Al-Adhab Al-Mufrad P. 385 – 401 Hadith 578 – 602
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I will be let him in a shape on the regime. Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi wa Salatu was Salam ala Nabina Muhammad Al Mustafa, while he was sappy woman Activa rubbish rally Saudi. Were silly Emily. Why No, no, that's Emily Sania Falcone? Yeah Allah. Ya Rahmani r Rahim. We asked you about your beautiful names and your great attributes to bless us, Allah to forgive us. To shower us with your Rama mercy
and to always be with us Allah as we are nothing without you know Allah don't leave us to ourselves to Allah don't leave us with a Shavon yeah Allah don't leave us to bad people. Yeah Allah surround us always with people who add value to our lives will remind us of you who are nice who are loving or caring who are forgiving me.
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We stopped at page 385 Babel Arabi. Al Arabi means
outdoor in Islam. What does he says about going outdoors from time to time?
What we say
barley, Campbell,
albedo, Bedouin, so live, sometimes outside the city, once upon a time you go for a few days, take a break,
and go connect back to nature.
Because, you know, in this type of cities that we are living in sisters and brothers, we are becoming we are becoming mechanical.
We are becoming very mechanical. Sometimes we forget we are humans. For example.
We can't walk because the car is the US.
We can't stare because moving X
is right there in front of you.
We can do things with our hands because the washing machine is there.
The dishwasher is there.
So we become we start losing who we are as humans.
You know that we are mobile
and social. We are social creatures and mobile creatures the moment you cease to stop moving. That's it. This is why walking is very important.
To work not to be lazy.
You work as much as you can. You keep yourself healthy. So what did Rasulullah iclm said about the man going back to live as a Bedouin
sometimes I see some retirees after years of hard work, they go back to the campaign and they want to pet animals they want to feed
chicken they want to feed
baby sheep.
What is that coming from? Is it also the inner nature Allah created us with let's see. Similar Hadees 578
Hadees 578
Yeah, la hija Farida will read for us that
there are certain actions
is as it
is
okay,
remember what the Kadima I started with, that is four
people who don't leave Islam.
Here he meant leaving is I will explain the Hadith. But back to what I said earlier.
It is very good Trump.
Time to time sisters, especially for children, when the children are still small, why? Because they need that touch of being with animals being with nature being with running water soon guy playing, it's very important for their future.
Okay?
If they miss that, they may miss it all their life.
So when children are innocent and have energy and can play the whole day, also at a certain age of our lives, it's good to take a break from time to time.
And go for two, three days one week to just live with nature.
Mountains, rivers fishing, why doing a bad and Zika or Ebola is always with you, you pray five times a day you make the
Yamo line, you give sadaqa sadaqa Yeah, so the animals when you feed the animals, is not sadaqa
I'll show you a sadaqa if you catch a fish, and clean it, to eat it, and whatever leftover you throw back to the sea with the NIA, of feeding those fish that are still there, then you get back you got the fish and you get Sudan by just throwing let's say the interest Stein's the the, the internal side of that animal inside back to the to the sea for but you're near was to feed those fish. That is sadaqa
you're feeding your cat and another cat comes and eat with it. Don't chase that cat shape. You see, you're stealing the food of my cat is a tattoo.
So your intention is also good, then Allah will reward you.
Here the prophesy Selim is wanting us to go bedwin Forever, leave Islam, because the headwinds here were were careful. So he was warning the Muslims, the Sahaba who become Muslims after hijab. Then they give up Islam and they go live the life of Benjamin's forever becoming water that is what is prohibited, but not to go outdoor, not to go outdoors. So this hadith, the seven things that are strictly prohibited in Islam, amongst them
is going back to live as Orang Asli as a bedwin as farmer who does not want to practice Islam, because they're the ones who are not Muslims at that time.
In the prophet the Prophet SLM, says, so the Bedouins were not Muslims, meaning you go and live with them. Is this clear? You run away from cities where there is Islam from Camp homes where there is masjid, and you want to live on your own?
That's not right.
Because you are running away from the obligations of being Muslim. And you are not thinking about death, if that comes to you, who washes you?
who buries you, you are on your own in the desert or in the jungle.
You're forgetting that if you get sick?
who treats you?
That's why in the beginning of what I said, What did I say? I said, Don't be mechanical, remain social, have to interact with people.
And then a smaller slice of them said, the Muslim who interacts with people and have patience on that harm is better and dearer to Allah then the Muslim who is isolated.
The Muslim who makes his with people, very social. And of course, people will say things about him or her this and that, but patient on what people say that is dearer and more beloved to Allah than the other person who is by himself or herself.
So here the prohibition of leaving Islam and the GEMA leaving the globe
and go live on your own.
That is not right.
That is not right. So did you understand what the Hadith means? It's not going for for a break, for a break, take take even longer break. Know you decide I don't want to mix with people. I be on my own. I don't want to play with them. I don't want to do anything so that nobody tells me if I'm fasting or not if I'm paying zakat or not if I'm praying or not. Some people do that.
So rasool Allah iclm has forbidden that
Abu Hurayrah said kabbah there are seven major ones schicke
Killing the nurse, killing an innocent person, slandering innocent and chaste women, and also leaving
the community to live on your own after Allah has given you Islam, and to go back as a Bedouin, to go back as a nomad, by yourself. You don't live with people.
Okay?
These seven greatly destructive sins have been mentioned in many verses in the Quran.
And authentic hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, the rest of them are running away from the battlefield, Jihad going to fight and some Takodana runaway.
Like, who can give me an example from the Sierra.
In the state of Rasul Allah I sent them a group of Muslims decided not to fight and run away therefore they committed a major sin.
In the Battle of Mohammed Abdullah bin obeyed and cielo the hypocrite May Allah curse him the leader of the hypocrites. He taught me he took with him once a 300 men the Sahaba were 1000
and they needed every fighter because the kuffaar were
almost 10,300 Just decide by by we going back to Medina We don't fight that's a major sin they committed right there. Okay good. Taking the wealth of an orphan stealing from an orphan ya Allah you either find anyone to steal from sisters and brothers stealing from a super rich person.
