Riyadus Saliheen P. 559 – 570 Chapter 97 – 108

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Villa Romana Rahim hamdulillah or some Allah wa salam ala Rasulillah while early hit by her in our PA ye bien y la Sahaba T Hill worried may Amin Allah Allah Allah mana llama limp tena indica la animate Hakeem or be shortly Saudi is silly Emery well hello that's Emily Sani Africa who totally All praises are due to Allah Subhana Allah to Allah we have no God but Allah, we bear witness that

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Allah is our Creator.

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We bear witness that Allah is our

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Rozet Sustainer

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we believe that Allah subhanaw taala is the one who takes our lives. We believe that in Allah we're in Iran,

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to Allah we belong and to Him we will return certainly.

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We bear witness that Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the last and final messenger of Allah.

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May all the Peace, blessings and salutations of the Almighty be upon him, his family,

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his companions, men and women

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and all his followers including you and me, until the Day of Judgment me.

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I believe we are in page 559

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Yes, see? The 97 Yes, everybody open your book riobel Salahaddin for those who don't have just listen to us for sha Allah, Allah bless you. We are in page

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Chapter 97

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Chapter 97

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I would like to answer some of your questions.

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If you would like to start now go ahead if not at the end of the class but I prefer now

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anyone has a question I would like to ask.

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Assalamualaikum che what is the best dou y they come salaam masala Barakatuh. What is what sorry, the best dua that has the best.

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The best dua is that.

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The best dua

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ever you can say in life is in Surah Al Baqarah.

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Well, Lavina Apolo Nara bana attina duniya has an awful lot he has Santa, working as a banana.

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And those who say our Lord grant as the best of this dunya grant as the best of the hereafter and save us from hellfire.

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This is the best deal you can ever say in your life.

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Okay, that's the best one. All right. Crochet Polycom Sonoma

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regarding that particular

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is it Allahumma Robina. Tina dunya Santa or just Robina? Tina Freedonia. Thank you. Very good up to you. You want to add Allahumma is fine. You want to say Arabella

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now you can say it. Hola Houma. Urbana attina Fidelia has an attorney of Alaska Senator Okinawa or rob bana attina Feed dunya has no no need for Allahumma or Allahumma attina

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Allahumma attina or bene attina. Allah hamara bene attina

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whichever way you want.

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But since the Quran mentioned Rob BANA stick to a banner

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up banner attina feet dunya has an IRA means our Lord. So you're saying Oh, our Lord, grant us the best of this dunya and you know better what is best for us. Grant us the best of the hereafter

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and save us from hellfire some olam asset, the best thing Allah gives you in the dunya is a good spouse. For those who are married. The best thing Allah gave you is a good husband or a good wife.

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The best Allah gives you in an era is Janna.

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You don't understand how good to be married to a good person.

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Many things will be easy.

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If you are married to the right people

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and the right people means those who love Allah, they are mindful of God. They might not be very rich or they could be super rich. They may not be highly intelligent. They cannot be highly educated by

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They feel God. They're mindful of Allah. They will not wrong you. That's the best thing that happened can happen to you in life.

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Good. What else?

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I am sorry, this very general question which I miss your very important talk this afternoon on Reba, I know, you need a long time for that. But sometime being Muslims and being worried, not a few said about the Islamic funding that we get here. Some people say is service charge. Some say it is the profit that you earn when you put the money there. I know it's very long tropicals that I'm sorry, you

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know, I missed this after a very nice

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afternoon. You mean? Actually, there was a lecture on for rebar

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but my, my phone collapse or something?

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So good. Okay.

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Number one, the first thing you need to know about the rebar it's really the cancer. The COVID.

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The plague, all the pandemics of the heart is a rib.

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If Allah says saves you from ribeye, you're safe.

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ribeye is the biggest problem today. Today nowadays.

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The major problem of the Muslims is a Riba. Almost anything you want to do.

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I sent you, all of you in the Dawa. For those who are in the Dawa group, I sent you a short video about riba

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by non Muslims, I got there was a good one very good by non Muslims show that that's not cheap. So bad saying that, or any item. It's the non Muslims that riba was illegal, unlawful in Christianity.

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I know gives the Rebbe the Jews or I a hoodie.

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And that's how they control the economy of many countries.

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And all the games panel.

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And the first bank in history was in Italy, where 80% of the land was owned by 20% of the population. That's very dangerous.

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20% only of the population own 80% of the land. That's very, very dangerous.

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We are not against ownership. But 20% cannot control 80%.

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That's very dangerous. That's what's happening in Malaysia and other places small minority controlling the economy. Tomorrow, they choke you tear up now. He's like a doctor who tells the patient you need to do surgery now. And that that that patient says No not yet. Not until you get worse.

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Doctors were telling you 10 years ago to do the surgery.

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Now you you enter critical situation. Many olema are warning Muslim economies. Stop the rebound, stop the rebar now do some kinds of policies where you cripple the rebar.

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Now business as usual, as long as money keep coming, wait and see. So

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rebar is really a major, major sin in Islam. But I'm not going to really elaborate more than this.

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Be careful of anyone who tells you this is service charge. This is this is profit that rebar is making money out of money. If people give you money and they make money out of it, that is rebar. Let them call it anything they want. It is usually usually is prohibited in Christianity is prohibited even in Judaism

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except that the Jews use it against non Jews.

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So to my brothers and sisters, stay away from Riba

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and ask Allah to help you to stay away. For those. I mean for those who want

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detailed advice, come see me at the Islamic center.

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Meet me anywhere we have some coffee and I give you ideas because certain advices are based on the on the information you give me. Chef I have a house I bought a house with Reba

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a car, education of the children Personal Loans different than some

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Are they borrowing millions from the bank for business?

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There are cases we can solve quickly. Few months, one year you're done, show you the way roadmap

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and there are those who, sorry, you're dealing by the billions. Still Allah will help you if you want, but you have to do sacrifices many times. Inshallah.

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Thank you but the Rebbe, please be careful sisters, the youth, I advise you, the youngsters do not borrow money from the banks.

