we know he took care of you. We
made a big feast for you. We married your sister and then you're going to divorce her. He said, No
		
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			way. I will never allow my sister to remarry you then Allah subhanaw taala set down the verse in
Surah Al Baqarah. What either Paula ko tomo Nisa Bulaga Angela Hoon. And when you divorce your
women, and they have fulfilled their term faletau, dodo Hoon, a and Ghana as well as either todo
Boehner home, build my roof, do not forbid them from marrying their previous husbands, if they come
to an agreement on acceptable basis between themselves as long as it is upon that which is my roof
that which is good, and there's still love there, and each of them have realized that they made a
mistake, then give them a second chance, let them get back together. Then Allah warns and he gives a
		
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			reminder, then ICA you will either be human can I mean come, you may know be law, he will human
earth here. This is what Allah reminds the one from you who believes in a law and the Last Day,
don't let your pride or anything else get in the way of doing that which is beneficial for those who
you're in charge of. And this is also reminder to those who are in charge of their daughters or the
brothers who are in charge of the Sisters of getting them married, of letting them marry the ones
who they want. If they are a good Muslim. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said when someone
comes in proposes and you are pleased with his deen and his Kulu with his religion and his manners,
		
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			then marry him. Then Allah said then you come as Carla como upon is pure, it's better for you is
better for them. It's better for the society. And that's why if you look at the Hadith we just
mentioned, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said if someone comes and you're pleased
with his religion and his manners that you should marry him. What did he say at the end of the
Hadith? He said that if you don't do it, you don't marry him. What's going to happen? He said that
fitna turmoil and facade corruption will spread throughout the earth. Then Allah ends the verse
while law who ya allah mu one two letter Allah moon and ALLAH knows and you know not because from
		
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			the objectives of Islam is to make the marriage easy and to make it last