He may not even know that you have taken he has so much they still punishable your multi ama by fire and in dunya by cutting of them.
You did not you cannot even fight from you cannot even steal from Bill Gates.
You steal from an orphan. His father or mother left little money for them.
Allahu Akbar
or Dante is a cat Zakat is to who by the way? Who deserves a cat?
On the scale, you are stealing from Miskin.
Imagine somebody begging begging people give him five grand gate you take it
imagine I see somebody begging an old lady begging her clothes are so dirty 67 holes she has on that cloth she can't even walk he's so hungry thirsty somebody gave some money somebody comes snatch What do you think of that person? If I catch him maybe I kill him
you cannot do that. That's too low
stealing from rich people is wrong.
Stealing from rich people is haram
let alone from
the poor and the orphan
okay and then consuming interest rebar. So these are the seven I repeat them so that no one tells me I will not understand.
Up
Alhamdulillah
number one a shear Kabila now we will be law number two killing killing innocent lives to be slandering chased women
for
running away from the battlefield
five
consuming the property of an orphan or stealing from an orphan six rebar.
Rebar is a major major sin interest. And number seven are leaving the community and going and living on your own meaning what that now is
why you want to live alone.
Why? Alone sisters rather alone?
I'm not talking group of people go together. No, that's it.
That is not right. And you know what those people shaytan really really plays with their minds when you are lonely shaytan is on you.
That's why sisters never be alone.
You must be with someone you cannot be alone.
Loneliness is very dangerous.
Start talking to yourself.
Help because you need to talk to someone
and you start looking at mirror start talking to yourself
then you go cuckoo
you must live with family.
I'll give you an example. Sister, bring one of your nephews or nieces.
If you cannot go and live with them, you bring one they are
better a man or a man and nephew and a niece. Let them live with you for Allah sake. Give them shelter
and they look after you at least they are they're living with you.
Better than to be lonely
if you don't have a son if you don't have a daughter, but don't be alone
an old lady Auntie her nephew or niece must bring them live with them cannot live in the campaign by themselves.
What's wrong with with us? At certain age we also shouldn't be stubborn. The elderly sometimes very stubborn
wish you would also if our children says that come live with me
Don't tell him no you bring your job and your wife and children and moreover come live with me.
We have to also be a little bit flexible.
Yeah. Okay.
Any question about this hadith and whatever I said this morning
All right, very good. Next Hadith Nadia
Sakeena Pura, the one who lives in remote villages. Is it good to live to live in remote villages or is it better not to do that?
Allahu Akbar
breed the read for us commentary.
It is highly highly recommended that we live near a masjid, wherever there is a masjid. But for a messy to be built. There should be a group of people.
Everybody living on a hill will bill for a masjid.
No. So camp on Campbell. But which can punk the tampon that has Masjid Jamia Masjid Jamia, that is masjid, that is messenger man that is difference. Versatile Jamya means the masjid where Juma is
done.
Masjid Al Jamia meaning al jamaa Jami means where people gather to play and do you know the Sunnah is to close all small massages, and go to the big machine on Joomla.
If there is small, small here, massage, it is not even full. And we are all going everybody in a small surah
the big Masjid
is where we pray Joomla so that people meet each other. One of the greatest objectives of Joomla is that people see each other Oh, I haven't seen that brother for a long time. Salam Alikum. How are you? Good Hamdulillah. And they exchanged views, they exchanged business cards, they exchange ideas. That's the idea behind Joomla is not just to pray, to socialize, and to meet and to hear the same message. The same chat ama the same hotbar
imagine everybody is somewhere on a mountain.
That's not there. So that's continuation of the Hadith we have seen earlier. But the Prophet SAW Selim Amazingly, this describes the person who lives in a very remote village where even basics of lives are not there of life are not there.
Like those who live in the graveyard
and when
I think I tell you about the people of the hassad is so high amongst villagers.
You'll be careful when you go to Camp UNGA when you go see your relatives you must read the pre polls. I will be carrying it later Martin Sharon Mahala because they see you just money when you walk in
they are quite poor very humble, but they think they think you are Bank of America. Bank Negara
they think you are a bank.
So some of them may not say Masha Allah. So you end up having evil eye.
So you have to
when you go visit your loved ones in campaigns make do make zikr textbook gave this and that so that they be happy.
Because also last as I said, the hazard between the people of the villages is very high than than the people of the city in city that is hazard to but not like in villages so you have to be very careful okay? That's my sincere when I say hi from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam so the person who lives in a very remote area is just like he's living in the gray
he's lacking so many things. And he could die anytime. Because no one is with him. If a snake bites him if a mosquito that has Dengue bites him then
this is why we need to be around each other is his wife his wife has complication in delivering baby
who helps you see
always put those things in your mind
good
going out to the watercourses
Islam even teach us about this. Now Allah imagine I'm a non Muslim and I say wait a minute. Your Prophet told you about not living on your own in the remote areas. Yes. Your Prophet taught you about watercourses it I love this Islam is Islam is not just solid
is a way of life. I love it. But we don't see it that way. Because we are already Muslims. non Muslims see it.
non Muslims see it.
Okay. Start with Sister Fatima first Hadith Go ahead.
Slowly come
first Hadith for the Zoomers.
Chapter Two, six for going out to the water concerts. Five, zero MC damn being sure I reported that is Father's Day. I asked Aisha from your low on her and who? Sorry
about outings. I say the the prophets of salaam go out from Medina for our team. She replied. Yes. He used to go out to this hillside streams. Very good. I'll make damn sure I Radi Allahu Anhu. Nada. Is that his father? Should I ask Aisha know what he has are a shot of the alarm. They asked her about everything. Even about the outing of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, you know, when he goes out the prophets I seldom go out.
She said yes. He used to go out to these hills. Do you see the hills around Medina. He loved the hills. He used to go for days.