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Do not

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my sincere advice to

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don't borrow money. You don't have to live a lavish life. Go within your means.

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live within your means. And until you are able to buy with your own cash, money, rent.

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You don't have to be under the pressure. And what do you do with a woman who tells you let's borrow money? I don't need you now.

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A woman telling you Let's go borrow money, borrow money.

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For you to be happy thinking you have a house?

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What is this?

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Some women put their husbands in hardship.

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Our friends, why not us? What is this?

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And some men also

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don't even know what's going on. They just want to live like the friends No. Though within your means. Allah didn't put hardship on you why you put hardship on yourself.

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But must change the word view. If the word view is Westerner. I cannot help you until I change the way you think if you think like the Westerners, no matter what I give you of evidences from Quran from the Sunnah from from the daily

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experiences of people you will never get it until you think like a Sahabi like true Muslim, then inshallah it will work and I have many brothers and sisters who stopped the Riba they had lost by the millions. This they clear that hamdullah they're free now now they feel free.

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They say share now we feel hamdulillah whatever we own is ours. Thank you very much for motivating us and Allah this is from Allah not me. I just keep you know, hammering

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Okay, may Allah make it easy for all of you.

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Read of the Reba.

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Reba is worse than sleeping with committing Zina 36 times

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imagine a man commit Zina 36 times that equal one act of borrowing money from the bank or charging someone interest

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36 times you know

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people still don't get it because it's not physical.

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You know, money is not like Xena, Xena you feel you are doing something haram with somebody as bank you always I just borrow money so that the children study so that I ride the nice car like you didn't die in that car of Reba lucky.

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Well repent

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does the cancer of this age

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and many Muslims are involved in it? May Allah give Toba to all my brothers and sisters? Don't say nothing just pm me on one on one when I have time on answering inshallah better meet me in person.

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All right. Let's thank you. Thank you, let's say let's continue now with the book of manners during having a meal.

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Adam of Riyadh Saudi Hain gardens of the right yes May Allah mix as a Muslim, Saudi Han or Asada how do they eat?

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They eat like Vikings.

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You catch the chicken like this and start eating like

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I don't know who

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are there is a way

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yalla chapter 97 system Azaria go ahead

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Salam alikoum one, Polycom Sara Mottola Gatto. Chapter 97 About reciting altos meow at the beginning of a meal, and I'll hum at bits in the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, s

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348 Narrated by Omar bin Abu Salama radio Aloha

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Wuhan Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to me, boy, mentioned Allah's Name, eat with your right hand and eat from what is next to you. Very good. The first thing we teach our children

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is to say Bismillah

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when food is served, tell the children Semilla say Bismillah

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and eat with your right hand, tell them put the spoon in your hand, right hand put the fork in your hand right hand use your fingers right hand

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that's the first thing second thing. Third thing eat from what is near to you. Do not go from far too far to what is far

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it's close to you.

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So if the plate is like this, you eat from the nearest place to you.

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Don't go to somebody else place

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and this also showed the baraka of eating in one place

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do you realize that when we used to eat in one place one huge place that was more Baraka people had more mercy because you eat together you talk

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while it you feel human being you know

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and the food somehow tastes much better.

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Today everybody an island his plates

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everybody's afraid somebody else will join him What is this

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well hola hola them. We used to eat in one place.

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Masha Allah, so much baraka and Rama

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brotherhood sisterhood.

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Today everybody's eating

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we are not even eating on the same table now. Children are eating because grab will deliver food for them. You don't even know what your children are eating.

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What is this

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what is this

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some families they tell me when we call our children they said I already ate How did you eat? I ordered

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or Lazada or lalamove or I don't know what

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grab one day they grab you and take you out

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food panda until you become like a cool Kung Fu Panda

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to eat healthy we need to eat with family

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Smilla cannula Smilla right hand either the father distribute the bread

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mother see they see or these are our chill some people don't even know that our children

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are you sure these are our kids my dear wife?

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She says yeah

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I'll Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah

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so three things a Muslim needs to know

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yeah Bula or child Oh boy.

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say Bismillah eat with your right hand and

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eat from what is near to you. Subhanallah the boy was very Latin and the prophesy hasn't taught him these things. Manners Adam

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No person is very young what it comes to adults. The earlier you start with children the better when it comes to manners of love. Okay, very good continuing next these days.

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Said No sorry. Yeah.

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I forgot to unmute My goodness. Sorry. But never narrative Aisha the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said if one of you is let him recite altars via if he forgot to recite it at the beginning

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we don't hear you now. So if you forgot to recite it at the beginning let him recite Bismillah at its beginning and it's in very good. If someone forget Bismillah whenever you remember just say this don't worry.

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You're supposed to say Bismillah before for you forgot you're already a few.

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Should you want to say Bismillah It's okay.

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There is even another Hadith sahih by Imam Bukhari and Muslim that Rasul Allah slicin and said Bismillah

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A word who were our hero Bismillah it's beginning of the foot and this Mila in the end of the food, so you say Bismillah he a word who who was our hero who?

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If you ever forget Bismillah in the beginning of the food chef Zubair was so hungry he forgot May Allah forgive me I ate already the soup soup gone

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What else salad gone

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now um

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oh I forgot this villa stuff no that's not that's not nice don't panic Bismillah he a word who

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Bismillah in beginning this May Allah in the end you say this one Bismillahi r one who our hero

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memorize this to our please

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don't panic

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and don't say I forgot to say Bismillah I have to restart from the beginning eating just continue this finish yella go

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Masha Allah

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very good one more had the system

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okay Jabby Abdullah narrated that he heard the prophets sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saying when a man enters his house and mentions Allah Subhan Allah hooter, Allah on entering and on having his meals. Satan says to His followers, you will have neither food nor like shelter, if he enters without mentioning Allah Subhan Allah to Allah, Satan says to His followers, you have acquired your night shelter. If he does not mention Allah subhanaw taala with the honor at the time of his meal, Satan says to His followers, you have your neck shelter and food, good. Ah. Hadith Abu Dawood.

