Abdulbary Yahya – The Hajj of The Prophet The Story of Hajj
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The importance of testing and showing one's behavior during busy days is discussed, along with the benefits of praying in a combined time to increase chances of receiving a message from the Prophet Muhammad. The speakers emphasize the importance of privacy and respect for others' beliefs, as well as the need for strong families and community. The conversation also touches on the negative impact of protests in Iran and the importance of not combining prayer and words like "verily your blood" and "verily your blood." Finally, the importance of fulfilling obligations and avoiding negative behavior is emphasized.
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You start for 5g. So if you can't, let's say, failure on the on the day or the day, somebody prays, forget. And when they will they were in Ottawa, and then they have to do something they left.
That will be
valid, according to the anomala. Others, but all of them will say things that they consider that target, but do you have to? Or do you have to pay or not? That's the thing if somebody leaves before, is it Do they still have to pay or not? And so for this, because the sooner they stay until sunset, why? Because you want to catch the day and the night, the day and the night of Arafah? Well, because he had to have part of the day and part of the night. So let's say you couldn't, sometimes there's traffic and you didn't make it to Ottawa, you didn't because in the old days, sometimes you have traffic, something happens on the road, you leave, you know, there are millions of people. In
fact, this ad is more than most, most years. Like there are a lot of people so the traffic sometimes is not very, very happy. So you can get stuck in traffic for six hours, six to eight hours, and I have been stuck in traffic for an actually but the longest I've ever despite the fact that was 16 hours.
It's been one of the years is that we're stuck at height for 16 hours, right? Why?
Somebody
who's working on
firewalls
almost
stepped up people are already buying fireworks.
So hamdulillah So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he, he the first thing that he did, was he when he arrived in MENA, or in Africa, there was a book bar that was made for him. What is the
hope as a dome?
in Arabia, you know what they used to do? If you had in those lights? It was sort of like a tent. But you have you have tents that are made of cloth. But what's the best hat that you can make? It takes longer?
But something like that, what the people in? What do you have? Do you have do you have like sticks, or anything like that what the people used to do sometimes was they would have like the England's
you know that the England's so they would make, they would make it with clay, and they would have the bricks, and they will put it together. And it was sort of like a place where you can spend your time. And so there was a companion lead made for the crops and so they could spend, spend time in rest, and time in rest when he was not in all of that, but just outside right before in the value of a product. So the messenger of a loss of love did not into our fun yet. He spent the first part of the day. And so that's why the first part of the day, if your tire someone's tired, they should rest. But they could rest because the real time in which
is the time in which you prefer to for supplication is after the world after Google after Google prayer. So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would go he went also to offer us and he took eight or 10 He took one road, and they they call it labor law. This is the path. This is the quickest path they that particular
have been all over each other.
Right?
In some of the stores I mentioned, why don't you take the same route.
He will enter from above the north, from the north from above it when he left back.
On the south, so every time he was going into Baghdad, you will enter from one way and it will leave the other way. And some of the scholars have mentioned some of that, you know when on the day of judgment on the Day of Judgment when you're doing acts of worship
Everything around you testifies.
Everything around you testifies for it. So to increase in all of the things that are surrounding you, the surroundings to testify for you, as any step in any place that you are, they will testify for you on the Day of Judgment. So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if he would, he would take a different route. So, the Prophet sallallahu are going with the Messenger of Allah, Allah Allah has arrived in Benin, or arrived in Orissa,
he spent a day or the first part of the day in an area of nebula Nebula is part of it. And right now there's a masjid. It's called Masjid Nebula, and huge muscular. The half of it is made and made in America. And the other half is in and outside.
So you're if you're there, you don't have to be there. I when I made hives, only I was only in the masjid one time it was so it's so crowded. It's just, it's better not to be there. Especially with bathrooms if you need to use the bathroom.
May Allah help you. Because the line, there's at least 30 people preferably at least minimum 30 people in front of you in the bathroom because there's so many people in that particular area. But when people pray that as soon as the pump is over, the everyone moves from one side of the masjid and they go to the other side. So that's that's the gap right now, that area right now. That was where the office of advisors president he went. And it's the masjid known as mustard. If you ever go, you'll be able to see that in sha Allah.
A couple of couple of things.
In relation to the art of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he rested and he moved on to regarded as camo Caspar and the he went, and
and so
when he was in the Valley of, of the valley and Roadrunner, that's when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he
got up on his camel. And this is what he gave his equipment. This
is known as putt, putt, putt, putt. And with that, so the Messenger of Allah, Allah was speaking to how many people?
Hundreds, over 100,000 people, you have different some people, he says it's 1000 people at least
1000 people, so when you're sleeping, so are the 1000 people?