Wherever there is water, because he needs to drinking but he goes there he rests. So much stress. So he goes RAS. He remembers his youth when he was Shepherd.
He loves animals. He praises Allah. He takes seclusion just between him and Allah
that's very good. So there is nothing wrong without him from time to time. You take your family and go you know on a hill near the beach. Hello Do not harm it. Don't say she upon us beach. I didn't tell you go California
beach or South Africa I don't know where
Kuantan
Highland Trengganu Oh, Islamic Clinton de Botton you very good. Then relax look at the world see.
Check can we swim ladies? Yeah, swim.
No problem. But with your hijab. You don't even you don't even think because
you're always say that bear.
Masha Allah.
You will scare the fish anyways. Even the shark doesn't come near you 100
They say Hey Jerry is always good.
Alright, so is it Okay, shall we go sometimes? Um, yeah, from time to time you should do it. So Lola has to do that sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is good for the mind on the heads for family bonding. And this
very good sister has leaning
Jeannie?
Yeah, it's Neela you want me to read the 581 shape? Or? Yes, yes. Yeah. 581 Amar Bhima had said So Mohammed bin and the loving Saint riding when he was in a hurry up he moved his garment from his shoulder to his thighs I asked what is this he replied I saw Abdullah do it in this way. Okay. Now what does that mean? He showed his shoulder like this What does has to do with our paddies
but I do
think
I saw Mohammed bin Abdullah bin Hussein not Prophet Mohammed slicer as a hobby by the name of Mohammed bin Abdullah there was another there were two Sahabi Mohammed bin Muslimah and Mohammed bin Abdullah bin Oh state may Allah visit them he said I saw him doing you know showing his shoulder when he asked he said Abdullah did that meaning my father Sahadi My father used to do that.
In what in what sense? They were out doing outdoor
coming for Iran.
I mean for Hajj or whatever. He was doing that so outdoor, they come from out the city.
Even if they were in a city, they will go to meetups.
So it's okay to go from time to time but ladies, I'm not telling you go now.
This is very important you need to know this. You go always with Muharram
or sheltered us we have to go sunnah to go Don't go alone
with family.
Yeah.
Obey the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam each one of you will read another Hadith Don't worry. Okay, each one of you we will have one more Hadith. Inshallah.
Sister sestina
next Hadith semi conscious while
chapter five.
The person who wants to conceal the secret and just sit with each group of people so that he can understand their behavior.
Hadith number five eight to Mohammed bin Abdullah bin Abdul Rahman in Ambu.
reported that his father said Omar bin al Khattab radio I grew and and and I'm sorry man, we're sitting together. When Abdul Rahman bin Abdullah Al Karim came and sat with them. Omar said we do not want someone just disclose our conversation of the Rockman said
such kind of people. Amir unmin Amir
Umar's
close our conversation. Then he said to the answer
we are losing you we are losing your sister Setsuna I don't know if it's me or all of you.
As Cher we are losing her share. Okay, so it's not just my connection. Okay. Repeat sister from
rumor set
since the sestina we don't hear you
came back so sorry. shaken. So can you hear me now? Yes, better much. Okay. Okay.
Who do you think people would you think people say should be Khalifa afternoon? Repeat please from
Abdul Rahman said I do not sit. Okay. Sorry. Abdullah Abdul Rahman said I do not sit with those such kind of people. And there are many who mindset sit with this and that but do not disclose our conversation. Then he said to the Ansari, who do you think people say should be the Khalifa after me? The Ansari counted off some men among them Hijri but he did not name Ali. And Omar said, what do you what do they have against Abu
is her son? Yeah, I'm back. I said I would have said it by Allah. If he were in charge of them he would be the best suited to set them on the path of the truth.
Very good.
This hadith teacher teaches us many things. One of them the great respect O'Meara, the Allahu Anhu had for Ali or the Allah and I like What the She assay that she said Omar had problems with Ali, Luke Subhanallah
when he asked who should be the Caliph after me when I'm gone,
one of the Ansari mentioned Sahaba from WA Jeannine, but he did not mention Ali and Ali is my idea. May Allah be President Obama said Subhanallah what's wrong with people? What do they have against Abu Hassan? Hassan is Ali
said now Ali, his first son is Hassan. So I will have some further of his.
If he rules them, he will be the best. That is the opinion of Satana Omar
about Satana Ali what are the Allah who I'm in the Hadith side?
Camps some people who are full of hatred to rumor gossip that
they say otherwise. And I tell you why people hate Omar, do you know why the she I hate drama
because he destroyed their
their
empire
the Persian Empire who destroyed it?
Or Magna Carta. That's why they cannot stand him. So they are they are against him because he destroyed the Sassanid Persian Empire while you were worshippers of fire. He did not destroy you when you were Muslims. He brought Islam to you.
So if the Shia truly are good Muslims, they would have respected Omar not speak better. But we love Omar because he brought Islam to us. They don't like him. Because it's not about Islam. It's about our empire gone. So we ask them are you Muslims or not? That's my question to them. Because if you are really Muslims, you'd be very happy with Omar because he brought you to Islam. He saved you from hellfire.
The Empire, the Sassanid Persian Empire was destroyed during the caliphate of Omar are the Allahu Anhu we need to know that this is why they cannot stand it.
And there is no other reason.
So we tell them if you are Muslims, remember Qatar should be number one name
in Iran and Iraq
should be number one name
because he brought Islam to you. But since you're not like Islam, you pretend to be Muslims. You are killing Muslims. Look what they're doing in Iraq. Look what they're doing in Syria, in Yemen, in
in Iran in this one.
Do you know under the pretext of you know how they steal homos 1/5 20% You have to give to the post test.
Jail Zubair if he was she was does that was a biller all of you supposed to give me 20% of your income to me directly
Yes, you make 100 ringgit each time you make 20 is just associated with it.
That is 1/5
Oh,
that's why they are very rich that doesn't
you Yes, you need to notice things like sisters and brothers before it's too late.
Why the Sunni Imam struggle even to pay for I don't know what
that hola hola Kota. You want Islam to spread.