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Whenever you walk inside your home

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Bismillah whatever kalna Allah Allah I was managing As salam o alaikum. You should say this loud.

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Some idiots among us, they want to surprise the wife. You want to have a heart attack to your wife

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there is no fun when it comes to scaring a woman

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Oh, I wanted to play with her. You almost killed her. Surprise her. That's not nice. So knock the door as salaam alaikum Bismillah Allahu Akbar Subhana Allah and it is sunnah to recite all who Allahu Ahad when you enter your house, when you come back from work. This may lie Rahmanir Rahim Allah Allahu Ahad Allah Samad let me edit what I'm gonna do what I mean when I had once you open the door

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so make the second one that shaytan tell his followers. You have no shelter in this house tonight. Go hamdulillah they don't enter your house. But if you forget and you walk in shaitan tells his followers Messiah. Welcome

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Come, come come we have found a place where to sleep today. Tonight.

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Huh? When you say Bismillah over the food, right and get upset. He tells his followers you have no meal in this house. Because the family, the people of the house that Bismillah

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so the moment you mentioned Allah sang shaytan cannot tahan he lives

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is that eating without saying Bismillah

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that's why some people never are satisfied with the food you don't say Bismillah shaitan is with you.

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Shaytan is eating the food.

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Now, seriously, spiritually, he is there. May Allah curse if you didn't mention the name of Allah. Say Bismillah teach the children Bismillah everyone is Mila. Yama stop eating.

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And hamdulillah Shu por hamdulillah Yamuna are Sultana was your other non Muslim in today's way to the one who fed us and gave us drink and made us Muslims. Chapin will live up on you doesn't come to your neighborhood. That's all

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because you always mentioned Allah.

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Thank you sister Natalia.

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Welcome, Shane. Why Yeah.

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Sister does Lynnie go ahead

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351 Um, well, I could share Wi

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Fi five one, narrated a boo Oh mama. Radio

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Have one who, whenever the dining clause of the Prophet sallallahu, ala was salam was taken away. II whenever he finished his meal, he used to pray unto ALLAH. So ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala Alhamdulillah Hamden cathedra into ye but Mubarak can feed Wi Fi in well, more work done. While most tough none and who Rabbana bless and good place to be to Allah subhanho wa Taala it is the place that does not meet the countless and indispensable favors. If you cannot memorize this hadith say Alhamdulillah because some of you already panicking

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but if you can memorize this hadith, all of it, and Hamdulillah he hummed and Kathy Iran by Ibn Mubarak and fear, right, I'm McAfee and while I'm more daring when I'm installing an angular a banner

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam they used to put a cloth

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what was his dining table from Indonesia? The wood from I don't know where Japan it was a piece of cloth. They put whatever food he eats. Then they collect that piece of cloth. They go wash it

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table the table those days was a piece of cloth like in the masjid. MashAllah in our massage to hit in Malaysia people sit on the floor. They put some plastic we eat

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Broncos that plastic throw it

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I don't know some of you have a 12 seater table

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and you are just you and your cats living in that house.

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Like when

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extravagance May Allah forgive us.

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So these two are off saying Alhamdulillah Haftar food

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continuous system

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chapter 98 about not criticizing no one more Hadith

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3352 I fled that just knows you know 352 narrated that was that was it not there? Do I just now? Yeah.

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Yeah, Euro 351. I want you to read 3520352 narrated a boo. Oh, mama, Radi Allahu Anhu whenever the dining clause of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was taken away, ie whenever he finished his meal. He used to say Alhamdulillah Hamden Tati, Renta ye been mobile rocketfish Vyra MacGuffin, wala MOBA din, while most often and and who Rabbana. Praise be to Allah subhanho wa Taala a blessed and indispensable praise to our Lord. Very good. They repeated the same Hadith I got it very good. I read the same one just now. Yeah, no, no, it's the same one but written twice. Yeah, you're right. Yeah. Yeah, go ahead. The next chapter.

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Chapter 98 about not criticizing food, but praising it is recommended. recommendable Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Anhu the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never criticized any

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any food removed aerated

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any food presented to him but he would eat it if he liked it. Or otherwise he would leave it without expressing his dislike.

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Very important.

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Very important if you like the food, praise it, masha Allah good food it's very good to praise the phone. If you don't like it say nothing. Say what is this food?

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I heard an idiot in your ia i was about to slap him when he said long time ago in the night in the 90s this would I don't even give it to my dog.

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stuffer Allah

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you don't like it? Say nothing don't eat but don't say because you're hurt some people some people that's their culture that's their food

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Don't say that.

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If you like the food sure mashallah Very good. This food is very delicious this tasty handling. You don't like it say nothing. But also last iclm never made

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a bad comment on food.

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Never in his life.

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If he likes the food

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He is he doesn't like it, he stops

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another thing, don't you respect the person who cooked that food? I don't know how many hours he or she has been cooking. Especially our mothers may Allah reward them. Our sisters when I say mothers mean our ladies, may Allah bless them.

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Some say sisters,

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you know, days in the kitchen, preparing food, some food Wallahi days to be prepared. I'm not exaggerating some food hours.

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That sister was in the oven in the house in the kitchen. At least she did her best. Don't say this food is not good. What is this? Not good. Don't say that.

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Don't say that. So adverb of Islam never to criticize food. You like it? You eat it? You don't like it? Don't say anything. That is Islam. That is other of the deen

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and please be sensitive to people's cultures. You know in some cultures they put too much for example, spices or less spices. Or I don't know what alas you don't like to eat on it. Simple as this.

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this is very important, Adam. Never make fun of food.

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You like it? McCann you don't like it did that makan

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I don't go go somewhere else.

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Duncan Malkin, a team I can't say who stars are.

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Very good.

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Sister Khadija

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Khadija 99

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These Johan Are you there?

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No. Yalla sister Halima.

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Salaam aleikum. Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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chapter 99 about what a fasting person should do if he attends a banquet.