How are they How are all these people able to hear? For us, if we turn off this, the microphone, and you guys are like you can see right now
you can then hear and I can even speak loudly, if I have a larger crowd, it will be very, very difficult to get. Right. But when the Prophet said a lot of us to speak, the companions are quiet number one. Secondly, he will repeat everything that he said.
And when he repeated everything that they will always a person. As soon as your voice reaches a certain area where it's about to end, there is a person there, they look repeat, but the next group of people to hear but you know, you might say, you know when you play telephone, you start with the sentence. And at the end, you do you do you have a totally different sentence. And totally different right? At the end is everything is totally different. So how do you make sure that that's not changed?
Like how can you make sure that at the end is not changed?
How the Prophet SAW did was everything that he said he will repeat it three times
he will repeat it three times every sentence, every time we will speak it will be you will mention it and then it will be repeated. And then the second time, so if you misheard something, then you will correct yourself. Because they will say it again. And then that message will come to you again. And then second three times. So that's why if you do it three times, generally you're going to be able to you know, first time we might oh wait, did I hear that correctly? So you have some whatever you heard, and then the second time you will be able to correct that and the third time you're sure this is okay. This is a first second which one is it? Okay, this is this is confirmation of what was
said. So the Prophet sallallahu moved down to the back to the Valley of Roadrunner and this is what he gave us
fullmetal Maga and the caller will come back as far as I mentioned, but
let me continue and finish the day. So the messenger of Allah Allah He finished his football. So his football was when it was before the prayer
Some people they I remember in hardware uses people get confused. Like, wait is it like, is it like eight when you give you you pray for us and then you give the footpath. Now the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he gave his quote, and then he ordered we laugh, make the alarm, you and it's so nice to make your foot but not long, of course. So here's the first one. And we'll go through some of the some of the benefits from a minute on the order biller to make the other. And when the orders have to meet the farmer and the feet, the people prayed over, after they prayed over in order to prevent the karma. So before this, how did he pray in a minute, you will pay two or $5
over to rock and during arson. But in honor of
the Messenger of Allah Allah I pray jump
in combined combine lower is also during the overtime. That why? Because the next the day, the time that's coming afterwards is very, very long. And you need that to be longer because you're making dua, right? Because you want to you want to spend time. So you finish your prayers already. And the next thing that you have, and you continue to only have your
time for the whole time. And so the Messenger of Allah awesome, love it myself continued, he used to sit down on his camera. And that's why if you there are some people who are in their cars, you can still sit in your car, I mean, if you're in like an auto fine, you have a car that's good, or you're in the bus, you can do you can still make your as long as the bus hasn't left yet. But even if it leaves, you had children still considered bound, but you should not leave until after the after, after sunset. And that's why as soon as the sunsets you will see like
a sea of people. And everybody
on the buses are honking. Like it's time to go on. Time to go, you'll see an ocean of people, it's such an amazing scene on such a such a beautiful, beautiful day. And the message of a loss of love and concern.
Of course after. So it was what are some of the rules before we get back to the football. The first thing is
the sun
goes straight on. And then we go straight on the eighth. There's nobody there. There's nobody, because everybody comes of course on the ninth. And so it's the beginning of Arafah versus after Fidel and the sound goes in before that it's okay also, but it's sooner to go after midday. And, and the messenger will also not go do not enter our car before that. But if you have a group and they enter, that's fine. Also, it's definitely definitely permissible because especially you don't have full control. You don't have control over any and you know, your schedule and so forth. And also an offer, it is sooner to make the effort to give the man to get the foot back and after the doer comes
in. And this is what the messenger of allah sallallahu did. And of course, you combine your prayers, template, and even the hundreds. Now, they don't when it comes to combining prayer, they don't believe in combining prayer.
Right? You don't combine your prayer. But here they combined prayers also because they said this is this is not for a traveler, you don't combine your prayers. And the Sunnah is to not combine unless you need to. And so here the messenger, lots of a lot is combined. Now when the messenger of allah sallallahu and finish, it also did not make his point. But as I mentioned very, very long. And then he also mentioned to the people, when he was an all of a sudden Welcome to her owner, who out of Lucca Kulu have opened, I am here. But you can stay anywhere in our in America. I am here but you can stay anywhere in America, and the majority of the scholars and the stronger opinions that you
don't have to be on the mountain because there's some people who think that you have to be at the mountain. In fact, some people even think that your height is not valid, unless you stand on that mountain and some of the people anybody know what that mountain is called.