You want Islam to spread?
See, that's why they allow marriage, temporary marriage and some sisters don't don't mind. I temporarily marry
because she's desperate. She doesn't have a husband. She doesn't have someone so she says okay, I married this one for one year, the other one for two years.
They give them the fatwa of Mozart. So whatever you'd like I make footwear for you.
That's what they do to them for us Cejudo from morning afternoon haram don't do that. Because I care about your hereafter.
You think I don't like to go to a nice fancy restaurant and eat but if that is later Allah whenever
even if it's very if they give me free treats, I will not because there is liquor inside even when the food is halal fish I'm going to eat on the fish sushi.
Cookie to t know the place is wrong. And Alhamdulillah I'm very proud of our youth they here they obey
some of our elders they here they double this obey What's wrong with you? You're about to go to the grave and you see this obey
our use mashallah you talk to them once, twice. May Allah bless them, tell us they get it
Yes, my sister's watch where you go and eat and there's
not in the morning we shared Zubair in the afternoon with I don't know who.
Yeah.
All right.
Now another thing we learned from this hadith, that SR
Sustainer read for us is kinsman who says, you have confidence when two people are talking. Please don't come between them and try to hear unless you are already with them.
Two people are talking ask them May I join you or a better stay somewhere else unless they call you please come in.
So that man came and wanted to sit with Omarosa, Calif. And another Sahabi from the answer, we're just talking. So the prophesy salon told this Abdur Rahman even adultery he told him in Milan Hibou manufacture Hadith Anna
we really don't like anyone to this to disclose our speech here. She said I want I would like to join but I promise I will not say anything. So he told him okay, but be careful what you say because this speech is quite confidential. Um, I told him that what I'm talking with this Ansari companion of Rasulullah Satsang is very important. They were discussing who should be the Caliph after him.
Very important matter.
So he asked him, Who do you think see Shura see Omar Omar is still alive. He's preparing who will lead the Muslims La ilaha illAllah.
Because he is doing it for Allah sake. He's not doing it for himself. Do you see the difference? You see the point I'm making or not? If I really do something for Allah sake, I want it to continue even after my death,
that it so that man said I think so and so on and so on. So then Omar said you didn't mention it. cannula. What's wrong with people not mentioning it?
It should be one of those candidates after me. That is Omar.
And do you know earlier the line or after I started my dad, he married many other women. Only one Fatima was a life he didn't marry anyone with that one Fatima died he married three more wives for together.
Many children Allah gave him Do you know what he named them? Isha boo, boo bakr Omar Mohammed.
He named them those names. So if he had problem with Aisha, would he name those are called Aisha
some people I have problems with the with them. I don't even want to mention the names now. I mean women I don't like to mention their names.
They hurt me.
You got it or not.
Verify whatever you hear especially if you read on your own books. There are many poisons in those books. Always seek knowledge. Verify with Gustavo dama. who know more than you.
Okay.
Another thing we learn from this hadith the lot of people who just listen, sit down and listen. Very polite. Seldom they interrupt
on if they have questions they ask but they listen meaning they have server on listening.
And those people can go can go far those who listen. They can go really far they learned a lot.
By the way, why did Allah give us two ears? One mouth
so people have two mouths here. One ear
chakra Bunya Bunya.
You go to Jehovah and come back, they're still talking.
Y'all you're four hours. Even if you don't stop four hours. You come back four hours, eight hours. They're still and they don't get tired and Subhanallah
some sisters are loving your sister NAS ARIA next hottie
seller wanted why they could have set up to live closer to your laptop sister. We don't hear you very well.
Yeah, because now how better Yeah, right. Okay. A seller molekule Imam Zubin, can you almost
posters and Azaria.
Okay, chapter 266 diligence in offense.
Ah
five beats me. Al Hassan said, the men died and left a son and Amala he made the Mona, his son's guardian. This man was not remains and continued to look after the boy until he came of age. And then he found him a wife. Then the boys said to him, provide for me so that I can seek knowledge. He fitted him out. The point then went to a men of knowledge and asked him to teach him. After a time the men said, Tell me when you are ready to leave, and I will teach you, the boy said, I feel I should live. So instruct me. The scholarship, have Taqwa fearful consciousness of Allah. Have a patient have patience, do not be hasty. Oh Hassan said, this contains all good. He went on to point
left and could hardly forget these things, for there were only three of them. When he reached his family, He dismounted when he entered the house, there was a min his guardian slipping separately from the boys wife, who was asleep them. He said, By Allah, what am I waiting for with this man? He went back to his mom and went to take his sword. But he said to himself, have Taqwa of Allah, have patience, do not be hasty. So he returned in standing by the men's head, said again, I will not wait at all to deal with this man. He went back to his mouth and meant to take the sword. But again, remember the woods, he returned again, and one he was standing by the men's head, the men woke up.
When the men saw him, he hurried to embrace him and kiss him. He asked happened to you after you left me. He said, By Allah, I received a lot of blessing by Allah after I left you, I reached the point where I spent the night going three times between my sword and your head, and the knowledge that I have acquired, kept me from killing you.
Commentary, commentary, the point of reference in this narration, this service the chapter heading is the scholars advice to the boy not to be hasty in his worldly affairs, since one may not really know how they will end up. So do contemplation should be made, as regards the affairs of the religion and hereafter, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, in an authentic hadith, holding back should be in all things, except the actions of the hereafter. A Buddha would and others slowing down on the matters of the Hereafter is clearly mentions.
Yes, is kilometers is that is a calamity to be in hurry. You see, sometimes when we get angry, we make decision. Never ever make decision when you are angry.
And never go shopping when you are hungry.
When you are angry, don't take decision. Any decision. Don't say I will leave.
I will resign. Don't do that later. Later. Calm down. 345 days. Think of it.
You want to do that? When you are angry? Don't divorce your wife.
You will regret it.