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Three FIFO

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Abu Hurayrah narrated the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, If anyone of you was invited to a meal, let him accept the invitation. If he was fasting, let him pray unto Allah for the one who invited him at the museum. Very good.

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355 Hold on.

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Hold on this hadith needs to be explained.

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Do you know that the Sunnah if you are fasting optional fast and somebody suddenly invites you.

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You are fasting a Monday a Thursday

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and somebody invites you to makan. Do you know you have to go and break your fast

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you know that are not. If you are fasting option and fasting. You are not making up sisters you are not making apps 678 days of your Ramadan. Some of you wait until Raja

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Shaban comes and start panicking.

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You have 11 Man sisters, to do your first thing why you wait till the last month?

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No, Allah be strong sisters

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or a brother who traveled during Ramadan or was sick during Ramadan.

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Same thing don't wait still Shaban and start fasting.

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So let's say she has Zubair was fasting Monday.

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And surprisingly, a brother invited me to eat

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such a I invite you for McCann right now, calm. Let's go it.

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Now if he was quite close to me, quite close, I will tell him. May Allah bless you, I'm fasting.

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Can I

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we did we postpone in another sanction.

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But if the brother is quite new, and he's trying to get close to me, I will pretend I'm not even fasting. And I go eat.

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Then make that day another day. First another day. Why? Why Islam says when somebody invites you to a banquet, or to a lunch or something you go and eat, if he's a good Muslim or if it's like us hamdulillah go eat his food.

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The reason that brother maybe he's doing some kind of Sister Sister sisters, brothers bells, they are trying to get closer to you and you will break their hearts. If they are inviting you and you say no.

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But be careful

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Some Muslims in America when they tell you Let's go eat meaning you pay for your food I pay for my food at crazy. The biggest cultural shock in America first few days of my arrival, some students said let's go eat. There is a nice Afghan restaurant we go eat.

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Your brother and Arab one Arab said you'll escape meaning he's going to pay.

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I went

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when it came to payments.

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We were like Salyers one after one everybody paid for himself. And I said, what's going on?

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Okay, what did you eat? Oh, you pay this much. What did

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I learn the lesson?

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I learned my lesson.

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Here in Malaysia, what do they tell you? So Dhamaka below by what you tell me by

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Why did you ask me in the first place if I if I see cultural shock?

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So Dhamaka below. Okay, bye.

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Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar.

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So when somebody invites you to enter his house, or to Makkah and while he is praying, don't say no.

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With me Lango it.

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if he's close to you say not today, because I am fasting just like alive.

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But tell him you're fasting. Tell him the reason why you cannot eat his food.

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I'm fasting today. Just take a look at another day.

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And tell him Brother Why you always invite me on Thursday or Monday. Tell him that? Why not use the man? What's wrong with you?

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Or Juma? After Juma?

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Some brothers want to invite you on Thursday or Monday. So I tell them Do you really want to feed people or just pretending it's not Luffy

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like some of you now

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did you understand the Hadith? So you have the option to say to say no. I can if that person is quite go Do you know him for quite well?

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Quite well for quite some time. But if he's new trying to you know come closer, it's okay. It's okay. Don't break the heart of someone who wants to feed you.

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I repeat sister Sisters Brothers brothers. Don't play games with Allah.

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No sisters should say to a brother. I would like to feed you can we go? There that's a date.

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You're dating you're not feeding

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off either another sister your sister and your brother go feed another but how about that?

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Continue sister Halima

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Rifai five, Abu Hurayrah narrated the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, If any one of you was invited while he was observing fasting, let him say I am fasting neezy so usually you hide your fast, right? Right. You hide your fast. But if somebody invites you to eat, and you're fasting, you should tell him I am fasting. Otherwise he thinks What's wrong with you? Well,

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I'm not talking about Ramadan. I'm talking about other days. You should tell him I'm fasting

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and you feel like I should you know I like I should not say but I have to say

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so that he doesn't feel like you are arrogant. You don't want to you know honor his invitation. Fasting another day champ like that.

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J if you break the fast and go eat Yes. So make that person happy.

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To make him happy

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Subhan Allah to this extent. You give up on fasting to make a Muslim happy.

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Especially if he cooked for you

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for that, yes.

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Yes. Because you were fasting for Allah sake. You broke the fast for Allah sake.

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You weren't fasting for Allah sake. You broke the fast to please a Muslim and pleasing a Muslim has a lot of reward the ammonium.

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But that makeup that day, I would make up another thing. It's embarrassing, because people don't invite you every day. I'm telling you now.

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People invite you

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On seeing a blue moon you know what the moon looks like buy a t shirt. They invite you, but bear

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what's wrong?

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Everybody's zoom now, and happy.

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Continuous sister Halima one more hottie.

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Chapter 100, about one who was invited to a meal and another person went with him. 356 narrated Abu Mossad or the Allahu anhu, a man named Abu Xiu, I came to a young butcher and said to him, prepare a dish sufficient for five people. For I have seen the signs of hunger on the face of the messenger of allah sallallahu wasallam. The narrator said, He prepared the food and the men invited the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and those who were with him. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam left a man who was not present when the invitation was made, followed them. When the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam reached the door. He said to the householder, a

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man who was not present when you had invited us has followed us. Will you permit him to join us? He said, I have permitted him. Excellent. What does that mean? Brothers and sisters.

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Don't go and invite it.

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Do not go and invited

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to a banquet.

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Now you brothers, don't take anyone with you. If anyone follows do not just take that say cinema so it's okay that the host is my friend. Don't do that until you ask. Salam aleikum? Thank you for inviting me but with me is my brother can he come or somebody followed me?

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followed me

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usually people say please welcome usually 99% People will say but if he says no sir please tell him to go back he must go back

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do you know that or not never go and invited

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to banquet

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people invite you or tell them if somebody says Come with me said please I will not join you until you take permission from the host

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chair so bear it's okay you come with us No no no you call now in front of me this horse and say we have with Ashiatsu Where can he come? Usually he will say please come but we took we respected the person imagine everybody brings his friend with him. This banquet of 100 is now 200

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Did you see the point

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do not take people with you. If you are invited yourself just go yourself

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and if somebody wants to come with you say it like take permission from the host

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this is very important in Islam. So this man follow that so lessly seller

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the Prophet told the host with us there is one brother who was not invited you invited five of us we are six he said welcome no problem let him come in

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don't force yourself on people very important

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any question about so far the Hadith we have seen

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and it was

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so far

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okay, very good. Thank you Sister.