We know that mountain is
in our
in our
Java Rama, that's where the key words, that's what the people call it, right? That's what the people call it. The actual name for it is Java, Elan, Java 11. That's the name for those who later
IVR so they made up certain certain areas, of course, names change, but here it's actually jabber in jabber 11 And so does that sound
I think that you, you should not go up and climate, there's no benefit in it whatsoever. There's no like, there's no virtue in climbing the mountain, and it's not suitable to do so. It's not something to do. So
the scholars
are of the opinion, of course that you have to be. And that's why it doesn't matter even if it's just a few moments.
Before, before budget, before funding and so that's if you go if you're there afterwards, then it's not valid, your prayer or you're standing in Orissa is not valid. So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
when he gave hookah, and what, why do we call a football to adapt because the prophets of Allah wa sallam, he, the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the dangerous harbor, and he said,
as it was his last footnotes, and maybe I will not be able to see you again, today. And so let's jump alasa he came to the bottom of the valley, which is the valley in Oregon. And he addressed the people say, verily your blood, so the message of a loss of life or so, you know, we have something a hadith, or some
some narrations that have come to us, and some of the narrations that have come to us,
in terms of the football itself, came to us from some of the companions and it's met it's of course, it's been in the books of Hadith.
The book of sahih, Muslim and others, the Prophet salallahu audio services are you unless you speak to the people or people.
This narrow window,
listen to me, will be local. So listen to me, let me clarify to you in the law, the law and the law are combined.
And this is why it's called the Law adapt because it says, listen to me carefully, because I don't know if I'll be able to see you, after this year of mine, in chemotherapy had at this place of ours right now. We will not I will I may not be I will not be here again. So the messenger of Allah says, Are you a nurse? And then DeMarco wala from Ramana Aleikum, a healer a telco rock? So the messenger of Allah Allah in the first he said Indeed the man could indeed your blood. That means
these are things that are sacred Islam deems for the sake of your lives in in the amount of demand one, why is this very, very important?
Why does this now there are so many Muslims from all over? These are many of them are new Muslims, of course. Right? They are from all over, they still have the trends in the beliefs, you know, jagged em before, you know, when you're used to something. So one of the things that happened between the tribes all the time was they used to they used to fight each other, and killing each other killing was like, it wasn't a it wasn't, it was a big deal. But, you know, when something happens very often, people become desensitized. Right? People become desensitized. It's just like, you know, if you're living in a war zone, and you see people dying all the time, there's no more
food for them, killing each other, but the people also facade, right, and they always have wars in the different tribes and so forth. So he says in the diva Alko, for now I remember that how many people came before now the year before the prophets have emitted announced, told her to make an announcement, that after this year, you will make now no one no motion should ever come again.
No motion, like super Hannah, everything the whole religion of Arabia takes
change to Islam. Now hundreds of hundreds of 1000s of people, over 100,000 people came. And so now the prophets of the body are serving as clarifying to them, indeed, what you did before it may be not a wonderful haram, an illogical, sacred, sacred is haram upon you, is a telco Rokoko until you meet your Lord, the permit to Ecopath just like the sanctity of this Day of yours, you're just like how you, you you respect you say this? What day is this? What place is this? This is a very sacred place. You know, what is the sacred place? When Makkah when you say okay, no, you should not be doing this. Because this you should really show respect. You know, there's something you don't do in
front of your mother. You don't do that stuff in front of your mother. respect you, but that's disrespectful. We did that primary parents, right. So you
Something is in front of the camera above you do things in the land that sacred that they shouldn't be respected. Just like the respect that the hermit the young people have. It's just sacred just like this day of your, your will officially shahada in this month of yours this month what the heck is one of the months, one of the most holy months right and one of the months that are considered Ashmore and home the sacred months in which finding Varian is permitted even in Javea. So this was a month that they respect that also, just like this, the sanctity of this month of your family, the commander in this land was cut this land that you're allowed to handle a lot. Did I have have I have
I delivered the message? Have I delivered the message message? And so
he when he said Have I delivered the message? They said yes. And everyone said yes, you have the message. And this on this day, Allah Subhana Allah reveals what are the Oba Commando, the Kadena Cobots been to ally from there, buddy. We're ready to recommend Islam and the verse which Allah revealed that the you who they said they will make that a day of celebration in the marriage.
And Omar said I know exactly when it was revealed. And when it was revealed it was a real than the day of autofac and the day of RFS, a day of Eid for the people of
the day of need for the people. A lot of the prophets call it
a dunya yo yo was out of the Omarosa right Yamanaka, you will talk I am a part of Miguel de Korea, they have slaughtering today of our for our III do not at this lab, this is already so the day of our is the day of lead for the people for the Muslims. And so he said, Have I delivered the message? So there's a question. And then he says they said yes. And then he says a lot more pressure a lot more faster. And then the Messenger of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, he was home. He said for mankind, and they were a man of value and Dr. Illa man took
so whoever has a a trust, then fulfill that trust if you haven't a man, somebody entrust you with something fulfill that. And then he says invaluable, Jamelia Hello, that arriva that people used to take oppress each other financially. That's over with now, no more.