When you're angry, don't make decision. Just cool down. Go relax. Okay, you wrote an email don't send it
Look at me. You are so furious. I need to reply to this idea to sending me Tata Tata WhatsApp read it after two three hours night's sleep over it to see what my god what I was going to do. Then you may
raise it or at all now artist you are calm. You can send it you're convinced you are coming out.
So, that boy
somebody died and left a boy
and a team with a slave. And he told the slave please was a year take care of my son.
That man that slave was a good man. He looked after that boy until that boy reached strength and then he asked him to find him a wife.
He said I will.
I will inshallah. Then he said I would like to seek knowledge before I get married. I have to add that myself. So that when I marry a woman insha Allah I will be a good husband.
Yeah,
He found him a chef. So he sent him to the chair. That chef was good on him. He advised him three things.
advise your children visit three things.
have Taqwa of Allah fear Allah will not do not break the borders of Allah. Allah has borders haram.
Don't go near haram. Number two, have patience. You have to be very patient myself. And don't be hasty. Don't be in a rush to take decisions.
Three words. So that young man came back when he came back. He found the mate
the
slave who took care of him sleeping near a woman
in bed
what what goes in your mind if you see that sleeping horns snoring? He was on the side the other lady was on the other side.
In one bed what does that mean? Everything comes to your mind right? You know is Hara
Do you know It's haram to say? I found so and so committing Zina. Did you see them committing Zina? Say I saw them sleeping on the same bed
his face this way and her face this way.
And if there was a pillow between them say that don't hide that.
Retention Wait a minute, do you know is this woman
to him? He was her father.
Pay attention. He was her father.
He found him a good woman to marry. The man was about to kill him.
He didn't tell him that I already had a daughter until he grew up and this and that. So don't rush to make conclusions.
This is why Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam
when he married Sofia she was new. Not everybody knew the province estimated Sofia. You think everybody Tata Tata Tata Tata, the whole Medina.
He went to jihad he brought Sofia with him. He went to jihad Ebro giant radio with him.
He told Sahaba who saw this woman giving him food in the masjid Ramadan, she brought him Iftar because he was doing ethika He told them you to to stop. This is my wife Sofia. He introduced her and he mentioned her name.
There are people Malou to mention the name of his wife. This is my wife Fatima.
This is my wife Khadija. This is my wife Isha This is my wife whatever the wife is name well
how do we know the wives of the Prophet sizer needs
wives of the prophets I send them we know their names and the name of our wives we are shy to say my wife is very nice
which Islam we are following the Prophet sighs me Islam or cultural Islam?
You got it.
And you chose is that
this is my husband. So and so by name.
The point we are making here
is that don't rush to judgments. You may wrong someone. I'll give you an example.
You see someone doing this?
In the masjid on Jomo Abbey for salad you think he's watching?
You think he's watching YouTube?
He's reading Solitaire.
Why? Why did you think ill of unless you saw video watching. That's different. And you may see like this Look at me now.
Or should Zubair is reading addable Maharaj am watching video of soccer.
Manchester United vs. Liverpool.
So do not rush to judgment sisters. Especially you ladies Allahu Akbar. Always emotional.
You can afford.
You see someone driving taxi and near him a woman but back is empty. It could be his wife or daughter.
It's okay. He loves that for the customers. But that is why you can see it in front of him.
His daughter his mother, his sister
Don't rush to judgment it's so taboo that is called taboo that what is that without diligence, diligence, due diligence, the con in affairs in taking decisions
and usually the people who have diligence, they are very good decision makers. When they make decision, they made it on diligence due diligence. They research it, they they they ask questions and handle and now they're ready to make the decision.
Okay. All right. I hope this is clear inshallah. That's Adam of Islam.
Is this clear the story. So imagine the man was in a hurry and killed the man who raised him, saved his money, send him to the chef and brought him a wife to marry.
And look at that story. He said I would like to marry even look for a wife for him.
Today the biggest mistake we are doing we are letting our children to choose for themselves.
Big mistake
big mistake anybody can trick them.
Western influence you don't force your children to marry anyone but you suggest for them. My daughter I think so and so is good for you.
My son I think the daughter of Sol Sol is better for you.
And these children have to close their parents otherwise why are we parents?
Why are we parents?
And one mistake you do you never talk to your children earlier say Do you know my son my daughter? I will have a big say in your marriage on who you choose.
We are not saying that to them.
That's why they think
it's like choosing what to what to eat. Should I eat McDonald's today? Or Nassima This is not food mister. We're going to be stuck with that daughter in law or son in law forever
right or wrong?
All of you agree with me because you are all in the age of having sons and daughters in that age.
Yeah, all granddaughters grandsons
but what can I do for you?
Sister sukma next Hadith
we are in Hadith number
five
what are we?
Divisions Yeah 58458 4am I home why? Because I feel like I'm closer to your laptop system or your
six seven forbearance in a face.
Hadith number five eight for
Ash ash.
Abdul Heiss said, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to me, you have two qualities that Allah loves. I asked, What are they? Messenger of Allah? He said forbearance and modesty. I asked, Have I had them for a long time? Or are they new? And say, you have had them for a long time? I said, Praise be to Allah Who created me with these two qualities that denounce I mean, I mean hamdulillah Praise be to Allah commentary, or had meant Islam. The narration shows the virtues of barbarians and carefulness in affairs, the excellence of the companion or do case for the Allah won her on externals towards giving thanks to Allah for His favors on us. Masha Allah, he had another
quality
besides forbearance, Sabra, he was really patient, and he was very modest. You know what, he was praiseworthy?
He praised Allah
as job or the Allahu Anhu
Sahabi the bro
salatu salam said to him, you have two qualities that Allah loves.
It's good to tell people
like I told my daughter, a My stepdaughter, I said to her mashallah among many things I like about you I like so and so mashallah, I don't want to tell you what I can tell us tell us many things underlying
that so now the prophesizing to tell someone when he or she has good qualities to tell them.
I asked what are they or messenger of Allah? What are the qualities you like about me? He said forbearance and Hill will hire.
You're shy. You're a shy man, and you're very kind forbearing you know, you sabar a lot?