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Sister first Lina. Go ahead. Chapter 101.

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Has linaria You there

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Okay, how about

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what other sunny sorry

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are you there?

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Was this

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was was this

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I sell on my local

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chapter one. Chapter 101.

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about giving directions to the one who eat improperly.

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Hadith 357 narrated Omar

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or even Abu Salama Ravi Allahu Anhu said right? Yes correct. Allah Smithson Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to me, boy mentioned Allah's Name, eat with your right hand and eat from what is next to you. Very good upon the previous Hadith we have seen it's okay to correct people who don't eat properly

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somebody's eating

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I didn't know I don't know how some people drink water as if make noise. Some people

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you hear of noise when they eat you can tell them but on one on one rather

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AC please use your right hand.

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Sister talks to another sister

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brother choo choo. Some people just pass they never to Masha Allah. They just swallow

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Why am I gave you teeth?

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Why Allah gave you teeth?

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To to some people Masha Allah competition.

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And then later on when they have problems in their stomachs they say Why Allah gave your teeth

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easy competition

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so Can I correct them share? Yes but nicely one on one.

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You don't know don't let them like that. That's not good.

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salamati Calm, please say Bismillah use your right hand and don't make noise.

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Just like Allah. May Allah bless you. You must be good man. So soften.

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If he says who are you to teach me say who are you to disturb me?

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You are disturbing me Are you eating or fighting? Tell them that

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from shared Zubair

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if they say who are you have to tell me who am I?

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Who are you to disturb me? You are eating you are eating as if you are by yourself even by yourself you don't do that

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some people never see what they do to others they just object when people correct them

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Are you with me? Because I have to check on your most of you are half sleep especially the Malaysians the Malay sleep very early Masha Allah

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be Allahu Akbar

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some Malays after the Asia

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thing son

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like they're

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not like I love them. I have to check because some some of you icon read they take five hours to open the book

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until they get up from sleep.

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Like Nazari

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what's your name?

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I couldn't get them. I couldn't

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you make me laugh as to wake up see, I bring joy Technium

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continuous thermos Deena one more Hadith

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I told you first then I want to sleep again. Open the unmute

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sorry Steph is here for me. Where are you? Where are you Malaysia?

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I mean UK. Mashallah. Okay.

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Sorry, I'm just cooking finished cooking Allah. May Allah bless y'all.

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One more Hadith.

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Okay, chapter 102.

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About the forbiddance of eating to dry dates together. Number 358 narrated Ibn Omar, the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam forbade that one should eat two dates at a time. If others share him food, except after asking their permission. Allah.

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Adam Adam manners. If people share food with you, don't be like

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and I will tell you a secret that science has discovered. Do you know two days is very bad for your hands.

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Two days.

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Three, yes. One Yes. But not two or four.

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Always eight one, day two or three or five?

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or seven or nine don't eat 246 You know what they found?

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fructose glucose, very bad for health.

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The glucose there shouldn't be. So three

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somehow three dates. The the equation of the sugar is a healthy sugar inside your body. So they it's very bad they are fighting each other

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as if you did nothing or you are hurting your body

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Rasulullah Sasson told us this long time ago plus permission take care have permission.

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Maybe they have only a few dates and you are Masha Allah.

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take them before somebody has it.

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And big be also

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of people who are eating with you.

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They may have also liked that date and you ate them both.

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Because those days they didn't have much too much food sisters and brothers. You heard what that hadith where the person said, I saw hunger on the face of Rasulullah sallallahu he was really high meaning he was starving. He was really hungry.

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I shall be Allah Juana. Our beloved mother said

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three moons used to pass meaning three months tiga bulan. Three months three moons pass. We drink only water and we eat only dates. We didn't cook. We didn't turn on fire. Nothing to cook

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your hola Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam three days or three months tiga bola 90 days

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to food

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they suffer

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may Allah be pleased with all the Sahaba

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he was tough sisters and brothers. So this Sahabi saw that the prophet has most pain

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tired hungry? So he went and cook some food Masha Allah may Allah He wanted him and he invited the Prophet segment five more men

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than the six one came with them and wanted to join the Prophet sighs and said, This man wants to come what would we say? He said Let him come.

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So my sisters and brothers

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it is forbidden to eat two dates while people are eating with you.

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Eat one and leave one for another person.

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If there are plenty plenty people put so much dates for you. It's 357 911

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If I find that article a

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long time ago I read it's about the composition of two dates inside the body is very bad for health Subhanallah the Prophet saw some said don't don't eat two dates eat three

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if you if your knifes still strong and you ate the fourth, eat one more five.

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Always anything you eat, you eat it this way.

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is healthy.

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Okay, but otherwise, yeah, go ahead.

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Chapter 103 So I'm worried

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about what a gluttonous person should do.

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359 narrated what she ate me herb. The companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to him, we eat, but we do not become full.

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The Prophet sallallaahu Salam said, Do you eat separately? They said yes. He said, assemble for food and mentioned Allah's name over it. That Allah subhana wa Tayana would bless it for you. Ha.

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Excellent. You will see the mistake we do everybody eat by himself. Get together and eat and share the food. I test your food you test my we shed

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam

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all the washi even a herb

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who narrates Hadith that the company has of Rasulullah Salim said to him. We eat but we do not become full.

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The biggest mistake we do when you eat up to your throats. Some people eat up to here.

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If you open

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Therefore, the amount of food is still there.

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So last night I sent him said, divide your stomach into three parts. One for your food, one for your drink, and 1/3 for your air. You have to have some air

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means meaning when when your lungs are full of air. It does not press compress your stomach

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nanoco Mon

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Lana Akoto had Tanager why is that? I cannot lash back. How do you think maybe slightly seller? We are people we don't eat until we are hungry. And when we eat, we should not feel full.