That's over it over and it's under my feet. And I know it's there's no more that will fry. Because what did they used to do?
The rich used to take advantage of the poor? How did the rich continue to become richer because of riba because of river river. And you know why that's that's why these people because the rich continue to become richer, and the poor, we continue to become more poor. So that's what that's what's happening in this society. Any society that's based off of labor, there's great oppression and great poverty, the poor will be extremely poor, the rich will be extremely rich, and sunny. And this is how they want the rich people would charge you know what would lend money to the poor who couldn't do business, and they will have extravagant
labor lever. That means it was to the point where
the percentage wise it was extreme, just like how you know, people use credit cards. Now, your APR is like 20 30%. Right? People, people still, people still they spend money they don't have.
They buy things they can't afford. And
so every time they work, the poor they work. We have two groups of people, one that don't do any work. They just feed off the work on the poor, because they're just lending the money. And that's why the Prophet SAW said in the rebuild Jamelia Maduro, the arriba in Janelia is over with no more. We're in our hurry, but Abdallahi, Reba and me
and of course you start with your old family members, who was one of the one of the most witches, the people in in the family of the prophets of Allah.
It was at Abbas al Abbas and he says the first Rebbe, because there are still people who Oh, I bask
in the first Lieber that I'm crushing
that I call it's over what is the Rebbe of my own uncle? I've asked him nothing. Which means what is whatever people used to you owe him just pay him what you owe him only. No
arriba is overwhelmed, right? We're canceling your debt.
By Debt Debt canceling. We're canceling the LIBOR LIBOR as council are now on. There's no more Riba. No more riba are now in all of Arabia, there's no it's over with overnight. Overnight, the Pilgrims go back home, and Reba is over with
standard LIBOR.
And that's why you have later on after that, then you have prosperity. You have prosperity, because there's no more rich taken advantage of the poor. Now, all of Arabia, the first Rebbe that I'm canceling, is my own uncle Abbas. It me of the book? And so he, of course, with anything that you do, you start with your own family members. And he said, well, in the demand Janelia Medora. And also at the demand, yeah, here's what, you know, what they used to kill each other.
They used to kill each other, they would, they would kill each other, there will be,
you know, this, this hatred, and enmity, and you know, they would fight each other and continue to fight, you know, you killed my uncle, you know, I'm gonna kill this, this event, is the cycle of killing just continues over and over again, because of tribalism, right, because of tribalism. And so he said, within our web demo.
And he said, the first, the first of the blood, you know, the revenge and so forth, fighting over is the
dumbest I've ever had it. And so he invites you mentioning this, because all of that now, in his own is in federal hardship. They also had problems Jedidiah with other tribes, he said, all that is over with now. There's no more everything, all of that is puts further away finish with and that's why as Muslims, there are a lot of times we accept Islam. But there are some things that we keep we can't we still have of the artha meaning of the remnants of genitalia, of tribalism. And so sometimes somebody will have much of brothers Very good. Oh, no, no, no, you don't marry our people from our tribe. let you marry my daughter, even though he is the best one of the best people. One of the best
youth in the community in the book, but no, no, no, you don't know him. You don't know him. He's from such and such tribe, his great grandfather 3000 years ago.
Like, many years ago, when he was in a desert by himself, you know what he did? You don't look at it as that tribe. No, we don't touch them. Right. So everyone is everyone has given us some of these tribal listing jaggedy and overwhelmed mathema jafria main man, Jackie, Elia, all of the actions of Jamelia Nobu over what now? Now that you guys hear us everyone hears Muslim. This we are starting hamdulillah with a new dean idea that Allah has chosen for us in a yoga modular convener from last month to Allah Camilla Murthy. What will lead to Islam ID that I have chosen for you? This is the greatest blessing that Allah gave you is love. You don't need any of that stuff anymore. All that
stuff you leave here you throw away. And so the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
continue to speak about some of the acts
of Jeconiah some of the acts of Jeconiah and the best level of also London set so you continue with the Lewis lots of other units some other trains of Jamia maybe we'll cover them another time but the messenger continued continued he said Are you a nurse? Are you Hannah's
English Shavon Perea is a Euro by Luffy aldiko is a shaper has already lost hope over the last in this land of yours
shaitan has lost hope of ever been worshipped in this one
is not going to be one that will cause a robbery or you are a female see where Dalek limb Tachyon
but he is okay with it. Because he has well many labia you thought femur C was adequate, everything else but everything else besides that when it comes to ship and the worship of the shaytaan it's over.
gonna happen anymore. That's not going to happen anymore because if people used to worship others besides Allah in terms of they used to worship the shape bar. Awesome, right but in, in Saudi
Arabia the way we Peninsula that's over with, but he has some other means that you're not careful what he will trick you and deceive you concerning those deeds and,
and the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then continued also mentioning, you know, like, in the old days, you know, what they used to do?