He said, O Messenger of Allah.
Did you notice this long time ago? Or lately?
Do I have these things just because I became you know, your companion or maybe I had them earlier in my life. The prophesy some said no, I noticed this for a long time. What did he say? He said, Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen Alhamdulillah hymnody Jabulani, Allah Who rotini a Hubba, whom Allah Praise be to Allah, Who has created me with two qualities that Allah loves
another guy who said
Allah says
you know what I mean? Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. We will like this Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. By the way this is wrong. Never do like this. Who like this never like this my asthma I'm born and move your head bobblehead egg
so much influenced by the Hindus here in Southeast Asia
like Islam came and the Arabs came otherwise you are all Hindus
you know that.
Wala Hill are them the Mercy of Allah on the Malays is the coming of the Arabs
you know that or not? If the Arabs didn't come here
hi Jeffrey that is having a different opinions.
If the Arabs didn't come here guys, do you know you are all worshipping the Buddha and
the biggest sleeping Buddha in the world where it is in Atlanta
that's lately, long time ago, I saw with my own eyes slipping Buddha into into
the huge
at least he's sleeping there hamdulillah not active.
The point I'm making guys thank Allah thank Allah thank Allah.
Thanks.
Because you are very far from the land of the Arabs.
And see
you are in the south east of Asia or not just in the south of Asia. Like me.
So Allah loves you. He sent you my ancestors to do business and to
May Allah bless my ancestors who were marrying wherever they go
you know marriage is rather Islam in this country.
But I mean suara How did they become Muslim just like that.
They married him
to a Chinese and Arab lady. So they okay palace.
Those ladies helped him. Teach him the deen slowly, slowly, was a kid, strong king.
And that is another way Islam came to this country that still need to be studied. Clinton and Trengganu
the east from back from China, the Muslims came from China to
because the Sahaba came to China.
Ah, we always mentioned Malacca. How about Clinton and trigano and why the influence of Islam in these two states strong
there must be reasons I see share.
May Allah spread Islam and certain Islam and Muslims I mean Yeah. Okay
So may Allah beautify me and you all of us, I mean with modesty, em
and forbearance. And Hammond, we praise Allah Shaka Alhamdulillah
very good sister.
Omar Adam, next Hadith
Salaam Alaikum Wa Alaikum salam Motorola 585, right? Yes.
Cut the data set. One of those who met the delegation from Abu Abdullah case, which came to the Prophet sallahu wa salam and Qatar that also mentioned the same from Abu Zeid al cordery will say that the prophets Allah wa sallam said,
up to case, you have two qualities that Allah loves forbearance and deliberation, Allahu Akbar, our delegates came to the prophesies to talk to him. That leader the prophesy seldom praised him, said you have two qualities Allah also loves forbearance, you are Haleem and you are a net and that means you are calm and not in a rush
to take decisions.
And sisters, please understand, sometimes your husband's usually men, men, your husband's your brother, your sister, your father's
No rush, we men, usually we don't rush. Sometimes we rush. Sometimes we are crazy. I'm telling you now, I, I confess, but more compared to women, when you like something you want it right away. The person says, Wait, because he sees it from a different angle.
And I can say between 80 to 90%.
Men always rights,
not in everything in what they told you to wait for. To for example, for example, you say, I would like to buy this thing. They say wait, you find out that the price at least in a different store was much cheaper.
Or look at me.
more expensive.
If you wait, do you lose anything? No. But if you rush you feel oh, I found it cheaper here. What I and the person told you wait.
That's what I mean.
That doesn't mean all the time men are right. I'm not saying that. I'm saying we don't rush to certain things.
Yeah, so Rasul Allah, I still like that is called an axe.
Some of you see it as weakness. It's not It's too too Tangu to wait a little bit
not to rush for a decision.
Yeah.
And good leaders have that quality. They don't rush to decision
especially decision that may harm the country or the public or whatever.
Very good. Hadith 587.
Sister,
Serena. 857 similar money
587
Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim. mozzie da de sade.
mozzie that mozzie
Z da de sade, very good. As hacia came and took
us hutch, like I said shortly as
such,
and took the hint of the profits on Santa and kissing. The Prophet saw in Salem said to him, you have two qualities which our and His messenger. He asked, was I born with them? Or are they characteristic which I have acquired? He said, No. They are part of the natural character with which you will form a such sick, Praise be to Allah Who had created me with what Allah and His Messenger love, Allahu Akbar, this Sahabi out of nowhere came pick up the hand of the Prophet and casted. The Prophet saw some was amazed. Out of love, he kissed his hand. He said, I shall judge. Let me tell you something about you. You have two qualities. Allah loves so much forbearance. And, and and as
you are very con and modest, modest. You are shy. So as I was I bond with them or messenger of Allah or Allah gave them to me after I was born. He said, No, actually, they came with the milk of your mother.
With your mother milk.
You were born with them.
So you praise Allah Schuco Alhamdulillah Allah Allah created me with these two qualities that Allah and His Messenger love the best.
May Allah
help us to have these qualities and other qualities inshallah. Now sisters,
tyranny the world is suffering from tyranny, tyranny, oppression,
political oppression, economic oppression,
social oppression, emotional oppression,
physical oppression,
intellectual oppression.
We are in a time where oppression is really ruining the world. Let's see
what the prophets iclm said about tyrants and tyranny.
Yeah, what do you call tyranny in Malay oppression Zolo
more than lowdham
when somebody is tired Alexa I don't
like that.
Okay, sister
Hafeez
cell I'm gonna go around to labrusca to
Rahman Rahim chapter 268, tyramine.
Hadees number five eight ignore above said if a mountain were to act ironically towards another mountain, the aggression will be
pulverized
Allahu Akbar. Do you know what this pulverized look up to me sisters coats put
put
a seed inside that thing that what you call those things that you crash
in Malaysia In Malaysia
but because I took
the song to song
by song lesson
lesson Yeah, I have here library mashallah that VM listen barley farm
these ladies have to they know nothing about the song they don't even know there is something called listen. They normally next
the song you know listen.
