Sh Zoubir discusses the Danger of Severing Ties Amongst Family in Islam – Breaking Silaturrahim
Feb 2016
The speaker discusses their experience with family relationships and expresses caution about using negative language. They also mention a video about a person who caused chaos in a family's relationship. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being careful and staying away from negative language.
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We continue
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to feel
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we need to do our best for
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the people of Mississippi
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relationships.
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So, I want to say
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why
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the wall
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real story,
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the
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story, what is the story
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before I go to the story
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I swear
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anyone who has family relationship problems
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together
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he kept repeating
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what
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he went through
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he did not speak to her.
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He did not visit
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the system
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the competitive
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relationship with his family
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so, I came here
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I have to say
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This is what
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we call a group of people if there is only one
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big trouble
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because
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one
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Why?
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Because I live
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therefore if my
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brothers or sisters
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when when one of us is drinking
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and you know
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what
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you
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He
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will not come to me
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the story that I promised
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is
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what will happen? What did
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he do what
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he
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thought was a good thing. And he said
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I am going
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to the cache, I would like you to give this for
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everybody.
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When you finish
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he came back
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he said, I have left 1000
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they said
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but you never told your wife or your children about it.
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Not
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Alone.
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Anyone
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knows that this is not
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the name of the person in case you die. They know this is
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okay.
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In order to avoid problems with the family
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after they
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passed away, he passed away
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because they say they don't know what to do. They didn't know what happened
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when
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looking
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at
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He is from the people of Ghana. You will hear
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you will hear the voice
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of the people of Ghana. He will
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he went to
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himself and
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they said
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this
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video
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we are
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going to
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go
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aware.
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Well
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okay
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it is easy gentlemen. Guess what he calls upon him everybody?
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He asked
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Yes, yes.
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What are you doing?
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He says
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go to so many ladies.
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I forgot to tell my children about it. So, he was a good man he was he was
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he has a sister.
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Now, you know why he went
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to CVS
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even
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he has a sister.
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I have a sister and I
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left her
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and I never showed affection to a
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sister
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or mother
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or father
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let alone children.
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Last relationship
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because there is no guarantee they will wake up
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enlisting
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efficiently
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in your family, the
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mother or
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the sister
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the Lord's
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she calls your
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wife
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You deserve to be respected as an actor never show respect
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to women
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always take care of women my brothers and
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your daughters
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brothers your sisters your aunties
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I shared with you certain
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visitation and I told you if
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you can sit
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and you're going to visit
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So, this is how this is
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why
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so many
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people think we are good at we end up
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liking
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just the system
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we don't care about everyone
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and everybody has to come up
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attitude attitude
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what can we
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do about this
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what
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will not forgive me in the show and it was
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just
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sorry to tell you
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you have to silence
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whenever I can
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and we all sweat
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and we know that
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we do with your money
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economy
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next speaker
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comes first because
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thank you
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I spoke about family relationships
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because
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how can we talk about the
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community like this one
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you need to be
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careful
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talk about
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racism
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racism
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if someone
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is not on the same race,
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you will not sleep the night
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How can this brother
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for my daughter is not even
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we look into
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need to be careful.
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But that's another subject inshallah we'll talk about.
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Now, please
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If you have a problem with anybody write his name.
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Start by going
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leave a message
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and that's the price after a few days isn't easy and
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don't stay long.
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Don't go there.
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likely to go visit
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stoning people changing the law because law
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law
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is
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there.
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If
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you say
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what do you do to him? He says good.
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All set.
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He says why
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don't
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we make it worse? But that was follow up
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with
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my son