They used to change the dates,
you know, they used to change the dates, the months and the dates to benefit them, they used to change the date, the order like for, you know, you know, like,
you know, when you use the lunar calendar, what happens?
What happens when you use a lunar calendar, when you use a new calendar moves, the months move like for us, right now, it
is in June, right? In the few years, that is gonna be
right, the head just keeps moving. But you know, like, you know, the
Chinese,
the Chinese, they also have, they use the lunar calendar also.
But they change, they move the dates, they change the days, so that they are ie comes at the same time every year.
What year what time is that what time is there eat,
they move, and that's the time it was yours a lot of fruits.
So there need the other harvest time, is during harvest time we have food, so they will move so that they will benefit certain aspects. So they will change the dates. But when a loss of Hamlet they created, you know, the sun and the moon earth, and Allah Subhana Allah created to get
Allah Subhana Allah Allah gave us 12 months, and those who saw the time, it moved in move until I came back to the way it should be. And so now on that day, from that time of the Prophet SAW, okay, until now, now the months, remember the sacred months, and every month of Ramadan and so forth, fall into its correct place.
That's now it's in the correct area. correct timing, correct. Because some people like to, if you change the date, what would you do? Ramadan is too difficult, just keep it in December's move. Right? The switch things around, change the date and change. Okay, this is rather than Ramadan. Okay, after we finish, we will move and we'll change the day we'll add a day here. Take a few days out here to make sure that it stays it stays instead of losing two weeks every year. Let's keep it keep it still so that we can SAS only at nighttime. Are you fast, only short, fast as he goes through the winter, summer. That's too difficult, too difficult. So they were meant there's so many
bidder. So many bidders enjoy helium in the evening, the way they calculated the days and the time, and how they did it. Because why? Anybody know why? Because the rich.
Because the rich when they are in control, they make the rules. Whether it's right or wrong is to their benefit
to their benefit. So that's what we have. Well, that's what we have now. And then the Messenger of Allah has continued, he said in that insight.
And then he speaks about the rights of the people who are most oppressed. Right, so Islam raised the status of women, like no other religion,
no other in Arabia, and even in the United States of America.
Did you know that in the United States of America, woman could not inherit only until recently, less than 100 years that less than 6070 years ago? It was changed in America. And in Europe, of course, in the dark ages, it was worse, right? And it's still dark right now.
For another day, for another day. It's so they were in they were inheriting woman. And then yeah, here before Islam also, like around the world, around the world, women were being oppressed by the Messenger of Allah so the lower eyelid
like no mother before,
gave rights to water
in the history of humanity. Allah subhanaw taala said the prophets of Allah eco Sal and the status of woman Islam was raised.
When Allah Subhana Allah Allah sent the message of Allah he says Emily insight into my life would have enabled your woman you have they have a right upon you also welcome Allah him and also you have rights upon they had you know you have rights upon them also they have rights upon you also, then he says, Villa unit, what are you? What are you saying that I had the corona? Corona hobo Utako in the beginning, he said do not, you have a right that, like that, that you seen that women are not allowed to, and you're not allowed to allow anyone in your houses that you don't like, if you don't want them in your house, you don't like them, you have that status on your rights. So Subhanallah
you know, like, if there's some things that some people, you know, you don't you don't want in your house. Why? Because sometimes you as a person, the husband in the household, there are some people who have bad influence, and you know that they come and visit you very often, it's going to affect your children, it's going to affect your family. And you might have a problem right here now that your your your wife goes, no, she's my friend.
She's my friend. And she's this and that, or he's, like, you know,
they come in, it's okay, I want them to visit, or I go visit them and so forth. But no, you this is this is one of the touchy matters also, right? Sometimes there's some some people that you know, I don't want them in my house,
then your wife may have no, I want them. I want them.
I like the company. But who has? If you haven't, if you're if you're in that situation where the final say? Let's say the key a dictator here, right. But if there's a discussion, and there's an argument in relation to who should come who should who should be allowed to visit our house, who has that right?