Now look at me put the grain and hit it in the lesson what happens?
That is what Allah will do to a mountain even mountain had to commit any type any action against another mountain
Yeoman piano if a mountain has wronged another mountain, Allah will smash it. Like a bug. Allahu Akbar. So how about us? Humans who wronged others?
That hadith is very scary. Now Anna jobelan Baba Anna Javon Leto canbury
Allahu Akbar, if a mountain were to act identically to worse, another mountain, the aggressor will be pulverized, shattered, destroyed turn into dust. Your Allah so how about the humans who wronged others? killed others.
Right others took the property of others
hurt others
Hmm. You see this hadith to your children?
A mountain
our beloved Ibis or the Allahu Anhu uma says, very good.
Next Hadith brothers Zucchi. Flee.
589 Here's how I confess. Why
are these five in line? Abu Hurayrah see, the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam subhanho wa Taala said, the garden and the fire quarrel, the fire seed, the proud and the tyrants will enter me. The garden said only the weak and humble will enter me. Allah say to the fire.
You are my punishment for which I avenge myself on home. However, I will say to the garden, you are my mercy to wish I show mercy to whomever I will. Allahu Akbar.
We have seen this hadith last week.
But it's good to remember it's in the context of tyranny
Jahannam
Naraka May Allah save us Yamaki mo will talk to Allah
and Jana will talk
To Allah Hellfire Brax and says Do you know who enters me Bragg's will paradise? You know who comes to me the Thailand I take the Thailand Allahu Akbar so Thailand people will go to him
and silently system doesn't mean a political only there are men who abused their wives. They are Thailand there are women who abuse their husbands they are trying
so it's social also neighbor you always park your car close the neighbor's door or make him leave the house very and maybe he might be shy of you'll never talk to you
you are tired and against your employee
you are tired and against your employer will cheat your employer
ah so tightening is not just political likes around the neighborhood it could be also social economic
form of irony is the rebar
why
why something that is 1 million ends up paying 2 million
just because installments why?
And they call it business no I show your business commercial your business you see that they don't think outside the framework of capitalism and that they say we How To Make Money How do banks make money? You want money you want banks to make money I can assure you that you have to believe that there is another way of life call Islamic Sharia
This is why they are against the Sharia because sharing our sports the way they make money. Sherry I want to make money through sharing the
profit and loss
we share everything profit we share loss we share no we don't share the loss they say
you share the loss. If you cannot pay we come and take your property that is terreni but many people don't think Taiwanese that
huh?
So she said Hal said Yeah, the whole O'Neill motor can be ruined our moto Jabiru
on Amber Sanborn
and aura Amber Tyron. Enter me, Paradise said while you know who enters me the weak enemy skin.
Those who are weak
and those who are risky, and tell me the most
handily last so each one will have her share.
Very good. Back to sister has Lynnie.
Sister Jeanne, go ahead. Yeah.
Hi, this number 590.
For the lobby in Dubai. For the Allahu Anhu said the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said Do not ask about three men who patch company with the community and rebels against his Imam and dies while he is still a rebel. Do not ask about him. A slave or slave girl who runs away from this master. A woman whose husband is absent and who has sufficient provision and then displays adornments to strangers and mixes freely. Do not ask about three. A man who contends with Allah regarding his club. Pride is his cloak and night. It's his rapper, or a man who doubts the Command of Allah or one who dispersed Allah's Mercy allow it for as a commentary sister then I will, I will show how
these persons should not be asked about for the adwind Apart from Bellion lighting with the community of Muslims here could mean relegating from Islam that had these strongly discourages men from undertaking journeys that make them stay away from their homes for too long and once against women, generally being disobedient to Allah, and particularly cheating on their spouses.
Finally, we are talking about tyranny. That is one way of tyranny. The man leaves his wife for a long time.
To the extent that
she has feelings shape and start playing with her mind, especially if she doesn't attend classes, like your sisters, or email is weak, so she stopped just displaying her beauty. When a woman started displaying her beauty, what is she saying to strangers?
Well, a
very good, very good Genie. I like your straightforwardness. I'm available
nausea. That's what you're saying. You lady. If you say that if you do that, what does it mean you beautify yourself too much. You show your jewelry. You showed this for man. I'm not saying to women.
You are showing
lipstick
all type of rainbow on your face.
Blue, green, purple, yellow.
Like we hear.
Ah
sisters.
That's that's a tightening. So the husband committed tightening against his wife. That's why she's behaving like that by leaving her for a long time. Unless he's working overseas that's different. So he just doesn't care. And she is now committing to irony by spreading. Now the biller almost packager
even the man was not thinking of her now he thinks of her. So what is that? That's directly to so this hadith of Ebola even obeyed or the Allahu Anhu the prophesy said he said, Do not ask, Do not ask about three, three people don't ask about them. A man who parted company with the community and repel against the EMA.
He leaves the GEMA and he takes some kind of rebellion against the leader. The Imam means the leader here
and binds while he is a rebel, do
not ask about him, don't care about him. The Prophet sasm said those who leave the Muslims and form a group and start fighting the leader and the Muslims. don't even care about them. Number Number two,
a slave man or slave girl who ran away from their master
your master is good to you. Paying you on time treating you nice you run away. Most may do this today.
They're unaware
as some analysts some you are very nice to write.
But please understand there are reasons for them to run.
Very few people you are very nice to them and they run away very few 95% of the maze will run away from your sisters. You didn't know how to treat them
because you think that they're eating they're drinking I'm paying them it's not that look at the way you talk to them.
You might be scolding them for both what is theirs and some even watch them what they eat. I was told by some friends here and family, they email all my they even measure what they eat but like the leaves of loaf loaf of bread, they count it
what
I bought a loaf of bread and it was 20 now only 10
You are counting even that Allah?
Yes. So do you think this people mistake I'm talking about somebody nice to you. You leave him that is the same. Now as the professor said about the speed meaning don't care about them.