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Health moderation.

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Number one reason for diseases is what?

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Stomach diet food.

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Number one reason for diseases of the body is makan mccannon.

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So if we eat Moderately Drink Moderately, we'd be fine.

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We'd be fine.

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Yeah, so please remember this. Sherry, there is this man Sherry called gluttonous. A gluttonous person is a person who eats too much

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and doesn't feel

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foul. He doesn't feel satisfied.

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We are not like that. Did you see this new

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documentary is about food everywhere.

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You eat anything and what is that? And many people watch those. That's dangerous. That's not good.

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And they cook anything and they traveled to the whole world just for food.

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Up to you.

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Number one reason for bad health. Food, Michael, too much matter.

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So he said do you eat separately the Prophet sasm asked the Sahaba they said yes. He said no. Don't do that. Come together, put your food together and eat and say Bismillah more Baraka more blessings.

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Did you realize that whatever we do together is always blessed.

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Salads together.

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Fasting together, breaking fast to gather

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some data together is more blessed when we want to help someone everybody put something we had

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Better than one rich man.

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Take all the Masha Allah the honor.

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Let others share.

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The bigger the hedge is the better.

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The bigger the more people come to your house the more blessed your house is. You know that? If your house is open for people to come and eat and drink, you are blessed and your house is blessed.

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chapter 104

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about the order of eating what is next one

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narrated OMA new Abu Solana

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or the Allah.

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Allah messenger said Alana Salam said to me, boy, mentioned on last name, eat with your right hand and eat from what is next to you.

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You know who is Omar IGNOU Abby Salama?

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Who can guess?

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Who is Omar? Even though Abby selama.

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This boy this boy that the prophesies be stitching him

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he was his stepson.

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The stepson of the Prophet sighs almost Salah Emma and Abu Salah Emma had a boy remember

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Abu Salah Ma, the husband of almost selama who was killed in the Battle of

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May Allah be pleased with him. He had a son called Omar

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who became his father after the death of his real father, Prophet Muhammad Salah because the Prophet married his mom, almost dilemma.

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So this is the son so he's teaching him Adam.

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Oh boy, eat with your right hand. say Bismillah is with your right hand and eat from what is near to

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Very good one more Hadith

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narrated Abbas. The Prophet said Alana Salam said salaam

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blessedness exist in the middle of the dish. Thus eat from its sides and do not eat from it center activity.

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What is this hadith means? Al baraka to 10 zero wasa Pam Falcone, women have fatty he while bloomin WASAPI

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blessedness the blessings when it comes from the sky blessing is something spiritual Allah sends it on the food it comes on the center of the food so the Prophet slicin said don't eat from the center eat from the

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the side but keep going to the center but don't start from the center otherwise there will be no Baraka

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let the baraka comes as you are eating from the edge of the plates keep going towards the center

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and why he said it's in the center Subhanallah so that you finish the food

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many of us don't finish the phone

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Yeah, I can finish the food the food should be let them so that it can be finished.

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Today they are throwing by the tons and tans

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hola hola what's a level

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So may Allah bless our food and bless whatever we do whatever we say whatever we touch I mean yeah, I mean

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any question feel free to ask now as I speak so while I think we have lost this this culture of eating together the one trait all that never matches when we go now you have Cuba they give you one tray you just just take one place your presence or eat yourself over there 3040 People everybody is with it all plays so there is no question or eating from the center or eating from the side. It means we have lost deaf cultures that I agree. I agree and it's so sad Yes, very sad. But

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but with what we have to still learn the sooner Yeah, I know that sublayer brothers that I believe they still mashallah they still keep the Sunnah that's right yeah. Brothers are still good at this May Allah reward them.

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They come together they put the food in one plate and they fight in Algeria. If you come to Algeria Inshallah, we still have this tradition. We both sit together and eat

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my gun, fight for your rights survive.

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To eat with a fork in school, what are your comments on that? I don't mind no fork and spoon actually, is creation of the Muslims. Many people don't know this. It's the Muslims who created fork and knife and spoon.

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I tell you when when the Muslims went to Spain, they found that they discovered the new reality

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and new type of food, especially the soup.

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So they Muslims came up with the spoon the wooden spoon

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because there were no steel those days is if steel was for sorts for big things. So they came up with the wood.

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Now cutting the meats.

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It's okay to cut the meat but you cannot eat with your left hand. Which people do this. They cut the steak and eat with them the left that is wrong. Cut the cut the meat. Put your

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fork inside your right hand and eat with it

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and eat with it. Some people think or people are watching the watch.

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You follow the prophesised dilemma or you follow people.

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So it's okay to use fork. spoon and knife. There is nothing wrong with that. Whoever tells you that not it's not the Sunnah. No, but if you see someone eating with his hand, leave him alone.

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Leave him alone. He likes to eat with his hand.

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Leave him alone. He is right and you are right. And he should leave you alone. He shouldn't look at you like you are not a good Muslim. Because you are not eating.

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Well licking your fingers is bad. So not to lick the Sunnah. MashAllah lick your finger

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because it's your fingers anyways.

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finger licking another thing another thing look at me. Some people take that cap when their hands are full of

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full food. So they take that they take the cap like this with the left hand and they put the right hand like this and drink that's wrong. The cup is yours. Take it with your messy hand

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it's my cup.

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I would wash it later

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my hand is full of whatever and why are you looking at my cup? Is my cup I'm drinking water in my cup

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so no, I you say you create now new

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if you're drinking in one container that's different. But if somebody put some water like this on your desk

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and let's say Chad Zubair used his right hand eating

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I am using my right hand to drink my water

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is my cup

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Yeah, so leaking the finger is sumed out

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May Allah bless you

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all right.

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Very good.

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Not happy sir. Go ahead sister.

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Thank you brother Raja.

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not have his Are you there?