The husband, but the husband also should take care of the household, right? But you're not paying for the house. You're not paying for the food and rent and expenses.
Then yeah, that's probably the problem, all stuff. Who's paying for this? Oh, you aren't going to tell me don't let somebody come in my house, pay for the house.
Right. So everyone fulfills their obligations. Everything runs smoothly, everything except when you fulfill your obligations, you have rights, and they have rights also. And one of the rights that you have is that they should not you have a right to not allow anyone in your house that you don't want. And whether you're Tina refashion and also that they should not bring for any,
you know, goodness, and so forth. But either for another article
that you wrote
about, and if they do something that's inappropriate, then you have a right? In Allah, Allah, Allah has given you permission.
Allah has given you permission and test you would now feel
that your ohana,
that you are wonderful divers that wearing what does that mean? That means you don't miss your sleep with your work, that you've achieved a filmer bargain that you still sleep with them. But you don't you don't have better relations with them. But you have that right? Because you have that right? That means when he says you have that, right, that means this is if you feel that she's been a little bit disrespectful, like one of the rights that you have, is that you know what, you know, we're just gonna go stick to that.
But she doesn't have that. But you have to understand why because sometimes, you know, sometimes it says to his head. No, no, no.
The couch is yours tonight.
The husband sleeps on the couch.
And the husband says, No, I'm sorry, I really apologize. And then the thing is, if you sleep, if you sleep with him in sha Allah after that, usually this is like one of the secrets.
There was a problem between you and me. She's mad at you angry at you, you know, just just ask to have more revelations.
Afterwards, everything calmed down. And
for those who are married, they know.
They know it's like a change in whatever, whatever. Maybe anger that they may have. It goes away.
suhara has said that one of the things and if so and so that's why if he he doesn't have the right if you say okay, I want to speak but
she doesn't have the right to say no.
He doesn't have that. Still. These are some of the rights that you have to understand. Like there's some but of course, and say if you can't
If she's in her menses, or she says that she's unable to physically, and that's a different battle, but if she's able to, and she refuses to sleep with you, and you want to the angels, Carson's a major sin
into the morning, it's a major sin to major sin. So that's why if a person you have you have
you have that, right? And then he said, and then he mentions, and this is like, you know, some people interpret this
when they read this, like, oh, and it's not allowed such things. And he says, he says, We're totally Bhuvana Bob and vital vitamins. He says, yes, you're allowed to strike them away in a manner that does not leave any, any harm.
It just doesn't give any effects. That means that if you hit someone, and you see the effects of it, then it's not permissible. So the word bonobo, by the way, is not like a kid like you know, strike the word torah, but like, for example, when you're making tiempo, the prophet
larva, right? When he called the, he said, you know, he called the Caddy. So when I hit him, when I, when I pat the earth, when I'm making tea,
right, that's Donald Bolivar, also, and when I hit when you make the younger you like, smash the earth, people,
that would hurt your head. Right?
So how do you hit that? How do you when you move into Yemen? Right? And you, when you strike the Earth? How do you strike here?
It has, you'd have.
And that's the pilot masters. That's the striking is the time it's actually an English English word, it means having it hitting but hitting in a manner that doesn't leave any marks at all whatsoever. But even then the province never hit anyone. He was the best. But what kind of what was this? What does this mean that let me tell you sometimes, between between, you know, between your heart between spouses, between husband and wife, so okay, this, the first thing you do is you remind him or either one, right? And then if that doesn't work, you don't remember what you wrote.
And then after that, you, you know, don't don't have better relations, like, you know, this is a punishment. You know, if you're, if you're disobedient, and you're not being, you know, you're not doing things correctly, you're not listening. And of course, she doesn't have to listen, if it's something that you don't tell him do this out. But if something that's good, and even something that's good back, then there has to be someone who's in charge in the household. So the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, you can hit them, but what kind of hitting
the hitting of course here, if you let's say that you get to an argument. And then you get to a point where you say,
Don't do that. And then you like you striker.
And you hit like, you hit something like in the shoulder, right? You hit it on the shoulder
and of course, you know, allows you to face you hit it on the shoulder, and doesn't really hurt. If I if I think he likes as much
as it really hurt. It doesn't hurt. But you know what, how she's going? Oh, she's gonna say she's awesome.
Did you just hit me? No, you did.
You did not just hit me. You did not just hit me. Don't tell me.
Yeah,
but they hurt.
It didn't hurt but the fact that we took it to that level, okay, this is serious. Under the heading this allowed is not one that hurts.