A woman whose husband is absent and who has sufficient provision he left for her everything which he needs or she is okay. And then she started displaying her adornments to who to strangers and mixes freely. Hi.
Hi, Abdul.
Abdul.
Oh colleague, Foley.
Allah. What is this colleague and colleague?
Ah
just oh, he's our neighbor
in the West, number one form of Xena Xena have neighbors
and it's in the Bible you shall not commit Zina with your neighbor.
It's in the Bible, one of the 10 commandments. Allahu Akbar.
Okay, do not ask about three. So these are the three people who should not ask about them. Then the prophesy some said Do not ask about three a man who contends with Allah regarding his club.
We need our organs should not feel our organs, especially for men.
Because usually women are not supposed to wear
In public, but now, all of you are winning in public, supposed to be at home. And you know, in Islam, a woman supposed to beautify herself so much, but put Avaya when she goes out nobody's when she goes to the house where she is invited she removes Now those people see her beauty not on the way or outside the house.
Everything is color cupboard now.
May Allah teach us the beans is that?
I mean you're okay. Do not ask about three, a man who contends with Allah regarding his sloth. Pride is Allah sloth and mite is Allah's wrapper.
So do not do that. Or a man who doubts the Command of Allah.
Ah, give me an example of people who doubt the Command of Allah.
These Vacher aim is to have them on say the main should take double the female inheritance when he is a son of that
when he is the son of the dead, or the brother or sister, but not father and mother, the mother gets more.
The wife gets more than the half sons.
You know, that's not for the cases where women get more than men, only for cases where men get more than women, and usually when they are to take care of the females, like the brother who's supposed to take care of his sister. That's why he takes double his system, because he has other obligations, including marriage. When a man marries a woman, he has to give her dowry, he has to look after her, etc. Then his children Nafa is on men
is the slave.
So imagine someone does that? Oh, I don't think this idea is practical. Now. Women also are working women, whether women are working or not. The idea doesn't change whether the women are billionaires or not. So if the woman is billionaire, we don't give her her rights of inheritance. Don't try to
kick us and so if a woman is very rich, we don't give her dowry when we want to marry her sister you are too rich. No must give.
If she's very rich, we say oh because you are rich. You don't inherit from your father or mother. No, no, no, no.
Okay. And last one, a man who despairs from Allah's mess, he gives up. Allah will not forgive me. Allah Who will do this to me. I think I am doomed. I lost it all. I don't think life is good to me anymore. There are people like that they reach that breaking point.
May Allah save us? So these are the three types of people don't ask about them. And Allah Who not Subhan Allah in Hadith not even look at them. Why do you despair from Allah?
Did you see that? Those are Hadith sisters.
So that's tiny.
A man who oppresses his wife
to the extent he doesn't want to come to her. So this is a woman she's a human being. She needs affection. She needs someone to talk to.
Then she start looking for the wrong people to talk to.
Yeah.
So because you why the customer amatola Say don't ask about them hear me say just don't bother about them. Yeah, don't bother. They are bad.
Yeah, yeah.
That's what it means. Hmm.
Very good. Sister Fatma.
Next Hadith
are these 591 bakr bin Abdul Aziz from the Allah and who departed from his father, that his grandfather, Abu Bakra. See, the Prophet SAW Salem say, Allah will do will defer the punishment for whatever sins, He wills and to the day of rising except what irony, disobeying parents are cutting up relatives. He will punish the one who commits those actions in this world before he dies.
Allahu Akbar
every sin we commit now the biller
Oh, Allah may punish us Yamaki Allah
May Allah save us except three sins if we call
the punishment we can do
our subject this obeying and giving her time to the parents and Senator Ryan
searing c'est la torre Rahim
ah my sister's
c'est la torre Rahim be very careful about salatu Rahim.
There are people who see we are the bonds. You go visit them they don't want you to come. They don't let you in even why? I'm your brother or sister or auntie or grandma
or cousin or nephew. I came to say ceremony come why you close the door.
While you pretend you are not there
Saramonic Komodo Salam amatola
Hey, cats don't cut
they cut down to Allah will punish them in dunya. You will see you will see what Allah does to the people who see via the bond
salatu Rahim sisters but mainly our subject is What irony. I didn't see one dictator except Subhanallah he died killed.
Silence. Look at them history. Hitler, Mussolini Napoleon he minutes
down Nebuchadnezzar
never would
look at them
churches full
of Romania he and his wife in Islam at least the wife we take her know they shot shot them they put them squat fire. That's a finish
of course see what they have done to their people.
irony
there are many times in the Muslim ummah wait and see how they die.
This leader of Syria, remember between me and you, because Allah never breaks a promise.
How they end
Yeah.
Mussolini was hanged from his head and then from his feet today
to disgrace him you know Mussolini, the leader of Italy during World War Two Iran's
Allah doesn't like to and Muslim or non Muslim you should not wrong people. Period.
Okay, so
this obey parents, sisters and brothers. Allah will punish you in dunya.
I've
had
to
I've seen in the past who was so nice to their parents and till the parents died. They were very nice to the parents.
And very nice doesn't mean you just go and visit them and take some you point you don't quarrel with your brothers and sisters in front of the mother. You don't that hurts her.
Even if they insult me, I wouldn't say a word. I would just look and pretend Mommy you know I play with her hug her father.
Even if anyone insults me in front of them, because if I read if I retaliate to my brother or sister the parents feel so bad.
They don't like that. So let them not like what your brother or sister are doing but not you. From me. I was just swallowing it up because Allah will give them punishment in dunya second, the risk the risk will grow for anyone who takes care of his father or mother. Number two salata Rahim, you want your risk and your life to be extended. You want to live long, and you want to give mashallah to get so much Baraka in your wealth. Be nice to your parents until they die and after they die. Do I Do I Do I don't
like lately somebody Masha Allah may Allah bless her. She asked me chef, can I sponsor
Hafez Quran on behalf one for my mother, one for my father, one for me. May Allah bless this system. I mean,
say I mean why are you