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Yes. 105105 Or what are we

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three six penrite Or sorry? 105? Yes.

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About the dislike of eating while reclining.

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There I did a boo Haifa the Messenger of Allah that Allah and said MC s as to me I do not eat while reclining. You should never eat one reclining

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like this like I'm going down or reclining look at me

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Why are you sitting like that he said properly adjust you're sitting

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45 degrees

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90 degrees like we are sitting mainland it

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and don't eat standing.

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It sitting

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many people chalk because standing.

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good, continuous system.

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Chapter 106. About the desirability of eating with three fingers merited a nice if the perfect Salah and Salem in any meal. He used to lick his three fingers, he said and if a mouthful of bread fell on the floor from from one of you let him remove what has clung to it and eat it and leave it not to set in an NS edit. He ordered us to leave any remnants of food saying you do not know where the blessedness exists in your food.

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Finish the food

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number one and also slice I'm used to use three fingers three fingers, not five fingers. Some brothers as if they are going to fight. When you fight use five fingers you're going to eat

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three fingers then lick them before we wash them. Okay

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he saw Sahaba one Sahabi dropped some some bread fan. He told him take it and remove whatever you know, whatever it is with it and say Bismillah and eat it don't worry.

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It didn't fall on any nudges it just fell on the floor. Okay, remove whatever and it and he said to the Sahaba Do not leave food because you don't know where the baraka is. So finish the food for sure you get the baraka

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and I swear by Allah when we finish some when somebody leaves some food sisters and brothers, and the last brother or sister finished that food panela you feel some joy? I don't know if you have went through this. You feel some something that makes you satisfied. Please

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it's a spiritual thing. I don't know. I'm sure you went through it.

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finish the food

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but don't put 10,000 kilograms of food and say let's finish the food well we'll finish that word the food should be moderate

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according to the group of people eating

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that unless you they should finish that food

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slowly but they should finish it

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continuous system

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to six for every 10 If not Abbas the prophets Allah Allah when I was said um See when you eat do not wipe your hands until we have faked it or have it linked here it is the question of doctor say do not wash your hands until you leak

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leak your finger your three fingers your edge with them take them it's your fingers don't worry about it

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and then go wash

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wash before and wash after sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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wash before food and wash after food.

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Just let let's at least some water on you.

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You are clean before food and after four

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Thank you sister.

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Another brother or sister. How about

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Sister Raja Melissa

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said I'm wanting to share why they consider

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numbers 635 narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah during the lifetime of the Prophet so long of Salem, we did not have any handkerchiefs to wipe our hands to wipe our hands, except the palms of our hands are four arms and our feet

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panela they didn't have handkerchiefs.

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So they used to wash. They used to wash their hands and their feet without drying them.

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So when they used to eat, they didn't have handkerchief share. Can I use handkerchief? Yes, but after you leave

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if you want so if you want to highlight it onto a paella, what can I do for you?

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I'm saying there is a napkin. There is tissue. There is a handkerchief in front of me after I eat so now I will

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hamdulillah then use and then go wash my hands.

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That is the sooner

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it's healthy. It's good. You don't get sick.

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And anything Rasulullah Sasson taught us I swear by Allah is the best way to be healthy.

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Whatever the prophesies have taught us. Stick to sunnah you'll be healthy.

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Stick to the Sunnah.

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Variable continuous system

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chapter 107 about gathering many people for food 366 narrated Abu Huraira Rhodiola one Allah's Messenger SallAllahu sallam said, the food for two people is sufficient for three and the food for three people is sufficient for four. And this Buhari Wallah he by experience

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my may Allah have my late mother, may Allah have mercy on that. Oh by the way, don't know the whole neighborhood can eat in our house.

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And we were used to God So may Allah forgive me. If I don't like something my mom took I go to the neighbor's house and normal.

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We were just yella

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we, the food of three is enough for for

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the food of one person is enough for two. The food of two is enough for three always at it's okay. And that is baraka.

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The more people come to eat the better.

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Don't be too calculative

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is okay. That will be Baraka. It will be enough.

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Very good.

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Don't panic. If you made some food for some people, and more people came. It took as long as it's not double times two times two is too much. For example, you made food for seven and nine

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When people came, it's okay 10 People It's okay.

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But you made food for seven and 42 came May Allah be with you

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may Allah be with you

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just order more pizza or Nasi llama or whatever

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was anything just now sister Raja? Okay continue one more Hadith.

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Thank you. Chapter 108 about the manner of drinking 367 narrated so much to mama even Abdullah UNECE rasool Allah who used to breathe twice or thrice while drinking while the mouth of the jaw was not touching his lips. I must say that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to Take three breaths while drinking.

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Okay, look at me everyone in the cap, you can put your lips on the cap. Do you see me? Ha Bismillah

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what does it mean he was breathing on on your cap, you can put your lips on them. But on a jar

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on the bottle on a container you cannot do that. So what to do look at me let's say this is a jar or a bottle. Look at this Mila

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you cannot touch

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you let the water come in.

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And he used to breathe and as or the alarm twice or three times. He said I saw Salah Salem breathing, meaning three times look at me in law.

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So then the third one, go, go go go go go, go, go, go go if you want but never start drinking one shot the first time. Breathe. You know what they found?

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Insulin, your insulin will be regulated. If you breathe and drink oxygen.

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You need to breathe while drinking.

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You cannot just go go go go go go done. What is this?

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Some people when they are thirsty, they even forget their parents.

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123 go as much as you can.

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But not before that.

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Only one time, please. 123 Go go go go go go.

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I hope you understood what I'm saying.

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Some people just drink and drink with the left and standing.

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Sit down.

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Sit down and drink.

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Breathe. Insulin will be regulated inside your body. Subhanallah who taught us Allah says in this

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1400 years ago he said, Drink and breathe, drink and breathe. And then the third one go ahead.

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Who taught him that? There will be some very good thing happening to your body

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why heal and ye

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continue please.