No, it's just symbolic, more symbolic than anything else. And that's what I meant when he when you get to that point. Oh, no, it's serious. Like and then of course if you if you hurt them even more like if there's any abuse in that particular matter in Islam is not also an escape from Islam. If someone is coming to the body, and they're like injuries on their body, and so forth, that's that's grounds for
divorce meaning even if he doesn't want, it'll cause you harm. It is harmful. You're not allowed to hurt anyone. You know that? That you're injured in any form. Manimal move away means it leaves any sign.
Any sign on stage, but you can see there's somebody who has it or somebody you know, like, there's any remnants of it whatsoever.
And so
but if they obey you,
they were you, they're good for the day they will, you know, they obey you for a good number Guess what?
If they're good, if they're obey you, that means you, it is mandatory upon you to provide for them food and clothing, then
what has been
there in that realm is that which is acceptable, reasonable. But what's considered acceptable and reasonable? Why did the proper Song said well, you know, then, in this you have to provide for, you have to buy, you have to get her a maid to help clean the house or clean the house off. And you have to get this and that for her. She's asking for that is that the messenger bot limited? Didn't didn't, didn't specify why? Because everybody's different in different cultures, differently, you know, social status and economic status. So let's say for example, a queen, if a queen and she has a husband, it would be and she says, you know, yeah, she said, Honey, I would like,
I need I need, I need a maid to help clean the house. Right? But he's a very wealthy businessman. He has a lot of money. That's, you know, I need I need I need a maid to clean the house. Is that reasonable?
Yeah, it's reasonable. In some countries, it's reasonable. Like, for example, I'm in America. And my wife was asking my wife, I need to make
men, here's
what you need to pay it, I don't want to clean the house.
Right? And then you will pay half your salary to this many, you have nothing left, you will have nothing left. But if you for example, if you were to go back to Somalia, right, and you're making the same amount of money that you're making right now. And you're living in Somalia, or you live in Cambodia. If you weren't asked for a week, can you get it? Can you get it?
Yes, cheap. Everyday, she can come and help clean the house and cook and everything like that. And it's like nothing. At the end of the day you give them $300.
Right? There, everyone would apply for that.
Especially if they get to eat with you too.
Yeah, over there, and you know, like, in some countries, you know, I remember, you know, when I was living in Cambodia and Vietnam, and before you can, you can hire people to take care, you pay them 150 $200 100. And they're like fighting for, you know, like, Hey, let me do it. Let me give them half, because that's a lot for them. That's a lot for them. And if you're making them half the money, they can get even, you know, you can afford that. If you want ask for that. That's reasonable. That's reasonable, but have you living here and you're making, let's say, $4,000 or $5,000 a month and debate costs you 2000 a month?
And then you got to clean? I'll help you please.
Let's do this.
Publicly,
I help you clean this out. No, we all get it, maybe you can't afford it. And it's not reasonable for the ask. It's not reasonable for the Ask in your situation. But in a different situation, maybe it is. And that's why yes, you take care of them, this is what you're gonna build. Now. That means that you spend for her, you take care of her, you can provide for her, provide for that. And if you don't provide for them, then you don't have these rights. Also,
even if she makes money, then it's hers. She doesn't have to provide
sometimes some some brothers, Michelle was the one who got richer that their
son, brother, they don't have to pay. They don't have to pay for the bills if they want to.
And it's good. Like we all want
somebody
to take care of the property. So a lot of you want to be like a digit, by the way, like the profits. So the lobbyists and also each other. Maybe a lot will make your life like a DD
and so the messenger box and then he said, he said, he said Indeed, you know, we're never we're in the Mandisa I won in Idaho. You said, The woman that are in your household, they're like a one. And they're like, like slaves. In other words, when it's not a bad thing, that means that, you know, they, you have to take care of it. They have rights. It's not like you oppress them. And he's trying to say that they are like you they they, you you have a responsibility. That's why you have to take care of them. And that's why the Messenger of Allah Allah Allah Allah
He was out he said, he said Katha Bill Murray Bill Maher in
a Dubai Romania room, it is enough of a sin that someone does not take care of those, his response to those those, he's responsible for those who he is responsible for your family. And that's why when you go into work, you inshallah will also get, you get reward from Allah subhanaw taala. Also, and,
and the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he continued, and he said, for double life, ilesa Fear Allah Haftar, quite a lot concerning a woman was supposed to be hidden, if I don't, and I advise you to be really good to them. I advise you to be good to the lexicon, Allah, one of the most important hookless.
In fact, that one in the history of Islam, for positive Vahdat, the messenger of allah sallallahu
spends a majority of the time reminding us to take care of the woman in your family. Why? Because if you don't take care of them, you don't teach them, you don't provide for them and you don't have a strong household, then also the society collapses because you have to have strong, strong family, strong family. And when the family is strong, then the community is strong. And that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, he said,
about Bani Israel.
He said, There could dunya what happened is
meaning, most people want to say tava with fear no, if that
means do all that you care, make sure you're careful and take, take all measures to do the best that you can. And avoid all that which is bad concerning these matters. Be careful of the dunya you care for your rights and obligations concerning the dunya, about the dunya and potential of a woman with your rights and obligations. And certainly a woman also be careful about that. Make, make sure you
make sure you take care and be careful about it. Be careful about women, why?
Meaning fulfill your obligations, also take care of them, or teach them and provide them, make sure you do that which is right.
In our face that evening, sorry. Got it the New START because the first prisoner, the beginning of the downfall. So yesterday, he was in the moment.
soon as that happens. So that's why you have the society the collapse of society right now that we're living in. Why? Because of the collapse of the household bonds, the bonds of that marriage and so forth. Now you have what shaytaan makes people
break up the family, break up families, break up families, to the point where there are no more families. There's no one.
There's no more family. Every family there are so many people who are single families, mothers are divorced, single mothers everywhere, even in the Muslim communities, you know, and so, why because shaytan works very hard. He works very hard when you get married, in the shaitan works very hard to try to separate the venue and separate you and your wife to cause problems with him. Why? Because when that happens, the children are affected. Your family is affected everything else. Everything is affected also and he says are you hitting us in the middle when you want as well? Oh people
are people. And he again he said Allah Allah, Allah, Allah Allah. He said that I have I conveyed this message about the work but woman said Oh Allah, Oh Allah, Allah confession Oh ALLAH.
I
mean he's asking Allah Subhana Allah to to be a witness that you don't yet have did the people said, people have agreed that the Messenger of Allah has delivered the message and he says in a uns you in the memo video the FR. That all the Muslims are brothers brothers of each other. They offended me in Malaga. He unclip enough cinnamon, that the Prophet Solomon speaks about you, it is not permissible for you to take the wealth of anyone except by His by His pleasure, meaning if he doesn't like it, then you don't take as long but and you know when you're buying and selling don't take advantage of each other. Don't try to cheat each other. You know, and the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam again, he reminds them not to go back to the acts of John, Ilya Philander, Jehovah
and go back to the time of Jamelia.
killing each other left and right, killing each other left rightly said, in a matter of too few man into my septum V. Then double loop that
said I have left after you that if you were to follow it, then you will never stray. Messenger of Allah says is the book of Allah, and another narration, the book of Allah and my son. So hold on to that. And in a Johanna asked in a lot of people, your Lord is one when about why, and your father is one who atomized who look ugly Adam, all of you are from Adam. Well Adam into ha and Adam is from dirt.
And then he says in the Quran De La Jolla, top of the most noble of you are those who are most pious. I'm Les Salli. Ala vie and fumbling Allah ihme. In Lolita, an Arab has no virtues over a non Arab. Except in Taqwa. I mean, he's not better than a non Arab Arabs are not better than not. And, and except in taqwa, Allah has a lot, a lot of money. And so the prophets, Allah keeps on saying this, and he keeps on saying this, and of course, the there's
the footbed, so just a little bit more.
But the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
In general, this is a very, very short clip of the Prophet sallallahu lay down the foundation of Islam, some of the most important aspects that if you were to look at it, it brings people together and erases all of the things that they used to do in Janelia. It was like a new page that Islam is here to stay. And this is how this is how it's going to be until the end of time. If you hold on to this deed, then inshallah you will never be you never stray hold on to the Quran and the Sunnah. Yoda restraint, fulfill your obligations to Allah fulfill your obligations to the creation of Allah, the people around in your family members in sha Allah, Allah subhanho wa Taala will give you success
in this life and the hereafter. And then the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, continue to make any supplicated and supplicate any sophisticated.
And odd supplicate supplicated the whole time. And the companions are watching them and they're talking we're talking about hours from though after the football and then after the prayer, the messenger of allah sallallahu supplicated in sha Allah, we have time will continue until the end of Hyderabad, I don't want to take any more of your time. And if there's any questions, we can take questions
we've done over usually I don't like to go over 50 minutes.
Or I just want to finish a little bit more of the purpose behind the profit center to be open and inspire football to such a large congregation, to all of the people to remind us to hear about
further obligations and do all of those traits of Jackie Lea. When you go back to it. That's when you're those are the essence in success in this life and
you won't have any questions
that we asked the lesson
to teach us that was benefits and benefits from
first Wednesday's deed so we're not going to have a class on Wednesday, but we're continuing it and showing up next Saturday. Saturday, Sunday. We'll go back to the zero the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then also the idea that the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
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