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368 narrated Abu Hurayrah Allah's Messenger. So long as salam forbid drinking directly from the mouth of a water skin or other leather leather containers and forbid preventing one's neighbor from fixing a peg in the wall of one's house. Very good. Two things that our solar system has forbidden in this hadith, number one to drink from container because other people use the same container. So whether you put in a cup, or do not let your lips or your mouth touch the head of the container, whether it's a skin of a camel or a sheep or a bottle or whatever.

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Don't drink and give to somebody else. This is

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how diseases spread. Huh. Pamela? So precaution?

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Yeah. The other one.

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He prevented Salatu Salam is don't stop your neighbor fixing something in his wall.

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Just because it's towards you.

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He has the right to fix

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a bag in his land to fix his house otherwise his house would fall on you. And why are your neighbors neighbor should look after each other.

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And the sign of a tumor man. He cares about his neighbor

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a trauma men

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a sign that you are really Mormon. You believe in Allah and the day of judgment. You take good care of your neighbor.

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You always look after the neighbor

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Very good. Who's reading?

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Lisa, okay. Thank you systems.

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Now, let's give chance to another money. Are you their money

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for the book, you don't have the book very good. You still follow us? Good.

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Brother higher end go ahead. 370

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Sure, sure.

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369 sorry. 3669. Yes. Correction. 369 narrated kidney. Abbas IGNOU. Abbas, the Messenger of Allah. So Salam said, Do not drink as the camel. The camel does, but during with two or three breaks, recite bass Mala when you start drinking and thank Allah subhanho wa Taala when you have drunk promesa Have you seen the cameras when they drink?

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They put their lips on the water and keep sucking like a vacuum. Don't do that.

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Don't drink without stopping the camels. He said don't do that. You are not a camel you are a human.

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In case some of you forget.

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say Bismillah one breath to breath. Three Go ahead.

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say Bismillah

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So, three wala his sunnah and people observe you.

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And I have seen many non Muslims interested in Islam just because Musa how Muslims respect the Sunnah.

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Many brothers admitted to me when they came to Islam they say the way you eat guys the way you dream the way you talk to one another.

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That what made us come to Islam.

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They even watch the way we eat and drink

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you are very important people you know that. You guys all of you

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and people observe you watch you.

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You think neighbors are not watching Shaco bear I under the loop

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watch us

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for good or bad reasons but they do.

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Continue please.

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Teresa seven zero, narrated and as some mill mix, falter was brought to the Prophet sallahu wa salam and Ahmed was sitting on his strike. And Abu Bakar was on his left the Prophet sallahu wa salam Drang. Then he gave me to the Nomad seeing the one on the right side is worthy of drinking face attorney Z Subhan Allah Subhana Allah

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I'm sure he didn't understand the Hadith. Look at me, everyone. The Prophet slicer me sitting

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and Nomad, Nomad, bedwin normal person, any person sitting on his right hand?

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White, his best friend and the best Muslim after Russell's life's enemies, Abu Bakr Siddiq, no doubt is on his left. After the Prophet SAW Selim drank he gave to the Nomad, not to his best friend. Why? Because the Nomad is sitting on the right. So even when you give you always start with whoever is on your right hand side. Even if the Sultan is on the left start with the guy who is on your rights. If you follow the Sunnah

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sorry, I love you but this guy is on my rights you drink.

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Also or time series on the left pantry or pantry. If you are on my right I get you first. How about that?

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At the start with the right

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amazing right? Do that

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So let's say you're sitting and you're giving whoever is on your right start with him or her

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this is clear

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don't ask me why the Prophet says did you do it? That's it.

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But can I still answer? Yes. Yeah, all right, I understood the adult but for instance when I do meet up with customers for always next to me with my OB my basically will be my colleague, the two in front of us will be our customers. So what I did recently a couple days ago, I serve four of them in front of me the right in front of me and next to him only then I serve my colleague so by right the other is incorrect, right? Not Yes. It's not right. Whoever is on your right tell them in our traditions whoever is on the right we serve users. So they they learn

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but others if I go to Japan and the Japanese tell me Please take off your shoe sit on your knee drink tea this way I will do it

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and I'd be like amazed why they are because they respect that culture. I will do it as long as there is no Hara minutes I will do it. I will do the way they remove their shoes. Come sit on your knee wait for the tea to be served

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no problem.

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Why not? When they come to the Muslim land, or when we are also with them? We say look regardless whoever is in our right in our tradition, we give us all then they

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all make them sit on your right brother Tyron I know in the corporate world you have to deal with this oran cafe or and feed them and take them out sometimes and they said that

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then tell your Muslims please don't sit on my right let's this protocol make our protocol.

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We make our own protocol.

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Very important in Islam

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and distribution. Thank you. Bless you.

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Yellow yella. Last Hadith for tonight. 371371 Okay, narrative Abu Saeed Al Kadri Radi Allahu Anhu Allah messengers Allah has

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been the mouth of the water skin for the sake of from the

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very good.

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Now ha Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam NFT Nephele sbrt Yeah, and it's sure to be men of why he ha

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Salah Salem has forbidden the Sahaba to drink from the water skin container from the mouth which means the jar from the mouth, the bottle from the mouth any container. If it has one mouth, do not put it in your dog put the mouse in your mouth because other people may drink

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and they may have really problem or you have problem you contaminate everyone

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so to limit the spread of diseases

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Did you see Islam? You know if a non Muslim Doctor hears me many of them will become Muslim right now.

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They will say your Prophet taught you these things you say yes I shadow Allah Allah Allah Allah shadow None from others I'm a Muslim That's it 14 Other views ago a man who never gone to school

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a shepherd illiterate dot you all this. This is what we studied medicine.

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Yeah, all your medicine. A shepherd thought I thought you actually just don't know sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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because he got that from Allah azza wa jal through GB de la de salud.

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He got that knowledge from the top of the top.

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Allah lo Akbar Sallu alayhi salatu salam ala Rasulillah Salam wa barakaatuh so often, very

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sadly, as you mentioned, Apostle from our our real doctor, and then down the road. If you look at the history of Siena, or EBC in

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reality, they were the pioneers of medicine.